She is because she is taking advantage. She is a Narcissist as well.
@roslyncerro12632 жыл бұрын
The longer you were in the relationship, the longer the healing process. It's not easy. Keep the faith.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
💯🙏🙌
@farmergirl69 Жыл бұрын
Yes 25 years still married he wont agree to anything trying to take everything he can and give nothing.
@angelicamaster7764 Жыл бұрын
Not with help from Andrew. It all makes sense now. It took 2 years to get to the pinnacle of indifference with daily work. I am determined to be living my best life. The Narcissist is still the same old nightmare he always was. I don’t care about his new supply (wife) at all. By now, she has seen the ugly side and may feel the cognitive dissonance I felt for many years. She wanted him so bad, she’s stuck with him now. I am FREE!!!
@vivianstidham9596 Жыл бұрын
That's right. She wanted him so bad, let her deal with the narsc. He doesn't even realize the same manipulative tricks she used on him to help him divorce me and hide assets, she is gonna use against him and she knows all he hid and he was foolish enough to give her power of attorney over all his businesses. He is worth just as much to her DEAD. Boy did he make a huge mistake! She gets tired of him, she could poison him and cause him to die. The narsc husband of mine has met his match, another more experienced narsc. The ending ain't going to be what he even thought or imagined! So long Charlie, your goose is cooked,!
@roslyncerro1263 Жыл бұрын
@@vivianstidham9596 Prioritize yourself dear, and thank God you are free. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️
@blkriqan2 жыл бұрын
No point in asking about the new supply when you know the narc doesn't pick what's better, they pick supply.
@lb91713 жыл бұрын
How pathetic a life to have to pretend you love a person rather than finding a person to love. Hopeless lifestyle. Empty shadows.
@marakahl2 жыл бұрын
I truly feel bad for the new supply, freshly divorced from a very abusive man and fell for the love bombing and gas lighting of someone just like their ex. Young and naive, ignorant to the truth bc they cling to the fake facade. Most likely a narc themself lol my, what a conundrum and wouldn’t wish it on anyone
@Joshdifferent2 жыл бұрын
@@marakahl 💯
@valisgkaraoke11673 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the new supply with that monster. I’m getting happier everyday after I end up that relationship 4 months ago. Still healing but so much better and peaceful. Thank you Andrew love your videos they have help a lot. Blessings
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bernard 💯🙌☀️
@debbiethomas30803 жыл бұрын
I hope I reach the level you are in
@icicle83842 жыл бұрын
Me too! She's posing for him on social media, posts things he could like and he randomly likes everything without even looking at it. He has no "taste" or particular favourites. That's what she doesn't understand. At this stage in their shared Fantasy it doesn't matter what she is posting or telling or showing of herself he will like everything. That's a form of indifference as well! Think about that for a minute. ;-) And on top of the absolute nonsense of that "dance" it's exhausting! She thinks about him, she tries to satisfy him... That's such a big effort. It fucks with your mind.. so I am absolutely happy that he sees nothing of me anymore.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Hello Andrew. I do believe that the new supply is happy AT FIRST, but give it TIME, she'll catch on. I actually feel sorry for anyone who meets up with a narc. They are like that Energizer Bunny, they keep going, and going, and going! They probably age very fast, unlike the empath. I just hope these ladies he's picking up catch on to him sooner rather than later. GREAT TOPIC, ANDREW. ❤❤
@maggiei.63783 жыл бұрын
You put it so beautifully. The pattern repeats itself: love bombing devaluation discard.....over and over again.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌
@mango55413 жыл бұрын
I am SO much happier now! I am finally free from this person! I was so sad for many months and it was really hard. But finally...I don't care anymore and (thanks to you) know the reality of what this was and provided my own closure.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful progress Michelle 💯🙌🙏☀️😊
@blessed162 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@larickywalker75683 ай бұрын
Yhea I'm learning ❤🎉
@dianeryan7241 Жыл бұрын
I yo yo between 2 & 3rd😊
@fromhopelesstovictorious2753 жыл бұрын
New supply, old supply, intermittent supply, they are all dealing with the narcissist so therefore everything's a lie. There's no true happiness if there's no true love.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Completely agree 💯🙌
@danaglover68013 жыл бұрын
Facts💯
@annettehovey61053 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@davidcoppotelli39573 жыл бұрын
Rosalie, I love the way you think. Correct.
@tinarustman88326 ай бұрын
I’m on my way up to the pinnacle of indifference. He works where I live and I avoid him as much as I can. I don’t want to be anywhere near him. His soon-to-old supply is a former friend and current neighbor. I pray daily that she opens her eyes real soon to who and what he is.
@TheWhisperGarden3 жыл бұрын
“They don’t love the new supply and don’t care about the new supply.” You said it. On our first real date, my narc decided I should go back to my ex and then proceeded to hit on new supply right in front of my face. They don’t know what love is. I’m saddened by how many narcissists there are and how they always find us!!! And, AND, how many of us have devoted YEARS of our lives to trying to make our relationship’s work. Praying 🙏🏻 for courage and peace for everyone here. Thank you Andrew. You keep me sane.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Welcome always 🙌💯🙏
@trudyramgren88173 жыл бұрын
Soooo true!!! ❤️
@nicolerenee70253 жыл бұрын
I think one of the hardest things for me to except was that I spent 23 years of my life loving a man who wasn’t even capable of love, much less never love me.
@trudydenoyer46482 жыл бұрын
@@nicolerenee7025 I understand. I was married for 27 years to mine. I’m struggling with the fact that my whole marriage was a lie😞
@katthome2 жыл бұрын
@@trudydenoyer4648 it wasn't a lie for you. You had no idea how or what manipulation was. All this means is that you are compassionate, kind and helpful and you ended up with a broken person who learned or was born with only ego. They are wired to consume others.
@Sarahsemails09 Жыл бұрын
It’s when they turn your family against you…that’s tough
@anyaoblon77202 жыл бұрын
or how the narsassist tells the new supplies that I'm ugly and they're prettier than me. working on these fragile women's insecurities and pinning us against each other. it's disgusting because he brought out my insecurities. that holding my head up and pretending I'm okay is a front. it hurts knowing he is still at my job and lied the entire time. now I get dirty looks from people until I tell them what he did. it makes working difficult
@BrevardBeachsideLive Жыл бұрын
She doesn't know what she's in for, but she knew he was married with a family when she got involved so she'll get exactly what she deserves!
@cindyallen48313 жыл бұрын
Exactly! #4 option -- "who cares"? In the beginning, I was truly devastated. Now that I'm aware (and yes, ALL the patterns and red flags were there for the duration of my 25 year marriage), I consider the discard a blessing so I can make the BEST of the REST of my life. Very good video.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@MrNikhilgherwar3 жыл бұрын
New supply plz take him/her...god helped me... I will donate them to the next supply!
@madelinepalma733 жыл бұрын
I’m really don’t care !!! I think about me, my healing my improvement!! I’m so happy and in peace to waste my thoughts wondering if the new supply is happy or not! Thanks for content 👍🏻
@Amit-i8z9v3 жыл бұрын
@@MrNikhilgherwar sahi bole 😀....new supply ke liye ek line....hum bhi pele gaye tum bhi pele jaaoge... 😀
@MrNikhilgherwar2 жыл бұрын
@@Amit-i8z9v Bhai..humne pele isiliye bhagli ..
@mariad34312 жыл бұрын
The one thing that keeps me half way sane is that I know deep down they can never really love anyone...
@kevinjanghj3 жыл бұрын
A related question is, "Is the new supply better than me?" It is the wrong question to ask. It is predicated on our lousiness and inferiority. Narcissists discard for new supply only because these new supplies are able to put up with their nonsense and lovebombing for the interim. Once the facade collapses, nothing holds.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this Kevin 🙌☀️
@kevinjanghj3 жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone a friend kept on asking me this based on the new supplies of his ex. I was actually able to refuse to answer only because of experience and knowing that narcissists do not really select people based on the same criteria normal people use.
@carolinevdvlies69693 жыл бұрын
True, true, true👍🏻
@jromeo82473 жыл бұрын
The new supply is not "better" than you. What is better about the new supply? Naivete, being impressed by the whirlwind of it all and the narcissist being the center of attention.
@tonymiller432212 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your videos.. I am at times ruminating and pining but I’m getting there… the hard part is that I had put so much time and energy intro the narc that I lost myself.. day by day I am feeling the boundary of being indifferent growing stronger in all ways
@nicolajirving3 ай бұрын
Hi guys, I've taken so much from this channel to help me heal. I appreciate the support and insight from Andrew. I'm not hurting anymore. Today, the new supply called at my house. She had questions. I was polite. I invited her in for a cup of tea. I listened to her recite my past. I was non judgemental. I agreed with the things she said. I don't actually know what she wanted from me but I gave empathy, compassion, understanding and support. WHY? Because that's who I am and it was not her fault. He told her we were never together etc, now she knows. She is on the journey I survived. Gotta hand it to her, she had him sussed out. I just confirmed it. Stay strong. Great work Andrew 🎉
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜
@nicolajirving3 ай бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Namaste 🙏
@anneyoung2310 Жыл бұрын
The only thought about the new supply that crossed my mind, as I'm not the comparing type (never even asked my kids anything about her-the blessed pinnacle of indifference), is fear that if she is ever unwell, injured, or exhibits an imperfection, it is trouble with a capital T. As you say, "the narcissist loves money, and loves the supplies money more than their own." If one is with a narcissistic person, but has equal resources, family clout, power, and possibly high narcissistic traits themselves, as you alluded to in another video, they are much less likely to be abused or discarded. I wish her well.
@Raybae243 жыл бұрын
Hi Andrew, I’ve been watching your videos for a few days now. 3 weeks since I discarded my narcissistic ex of 9 years. Some of the fog is starting to lift, I can see more clearly now. I had no idea I was in an abusive relationship with a lying, cheating, stealing rat. Now that I know about narcissism, I feel better as I now know what I was dealing with, and everything I’ve heard you say and explain I’ve been through, over and over and over. It feels so good to finally be free! 😭 you regain your power when you decide to kill the rat and take it out to the trash where it belongs. No contact and blocking is working. And when he comes crawling back I won’t be there waiting! Thank God for you Andrew, I feel less alone.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
You are not alone.. 🙌☀️we are here for you always 💯💯🙏.. continue to become educated and understand completely what you experienced.. 🙌☀️
@Zinnia12342 жыл бұрын
I’m crying every day, can’t get out of bed, can’t stop sleeping, and the pain is so intense that I think death would hurt less. I don’t see any way through this. I almost want to scream, “don’t say nice things to like you care about or love me” coz then I cry harder, and do that for hours after.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
I understand completely.. I do..🙏🙌
@Phoenix-tr1kh Жыл бұрын
Be kind to yourself. Be your own best friend. It will Pass xx
@DBirdtn Жыл бұрын
I hope your pain has passed and you are doing better x❤
@donnahalsted7718 Жыл бұрын
My prayers are with you. You are really going through a dark, dark time. If I were near, I would hold you and let your tears soak me through. Your pain is so deep. But believe, it will pass. You are stronger and more elastic than you could ever believe. Hold on to that!
@moiracistola1112 Жыл бұрын
Please please please hang in there and GET HELP! Andrew KNOWS what he is talking about...please please please listen to him and KNOW there is a life waiting for you that is more joyful than you can imagine. 🙏❤ to you.
@louisedehaas38893 жыл бұрын
I met a narcissist and within 5 days his mask fell off. I found out he has 3 personalities in one day. I immediately discarded him and 2 months later he started stalking me, my kids and my friends. a narcissist is under developed and has no ability to love
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
I understand completely 💯🙌
@surfshack23 жыл бұрын
Haha...I laughed when you said "his mask fell off"......i thought , Well did it get dirty? lol
@louisedehaas38893 жыл бұрын
@@surfshack2 No not at all. He could not fool me. He had a gay streak in him. I was shocked when the narcissist's 3 personalities came out. I firmly believe he was a narcissistic psychopath
@surfshack23 жыл бұрын
@@louisedehaas3889 it just struck me as funny the way you said it.
@louisedehaas38893 жыл бұрын
@@surfshack2 yes, I am most of the time funny. 😂😂
@Marsha22May10 ай бұрын
I really don’t care about her now anymore but sorry for her. I have a feeling that she is blamed of what she has done and not knowing what relationship she is in, she is still trying hard to adore him and get his attention. God bless you is the least I can say to her. Great video, Andrew. I can understand what you mean now. My doors are opening and friends are beginning to open up too😁 Unexpected fun events are happening and hopefully I think I’m returning to my everyday fulfilled life🤗So thankful✨💗
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone10 ай бұрын
😌🙌💯
@laureneesterhuizen7722 жыл бұрын
The new supplier is going to wake up with such a bang and he probably won't know what hit him for a while.
@existentialpoet51872 жыл бұрын
I am at the third stage and recognize that the narc's new supply is likely going through the same manipulations I had. I'm getting to the stage of indifference but it's painful and difficult regardless. I'm healing and getting into my own power. The good news is that I've awakened. Thank you for your guidance.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Welcome always 🙌🙌🙏☀️
@christinelawrence43152 жыл бұрын
All I know now is this NARC is NOT my problem anymore!!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
🙌💯😉
@denisej.smith-perry4949 Жыл бұрын
Andrew...you are great...keep helping the people...
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@AAXS-op1vo2 жыл бұрын
Wow! That is a really great analogy Andrew: relationship with a narc is like an evaporating glass of water. Yep
@Lorraine6330 Жыл бұрын
Hi Andrew you beautiful man. God bless in all that you are and all your family. I am sending you Love and healing light endlessly and so does my beautiful mother. So be it , so it is 💓💕💞💖
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💯🙏🙌☀️
@bernadinepeppers24342 жыл бұрын
Going to the store three times! That was my narc spouse. Recovery is slow but im almost at the pinnacle. Thank you
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Welcome 💯💯💯
@nancyperry86443 жыл бұрын
Spot on! Cheated on me7 years stayed with that supply about 6 months. Left that supply for the her best friend. Married that supply she left the narcissist after a month to another state. They are still married but separated for about 7 plus years. Now he’s aging and wants me back yet still married. I’m 60 now. Don’t need or want that drama. Funny how after all these years it still follows and haunts you. Wish I had your videos when I was going through this. It’s a very lonely and confusing walk on your own. Good work you are helping many people out there. You speak the truth. I know.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@sll1103 жыл бұрын
you are not alone
@glitznal3 жыл бұрын
Married for 8 months and then the discarding & ghosting began. He fabricated an argument & left our home. Instigated division between our adult children & never apologized. I filed for divorce & it was finalized 10/5. I have good days & bad days. My ex told me I never apologized, I was perfect, then he reverted & said I was a liar!!! I’m one of the most straightforward & honest people you can meet. I’m currently healing & trying to find my way to loving myself again
@theartzscientist80123 жыл бұрын
Are you still talking to him?
@tallywelsh4952 жыл бұрын
This totally resonates. Sorry to hear that Nancy. 18 yrs, totally devoted to him. Has a new supply now, living with her. Dumped him a month ago. She's been stalking him ever since we met her- she's the landlady- nov 2021, my Birthday. Andrew, you cannot imagine HOW important your videos are to me. You give me the courage to face every day - am playing all your videos. Am NOT answering his mails or What'saaps. He's going crazy. Sued the new supply and she's going to court, her father being the mayer of the town where I live. Got a new flat for September, -btw- can't wait to get the hell out bof this town. In the meantime, getting to grips with this story, cannot believe it. Crying day in and day out, yet feel relieved. Thankss soooo much for your help ❤️❤️❤️
@fayeyah Жыл бұрын
I wonder how many of my ex Narcissist new supplies are watching this🤔
@tinarustman88325 ай бұрын
I’ve already lived through what the new supply is living through now or will live through very soon. And it was completely the most painful experience ever. I am on my to healing through blocking him, therapy, indifference, and learning to love myself. It was very difficult but you have to go through to get out the other side. I still get triggered a little because his new supply is a former friend of mine and a current neighbor and he works where I live. I’m working on it…
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone5 ай бұрын
😌😌💜
@brassgal50393 жыл бұрын
What I am thinking: If they are happier - all the power to them. Ultimately, I’m just happy that I’m out of the relationship, and I don’t even care to think about what’s going on in their life (and their new partner’s). I’m almost at the pinnacle of indifference, because I ultimately don’t care, don’t think about it, but I’m still angry at how I had been treated and manipulated etc.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.. indifference is the path 🙌🙏☀️
@nicolajirving5 ай бұрын
I've just been informed that the Narc and his new girl had a blazing row outside his home. They've been together for a matter of weeks. I feel for the poor girl.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone5 ай бұрын
💯💯😌
@lavimusique5 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting for us ❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone5 ай бұрын
Welcome..💯🙏😌
@icicle83842 жыл бұрын
I am so happy that someone else is taking care of him now. I am so happy I could somehow give this job to her. I gladly hand him over. I just hope that she will not be so much damaged.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
😉🙌💯
@latashiasmith1142 жыл бұрын
I really feel sorry for anyone that deals with that monster 👹
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
💯🙏🙌💪
@NikkiBNice2 жыл бұрын
“Going through the fire” is the exact phrase to describe the survival experience.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
💯💯😉
@TravelatorH8r Жыл бұрын
Man you thought of everything, I never personally cared because I knew by then. Pity to them and her. Revenge is lonely
@Pinkdiamond123 жыл бұрын
No is the answer always remember the sadness you felt. I was always getting taken for granted, ignored and called names.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 🙌☀️🙏
@johnwhatley20462 жыл бұрын
It got so bad for me she would literally throw herself at other men in front of me.Thank you Andrew you've given me a great insight to this devil seven years of hell I'm healing on a daily basis.I know she will get caught in the end they always mess up
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙏🙌💯
@Ricky-nu3cp2 жыл бұрын
It's been 6 mths and I have moved far away, have new friends, kept my genuine old friends but so annoyed at myself that I still pine for him. I hate that I feel so low and depressed but put on a happy face in front of everyone.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
😊☀️💪💯
@Ricky-nu3cp2 жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thankyou Andrew
@heatherbarth9226 Жыл бұрын
For now. They don't know about each other. I'm gone, and healing. Thanks Andrew. Have a Blessed day, Everyone!!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙏🙌😊
@lynnfincham68392 жыл бұрын
I think Andrew the new supply may be happy in the beginning as like us we were Nieve in the beginning. The honeymoon period with a narc does not last 😔
@peggyeastwood3246 Жыл бұрын
Yes I feel sorry for the new supply is happy she doesn't know who he really is
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯💯😌
@GaryPotocki82 Жыл бұрын
You're the only person that understands what I've gone through yet I've never talked to you but I'm there with you in spirit I wish I could have watched your videos back in the late middle 1990s when I was a teenager I would have made so many different choices today at 41 I'm rebirthing today's another day God bless Andrew
@vintagebabyseventythree62443 жыл бұрын
I’m in the middle. My goal is to not care. I’m getting there.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 💯🙌
@perla59214 ай бұрын
I feel so silly for having fallen for his tactics and for having put myself out there
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone4 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@trudyramgren88173 жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrew. I'm grateful for your videos. I was with him on and off for over four years. It came slow to me to figure him out. I educated myself on the narcissist. I was in bad shape. I am much happier now and the thought of him disgusts me. Some times there are triggers that start me thinking of him and all he said and done to me. He wasn't violent but the mental and emotional abuse he gave is still with me at times. I know this is a process and I'm very much over wanting him. It was a nightmare I didn't think would end but I'm in a much better place.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙏 Trudy 🙌☀️
@marihunt43143 жыл бұрын
The new supply reached out to me. She told me the relationship with my ex fiancé only lasted two weeks. She ended the relationship after she caught on to his lies! 🤣
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 😉😂✊
@misfit78663 жыл бұрын
She sounds like a smart lady!
@Jason15Cooke Жыл бұрын
I watch your videos all the time. This one I just watched at the right time I guess. Thank you for what you do.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙌🙏😌
@annettegallo6940 Жыл бұрын
AMEN 🙏🏼 THANK THE MOST HIGH I AM SO MUCH HAPPIER WITHOUT THE NARCISSIST ☮️💗& LIGHT!!!
@cindypaulhus37013 жыл бұрын
4 years it just happened I never knew what was happening. You are so RIGHT!!! The pain and heartbreaki but I will get through this thank you!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Welcome.. you are strong Cindy ☀️🙌✊🙏
@lisadavis37732 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I feel like this if the new supply was better than us, Why they keep are name and their mouth like we are a celebrity already. We are the top of everybody conversation, They know us but we don't know them. If the narcissist was happy they won't be jumping & in out of relationship with different supply, Be real with you I wish everyone the best. I wanna see everybody Win and Eat, But just not at my table. I'm 6 years out the game, I'm healed by Jesus stripes, I'm unstoppable I can't be touch. Everyone on this video I love you all have a bless day🙏🙏💞💞💯💎
@mosiemi1 Жыл бұрын
As soon as I realised what they were upto I got rid of them and the flying monkeys
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💪💯😉
@elizabethflorez23722 жыл бұрын
I do miss them greatly. They were family /they are family / they will always be family . This is why this is so painful . 😢❤ It’s like I feel like I can never trust again . Like I am so scared forever scared Damaged goods
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Sending healing energy 🙌☀️🙏
@louiseventer6580 Жыл бұрын
I was with a covert narc for 4years and he discarded me for a woman 20 years younger than us about a month ago. I think though that emotionally it ended for me before that already, that's probably why he discarded me because I wasn't giving him what he wanted anymore. Seeing as they only knew each other for a month online, then after meeting up for a week, they moved in together etc. I really feel sorry for her and I wish the best for her. I am at the stage where I believe she is happy for now...but we all know it will change soon. Thanks for your videos Andrew, everytime I feel down or start blaming myself, I rewatch your videos.💜🌹
@susanbridges27803 жыл бұрын
I saw the new supply by chance a couple of weeks ago. She didn't look so hot - disheveled. Probably already discarded. It's been about a year and a half. Sometimes it's good to be a fly on the wall.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Joyce_21 Жыл бұрын
My narc ex is 64 I'm 45 years old new supply is 22years old from Colombia. 6years with me and he said the new supply is one thousand better than me. He discarded me like A useless material but that's all in the past now it's not easy but I'm stronger every day.. Thank YOU for this video It made me look forward to be happy once again
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏🙌😌
@newname32353 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for her and I’m concerned what is going to happen to her because the narc just keeps getting worse and more violent!
@brookerutherford62493 жыл бұрын
I was thinking, he's not happy with her, but he is pretending he loves her until he gets bored.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Hi Brooke.. it’s all about control and supply..
@ilenesteele48162 жыл бұрын
ANDREW HOW CAN YOU SAY I WISH YOU WELL AND PRAY FOR JUSTICE
@cherylfahey2924 Жыл бұрын
Do not ask ‘why me’, ask what I need to change about me which attracts this kind of person🤔
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😌🙌🙏
@nancyfeke95852 жыл бұрын
I'm 3/4's of the way there Andrew. I'll keep listening ❤
@esthers26682 жыл бұрын
Wow What a long journey to finally be able to say “I don’t care, I want nothing to do with the narc, I love my new life” ❤️🙏. If you are starting your journey, stay strong 🫂
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful empowering message 💪🙌💯💯
@wendydevine33272 жыл бұрын
Ur so spot on I am 3 😁 and think I will write a book and going to name it over 30yrs with a narcissist and true after 11yrs of being over he still tries to come back never going to happen x
@madelinepalma733 жыл бұрын
Don’t care! I’m focused in my healing !!! Thanks for content 👍🏻
@lynnfincham68392 жыл бұрын
If the narc has a new supply rejoice because your free … only ever look back to see how far you’ve come ✨
@livinggood6876 Жыл бұрын
Omg "having to go to the store 3x," never had time for myself. Great video!
@catlady69382 жыл бұрын
The new supplies, yes there was more than one all at the same time, most definitely was not happier than me, they may have thought they were, they may have thought they got the prize, but by the time I left him I could not have been more happy to no longer have this monster in my life. Then they all eventually left him, even some of his friends left him and now he has no one. Thank you for another good video.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Welcome always 🙌☀️🙏💯
@elkebanhart70452 жыл бұрын
... temporarily... They will build up a new harem (and hoover the elder ones - always on the hunt -)...
@lindarobertson47442 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand how they are infatuated if they have no feelings or empathy 🤷♀️
@lorrainegourlay4215 Жыл бұрын
The new supply is happy because remember we were the new supply for a while and we were happy. There was others before us and there is others after us, it was just our turn.
@nancyjapsay-fajutrao622 Жыл бұрын
So true! Thanks Andrew for namin the stage I am now on my healing path I am on the third stage you've mentioned! You were putting a zeal ony healing so i may not gotten relapsed!
@giuseppemilano21733 жыл бұрын
I have to tell you the things you say is exactly true it's like we become our own practitioner! And like you said I don't care that person's happy or not that's not my problem anymore I became too strong of a person mentally physically spiritually I would not let others control my mind anymore! After 21 years I decided to leave that person anyways the best move I ever made in my whole life it's been almost a year-and-a-half I am still healing but I am getting there what I have learned since then is positivity is a beautiful thing and I always pray to the Lord🙏 thanks for the video keep them coming great stuff keep up the good work!👊🙌❤⭐🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I appreciate your kindness and support 💯🙌🙏.. thank you
@giuseppemilano21733 жыл бұрын
One more thing I think for people like us we are authentic! Thank you I keep them videos coming always give you a thumbs up!👊⭐🙌❤🙏
@_Louise__2 жыл бұрын
Ha, I left a big glass of water on what was his bed side cabinet that I brought him a few moments before he decided to leave. He never touched it. We were both recovering from Covid, he was feeling better and wanted to go out, but I was still quite ill. I left it there to remind me how he was wrong when he'd say I never did anything for him and how I tried to look after him, even though I was feeling rough. Also to watch it slowly evaporate, the space in the glass slowly filling again, like my energy. Day 52 and it's now 2/3rds evaporated, a slow process, like my healing, but I'm getting there... with dedication and determination. So grateful to have learnt everything I have from your channel Andrew, not just for relationships but for many aspects of life ❤️🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌
@karenangel8922 Жыл бұрын
I must be different, I honestly don’t care how the new supply feels, I don’t care how they get hurt, I quite frankly hope he drags her through hell, she does not care how hurt I may have been, she just grabbed what she thought was good for her, but how hurt i was, did not come into it, so yippee, do you best at her buddy.
@melobazzi3 жыл бұрын
..Nodding my head throughout this whole video.. 🙌🏽👍🏽👌🏽🙏🏽💯
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏 ☀️🙌
@dcdcblondie3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Video Andrew. I am the 3rd category, 100% No Contact, Blocked him on every single type of contact since 12/2016. Took me a long time to recover. I hung in there with the Narc for 5 years before I was discarded. Fineally, I have become indifferent towards the Narc. Freedom feels great!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful progress 🙏🙌💯☀️
@dcdcblondie3 жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you so much!
@donovanlacroxi94852 жыл бұрын
PRAISE GOD WITH YOUR VIDEOS HEALING HEALING HEALING, MY NARC KEEPS GETTING SHORTER RELATIONSHIPS I DONT CHECK I HEAR ABOUT IT.
@whygohome172 Жыл бұрын
THEY DO NOT LOVE! NO EMPATHY!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@normachase72275 ай бұрын
Thanks for your videos which made me understand why I went through what I didn’t understand years ago. 🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone5 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌💜🙏
@surfshack23 жыл бұрын
I've put the work in and seriously I'm not looking for any new relationship. It's about creating and making a life that you enjoy. I seriously don't need any more drama and lying manipulative people around me. I'm good, thank you have a nice day.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 😉☀️
@narc6993 жыл бұрын
Same here! Just thinking about a new relationship scares me. lol Plus I’m loving this freedom of not having to answer to a temporary person who isn’t my maker.
@surfshack23 жыл бұрын
@@narc699 No more barrage of texts all day and being blamed and stressing....just peace...😌
@narc6993 жыл бұрын
@@surfshack2 Yes! shall we continue?
@surfshack23 жыл бұрын
@@narc699 mos def 🤣
@Phiziology2 жыл бұрын
I've definitely changed a lot because of my last relationship, I was discarded by the same person so many times, and it recently happened again last week. This is the first time I've successfully gone no contact for over 24 hours lol, it's been like 6 days and every day that goes by, I get angrier and angrier that I let that happen to me, and I was settling for it. I have taken myself off mostly all social media, so that there is no way she could crawl back into my life. The old me would've been blowing up her phone for days and days apologizing for things that I didn't even do wrong. If you're thinking of going no contact, do it, you'd be doing yourself a favor in speeding up your healing process. If they can't find you, they can't flex on you, and if they can't make you jealous, they become powerless.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Continue to become educated and empowered 🙌🙏💯💪
@rsbrinkman91683 жыл бұрын
Yes that's where I am at. Grateful getting me back peace , joy , with contentment Its been a long time on the other side , overcoming . They are in a precarious place . Trying to build a house on shifting sand , doesn't work .
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful insight R S .. 💯🙏💪 thank you
@apureenergyme93 жыл бұрын
The only reason you will feel jealous or bad for their new person is because you still need time to come out from that disorders true things. There is no miracle that all the sudden narc can really love , once you really understand this truth, you will never feel you had any loss.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@kat-75 Жыл бұрын
I certainly hope so.
@janefriel68953 жыл бұрын
The best way to judge future behaviour, look at padt behaviour.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌
@expectamiracle.4062 жыл бұрын
Good video. I am so thankful to be where I am currently at.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 🙌💯🙏
@juneberry1286 Жыл бұрын
Here’s to joy
@blessed162 Жыл бұрын
The new supplier is sitting in a time bomb. When the love-bomb burns out....Boom!! reality will hit het SO hard she can't imagine. I really feel sorry for her😢. Only if she is desperate for a roof over her head, a Bed and plate of food, she will cling on to the narcissist and slowly going brain-dead.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😌😌
@loveiseternal55442 жыл бұрын
I haven't thought about how the new supply is feeling trauma bonding is real my ex was there when my brother got killed I couldn't let go although years of abuse has motivated me to press on its been 2 years and 9 months I'm still working on my healing once the fog lifted 11 months ago I fell off and revelled in freedom sometimes memories sneak in but I will not get stuck in morbid reflection I wish the new supply happiness no resentment at all 🥰🥰🥰
@bevfaria33003 жыл бұрын
EVERY TIME I PUT UP RESISTANCE .. IT FELT LIKE WE WERE CONSTANTLY GOING ROUND IN CIRCLES .. EVENTUALLY I RECOGNIZED THE PATTERN WAS ON REPEAT .. AND I WAS SEDUCED OVER AND OVER .. NOW I'M SO RELIEVED TO BE OUT OF THAT SICK CYCLE .. FROM HEREON OUT IT'S ONE DAY AT A TIME .. AND I CAN'T DENY .. I'M SORRY FOR WHOMEVER HE ENTRAPS .. ALWAYS .. B .. X
@trudyramgren88173 жыл бұрын
It's so wonderful that we all can relate and know we aren't alone. It's been a very bumpy ride but bless us all for the clarity and love for ourselves. We are making this!!!!! ❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌
@wansangoh49513 жыл бұрын
We are here for one another 💪
@mariannedutkowski15583 жыл бұрын
Hell no. The bit by bit petty bickering, and prioritizing the narc. I called it, living on the defensive. I Single to mingle. Feels peaceful.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌
@Weifangxi2 жыл бұрын
It really so much helping me to my healing process. Thank you for educating us. It give us hope like me.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙌☀️
@dkyle30212 жыл бұрын
The new supply,was in on it to
@utedawson2548 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to these educational videos my healing path speeded up!! (28 years marriage) I started a new life: found a nice flat, a much better job than I ever had and I have the feeling God is always on my side! (I'm not a particular religious person) But since I understood how this toxic relationship "worked" I am able now to open one door after the other to live a much better life!! Thanks Andrew ever so much!!