When People are always Coming for Black women....How to be unbothered. Chit Chat GRWM

[@HappyWackyJacky101]

Yes absolutely agree. As I’ve been growing up, I’m realizing that a lot of people dislike black women. But when you ask what the problem is, it’s never a valid reason. It’s always something they experienced from a situation that cannot speak for all of us. And sometimes you hear insecurity from their voice too. Black woman, BE UNBOTHERED. People will generalize, be cruel and be insecure. Don’t let their ignorance and wickedness faze you! Been watching you since I was in high school in 2012 Patricia. Now I am married with my own kids on the way. Be blessed and highly favored ❤️

[@melaninatedbeauty8470]

And you don’t think black men don’t get treated similar by black women? Have we not heard the saying “ I bet he cheated 100 times before she did”

[@bkchic8824]

​@melaninatedbeauty8470 The difference is BM are at the forefront of the bashing of BW.

[@munaali840]

@@melaninatedbeauty8470 black men are the ones shouting at the rooftop and degrading black women

[@melaninatedbeauty8470]

@bkchic8824 and you don’t think BW are the main ones bashing BM🤔

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

@@melaninatedbeauty8470Do you think that they are trying to say it is fair for black men to be treated that way? Most black women if you check the stats do go for black men/fighting for their better treatment. The protest in 2020 showed that. I don’t know if those stats will change but it is interesting you brought that up now.

[@chiquitacyborg]

*ENERGY FLOWS WHERE YOUR FOCUS GOES* We Black Women are blamed for *EVERYTHING.* But we Black Women are the *FIRST* they run to for advocacy & help (marching & protesting).

[@chilechi1846]

The women need to stop marching.

[@msliberated3899]

Were the world’s scapegoat

[@adams8830]

I no longer listen to the men online or from podcasts. I feel like their followers are also starting to not listen to them either.

[@justinebailey5333]

Right

[@msprettysunshine]

Me either!!! Or relationship advice or religious matters honestly..

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

I only listen to their financial stuff never anything else 😂

[@BarbaraKibira]

Agreed! The only men I listen to online are Christian men, because they just talk about Jesus and nothing else.

[@watashiwasta-w6u]

Scrolling through KZbin I notice the fetish to treat darkskinned people like pets in general. Like a show poodle with aggression.

[@ebonyg9632]

We as black women need this and you're right. I've been over how anyone chooses to view or perceive me. I don't care because I'm soooo unbothered. I love me no matter what. I believe in live and let live 💞💞💞.

[@lindatoliver2267]

I'm so over how the WORLD feels about black women. I am totally unbothered, and I love me. If anyone has a problem with me, it's not MY problem. Patricia you look beautiful as always!!!!

[@TheWheatons-fv7ob]

Yes...... Jesus Christ loves us and that's all that matters

[@selfridgesforever4399]

Thank you for saying this. These male podcasts are so unhinged at times. Always in women's business.

[@bkkersey93]

Yeah, but it's okay for you women to always make negative videos about men. Good ole logic there buddy 🙄

[@selfridgesforever4399]

​@@bkkersey93 you really came into a women's safe space to spout foolishness? You just proved her point.

[@MsDesiree39]

females have fr years been hating on men every chance they get, time for men to have their say. gonna give them hate then learn to take it too

[@VerleanHurd]

​@@selfridgesforever4399Exactly, he's the ones no one want. That's why he's here. His mom's basement is getting boring.

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

@@bkkersey93Who said it was okay?? I’m confused which women are building big platforms of that and you assume black women think they are a positive role model?😂

[@kymmieg6110]

It's the male podcast but I have been seeing women too who ALWAYS got something to say about us. To say that we look ghetto but then turn around and think cornrows, long nails, and stacked bracelets are cute on white women is crazy to me. Then they describe us the SAME way like we are ALL the same. It's giving obsessed. I don't even respond and I truly believe we need to not RESPOND or record think pieces on people like this because they are using us for views. I rather focus on something else.

[@kevinelissaint5771]

LUV YOU PATRICIA, I’ve literally been watching it since I was in the eighth grade and now I’m on my final year university

[@kevinelissaint5771]

❤❤❤❤

[@edwinawilson6716]

All the best 👍 completing college

[@VerleanHurd]

Congrats!!!!🎉🎊🍾♥️

[@ruemoriah6865]

Patricia, I’ve followed you since I was 19 (im turning 34 this month) and I have loved seeing you go through every season, the highs and lows and the ups and ups. I love your current season and I can tell there’s been a shift inside and almost going back to basics, I hope it makes sense! You have not let the world define you because you know yourself! Your energy is and has always been infectious. Loving these self reflective videos ❤

[@traumaqueeen]

Sick of us centring our beauty standards around men that hate themselves and us. Why should we do that????

[@juleswifey6003]

this is too true

[@leannasamuels2789]

Thank u for this video Patricia. I recently was bombarded by a Karen at the airport and literally was just minding my business when it happened. Focusing on positivity is almost required now to remain unbothered. As a black woman I’ve had to either create a positive space for others or I’ve had to search high and low for others who are doing the same so I can too soak up the positive energy, to be reminded why I do it in the 1st place. 💫💜

[@voguefashion-k8t]

what did she do? bombarded you how?

[@homodeus8713]

My daughter said “Patricia Bright is such a vibe.” And you are!!! God bless and keep you!

[@TheNicoliyah]

Such a vibe!❤🥰💯🙌

[@TheRoxStarlet]

Yes Patricia. Ive been a follower since the Britpop days and we salute you for being authentic and speaking up on issues. Love seeing you back at it again 💕

[@creativeaf09]

SPEAK ON IT!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 People having the audacity to openly criticize black women while being blissfully unaware of their prejudice and privilege based biases can continued to be ignored. Period 💃🏾

[@jasminejackson4877]

Very true and it's very exhausting dealing with it as a black woman. You wake up and you getting dragged, spoken on, blame for something , having think pieces policing you etc etc before your feet even touch the floor in the morning. I'll be glad when are allowed to just be

[@crystylecouture]

This a trend that needs to stop 🛑 talking about black women negatively for likes and views, smdh. I completely agree with you about only listening and watching things that uplift you! Thanks for addressing this 🤗

[@AJ-jw6yp]

Every Moron with a mouth has a mic these days. All I can say to my sisters is, We are not defined by the forces that stand against us, only the force that works within us. Let's go be great!

[@biolife3274]

I love this ❤

[@MsDesiree39]

oh pls you hate each other jut as much. lmao

[@otiswitherspoon314]

​@@MsDesiree39 why'd??

[@VerleanHurd]

A word.❤

[@VerleanHurd]

​@@MsDesiree39 Sorry dear, we don't. I think you're projecting.

[@prince280811]

Thanks for raising this Patricia, I have been talking about this with my family and friends. These men should just leave black women. alone, we are bored.

[@shantidivination]

Please do this more often! It’s great to see back here! Regardless of the topic.

[@raniamohammed1437]

Im sick of it too, I really want to stop getting hurt about it but the hurt doesn’t go away

[@LOVELYLONDONGURL]

I'm glad a prominent UK girlie is talking on this. We are TIRED.

[@deneishasheree]

And another thing... if you want to know if what I said was true. Go out into a very public place and insert a very attractive black women or very dressed up either way.... and THE COMPLETE change of atmosphere and reactions. If your a black woman today be extremely proud today and read to know your power. Okay now I'm done lol

[@BeeaauuttiiffuuL08]

Heavy on the directing your energy on things that matters to you! 💕💝

[@Onebigblessing]

The intro of this vid summarises this so well. It’s so boring! So nice to see you using your platform in this way

[@k.b2457]

OMG Im glad a bigger channel is talking about this because WTF. Its appalling. but also I know who I am

[@lifewithGloreeb]

It is so good to see you posting consistently again! Really loving these convos!!

[@1infoful]

The video I didn't know I needed. Started a business with my patent, starting my family and travelling to love life. This is deep inspirational knowledge. Thank you. I've also changed my trajectory listening to Vadim Zeland as well who talks about these principles. Ignoring what doesn't serve you is powerful!

[@inchargeofthegirls]

it's like we, no matter what corner of the diaspora, are the only way certain men can get traffic online. like what issue you have with your mom or the girl who rejected you in middle school, that you're holding onto it for 30 years. they need therapy.

[@Preciousdxo]

Thanks Patricia, we needed this self confidence boost from a successful and beautiful black woman like you x

[@Vee_Mindful]

Agreed. I got hundreds of negative comments from small minded people when I was trying to help Black women in their relationships. It’s very disheartening what people feel they must say abt Black women. Sigh. Good for you for uplifting us. ❤

[@forevermarcia]

WE’RE NOT BOTHERED BY THEM!!! WE’RE PUTTING ON OUR MAKEUP AND OUR OUTFITS AND OUR JEWELRY!!!! SAY THAT PATRICIA!!!!

[@JulianAlbino]

Patricia is aging backwards! a stunning woman 🤎

[@perfectpeace123]

I agree 💯. Some people are so bothered by black women living in peace. We don’t have to give our time or energy to people who bring negativity to our lives.

[@logenesis3108]

I needed this! Your energy is on point 💯 And you’ve inspired me to be more intentional about self-care

[@wristonstarliebarbie]

I was having this very conversation with myself in the mirror while I was shadowing. I've been noticing it in many black women creatives, too. I've had to unsubscribe from so many channels because I had to wake up to the nuances and facial expressions at play when black women are being discussed. I feel like no one likes me and I'm not welcome anywhere. Thank you so much for making me feel like there are still people who can be Loud and Loving about Us!

[@TabithaEmma_]

You’re back and as are your day one followers! Good to see you took on our feedback you seem so much happier and enjoying the new uploads ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Dollykgakishe]

A glam GRWM once a week would be highly appreciated

[@PatriciaBright]

Noted!

[@NaeNae23]

The irony is many rising podcasts have predominantly women as their subscribers. And what they don't realise we can unsubscribe at anytime!

[@Cindy99765]

This is why I don't watch male channels, with the exception of one or two decent ones.

[@KourtKhronicles]

But they know black women are desperate, and will never stop supporting them. I wish black women would wake up. We need a collective wake up. Black women need to face the reality that black men generally do not like black women. They only use us for the come up. Stop acting slow. 🙄

[@pasttimes81]

The fact that you keep singing Prince “Diamonds & Pearls”, I am so here for it! Talk about a black man who empowered black women (big up to Shiela E) Prince was always ahead of his time ❤

[@TheNicoliyah]

I have probably said this before but I will say it again, I freaking love Patricia’s energy ❤ She is a fun, funny superstar! 🎉💯😍

[@LeanneLjk]

This video is giving girl power. Red is definitely your colour Patricia 🌹❤️🌹

[@hunte2005]

When I saw THOSE male podcasters on your podcast, I can’t lie they really gave me the ick the way they spoke even then was really full of themselves.

[@THECARANESHA]

This is absolutely a video I needed.. bless you 🤗

[@KiKiCarr]

we’re putting on our lashes

[@sumayabrown]

You’re a breath of fresh air! Thank you!💕💕💕🙏🏾

[@annetanatswa4944]

thank you for this Patricia, love the encouraging words, also you look insanely gorgeous in red!

[@delindawilliams3935]

If someone is not contributing to your life or destroying your life, then they don't have an impact on it, therefore you can keep it moving. I tend to listen to men or women with encouragement for the family, or those who discover how to improve their role as daughter, wives, mother, or as a person. There is enough negativity in the world to last a lifetime. I love that dress, especially as an off-shoulder.💖💖

[@gemqueen1866]

Love that pov......

[@lovemarkoforiattah915]

I love you girl just smiling throughout, you just revived my energy this morning 🤩😘 thank you ❤

[@propertyprincessx]

Patricia thank you for not being scared to speak out

[@AGoodName-yb9iu]

Don't let the world distract you from your destiny. 100%

[@imi_xo]

Just gorgeous 🥹🤩. We are here for it Patricia! This reminds me of your old pep talks!! Yasssss

[@PoetMamas]

PATRICIA ! so good to see you mama… I’ve dipped out for a minute… truth. But not broken up with ya 🤣… glad you’ve come back with the vlogs. OG here be missing them… keep them coming natural funny self. Luv the bonnet last video, like back in first vlogs.. We love you girl. Now to catch up 😆 🎥 🍿 Made a new channel keeping life light and real. Nice chat sweetie. Hope to see you soon 🥰 sending you & girls big hugs Happy Thanksgiving 🍁

[@Justauri-asdfghjkl]

MAAM THE DRESS !!!!!!

[@dunianiful]

Thank you for speaking up and empowering women and doing it in your own unique way. I love a chat get ready video!

[@rainbowlyniscool]

Love you Patricia ❤❤❤

[@jstylezbyprofession]

You are giving the beauty Estelle. I love how you did your makeup. That dress is everything on your gorgeous skin tone.

[@Letriciasworld]

I’ve been watching a video since 2016, and I love the way you use your platform to empower other woman, especially black woman❤

[@Mitzymorris]

You look gorgeeeeeee. Great conversation. Wish I had seen you in NY fashion week

[@mariadanielle7474]

Someone needs to stitch the beginning on this video and make this go viral!!!! This is the new viral tic tok challenge…grwm to that!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@perisndirangu1018]

I believe when people are insecure either themselves .. they project on other So am in an age where am not bothered .. if you reach at that point life is wonderful

[@biolife3274]

A subject that desperately needs to be talked about!!!

[@cindyfern]

Yess there was this era of these group of men on a podcast (cough cough)that are not qualified to talk about women. Everyone grew up differently and they should make anyone feel bad on the way their parents brought them up.... for example: they said they wont ever marry some of us who was not "taught" on how to be a wife. That they prefer to be the provider and wife stays at home... wtf they act like we want them. We want the other men that are "high value" they need to speak for themselves who ain't even married... not to mention that one girl (Pearl) who borderline bully women and giving pick me energy

[@sierrashantee]

Well said darling! ❤

[@ingababy5196]

The dress looks amazing off the shoulder.

[@KourtKhronicles]

Thank you, beautiful!💅🏾✨💕

[@gloriousworld2467]

Thank you girl ❤

[@sibzism]

Patricia.... ❤ thank you for this one!!

[@homodeus8713]

Ladies keep your peace and walk in joy.

[@petagordon7047]

Yes to the Glam getting dressed up once a week !❤

[@josephinepoku1260]

I absolutely agree. Black women are who they are. They are not the same as some of these perceptions some people generally have. I know I definitely am not, so I don’t believe other black women friends fit this perception, being black women either. I see no reason why they should. All women a beautiful individuals who should be respected and appreciated.

[@matloulebogo6346]

I missed this kind of content 😍🥰🥰

[@not.your.sheshe]

I loooove this new videooos that you are doing!!!Much love from Spainx

[@PatriciaBright]

Yay! Thank you!

[@NeneBlessing]

Absolutely stunning

[@ThakaneBereng]

Black women we are the blueprint. This is why they are always bothered. We can do it all. Beauty and Brains.

[@bjarnetollevsen2163]

You render your male counterparts unnecessary, madam. And that's not unique to the black community, either.

[@femaligned]

Skin is looking good, Patricia!

[@vuksgitau]

Energy flows where attention goes.

[@chanettelaing4664]

I been over this for years great video! 😊

[@Amaje311]

Love the banter. Yes, more "Get ready with me!" You look amazing🎉.

[@Justonevideoplease]

Yesss let’s stop listening to them! Stop giving them attention!!!! We are the blueprint! They want our £! Our time and attention

[@chayo4537]

If we're the blueprint. That means they're never gonna leave us alone by defauly

[@koolkats9312]

Thank you Patricia for this video, much love xoxo

[@TeriKAyPea]

THANK YOU! LEAVE US ALONE! WE ARE MINDING OUR BUSINESS!

[@nyya0509]

Dang Pat, I gotta buy some pandora now 😂

[@demigreen6495]

Yay you posted 🎉❤❤❤

[@AdoseofAlana_]

My energy is elevating professionally and financially. That includes being more fiscally responsible. I was doing great last yr, went alittle off track this yr so trying to get back on track! I want to be in a position where a little splurge isn't going to kill me or make me feel guilty because I will have had a good amount of savings. Physically elevating. I've been getting in better shape and just want to stay in that path. My student loans are trying to defeat me and I don't wanna let it! Lastly I agree about those podcasters, I was definitely disappointed in shxtsngigs but also not surprised. I figured they would always keep their content lighthearted where this type of discussion would never have to come up(because honestly I could tell black women weren't their preference romantically - and that's fine) but all they had to do was stay out that discussion 😂 so now I can't even watch them because I can't unhear what they said. Other than them the only male podcasts I watch are usually music related or men I KNOW favor us(kevonstage and his affiliates, king of reads, Zach Campbell). Anything else I become privy to its because of a woman Podcaster calling them out.

[@Shaunese83]

That dress is amazing!

[@Youtube_Bee]

They were the only male podcast I followed and enjoyed. I unsubscribed because I love myself, my blackness and my black queens around me. That was so disappointing.

[@Uberchick464]

Gold and silver is 🔥 agreed.

[@anetriceclark3092]

I can say that this video came in at the right time!!!

[@taotaostrong]

I love love love this post! ❤

[@purpleeyessmith4151]

Where your energy goes attention flows!

[@otiswitherspoon314]

Heck yeah we want to see you every week get ready with me 🤗🥰 Beautiful Patricia darling .. when you started singing big smile 😁😁💖

[@leora_in_london]

I think if you love getting dressed up and showing us, then you should keep making these videos!! I am literally just here to eat what motha feeds us!!

[@qinisilephungula3071]

Loved this you look amazing as always

[@happycutebox]

omg! I remember when I got my face done by one of the mac staff. The liquid foundation was perfect! I have to go back to using their products again.

[@debbieadl]

The make up looks great, but you see when you lined your lips yh 🔥😮‍💨 I use the same lip liner and love it! You look gorg Patricia 🙌🏾

[@AndreaPortley]

Sister your dress is popping gorgeous!!! I need that dress for my upcoming Christmas extravaganza!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@mym8330]

I can't get use to the lace wigs. The glue is magnified on camera. It's better to wear wigs with bangs

[@Zwxxcggj]

It’s better to wear weaves….

[@ChicStrands]

Thank you for all these encouraging words, I surely appreciate you🤩🤩🤩🤩 come on queen!!!!!🤭😍😍😍😍

[@justinebailey5333]

You in the red is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@upnorth3173]

I honestly think it’s bcz no one is really paying attention or being bothered with some of these men (& turn to other men) the negative talk is attention seeking! If you are truly “supposedly” over a person, why can’t you let it go! And not be obsessed! It is a SURE SIGN of insecurity!