WHEN YOU ENJOY BEING ALONE - Jordan Peterson (Motivational Speech)

[@jordanpetersonrulesforlife]

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[@jparker785]

Repeat video doesn't work. Just my opinion. Takes away from what is being said.

[@IsraelandDad]

Message sent was Intercepted statement.

[@IsraelandDad]

What so when it seem bad faith it's now showing,

[@IsraelandDad]

Here, I was not allowed to have my email to leave friendly comment my son Israel to help me where he email was approved.

[@bsmith6784]

Title had *nothing at all* to do with the monologue. 😡

[@bobtoner9820]

I've been alone since 2010 when my beautiful wife died. I'm a 75 year old Vietnam veteran. I became a Christian after a worldly youth. I've suffered my share if disappointments in life. I value the gift of solitude during these last 14 years. I have plenty of time to prepare myself to meet my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ

[@dicole6]

God bless you

[@RockandRollMTG]

First of all, welcome home. Second, thank you for your service.

[@bige2220]

share your life with others and in so doing you share Christs Love!

[@latinobandido7471]

You’re a good man

[@rhondacarter9807]

Thank you for your service

[@kentborges5114]

Solitude is sometimes where the best is created.

[@rockrecordreport7136]

Get inspired by others, and then go put in the work yourself even if you are totally alone for that effort.

[@forestbrooks4025]

Any day I don’t hear or see anyone is an absolute great day! First we must learn to live and function alone!

[@younotlying]

God will bless the ones with pure intentions, dont let the miserable drag you down to their level this year, they will try harder than ever, but the blessing is waiting BIGGER THAN EVER !!!

[@firstsquadleader7thESB]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@connorgreenwell5731]

I LOVE being alone. that's where creation and the transcendent happens for me

[@TerryBecker-bw1vx]

Not a desire to be alone. But it's better than most people.

[@arn8386]

Loneliness is often the biproduct of a gifted mind

[@Blake4625kHz]

That is pure horse shit

[@redhead5090]

Ah, man of culture. It’s good to hear this!

[@adamlane7617]

When I feel down , I try to find something by Dr. Peterson that elevates me. Most times it works .

[@komamix]

Check out Alan Watts

[@Roamingfriend78]

Ive thought hard about this because i really do like being alone, what i found is im not alone because im drawing closer and closer to the most high and the happiness and peace i get from that puts unexpected smiles on my face and i think thank you god i love you.... Its an awesome feeling.... Jordan thanks heaps for your content i connect to it....

[@acquanellaogbemudia9930]

My story here ! Thanks Mr Peterson

[@vincenthammons-kd9du]

It scares me how much I like being alone.

[@klyetruman7285]

Yeah, sometimes I start to feel bad for not reaching out to people. I then realize that I'm alone because no one will reach out to communicate with me. 🎉🎉🎉 Guess I'll be happy and blessed alone.

[@justinengland9814]

That is why many are alone, not many want the best for you!

[@rockrecordreport7136]

Ain't that the truth. So many don't care one way or the other about you.

[@shanemarshall9890]

I only have found those people at church.

[@justinengland9814]

@@shanemarshall9890 People who do or do not want the best for you at church?

[@jangriffin-fi1yx]

That's why we have to do our own thing what we find best for ourselves, as it's our life no one else's. Rise above, stay away from toxic negative people who knock you.

[@ursula.m8265]

After a crazy divorce and no children, I love being alone. I do what I want and I can focus on myself.

[@JCGomez-f2e]

Last March, Dr. Peterson was in Orlando, and that same day was my 57th birthday. My marriage was about to completely crumble, life was uncertain and the future (this future I'm writing this from) looked bleak and dark, but I knew one thing, I was going to give myself a birthday gift by driving from West Palm Beach to Orlando and enjoy listening to Dr. Peterson. His words were - and still are - the best gift I could give to myself. Thank you.

[@musictiga93]

1. Stand up tall with your shoulders back 2. Treat yourself like you're someone you're responsible for. 3. Associate with those who want the best for you (they also deserve the best of you) 4. Compare yourself to your past self so you don't bitter yourself comparing to others. 4. Don't let your children act in a way that makes you and others dislike them....help them learn how to behave to get a positive social experience in life. 6. Put your house in perfect condition before you go out to the world: bind ambition with humility (take action on your own needs before telling others what they need). ....

[@duanescot]

I find the ratio of 90/10 to be about ideal, 90% solitude, 10% being social

[@DMAC1301]

Maybe 5% social no more than necessary

[@duanescot]

@@DMAC1301 👍

[@BbTenn]

That sounds about right. Even my social time is dedicated to a few select people.

[@windyshores]

I can see clearly, & totally gain a independent perspective while alone. I learn more when I'm alone,due to unobtrusive visuals,& thoughts. I think with complete clarity while alone.Reckoning on possibilities,& my own previous actions.

[@kevinmcmahon6910]

Solitude, whilst enjoyable, often comes on the back of a catastrophic breakdown of your primary relationship. It then follows that you become more detached in future. Plus you get to understand yourself and if you can love what you find then you can find true joy.

[@mztwixed]

....I find people exhausting...I cannot recharge as well around them.

[@Blake4625kHz]

Then how do you find the will to continue living

[@mztwixed]

@@Blake4625kHz I've lived alone for the last 7/8 yrs. Just recently that's changed. I'll keep u posted.

[@susannt]

Same here...although I Like people...but I need to recharge by my own

[@klyetruman7285]

​@@Blake4625kHzFocus on yourself and create hobbies that you enjoy. You only feel alone when your time is not being utilized. Fill your time with things that you love.

[@fiorenzaattanasio4796]

Thank you Dr Jordan Peterson my inspiration hero and advisor❤️❤️❤️

[@cheneymolloy6142]

Thank you for these talks! I feel that they are helping me with my direction in life. I have been on the boat of life and not realising I was the captain. It's nice to steer it out of the storm even if it's a shipwreck. I'll rebuild and it will be better and better. Thank you.

[@dasco6445]

"I have been on the boat of life and not realising I was the captain" What a great quote! I'm going to steal it off you.

[@TraceThomas-dt9bf]

Thank you Mr Jordan Peterson listen to you all the time stay strong

[@planetx2933]

I deeply thank you, Mr. Peterson, for everything. You are my go-to, every time, when I'm slipping off track. I can't thank you enough.

[@arturogarza7418]

Yes my parents did make me highly independable by leaving me at a young age to Define independent on my own paying rent a 14 years old I am 39 years old now and I appreciate my parents for leaving me and I thank God I wouldn't be the man that I am today stay strong everyone no surrender no retreat

[@arturogarza7418]

I appreciate you for this video sir listening to you helps me to keep myself in check and improve my everyday life working away from home for months all the time being alone is not to bad start safe out there everyone

[@NewBrunswickblue-bluecollar]

Not alone there friend. Most will never understand our point of view on almost everything. Keep trying to be a lightbringer

[@my6732]

Same here. Mother left me at 15. I went to school till 16 then quit and got a job . Been on my own since and I am thankful for her leaving because it made me a strong woman.

[@brenlee9325]

Why did your parents leave you at 14.? Were they ill? How did you find the strength to manage and develop on your own? Did you have the support of other adults, relatives?

[@astorelohim4980]

I can cultivate inner peace only with apt sessions of meditation in solitude ❤🎉

[@alistairmacrae4870]

"If U don't like your own company, you are in the wrong company". Oscar Wilde

[@res1204]

This had nothing to do with being alone

[@cyndy338]

Thank you!👏👏👍😊🙏

[@metlmuncher]

Rule 11! One of the hard ones that pays off big.

[@komamix]

I love being alone. Most of my activities and hobbies, require me to be alone. Art, music, gaming, etc.

[@sicilieli1]

Thank you

[@eva-mariasteinbauer5090]

Number 11... this is going very deep❤

[@dalemoore435]

Challenges made us what we are

[@charlieketchem266]

Perfectly said.

[@MariaBoonen]

The Truth and Nothing but the Truth So Help me God 😢🎉❤

[@jamesskinner7185]

Can’t take anyone with you when you go…. Nothing wrong with some time by yourselve

[@Lost_reality_1]

I am 37 soon and have just broke though with being at peace with myself and are truly enjoying my peace. My ex partner just lost the war with my peace. He chose violence,amongst other issues. I wish him well, sadly it wasn't ment to be. I still am finding it hard to find out what I want to do in this world when there is corruption every which way I turn, my autistic think I like to concentrate on lots is how humans are and how we don't learn from our mistakes until seriousness has arisen. Which makes me sad and at the same time not want any job.

[@worframtimothy1738]

This happen to me too, I didn't know why!

[@micwell2247]

things you'll never find in a DEI. They'll look for someone else to do it for them, and always is a white man made to do it by force of some sort...till now

[@Mike4891w]

It's sad we live in such a sick society, at least you're out of what sounds like a very toxic relationship. There are still some decent folks, just watch out for red flags and never let anyone convince you to do anything you don't want to do. You got this, friend. 😊

[@Dorito_Djinn]

Glad to hear I'm not alone! I'm almost 30 and don't want to engage with a society so devoid of common sense and morality. Also going through bad depression though

[@Goflockyaself87]

Straying away from social and societal norms isn't a bad thing actually it's quite special bieng able to be at peace with your self. Look for beauty in nature and the world but sadly not the populous. The human race is sick and has been institutionally turned sick by many different governments with so many different ideological beliefs. Its ok to be alone and even more ok to value your self and your peace over others. This is the making of a strong person.

[@charlieketchem266]

Excellent rules. 😊

[@travellerhhhffd]

Loneliness is the only option for geniuses and the too good

[@DMAC1301]

Depends on how you look at it, solitude is not loneliness.

[@dasco6445]

Aloneness is not loneliness. I've lived alone for most of my life and gone through loneliness in my younger years. I've got to know myself through it. Now I love this aloneness. It gives me time to do what I most like - thinking deeply about this existence. Not a genius and not too good but content with my life, never bored, never sad. I think a lot of people would envy me on that.

[@NA-lp2re]

Music only detracts from the video. It’s just a nuisance.

[@MigualeV]

What music is this in the background!!! Need to know

[@nalen6346]

Found out that I have more conflicts inside of me than outside. Actually I'm conflicted with what I want and what others might want. If I would meet people and give them what they want, I would practically don't feel alone bcs I give them what they want. On the other side when I focus on what I really want and who I want to be, there would be no one around me. Which way to choose? I feel stronge desire to have friends around me, cause they make me not feel bad and give me confidence in living. When I'm alone I feel so anxious, but more disciplined, so happy yet so alone. I just love shared happiness I guess.

[@KarlMarch-z6k]

It stopped my workouts and i was basically bed ridden. Became extremely anit social. Not just self time. But keep everyone away. Once I'm able l, I'll be on my way. At this point I can't make a oneway walk to Venice. Pushing myself only got me hurt.

[@frosty3693]

Seems like this got a little off topic from the title. Somthing I believe, be curious want to know more. It teaches you how much you don't know and makes other people feel more valuable for the value of the knowledge they have and are willing to share. You both benefit.

[@Cheecher421]

Just what did this have to do with enjoying being alone?

[@DMAC1301]

Don’t know

[@virtualbrady]

The inaccuracies in the subtitles is distracting.

[@highervibe-ride81]

What I mean is agreeable then how do you get to conference to not be

[@Sukisunn]

Nobody truly enjoys being alone... The enjoyment of being alone comes from not having to deal with the crazy people that make up society... Ya I am crazy... Here is the difference I know I am... Most people go their who life being crazy not even knowing it.

[@saltymermaid5244]

I ❤ being alone

[@TheCynicalSkeptic]

Going through these rules, which are nice enough, it seems that their applicability or relevance are fading, or becoming less impactful. Wondering if our times, zeitgeist, whatever, isn’t moving at such a velocity or acceleration with ever-changing problems, issues, expectations, etc. that as quickly as such teachings are given that they become less applicable or relevant or impactful. Ponderous.

[@Verdpast]

No comment on mikhaila yet ? Good good

[@blkmjcwmn61]

What does this have to do with enjoying being alone?

[@threedollarhands4731]

Hey jp. I've been doing everything you say for long time, got my room clean and everything. Question is... When can I expect to be made man?

[@crowbear516]

You already are.

[@threedollarhands4731]

@@crowbear516 nice 👍🏼

[@armedjames2279]

❤

[@zgamer9466]

I haven't been able to get more than 5 hours of sleep a night for the last 2 weeks and I'm told I'm not a man because I just can't handle it

[@jimmieconnell1155]

I haven’t managed to get more than 5 hrs of sleep per night ( usually 4 or less) for the last 20 yrs. Waaaaaa

[@zgamer9466]

@@jimmieconnell1155 well that's an adult respose

[@TrueChimera_]

😭 i never wanted this.

[@cindyoverall8139]

I really resent someone talking about being alone when that person is, obviously never alone.

[@flyingmonkey3822]

Were you thinking of someone who wasn’t propelled into the spotlight as a villain to be canceled and ostracized, but instead after a long and painful process found support enough among the deplorables to recover?

[@cindyoverall8139]

I didn't understand your response. Jordan Peterson is and has never been alone. So obviously, he is not talking from experience. Therefore his words are not true.

[@MilanJackson-wn7zn]

I'm down to seconds

[@melissareinhardt4918]

I do have intellect🎉your test got that wrong

[@highervibe-ride81]

Bad advice on that one rule about making everyone like you and kind , contradicts doesn't it

[@610MARYAM]

A 28 HOUR CLOCK = 100,800 SECONDS PER DAY A 24 HOUR CLOCK = 86,400 SECONDS PER DAY IF U MINUS 86,400 FROM 100,800 IT EQUALS 14,400 SECONDS PER DAY

[@MohamedHamd-s6b]

Thay are sa muslem I see Yosef handshake we kan live

[@highervibe-ride81]

Come on professor Peterson I love you so much, but for you to set up to make everyone docile to be socially acceptable that's not your character at all or mine for that

[@RyanSalazar-dv6dn]

GRIFTER

[@Gresia_Chubak]

Ad fontes . Let’s turn to ancient klassic authors and don’t waist our time on modern sophists 😊

[@crowbear516]

But then I become the modern sophist I waste my time on.

[@Xanthas998]

​@@crowbear516 A sophist with a clue

[@chrisallison9526]

Not that I really just injoy being alone I just not really care to be around you and your fake friends

[@chrisallison9526]

Ohhh you mad cry badly because I told you the truth about you are you going to report me for bullying boo whooo 😂😂tite bady Jordan cry cry

[@Christopherurich33]

❤