When You Grow Old: 9 REASONS Why PEOPLE Secretly HATE You

[@kencavender7369]

I was one of the lucky ones.. I didn't have to wait to get old for people to hate me.

[@1linkbelt]

lol (I like that one!)

[@georgiafrancis9059]

Oh Boy! Do I understand! But if you look at it, all the haters are also YOUNGER and have NOT HAD THE EXPERIENCE YOU HAVE HAD! Ya Gotta love it, really.

[@WiseAdvice93]

That’s tough, but remember, it’s not about being liked by everyone. Focus on those who value you.

[@Mr.Taylor-f2z]

That’s funny.

[@Mr.Taylor-f2z]

I don’t want to “work” at “understanding” young people who don’t know squat about life. If they won’t listen to my wisdom, then let them make their own mistakes.

[@JoanuvArc]

Most on KZbin are seniors so it is good to be grateful for the season you are in.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@purslane231]

Because we speak truth! Nobody wants truth it’s too uncomfortable😢

[@WiseAdvice93]

Truth can be tough to hear, but it’s important to speak it anyway.

[@NO-GAMES]

Haters gonna hate. Weak ,lazy people find hate easier than self improvement.

[@debk6161]

1. Envy & jealousy. 2. Misunderstandings & ineffective communication. 3. Differences in fundamental values & beliefs. 4. The influence of rumors & gossip. 5. Personal insecurities & projection. 6. Lack of empathy & understanding. 7. Competition or rivalry. 8. The influence of social expectations. 9. The lack of recognition.

[@georgevavoulis4758]

You think you would have "Peace-Of-Mind" in your old age😊

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@LifeLessonsRadio]

thanks my friend

[@LifeLessonsRadio]

The truth is that most people only like to hear compliments or lies, the truth always brings uncomfortable feelings.

[@Smknnfshn]

I'm 63. I'm finding myself smoking a ton more weed. I've reverted back to when I was 16. Long hair and all..I've never been happier!!! Life is great!!!

[@NisarAhmad-dj9xm]

Excellent! You just described my retired life situation in words of great wisdom. I can not thank you enough. Regards!

[@WiseAdvice93]

I'm glad the words resonated with you. Wishing you peace and fulfillment in this phase of life!

[@314Tazo]

I believe, my brother and sister are envious of my life decisions and prosperity. I have remained single without kids. They have had unhappy relationships with their spouses/ boyfriend and troubled children. Their bad behavior towards me has caused me to greatly distance myself, from them. My sister thinks she is entitled to my money. (Delusional/Narcissistic)

[@kahvac]

Women can't stand the silent treatment from men it drives them nuts ! Men don't care we just want peace.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@spaceted3977]

I had a Sister like that. Tell her to F*ck Off !

[@HurricaneIrene07]

I'm young and I love most older people.

[@RobertodelaVega-t3w]

I was surrounded by narcissists at work, who never valued my contributions until I was gone.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@mtharri]

Who gives a shit what people think, either they like me love me or hate me it’s none of my business and it’s not my concern. Who cares, the most important person that loves me is me, everyone else can FO.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Great mindset! Loving yourself is what matters most-others’ opinions aren’t your problem.

[@spaceted3977]

JEALOUSY ! That's the Reason !

[@diannejordan6734]

If anyone hares me, that's their problem. I'm too old to worry about it.🎉

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@frankoch600]

People like me or hate I do not care, I do not need them period.

[@1linkbelt]

Not any more!

[@WiseAdvice93]

That's a strong perspective-staying true to yourself is important, even if not everyone agrees.

[@lion-667]

That's exactly how I feel , I don't need them for money I have my own money, I don't need them for shelter, I have my own home etc.etc.

[@JosephZvolensky]

This is a very well thought out dissertation on what life brings us over the years, the thoughts we and others in our lives have and the complexity of life’s dynamics. It encourages introspection, compassion and humility. Life is complex and this helps us to step back a little in a calm manner and try to achieve understanding in our relationships with others.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment! Life's complexities indeed require introspection, compassion, and humility to navigate relationships meaningfully.

[@timcisneros1351]

I used to think that my optimism and belief that there was a reason to help others by inspiring them was appreciated and embraced on social media. Instead it brings out envy and jealousy in a majority of people. I only share what I do now with those I choose. My unshakable optimism is still there and I find great joy in sharing it with those who deserve it and appreciate it. My silence on Instagram and Facebook is creating a vacuum in the lives of the haters. They are confused and unable to target me anymore. It gives me a great sense of freedom and peace.

[@tonycollazorappo]

I know I'm a cranky old man, I don't like today's rude kids around me. Seriously, lol.

[@WiseAdvice93]

It’s okay to feel that way sometimes-it shows you value respect and kindness. Your sense of humor about it is refreshing!

[@andrewquinn6634]

Hear,hear

[@spaceted3977]

No you're not ! My best friends are my 2 Dogs. I have no time for anyone else !

[@trkstatrksta8410]

I hear you man👍👍👍

[@kimberlyphlieger5182]

Yea I know I'm going through that myself, but I can deal with it

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@tina8796]

I thought that was high school and workplace problems. When you're old nobody cares because you're just plain old. I don't see what there is to be jealous of

[@WiseAdvice93]

You’re right-priorities and social dynamics often shift with age, and external judgments tend to fade.

[@davidbuckwitz5408]

You are a rare breed, what’s more you are truly free!

[@Will-ko1fw]

I'm old and alone. My wife died and here family hates me. What was left of my family are gone too. No one left. Only Me. All gone brothers sisters ants uncles.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@janetbusener6326]

I am the best, and they have a lot to be jealous of! 😊😊

[@ginakapuscinski9698]

Mymymymy, ! For the first 76 years of my life - well,perhaps not years 1 thru 7 ! - I told myself much what this video said! HOw lovely to hear it expressed !

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@jerryhorn4697]

In regards to reasons 4 and 7, my personal solution to these is to learn the Number One rule of basic survival: NEVER TRUST ANYONE! The younger generations of Americans thrive on stirring up anger, bitter feelings, hostile confrontation, and making enemies. They do not like kindness, compassion, nor affection from older generations of people, like myself. Younger American women misinterpret all forms of kindness from men as sexual harassment.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@michaelcraig9449]

They SUCK so bad! Cant stand them!

[@davidbuckwitz5408]

You make a good point!

[@darksoul479]

The number one piece of advice I have for young people is don't worry about things that you can't change.

[@gloriafarmer6826]

This is western culture is like. Whereas countries in SE Asia such problems are non existent. Like Japanese culture they treasure the elders in their community.

[@WiseAdvice93]

That’s an insightful comparison; cultural values around aging and respect for elders do vary significantly worldwide.

[@sharminiserasinghe3293]

Not anymore. The elderly are left to fend for themselves.

[@gloriagalarza4915]

Wise comments, thanks a million!

[@DayTwo-w8n]

Your videos are always welcome. Being age 71 I've experienced trials and troubles but there always has been a reason for me to press on. As always "1". Thank you.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and perseverance. Pressing on through trials is truly inspiring.

[@dr.ronbernard9927]

Sadly, this program simply reinforced my desire to avoid as many people as possible. Relationships inevitably bring conflict and heartache. I suggest pets and God as alternatives to people. They won’t let you down.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@michaelcraig9449]

Let the young ones bridge the gap, and put in the effort. I paid my fucking dues. I will not make an effort to pamper or coddle some soft kid.

[@andrewquinn6634]

Hear,hear

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@jj-eo7bj]

Yes it’s all about you

[@davidbuckwitz5408]

I feel ya!

[@robertengland8769]

I could care less if people hate me. Their loss anyway.

[@andrewquinn6634]

I try to keep my mouth shut with what the kids are doing.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@equine2020]

Maybe reminds them, they will be old 1 day

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@chuckwilson2301]

I think that people see you as a burden, because of both mentally and physically limitations.

[@alicesamuels3937]

I’m 72 and can hike 8 k no problem. And not a hint of dementia . Right now I’m in the jungle in Central America on an adventure . Nope, not going down without a fight ….

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@whiteysrides8204]

Very good,ten out of ten ,I learned a lot.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@Slowhiker-xw2kp]

Never really gave a wit what people think, life has been good!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@trkstatrksta8410]

Ha ha😂😂 yes I remember that guy in Fawlty Towers.."It matters not one whit"

[@lou-nc4rc]

Well, he is right about the gossip and the erosion of trust in a family. The thing is that the people who listen and believe it about one individual, don't realize they are also a target, behind their backs. The drama queen gets away with it and creates this poisonous atmosphere. The envy comes from failures in that gossiper's own life. And the damage that is done is real. It gets worse with time.

[@dannybaldwin7343]

😎 I'm 69 yr look good smell good dress dapper active and fit. I can feel the jealousy envy 😎

[@TexasNightRider]

Ok...I'm envious

[@kahvac]

Life is good !

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@EnriqueBautista-il6nu]

Old the suffering life only one things in life when age old always call the lord

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@alanduff2205]

Why even care?

[@missusmoon3867]

Exactly

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@2kkto2]

#1 because when you eat and talk you spit your food... nobody wants to sit across from that.

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree with your opinion, thank you very much

[@EmmanuelAgunloye-t7z]

These are chritains values spoken by God 2 thousan years ago or more. Anyway thank you. God bless

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@DaveCaulkins]

Who cares , I’m 70 and prefer not being around people the older I get . I found true peace . So kiss my grits !!😂

[@diannejordan6734]

"Hates" correction😢

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@EliasMubanga-p1b]

1

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@alanhollands8901]

What a silly title,not true at all.Codswallop.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@endlessadventure541]

Another AI generated video where people can't take the time to read us the information. what garbage.

[@WiseAdvice93]

I understand your frustration; some prefer text for clarity and convenience.

[@endlessadventure541]

@@WiseAdvice93 I prefer a human voice wth the emotion that humans feel. If people have the time to produce these lessons with a computer, why can't they just read them?

[@davidbuckwitz5408]

“You must be assimilated” 😂

[@vessietaylor]

Bologna

[@AdrianFlowers-ql1xk]

Love the video❤