Confrontation Is Healthier Than The Silent Treatment

[@NathiEMkhize]

True wisdom is knowing when to use the sword and when to use the feather. Sometimes, strength means taking decisive action, standing firm, and setting boundaries. Other times, it’s about showing compassion, patience, and gentleness. Real strength lies in recognizing which approach will lead to the best outcome in each situation. Using the feather doesn’t mean one is soft-it means they’re strong enough to choose a gentler path when it’s needed. Just like everything in life, Balance is KEY!!!

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I just loooove this channel. 🤩😇 Always feels like I am hanging with my people!

[@thobekamagubane1004]

Also to consider…Confrontation is healthy if the environment is conducive.

[@kabeloManare-nq6dm]

I would definitely love a continuation on that last conversation on how ladies can show respect towards their partners, because I feel like respect is a big thing for men.💯

[@ntandoyenkosi5741]

I love this space so much! Always consuming wisdom

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I can’t stop watching your shows. Very insightful and a treat to my eyes… ❤😘

[@MaleratoLebitsa]

You just described me Ursula, but could not put it to words. And it is so annoying that people cant see that yoh are actually fed up and angry but at the same time scared to make that confrontation

[@Reigms]

I speak up when im fed up.. Feeling like bjanong ke a tlwaelwa and They are being comfortable with me not speak up and they taking advantage.. I do speak up but most of the times i just feel like i dont have the energy and i choose peace but i dont want them to think it's okay doing me like that

[@kayakazikhaya7442]

Ohh wow this topic is on fire 🔥

[@yy.unlimited]

5:20 I always feel this way too Ursula, I even let people move with this perception of me being "moody" mxm

[@elizabethliz5449]

Shuuuuuuu Given 😮‍💨 no maan wow what an angel

[@motshewamakhafola9486]

We women sometimes can be toxic we want a sensitive man then in the long run in an argument we'll be telling the same man that he needs to stop acting like a woman and man up... We have a long way to go

[@vusmuzimasilela2358]

I respect you for accounting ❤

[@sbongakonkeshange2614]

I struggle with confrontation as well. I've gotten a bit better with it...I mean it is a process. That thing is Hard!

[@yy.unlimited]

This was so fun 😂❤️

[@elizabethliz5449]

😂😂😂 "Lie to me," I concur, ma'am

[@lungimayermdluli2392]

Honestly I get that "come at me like you campaigning"😂😂😂 am like that too. Show me how much you believe in yourself and let me do the vetting if you backing your campaign with solid actions during the get to know each other phase.

[@siulutar20gp]

people go through a lot many are the times they fail to open up to others.

[@katlegoMatlala78]

Yoh!!! Vaughan had to say that 😂😂😂. I hate to say this but it's true, we don't want emotional gents, we want them to understand and interpret what we feel😂

[@katlegoMatlala78]

Can the title of this video be a separate conversation with a psychologist maybe?

[@motheowalerato701]

I agree. This needs a session on its own

[@Bashadiiii]

I 100% agree

[@charityselogilwe]

I struggle a lot with confrontations, I prefer to cool down in my little corner then I’ll approach my situation later.

[@patikwakwa]

You are me, I am you, we are we! I need to process my feelings and thoughts so I can come back and articulate myself as honestly and direct as I can!

[@elizabethliz5449]

All man ma'am 😂 It's always physical touch ahhh

[@vukosimashiloane6522]

How many BOs are in this room 😅…. I love this home ❤

[@lehlohonolomogadime6161]

🖤

[@elizabethliz5449]

Mmmhhh, true, I think that could be it. Wow, (37:40)

[@yy.unlimited]

16:31 💯