When Your Man Leaves You

[@chelseajacob4141]

So true love this one. A year ago my ex left me for his ex. I was devastated. Then I found this channel, and a higher quality man who adores me. Would not have happened if the ex didnt leave.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+chelsea jacob wow, thats awesome!!!!

[@lettya3993]

Good for you

[@electricred91]

Pretty hair .

[@lovelylinda8891]

Yaaaas!

[@lushandcompanylifestyle]

My ex just left in December, leveling myself now . Feeling the pain but learning the lesson

[@melissab6264]

Know that true love will never leave.

[@jasminnanda6294]

Yes so true

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Amen.

[@Nadsow]

Melissa Brathwaite My husband who suffers from bipolar of three months left me almost two months ago. He told me he doesn’t love me like he thought he did and that we were never meant to be together. I feel like this is a death that I’m grieving over.

[@MrsAmbitous93]

Helen Kom Skaikru I’m so sorry ❤️

[@Mango-wm2gi]

@@Nadsow I feel ya pain sis keep your head up

[@Texasgirl10Growing]

He broke up with me 2 days ago and I’m so sad. I lowered my standards and got played anyway. That is what hurts the most. My ego is crushed, 😭

[@adriennedouke1880]

I hear you. I saw a video about how if a man that is beneath our standards dumps us we run the risk of becoming obsessed with him, I know that's what happened to me. New game plan, new strategy- Upgrade, Upgrade, Upgrade. Enough with the broke dusties.

[@happinesschuma4022]

same thing happened to me and i cant take it

[@Y44449]

update plz

[@kadebebesis4204]

Be grateful it’s your ego and not your heart. You can level up and rebuild your ego. The heart is something else entirely in my opinion. Take it as a lesson learned and that you were disappointed, but can always find new opportunities, especially with the knowledge you have now.

[@vturner]

Work on yourself & get someone better 😎

[@cassondrahunt4509]

I have found that putting a man in the friendzone first. I don't tell them anything about myself and let them talk. You will be amazed how quickly men reveal themselves when you do that. It's a lot less stressful then dating them or sleeping with them and finding out their true colors that way. It makes it easier to dispose of them when you find out they are not worth a damn. It also helps in rooting out the men who think I am going to give them a one night stand.

[@firesign4297]

😊👏👏👏👍👍😊✌

[@danaglover6801]

Cassondra Hunt Maybe if I had adopted this theory I wouldn’t have gotten so done in🙄🙄🙄

[@metsl1870]

amen

[@Paola01.]

This is so good thanks I’ve done this before and I still stayed 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@gabby4676]

this the one

[@Hilary945]

When a man leaves me, I don't go looking for anyone else, I upgrade my career

[@adriennedouke1880]

That's what I did. I work harder to do and be better. I never waste a good anger.

[@Hilary945]

​@@adriennedouke1880 A man discarded me after 3 years together. Instead of getting on trashy tender, I got into a University with a full ride scholarship. I am a pianist and in that time since being left, I performed in Europe twice. I don't date other guys after I get left, I upgrade my academia.

[@Cpre1111]

Moving on doesn't mean moving on to another man (partner). Take the time you need to get back to YOU, to work on you. It's not about getting an ex back. Use this time to heal your spirit, to learn about the world & yourself. That way, when the love of your life comes along, you're ready & strong in yourself.

[@levelup5100]

Excellent advice!

[@Paola01.]

Sounds like a fairy tail

[@kay7425]

Shera said no time for healing. Cry, level up, upgrade!

[@LL-sf3cv]

No healing. For a week- go to the gym, organize your home, watch shera videos daily, keep dating and talking to new men

[@carriea.2467]

I dont go back to exes .Never have never will. History is the past. i live the present😂😂😂😂

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Yup.

[@kashnance8822]

Teslandia A. Right

[@levelup5100]

Ok PERIODT 👏🏾

[@YellowRoses10]

I agree☺

[@khrisi9410]

I kept reviving the dead. Hard lessons. Don't do it! Block and move on.

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

Most times when you refuse to chase them they come back for ego purposes. They wonder why you didn't chase. This is your chance to get what you want from him.

[@texassage5629]

Hello, dear, never give up the one you love...I know a great man can attract your ex in 48 hours... He brought my ex back to me within 48 hours and his performance was flawless

[@texassage5629]

Text him on whatsApp

[@alliemcquaide8319]

“Trying to Go back to an ex is like getting fired from a job and putting in a resume to the same company the next week later “ lmao I love her 😍

[@jeaniek4980]

When a man leaves me I usually upgrade.

[@ebonyjoseph9489]

Tell them Jeanie! Lol

[@theehardpill]

Always!

[@Sweetness092]

They’ll want u back if things go bad with the other female too..

[@anastasijabeograd3903]

La vie Oh yeah

[@myrahouse2368]

Being around men a lot I have seen them deeply regret losing a past love and saying how they treated them badly. They regretted it when the girl had moved on.

[@freeyourdreama7822]

Myra House yeah but what do they do about it? Nothing. So I call bs

[@sarahjaynescott545]

yes men do not know what is good for them until its too late

[@October3074]

That shit ain't genuine, they're just a little "miffed" bc they ain't getting her benefits anymore.

[@tyranmayes]

its only an ego hit , if he was that hurt he would do everything known to man to make it right

[@BrendaBaBoom]

@Tyra Mayes You’re right, it’s only an ego hit, nothing more, nothing less ... no VALUE.

[@louisabrown3701]

Good advice my ex played me for months after we split. He freaked when I realised and ended it permanently. Life is so good for me now and I really hope he knows that!

[@fifibatman638]

4 years later.. Tell me is he still there or more about where u at now

[@therenaissance724]

I wish I had known you before... Now I understand many things, my behavior, my lack of self-esteem, the way I wasted my time... Thank you , wonderful soul!

[@AngelAngela]

The Renaissance me too! I'm too nice😣😣😣

[@ms.anonymousinformer242]

Same here. So sad when woman like me realize they were not raised to learn these things and had to learn from someone else. But so grateful she and others like her, are sharing all this good advice for others. Im so grsteful for what Shera is doing for woman.

[@eggshell99]

You didn’t waste your time. It was an experience that you had to learn from. It hurts but God is just teaching us that we’re worth more. We just have to love ourselves more.

[@Nokss_20]

He's no longer your man if he's left you....

[@wifeythings5946]

I was inlove! But I’m a 10 & not a fool we ended on Good terms , I miss him but LADIES never! Chase a man !!!

[@ghisellesimon162]

Exactly my fwb is upset because he told me good bye have a nicr life because i told him i bascially moved on and he felt shoved in the corner i love him but shoot im not chasing so i guess our egos are both killing us i had a readings he misses me oh well he actually fell for me

[@narcfreekeekee9168]

The last man I dated, I seen the red flags and I went back twice. That third time I saw he was just using me for sex. I tried to look past and told myself I was just having fun anyway, but it’s not fun at all when u know a person is using u up. The third time time he made a promise to me and a week later this promise still wasant fulfilled and I know he had cuz he on fb flashing. I waited until I got paid and I dumped his ass. That was three weeks ago I’ve gone no contact. He messaged me about the same time he saw I was done. I never read the message I don’t want to hear shit. I’m moving on and I know he doesn’t care and that’s fine. I stood up for myself I’m done letting men treat me like shit. Btw I’m not a bad looking woman.

[@gabrielar9611]

This comment stings like a 🐝.... that’s why so many likes and no comment

[@elizasimon4112]

Same as me lol but please *bout I'm not a bad looking woman* Shera said herself you can have the pretty face but you don't know how to deal with men so they deal with you anyhow you allow them too

[@KimBlaQue]

You ain't lying....I think for some women, it's the thrill of the chase. We're not used to being rejected. For me, it was about the chemistry between me and the guy. We were never intimate, we just flirted a lot (we went to college together)....my logic is, if he wanted me, he would've came and got me

[@dickbanger8924]

well he clearly didnt want your ugly old ass then did he.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

referral madness women don't work like that

[@levelup5100]

Been in the same predicament. I didn’t have that logic back then but I do now, thank goodness 🙏🏾

[@Paola01.]

@@dickbanger8924 shut your loser ass your the ugly one rusty ass hahahahahhahah

[@lissettevasconez9939]

A man can be 50!!!!!!!! And still don’t want to settle down and have wandering eyes!.. I know cuz I used to a have a 50 year old and had to leave that alone for good

[@jlmadd]

They are all the same., screw that. Men don’t decide anything for me

[@user-nw6lf7dk1j]

It's my 35th birthday today. I came around to this video mysteriously. I believe I came across this video for a reason. It's time to perk up and do different things. I take this video as in heed and as a gift in disguise. Thank you

[@LashayneHampton]

How have things been going since? I hope you are well. ❤

[@DEJones-et5hd]

If a man don't want, turn your back on him and move on.

[@EspeoniaManga]

They always come circling back around in my experience 😂 I never take them, he made his choice

[@MakedaWisdom]

Every older teens should see this video. Great advice!

[@donnajustbeingreal6607]

Makeda Wisdom I agree

[@iahest]

Makeda Wisdom I watch your videos there very spiritual and enlightening

[@ulricka2131]

Older teens!! That is right!!

[@ericalopes2328]

Not everyone can rock bangs but that hair style is too cute on you

[@Incognito_Icon]

I’m definitely not dating for love anymore.

[@jasminelewis315]

Ever again

[@AK-dh2mu]

just ignore them , block them! all my exes beg lmao

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Lol mine did too

[@D2222.]

Mine ghosted me for 3 weeks and when he saw I didn’t even text him came running back😂😂

[@abunchoftails6331]

Ex’s are the last thing anyone should think about there’s a huge sea out there ladies next these idiots get your explore on & go jump into the sea start fishing there’s always bigger & better out there been there done that ...

[@ToniDaniels1275]

Once you had a taste of better.. I don’t think you will go back honey.. yas. I’m going thru this now. I did chase but I stopped. I am treated better outside of the relationship #factz

[@taycarzve1264]

So true why wasted on a guy don't want you when you can get something better

[@LittleBird888]

This video made me happy I’m single. ❤️🧿

[@shantayn1323]

I'm thankful for you and your messages. I wish I was taught the things you teach, when I was a teenager, It would have saved me a lot of hurt.

[@sexyladyakb]

This made me feel so much better thank you

[@GypsyGlobetrotter]

My late fiancé cheated on me so I left him, packed up my car and moved to L.A. He was stuck with the "town dump" chick he cheated with and I ended up with a wealthy TV star. My former fiancé couldn't handle it and unfortunately committed suicide a few months later. These men are only hurting themselves when they hurt us. 💔

[@aakankshanidhi4989]

When you move on and do better, look better and get a better man than them , then the old man starts to brags about you to other people that he was with you for 2 years , he slept with you and this and that

[@texassage5629]

Hello, dear, never give up the one you love...I know a great man can attract your ex in 48 hours... He brought my ex back to me within 48 hours and his performance was flawless

[@texassage5629]

Text him on whatsApp

[@LiteRXCaramel]

my ex left me even though he didn’t deserve a chance... bcos he took my self esteem after I upgraded myself before. He was just using me and you’re right it was lust, and regretted things.. what a dummy I was and I did know better. He’s now upgrading himself & still can’t believe he’d leave me and didn’t love me. Anyways this video gave me hope again to do what makes me happy again thank you

[@firesign4297]

🙇🙏🙇.......Check out. ..R.C Blakes Jr. ....You Tube Videos As Well as...Derrick Jaxn. ...You Tube Videos.... 🙏🙇🙏

[@MegaLadylove2012]

Shera ain’t never lie. I broke up with a guy who was a jerk. We ended up at a Christmas party and he was acting all cool like a dollar bill, chatting with some fat gals or watever. Who cares. Soon as I walked in all of the other guys were sweatin me. Some bringing drinks to my table, or helpin me find where certain things were. Then I noticed a light skin, super confident, fit guy in the background. I could tell he was the most alpha male in the room but he was a step away from me. So I tried to get in his proximity because I wanted to strike a conversation. And I could tell he was checking me out as well. We eventually got closer and spike a conversation. Ol’ boy was seated in the corner and immediately stopped his talk with those chicks. Got on his oh and could see the upset in his face and body language. Mind you, I had not spoken to him in over a week bc of some incident tht he didn’t care to reach out or fix. I also left it at tht. Never chase a man before certainly not at this age. I was also really feeling this guy at the party. Then boom once we got bk to our destination, I could see him pacing bk and forth and waited till everyone left the room to come rushing in there like ‘can we talk.’ I looked him up and down like wow wat a disgust of a human being. Right there, I knew his ego was bruised. That was the only reason he came to have a conversation because a man better lookin than him, with more confident came to talk to me infront of him at a party. Wat Shera is saying is true to a Tee. U really don’t know wat you’re missing until you have it, indeed! I swear to God! U really don’t know because it’s like thts when you realized relationships or dating shouldn’t be painful. All this headache is nothing it should be. But I was really done with him at tht pt-never really wanted to be him to begin with but he fake beg until I finally give it a shot only for him to turned to be a jerk. Smh history. Upgrade on your level of men, indeed! 😘 I changed location and left his a&& for good. It’d been six months and this fool keeps hitting me up on every random number there is every now and then. The last text I responded if ‘I ever receive a call or text from this person, I would report it to the police.’ Never another call or text since. Ni@@ bye

[@Nadsow]

“Create a new life for yourself” Love that. I’m trying to move on. Bipolar husband left me after only three months of marriage almost two months ago.

[@ms.anonymousinformer242]

He did you a favor!! Trust me. Would you rather have given him your all for 19 unhappy years only to realize you wasted hwlfvyour entire life with a dusty who is dumb and won't change or improve while all that time you were improving ? You are so LUCKY he took the trash out for you after only 3 months. 💓👍

[@SimplisticallyDigital]

Helen Kom Skaikru Same but my ex waited 6 months and left. Bipolar. It happened every year after that until I put up a boundary and he left for good. That was three years ago.

[@miss.britt_]

Helen Kom Skaikru good he left early and didn’t waste your time, blessing I disguise

[@cupcakebabynurse3964]

I know it's hard but be glad..I got married to a dusty... he left after 6 mos..begged to come home..came home. .then left me and my kids again...left us homeless....been married almost 4 years..separated almost two..he may beg to come back home again and again and again...stop the madnesss..cry now, smile later....I'm filing for divorce..as soon as courts open back up from covid 19..trust your intuition..and believe for better.

[@gabby4676]

any update??

[@modestaavula295]

I literally woke up to this. Just got dumped, because I'm apparently too "needy" was like ohhh ok, mind you, we were all good before I got dumped, I literally didn't see it coming. 😏 So this is what I told myself, I'll never be too much for someone that loves me, whether i want to text too much, or I love too much attention or I'm too affectionate "I WILL NEVER BE TOO MUCH OR TOO NEEDY" to someone that wants to be with me. I accepted what he said, was hurt it accepted anyways. ACCEPTANCE is Key 🗝. I did what I could for this person and of he couldn't appreciate that, it's not on me but on him. It's life. Thank you for this massage. I literally needed it, to reminded me that I deserve better. It is well with my soul❤️🙏

[@tracyctsl]

My boyfriend just left me yesterday for the same reason, it hurts :O How are you today beautiful? :D

[@modestaavula295]

I'm so much better. Focusing on myself. Trying to build me rather. Self love😊 How are you Tracy?

[@tracyctsl]

I am very sad, I cry but I keep watching shera’s videos , it helps me A LOT 😊

[@swiitdoll]

Tracy Mk start going on dates

[@tracyctsl]

@forever not too soon ???👀 it’s only 2 weeks since de breakup

[@Jkl306]

N if they come back play the shit outta them lol

[@Pretti_Lucky]

💯💯💯

[@cl499]

Been dumped via text, he was supposed to give me dollars today. He is 20 years older, sucks!!

[@noik_11]

I haven’t heard from him for 3 days. We were just dating not a relationship but it was going well I thought. Time to release!!

[@firesign4297]

It's called..."GHOSTING" !... And if He Is an...AQUARIUS!😨😕....Count Yourself!...LUCKY!!😁✌ 🙇🙏🙇

[@tincastillo4963]

please don't take him back!

[@ms.anonymousinformer242]

So 3 days is the limit ? Im genuinely asking because aim the type who would wait longer to get bwck to communicating with any guy I was dating.... Once I start dating that is, after my divorce .... Only 3 days?? Seriously I would take longer than 3 days to reply back to anyone personally so I wouldn't have seen it as a red flag for them to take that many days . I would have assumed they were smothering me lol.

[@lynl9389]

@@firesign4297 Haha what about aquarius 😂

[@johnnyblaze2257]

Time to release? You must have rode the short bus to school, he’s the one who released you!

[@Honeyiroseupfromthedead]

" More independent and more confidence to find someone better "

[@mi.b.t]

So break up before him immediately when you some bad signals. It will end anyway. Don't let him crush your ego and break your heart.

[@veekay6142]

This is very true shera seven, you have been my life safer all this time. Thank you very much for helping a lot of women out there with your videos. God bless.

[@emmamokoena5704]

I thank God for the day I came across this channel. 🔥🔥🔥

[@udamapaulina2792]

Hello, dear, never give up the one you love...I know a great man can attract your ex in 48 hours... He brought my ex back to me within 48 hours and his performance was flawless-

[@udamapaulina2792]

Text him on whatsApp ;

[@udamapaulina2792]

✝ 2348115671212⏭⏭💕;;

[@chandrawillis2625]

Great video!! So happy I watched it. No need to ponder why it didn't work..time to get someone BETTER!

[@donnajustbeingreal6607]

Chandra Willis absolutely true.

[@debbyluxe]

Same here this is the mindset I have now! It’s all about elevations!

[@sanetriaj1]

I'm 43 he was 48 he still want to play the field. He ghost me after 8 months of dating just out the blue. I thought everything was perfect. I saw him in traffic and a woman was driving his truck. I thought dating older I wouldn't go through things like this.

[@sanaa8367]

sanetria Jones He is older then your only 5 years that does count, go some on 55 and above.

[@mianicole3399]

Auntie I love your makeup in this video! But yes once it’s over it’s over 🙅🏽‍♀️ no going back especially if they left you.

[@lunarl6172]

Where were you when I was going through separation. Girl I am SO late to your channel!! I love your mindset 💞

[@mecca115able]

Older man is no better.trust me..

[@lilbabytears]

Facts

[@mecca115able]

@@lilbabytears ?

[@lettya3993]

Older men play games too.

[@BrendaBaBoom]

@Letty A In fact older men play games like boys ... same sh*t but a different year.

[@eggshell99]

Yes, I thought it would be better with an older man 😂😂 He dumped me for someone younger who’s practicing hypergamy with him now. I’m just learning about this. I thought I was doing the right thing by going 50/50, buying gifts......he didn’t appreciate any of it. Wish I would have known better.

[@yeahthatsme921]

I don't give a damn if it's an twin flame!! I'm gone🤣🤣

[@itoldyouso68]

Factzzzz sis!!!!!

[@dutchessofcreativity9397]

New age buzz...a lie

[@sharrellfaith]

Yessss..twin flame broke up with me. Peace nigga

[@mieklovely5240]

This is the realist advice I've ever heard

[@basicinfo2022]

5:30 that's ageism. There are amazing young men in their early 20s who are married. It's about character, maturity and morals of the man regardless of age.

[@afroditesis4738]

rissa johnson that is the exception to the rule. Don't pretend there's an abundance of 20 year olds that want wives and families.

[@olgachafeeva2828]

as a rule, they leave later on in life

[@Nokss_20]

They get married for their image, checkin with them at age 40 😂😂😂

[@babyc.3015]

@@olgachafeeva2828 They marry young and then leave later on cuz they be having a midlife crisis 😂

[@sexyladyakb]

I love you for this man..this is just what I needed to hear . You always know what to say

[@firesign4297]

😊👍👍😊.... And Also check out......R.C.Blakes Jr ...You Tube Video Titled:...."DON'T GET PIMPED" ! As Well As...Derrick Jaxn. ....You Tube Videos.... 👍👍😊

[@Jeniffer61867]

This video can never grow old

[@ScarJagD]

Thank you Shera! This is advice everyone dating men need to hear. You are so practical and brutally honest with the advice. Love ya😍

[@tirousaba7465]

You hit the bull's eye with this message sister!!!! How i needed this one. God bless you.

[@mecca115able]

my ex bf is a old drunk. i bought his addiction to his attention.he been pissed ever since. he has a little money. but guess what . i am dating now. i had enough. its obvious he has someone. but guess what its another drunk like himself or some desperado... believe me im getting happier by the hour. i broke it off with him. email text whatever. it was on again off. i cant do this anymore.

[@SheRaSeven1]

yes move on, drunks are always bringing women down !

[@dickbanger8924]

i bet you were the cause of his drinking because of all of the misery you brought to his life and endless nagging he just could'nt hack another day being sober dealing with constant slime down his ears all day everyday so he hit the bottle and tried to drink himself to death and the day you left was the happiest day ever! it was probably more relieving than having a dump the size of a mans head.

[@BrendaBaBoom]

@steve smith I bet you look just like a steamy DUMP💩 the size of your head. LOL!

[@nourhanebn69]

I really admire her!!! And this hair is so cuuuute on her

[@MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK]

Loving your channel binge-watching while I clean my house peace light love and much abundance to you you schooling us all and I appreciate it

[@LaQuitaJay]

MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK SAME HERE

[@Jubilee_BX]

My favorite video from you. Nothing but the Truth, thanks..needed to hear this!!

[@neekyneekk]

I agree although you don’t necessarily have to change anything about your looks to find better but instead try improving who you are as far as ur character and try seeking the person that you need, who’s for you cause god only closed that door for someone else of his will for you rather it’s ur type or not take him leaving as a gift of knowledge and what to look out for next time

[@shandiraprice]

damn you should right a book

[@007stinkey]

Omg you put it in such perspective, I came across this video a few months ago, I have even listened to it a few times since I 1st saw it. The bottom line is why would a woman want someone back that doesn't want her? I am not going to lie, I still think about him sometimes, But it's always coming back to the bigger question. Why do I want someone that doesn't want me? If I wollow in the whys, that mess will play tricks on your mind, then I start to question myself. #sheraseven you keep me ground. Ladies for one second do you think he is loosing sleep over you?Move on physically and mentally!!!!

[@jrmetmoi]

The Rules books say the same thing. They're great.

[@mishonwhite7607]

Love your hair and bangs, very pretty !

[@Infamy34]

your good. Im using you as a case study with my old lady. appreciate the knowledge of hypergamous.

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

2 years ago I wouldn’t have expected I’d be watching this video

[@udohemmanuel3358]

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days ❤❤❤

[@udohemmanuel3358]

He was the person who helped me manifest my ex back three days ago without delay 💯💯💯

[@udohemmanuel3358]

WhatsApp him**

[@udohemmanuel3358]

[phone]⏩⏩⏭⏭

[@texassage5629]

Hello, dear, never give up the one you love...I know a great man can attract your ex in 48 hours... He brought my ex back to me within 48 hours and his performance was flawless

[@lovablelibra]

I think its bcuz those women believe that man is their soul mate.

[@Prttyd_xo]

I feel so stupid I let a lawyer go who use to date a women with 2 kids from another relationship, he had even gotten a house for her but they broke up and he was taking me on dates and was buying groceries but me being dumb I let him go

[@reginaalmaraz7561]

When your husband leaves you but wants to come back. Nope! I have moved on. Next.

[@melissab6264]

I'm over it thank you so much!

[@anahernandez0325]

Thank you so very much for your insightful clarity and guidance. I needed to hear that and I will be changing myself.

[@tima9271]

Love the look as always....

[@jlmadd]

True love isn’t a thing. Hate to break the news, don’t go backwards. KZbin

[@loriemmanuel636]

Wonderful advice...I love this

[@Ms.Tamara_]

I can’t believe how I just happened to find your channel today. It’s so right on time it’s like it’s the perfect earth birthday gift I could receive. I just kicked out my ex about a month ago and it’s so refreshing to not only know that it was the right thing for me to and the best. Thank u for putting things into perspective for me n giving me so much motivation to bring in my 35th bday in 2 weeks on a whole different note. I’m so ready to level up n move on to what I deserve. I can’t believe I was putting up with a man for almost 5 years that completely slowed me down n was mentally n sometime physically abusive. I don’t have any children n I had somehow began to forget that I am worth so much more and I have so much to offer. He was living in my house n constantly saying that I needed to help build him up so he could be in a better place. And told me that I’m not a real woman Becuz I wouldn’t take care of him. I’m independent n he always had issues n reasons for not keeping a job and needed so much from me that I couldn’t focus on doing things to improve myself. I thought I would be lonely n sad being single, but it’s actually like a huge relief to have my house back to myself and not have all the negativity bringing me down. U have helped many women from what I see, and I know that I ca be great and get over this sorry excuse for a man , and that he would have eventually been my downfall in life. Thank you!

[@SimplisticallyDigital]

Ms. Tamara Did you date my ex?!?! Same exact crap. Glad you got out of it too.

[@mustardtigerbaaaaaam]

Taking accountability for your own actions works too, ladies!

[@cammir3295]

So glad I watched this I truly needed it thank you

[@BeulahEbiai-wo2ln]

Your channel is saving me

[@VondaBoo]

Just read the title and didnt click on the video yet....first thought was OPEN THE DOOR!!! LOL!!!

[@SkillfulT]

My ex friend left because he thought he was going to be a mife lol! He thought I was going to let him use me. He was a dusty that was the fun guy after my divorce. He is mad I wouldnt let him drive my vehicles and live in my house and eat up all my food. I just have a problem with being petty. I wouldn't buy things when he was in my life. He just wants a woman with money he can run through... Nope. He older than me by 7 years. I'm glad he's gone but know he's watching me. All I'm doing is upgrading everything in my life. I haven't met the man yet but I know that's coming..... ♥️

[@kiwi5118]

I love the hair and message SheRa.

[@cooladultkidontheblock1882]

You have always been so awesome SheRa!

[@missbrendacrawford8865]

You’re very wise!!!! Thanks god blessed u girlfriend!!!!!

[@Cantetinza17]

I've had a man really want me and the feeling not be mutual. He was homeless, so there wasn't anything that I really could have him do for me. You want your man back get to your fighting bod and clothes. When you look good, feel good and got other suitors it really hurts their feelings. Sometimes they get with the other woman and realize that you were better. For example I was leaving for bootcamp and my first love cheated on me. The dude couldn't wait 3 months. So we broke up and when he realized what a nightmare she was he wanted me back. I considered it because he was MY FIRST! In the end I didn't take him back and I dated around and got to know me and what a fabulous catch I was. And he is still miserable! =) So to my knowledge he is still sittin doing his shoulda coulda wouldas. I would say that if you broke up in a young age and then time goes by and you reconnect ( in an older age like going from 20's into your 40's)) then fine try it again because hopefully you've grown and your more mature. That's what happened to a friend of mine. It was a messy break up too, but they both did there thing in life and happened to be at a party at the same time and reconnected and they've been married for 20 years. It's a rare thing, but it is best to move on. And I had other men cheat on me and I thought that there was something wrong with me, and there was one other guy that I wanted back, because I had invested so much time etc in the relationship. I mean we were talking the whole 9 yards and then I went home for my birthday and he cheated on me. Then acted like the victim when I popped off. After my time of mourning the relationship I said to myself. It's not a matter of will he cheat on me. I already know that he will. The matter is when will he do it again? Do I really want to put myself through the drama again?

[@LoneStyleTribe]

Rule #1: All is mentalism :D

[@sweethearts86]

Thank you so much for your words of wisdom, I’ve been feeling trapped on this spinning wheel because I’ve been out of the dating game for a long time.

[@leahtriplett3806]

Thank you so much I needed to hear that thanks girlfriend 😄

[@adaywithduchess714]

Does shera have her own bedroom ? Listen cause if so that’s lit ! I want my own bedroom still after marriage fr

[@xxshantyxxulett1693]

i really needed this

[@billie_24]

you go girl u tell them !!!!! :)

[@loriemmanuel636]

My man left me a year ago for a other woman that was able to help him out. I should be thrilled let me soak get dry while I live a good life

[@MrsMason1978]

Thank you beautiful! I needed this sis! Confirmation

[@bosslady667]

I so needed to hear this....

[@robertandrocky5004]

In the past 10 years 2 guys left , but I attached to them so much that I have hard time to even a thought if attaching to other people

[@76blackfoot]

I would love to see a video regarding after 40 @SheRaSeven1

[@insanelybeautiful4090]

Just recently I had a boyfriend for a few months that lied to me about his age, was very controlling and telling me what to wear and what not to wear, go through my phone, threatened to burn the house down, and shoot me because I wouldn’t let him look through my phone 🤦🏾‍♀️I seen all the red flags but I still wanted to make it work... he then started to ask me for money a lot and I gave it to him and out the blue after he came over my house and we spent a night together he stopped talking to me and said “He found out what I was about” 🙄I cried and never got any closure from the breakup cause I never understood why but I kinda think it was because I had a male friend and him being controlling, he didn’t want me to have one💯I even proved to this man I wasn’t cheating and he told me he loved me and ask me to have his kids and then disappeared out my life.... I’m still dealing with the hurt but I know it’s something more god has in store for me, and I know when he realized how good of a women he lost he will come running back💯he also lied to me 3 times about his age ... I know I probably shouldn’t have been wit someone like him in the first place after how crazy and controlling he was

[@blessingncube2935]

WTF 🙄

[@TheWorldOfMonika]

Girl you dodged an abuser, and murderer. He will murder your character, your spirt/soul and you in the end. Go no contact and call the police if he ever comes back. I had a guy like this latch onto me and it was nothing but a bully, who demanded my attention and basically was sextorting me, because he would claim rejecting him, is punishable and he did everything he could to terrorize me. Slashed my tires 6times and each time was because i refused to take him back and to see me. Had to get an order of protection and that still didnt help. These men are very dangerous. Dont ever let them get a dollar from you because they will just see that, their extortion tactics work on getting you to give it up to them. They are vampires/leeches/bullys and narcissists and if you defend yourself, they will claim you disrespected and violated them, playing like they are a victim of your boundaries!

[@ZahraKNemah]

one of the most helpful videos, thank u Shera 💖

[@thewicked_gamer1387]

My step brother is still dating the girl from highschool and it's been almost 6 years ago