WHEN REALITY HITS THE NARCISSIST

[@KitKat-gk6ic]

🎀💕✨HI ANDREW! YOU ARE A GOD given Blessing! THANK you so so much for this video!!!🎀💕💕✨✨

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@PHOENIX-cc8wh]

@@KitKat-gk6ic I agree

[@Petra-ss6qr]

Yes ! They are i big joke😂 and they can't do it better than us . I just 😂 l 12:08

[@Angela-ph1ik]

Pop-up for pnn​@@Petra-ss6qr

[@ivonkwAn6443]

Yes,they are demons in a human body

[@Oceans-tz3jo]

The empty vessel was inhabited by

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Yes they are

[@knowthynarc]

Totally agree!

[@swanfeather6228]

I believe that electrical interferences when it was around literally , but I knew what was happening and took note.

[@hongtruong4576]

I’m convinced after witnessed the gleam in the ex eyes, the enlarge dark pupils accompanied the smirk. Yikes 😱

[@jillshahrak8957]

I don’t think the narc is capable of realizing how great we were. They can’t compute.

[@sarahgracetruth]

My Nex told me the other day that I’m “amazing.” -Shocked, but they know, and sadly they’ll hate you for it.

[@allison471]

No... they picked you because you are great! Everything they wish they could be.

[@TheFusedplug]

I think they do but regret turns to hate instantly because their regret would empower us and not them.

[@X7lilred81]

@@allison471❤

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

they forget about you when they get new supply.

[@smartsurvival2605]

The second they start making excuses you know they are cheating.

[@JulieShah-in7zz]

Oh yes !! Left my phone at work...of course....left my phone at home...of course.... don't come to see me today it's too far for you to travel on a work day and so it just went on... total BS. 🤷I'm soooo relieved he is no longer in my life with his lies and deceit. I hope you are healing 💜🙂

[@mikeyoung490]

100%

[@annlatham]

Ugh yes absolutely!

[@AwakenWorld999]

DO.NOT.ACCEPT.THE.HOOVER It really does set you back to square one. Lessons learned. Great video, fellow empath.

[@MsBrooklyn62]

did you? why?

[@AwakenWorld999]

@@MsBrooklyn62 I did, several times only to be set up for him to discard me in a cruel way; like it was planned.

[@arleneglassford4713]

@@AwakenWorld999I took mine back in November. We got in two fights in those 6 months. The second fight, he completely discarded me. I’m broken all over again

[@AwakenWorld999]

@@arleneglassford4713 I am so sorry. It hurts. I will pray for your healing and peace.

[@jacquibrown2968]

Very healing. I could get hoovered back so easy. I'm trying the no contact. Succeeding but It's painful.

[@leeleslie5518]

Narcissist live in fantasy🌏they create an alternate reality. That's repeat cycle is insanity. I been silence mode lately. Thank you for exposing those coward clowns 💯👏❤️

[@palapalak.8907]

I love it!!! Alternate reality

[@nicolajirving]

That sinister person who I refuse to call "mine" was a true fantasist. Did you know, he had a BMW and an Audi in a safe garage. Oh well, get the keys, let's go. No. The cars were a figment of his pea brain mind. I gave, I slaved, I'm hurt but I'm now making sense of the chaos and fabrications. I saw him laughing and smiling with the new supply, it stung. Next day, I saw him looking alone and sad on a park bench. I drove on by in my new car. I'm applying for a PhD to start next month.

[@nicolajirving]

Silence is powerful. 3 months no contact. He's not doing well from what I've heard. I'm leaving him to his imaginary life. We will beat these unsavoury entities 😅

[@marysisak2359]

I surprised myself the other day. I am a retired professor so I worked with a lot narcissists who have lost their supply because of becoming widowed (2), divorced (1) or lack of fawning students. I used to be prime supply. Something Dr. Ramani said the other day really hit home. She described the narcissistic mind as a paranoid storm. I immediately envisioned a sphere filled with thunder, lighting, high winds and rain. The other day I passed a retired professor I think was looking for supply. My immediate thought was "Do not pull me into your storm" and just kept walking. You made your bed now lie in it.

[@sunnyhoutx]

Do you recall the title of that Dr Ramani video?

[@marieeakin8534]

Exactly, good for you! 👍💥 🌈🎀😘

[@BWSRbushcraft]

Going Grey Rock, Isolating, No Contact = Shelter from their Toxic Storm...

[@karenlaos5849]

It was a horrible time for us in many different ways. We are lucky to get out of this storm. A sunny beach awaits!

[@selah5792]

Awesome phrase - love it - im gunna try that ❤

[@jswan312]

When I found my ex-narc’s secret Tinder profile, he looked like a different person, and the description included hobbies and interests that I hadn’t heard him mention before. They can create a new mask just like that. They have no center, just a bottomless pit of envy, greed, dissatisfaction, and a constant need for shiny new objects.

[@mimap275]

Omg 😮😢

[@mimap275]

Always reinventing themselves and acting

[@chazbickel4518]

Narcissists are soulless. ❤

[@kathleendubois7128]

Unrecognizable person. This is so hard to compute

[@SagittariusBabe87]

Wow, that's disturbing & interesting info you found out. Just show you how fake they are & pathetic💯

[@ingridarvidsson7597]

Others outside the family are more important for them.

[@jamesh8648]

Yes, I agree. They are constant supply. We are always last on their list or just another supply when they don't get it from them. It's sad. We have to make ourselves a priority. Blessings.

[@Alison-o9d]

It’s always others or they. Enough is enough is a good mantra.

[@437Colie]

True statement. Strangers are more important because they are searching for new supply. So mine ex narcissist would leave his young son (LA) at home all alone while he went to the bar to drink & vape with new supply. However he's a COP WITH A JOB & CANT PAY HIS MORTGAGE OR BILLS. But always has money for beer, vape & testosterone to shoot up with. Run from these people.

[@pattiannepascual]

The ones I know have little to no relationship with their family,except when they need something from them. Even if they don't "need", they just like manipulating them once in a while, to ensign they still have control over them.

[@kathylatta6540]

By being on this channel I finally feel like I wasn't crazy. I'm not crazy. I was with a crazy narcissist who just about took me down for the count. Andrew you make me realize that I really am a beautiful bright shining light and it feels so good. I've been free for 3 years and still need to listen to you so I can continue on the healing path. God bless you and all the people in this community

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜

[@nova144]

Same ❤

[@anadurao8995]

Was called crazy yesterday. I asked him to leave my house after flirting with a waitress at dinner and guess what? he left for good. 👌 stopped following me on insta in less than 3 hours lol, left a “i will love you forever” written with a permanent pen. Left 12 pair of jeans but took his shaving machine.. and yeah. Off he went to his new supply. Puff. 3 years. And i was “just” having the worst tantrum.

[@stephaniepiazzese2602]

@@anadurao8995you were delivered. ❤

[@jhavajoe3792]

Pushing 200 Thousand subscribers! ... and I'm not surprised! In my entire life, I've never had one person say: "You've saved my Life!" Andrew has dozens of those comments. That is the meaning of a true success! No one can ever take that away. Thank You, Andrew! Namaste🙏

[@marieeakin8534]

Yes,a blessing to all 👍❤👍❤👍 🌈🎀😘

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏☀️⛰️

[@chazbickel4518]

I really think your ability to help other people is the one thing that makes a narcissist envious more than anything else. They take that away from you during the relationship. Andrew is really making up for lost time. 😊 Keep pulling people up like you do Joe. Comments that come from the heart save lives too. ✌

[@chazbickel4518]

​@@marieeakin8534😊❤😊

[@chazbickel4518]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone😊😊😊😊😊

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

The only thing the narcissist is doing is monitoring me 24/7. That is truly sad and pathetic.

[@suesanders1169]

Exactly. I call it : " Being in a fish bowl." 😖 Every action scrutinized : either smart or stupid. 🙄 As Andrew says , in the beginning , you can do no wrong , fog : you can do nothing correctly.. 😖 EVIL, EVIL , AND MORE EVIL. 😔😔😔

[@sharondunphy6737]

I can relate to what you're saying myNarc of Husband doesn't give me 2 fuckin minutes to myself it's like he's afraid to leave me alone with anyone in the house if I'm talking to one of my sons he within earshot afraid he'll miss something

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

@@sharondunphy6737 damn Sharon that's sad.

[@viviancheek8044]

So fking annoying I could bath without him while showering sickening I had know space being a woman. Divorced never going back❤

[@Kluvuluv]

​@sharondunphy6737 I'm truly sorry you're going through this. I've been there. Narc is always in close proximity if you're on the phone. They also sneak up on you! I call thar NarcSpy!! Be strong. God bless you. ❤

[@flowergirl2day]

Their Abuse woke us up to Who We Really Are! Greatness! No going back,

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@RonnyMorgan-z7y]

INDEED.

[@Yayas_World29]

👏👏👏

[@uncleboslifelessons2448]

Now that’s the truth.

[@wickedwisdom6088]

Hello Andrew and Everyone! Stay Happy, Blessed, and Narc-Free!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜💯

[@MrYou-n4f]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneThe bible says that the devil comes to lie to see and destroy The narcissist I believe is demonically possessed under satanic influence "To lie deceive and destroy"

[@MrYou-n4f]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone6:27 The nar's sister destroyed my relationship.My finances , my opportunity to obtain licenses and education started a family and get a life It's almost as if they want to sabotage you so they can continue to have something to complain about while. Dropping drop kicking you down the staircase

[@MrYou-n4f]

6:55 I cooked a special meal that I went to school to learn how to cook for the narcissist that I used to care about Shaignor the dinner to go?Talk on the phone while it got cold every time showing disrespect The narcissist has no appreciation whatsoever and is ungrateful backstabbing and a liar User and an abuser If the narcissist cooked food from me and I rudely got up on the table to gossip on the phone for hours and hours on end every time she would have freaked out or beat her children to a pulp. It's funny how narcissist get caught by descent.Friends who dump them on their face when they find out how to disgusting the nar's sisters.While the narcissists can never understand why some people don't call the more visit them anymore

[@TheSeekeroftruth1]

The Narcissist does not and will never reflect, ever - not the true version of reality anyway. They must disassociate themselves from the truth, by believing, wholeheartedly. their own lies. You are not any more special than the next person to them, don't for a second think they valued or miss you at all, they don't.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@sunny1433]

So true, they start to “Hoover” when they get bored with the current source, 1st they send around they flying monkeys, to test the waters, and being an empathetic, naturally you stay away from talking negative about people & that is interpreted as a door ajar for the narcissist . Just happened to me over past 3 days. 1st he called a neighbor, saying how he misses me, blah, blah, blah. She tells him what’s been going on in my orbit (I had gotten a new puppy). The next day he calls me, no glasses on & misread the caller I’d & answered. He is elderly, moved supposedly against his will to California with his son & family. Wants to come back home to his house in RI in the spring. It’s all BS, he’s not the center of attention at his sons as his son is a narcissist himself & wants control of his pops wealth. He son managed to isolated him from his other children before making the move West. I won’t take any more of his calls & I will tell any flying monkeys that he’s not in my orbit & please respect my privacy going forward when he asks about me.

[@lindagodwin3680]

I am so glad that I don't have the narcissist in my life.🎉❤🎉😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌

[@alysiahite7086]

Me too😍

[@melissak.8385]

When I went to hospital needing 2 blood transfusions, he was mia for 2 weeks. I had chronic illnesses by now, after 6 years of the cycle of abuse. I needed to leave, but found I could'nt. It felt like dying, trapped in a web with cptsd, and emotional disregulation. Within the year, every crumb was removed- I was casually discarded. It's been a long journey which continues. I'm grateful to be free🙏 and for this community of support- and for answered prayers.❤️‍🔥 **Never break no contact.** ❤️‍🔥

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏💯

[@mandalovescatspandas1781]

When my first kid was born, he either slept in the hospital room or took off to play video games. When my second kid was born, he stayed at the hospital to argue with the doctors and nurses to such a degree that they called cps on us. I feel your pain ❤

[@lisacorrea6989]

❤

[@Svetlana13231]

Thank you so much Andy!yes, Narcissist are no beautiful bright shining light, they are black holes that will suck you into the oblivion to your destruction. Stay away from them while you can. Sometimes we make the mistakes to learn something from it. Don’t make the same mistake. Blessed be!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜💜🙏

[@kerryannmoor5908]

I hope you're right Andrew. He seems to be in seventh heaven with the new supply, whom he knew before me. During the discard, I was told that he wasn't sorry for me (finding out he'd cheated), that my cooking was lousy and that I was the worst lover he'd ever had. To this I replied "It took you 39 years to come to that conclusion!". What a fool.

[@marieeakin8534]

High Five! 👍👍👍 🌈🎀😘

[@chazbickel4518]

Narcissists always tell on themselves in the absolute strangest ways. Everything they say about other people is how they feel about themselves. They always use other people as the excuse for their bad behavior. Hurting people is how they try to keep you in that low vibrational state that they live every day in. I can put a dog poop in a box and wrap it in nice paper, and put a ribbon on it....but it's still a box of dog poop. Things are not always what they look like. ❤

[@sharoneh8929]

@@kerryannmoor5908 Now you're Free to live your best life🎈.

[@kathleendubois7128]

Don't even give that nonsense talk the time of day. I am so sorry for the abuse you experienced.

[@hongtruong4576]

It’s a tough road we all had to traveled. Andrew spoke from experiences and his heart that many of us can related to. You are not alone 💜💐 block him and focus on your healing

[@Mack-m1b]

You dont know what you got until its gone!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@MrYou-n4f]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneAnd no I success was the dirt in my eye

[@starr1592]

Joni Mitchell “yellow bus” 😊

[@SassyG17]

So true!!! That’s why I am in the middle of a divorce. Married and with him for 25 years. No contact works.

[@wickedwisdom6088]

Let us live for the beauty of our own reality, which is our LIVES completely Narc-Free! ❤♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@marieeakin8534]

Yes! 👍❤👍❤👍 🌈🎀😘

[@FernFokes-tu6vs]

Love n light. Thanks Andrew.🌹🌿

[@podhale3704]

Andrew you are star. I've court hearing on the 9th of August. Never again 😒. I have all for his disgusting abuses. Lost my business health on disability. He'll to him. Wisdom for me no more strangling. 🙏 for me.

[@sharonroberts6697]

Something I didn’t expect in this entire experience was the reflection on my history with others throughout my life. Seeing how I had been ‘trained’ throughout my life to be drawn to narcissistic abuse. I’m still processing all this newfound wisdom, but it really has already changed me in substantial ways. God is so good!

[@marieeakin8534]

Blessings along the healing path. It is a journey that unfolds much! Wishing you a healed, bright, & narc free future. 👍💥🙏 🌈🎀😘

[@DR3itmatters]

💯same! Stay💪💜🙏

[@stephaniepiazzese2602]

Yes me too,, since a little girl.

[@estelle5686]

I got a call one night from the narc just like this. I knew something was really wrong when he asked how I was. He then told me his life was terrible. I was shocked. The mask slipped. He was honest for one moment, and it wasn't pretty. He married for 20 years, got money, career, everything and couldn't stand his life and called me. Sad for him. Fortunate to have left decades before. Thanks, Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@elishatrue]

They contacted u decades later?! This is so disturbing! I'm coming up on 1 year anniversary of the restraining order & def plan on getting it extended if possible. I'm so confident he won't ever contact me again til I hear stories like yours. 😕

[@rat5077]

When they need something that they think you can supply, they'll test you as a prospective resource.

[@hongtruong4576]

I could be wrong, but I think he was working on your compassion and sympathy! They are great at playing victim. Almost a year for me and I’m still running for the hill 🏃🏻‍♀‍➡

[@hongtruong4576]

Almost a year for me🙏the ex narc showed up at my house because I blocked him. He looked like crap and made me an offer: The insurance company would pay you to stay with me. Free money, you don’t have to do anything! 🤪🤯 And was hurt because I blocked him. Better be safe then sorry, these people do NOT have shame nor guilt

[@beatlebarb64]

Us Empaths Rule!!!

[@fokker34]

I spent 6 months dating a single mother narc. Her own son told me 'she has demons' and he knew she had an alcohol problem. I thought alcohol was her only problem until I realized she fits the narc description and does every indicator that she is one to a T. Never allowed to have fun, always negative input, her way or the highway, I bought the wrong flowers, didn't pull the right weeds, the food wasn't perfect and the waitress was not polite enough. It never ended. Goal posts moving. I broke my ass and finances for her and her kids, and got nothing much for my efforts, just punishment for not doing enough. She walked in front of me in public, I never knew that was their thing until I researched a bit. I like my life, but I still think about her, and struggle to grasp how it was not real love that I felt for someone so hollow who obviously got off on treating me like crap. Serenity is mine!

[@JulieShah-in7zz]

Difficult life lesson, like no other...I hope you're well down the healing path as I am..... Andrew's channel put all the pieces together for me. All the very best to you 🙏😀

[@loriadcox1977]

OMG! I just started going through the EXACT, & I MEAN EXACTLY, the same thing! Last Monday night he was arrested! I'm never going back to that "demon"!! This is the most terrifying situation I've ever been in! Kinda reminds me of the saying, "It only happens in the movies!", but then you realize you're the main character \actor in that movie!! I'm sorry for what your (ex-) wife did to you & all that you endured! I hope when I get as far as you have come, that I'll be as you are today! Bless you & I hope & pray for peace & serenity upon both & everyone else whom has been through this! ❤

[@julieanne413]

“You don’t want to be anywhere near the narcissist if their cell phone dies” 🎯🎯🎯😂

[@konkylie-3000]

It happened some time ago, the face changed, he used his whole day to try to get it fixed, and had to get a new one. Looked like the lifeline was gone. SO werid to see it in action, The face and expression looked like another person.

[@rachelhopkins3855]

@@konkylie-3000pathetic

[@edwardshepherd5275]

Why they will ask to borrow yours and then just steal it from you. Then gas light you and be like I never touched your charger! You're crazy! Just because they don't want to spend five bucks for one!

[@MrNikhilgherwar]

I don't even care.

[@CoachHadassah]

OMG… you hit the nail on the head. I’m a caregiver by nature and profession. They needed me as the unpaid helper 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@susanbarker2139]

Always good to get a refresher and it does help

[@jamesjames5896]

I still find it hard to believe that someones mind could work like that. When you know how their mind works, the narcissist in your head starts to shrink and you realise they are the antithesis of how they present themselves superficially.

[@anneyoung2310]

9:20 the loop of lies and manipulations-the high narc. trait person said every one of those. Plus, "I'm sorry you see it that way." Brilliant, Andrew! "They're trapped in their tiny little pea brain." 😆"A petulant child in an adult body; they will never be accountable, change or grow." "yeah, you did, because that's what you do." 🤣😆 Keep bringing the hard truth! We need it.

[@MichaelClark-x9c]

This is happening to me right now.. in real time. Thank you Andrew 😊

[@gratefultobehere]

Holy moly Andrew you’re at 199K! This is such evidence right here of the bright shining light that has overcome and has shown so many of us the way out. ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ That’s one life making millions better. An inspiration and we are better for it. 🙏thank you Andrew. Great message ❤ 🌳

[@Lisa-p1m]

🎉Thank you Andrew! God bless you always!

[@patriziastella6564]

Thankyou Andrew for sharing, yes I am a person that when I love I love with all my heart but when getn used & abused by evil pathetic human being that's when it's time to walk away & close that chapter of my life. When that reality kicks in I hope he realises his lost a wonderful amazing woman.

[@camelotenglishtuition6394]

Thank you and God bless you for all you do Andrew.

[@BlueEyedKnitter]

For 30 years I made excuses for my narc husband’s strange behavior. Finally figured out what he is about 6 months ago. I’ve forgiven myself for not being aware when I was younger, and I’m now making plans for my life. Your videos are helping me put into words what I’ve experienced. Pray for me as I make my exit plan. It won’t be easy 🙏

[@christinachan3239]

Praying... Stay strong, Kathleen! The joy of the Lord is your strength.

[@marieeakin8534]

When reality hits they become severely vicious... not able to accept defeat or loss.They may experience narcissistic injury causing them to spiral into deeper delusions. Once new supply appears...it's game on once again & again, it's all they know! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

[@jhavajoe3792]

Aside from "viciousness, "I've met Overt Narcs on a "one to one" and usually they become another person. They apologize, etc., in a weak and shallow way.They need an "audience ( people around)," like actors that are invigorated on a stage. People like Narcs are so flippin' weird! I can't fix them, they'll have to change their own diapers. Not me, Baby!- "Baby" meaning them. 🍼🚼

[@marieeakin8534]

@jhavajoe3792 They are in their glory once they have an audience!!! They NEED attention & will turn into "whatever" for it. Right On Baby Cakes (not them) YOU! lol 😄☕

[@jhavajoe3792]

@@marieeakin8534 😆Touche!

[@chazbickel4518]

When reality hits the narcissist......dont be there. 😊✌❤

[@01968]

Yes. They are Sociopaths and Psychopaths

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

True. Reality hits hard and it’s the same for everyone. The narcissist does a nasty number on others but primarily on themselves. It’s destructive pattern of behaviour and it’s also self destructive. Narcisists are blind arrogant fools stuck in their alternate reality of pride and omnipotence. They have made idols of themselves.

[@cynthiahurlburt2819]

My prayer for our community is that when we put our head on the pillow each night , may we recall to oneself that we gave our best . You gave all you had to the relationship because you loved.❤❤❤ Again, thank you, Andrew!

[@christopherbrubaker2070]

22 likes Cynthia, great and important statement.

[@cynthialammon710]

Beautifully spoken comment. This is what I say & said to my husband. I love him dearly but he makes it impossible bc he loves Crack which makes him more evil, trying to destroy me. I'll miss him, but I need my own peace of mind. Like the nursery rhyme: when he was good, he was very, very good but when he was bad he was horrid!

[@shaneclinger5888]

I love your content man. It gives me hope! I'm living the biblical story of Job and to boot my significant other tried to destroy me! I'll get back up on my feet God as my witness and I'll walk again and even run!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌💯🙌☀️

[@hongtruong4576]

Yes! You will walk and run again! 🙏🙏🙏💜💐

[@JesuisLord]

Everything will be restored to you with interest , I found Jesus and he’s all I need now . God bless

[@purplehaze3604]

Love your spirit and unbreakable faith 🕊️🙌✝️

[@moncefmoumi2922]

Always Nice to hear you Andy…. Can’t never thank you enough my Brother ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💯🙏

[@Rugbymom]

Great message! So much deflection during the relationship. He is not facing the reality of divorce papers..it’s exhausting having had done everything while in the relationship and now having to do everything to end it… Have a great evening!

[@renaissance5300]

that will be happening to me soon peace and love to you

[@stephaniepiazzese2602]

Sometimes my life is a little lonely. But peaceful,,, many many narcs have “ appeared” and popped up from WHO KNOWS WHERE,, but thanks to this channel I’ve fought them Off. It has been exhausting. But liberating. I have my home/ animals/ the Lord King Jesus,, I am ok. I am free. ❤

[@Senoritagata-nu5te]

Applause for truth you can hear it in the the leaves!!!!!

[@annawallace3264]

my Narc Husband has been in Hospital a month, not eating but about 5 bites full, can barely talk, outlook not good. I didnt visit him the weekend, our grown kids one out of state have not been to visit him. He has lots of health issues and lays there sleeping and/or thinking. He had the perfect life he did what he wanted when he wanted how he wanted and if he didnt want to do anything he didnt but he continued his Narc activities.

[@mariaferstle8055]

The doctor said, "I'm sorry for your loss." The widow said, "I'm not."

[@annawallace3264]

@@mariaferstle8055My NarcHusband passed away a month ago. Hope he realized the lifetime damage he did to our kids and myself before he passed away. ..Probably not.

[@denisbelanger2288]

Andrew, you are truthfully amazing! I’ve listened to you for so long. Again, I never get tired. What you're saying is spot on. You are reaching every single vibe in me. Thank you and I am forever grateful to you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome.😌💜🙏🙌

[@SilentThundersnow]

Love your hair, Andrew! I really look forward to your daily videos. Thank you for doing them! 🫶

[@JulieShah-in7zz]

Wise words. I started to build a picture of him during the time we were together through the disturbing things he shared. His reality was distorted way beyond anything I could truly understand. All I can say is he was the most destructive individual that I have ever known and he will continue to decimate the life of others until he physically can't because of his alcohol addiction. I have a fulfilling life to live now doing what I love......he has no place in that and never did....healing 💜🌟

[@dorothynegri9924]

You’re so good. Thanks for another week of beautiful flowers, words of wisdom and great videos. You’re up to 199K subscribers! Enjoy the rest of your weekend and have a good week.

[@KinyuaMugambi]

Since i started watching your videos i have learnt alot, this way i gained knowledge on how to free myself from narcissistic abuse, and I'm almost through trauma bond, thank you and God bless you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏

[@100logic8]

My narc tried to wear a new mask and it fell off so quickly ….its almost like they can’t hide their true selves for too long lol

[@theearthauger]

Hi Andrew and Everyone. I'm not doing well as all. After 2 plus years, I let myself get sucked back in with the sibling narcissist. I can't sleep well. I'm hurt and very sad. The narcsib is taking it out on other family members. Because the narcsib haven't spoke to one another for a week. I've got to get myself under control. Having a hard time. I slipped and in that moment the narcsib got me real good. I feel like I'm back to square one. Everything you said is this video Andrew is true. Everything. Thank you for being so truthful. Hit me like a brick. The brick I needed to get hit with. My wakeup call. I need to heal up fast. I can't go through this again. But, I'm going to block the narcsib. The choice is clear. Fellow community family, I'm asking for prayers. And I want to personally thank each and everyone of you for sharing your stories as well. Thank you Andrew and Everyone 🇺🇲 🙏

[@paulineklostermann5877]

When you are the familie scapegoat it is very painful and traumatic expierience, because the famely follows the fals narrative of the narcessist. The scapegoat has to suffer a lot and is very lonley in his or her own famely. I know all about it and I wich you love and power from Holland ❤⁰

[@emmashaw8733]

Stay strong

[@theearthauger]

@@paulineklostermann5877 Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it. 🇺🇲

[@theearthauger]

@@emmashaw8733 Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it. I'm hanging on. 🇺🇲

[@richardhowe3951]

I hope you stay with us here. It is not easy to go through this. Your comments touch all of us and we feel for you. It is a reminder to us of where we were or are going through. For me to respond to this comment is proof that we all can get through this together. I have felt like I wanted to get back with ny narc many times. I just could not see life without them. Slowly, daybed day with the support of all the folks here I was able to get through. Wishing you a better day. You can get through this. Thanks for sharing!!

[@nicolemalka5149]

Im watching this...by myself....and realise Im knodding my head....in agreement that yes, Mr PeaBrain does spend his sad life juggling strangers online in isolation of eachother, monitoring who is getting too knowledgeable....who's getting smart, attending to multiple apps and sites.....using after work time to meet up with strangers and all the while thinking nobody knows he is still doing it all.

[@Benita438]

Thank you Andrew for another great video ❤ your the best

[@amandaserle3343]

Great video thanks Andrew he will never have the pleasure of being in my authentic genuine energy ever again. I flipped the script on the toxic demon. Got rid of him before he did me and left in complete silence no warning nothing and not without good reason.

[@johnbruce3224]

Thank you Andrew

[@blue.5058]

By far the worst (and most clueless) narcissists are the ones in your own family. They spend their time wrecking the lives of people and aren’t even cognizant of what they’ve done. I remember one time, while walking past my father. We weren’t speaking to each other over two years, due to his narc BS. He walks past me and says, “Hey… are YOU still angry with me?”. I thought “what a narcissist thing to say- he just figured this out now?” and didn’t even reply, as I didn’t feel like hearing his BS. This was HIS doing, not mine.

[@Officialjessicasanchez7]

Mine apologized so WELL. It was mind blowing that’s why I was so confused

[@BeTheLight624]

The narc I experienced would take the reality of a situation he didn’t like and rewrite the script into his bunch of lies that made him look better or worked for him in a different way and totally believe that as what really happened. His daughter separately confronted him on doing this, as had I. So I’m not positive he would think I was the one who got away. I totally believe he did not know what he had in me, and from what I’ve seen I don’t think he could do any better. Frankly, I don’t care what he thinks and I don’t want to know what he thinks. I am in the process of trying to remove any thought or memory of him from my mind 🚫 Total Narcectomy 🚫

[@OfficialWelshWoman8309]

Narcectomy! Like this. I'm booking in for my pre-op! ❤

[@julianterris]

"Because that's what you do" Thank you, Andrew!

[@TheTarotDJ333]

Thanks Andrew! Great info! Love the background!✨️🙌

[@palapalak.8907]

You are sooo funny! So on point! I just got a new animal. New kitty rescued from a hoarder situation!!! All my energy and focus is on her. Humans suck. Pets give unconditional love. Narcs will never change.

[@michaelmorrison6540]

Thank you for your kind heart by rescuing an innocent kitty. I hope that the two of you have a long and loving relationship. 🥲

[@paulineklostermann5877]

That is very nice pets gives a lot of friendship, i have my dog ❤

[@OfficialWelshWoman8309]

How lovely! I think Dr's should prescribe pets instead of anti d's. I love my dogs, they are everything! ❤❤❤

[@bonnietoups2446]

No, just some humans suck. You don’t suck, you rescued a kitty!👍😘👏🏻

[@Beawil646]

Thank you so much for the knowledge you provide..I’m so grateful to have received this information 30 years of a whirlwind nightmare..im healing slowly

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@madelineconner6581]

Andrew, I am very grateful to you for providing this information and encouragement. Thank you for helping us to keep our "bright shining light".

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌⛰️

[@mathews0618]

They do apologize. They can word them perfectly.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@sarahyip2825]

Word perfect but emotionless and empty. The apology is just to align back to the self identity they have crafted and honed. Mere touch up for self interests. Change-the hard work in any genuine relationship-is never considered. Don't even hope for a second.

[@mathews0618]

@sarahyip2825 the apology was mirroring you and how you apologize. Its fake, manipulative and abusive

[@hannastrack4310]

when the sh..hits the fan game over

[@JasonJones-x5e]

Great message Andrew thank you for sharing.🐛🦋🐛🦋

[@manriqul]

😳 EXACTLY!! Call this thang OUT!!!

[@marshat.ordureau3121]

GOOD Monday morning Andrew🌿🌿🌿💯🇫🇷🌱🌱🌿You are the TRUTH Andrew!! Thank you for your Clarity of these Narc/ Vampiers!! We are Bright SHINING LIGHTS🤗🤗🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟THE light over powers their Darkness!! God Bless you too,, Andrew,🤗🌟💯🙏

[@dawnharvey7840]

Andrew, I'm nearly 5 years free and I still watch your brilliant videos because it's a back up of everything I feel, have felt, have seen, now see and have gone from what the hell to ah now I understand! Thank you so much for your continued love and wisdom. You have touched so many people far and wide and we all owe you a hug! That's a lot of hugs! Looking forward to the next one and thank you again ❤

[@kellieantoinette4183]

Your content has been truly instrumental and getting me through!

[@Dogtraining1784]

I've been listening to these videos since I broke up with the narc 4 days ago. Very fresh but what I've learned since that day is im happy I saw it now until years later. I now learned what I need to look for in any man going forward and what all the flags are.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜

[@Steve-im8iz]

Wow, most accurate and concise video by anyone to date. I’m not out yet and struggling as a 55 year old man and business owner who is about to lose a lifetime of effort/energy for my freedom. I am the guy you describe.

[@normacarter3491]

Great message and advise. You perfectly described my narcissistic sister. Thanks for your guidance and insight into this personality disorder and how to understand and react.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏🙌💜

[@tathe3786]

Thx Andrew, you are a bright shining light! I keep on walking with Jesus aka with love. The narcs walk in the dark of the nothingness, blinded by the fake light of money, fame and the power of control! I which everybody will see the light of love and will feel the warmth of the embrace of this loving energy. ❤

[@EmmaPeacock-cc9fl]

Your comment Andrew about the narcissist copying and pasting the same text and sending it to a group of people really hit home. I found out by chance that my narcissist has been doing this when I spoke to a friend and he told me about a text he had received from her. He read it out to me and it was EXACTLY the same one I had received. You are so intuitive Andrew and I thank you every day for confirming that I am not crazy; she just tried to make me feel like I was. ❤

[@marypalmer1062]

You've got troubles, you've got worries, you've got wounds to bind....when I woke up this morning.

[@Stellamcpehrson]

You are soooo good!!! So excactly spot on

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜

[@lpereira7866]

If not now, when? Those were the most powerful words I heard at a critical, life altering time…. Alone in my dumpy hotel room, I had escaped to to literally save my life…. You said those words over and over…. And they gave me great strength to keep breathing. Keep going. Keep getting up, go to work. I was truly scared to death and spent weeks unable to eat, and shaking out of fear, but your words “if not now, when?” encouraged me SO much! 💕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️

[@angelacooper538]

Thank you for this video ! You’re helping so many people. This is what I needed to hear.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜💯😌

[@butterflyeffect8816]

You are glowing Andrew like the bright shining light that you are. Thank you for your courage, your truth and your lived experiences. I am truly grateful for the learnings and relatable content. Healing, recognition, clarity from this relived trauma over and over again has helped me break this cycle of abuse more so than just severing people for my own sanity, peace and quiet. What felt innate helped me explore my own attachment style and how I act, react to certain situations and people. I have a lot of childhood wounds which relates to the trauma bonds that I have. I have a lot of love to give. I am love and have become love, but I have learnt that I can’t share that joy with everyone. Namaste ❤

[@mindfulpeace8060]

Thank you for this reminder...i was beginming to sucumb to defeat.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜

[@Mini-Moon]

Today today is there reality, I pray for these type of humans and I Thank God for the experiences

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜

[@fonzobooker7998]

All praise is do to Allmighty God

[@liammiles5218]

Hey Andrew 👋 You always express that you love us all at the end of your videos and I believe you. That’s why I’d like to say that I love you as well. As a female at the age of 55 I can honestly say that the narcissistic situation I’ve been through has been the most painful and difficult thing I’ve ever experienced in my life. Life changing. I thought I’d die so many times, and it was like a death. I loved this person so wholeheartedly I’d do anything for him to my own detriment. But as bad as it’s been I’m so grateful to begin to truely understand that yes I am a beautiful bright shining light. I always have been and always will be. For a period of time it was taken from me and it changed me in ways I don’t fully understand, (yes I guess it was the narcissistic fog) but the narcissistic abuse truely took its hold on me. I’ve been learning that this is the biggest lesson I’ve ever had to learn, and as painful as it’s been I’m truely grateful that I’m not a narcissist. When you explained the narcs thought processes about what they are thinking about and how they constantly need to do things to people to keep surviving I thought how exhausting and awful it must be to keep up with so many lies and so much deceit, planning, fakeness, traitorous, betrayal and back stabbing. What they do to our emotional, mental, physical, financial state is so horrific but at least I’m at peace with the fact that I was kind and giving and compassionate, and I will never ever be like the narc that takes takes takes quite happily and utterly destroying lives with no remorse and zero accountability for what they’ve done. I think for us as empaths it could never even cross our minds to think that way, to manipulate and control and destroy anyone or anything for their own gain and think it’s ok. I’ve been out and free for 15months and I’ve not fully healed yet and I don’t know if I ever will fully or want to fully heal because I don’t ever want to forget what was done so it never happens again. Day by day I’m slowly feeling better about myself and thanks to people like you I’ve learnt so much. I hope that makes sense. What a thing to go through but I am strangely beginning to accept and understand that for me it’s been the biggest experience to learn to love and protect my precious, pure, loving and giving heart. We are special but a scripture comes to mind about “not casting pearls before swines” to be vigilant in knowing that not everyone has our best interests at heart but we should…and really remember to use our gift of discernment to keep ourselves safe from wolves in sheep’s clothing. I hope we all continue to learn to love ourselves with compassion and gratitude for who we are x I want this for all of us. Love you Andrew and thanks for your everyday efforts with teaching us and for validating us. I know you do it with love and I know you have walked the path xo

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😌💯🙏🙌

[@JenniferBoryca]

Love you andrew your knowledge and GOD SAVED MY LIFE

[@DR3itmatters]

💯💯💯same stay💪🫂💜🙏

[@marcimccann1109]

Wow! great video! That is exactly what I needed to hear today! What a precious brother and torch bearer you are! You are lighting the way for those of us coming out of the darkness of abuse trying to figure out what happened. Thank you so much for this insightful content. Blessings of peace to you! ❤

[@eleanorpenrose875]

Andrew, You have been thee most educational-person at the very beginning of moving OUT of a bad bad situation, Thank You, 4 the most precious words, You, gave me words 4 strengt h to know JESUS gives strength, You're so confident an makes a hurt understandable, and helps build we, back to a more normal life...

[@kelseymiles3388]

Think about that for a minute. Lol😂. Then they throw you out like a sheet of paper on the freeway. lol I’m happy that I’m moving into a happier space. More than a year and a half later but we all heal in our own time. Thank you for helping with the tools and the affirmations.

[@jhavajoe3792]

"Our own Time." Those words sound re-affirming and warm!👍

[@Lbo-te4gu]

Thank you Andrew! I am in the ending of a toxic (narc) relationship. Feels good when you hear others have been through the same and come out on top. Thank you again, namaste.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏🙌

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Excellent. 👍❤️🙏👍

[@luiscaceres-qk4yk]

You are a very wise man god bless!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@RedVelvet236]

Thank you, Andrew for those beautiful words😊⚘️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@carmelmalone-quane7021]

They will never apologize, thank you for this video. I am almost healed, I have huge trust issues, mainly with myself and trusting the people I attract.

[@collegegirl201418]

thanks andrew love the background😊🥹

[@EricaManley-v8i]

This is exactly what im going thru with my mother, im ready to let go. 🙏🏼

[@MM-um3dq]

May God always bless you and peace be upon you.❤ And big respect. Love your videos

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..🙏😌💜

[@andymck6323]

Thank you for the Wisdom Andy from an enlightend empath

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💯

[@Kluvuluv]

Excellent and accurate information about Narcs!!! Thank you for sharing!!

[@Samantha-il4hd]

Hi Andrew. You have helped me so much your video really helped me. ❤❤❤ Everything you said is so true. ❤❤❤