WHY THE NARCISSIST ISN’T DOING BETTER

[@carolynb.5391]

Hi Andrew! I've never cared about the narcissist once I left them alone. I didn't care if they fared well or were in hell! Nothing about them will ever interest me again. I've paid my dues. Anyway, of course my narcissist will NEVER have another like me because we were bound by DNA, and no one can really love us like our families can (or should). Andrew, I hope you have loved yourself back together as I have because you are a sweet person. Plus, when my narc found the Lord, I was so relieved that God would care for her. I was elated...until I started seeing her church "friends" changing her into the monster she is today. I warned her over and over, and since I was still under the fog, I did not know that she was okay with it. Once that monster started relating with me, I was done! From evil all my life, to learning God, to using God's Spirit for evil, I would deal with it no more! So her "so-called" discard of me was to prevent me from doing it first. Classic her. Anyway, thank you for your videos. I know they comfort a lot of people because there is nothing like knowing that someone else knows what you went through with the narcissist.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@rosegardenia3254]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 👍🙏👏😘🥰❤️

[@steenjrgensen715]

I have noticed that they actually do worse for every relationship...as they get older...it becomes harder and harder to keep up appearance and looks...and also they get more moody as life becomes increasingly harder and they become even more desperate to get new supply. What a poor life to have.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this.. The Aging Narcissist.. 😯😳😉

[@sanjmalik6282]

Thank you for the insight

[@Xwaterwicca]

Mines is homeless and jobless…. I dodged a bullet

[@Bak23471]

Ty I keep and myself I need to fix this problem we just cut dependency I understand that plus also and make you feel that you got to do more when you can do cuz they don't do nothing thank you Andrew for validation once again

[@dragonessw329]

Exactly. Very well said!

[@mariasewell3825]

He could never duplicate me he can look for me in another person but you’ll never find me

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@jannlewandowski5540]

I was just thinking the same thing. He will never find another ME! I REALLY LOVED HIM....

[@loulou9978]

The narcissist typically has new supply before they discard you. My ex treats his new supply far worse than he treated me. She tolerates everything he throws her way. I’m so happy to be free. It’s like being released from prison for a crime you didn’t commit

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

[@stephaniehall6309]

Truly a prison in hell

[@loulou9978]

@@stephaniehall6309 it is but you can get out. It’s really hard but t it can be done

[@stephenuhe9229]

Indifference yes thats where my headspace is at. Namaste 🙏⚘

[@shelley2553]

Yep..same story here. We are not going through it alone..so many..so sad..thankfully we are free. Let the joy flow. 😊

[@craigsmith1365]

Indifference is the key. When you don't care about the narc and they are no longer taking up space in your thoughts you are free. I wish you all the peace and love that you deserve....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I agree completely Craig.. 💯💯💪

[@thekellers5041]

Yeeeesss! Amazing the brain space freed up and fog lifted once the narcissist is OUT of our thoughts 😄😃

[@darcybarwick6404]

It’s a process. You just don’t stop loving someone

[@latrinamilton1357]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@DDL2728]

Craig & The Kellers, y'all are so right!! I'm so grateful for Andrew & his channel! 🙌🙌🙌🙏

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Hi Andrew. A narcissist will never be happy with their new supply! THEY DON'T HAVE YOU!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@sandrajones-p465]

Andrew it was as if you were speaking directly to me. He has all the money he stashed away so I wouldn’t be able to get my share. But he doesn’t have what I provided. He became good at what he practiced, lying, cheating, manipulating, stealing, not caring about me,and being indifferent throughout the relationship. I on the other hand, I became great at, being honest,thoughtful, genuine, giving, providing, open, loving and authentic. It’s incredible how much better I feel about myself and how I have grown and live my life. I like who I am.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏

[@BSharp369]

Yes, the narcissist is a black hole and the empath is a bright light! They are a bottomless pit, and the empath is the stream of life giving love!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌☀️

[@emann2331]

If WE empaths had enough self LOVE to begin with, we would not have allowed ourselves the abuse for so long ... Hence ... we learn through trauma

[@sdshawn798]

Because we are still human with human faults

[@marybowman1340]

I'm done beating myself up.

[@johnkarford6430]

We grow they spoil. The difference they'll die usless

[@clairecole1736]

So true, Eric

[@francisnkum9179]

Not necessarily... The narc is simply the wrong person to be with. We all need love, as much as we want to give .

[@maried7776]

They don't think they are using people~it's normal for them to take

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely agree 💯💯

[@brettjepson6527]

This Guy is Amazing!!!! Everything he says is On Point!!!

[@TheAlchemistDavid]

I just still can’t believe that I was actually selected to be broken. I’ve told her a few times “I think you’re trying to break my spirit”. She remained silent each time. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@davidmcknight236]

Different statements... Same reaction.

[@Xwaterwicca]

Mine’s laughed

[@christophersimpson4654]

The silence is deafening...serious red flag

[@MrGearoid65]

Now you know, stop saying things like this to your narc. Even though she may remain quiet, don't mistake this for shame or sorrow. It's not. The day u stop this type of talk, then you'll be mire free, you will wound them because, then, they will no longer be hurting you. No oxygen, no more.

[@patriciagriffin1505]

Typical of self centered people

[@Alyssacaronefamily]

Proverbs 22:24 “Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:” prov 22:24

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful thank you for sharing 💯🙌☀️🙏

[@franmcdonald4702]

Yes!!

[@seameology]

Very hard when it's a work environment, though.

[@eugeniaskelley5194]

The narc I was in a relationship with always thought he was better than me. Unfortunately for him his low-class mentality always showed. He doesn't realize what class is.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😳😊😉

[@OlaDeen2018]

My narcissist once said "what do you think, that I get up every morning thinking how I can piss you off today?" Yes. Yes, that's what they do, try to figure out how to punish you for any little perceived insult or lack of compliance, or how to manipulate you to get what they want. Every single day.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Nancy 💯🙌☀️

[@OlaDeen2018]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you for your video today....made me feel grateful this morning!

[@terrybredthauer1866]

And the truth will flare up a rage.

[@yaffmastaslam1]

The narcissist gives consequences while taking no responsibility, silent treatment , guilt tripping , blaming , running away, I don’t even know how to get over this at this moment.

[@amna7936]

@Nancy Riley, you are so right. They punish you for every small thing you do unintentionally. I always told my Ex that he is not God and has no right to punish me.

[@katrinarichard8461]

Great video Andrew. If a narc is lucky enough to have an empath in their life, they only get one. When they screw that up, they've messed up, their one and only opportunity, to have a chance, of a normal life.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful comment thank you Katrina 🙌☀️🙏💯

[@MJ-qb5ph]

YES! F@@@ them

[@michaelawhitman7580]

Yes!

[@GokuJR5467]

Exactly 💯! After you it only gets worse and worse and they'll think about you for the rest of their miserable life

[@lynnemccully6014]

Absolutely Katrina 💯

[@SharonJohnston-l1o]

It took me five years to reach the pinnacle of indifference and it’s so worth it!!!

[@gailramlal8138]

Im still coming to terms of understanding how they can be so deceitful ...Good luck to him getting another empath...I gived my heart to him by treating him with love validation... whatever he needed to make his life easy...Thanks to you Andrew I knew it was all a facade he never loved me...but Im going to be okay ...your videos are amazing💕God Bless you Andrew...Namaste🙏

[@SilverArtemis]

I contend these narcissistic people eventually are smacked in the face with self loathing. ( its been in them all along) They will get their due. They hate themselves. Eventually , they won't be able to distract that realization from emerging full on. Its like the aliens planted in the ground in war of the worlds...just waiting....

[@alimccreery755]

Hi Gail you are a beautiful person as all us empaths are. Keep strong and keep moving forward 👍😊

[@pinkposey8134]

Don't not push yourself. Aha moments of piecing things together come to light. To drive the whole thing home. Situations that made no sense. A young gearhead in my area mentioned a few months ago out of the blue when I saw him...."Damn your ex husband drove around here speeding all the time. From a 28yr old commenting on a 50yr old. Did not know this....at all. My ex totaled out 7 cars in 15 yrs of marriage.

[@marysarianides8150]

Gail Ramlal Ill second your comment.

[@annacarter4879]

Dont worry he get him you might not see it but it coming there is a God.

[@blinkypushbuttons]

To be an interchangeable pigeon for whenever he's not watching little girls online. Oh the joy of love. Oh joy. What beauty.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌

[@lindastrehlow295]

Thank you Andrew!💜💜💜 Nope...when they lost the Empath, they lost EVERYTHING! And they KNOW it! Fly beautiful Earth Angels!💜💜💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes Linda 💯🙌☀️

[@treatpeoplewithkindness5466]

Facts !!

[@jennyboryca]

Truth !!

[@iluvpink4102]

They live in a perpetual black hole that they try to suck their victims into….my former ex-narc’s life is in perpetual decline and rightfully so. He has done so much damage in people’s lives that God’s justice and the laws of karma are always upon him.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Diana..🙌☀️💯

[@marysarianides8150]

You take care- my ex narc hurt me so mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. I know the feeling.

[@GroovyChic868]

I am hoping the new supply catches on real quick. He will never find another like me. I am glad I did the discarding.

[@barbararichards7202]

This is very healing, and true. Empaths are not ten a penny, we are rare and precious. We deserve better than to be cast aside like old shoes. Thank you for this video xx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@brandonmoskos9149]

This man is spot on. Wow. Crazy

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜

[@brandonmoskos9149]

​@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You would not believe how much you have helped me the last month. Thank you! Gone through a rough past few months with a narcissist. Gone silent. Life is getting happier for me. Did not realize how miserable I was.

[@krystinadavila8383]

I’m enjoying the peace and freedom. Thank You, Lord Jesus for setting me free 🙌🏃‍♀️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful progress 💯🙌☀️

[@irielion3748]

No need to thank invisble sky daddy's. Be real. Be free. Say no to narcissism.

[@annawallace3264]

Amen❤

[@tulazaz]

That’s what I want, but I can’t get him to move out. I just told him to leave 3 days ago. The love bombing is pathetic.

[@pinnakal1]

They’re fooling their new supply

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely true 💯😯💯

[@lynnfincham6839]

My wish is to age gracefully with fulfilment , … a narc just ages

[@Scorpiorisingtwo]

A narcissist would rather self destruct than improve at all. They are zombies. We are polar opposite. We are blessed without chaos, lively growing people who change for the better. 🌳🌟

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯😉

[@eleawood4083]

Absolutely love this ; spent 18 years with a narracist and I'm not being full of myself but I'm a educated very attractive woman and he tried to chop down year after year ...they know what we are and how special we are especially as a empath that's why they have to try do hard to push us and cut us down.

[@asprospitti]

Hi Elea, I was 20 years in and will be 1 year out on 21.12. Like you educated, successful, attractive, financially comfortable. Now realise was just fresh meat for this person. I gave everything to. As Andrew has said before we can regain most of the material things but will never get the time back, but we can make the most of out time from NOW. All the best to you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Elea.. I appreciate your honesty and insight..💯🙌☀️💯

[@theteal123]

I was with a narc for 18 miserable years, also. So happy to be moving on. I really want to enjoy my life again.

[@marysarianides8150]

@@theteal123 Best wishes for a nice life---you deserve it!

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

@@asprospitti very very expensive lesson. Glad you finally learned. I am so thankful this information is finally out there be it ever so late for me

[@Newcreation809]

Yeah now he says I was the best thing that ever happened in his life.

[@mary_canary]

It was love-hate, now it's simply one, big, flat indifference. Hope he's moved to another prey, not me!

[@tboned1]

she said "you told me you love me ", i said"you beat the love out of me".

[@Pinkdiamond12]

Exactly their are not many people falling for their games as their once was.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯💯 Pink Diamond

[@teeahtate]

Very true.

[@MaiXoxo3]

What I learned so far is ...narcs want to be rich and popular really badly but they don't want to work for it. They will try to be friends with popular or well off people to try to benefit off of them...use their fame or house like it's there's. The narc female I know have no shame or respect for her friends. She'll go visit almost every day. She will walk in like she own their houses until they set boundaries and told her no. The audacity...also that female narc and a male narc I know before claim of wanting to join the army so they'll have a higher status and income. You'd think they will really do it? Nope it's a lie. After a year or few months of running into them again they have a change of plan or something came up. So do not believe when a narc say they are going to do this and that. It's fake future planning. They just latch onto people like leeches and suck the supply or status out of those people. Better set up those boundaries bc narcs don't like no for an answer. But if you are firm about it, they'll leave you alone. And don't tell people where you live or work..bc if it turns out to be a narc they will invade without you consent as if they own you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 🙌🙏💯

[@anitaadcox1416]

When I start feeling like I'm missing him and wondering what In the world did I do leaving the relationship ... I listen to your videos and I remember, oh yea! That's why I left . I was tired of being tired, stressed , lonely and exhausted! I have to keep looking forward to a newer goal and a happy life! Divorce papers are In The works and he's already adding women friends to his FB . I know I shouldn't look ! But it still hurts and amazes me that he can start doing those things so quickly ...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Anita I understand.. continue to become educated and empowered.. you are amazing 🙌💯☀️

[@flamingsword777]

Please don't feel so bad... My now ex husband of 25 years went to Tinder not even a week after I left. Hurt like hell, but just know that YOU ARE NOW FREE...

[@debieaves4788]

Please, for the sake of your sanity and self worth, BLOCK them on ALL social media platforms! DO NOT peek into the life they are posting for public viewing, just like your experience with the Narc, it’s all an ILLUSION!! Each of us in this group have learned that the reality behind closed doors is NOT happy. Don’t put yourself into a position that causes you more grief, stress, anxiety, anger, etc. - PLEASE!!! It’s sooo much more difficult to HEAL when you keep looking backwards and wondering “What IF?” In the life of the Narc, the names and faces may change but their games will always remain the same! Don’t let yourself be jealous of the New Supply as they are nothing more than “the Newest Victim To Be.” 💔

[@houmadi2012]

@@debieaves4788 Thanks Debi, I needed to read this.

[@debieaves4788]

@@houmadi2012 I wish you all the best! It’s been a little over 2 months since I gave my ex-fiancé/Narc the boot. I still think about him every single day. It’s no longer the ruminating type of thoughts tho, thank goodness! I’ve learned A LOT about narcissism and will continue to educate myself on the topic. I’m also still doing the inner work on myself so I can build appropriate boundaries. I don’t want to harden my heart to the point that I’m never again open to a relationship, but I need to learn how to stop throwing myself “all in” when a man shows interest in me. I’ve got to learn how to make him EARN my trust and affection, instead of handing it to him on a silver platter without having fully “vetted” him. 😉✌️🤗

[@lisaengland1048]

Andrew does a fine job. .he tells us goodnight,and he loves us. And rings us flowers everyday!!.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

☀️🙌💯

[@sylviaking8866]

I can see that you are a very decent, kind man and I think what kind of fool would take you for granted. I hope once my nightmare is over, I can find someone like you. Thank you for sharing your experience with us as it makes me feel like I am not all alone in this world struggling against a sociopathic narcissist. Your insights have been so helpful.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sylvia you are not alone.. I appreciate your kindness and sharing this beautiful message 💯🙌☀️🙏

[@sylviaking8866]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You are very welcome and thank you .

[@judithvillegas4471]

I needed this today. I’m a beautiful spirit who will find a great partner one day. Thank you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏.. you are amazing.. you will find what you are looking for 💯💯💯☀️🙏

[@sll110]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you

[@stephaniecollins8904]

AMEN 🙏 👐 YESSSSSS WE WILL ❤🙏

[@joann5465]

In one years time my ex narc lost our marriage of 29 yrs, (almost 30), lost the supply that was the straw that broke the camel's back in our relationship, lost the next supply he found right before the divorce was final( where he announced on social media and to others he had found "the one!" , and then found another supply announcing the same exact thing(this is the one!) Then poof she was gone too. Like my adult kids say, "it's a revolving door". Nobody cares anymore what he does, says, or thinks. He has shown his true colors not only to me, but to others. It's amazing when you finally see clearly how ridiculous, the narc is constantly performing in a 3 ring circus, juggling all the time. The older he gets the harder it is to perform...in more ways than one most likely! LOL😉 Time is not the narcs best friend.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌☀️

[@marysarianides8150]

Good luck to you!

[@lynnfincham6839]

The narc Andrew, will never find another you ever , your unique and you shine ✨

[@rockstarofredondo]

“in their tiny little brain”🤣🤣🤣

[@rhodatuckey7119]

Thank you, Andrew, I am so tired...I have to budget my energy to get the important things done...I am TIRED...I mean really TIRED...God help me...I was young, beautiful, naive, with hope and happiness for life and the future...my GOD, did he ever take me DOWN...I love you, Andrew, you are a very strong and wise person...you have no idea the GOOD you are doing...and you KEEP it up...very faithful, very encouraging...I sincerely love you...may God richly bless you...may God give you the desires of your heart...

[@russellj.s.257]

Sucks to be them 🤣. They all had it good with us but they blew it,and for what? Who knows?

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉

[@Revelation18-4]

Satan was the first narcissist.

[@carolynbennett2735]

Yep!!

[@CassandraArtrice]

I appreciate when you said that people on this planet are starting to become more aware so the narcissist will have to work harder to fool people. Narcissism is becoming a normal part of conversations on social media. People recognize the red flags faster and run, hence the string of further broken relationships.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes 🙌 🙌☀️

[@randamcdaniel3482]

My narcissistic does not understand how I’m doing so much better than he’s doing. I just laughed. Enjoying all your videos. You’re the best

[@asprospitti]

Hard, him being just 5 minutes away from where I am. 10 days and counting down to my 1 year discard date. 21.12 21. Liberation Day for me , Phoenix Day for me. I was Grade A + Supply , and now am Grade A + for me. Thank you for your daily vids each one just what I need to hear. Thank you Andrew God Bless

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌☀️

[@DeathThrashDash]

It’s only been a month for me but I totally feel this. She lives 5 minutes away from me and I see her drive by from time to time and I do nothing but laugh at how weak and feeble minded she is. I was her grade A+ supply and she can’t find anything but drunken one night bar hookups. I am so happy to only be a father and focus on myself. Strength to you!

[@erickonassis6310]

She had a problem with every aspect of my life, tv, food, phone, sex, parking, me just relaxing..

[@Leesa1303]

Binge watching for my own healing....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙌💯

[@INTERSTELLAR1111]

👽 .... Damaged Attracts Damaged ... 🌚 ... ' dark / shadow side of the empath , So many does Not know

[@janiemimbela1752]

I'm living happily ever after with my Yorkie pup. 🥰

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊🙌💯

[@angelalee3486]

I LIFTED HIM UP TO MUCH.I'M GONNA SHINE MORE THAN EVER.THIS HAS MADE MEEE STRONGER AMEN🍊🍊🍊💛

[@cherrybacon3319]

I was dedicated to him. I'm d school with values and did what I thought was right. If he was wieking I'd still get up at the crack of dawn to do him breakfast. I'd make sure his tea was on the table. I'd cook and clean etc, and rarely denied him sex. I put a lot of myself and my appointments and my family to one side for him, then one day AGAIN he waited till I was doing something for my Son to tell me I was this or that. He caused a situation to get me to say I'd had enough, and I told him we were done. I then changed my number. Even having someone who was 'Grade A Supply' like me wasn't enough for him. Nothing and no one will ever be enough for them. But WE are enough for us. 🍒

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌🙏

[@diannaapplebeck8791]

EXACTLY, It took many times ,I took his actions and shoved them back into his face..to get him to leave me alone ,It isn't meant for us to be together. It's not a WE it's what can I do for him! Always always, Run Run

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Dianna..💯🙌☀️🙏

[@roxanne83]

Empaths are definitely not easy to find...I am more aware now and trying to surround myself with empaths, they are the best humans! Luckily my both children are, even though I am not so sure it is a good thing to feel all pain of this world.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this ❤️🙏😊💯

[@deb2319]

Many narcs are not spiritually aware- so their just focused on tangible things- self benefit- just knowing that - u can break free from something that is less than loving. Peace.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌😉🙏

[@connie4235]

Hi Andrew, I can see the sincere man you are in your eyes! I am sorry that this person hurt you! You didn't deserve it. You are helping save lives on your channel . I was used, abused, cheated, manipulated and his family knew he was. I was so humiliated and I am home with my dogs! But love is needed in this world. I truly believe they are evil demons because no one with an ounce of love in their soul would not hurt people like they do! I am at the level of not giving none of my time or love to that demonic entity. Stay blessed Andrew! Namaste

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate your honesty and kindness thank you Connie 💯🙌☀️🙏

[@gloriadewey8023]

I stopped helping them out. Slowly and surely. And he didn't know what to think. I started being needy even though I didn't need anything. I flipped the script and watched their reactions. Then I blocked all contact. It was the most beautiful thing to watch the flip. So thankful that i was not married to them. And I am very educated on these monsters. Narcissist are really sick individuals. Thank God in Jesus Mighty Name for getting out of that relationship. Thanks Andrew for educating all of us. I am so free.

[@rachelwilliams3108]

There are children of lucifer and there are children of the most high God jehovah!

[@cococaptivating7611]

I used to say to myself. “If I stayed up all night and came up with a horrible way to retaliate against this person, I would never be able to make him more miserable than what he does to himself every day”. So I wish him well and have forgiven him. I have much compassion for him. He’s in my life and always will be because he’s family. I have released the past and continue to have peace about this relationship. Namaste.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful insight thank you C C..🙏☀️💯🙌

[@spenny9274]

Nailed it! I took my kindness, empathy and warm kick ass energy and LEFT. Have fun finding someone to replace all I contributed. Ain’t gonna happen. I move on 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Spenny..🙌🙌💯🙏

[@catlady715]

The girlfriend he had only stayed with him for a year. Now he's back with the ex -wife who I hear is a narcissist as well...good luck to them both. I'm free from the toxicity.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉😉

[@enlightenedone7083]

They are envious of our brilliant light within and they want to snuff it out. Don’t allow them to. Get out. Once we know, we cannot un-know.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Exactly Enlightened One.. thank you for sharing 💯🙌☀️🙏😊

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Andrew. 👍🏼 100% True! 👍🏼 As time passes, I see that they slide lower in all ways. All of their systems are negatively affected; their body, their mind, and their soul. Then, they slip into eternity with an empty love-tank.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Karen..☀️🙌☀️💯

[@karenzilverberg4699]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You are welcome. 👍🏼 🙏

[@derrickdukes2191]

🕊I've Hurt So Bad Behind My Ordeal....I'm Falling In Love With The Me I Had No Idea Exists....He's A Kool Dude....Baking Again And Just Smiling More..."LOVE THIS,GUY'S "!!!🕊↗️↗️↗️🌐🌍🌐🦍

[@esh3333]

Yes sir. Creativity slowly rises back to our surface. I enjoyed and relate to your comment. I’m dusting off my guitars.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message Derrick.. 💯💯🙌🙌

[@tonyg5132]

I liked the metaphor about them seeing people like a tool you plug into the wall and use on and off whenever they want. So true

[@suzanne7277]

I have cut myself off him (the narcissist). I had to delete myself off a particular social media site so he doesn’t talk to me or find me, the one site he went to for control over me and where he would watch my every move, many times he starts dramas with me there, devalues me, etc. Now to finally focus on myself and to be strong. I will probably be thinking about him and grieving at times because I am an empath and my love for him was genuine, I put so much effort into the relationship and nothing ever satisfied him. He made me work for him, he would manipulate, talk angrily towards me, and try to get me jelous. At times he’d throw in an “I love you” to me but I know it’s not real, I was his property, a belonging he thought he owned and could tramp on whenever he felt like it. He definitely has toxic energy that weighed me down and got me anxious and ill repeatedly. Now I can breath without the lump in my throat…🙏♥️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful progress Suzanne.. thank you for sharing 🙌💯☀️🙏

[@FieryKTarot]

they really do have the capability to ruin lives. i know this because when my ex narc was moaning and whining about he "regretted" screwing over someone from his early 20s ... (before I knew that this is his M.O., it gets him attention without him actually having to do the work in relationships - because he conveniently "regrets" things AFTER it is OVER) .... when he was boo hooing about this, i encouraged him to look her up and communicate and heal the wounds. and we found her. and she had gone from being a vibrant, loving person at the beginning of college and life .... to being on disability, being in very poor health, obese as well as other health concerns, depression issues, etc. he literally. ruined the trajectory of her life. I was old enough to be able to defend myself when I encountered him. she was so young. and got pregnant. and he told her to "get rid of IT". And walked away. and she is, as are most of the women I've met who were his exes... a PHENOMENAL woman. She is spiritual. Metaphysical. Gifted. Beautiful. Still loving. But literally BROKEN. and I blame HIM.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏😌🙌💯

[@wyattglen1]

The "love of my life".... the one I trusted and made a promise to.... That was more than 20 years ago. Last I heard she was about to get out of jail. Again.

[@marysarianides8150]

Sound familiar ----when my ex narc discarded me and left states, 4 days later the County came to my door looking to serve him papers.

[@mailanasilverwing3084]

This may sound cruel, but to a narcissist, others, are food. Thank you for your gift!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 🙌💯

[@gigigogo41]

That's why the devil has a "pitch" fork...nae 66

[@julianterris]

Thank you for the daily encouragement, Andrew ☮️💜

[@denisepiland5542]

I don’t know how I would’ve done as well as I have without you. Your insight has made all the difference

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😇🙏🙌

[@robertandrocky5004]

I feel more free , clear and at peace after the break up . Interesting that while you in it you don't think that anything is wrong

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌💯

[@shelley2553]

I'm definitely indifferent these days. Thankfully. It's freedom..from frustration to forgiveness to freedom..no better place.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯☀️

[@Carmella64]

I have reached indifference!! Three yrs ago while with the creep, his 2nd oldest of 5 kids died from OD (he was estranged from him at the sons choosing…not shocked). I stood by him through initial grief and tolerated his roller coaster of verbal abuse. I chalked the behavior up to his tragic loss. A couple weeks ago, 9 months after leaving him and cutting off all contact, he reached out to my sister to let me know his middle child died. When I heard that I felt NOTHING. 🎉 It’s a sad situation that such a young life was cut short but I felt no empathy for the narc. All his kids, in one way or another, are a reflection of the damage he inflicted on them. So sad.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Kathy..💯🙌☀️🙏

[@browningmaxus5360]

❤

[@loulou9978]

When our son passed after a long illness he never grieved. They don’t really even grieve like normal people. Our son passed away at the hospital Thanksgiving night after we took him off of life support. We went home and his first thought was to sit down and eat his thanksgiving dinner. We divorced after that. He has no soul.

[@prostyle1626]

I've over come a lot. But I've had 2 decades to heal from it all. There are things that linger. A sense of injustice. I was put thru turmoil and the only way to end it was to walk away. And the lying manipulative cheat gets to skim by with zero consequences for their actions in it all. A sense of anger. Dissatisfaction. But these videos are helping to clear up lots of the confusion I've struggled with for the last 21 years. It's been a long time. She'll be 60 in December. Wishing them all the best. I'll stay right here on rocky top.

[@izzybizzy9230]

You've just described my 17 year long marriage to the narcissist. He's fuming now and freaking out because I left him, after having a light bulb moment. I almost feel sorry for him, but I can't afford to go down that path. Thank goodness I've gone zero contact!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Continue to become educated and empowered Izzy.. you are on the path 🙌💯🙏💪☀️

[@izzybizzy9230]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thanks Andrew

[@susanhawkinson5358]

She was a friend only. Wow did she put my life in turmoil. I'm sorry to those of you that had to live with one.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@thebigh9635]

It still baffles me to this day to wonder why they should want to destroy something so special and good by pushing you to the brink where you just can't take it anymore and have to leave ! Narcs' seem to have a definite lack of ability to appreciate and value what you had , over time they go blind to anything positive you have given , and BOY did you give ALOT ! Maybe it's simply that you lost your new shine and they got bored , and that why they spoil for confrontation ! However a SHOW is never a show without an AUDIENCE ! When you walked away you took away the one thing they crave , attention !! Their fake facade was only real when YOU believed and entertained it ! When you leave the game is up , they are exposed and alone , and it was all THEIR own fault ! They had distorted your reality and made you doubt yourself , so that they could be superior , and they could be in control ! They had abused your trust and your good nature , and even though they may have liked your supply , they NEVER respected you as an equal in any shape or form ! The truth is they do not control reality , you or ANYTHING ! They always needed you FAR more than you ever really needed them 😎😎🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful comment thank you for sharing this 🙌💯💯💯☀️💪

[@amandamichelle8776]

I feel like I start becoming indifferent and then lose my control again.... It comes in waves too but lately those waves have stayed longer so I am sure soon it will be complete indifference. I can't wait.

[@esh3333]

Andrew you are such an incredible role model for me, thank you. It’s empowering to know that you’re in my corner. Your strength and confidence are helping to build mine. Thanks also to my fellow subscribers and their comments. I’m proud to be in this community of kind, strong empaths. 💜💪🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful comment Teshla 🙌💯☀️🙏

[@TheCazz10]

Agree Teshla, I’m very pleased to have discovered Andrew’s channel. Enjoy the community aspect too, knowing there are other people out there feeling the same way as me.

[@michelleg5371]

Well said I think you speak for a lot of us 👍☺️

[@izzybizzy9230]

I'm also proud and happy to he here ☺️

[@esh3333]

@@TheCazz10 💜

[@Zzz-tu3es]

to anyone reading this with a heavy confused heart, I am here to give you proof that it gets better. A year ago, I was so fresh with raw pain in my heart that watching these videos hurt. Time really flew by and now I’m in a whole new phase of healing. I feel powerful now, I don’t get hurt by this person, my heart doesn’t feel so raw anymore. I don’t feel confused anymore. I feel cleansed and healing still, but cleansed and clear now. Just know that you are going through the dark night of the soul and you are transforming into someone the narc can NEVER compare to. You were already better, but now you’re upgrading in their own ways, they learned from you but you also learned from them, and you’re using it to power yourself up and meet a whole brand new you. So do not let it break you! Take immense energy to create a system of self care, take baths, lotion, take care of yourself in ways you never have. Look at them like an annoying little sibling. Yes they have some beautiful qualities and yes you see the good in them, but God is the only one who can truly change them and only if THEY want it and if they seek him. So remove yourself from the situation. Give it up to God, ask God to provide for you in this time, and chase your dreams. You might feel at rock bottom, but it’s a new chance at life. You are in a new phase of childhood, where things are new and confusing…have fun learning the beautiful parts of life that are worth living now..and find magic in every day of freedom. Have NEW experiences. Change your routine, EXPLORE and find your craft and purpose. You are soon to be celebrated. You are 100% protected, don’t give into their game. Protect yourself and your energy, know you are more powerful than them even if you can’t get out of bed. You have protection. GREYWALL, put your energy into new hobbies and try to move on. I am now going back to school and I’ll be in Paris finishing my degree. I can’t believe it but I am excited and I can’t believe my heart actually began to heal. You got this.

[@rodneyhenchliffe754]

I cannot fault anything you say here Andrew being on the healing path myself. This is a wonderful post with wonderful messaging. Truly. The narcissist is a 'formidable' opponent, for sure. But empaths have way greater powers than the narc. - we can regenerate, rejuvenate, love, authentically be ourselves, admit vulnerability, be introspective, empathize, forgive, be truthful, be constructive, better ourselves, grow, inject emotional maturity, be fair, and all of the rest and many more things besides ... Thankyou Andrew. The narc. is very welcome to the future and everything this brings them (Ha!). I'm becoming indifferent now more everyday. Lessons have been learned. "I met her in Bahrain, never again, I no longer have skin in that game" Forwards we tread on different paths now. Regards

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this message 🙏💯🙌💪💯

[@rodneyhenchliffe754]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone My pleasure, because we are our support and triumphant we become.

[@sjgreene785]

I was in love with the he made me think he was not the man he really is. I have NO contact. 2 years to heal. I pray for the next victim. I am FREE! I am not jealous .he didn't break me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Empowering message thank you 💪💯🙏🙌

[@awakeningEmpath]

you're right I had to go through narc abuse to lose my naivety & wise up to narc people's true natures & insidious agendas, now I am happy joyous & free, also it's important to lose any bitterness & resentments Andrew, because that's how narcs win by making us bitter

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate you sharing this voyeur..🙌💯☀️

[@divamori]

They are Evil. Run

[@paulag7108]

So on point Andrew! Awesome channel 👏Thanks for educating us about these evil people. Enlightenment is key!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Paula 🙌💯🙏

[@angeliquelangerak1078]

Your videos always come exactly at the time they are so needed, it really unbelievable , getting so many answers, thank you Andrew, so much 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏🙌

[@md-mx5zb]

I don't believe they think like this. They truly have a horrific disorder so in their mind when we began to wake up...they did everything to devalue you make you the awful one in their head. Very sad way to live only to manipulate hurt and deceive . One year NC and honestly he just keeps moving. That's how they roll. No feelings. No remorse JUST merely empty souless beings

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate your honesty and insight.. thank you 🙏💯🙌☀️

[@md-mx5zb]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone yeah....they truly cannot self reflect. At ALL. Never would consider any wrong doing in their mind. They have zero emotional connection - zero empathy so it's not possible for them to do anything you said on here. They move on even when you are " with them" having multiple partners lying daily. They truly do not feel a thing. Only thing they might think is THEY the NPD no longer can control you and the victim ( us) are the abusers to them in their mind's telling LIES about you that they believe... and how "we are crazy" and the ones who are " narrcistic"...not them. Keep it real when it comes to these demons. It's evil and scary to ever encounter this ❤ blessings to all in their healing from pure evil

[@donnaevans7361]

Im realizing i had 3 significant narcs in my life.my dad my kids dad 28 yrs i was with him.Then the last of 12.5 yrs.I do see it now i have had some dark nights recently.5 months out house and divorce are in the balance.Court is awful.. Domestic abuse divorce is awful.His notices gut punch me every time he files his lies get more delusional.I see i need huge support.I watch now morning noon and night for strength and courage.Yes i see it yes im getting there.I thank God i made it out alive..im learning to love me again...But being empathic..i do still feel the storm the fog is lifting daily im so thankful for this channel its keeping me moving in the right direction.

[@alexandranoone3195]

Same here ,stay strong ,God bless ,namaste

[@newlife2288]

Enjoy Saturday morning. Pray for eachother and do not turn back even if you have to crawl through the Grand Canyon by yourself like me. 💚🙌🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Newlife22 🙌🙌💯💯

[@bohotumbleweed8319]

The narcissists I lived with were talented and passionate.they would offer this to me,and I will always cherish memories of them , eventhough my firm boundaries eventually drove us apart .

[@fleep9008]

There are many ways/levels to Provoke DRAMA. That is the Only Hobby they have and are good at.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes 🙌 💯☀️

[@skybundick6685]

Oh Lord please help me I just want him to leave me alone constantly he keep torturing me

[@lynnemccully6014]

Don't give your empathy away for free. The empathy is a super power video is still resonating, thank you, Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@lynnemccully6014]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone many thanks

[@a.j.4661]

Plug into a wall when you want to use it. Unplug it when you don’t. They are like that with everyone even their own children. Smh.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯💯

[@Me-mn4nw]

My 67 year old Ex keeps chasing younger and younger females. I love it because he has met his match in these younger women. They keep multiple old men on the hook using them for support. They know how to give just enough to stroke these old geezers' egos.

[@Green89_]

My ex narc (38 year old female) left me for a much older man! I’m sorry for what you went through.

[@Me-mn4nw]

@@Green89_ Thank You. Im sorry for your issues as well.

[@sandym6352]

My narcissist has a new supply, he moved onto her the same month I ended things with him. She reached out when she found out I existed and I told her she had unfortunately gotten mixed up with a narcissist, and that she needs to take care of herself because relationships with him are harmful. I sent her hugs and moved on. I KNOW he will never be truly happy, he's not capable.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Sandy.. 💯🙌🙏☀️

[@ulrikekrekeler287]

Oh. My god, what a beautiful video, like a warming ray of sunshine. 😊 I broke up with the narcissist in my life three-months ago and the smile is returning to my face, I'm taking a long holiday in myself, basking in the calm, pursuing my goals, enjoying life.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful progress thank you for sharing this Ulrike..🙏💯🙌☀️😊

[@jamiepittore1350]

So true! Always compares and he was never satisfied! While he was with me he was constantly looking for someone new!

[@christine11347]

💯 I listen to this video and I feel just a 💯 peace. I feel so indifferent at this point that I barely think about any of it anymore and could really care less on how they are doing. Instead I focus on my goal of moving forward to just keep on growing in my self through education, self reflection, deepening of my faith and appreciation for all I have been blessed with. I took my second chance the day I had him leave and I strive each day to soar higher and higher because I have come to learn I deserve nothing less. Andrew you truly are a one of kind with your continued dedication to this community. The narscistist may not being doing better without you but thank God every single life that you have touched as a result are doing so much better. You strive every day to remind this community that none of us are alone. Never stop what your doing the 🌎 needs you to continue to bring this horrible abuse to the forefront so that it doesn't have to keep happening and ruining lives. Your messages are always well received you truly have a gift. God Bless and may light continue to shine down on you and guide you always on your path. 🕊️ 🕊️ 🕊️ 💯 🙏 🌞 🙏 😇

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful insight Christine.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty 💯🙌☀️🙏

[@SilverArtemis]

From pain and suffering...he becomes the wounded healer. Yes...Andrew's a blessing.

[@sheilablanton4894]

I am getting hoovered by the narc because his brother is in the hospital for covid. An he texted me saying please pray for him ..an hes not even tha one thats sick..he also ask me to call him ..an i had to decline because its all to get back in my good grace..same shit different day of pure manipulation thats all..an i refuse to fall for it..once you've been hurt over an over again by these people you wont even feel the same way about them any LONGER. THE GAME IS OVER..i have blocked him again..!!!!! They are not doin well at all an its just what they deserve for all the hateful things they're doin to good people..

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Shelia.. maintaining your boundaries and moving forward is the way..💯🙌🙏☀️