WHEN THE NEW SUPPLY THINKS THEY HAVE WON

[@DarleneGonzales79]

One of the best videos I’ve watched about the new supply. I remember when I went through this with my ex. I was strong, secure and confident when I met him and then slowly he chipped away at everything I worked hard on to heal from. He gave me cptsd and I was always in fight or flight mode. Feeling so much better that he found someone else and has left me alone. I want no part of it and I’ve made it very clear!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌😌💜🙏

[@swanam_1]

Don't forget, you'll always be known as the "crazy ex" to the new supply.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely true 💯💯

[@Alyssacaronefamily]

Lol so true!

[@ccarter1203]

It's funny because that's what it always is. We are all the crazy exes. That should be a huge red flag for anyone!!!

[@teodoravujovic2579]

So true!

[@MrNikhilgherwar]

Who cares??

[@Pinkdiamond12]

Yep, they certainly believe they won a prize but all of us here know what they really got.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉💯💯

[@mylittlekittens]

The did win the booby prize.

[@deb2319]

Yikes! I feel bad for them...

[@rubio9478]

Turd in the punch bowl... 💩 🥣

[@wendyozalp4507]

The new supply got someone else’s left overs we empaths are the real winners.

[@lindastrehlow295]

Yep. He tried to triangulate me with her. She was all up in her ego that she "stole him from me". He was telling her that I was the horrible one, as we know, the reflection tactic. Boy is she in for some karma. Her choice though. She actually was part of going after me seeking drama (which I did not fall for). I think she is a narcissist too. However, I am grateful to her because this was the thing that got us into divorce court ...my way out of 15 years with this demon. Fly Earth Angels! 💜💜💜🦋🦋🦋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate your insight thank you for sharing this Linda 💯🙏🙌💪

[@fin1shingtouch1212]

Amen! 🙏

[@Alyssacaronefamily]

Lol...thats so great...same thing here but 12 years in hell with narc #1 then 7 more years in the pit w narc #2...🦋🦋...fly babies fly!😁😆 I told my therapist it was like 20 years in the clink 😁

[@lindastrehlow295]

@@Alyssacaronefamily Yep. Life in Hell. But you are so strong now that you can handle anything life throws at you with grace, dignity, and triumph! Live well. You earned it!

[@soniaprovard5841]

Blah blah blah! Can’t summon an ounce of compassion for current supply. I wish no harm to the new supply but I simply do not care anything about the ex-narc and whatever ‘flavor of the month’ they call supply. I guess I have done such a thorough job of completely detaching from that shallow masked man in my past. And Thank God Almighty!! I am free!!!!

[@nanam9179]

My ex narc just moved with his new supply today. We were married for 21 years until I found out that he cheated on me. I'm having a glass of wine, watching your video and smiling for the piece of garbage that she won. The show just started 😁😁👌👌👌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Nana..💪🙌💯

[@ladylaura93]

😁😁😁

[@katieschmid1030]

Hahaha same here after 20 years. Now the fugly new dogmeat supply can deal with them!!!! 😂😂😂🍷🍷🍷

[@daniellemorse6929]

It amazes me that they label us as 'crazy' when the sick, twisted, evil narcs are the craziest of them all!

[@fin1shingtouch1212]

We were all the “New Supply” at one time...🤦‍♀️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely correct 💯💯

[@neociabell8943]

True, not every supply is "toxic." they know who to do with. The "toxic" supply thinks she's the one who's winning. Smh

[@markgordon4619]

OMG is anyone else saying to themselves how could I have been that new supply at one point and not caught on. Hard pill to swallow but very true and I guess we now know the game. Thanks Andrew, nothing but truth, the red flags were there.

[@lindyska]

Very hard pill to swallow

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Mark..😉💪🙌💯💯

[@beach_fifteen329]

So true Mark. The red flags made me feel a bit uncomfortable at the time but I made excuses as the narc was like no other person I’d ever met so I explained them away as my over sensitivity, his upbringing, his friendly relaxed nature etc. Our narc education explains it all & we can have closure from understanding what happened. That lightbulb moment was a life changer!

[@mylittlekittens]

@@beach_fifteen329 You saw red flags, they saw green lights.

[@Razainthewoods]

Yep…yep

[@wendybarton5565]

OMG - I remember my narcissistic husband was flirtingg outwardly with our friendly young waitress. She kept reminding him she had a fiance and would wink at her right in front of my son and me! I was so embarrassed I did not know what to do. One time I just had to excuse myself and go home in my own car as we met after work. I knew something was not right but I was totally ignorant of what narcissism was. I remained friends with the waitress. She was smart enough to keep her distance Ixwish I had been as smart. Thank you so much Andrew. Now I can spot them as if they are in neon orange jumpsuit! They all belong in prison.

[@candidaherron6130]

The new supply has know idea the nightmare they are about to face . That's all I have to say about it !!! Thank you again Andrew , great video again ✌️🌻🙌🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Candida 🙌💯🙏

[@MrNikhilgherwar]

Absolutely we dogged the bullet

[@carolyeakel8030]

Oops narcs clean practicality -

[@jimmybeegood]

Spot on mate . I see it all now

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@marikeherminesophia]

Every word you said Andrew, so heartbreaking true 😪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏

[@marikeherminesophia]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙏🏻❤️

[@Victoriathefrugalvegan]

Just found out he has a new supply, I'm pleased I can finally get my life back on track....thank you Andrew for your videos you have given me hope for the future...keep well my friend.

[@gabbyb4998]

I’ve just been discarded for new supply!! I went through all of this .. so spot on!! It’s traumatic

[@mightyforce4398]

Stay strong u will get threw this🙏😇

[@gabbyb4998]

Thank u.. I’m right in the thick of it .. he discarded me 2 days ago, for someone else .. the whole relationship was a roller coaster .. just hate I fell in love with him!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely.. sending prayers and positive energy 💯🙏🙌🙏

[@givegodthanks]

@@gabbyb4998 please don't look back you were in love with someone that faked loved you, it hurt to know that these people only us for their own gain. Consider yourself lucky take this experience to find true love later in life.

[@gabbyb4998]

@@givegodthanks thank u so much for your supportive words !!

[@theteal123]

Exactly what happened to me 18 years ago. Thought I hit the jackpot. Turned into my worst nightmare.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely Sherryp 💯🙏🙌..

[@yogib8]

me too!

[@staceyflood7611]

Me too.

[@PowerAndControlWheel]

Folks, please, if you're struggling with this .. step back and scientifically be aware of your body .. it's your chemicals behaving in an addictive manner .. you have GOT to do something healthy to get through each bout of 'missing them' jonesing. These people are not good people .. like Andrew said, they absolutely abused you, they committed a crime that is very tough to prove. Please please please, know that you truly gave your heart to this person but they absolutely trampled all over it. Be angry, cry, know what they did .. this is who they are, it was never exclusive (even if they didnt cheat), they used you to your detriment and they DO NOT care. Have NOTHING to do with them. Cut them out, and start healing properly. If you're struggling to be alone, practice getting used to it .. there are plenty of ways to interact with the world out there .. do something kind for someone in need, you'll never see them again .. and do something lavishly kind for you. God bless and keep you well.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful insight thank you Jack.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty..💯🙌🙏💪

[@givegodthanks]

Well said.

[@sharonshim5046]

Amen thanks for these encouraging words.Blessings from Jamaica. 🇯🇲💕💕🙏🙏

[@eileenallen1178]

Beautifully said and very helpful. Thank you.

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

Jonesing. Good! Haven't heard that in a while!

[@ccarter1203]

As I was losing my mind literally. The narc and the new supply made fun of me. she did it on Facebook too. They acted like bullies. I was going through pure hell. The worst time of my life. Wasn't sure if I was going to make it through it. She would text and call me ratchet, old, fat, lazy and that misery loves company, that they're going to shine! She's definitely not his type from just what she said (downgrade) but she was there in his time of need a few weeks after I told him to get out. He needed a roof, drugs etc.. she definitely thinks she won. He's already left her to run the streets for days about 2 months after they got together. She sending me emails asking is we got back together? I didn't respond. She may be a narcissist too always post and filtered pictures of herself to get likes. Says she's smart enough to fix him. 😂 He's 47 years old he's not going to change. I tried to do it for over 4 years. So she's the winner of The biggest loser!!!! Enjoy your prize Nasty B*t*h! I'm out and will never talk to that POS EVER AGAIN!!!!

[@ghostafterlivesmatter8732]

I hear u I feel you. I went thru almost same exact story. Glad to know u got rid of his nasty ass.

[@karriesaunders8597]

All the people they know, that behave like that, are no good; the rest are oblivious to what they are dealing with.

[@Kl6784zu]

They are in the same situation we were. They just have no idea. They are victims in the end just like us. So sad. But they would not believe our warning anyway, because they are blind from love. People like us 🤷‍♀️

[@leahpowell6344]

The triangulating happened a million times at restaurants, bars, coffee shops, and even drive thrus. Unbelievable. I didn’t finally speak on it until I realized years later. I Always thought he was trying to make me jealous and it worked! I remember vividly the way I felt when he openly flirted in front of my face. I would feel my body getting hot, my face flushing while I was trying to play it cool. Knowing my energy was off, my gut was in knots. Listen to your body people!! It’s not lying to you. Unreal the games upon games. Thanks for this!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 🙌🙏😉.. thank you Leah..🙌💯

[@Donnahodgins]

Every where we went, he flirted, made me feel 2 inches tall. This was all the time. Made me feel worthless. I realize now, I was his light. He lived off my goodness. All the while destroying me. Triangulating, that is what they call it. He had it in Spades. I still have a small spark to start over. Prayers to all abused people. God speed with healing.

[@gallomphrattlebone329]

To me this is one of your best videos!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@brookerutherford6249]

They've both cheated on each other, she drains him, he disrespects and steps out on her. Those two demons deserve each other. Good luck to them and good riddens to both of them. They can live in misery together, I want no part of their games.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Brooke 💯💯💪💪🙌🙌

[@MarjjorieDawes]

New always becomes old.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯

[@seankay8137]

If the new supply knows the women is married with young children but still goes off with her, he deserves all the destruction that is coming his way and more.

[@catherinerhea6336]

The "new supply" & the "new supply after that" & "the new supply after that" ***CAN HAVE THEM!!!*** ...with my blessings!!! DO NOT SEND THEM BACK IN THIS DIRECTION, because my doors are _fused shut._ 🖤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💪💪🙌🙌💯💯

[@kristinej.4182]

My ex narcissist got engaged to the new supply 2 months after discarding me. Yet he continued to hoover me. I of course had his number blocked but I noticed a few days ago that he left me a VM from an unfamiliar number. And I’m sure he’s grooming more supplies on the side as well. So, isn’t it sad and pathetic for the new supply that her “Prince Charming” is actually wearing a mask and hitting up on all these other women? 😂 It’s painful for me when I think about how wonderful life must be for the new supply but this video brought much needed clarity to that notion. Thank you again! Very helpful! 👍🏻🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always Kristine 💯🙌🙏💪😉

[@Midvanwham]

Kristine.... The illusion that the narc is living a better life is a lie. The new supply is probably getting treated worse than you and is imprisoned in that relationship....

[@kristinej.4182]

@@Midvanwham I really hope so, Lisa, bc I suffered so much because of them. Thank you for your reply. It's very helpful in my time of need.

[@Midvanwham]

@@kristinej.4182 Glad I can help you :)

[@carahill3622]

You are so right on with this video Andrew just like all the rest of your videos which are amazing when you said we are like a puppet that is so true we were like a puppet on a string being controlled and going for it and not even questioning it when I look back I can't believe the things that I did for the narcissist and you're right they slowly manipulate you and conform you into being the person that they want you to be And then in the end, we think we are crazy and have lost our ever living mind..

[@Resiliant777]

I really feel sorry for someone who is at the beginning of this road. They don’t know it yet…but this road is a “dead end.”

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely correct 💯🙌

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

Dead End after Love Bomb Street and Discard Avenue.

[@kellymead1139]

Good I'm glad, to all the inconsiderate bully B*****s who thought they had the world with their new wonderful founded lover /boyfriend/husband , I say they needed the experience personally to detain their gob shite mouths from being so nasty and selfish that they were better than any other woman and they found their knight in shinning armour 😂😂😂 life's a B***H then karma rocks up un - invited how amazing is that to put another narcissist partner in its rightful place , good for them they earned it 👌💯👏

[@kellymead1139]

I sure WOULD NOT be giving any lessons or information to inconsiderate individuals who clearly think they are the best thing since sliced bread ,because trust me your only about to learn the hard way as your the next victim and as soon as your pregnant or complaining it's a disappearing act to the next love supply who is again oblivious 😂💯👌It is a shame but some people go above and beyond their heads and deserve everything they get ,have fun in your new life's as I know I will narc free 👏💯👌

[@karriesaunders8597]

@@jeanetteshawredden5643 😆 nicely put. Truth.

[@BluntlyHonest12]

They think they won when in reality. They got their karma

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌😉

[@emmarae4322]

The new supply could also be an old supply, like their ex.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@LunaNova-g1r]

Yesssss... his new supply is his old standby supply. And she is hook, line and sinker bought in.

[@tonettarogers7167]

This is deep, and very true, word for word. The scenarios are also so accurate. WoW!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@quazar1498]

This is the best vid of yours I’ve watched so far ⛄️love the narrative

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@sheilahogan7014]

Once again, so on point! I actually gasped when you were talking about being out on a date & the narcissist taking phone calls. I often wish I had taken that phone & dunked it in his beer but of course at the time I didn’t know what was happening & I thought I was being mature about it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I remember completely 💯💯😉😉

[@sherryslilark]

Yep

[@elizabethflorez2372]

Thank you ❤God bless you

[@shelleykennedy876]

I am going to save this for later. Thank you

[@Danny-mr4em]

Scary but very deservingly true! Ty

[@cathy_clarinet]

Your depiction of the lovebombing stage is exactly how it happens. I remember it so well, and then when there are moments of the mask slipping and the true person showing through, it’s just shocking. I feel many disassociate at that time due to the shock and disbelief, and that’s how it continues. Thanks to you and all the channels that are educating people on this terrible predatory disorder

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Cathy..💯🙏😯😊

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

Yes when that beautiful mask slips and their "cover" is blown and they show their true colors!!! What a shock it is - then i was angry for the betrayal and back stabbing, deflecting, blame shifting, name calling when I called them out (anything but apologizing for their outrageous blatant egregious behavior), i lost sleep a few nights🌙 ... blocked their ph#, walked away, now have my peace ✌️ again and MOVIN' ON ! (PS the saboteur was my 41 y/o son. I am 71). 😃

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

PREDATORS - exactly

[@tanyaogrady2240]

It's predatory behaviour....not a disorder...one can help a disorder with ongoing guidance and therapy. Narcissistic behaviour studies suggest cannot be helped as they don't acknowledge that there is anything wrong with them.

[@LushGalpal]

In the beginning of my past relationship, he took me to a really special restaurant and it was so special and it was for my birthday and while we were there, he was on the phone with one of his best friends. I felt so sad because we both worked so much and I thought for the dinner was a special time to spend together but he had to be on the phone with a friend at a restaurant. It really hurt my feelings.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely ..😉😉💯💯

[@sherryslilark]

OMG chills! So went thru this... OMG

[@hindwidad2723]

Narcissists are very testy. But even the best of empaths could only take so much before they finally snap and say enough is enough

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜⛰️

[@charmee4045]

Yes so many crazy ex's all I heard about for about first 3 months of the relationship, huge red flag but didn't see it at the time. Well aware of it now.

[@denieseransom2380]

OMG! This is such an eye-opening video that has enlightened me. Thankyou so much. I can now see this is exactly what has been going on with me and I never realised it. My soon to be ex husband must have been laughing so hard at how easy I was to manipulate. He used the ‘pushing boundaries’ scenarios constantly and consistently.

[@nataliasolakian7928]

I was SO hurt by him. He broke me down and then tried to take my son down immediately after I gave birth. God has been protecting me and I am praying for a TRULY GODLY partner/future husband. 💝💝💝💗💗💗❤️❤️❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏🙌🙌

[@hannekeV]

it is not important how they feel. what i celebrate is that i do not feel like a loser. and besides: i never even knew there was a "competition". walked (okay, to be honest: limped) away immediately once he told me to go. not being on social media and having insulated myself also means i now hear nothing, see nothing and speak only my healing to God, myself, a few true friends and here in your comment section (for which opportunity i thank you). now walking steadfast in my lane only with no relationships that are based on competing ... none!

[@Countryrebelempress]

What no one bothers to say is that the worst thing Narcissist can do is date another Narcissist.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Hi Nicole.. this happens more than we know..😉😯💯

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

Karma in action!

[@dianesquare3532]

You are telling the truth. It is like entertaining the Devil. It is a demonic spirit of destruction

[@Over60sowhat]

"It's Devaluation Street and it's about to happen right now." - So good!

[@amandamullen9399]

How sad! This has been so hard for me. Thank God I became stronger through this. It could have just as easily broke me. I feel so bad for all his supplies! I hope they get out and heal easier than I did

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Amen 🙏 Amanda 🙏💯

[@aprilsky8474]

Yep. The new supply flaunting him everywhere and him doing the same. I received a disgusting message from the new supply. Both blocked.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Maintaining your boundaries and moving forward is the path 💯💯🙏🙏

[@aprilsky8474]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone yes it is, thank you for your reply.

[@bridgetredeker6156]

I’ve been binge watching ALL of your videos this week Andrew. They’ve been both therapeutic and enlightening for me. In the beginning when you describe the new supply coming across the narc thinking “omg how is this person single? They are amazing in so many ways!” How does one, a single woman after a post narc breakup, distinguish between the narc and a true diamond in the rough who may seem to good to be true (and is). That’s the terrifying part for me in terms of trying to date again. I feel so tainted and hopeless in finding someone that is available and NOT a narc. Thank so much!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙌💯🙏😊

[@jeanwolfendale405]

I began to receive unsolicited messages from acquaintances about my ex and his new supply (the new twin flame).I absolutely did not want to know to the point that my approach was to block a whole lot of people after realising that I had been distracted by the devil too many times and I just wanted to be left alone in peace. Stay blessed.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💪💯😉

[@tonjajackson9209]

At 21 I was the new supply. Married for 36 yrs. It was a hellish nightmare. I have no sympathy for the women who cheated with him behind my back. Good luck NS.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Tonja..🙌💯🙏

[@debbiethomas3080]

This is what my ex said about his ex. He talked awful about her and told me if I talked to her, we were done. I asked him why he was having private messages with other women, then blaming me for being jealous when he didn't have time for me. Now, I know why

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 😉😉

[@charviecuadra9175]

Thanks God I'm out wth the narc..I dump him..

[@Atarah-t9v]

OMG Andrew, you are spot on!!! You described my ex-narcissist exactly. Oh, how I wish I had this knowledge in the past.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌☀️

[@akhlaqkamyabi]

The "new supply" of my ex-narc really had won! Hihi - she made him believe that he is the father of her baby, then took away all of his money and when she finished his ruin, she kicked him out. Well done, good job and all my thanks to her! She had been the angel of my vengeance!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@geedee9256]

Sounds like me. I thought I won the lottery 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@lynnfincham6839]

Let the new supply have the narc. You know that whatever they think they have won is not going to be a great prize. 😌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💯

[@nadiabarrese3212]

Love you Andrew. You are a great man. I listen to you every day ❤❤❤❤❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 😌🙏🙌

[@bluemoon9093]

Triangulation to me is so infuriating. But they get a kick out of it at our expense, and that's why they do it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely true 💯💯

[@Spaceman-jo5mz]

Wow, Your examples are EXACTLY what I experienced. This is eye opening. I experienced ALL of these examples & put up with it. (made me feel sick inside) These people are EVIL

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯☀️😉

[@Iwaj2011]

This is so diabolical but exactly on point. Thanks Andrew you’re doing such an awesome job. These narcissists are something serious and not for the faint of heart.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌🙏😌

[@givegodthanks]

I saw this video and smile, Andrew this is so correct, when the ex NARC new supply was loved bomb she went on Instagram and bragged about him, throwing shades at his exes I felt so bad for her because I know her time will be coming but she will hide it because of shame face. I'm so free from this drama looking forward to enjoy the holidays and the new year. Happy narc free new year to everyone 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏😊🙌💪

[@ladyt7320]

The covert ex-husband narcissist ended up with a overt narcissist 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😳😂😯😳

[@joann5465]

Mine did too...after a couple months she dumped him! From what I heard she love bombed him more than he was love bombing her, she had him spending his money on expensive restaurants etc. Wonder how he liked that taste of his own medicine!!!😁👏🤭

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

Karma

[@rielrelacion7566]

It's just amazing how these narcissists have common traits, it is like he is describing the exact narcissist i been with.

[@myphd-myprisonhistorydiplo691]

Holly cow you literally described the phone coming out perfectly!!! The narc took me to a beautiful vacation and was on his phone the whole time!! I thought I was crazy for thinking that was disrespectful so I didn’t say anything…I can’t unlearn what I have learned!! I am in the discovery stage but thank you God have been out for over 2 months and I see my light and strength coming back quickly!! Thank you for your help Andrew!! You are helping me see everything I missed!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏🙌☀️😊

[@bernadinepeppers2434]

I was the newsupply. This video hit me hard. Ten years of my life spent experimenting with a narc. Healing is slow. Thank you Andrew

[@kelstar994]

Yep! Everything my ex narc said about his " exes " is exactly what he said about me too! Same " woe is me " story , just a different person! Even his own brother told me he has done the exact same pattern with EVERY woman he's been with! ( and, my ex narc has been married and divorced 5 times!! )

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand this completely.. 😉😉

[@goodlife4915]

It's very interesting to watch especially after the 2nd hoover and during the 2nd triangulation with the new supply. Because you are a bit wiser. Then you see their game, you see how they groom and you see yourself in this situation. Scary thing is everything follows the same pattern, the whole thing is just a big show that repeats itself again and again and again.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

The cycle continues.. until we become educated 😉😉💯💯

[@tewashington2]

This was my exact experience........wow!!! 19 years I stayed. I am so glad I am free. NS has no idea what's coming. She definitely participated in trying to hurt me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌😉

[@leeedwards6505]

Yes I was the new supply believing they were an amazing catch, showering me with gifts, holidays around the world. I saw the odd red flag, mostly jealousy, but because there were more positives than negatives I ignored it and eventually they drew me away from my family and friends. Then the full narcissist came out and he’d been deceitful and cheating behind my back. So accurately true.🙏🌹

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

[@susancoates4696]

Watching this am coming to the realization that I was the new supply and everything you describe happened to me exactly that way is at once disturbing and enlightening! Boy was I wrong! I yes I watched all those behaviours and when I mentioned them I was gaslighted and made to feel foolish and a bit crazy! It’s easy to see all that now. You always validate my feelings and make me feel stronger and grateful to be out of the debilitating narcissist relationship. Your channel is needed and amazing. Thanks for sharing 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Susan 💯🙌🙏😉😊

[@OneStepDogTraining]

This gave me chills. Reminded me when I asked him if I could be his girlfriend. He said 'of course.' After that it got way worse. Ultimately I was discarded . all in all it only lasted 4 months total but I'm still 2 months out and feeling very raw.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏

[@michelleskeen4925]

Mine put me on a pedestal,,,,slowly over the years my 'normal self' became annoying, or not good enough, I was told I was cold, abusive, lazy etc.....he hates being alone and will put any mask on to achieve being in a relationship with sexual needs being met the way HE wants, he loved money I earnt but also told I wasnt spending enough time on him, he insisted he come first before my family yadayada,,,,,the new supply is only 6 months into the relationship so I know exactly how shes feeling and what shes second guessing about herself she never did before! Its just insidious,,,,its actually cruel

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

[@asprospitti]

Well, it is the Day, 1 year ago one 'life' exploded with a bang and another started!!! I cannot leave from where I am, and my ex is a 5 minute drive away. I'm sure the new supply thinks she has hit the jackpot I know I did 20 years ago. I couldn't believe my good luck ! This year has been the worst/best year of my life. No longer envious of the new supply enjoying all the benefits that I should have been enjoying. She has all the luxury and attention, poor soul, if only she knew I have a day today filled with beautiful things. This video starts my Independence Day , thank you Andrew, Supply Sucker no more. Have a great day 4.40 a m here in Cyprus

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome asprospitti…continue on the path.. you are amazing and loved.. we are here for you always 💯🙏🙌💪🇨🇾 🇨🇷💯❤️

[@daunkintzer5212]

All 100% true! I went through it all! She has no idea!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand..💯💯

[@bird1167]

Thanks for this, separation remorse hit me pretty hard yesterday about mid day. I went over and over in my mind all the cons, deceptions, lies and let downs I experienced with my narc during the time we were together and while my mind knows all these things, my heart was aching from the loss of the lie that was dangled in front of me during the love bombing stage. I was in a really dark place. I wanted to see her, I wanted to hear voice and from her and yet I know that would only be her setting me up to knock me down again. So I Journaled, I never initiate contact with my narc and it is honestly hard because its the Christmas season. In any event, this video came at the right time and while it did not eliminate my pain or depression. It did help. So thanks again!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome bird1167..🙏💯🙌

[@Kl6784zu]

Yes, I feel the same. Regrets, but at the same time having to trust my brain instead of my feelings. I also have to remind me about all the bad stuff. Our brains are erasing bad memories over time. So writing it down helps, because it is so much that we do not even remember most of it later.

[@PowerAndControlWheel]

Yep, he was like a peacock .. knew I was with her and yet still hung out with her and went with her. Posted pics all over Facebook, them going on a date straight after I finally left. And a year later I passed him on the road, side by side .. I just looked at him, calm, no emotion, no fear, and he looked back at me with broken eyes, bashed spirit, a face struggling. I think my gaze said, "it serves you right" .. like, he knew, and saw that if anybody had won, I had.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Wow this is deep.. thank you for sharing 😯😯💪💪

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

Exactly

[@ericsartanahorner]

Yep. My exes new supply is my old coworker. Moved in with my ex, after only knowing eachother a month. He's very smug. If only he knew. She was a horrible gaslighting cheater. Had long term affairs on me. I had a child with her. She has zero empathy for my discard... New supply is doomed.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Wow thank you for this Eric..💯🙏🙌😉

[@frankiebishop8704]

New supply "was our" ugly married dental hygienist. (14 yrs younger than me) Yes, I have a new dentist and I'm divorced from that POS cheating monster! She won the cheap machine prize. Hehehe

[@helenbridgwater5475]

Yet again beautifully explained. They are like relentless machines🤪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@tiahallford4353]

We should have companion for the new supply & what they are in for. Because we know the pain, confusing, the heartbreak they will endure. The recovery phase they will have to walk down. No one deserves to go thru all this. Prayers for all the new supply 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message Tia.. thank you 💯💯

[@rebeccadent464]

I found myself having compassion for her at times, other times not so much. I've always recognized my mistakes and insecurities, but I was so convinced that what we had was forever that I didn't work on myself as I should have. He completely broke me, and I really was the "crazy ex" for a while, I'm ashamed to say. I had walked through fire for that man for seven years. But, in the end, I can honestly say that the experience made me take a long, hard look at myself and work on myself. I'm not ready to thank him, but I know I am better for it. Peace to you all.

[@catlady6938]

This is so spot on thank you Andrew. This is what happened to all of us in some way I’m sure, when we were new supply, then another supply comes along and the hamster wheel starts again.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉🙌🙏

[@pamelagibson470]

Thank you for your fabulous insightful caring and love

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thanks for watching!🙏💯🙌

[@elizabethflorez2372]

Yes

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌

[@christine11347]

I have to admit watching this I actually feel a little bad for the new supply. The way you lay it out it's 💯 but it's awful that anyone has to go through this even if they are a cheater. You said it so right there not good people. Im actually grateful she let him move in 2 weeks after to get him away from me. He's still living with her and is in another relationship with a new supply only staying with the other one so he has a place to live. The thing about the new supply in my opinion is they have no self worth or value they are desperately looking for love and attention and will lie and cheat to get it but at the end of the day they are already weak and broken and this could do them in. The narscistist is a predator and seeks this type of victim out it's awful. I often think the best case scenario is for the new supply to also be a narcissist and then it's survival of the fittest. Definitely never give the new supply the heads up even if you feel bad or want to get back at the narcissist because the narscistist has already groomed them for that day and they will turn you into being the crazy jealous one. When I watch this it just reminds me of how awful it is to be with them and every person on this channel should just be so grateful they are out of their lives and we are free. Hopefully one day when the new supply is discarded they are lucky enough to find this channel and find their own healing path. I think this video will help alot of people especially at this time of year it's very difficult especially in the beginning when your in the trauma bond and you see the narscistist with the new supply. This is why blocking on social media right away is so important. This video is a great reminder Andrew from this mornings video that the narscistist is just incapable of love or empathy. I am very grateful to say with 💯 confidence that I will never be anyone's supply ever again it's just such a disgusting concept I hate everything about it. 💯💪💪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Christine.. I appreciate your honesty.. 💯🙏😊🙌💪

[@shaleykala2871]

Thank you for sharing, I am currently at the beginning phases of no contact / leaving my narc husband. I am recovering from the trauma bond - and still in the process of learning what this meant. He and the new supply moved into our old apartment together, and living in a small town its inevitable to see them together. I am curious how to get past the trauma bond, and not feel the gut punch wretched feeling if and when I see them together

[@vickygarza3944]

I feel REALLY bad for the new supply. He didn't discard me but he was getting ready to. I was getting tired and drained and started telling him no to things. I found out he had had his new supply staying on and off with him and trying to groom her. Her and I talked so I left but he didn't have her groomed to the point he wanted just yet She is his "best friends" widow who lost her husband of over 26 years 3 months before he started on her. He also knew she received over $100,000 in Life Insurance. I actually feel horrible for her because I know what she's about to go through with him and she hasn't even finished grieving her husband yet. I have nothing against her whatsoever because she's not the one who put me through hell. I just know what's coming for her and I can't help but feel sad for her .

[@johncarlrubiales8078]

We were once a new supply. We know the feeling.😅

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Exactly John.. thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

[@BeTheLight624]

The new supply did me a HUGE favor! I hoped if I ignored him long enough this would happen…the new supply would occupy him long enough for me to get away…it WORKED!!! She stated on Facebook “She got her man” Ha Ha Go For It!!! He’s her problem now! Little does she know he’s unsuccessfully trying to love bomb/hoover me… Thank You God and Andrew I am out of that living hell!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯😌☀️

[@w785opt6]

Thank you Andrew for all of your words of wisdom and revelation to help so many of us heal and grow. You are a blessing and encouragement!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯💯

[@Over60sowhat]

How is it possible that you are so spot on? These people must be stamped out of a mold!!

[@hairartistsasha7339]

WOW ! THIS IS SO TRUE. ITS LIKE YOU WAS THERE 😣 Thankyou for sharing x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙏💪🙌

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

I’m thankful I am free ❤❤❤❤

[@loriequesjmpr157]

Yes!! Another great video Andrew! The love bombing now looking back was the only red flag that you need! Beyond excessive than anything I have ever experienced. I should have known. I have had so many great relationships over my years that I should have seen the BS. Unusual and extreme. When you have never experienced that abnormal behavior you think it is something that was meant to be. NOPE!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Lori..🙌🙏💯

[@MaryAnderson-xs5wd]

It is my opinion that the Narc can't fall in love and stay in love. They do not even know what real love is. It is all just a game for them, and that is so sad. They hurt so many people.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@joanieks3945]

Thank you Andrew. It goes back to the confusion and gas lighting again. I’ve been there so many times and can see that you really get it. You have to experience it to understand Xx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I certainly do.. thank you joanie..💯💯💪💪

[@newlife2288]

Yeah, that overt flirting crap. That totally made my head spin. I blinked like an electric shock 😲 went through my brain. It was so weird!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Exactly 💯💯😉😉

[@AwakenWorld999]

I once had a friend who had a narcissist for a boyfriend that sent gifts for the new supply to her address! Twice. My friend finally woke up! Great video and so spot on.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉💯

[@sandramoricle7485]

You just described every second of every relationship I had ,until I learned about narcissism.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Sandra 💯🙌🙏💪

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

The best response they use is YOUR CRAZY 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤thank them and run 🏃‍♀️ ❤😂

[@sophiamcleod1841]

Most was already cheating with him or her while you were in your relationship ! The new supply can kick rocks ! No pity coming from me she knew of me and my children let her have her pain she fought so hard to win ! Yes I want her to stay and fight others to keep him happy !I am doing well - still no contact email and text ! They are not nice - nice people don’t sleep with other people’s Spouses !

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Exactly 💯💯

[@hazeleyes2381]

They fail to understand that God will never bless you with somebody else's spouse. Their relationship is founded on lies and the pain of others. I wished the new supply well with the narc husband. She is gloating believing that she won. She has no idea the monster he is.

[@sophiamcleod1841]

@@hazeleyes2381 true words !

[@MS-dg7vv]

When I first met my ex N I was told about the 'crazy ex and exes', theres no doubt that I am now that crazy ex as he's telling it to the new supply.....blaming the exes, ex or others is a red flag I now know about, thanks Andrew.....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@MariaWestermeyer-hd3tg]

Thank you for this video, yip, my only stupidity was not listening to my boss where I was working back then, my boss was amazing and I only realize now I should had taken her advice, she said go talk to the ex, find out what happened, I didn't, he said there was something wrong with her and yip she was crazy, I stupid me didn't, my dilemma my fault, just because he said it was a mistake with her, I know what a mistake is, and when you say you love someone, and then more mistakes🤔it really shows you stuff that stings your heart, thank you, the so called new supplies, can have him I'm OK with it, meantime the new supply got caught by an old fishing hook, the supply will feel the rusty edges eventually, thank you again, you helping so much, and thank you commentators we will surpass this, we are not who they want us to be, we are us our own flesh blood mind spirit and souls, no one owns that besides God

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌💯😌😇

[@esh3333]

I saw myself in this video. You pretty much took me back in time and I saw the red flags I ignored, and I clearly now understand what she was doing. I was the guy in this video. I got a lot more out of this video than was intended. Thank you. Home run.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Teshla 💯🙏🙌😉