When The Baby Mama And Step Mom Become Besties

[@lihlemsutfu7166]

That part about allowing people to feel what they feel the whole spectrum of emotions needs to be validated for one to ultimately move on completely healed. What an emotionally intelligent women it's rare to encounter people who are genuinely emotionally aware. That child is really lucky to have these two in her life she will definitely grow up to be an amazing human being

[@kesegokgagodi4425]

God had to author this story in a way that He only gets the glory at the end. 🙌🙌🙌Because there is no way human strength and human wisdom could have overcame all of that! Beautiful testimony. I hope and believe that it has transformed many out there🥰😇

[@annahshongwe]

The level of maturity in these ladies, is out of this world. God is really good.

[@ntemantholi8609]

I like the fact that they refer a lot to holly spirit than themselves

[@lindaubuhlemenzi5087]

The amount or the level of wisdom is beyond comprehension. Wow❤️🥺

[@celimpilomthethwa2014]

We all can have kuthi life would be if we did I guess😂😂

[@teejaymdake1934]

Lalela!

[@Veenjongwe]

It's not got its called the wall when you hit it u gon know

[@tumimathebula7752]

This is the most wholesome conversation on parenting that I've heard. I love that it validates every individual's point of view and their emotions. I like that it also shows that to get any good fruit, you must be intentional about doing the work of planting and watering the seed. Nourish it to life. The ladies are so matured, a complete flip on the picture we have in their type of situation

[@celimpilomthethwa2014]

These are kind of podcast that should trend

[@maitumeloramonkga8182]

The way Lunga calls her Our daughter without fail, the wisdom and love that these two have is really beautiful. This calls for some self introspection

[@hlengiwedube1163]

I’m honestly shocked and impressed by the way they have navigated their blended family arrangement. It’s not often you see such a healthy dynamic in blended families, and their maturity and open communication truly stand out. This kind of relationship is so rare and should definitely be celebrated! It’s inspiring to hear how you all work together for the well-being of the children involved. Kudos to them for setting such a positive example!

[@gracenobadula2044]

The host is so beautiful my Gosh, I love everything about her including her voice❤

[@REPURPOSEDSD]

She is so beautiful. She radiates from the inside ❤

[@ZeeInterpretationz]

This was so matured and awesome to watch. Moreover as a Christian what it means to really forgive. I struggle with forgiveness so much. I took a page from these women's wisdom.

[@GKubheka]

Yoh 😮😮😮 this episode. Yerrr Thandi you fetched us shame 😢😂. You called us to a higher level of taking accountability

[@khethiwemethula4977]

I felt attacked 😅 but it's good for us.

[@teejaymdake1934]

Yeyi😂. Fetched! Lol

[@REPURPOSEDSD]

Askies 😂 I promise I won't stop😂

[@portiasibandar4067]

This has to be one of the best episode ive watched here thus far......Goes to show what the Holly Spirit can do to ones heart. I love it for you ladies

[@MakgolowabathoTheDoula]

Right❤❤❤❤

[@bonolokambai8814]

@@portiasibandar4067 me too...i watched it twice

[@vuyimamaimane2297]

Why am I crying??? The maturity of these ladies, blows my mind, but why am I crying??? Hhmmmm

[@greatnessmwelase723]

Me & u both😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

Relationships are work-in-progress! Wholesomeness

[@t_squared24]

The part about Aus' Lunga having a destiny and assignment from God and she couldn't allow how she feels prevent her from obeying God really touched me. We live in a time where there are standards that must be met by prospective husbands for us to be willing to marry them. And we require a certain level of perfection from them, most likely a level of perfection we think we possess. But marriage, which should strive to be like the one between Christ and the church, doesn't consider all that. Christ was perfect, but we, the church are not. Despite our lack of perfection, Christ qualified us to be recipients of his love and bride, because that was his assignment, to unite the church and the Father through the Son. And so, the same grace of forgiveness and acceptance that was given to us must be extended to others. So, thank you so much for the pearls of wisdom.

[@lungamthembu5815]

"We have the full spectrum of emotions for a reason. If it's time to be bitter, be bitter, don't rush to be happy..... O'cos I'm gonna be bitter, it's painful. " I felt that

[@ntemantholi8609]

This podcast has become a place of healing/self-awarenes/ self discovering/ self - empowerment. This is just a growth (uncomfortable truth)❤❤❤

[@bonolokambai8814]

Ijooooo....this episode was a whole master class. THANK YOU for teaching us tlheng bathong.

[@MotherElephant7]

These two women put in a lot of work, each in their own way to make things work. I can’t help but wonder if the man held himself accountable… was he just taking a backseat? Because I think his intervention could have eased the heartache

[@FezekaRayi]

There are lot of lessons to learn. Healing is a process and we are different. At the end of the day, we should strive for harmony.

[@MahasheS]

Thandi is so intellegent and well articulated and so is Lunga.

[@annahshongwe]

@@MahasheS ka setswana re re ba butswitse. Thuto is very important bathong, you can see it in these ladies.

[@mulaloratsiku6533]

They look at each other with so much love like siblings. I like them ❤❤❤

[@bonolokambai8814]

@@mulaloratsiku6533 right? There is a padt towards the end where she said when she takes her kids for the movies she knows it will be for all 8 kids between them. It's amazing what love can do.

[@smangalisobuthelezi3766]

To be fair, he should have just married both of them, they chose each other😊

[@ThobekaNomfundoMthembu]

The love and respect they have for each other is so amazing, no interjections and how one attentively listen to the other when she speaks. ❤❤

[@neombeje724]

Powerful - yazi Women are powerful . This is the level of maturity we need . I made notes for myself

[@sthembilethanjekwayo_za]

"..the principles that make for harmony are universal..." .."bars" as Given would say. Thandi batung, wisdom beyond mama.

[@OrtheP]

What an incredible episode. Baby mamas are always painted with a bad brush. I really wish this for most parents for the benefit of their children.

[@pfanolusunzi4331]

i love the realisation that " if i created that mess it means i can create " OMG we have that ... we are create , we can create peace and love .. i love them

[@LwaziGwegwana]

I see God through these women 🙌🏽

[@fionasmith6686]

Please bring men who also offer this much grace to a partner who messsed up this way 😮

[@KNathi1]

😅 if they exist

[@fionasmith6686]

@@KNathi1 I doubt but you never know 😂😂

[@kitsontuli2713]

😂😂😂 Yoh Fiona,

[@fionasmith6686]

@@kitsontuli2713 like serious. We need representation on both sides. It can't be that women forgive cheating, even moreover so like these women and men do not at all 😭

[@TumiMS]

You will wait quite a while.

[@feelomainmaduma8361]

Wisdom on another level, I have never been so glued to the screen with such serious conversations... Shout out to you ladies, you're emotionally intelligent. Has been the best show I have watched so far, touching along the way. Amen definitely sharing...

[@sallykenene5876]

Wow.......i respect this two beautiful ladies. You have been graced in this area.Iam so healed...

[@nolusindisomshumpela7183]

Would love to know more about your guest background, how they grew up, their education background, or what they are currently doing .so much grace. I was literally crying during this conversation. Beautiful ❤... The power of forgiveness .love them.

[@mphotoniamosotho3545]

My Heart Is Beaming With Pride And Joy For Thandi And Lunga - I Love There Story Because It's My Reality 💃🏾💃🏾 WE ARE RAISING LOVED KIDS, INTENTIONALLY SO!! 🙌🏾❤️

[@nyamane]

"Our daughter"🥰

[@MphoMahlanguFela]

The foundation of this friendship may have been difficult, but I think it is working out now because the baby daddy is also somewhat now an honourable man... He has not made it difficult or uncomfortable through his interactions/actions with Thandi to be a part of their lives.... They have a safe space not only for their child but for Thandi too.

[@jedidiahgodsbeloved6605]

Such a powerful conversation for women not only for co parenting but relationships in general .

[@chumajola2511]

What a beautiful episode with so much wisdom and so many key points. The holy spirit is the major starring in this situation. I felt that God was affirming me about the conversations we have, the plan He has for my life and the beauty and joy of allowing God’s plan and vision for our lives to manifest. Yho ❤ thanks ladies. I am feeling so much hope and happiness from watching this. Key points : 1. When we pray, we ask God to intervene and the we want things to unfold (be resolved) quickly. It took 7 years to get there. 2. Always allow your character to speak for itself, do not conform to the standards of other people. 3. We invite people into our lives and we do not create safe spaces for them to be in our lives, and then we blame them for being insecure. Man! There were many powerful points in this episode. ❤ thank you.

[@iampoetminor]

These two women are so powerful and extraordinary. This interview was actually a Master Class on forgiveness, love and God's spiritual lessons. I will have to watch again and take notes because these women words of TRUTH can be applied to my life at any time. Thank you so much for posting!

[@maliileramashamole2004]

This is such an empowering conversation. Made me so emotional. Thank you ladies.

[@baatsebamotlhale4766]

I love you ladies. God is intentional indeed.

[@khomotsosedibe1224]

May God help us to recreate our lives and heal our traumas so we cannot bleed on our children. And we can give them(our children) a life they can look back on and be proud of ❤ This level of respect,honour, maturity and godly love i truly desire for the journey i am curently on.

[@masedimoshe2969]

So much self awareness. My goodness. I've had the biggest grin on my face the whole hour. Lovely interview

[@TumiMS]

My word! Thandi is the epitome of healing! Her accountability, honesty, self-awareness is a beautiful sight 😍

[@khethiwemethula4977]

Healing takes time, I like the fact that they highlighted ukuthi it didn't just get here overnight, it took time. My take aways: Being intentional about parenting. Do the internal work, heal. Go through the process. Keep the main thing the main thing i.e. the well-being of the child.

[@nancynancymayekiso3110]

The chills that i got from watching this episode. So much widsom and love.❤

[@masechabamakola4181]

Wow! This episode consumed me. Wow! I went through so many emotions. I am still in awe. Thank you TCC for bringing such stories to us.

[@phutimojela]

Phew! Such maturity, self aware and emotional intelligence from the ladies 🥹I love how they love each other and it’s evident that they’ve done the work.

[@tsengiwewanga882]

Where was Given today? Would have loved to hear his views and questions. He always brings another perspective. Otherwise great conversation. As someone who comes from a blended family, I love the maturity of these two ladies.

[@LM-he7eb]

Maybe he wasn't MIC'ed up, as there were 2 guests

[@REPURPOSEDSD]

He was present. He was the "bars" wingman😂

[@sinenhlanhlamlotshwa2133]

WOW.. This is amazing... I just received some healing just for listing..

[@millicentmankgonengmahlaba7844]

Validate people's emotions...don't fast track the process but don't sit in it.

[@MahasheS]

I am so glad that I watched this episode.

[@hillfordthamaga5607]

My beautiful Ursula. I like your laughter everyday. You so beautiful Ursula.

[@millicentmankgonengmahlaba7844]

"We brand people incorrectly and slander them"

[@tsebomahao4229]

Sho, I wish I could like this video a million times. How profound. This is next level emotional intelligence.

[@Afrosoil11]

Beautiful enlightened conversation, I don't have kids but learned a lot. Thandi is a such wise woman

[@zamaguma99]

Above all else, these women are mature ❤

[@latungalamutilifa1221]

You create what you want ❤ This is beautiful, love the sisterhood. They were healing each other

[@margaretzevute]

What a beautiful story that just goes to show the power that unity brings. The episode has also really inspired me to continue trying to be intentional with my relationship with JESUS because the kind of wisdom that these beautiful ladies carry is definitely wisdom that can only come from GOD. What a beautiful episode!!🌻

[@bulelwamboyi2206]

TCC always brings a different perspective on topics...thank you ❤

[@faithtsotetsi6624]

Aaaaah…..🙌🏾😭TCC fam. The Aha moments I got from this episode 😭😭😭. Iyoh the emotional awareness the two women have and I connected with them on the healing journey part of it. I think this episode doesn’t only speak to blended family relationships only but family relationships, friendships relationships, and any other forms of relationships and how we can decide to create the type of relationships we want for ourselves through honesty with others and ourselves, true intentions and consideration also offering grace to those who’ve betrayed us. Definitely sharing this episode my friends. Thank you for this episode 🙏🏾🙌🏾😭

[@MissSasa9]

I completely agree with you! The lessons learnt can apply in every type of relationship.

[@sihlesixaso985]

This actually made me realize we have such really matured people in this world & it’s beautiful to see honestly.

[@leratotsotetsi6968]

This story gives God all the glory. I commend the ladies for their maturity and wisdom, their relationship is genuine because they took time to heal and were intentional. Lovely episode 💐

[@rudairomunjoma5815]

Beautiful story, it shows how God can change a person and work on a person's heart in a subtle way and in his timing. I have really learnt a lot from these 2 women

[@langelihlenyuswa5920]

😍 can’t wait to devour this ep in this cozy weather! Thank you

[@e-commercejunkie2779]

This was a wholesome episode and a much needed conversation. Let’s stop hurting our children and heal from our hurts so that we raise a better generation. Thank you TCC for this you are doing the Lords work❤

[@lillybianca4185]

The guy is really Blessed to have these ladies in his life. I hope he extends the same love and respect to them❤❤

[@kearam2012]

I wish they could talk about other kids from both sides. How those kids are being incorporated into the big beautiful picture! Otherwse, their story is amazing. Wish women, especially married women could learn a lesson or 2 from their story.

[@Leigh-y8q]

I watched this twice hle , thank you ladies for sharing so much wisdom. Your testimonies can save a lot of broken families. 😍

[@pamelamashaba4515]

So much maturity and wisdom flowing on this conversation ❤😊

[@nwabisapbodlo3246]

Wow thank you ladies for sharing your story. So amazing, love it 🤌🏽❤️

[@sheronsnethembancube2693]

Thank you ladies, I think I am confirmed that I am ok in giving someone grace even if there's moments that hurt at some point. Don't brand the person because of an incident. There's other aspects of the person, wow, I'm in awe

[@moketelitelu1685]

This episode was truly exceptional! It touched on so many important topics, from co-parenting to Christianity, humanity, and more. The two ladies have a remarkable ability to share their wisdom and experiences in a way that's both relatable and inspiring. Thank you for this powerful sermon on life in general.

[@zodwaphindile4601]

🥺I love this, it's really not easy to be this Highly Emotionally aware of yourself... Both of these ladies have a Very high EQ!🔥❤️🤌🏽

[@SfaneleThuma]

What a beautiful episode ❤

[@teejaymdake1934]

Jesus is ALWAYS enough in every situation if you choose to obey him. All things work together for good for those who love the Lord and are called according to his purpose. Sis Lunga and Sis Thandi were called to change the narative and my, my, my did they yield to God's instruction! Yu!

[@millicentmankgonengmahlaba7844]

The principles that make for harmony are universal.

[@nokuthulantombenhle7379]

Wat a great intro😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉 Namhlanje siyaxoxa😂❤Bonga's confidence

[@MakgolowabathoTheDoula]

This episode really, really blessed me 🎉🎉🎉. I wish new parents in blended families get to this. It teaches us a lot about accountability and learning to move . Seeing the beauty in spite of how all happened ❤️

[@jeansophia2092]

I have grown so much from this.❤

[@sibo8290]

Oh, when a wife loves your child like her own. It's beautiful

[@DigsWigs2022]

The depth of wisdom here is unmatched!!! Yo!

[@dudumalapane4880]

I had goosebumps watching this episode. My husband stumbled across it and the topic caught his attention. I loved everything about it and want the two ladies contact details for my High Tea. The emotional intelligence ❤❤❤ wow

[@nkhen_c357]

Inbox the host

[@katlegorapatsa7035]

This is the most beautiful episode

[@busizwane2041]

This is beautiful, truly empowering. God bless you ladies.

[@zethumhayise7073]

This podcast was so healing ❤❤ yuuuuh 🙌

[@puseletsomaremanyane712]

So much wisdom. Yho... This got me crying ❤

[@MahasheS]

"He walked into a well oiled co parenting machine"

[@mphotoniamosotho3545]

Very Important, Am At A Stage Where The Machine Is So Well Oiled That I'm Scared For Us Bringing In Someone New😂😂 Because Are Worked And Are Still Working 🤭🙃

[@REPURPOSEDSD]

​@mphotoniamosotho3545 I love this for you and your family. 🎉

[@Sprugs]

Beautiful beautiful conversation , I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation.

[@Vince_78]

Wow...imagine having a father and a stepfather,a mother and a stepmother 😊amazingly beautiful

[@LumzM]

I have watched these ladies on another podcast (Purpose with pain) and I am wowed every time. What a special pair! Thank you for yet again a beautiful episode.

[@MissSasa9]

Same! I watched them on Tiisetso's channel and yet I feel like I'm watching them for the first time. The nuggets 🤯

[@sithembilengccobo]

Honesty and transparency 👏🏼🔥

[@ntombifuthitshabalala3208]

What a beautiful episode.

[@NqobileShabane]

Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation❤. Very insightful

[@yayancayiyana2015]

An incredible family

[@BamanyeAnderson]

Healing takes time❤God is intentionally.

[@PASSIETRADINGSOLLUTIONS]

Wise women 🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️

[@MissSasa9]

I watched their story on another podcast 2 months ago and I was already in awe then. Today, I have taken even more nuggets from Thandi and Lunga. Thandi's self-awareness tho!!! 😭😭😭 She has really done the work yoh 🥺 As for Lunga, her graceful nature is really admirable, she is beautiful inside and out.

[@matladithobejane4285]

That man doesn’t deserve both of them

[@beautifulblessed5445]

Atleast babymama keft, omunye thought she won n got married. Abo i will not leave my home for another woman

[@mirjamingo]

Wow 🤩… just fascinating how graceful and emotional intelligent these ladies are.. this episode just might have been the validation I needed.. really really mind blowin… In the same breath I can’t help but wonder- if the situation would have been handled differently had the roles been reversed .. so my thinking is (hypothetically speaking) had Lunga been the one that stepped out of the relationship and say the guy she “cheated with” approached the boyfriend (soon to be husband) about them dating the same lady etc etc;, it doesn’t have to have ended in pregnancy or co-parenting, but still would the relationship continue and end in marriage and realization of lack of a better word “it’s bigger than me, and this is my destiny nonetheless “. Would the boyfriend be given the same advice Lunga was given or would it have been different I rumbled on a bit but I hope it makes sense 😅

[@Incognito-s3l]

Beautiful episode ❤❤

[@mulaloratsiku6533]

This is a very beautiful episode. ❤❤❤

[@sinazolindani7241]

Men are given so much grace

[@nyashamahleko7007]

YES If this where the other way around The Husbands would divorce his wife,without any doubt,but hey we live in a Patriarchy. Man can do whatever their want.

[@ScissorN]

😂 we even lie and say its God