Ben came to my school! He talked to us, and boy, it was one of the best guest speakers. His talk wasn't just about our church. But the spirit, was there. With a great presense. I was having a horrible day. And so I was closed off. Quiet. But afterword I felt better. I wasn't all of the sudden perfectly fine and dandy. But it's because of him that that wasn't the worst day of my life. Thank you, because I know it's hard to put yourself out there. Especially when you have chraniam facial condition. I thought that Ben was a member of the church. And when he showed the beuatiful picture of him and his wonderful wife I knew that he was member of this church. And I knew he had a strong connection with the holy ghost. Thank you
@briandockery7426 Жыл бұрын
Brian here and I have Parkinsons In my 40's and I was a slow learner in school elementary to high school and it's always a struggle. I put things in God's hands
@hs4892424 жыл бұрын
Ben’s parents are THE sweetest and kindest people you would ever meet and instilled this into all of their kids
@lukkash4 жыл бұрын
I came here (as a catholic) cos I really liked Mormons definition of faith and its essence.
@infodude844 жыл бұрын
Our faith is in Jesus Christ as is yours and we are unified in it and in Him. God Bless!
@bekspesquera65934 жыл бұрын
You are welcome here.
@seanwalton62084 жыл бұрын
I grew up in Connecticut. There, I learned the simple elegance of faith from Catholics. Thank you!
@jdl08124 жыл бұрын
I am not part of the LDS Church ( I hope I said that right and apologies if I did not) and I'm not sure how this popped up on my home page but this is the most beautiful and uplifting story. I really needed this today. Thank you for sharing this. ♥
@churchofjesuschrist4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment, Jessica! We're glad you enjoyed the video. We hope you'll tune in for other uplifting comment on our channel or at comeuntochrist.org!
@jdl08124 жыл бұрын
@@churchofjesuschrist I most definitely subscribed 🥰 I look forward to seeing so much more
@Carolina-wt6be4 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗
@PascalDupont5614 жыл бұрын
Thx for your thoughts . Loved it
@Noblesquire4 жыл бұрын
Jessica, just remember to think for yourself and don't listen to negative people. Life is full of all sorts of beauty and it's not all appearance. So many beautiful people are just good humble people who don't realize they are beautifully created by a loving Heavenly Father. God bless you on your journey in life.
@klewis43774 жыл бұрын
I don't know if you, Ben will ever read this but all I see in your face is the light of Christ! You are a very handsome man because you radiate goodness! Thank you for your story!
@cathydavis92592 ай бұрын
I wish I could give this a million thumbs up! Ben has a beautiful smile that lights up a room. His story will bless many of us.
@tatjanabaker35212 жыл бұрын
I’m in tears and can barely see, as I write. Your beautiful testimony was so powerful and relevant! Faith and hope is alive today! God bless you, your wife and your miracle babies. So beautiful!
@churchofjesuschrist2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@karenfitzpatrick20613 жыл бұрын
This guy is handsome, brave and inspiring. Their story is beautiful and shows with courage and determination we can achieve what we want in life. These children could not have been adopted by more perfect and loving parents. God bless and keep you all safe
@chaselee7774 жыл бұрын
"He may not always come on your timing but He always comes on time."
@FANCYxDADDY4 жыл бұрын
💯
@marypeterson30064 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story. Thank you 💖.
@trashdreamer38344 жыл бұрын
B+87pluse inkling bI
@BetinEliHndz9154 жыл бұрын
🙏
@emk63604 жыл бұрын
you know right?
@emk63604 жыл бұрын
I like watching these stories of hope and not giving up on life. I am a victor.
@annadelcdye4 жыл бұрын
You are a leader, Ben. So glad to have met you and call you a great friend. Love you.
@23aether4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this amazing journey of faith and hope.
@williamfindspeople43414 жыл бұрын
I'm just like you brother, children where afraid of me. I'm a giant man, I been feared almost all my life, until I joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Found that Jesus Christ loved me, that's all that counts.
@MeganRoseanne4 жыл бұрын
Love this!!
@oliviadecano76254 жыл бұрын
Wow. Yes i love you too
@elizabethsetlhako10624 ай бұрын
This is amazing! I feel so motivated in waiting upon the Lord. I believe He will come with "arms full." Thank you Ben.
@jaimebingbing16374 жыл бұрын
congratulations. I know God want His children to be happy.
@leonardomatiastrejo27594 жыл бұрын
My wife an I, have 2 little boys and the second was born with Crouson Syndrom and we feel eternaly grateful with the Savior, His Church, His Gospel and His attonement for such great blessings as this. Watching the man in the vídeo talking about his experiences with this different kind of life felt more hope, faith, love and gratitude, I felt the tender mercys of the Lord.
@leonardomatiastrejo27594 жыл бұрын
I would like to meet the man of the video if someone know how I can contact him I will appreciate very much. Thanks!
@katbos49954 жыл бұрын
Leonardo Matias Trejo : Make this hidden comment as a new, main comment...so it is more visible. I’m sure he’d love to meet you guys, he has such a pure spirit.
@katbos49954 жыл бұрын
Google “Ben Kjar”...he has a FB page, you could PM him.
@charityntuzela84924 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ben for your story. To be a Victor and not a victim
@BetinEliHndz9154 жыл бұрын
God Knows Best!!! Amen!! 🙏❤️
@tenor902104 жыл бұрын
You were a great soul, before you were born 🎈🎈
@stevennelson81464 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you for your strength faith, courage, hope and listening to your wonderful Mother and becoming the victor you are! But most of all! Thanks be to the God of Heaven for the gift of His Son Jesus Christ the King of Kings, Savior, Mediator, Deliverer and Mighty God of Miracles!!!
@victoriafuller97454 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story. Hope works when we work.
@clarkmurdock78124 жыл бұрын
I feel like this guy would be the coolest uncle to have
@rosinaletele35452 жыл бұрын
God always come at the right time...what a touching testimony God is good
@Kgoverstreet2 ай бұрын
Thanks. Now I will go to bed after watching tons of these videos. God delivers.
@rickeybillings92292 жыл бұрын
What a family god made !!!!
@wallacecosta16203 жыл бұрын
I named my son Liam exactly for the same special meaning, he'll be a protector. In fact, he already is, because before he was born we were having a lot of problems in our family, but after he was born we found happiness, and our family is protected from being separated. I'm grateful for this message.
@scottschulte96133 жыл бұрын
We Schultes love you Kjars and Smoots. Thanks for this video.
@sarabernpaintner47042 жыл бұрын
There are so many strong people in this world. This guy’s one of them! Never forget that God loves you. He doesn’t care about what you look like. It’s what’s on the inside that counts!
@1secondago7072 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! You're awesome brother! I love this & I love your mum! So happy for you, your sweetheart & your beautiful babies🙏Praise the Lord❤
@wandayanez24544 жыл бұрын
Your story builds faith. I can relate. I gave birth to my son at age 42 after bringing married for 21 years. I remember those fertility shots and discomfort. My son filled our lives with purposed and loves. We were the most engaged parents in his schools throughout his life. God gave us a GIFT. My husband and I have always been grateful for our son. Heavenly Father has blessed our life. My heart is full of love and gratitude for my Savior. He answered my prayer. I feel so blessed. My son just finish his mission and it’s going to college. Life comes with trials, but also with blessings. We must keep our faith. God bless you and your family.
@kathyknepp98834 жыл бұрын
Honestly when I first saw your picture at the beginning of your video I thought "What a handsome man". You are beautiful not only inside but outside too. When I was four years old I was in a car accident that left my chin scared. Then as an adult I was in another car accident that not only left my right temple and halfway back the top of my head with scars. Lost a portion of my hair not knowing if it'd come back. That was one of three times I lost my hair. I cried and said " not my face again". I felt attitude was what was needed. A hospital nurse told me attitude makes the difference. You Sir have the right attitude. You are amazing & so is your lovely family.
@natbc93014 жыл бұрын
Me too! Handsome guy, even better looking after listening to his testimony.
@liahonagirl4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Very handsome guy . . . I'm pretty sure it's the absolute joy and hope in Christ that shines out of his eyes, and his very soul!
@haj984 жыл бұрын
“Victim or victor.” Powerful wording.
@cassiebrooke24904 жыл бұрын
So true!!!!!!!!!
@tamiorchard27524 жыл бұрын
Amazing story of hope! Thank you!
@choevel40954 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Powerful message
@deannasmith15754 жыл бұрын
When you started talking and sharing your story I honestly didn't see with my eyes your physical deformity. Even as I listened because sometimes things like that are not so obvious at first sight. I have things happen in my life that I just wish that people who I think truly love me end up using me and leaving me. And I'm left feeling like there's something outwardly about me that says "use me". When all I wish for is to know a complete love.
@matthewholland13884 жыл бұрын
I was so proud to know Ben and cheer him on when he was our star wrestler at UVU. I am even prouder of him for his faith, testimony and moral character. He is a remarkable man and a great personal hero.
@alyssavincentstephens79813 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how many time I’ve watched this- currently struggling with infertility and this video comforts me every time I lose hope. Thank you Ben (and your wife!) for sharing your story. 🤍
@maymelden4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Family ❤️
@dostacos13 жыл бұрын
I've met Ben a couple of times, and he has such a gift for kindness.
@Gathoklea4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad they didn’t add background music to this. His testimony is perfect just the way it is.
@heritaqecabinets4 жыл бұрын
I just came across this video...and was shocked as I recalled last fall when I met Ben, and his sweet wife on an airport shuttle bus. We began a conversation, and, as he was traveling with a young child we discussed the challenges of traveling with a toddler, and he shared with me that he had TWINS at home. He was so positive, and engaging to visit with! I left feeling edified for having had the experience to visit with them, and was so happy to hear of others- that feel like I do, that it is a astounding privilege to be parents. I had NO IDEA of his full story... what a remarkable family! *Honestly! There are so many GOOD people in the world! What a privilege that our paths crossed... #miracleshapppeneveryday
@brendawoodhouse83393 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@tadgriffin61064 жыл бұрын
What an amazing man and example for all!
@jodenembova42302 жыл бұрын
Praise God for this message i take up my hope again and know He is faithfull and will come through for me
@LarryParkerWilliams4 жыл бұрын
Not in your timing but always on time. Too true.
@katiemathis26714 жыл бұрын
So cute! I love this story. Just be your self!!!
@robertos21983 жыл бұрын
12 years of mental and physical illness in big part because of what happened to me on my mission...still waiting...and hoping..
@cgoodloe4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful story. Heartstrings.
@BenHillyard4 жыл бұрын
I grew up being best friends with two of Ben's cousins and having the opportunity to watch Ben and look up to him. As a wrestler, he was one of the best the world has ever seen, but as a cousin, a man, a brother I have always been impressed by him. Watching this, however, my admiration, love, and respect for Ben have grown even more. Thank you Ben for your testimony, and the strength, which you have never lacked, in sharing this message with the world. The gospel brings such hope and peace.
@danielbennion804 жыл бұрын
Ben, it's people like you who I'd be proud to be seen anytime, any place with. In my book you're a hero. Don't ever stop believing in yourself and your potential. Hang in there!
@manilynmacabanting78182 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. You were blessed because you choose to be a victor and not a victime. And have chosen hope than fear, doubt and worry. I learn a lot from your story. How inspiring it was.
@victoriagledhill58724 жыл бұрын
"If you think my hands are full....you should see my heart" I love it
@ashnikfield4224 Жыл бұрын
Ben is amazing!!! He came to speak at our school a while ago and it was such a fantastic assembly!!
@ethc28674 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful sharing and a beautiful family. Yes, our Heavenly Father knows us and wants us to be happy. He is always there for us, no matter how large or small we think our problems are. We just need to trust him. May you and your family always be blessed. You truly look happy. What a blessing.
@andrewcardon7573 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful message! Thank you Ben!
@tmadsam7 ай бұрын
What a wonderful story! You can't help but be touched by the enormous faith this man has! Congratulations to his family! I'm trying so hard to be a victor and stop being a victim. This story profoundly affected me!
@vilituitavake29882 жыл бұрын
Beautiful family brother. You and your wife deserves every bit of blessing. Thank you for uplifting me with your story.
@churchofjesuschrist2 жыл бұрын
Hi, thanks for listening and for your comment!
@scottperkins26373 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ben!! Your faith inspired me!
@sydneycarlson82914 жыл бұрын
He went to my high school. He was a great guy then and sounds like he's still doing great things with his life. Thanks for being an inspiration and reminding us we have a choice, victim or a victor.
@danabagnall38414 жыл бұрын
Great job Ben! Well done. Hope works!
@rachelhall38924 жыл бұрын
I remember you. We weren't friends, but I do remember seeing you for the first time surrounded by your friends. I remember thinking something like nothing was going to hold you back, you just had that energy. Beautiful testimony, thank you for sharing!
@dap988194 жыл бұрын
I met this guy at a conference before, he is a very kind, genuine person who has inspired me to be a greater force for good
@lucio73314 жыл бұрын
I don't care what you look like... I just need a friend like you.. God bless 💟
@asenapelenise94074 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful soul, the world need more victors like you and your beautiful wife. Thank you for sharing. It's so uplifting!
@elenalohrey1971 Жыл бұрын
I personally believe disability is an integral part of my identity. Not a deformity. Not all disabled people feel this way, but me and many other disabled people are proud of our disability and would never want it cured, not even in the next life. Without our disability we wouldn’t be us.
@wickerd924 жыл бұрын
Thank you to all of you! Thank you for sharing your peace and joy!
@wheels6364 жыл бұрын
I've had similar experiences in my life. I was in an accident 30 year's ago that left me paralyzed from the waist down. It's hard to explain pain I first experienced when people stare or little children ask their parents what's wrong with him? I've since learned to smile at them and tell them I broke my back, if I get a chance. I've learned that if you treat the children and people with respect next time they see someone else who is in a wheelchair they will think about the person who took a minute to talk to them and realize we are all God's children.
@bryanburrows82924 жыл бұрын
This is a great way to stay positive and help others gain a greater perspective. Thanks for sharing.
@Operamoms4 жыл бұрын
This man is an instrument in God's hands. I am so inspired after watching this.
@_deut6.93 жыл бұрын
Faith and hope is alive and it is a live today and it works. AMEN!!!
@sillysauce554 жыл бұрын
Faith and hope is alive, and it's alive today.
@CINDYxNGUYEN4 жыл бұрын
Wow! GOD is GREAT! Beautiful person and story ❤
@dallincandland Жыл бұрын
Great message! Saw this a while ago and today was prompted to watch it again. So glad I did! The Lord has been teaching me how to be a victor not a victim and it is affecting every realm of my life for the ultimate good! It is changing everything, and this video helped me to remember that and celebrate that. Even though it seems He hasn't quite come with His arms full of the blessings I'd like to receive, I know that He is full of blessings right now, and that His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:23) and I am learning to cherish those. It also makes me think of Romans 8:37 - 37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. Such a wonderful message of faith, courage, and confidence - thank you!
@churchofjesuschrist Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for sharing your thoughts!
@dallincandland Жыл бұрын
@@churchofjesuschrist Absolutely! Watching and pondering on this was a very bright moment for me, even though this one feels darker. I know that the path of faith requires us to spend some time in the dark, but that following after Christ brings us the light of life (John 8:12). I'm thankful for subtle spiritual promptings that can lift me to much higher ground. :)
@lll56104 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🦄 you beautifully🌼 perfect MAN of God🕊
@trinanishitani86094 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, Hopeful story. Thank you for such a inspiring story on faith and hope. You are a beautiful, handsome man by the way.❣
@dannyboy68154 жыл бұрын
I love this man. He was one of my wrestling trainers back when I was in High School. Great motivational speaker, an even better man.
@ChasingHopeVlog2 жыл бұрын
You are an awesome person. Always remember to say, "I know I'm somebody 'cause God don't make no junk!!" You are perfect just the way you are.
@rinatema9114 жыл бұрын
Love your story ❤️❤️❤️ Faith and Hope is real🙏🙏🙏
@ButacuPpucatuB3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us Ben, and for inviting us to let hope live. I’m trying my best. Some days I fail. But, I choose to get up again and again. Father will never fail us. Elder Holland said it’s not in his character to not care, to not love us, and to not save us. I’m praying and fasting for a big miracle. I struggle with keeping my hope alive, but I’m working on it. Today you helped me in many meaningful ways. Thank you so very much 🧡🧡
@lindafiatoa32032 жыл бұрын
I gotta admit, the first time I saw his face, I was taken aback! But it's so true that a person's personality shines through to the outside. And the more I get to know this guy, the better looking he gets. God bless him and his beautiful family! And it's so nice to find out that that they are LDS!
@Diggs4Dogs2 жыл бұрын
I'm suppose to be preparing my Gospel Doctrine lesson, but my word...I came across this and couldn't stop listening. Thank you. You've got me in tears. Thank you, this is so good.
@annarose89334 жыл бұрын
This is far beside the point but I actually think he's rather handsome. And who he is is really shining through that outward edifice. Our bodies are temples and his is glorious as God's light radiates from him.
@marin21733 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed this.
@stevebrown62154 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your inspirational story! Thank you! AMEN !
@sherryhyde5654 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story!! So thankful these precious children are blessed with such wonderful parents!!! God is so great!!! And by the way, your face looks fine, very handsome🌿
@ree37212 жыл бұрын
I only watched this because I knew his wife when I went to school. Did not really talk to her much. I am going through some similar things right now. I really needed to here this message thank you so much! God does work in mysterious ways.
@churchofjesuschrist2 жыл бұрын
We are sorry for the challenges that you are facing. We're glad you're here. Thanks for your comment.
@TBIhope4 жыл бұрын
“[God] may not come on your timing, but He always comes on time.” Thank you. I really appreciate that this morning.
@sherisnell88524 жыл бұрын
So beautiful & so true! Thank you for sharing! I’m victorious when I choose to be Victorious when our daughter was hit by a neighbor & passed away! They were in active and heavenly father filled our hearts with love for them and the gift 🎁 of choosing hope, peace, Comfort and love through this sweet/pain! Our hearts were filled with compassion for this man and their family came back into the church and were sealed in the temple. Through all this, I’ve learned to know my father in heaven knowing He was & is always beside me and that my Savior through His atonement brought hope beyond my understanding! We knew we would see her and have her again and learned lessons of our saviors love and all that, that has meant to us! Thank you for choosing victory and thank you to your mother for teaching you to stay in truth😌
@1secondago7072 жыл бұрын
You're amazing..I admire you & your example..❤
@lexonous3 жыл бұрын
This guy touched my heart😢😥❤
@bobbq83804 жыл бұрын
You got much stronger spirit than me brother. Congrats on your family. Thank God always for his timing. 🙏🙏
@annekabrimhall10594 жыл бұрын
I was blessed with two boys four years apart. I wanted more and I wanted them closer but I listen to the doctors advice. Later we adopted two girls who have been a joy to my heart. I went on to teach preschool and foster kids for 17 years. You never know how the Lord will bless you.
@JesusIsLove25124 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 Mother Mary Pray For Us 🙏Abba Father Bless us and we Adore You 🙏Holy Spirit Guide us and direct our paths 🙏
@jpteerlink4 жыл бұрын
"Faith means trusting God in good times and bad, even if that includes some suffering until we see His arm revealed in our behalf." Elder Jeffrey R. Holland October 2020
@jenniejennie38843 жыл бұрын
❤️🙏 He saves us.
@jenfira3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This gives me hope. Maybe I'll get my own family and adopt.
@randallcash23344 жыл бұрын
I just became stronger Thank you Ben Your the MAN
@Goobicon45074 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, I didn't want to listen to this one. But it put a smile on my face - something that doesn't happen often these days - and I'm going to try and keep up hope by making a daily effort.
@MeganRoseanne4 жыл бұрын
The spirit told me twice to go back and watch this. I needed it so much. Thank you
@tonideveraux84843 жыл бұрын
What a phenomenal talk. You are an inspiration, dear sir. Please keep it up!
@StillThinkingAboutIt4 жыл бұрын
Wow, Awesome. This video needs 6 Billion Views
@berengerdahakpoin12274 жыл бұрын
I don't know what to say. This another message from my heavenly father, telling me that, he is watching other me. Thank you Lord.
@defenderoftorah5194 жыл бұрын
Did you know that "the LORD" means ha Ba'AL aka Sha'Tan? At Brown Driver Briggs Hebrew Lexicon entry for "the LORD" means ha Ba'AL - 01168 Ba'AL
@heidimisfeldt56854 жыл бұрын
Yes He is watching over you, no doubt about that.
@curtclapier4354 жыл бұрын
Amen. May God bless you.
@stephenallred86294 жыл бұрын
Thank you, sincerely, thank you, for sharing your story and for the force for good you and your family are.