Those cartoons in the Creative Healing Course are really great. For those that haven't seen them, they basically go "here's this couple, here's what they're like" and then a situation happens that brings up conflict. Then you have a bunch of questions to answer about the situation and how it can relate to your own experiences. Starring Palpatine and others. Probably my favorite part of the course. They seemed silly at first but they're very well done and wind up teaching you a whole lot.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Lol and I’m not sure if I’ve revealed this… but there are quite a few Spongebob Easter eggs! But I’m thrilled you love the cartoons. We LOVED making them!
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Oh it’s not just Palpatine (I do a great Palpatine voice btw). Marty from Back to the Future shows up. Margaret makes an appearance. Oh man, I could do those cartoons all the time if they weren’t so time consuming…
@ChrisLT3 жыл бұрын
@@Redouku You sound just like Anxiety in the course.
@ChrisLT3 жыл бұрын
But yeah, the cadence of the Palpatine voice is spot on. "Once moorrree.. he PAUSES! When you ask... if he thinks you're pret-ty."
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
You should hear my Yoda 😂
@marlenedistancia4522 жыл бұрын
Don't run back to someone who broke you. If they left you as easily as they're trying to get you back....grow as an individual and you'll attract better people who'll surround you.
@Almsoo72 жыл бұрын
My wife threatened to divorce barely 3 months after I bought our house, then threatened again 2 months after I renovated the house, and finally a third time 3 months after that. She has 2 younger siblings who moved in with us, and now all 3 of them have moved out. I felt betrayed and heartbroken, having agreed to buy a house for her, putting all the heart and efforts and then she just ended the marriage when things didn't go exactly what she expected. This happened just 2 weeks ago and I am still trying to come to terms. Some days I wish she come back to me, some days I feel angry that she did this to me and just wish I meet someone better.
@sadiqua7 Жыл бұрын
That sucks! So sorry
@Troy12-fitnessmodel8 ай бұрын
Love this thankyou
@hamptongal623 жыл бұрын
It's been a year and I finally do not care if I get my ex back, lol...life is too short for mind games and immaturity....
@davidcoppotelli39573 жыл бұрын
YEP
@connorsobieri2452 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear you’ve moved on man.
@kanedouglas14652 жыл бұрын
1 year is long time dude..
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Exes often do regret their decision! So stay motivated! Do The Knowledge 30 minutes a day! 💪🙌 👏
@CherryBlossom-vr2dc3 жыл бұрын
I love you guys. ♥️♥️♥️ It's been 10 months. My relationship was toxic, with frequent arguing, stonewalling, him belittling me verbally, gaslighting, etc. My ex still finds reasons to talk to me in public, which astounds me as the dumpee, but I don't see a future with him happening or even friendship despite the fact I still love him. Your videos bring me lots of knowledge I hope to use in my next relationship! Wish I could afford coaching and the workbooks, but the videos are teaching me a lot of things I never knew about attachment theory, childhood trauma, etc. Thank you for being THE best dating coaches out there. No one else compares in my opinion!
@OMundoSegundoUmaSagitariana3 жыл бұрын
It is really difficult when both work for the same company. 1) never date ppl from work 2) always take a couple of years by yourself after a break-up - whether they want you back or not (and it is never the same if you do get back, so may as well not get back).
@OneGirlRecipes3 жыл бұрын
What about long distance breakups. Long distance as in different countries. I haven’t seen him in 2 years now. We broke up this June after 1 and a half years of being engaged.
@artamsrr3 жыл бұрын
💖
@kyleemais97803 жыл бұрын
How do I know if I would benefit most from The Knowledge 1-5 or the Elite series instead? Not sure the full benefits of buying into Elite Series
@Jeanninecomeau2 жыл бұрын
I love Margaret. She's so calming.
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
She really is! She’s like a grandmother that some of us never had one, (me personally) or just another grandmother.
@jayl17123 жыл бұрын
These people know what they are talking about. Broken up 1 year, they kept contact. I finally put down the no contact and not even 1 month later the …”hi how are you doing ?” Text keep rolling in. Now they want to meet up and spend time asking for intimacy . But y’all need to work on yourself like they say! You have to put yourself first and maintain awareness!! Great video!
@manesitaasmr3 ай бұрын
I made the mistake of keeping in contact with my ex too for about 6 months and he met someone else at work and cut me off. It was all out of no where and he hid it from me.
@MH-fd3xz3 жыл бұрын
This beautiful soul lady in the middle is just amazing and her energy is so nice
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
4 weeks no contact today. I’m proud of myself for respecting their wishes even though I felt angry and confused.
@mrkeitt3 жыл бұрын
I'm 47 days 💪🏽 Feels great right ?!
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
@@mrkeitt it does but this god damn chick won’t leave my brain. Ptsd was triggered from shock and mornings are annoying. Congrats bro!
@OneGirlRecipes3 жыл бұрын
I feel angry and sad. It just comes in waves
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
@@OneGirlRecipes , I read that if you’re angry it stems from still being in denial. The sadness is the emotion under anger. I was angry this morning, I can’t wait to wake up free of obsession and emotion.
@OneGirlRecipes3 жыл бұрын
@@RHammer1983 That's interesting. I guess being in denial makes sense. I agree. I want to wake up one morning without this empty feeling or the urge to cry. The mornings and nights are the worst. :-(
@adrij49613 жыл бұрын
Craig, could you make a video on “my ex didnt come back after a year of no contact”? I know you say it’s always possible unless they are married or pass away, but I feel some of us don’t get exes back and it may be comforting to hear about that experience
@Joey-in-smalltown-Germany3 жыл бұрын
I second that suggestion. I'm my lifetime, none of my exes ever came back. Just reached 5 years of marriage this past July. However, my wife and I have been separated for 9 months now and she's the only one I would ever truly care about coming back or not.
@smilersmiling3 жыл бұрын
No contact is not a guarantee that your ex will ever come back. It’s respect for you and your ex. It’s about regaining control of you and bettering yourself. If they didn’t want the previous you then your best chances of getting your ex back is being a better version of yourself. Also pay attention to those that shouldn’t be in relationships and have done you favour. Toxic emotionally damaged people that have a lot of childhood trauma should be avoided and if they’ve dumped you have managed to dodge a really big bullet.
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72043 жыл бұрын
I have read about people that got back together after several years of separation. I have also read about studies that found that it took on average one year and a half for couples to get back together after a breakup. So yeah, in the long run one year might not be enough for a dumper to regret what he or she had. It still depends on a lot of variables like personalities of the two of you, experiences, other potential partners, needs, mental health, and reasons for the breakup etc. pp.
@michaeldulsky84923 жыл бұрын
A few of my ex girlfriends came back after I moved on and was dating another Woman. You must let go and don't be afraid of meeting someone better. Stay confident. Good luck
@michaeldulsky84923 жыл бұрын
@@Malignantt1 I'm sorry to hear about the situation you're in. My ex wife confessed to cheating on me after I was with her and faithful the entire relationship. Don't do what I did and stay. She obviously treated me like dirt but the problem was.... I accepted that from her. People treat you the way you let them. Don't give up handling your own life and being good to yourself. Don't feel guilty either just walk away from that mess and when she realizes you're not available anymore she will come chasing you. If she doesn't Karma is in her future. Just create your own happiness by trying to chase her. There are so many good woman out there.
@aronchas3 жыл бұрын
After 3 years she did not 🤣🤣 but guess what? I found someone different, no drama. A better relationship
@aronchas3 жыл бұрын
@Micheal rakute mah, he is a trouble maker 🤣🐖💨
@aaronk43103 жыл бұрын
Every relationship is different but glad you found love
@farahshine95633 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your videos I couldn’t get through it without you guys I did not get back with my ex but I found someone better and more loving and I’m so happy with him. Please if you are reading this there is hope let’s go and you shall receive.
@joshinbama832 жыл бұрын
Iv tried so hard to let go :(
@klak96443 жыл бұрын
She broke up 3 months ago, we still casually slept together for about a month afterwards because of the comfort it gave me. No contact for 5 weeks now, some days go well, some are horrible. I'm waiting for the day where I can move on completely and where my mind stops feeding me with false hope. I blocked her from all social media which make me feel very anxious in the beginning, but it was the best decision I could've made for my own peace of mind. Stay strong, keep working on yourself small steps at a time, we’ll get there!
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
@iuliaig3 жыл бұрын
if you're being friendly each time they come back they might take you for a fool... I'm a little reserved about being open every time
@agbordaniels3 жыл бұрын
You’re right... maintain no contact unless they show serious n consistent effort n escalation like Lucia from the Art of Love 💕 says, I’m a heavy fan of her approach cos more often times than not you could be dealing with narcissists.
@CochoAntonio3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, that’s what I noticed with my ex gf. They see the door is always opened whenever they wanna come in they have a free pass. I believe that just alleviates their anxiety so they can keep moving forward easily.
@adrij49613 жыл бұрын
Totally. My boundary regarding that has been: I will take back an ex who dumped me once. Everyone makes mistakes and I can give second chances. But after that, a third, fourth, or fifth chance is just you letting that person walk all over you saying they’re going to change and improve when the relationship has zero intentions of changing.
@0220LMB2 жыл бұрын
@@abdurllerabdurller2774 How did you do it?
@conquistadorchevalier66872 жыл бұрын
@@0220LMB They are a scammer please report & avoid communicating with them
@yolandakerr73683 жыл бұрын
My ex is totally doing this right now...imma play dumb till he reaches out
@PabloTube693 жыл бұрын
I’ve been so positive these past 7 weeks but I lost all hope this morning. Today I gave up on her.
@davidcoppotelli39573 жыл бұрын
Hey Pablo, Try 4 months no NC and I walked Away from her after 15.5 years of dating her. focus on yourself not them it will drive you crazy. work on you jobs, Money, another Girl is right around the Corner while bettering yourself. Girls are going to come and Go that's for sure make yourself happy. Just Saying
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
Six weeks for me bro. Keep us posted. If she loved us and wants us back. 6-7 weeks is nothing. We want them back and have it work. If we’re both emotional and worried they haven’t reached out...they’ll move on again.
@jessicaorozco38483 жыл бұрын
5 weeks for me. what sucks is when a man says " you're such an amazing woman i dont think i can give you what u want, need and deserve " made no sense to me but i told him its not that he cant its the fact that he doesnt want to try and its a choice. i never asked for much and made it clear that the only thing i wanted was to eventually get married. he knew this from the beginning 2.5 yrs.
@shibiaoyuan39583 жыл бұрын
I got dumped forty days ago. Finally decided to go in no contact after a lot of pleading of which she took advantage enjoying both my accompany and freedom. This selfish behavior eventually pissed me off. I decided to go in no contact with her. And it only had been three days and my ex reached out like four times within the period. What sarcasm.
@gagerdrg3 жыл бұрын
Updates my guy?
@shibiaoyuan39583 жыл бұрын
@@gagerdrg I went to see her then we had sex. She still seemed not to want to come back. So I went on with no contact. She again kept contacting me. What a xxx~ I got confused. Cause I could see my feelings for her are fading so fast due to her cheap behaviors after breakup
@brandonnykyforak3 жыл бұрын
When you went into no contact did you text her last? Or did she and you ignored her then 3 days later she texted back again?
@shibiaoyuan39583 жыл бұрын
@@brandonnykyforak I didn't text her last. I just wanted to make it seem as much confusing as possible.
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
Another great helpful video! I just wish my ex feels the same way as what the title says and knowing her, if we do get back, she’ll probably say “let’s forget about this whole thing, and put the past behind us.”
@tjbohmier462 жыл бұрын
My very first love reached out after nearly 10 years of no contact? We had a child together, young that is grown and beautiful. We both have had relationships, marriage, and other kids since. I'm blown away. She had her stuff I had my stuff and appears we are both missing our deep soulful conection after all of this time. Crazy, huh? We are having very good communication right now, and she has sparked my intrest.
@hunn_edd Жыл бұрын
My ex once email me and said “The cat misses you” … 😅
@judith36083 жыл бұрын
I find your collective comments very comforting and validating. Thank you for sharing your experience and training. What a gift. Thank you!
@LiLgPnoy153 жыл бұрын
Another great video. I wonder at times, how can they come with new material? You three always find a way.
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
@jessicaorozco38483 жыл бұрын
Hi Joseph I always see your comments. i was curious about your update ?
@Quellebel3 жыл бұрын
Its been 14 months since the breakup and 13 months since he began dating a rebound. Last month he and his rebound broke up. He blamed me for being part of their breakup (since we were still friends during their relationship) and said no contact was best for us so he could date women without me making them jealous and for me to get over him. Im on day 25 NC and feel stronger than ever. I'm just focussing on myself right now and if its meant to be, he will come back.
@susananavarrete28013 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m sorry this happened to you. I’m glad you’re ok though
@kmstirpitz42853 жыл бұрын
My ex has some pretty ugly issues among herself and her surrounding environment. Personally- I'm at that point where I realize she lost me- not the other way around- on a potentially amazing guy and that I did more for her than she did for me. I've moved on. It's been two months. I still miss her- miss what we had- and her looks and smile- but I can't possibly jump back into something like that again. Not with her unless she fixes herself.
@iamthestorm10043 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about your breakup and pain Same situation for me. I won't tolerate disrespect and being devalued by any woman. Don't care how hot she may be... The hotter they are on the outside.. The colder they will be on the inside Maintain zero contact... Walk away.. Stay away and never look back We men must send these broken toxic women a loud and clear message. WE are the prize as men and they have to earn our respect, love and adoration. They think because they offer their bodies to us that that is their contribution to our relationships... Sorry... Not even a fractional contribution I'm not trying to slam women nor appear to sound insulting but social media has totally destroyed traditional dating and relationships.... TOTALLY DESTROYED !!!
@cyrusphilip9802 жыл бұрын
+12
@cyrusphilip9802 жыл бұрын
04
@cyrusphilip9802 жыл бұрын
808
@cyrusphilip9802 жыл бұрын
22
@israelmendoza52622 жыл бұрын
How do you reply to an ex who asks for forgiveness for hurting you, but shows no sign of wanting to get back together?
@fishstyx97052 жыл бұрын
I watched you 3 years ago and did the work. My ex left me 3 weeks ago. I went into no contact immediatly. Last night she responded to a sliver in my picture post on FB. It was a huge sliver. She texted me this morning and asked how my finger was and told me to get it checked. She texted me this afternoon saying it would be ok if I took her dog for a weekend. Meanwhile I have lost 18 lbs. And have been getting therapy for a terrible childhood that was suppressed and I didnt even know about. The breakup caused so much trauma for me all these memories from childhood came back instead of our relationship memories. I feel 200 percent better after talking about these unresolved memories. I am a new person from letting things go that I didnt even know I was carrying with me. You guys ever seen this. Made me feaful of attaching to her which drove her away.
@carlfreiermuth54243 жыл бұрын
Me to her: I miss your cat too lol
@ponokunishima1 Жыл бұрын
Wish I had enough money to purchase the workbooks or the healing course, they look like fun! Knowing my ex, I’m sure she would just want us to forget about the situation, but keep working together on our problems; she’ll help me and I’ll help her.
@everilliem32923 жыл бұрын
Yeah, not going to lie, don't think my ex is coming back, I just wish this depression would end honestly.
@robbieceez70523 жыл бұрын
Hit the gym. It really helps your mental state. Time will heal you
@everilliem32923 жыл бұрын
@@robbieceez7052 yeah I was working in posture and weights for about a month, but then the depression really hit hard. Going to write a schedule for next week, between jobs atm so too much time to think.
@robbieceez70523 жыл бұрын
@@everilliem3292 yeah i feel you. I was there. I was bordeline suicidal cuase i couldnt stop overthinking. But it will get better i promise. I know it hard to believe that because people said it to me all the time but the minute i set a new lifegoal and was moving on she came back. If its meant to be itll be
@everilliem32923 жыл бұрын
@@robbieceez7052 was a 4 year relationship, she left due to my anger when gaming and drinking too much here and there. Plus side, no alcohol for nearly 2 months :) She did still love me during to breakup, it was just for her mental health I think, I did truly feel she was "the one" everything was perfect in my eyes, just was in a bit of a rut with myself. She never communicated how she was feeling about anything. And is the 2nd time she blindsided me, though I kinda deserved it. I still have this tiny hope she will come round, like, I be er abused her, threatened her, demeaned her or put her down or anything, the relationship was super affectionate, we were always laughing, having fun, being Intimate etc least in my eyes. Anyway you're right, gotta keep working on myself man. Thanks heaps. I need to be better Also, how long before you started "moving on"?
@robbieceez70523 жыл бұрын
@@everilliem3292 same buddy. 4 qnd a half years and we had a dog together. That was the worst part. Like 4 months in i was moved on and ready to dat and she came over unexpectedly and had sex 3 times and she slept over. Soon as you let go they come back its strange. But you gotta make the changes she wants for you. And do it for yourself. Gotta grow as a man. Congrats on 2 months sober👍
@minhthifresh3 жыл бұрын
Thank you all so much :) been listening to your videos for the past couple weeks and it keeps me sane
@preetisaluja96843 жыл бұрын
Seriously 🙏🏼
@snapper4u3 жыл бұрын
don’t talk about getting them back talk about keeping them away 😂
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
@adoptioncorner19843 жыл бұрын
You guys are the best, every time I listen to one of your videos it gives me encouragement and hope
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!🚩🚩🚩🚩
@fitforfreelance2 жыл бұрын
Just gotta stay focused on your own health and business goals!
@johnreyles44652 жыл бұрын
7 months no contact, at this point i don’t really care if she comes back. It just sucks from talking every single day and being in love with each other to her now just watching my IG stories.
@imdiyu2 жыл бұрын
I wanna stop contacting my ex but then we are working on a project together. So we have to text each other on a regular basis. I can't wait for the project to be over.
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
Also, the thing is that when my ex told me that she wanted to breakup, I suggested that couples counseling might be an option, but she said no. But that was then and maybe she’ll change her mind later or after we get back together possibly.
@nikiarnold59913 жыл бұрын
My ex unblocked me on facebook after 7.5 months while with her bf she monkey branched too. Started to post stuff about how move on without getting an apology. And then starts posting that she got engaged. So I blocked her. I think the engagement is fake and she's just looking for a reaction.
@Wargwarn3 жыл бұрын
I'm staying in no contact indefinitely, she's a narcissistic headache
@joanev3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Coach Craig,Margaret and Victoria💕
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@joanev3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth omg!😍😍😍😍🥰
@Drip042 жыл бұрын
Good god what a great video!!!!! Ive heard it alll for a year. Bread crumbs friendzoned. And not once have I reached out always her. I ve heard pans lol heck even pillow and u name it. She hasnt stopped. Till finally a month ago i said no more please let me be. And i dont want to be just friends!!!!!! Dont fall for friends. Please people. Walk away and let them go. I personally fell For it all. Even guilt and i miss you was in there but not once did she want to reconsider. So i said im Out. No friends ..time To go our ways for good. Im not an option. Nor ever will be. Lots of reach out s are just validation for them and make sure u are okay. Blah. Blah blah. Time To Move on !!!! Awesome video again👍👍
@cristylea803 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on when we DO receive an "I miss you" text? There are so many other people out there with crappy videos/advice. I'd really love to hear your thoughts! Obviously I got one, I responded calm, short and confident but haven’t heard from him since. Its been a month. Thanks for all you do! You are the best!!
@knockdadeathstroke37993 жыл бұрын
Its been a year and a half I feel bad for the wall in her room, she banged her head in it so many times at this point lol
@khawajamazhar91883 жыл бұрын
Yeah buddy I am sure the must be cracked by now.😂
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
Wish my ex was like some of the examples they gave, but knowing her, once she made up her mind, she sticks to it. But, like Craig says, feelings change, and I still have faith. Besides, my breakup is still early, 6 weeks tomorrow.
@obiej17 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@ponokunishima1 Жыл бұрын
@@obiej17 Never coming back she said. Oh well, plus, I blocked her last night after all these months
@obiej17 Жыл бұрын
@@ponokunishima1 did she break no contact and reach out at some point?
@ponokunishima1 Жыл бұрын
@@obiej17 I did, because I needed to know the truth after all those months and when I got it, goodbye.
@obiej17 Жыл бұрын
@@ponokunishima1 how long did u wait
@Thecityinside5 ай бұрын
You should do more videos of people that have kids and or young kids together. That’s a totally unique situation I would like to hear more insight on
@BiggGee7022 жыл бұрын
Well, my ex keeps saying i dumped her because i gave her a choice to stay or leave. So she left. She started dating ine of my friends. I dont knownif thats still going. Im just working on me. Im sad and heartbroken but i cant wait on her to figure herself out
@hatchet8209Ай бұрын
Too funny hearing the vacuum going on in the background
@Rizzy_K3 жыл бұрын
62 days of no content. Still blocked on everything. My family is still blocked too. Yeah it’s time to move on. She’s never coming back.
@NoFoxGivenWaitWhat3 жыл бұрын
I guess it's still too early 3 - 6 months I heard the most time, or even more
@Rizzy_K3 жыл бұрын
@@NoFoxGivenWaitWhat yeah possibly but I’m not waiting for her while she does her thing
@knockdadeathstroke37993 жыл бұрын
62 days? Bruh Im in it for almost 2 years And I bet my ass she regrets it every single day
@Rizzy_K3 жыл бұрын
@@knockdadeathstroke3799 I personally wouldn’t be doing no contact for 2 years. I would’ve moved on after 3-4 months
@knockdadeathstroke37993 жыл бұрын
@@Rizzy_K who said anything about waiting my guy, im just in nc meaning I have no contact with my ex and I dont give a damn for a good amount of time by now. Im sure she'll try to crawl back in my life at one point but Im chillin and I dont think about her at all
@stormwarrior36093 жыл бұрын
Into 3 months and 13 days no contact for the 4th time in 4 years. But who’s counting……
@whiterobin012 жыл бұрын
@stormwarrior yeah sounds like me. 5 times in 3 years. Must be the avoidant/ anxious trap.
@Paynetrayneoce3 жыл бұрын
1 month no contact good timing on this video
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
@hitthecouch3 жыл бұрын
My ex left because she’s a cluster B. Be careful out there men & women.
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
@emmanuela.mendoza29883 жыл бұрын
Great video thank you for posting!!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@mohamedsanhar48583 жыл бұрын
I'm thanking all of you. It's so very helpful
@intesarsalim83122 жыл бұрын
U have a wonderful team .. which is always motivating and giving us a right self experienced advise.thanks for making excellent videos.
@ivydune41853 жыл бұрын
It's not linear, but what is the timeline here? Can they have these thoughts after...5 months? After dating others? After feeling so infatuated / in love with someone? After ignoring you? After moving on? Or they only reconsider after the first 30 days no contact when the breakup is still very fresh?
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72043 жыл бұрын
Sorry to tell you that, but often times an ex does not regret the break up to such an extent that they will want you back ever again. More often than not the relationship is gone for good.
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72043 жыл бұрын
@@mmbb1119 exactly. It's over. Burry the relationship and be happy about it because something new will rise out of the ashes.
@josephgomez22493 жыл бұрын
I will say that I had a girl I was dating maybe about 10 months ago, I broke it off with her. So I was the one that didn’t want to make it work. About 2 months ago I felt tremendous regret, and wanted to reach out to her. I didn’t. But hope this example is somewhat helpful.
@ivydune41853 жыл бұрын
@@josephgomez2249 Thank you. The thing is she wasn't good enough for you to make the effort to go back. And that is what makes me really sad. He love bombed me, then decided he could do much better or that "he couldn't be in a relationship", but while he couldn't get much better he tried to flirt back with me (just friends...sure) until he did get the better girl and I'm no longer needed. After 5 months he forgot me. Attachment isn't enough. Those kisses are of sorrow. Pity.
@emmalynrae5922 жыл бұрын
@@ivydune4185 in my experience even after they’ve fallen in love with someone else, they quickly realize that falling in love and being in love are different. That’s when they start to compare the love they had for their ex versus the infatuation type of love they feel for their rebound. They know it’s not the same but this process takes at least 3-4 months because the honeymoon stage in rebounds are a lot shorter than the honeymoon stage in relationships that are started for all the right reasons. Problem is even when they’re comparing, or thinking about you or even want to reach out to see how you’re doing...pride and fear get in the way of them wanting to do anything about their feelings. Some will reach out but others will just push through the feelings and move on. That’s really the only difference between those who come back and those who don’t. But dumpers always go through the same grief process. It’s just what they do about it that makes the difference.
@oldgoat55893 жыл бұрын
I'm 73, and living in an isolated part of central France, with no friends, no surviving family, and I hardly ever see anyone. My wife left me three months ago, after a series of disagreements, none of which I considered very serious, although her drinking was often the root cause of them. She arranged with her daughter and son in law, also living in France, to help collect her stuff and move her out one Sunday. She left our collie dog and cat for me to look after. I haven't heard a word from her (not even to enquire after our animals), or her family, since - I always got on with them all. So it seems that the relationship is irrevocably, and totally over, despite having known her for nine years, and married for four of them. I feel as if I've been switched off, the fuse withdrawn, and the power cut off. I am devastated, and finding things very difficult.
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@betinaaksoz6246 Жыл бұрын
Your example about the cat made me remember me missing my ex's dog after break up 2 years ago ahahaha 😂 But i genuinely missed the dog. Although i never contacted him about it to not give false hope. Maybe dumpers do miss the cat sometimes. We get attached to pets too. I had a good relationship with the dog for 4 years since it was a little puppy.
@sonicchaos232 жыл бұрын
Hopefully so. She broke up with me even though I know I was as good of a boyfriend as I could have been. Not perfect mind you, but pretty darn good. It makes me sad to think that me putting in the constant effort to be a good boyfriend was not good enough for her. But than I also know that one day she will look back and realize what she gave up and most likely regret it at some point. I've been in NC for two months now and she blocked me pretty much everywhere right after the break up. I didnt even beg her or anything she just did it right away. I partially think she is ashamed because she knows how hard it would be for me and the likely reason she wanted to break up. I also think she might be taking it hard, but that's only my gut feeling, nothing else. As much as it sucks and I want this feeling to end, I also just dont know if she will ever have to courage to reach out even if/when she gets to the stage of regret.
@NomadUrpagi3 жыл бұрын
My relationship with my ex is like Game of Thrones: such a golden thing went to shit that the bad taste will stay for years and i can't think about it without getting sad and angry. She is as dumb as D&D.
@MadeInTheStruggleProgram2 жыл бұрын
Wow, the female coaches are DOLLS!! This video is just amazing - Very fundamental 💯💯💯
@sadiqua7 Жыл бұрын
What about being broken up with because your ex doesn’t feel he’s good enough to be with you without being brave enough to have a conversation about it? Bonus, he still wants to be “friends”. I’m trying to be friendly, but am in pain because he’s so close but still so far. He even told me he was just in my building doing a delivery, and that I must’ve felt him since I happened to reach out that day. It’s nerve wracking! I have NO idea what he’s thinking. All I know is that he’s avoiding me but still wants to be connected. He’ll ghost at whim, and will be light and friendly when he wants to connect. He told me past girlfriends have simply stopped responding to him. I essentially did that in the early courting stage but he still would reach out every few months for 2 years. I finally decided to see if we could be a thing and fell for him. 8 months into it he deactivated after a series of him making a few mistakes. I broke up with him, the next day he asked to talk. Never happened. A month later poof, breakup text. Wtf.
@michellebrown32072 жыл бұрын
IM VERY PATIENCE WITH GOD WHEN IT COMES TO MY EX. I SENSE HIS SAD SPIRIT THROUGH SONGS AND OTHER VISIONS THE UNIVERSE BRINGS TO ME WITH THE HANDWRITING ON THE WALL.
@plantsnorman9606 Жыл бұрын
Since they broke up with me they’re always watching my stories I can’t put any finger on it
@jiheehwang59353 жыл бұрын
sometimes when my anxiety is up to the roof, after hearing Margaret it really soothes me :).. it has been 1 month and a half NC since the last he reached out after 3 weeks of the break up :( i haven't watch your videos back then and i just didn't know what to do.. i didn't do the manipulating though and i didn't brought up about the break up i just replied to him normally.. but then i think my anxiety caught me to do something that i shouldn't do.. i just don't know whether i blew my chance or not.. so i just go on another no contact.. now i actually thankful for the break up though, because now i know more about myself and my attachment issues.. i want to be better if he come back.. i hope so
@MS-rd1tn2 жыл бұрын
@Ji Hee Hwang Update?
@jessicaorozco38483 жыл бұрын
im so triggered tonight. i think i do it to myself bc i dont actively use fb and i just go on there to see what my ex has been doing bc he hasnt been posting on insta.( we still have eachother on there) he didnt delete any of our pictures, i have deleted almost all of them from mine looks like he doesnt care. its been 5 weeks of nc since the day of the breakup . his post stated he has been single for a few months and he seems to just be filling his time with jeep stuff and using fb as his venting . his son is leaving and all 4 of his kids will be living out of state with their mother (all over 18 except 1.) i hope he starts to really feel anxious once his son and all kids are gone. im starting to get angry . i wanna be over this. 😩 im working on the workbooks but still its so hard.
@ClaCa77710 күн бұрын
Do you still want your white mirror (worth $7 from target) ? Is this indirect direct ? This is 7 days after returning my other stuff.
@RhidMorgan3 жыл бұрын
Opinion on ex coming back after 5 months in indirect approach but then ghosting me? She playing games
@mummyd19902 жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend told my neighbour that she has bought me a birthday present but she does not know if I will accept it,which I won't, just do not understand why she wants to give me a birthday present after she dumped me for the 2nd time 4 months ago??
@StarReact0015 ай бұрын
what about if they are in rebound?
@mattsmallwood39942 жыл бұрын
My ex is in a rebound and it doesnt looking its ending anytime soon
@dickinyourmouth72942 жыл бұрын
This trio is the best. No offense to Craig but it’s not as fun when it’s just him lol
@CoachCraigKenneth2 жыл бұрын
It’s not as fun for me either 🤷🏻♂️
@Dad_Brad3 жыл бұрын
I may need to get a cat..😅
@joannalove73743 жыл бұрын
Or a mouse
@siangwedding7483 жыл бұрын
Do ex really regret
@LG-ly7di Жыл бұрын
The part about when your ex just comes back like nothing ever happened! Lol omg it’s happening and I’m like wth is going on lol!
@CoachCraigKenneth Жыл бұрын
Told ya 😉
@albertvanderford13512 жыл бұрын
My husband abandoned me n hurts so bad haven't heard from him i miss him do you even think he will regret. It
@n26c882 жыл бұрын
Lol I got I miss the dog 😅
@kimorady87913 жыл бұрын
Can this happen after a year of a break up from In a long distance?
@karenritchie3492 Жыл бұрын
Can separation anxiety hit even if they started a relationship right away? Engaged with 6 weeks after our breakup after our 12 year relationship...
@ciopespula Жыл бұрын
What if it’s the second breakup from them coming back before, we made it a year and a half in a 3 and a half year relationship and we still had some challenges to overcome but were making progress and then she just hit a breaking point and left and it was very emotional and I know I didn’t want that and she hated that she had to but didn’t know what else to do I’m devastated because she is truly my soulmate I know we both deeply felt that and have a deep bond and love just had miscommunication and misunderstanding issues that still needed to be worked on and figuring out that balance in those moments
@KoaGrey3 жыл бұрын
Mine just did after 5 months!!
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
That’s a long time! Sounds like they either miss you or got dumped or lied too themselves.
@GoldLeafPress2 жыл бұрын
Whyyyy whyyy why why do I feel he’s not gonna come back?! I’m on day 41! I haven’t looked at my phone and I’m so scared! I feel blah about how I think he feels! I seriously doubt he’s missing me! I know I know people will tell me “40 days is nothing to miss someone and to rethink…give it more time!” I get to keep up hope but I shouldn’t bring myself to that only to be hurt again
@marywilliams94272 жыл бұрын
Hello dear, I know of a man| who help me bring my ex back he can also help you just as he did mine, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, You gonna testify.
@BillRWare2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you're doing NC for all the wrong reasons...
@TreesFart3 жыл бұрын
Wish I had a cat😂
@ozzydee66423 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't friends and family stave off separation anxiety?
@NOVELBITES2 жыл бұрын
No. It’s the separation from you and the relationship that makes them anxious. It’s specific. It’s not separation anxiety from other humans in general.
@tonyrossi38143 жыл бұрын
How about a situation where my ex wife (20 years apart) prior to spending a lot of time together from March through June? We never became intimate at all, but spent most days together, usually with her kids from her 2nd marriage. We did spend the night together in the same bed 5x, just sleeping unfortunately. She said she wanted to be just friends, but I’ve told her I wasn’t interested in that at all.
@Zemohc Жыл бұрын
All this sounds like conjecture. *If* they feel the space. But you gotta go increase your charisma stat. So if you do bump into your ex or someone else theyll be like "omg. Your charisma level. H4x." What i mean to ask is like how do you know if youve done enough work and properly? 🤨
@michaeldulsky84923 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice.
@petermiller86163 жыл бұрын
It’s been 11 weeks no contact my grandma passed away on Tuesday and my ex text me that day saying she hopes I’m ok and is sorry for my loss Is that a form of contact? I replied saying thank you x
@mrkeitt3 жыл бұрын
Could be a segway just to reach out. But it may be genuine sympathy. Keep focusing and you'll be great. Stay strong and RIP to your grandmother 🙏🏾
@sanlaw5843 жыл бұрын
Hope he is sorry but he quickly moved on and replaced me and his kids with a colleague + new baby. Our sons don’t speak to him + the family is broken up.
@uniquedavenport72322 жыл бұрын
My ex dumped me and did this to me hes a dismissive avoidant but cant admit it to me even though it's really obvious he wants to get back with me like nothing happened but I'm not open to him unless he works on his self and he dont want to do that
@emmalynrae5922 жыл бұрын
Yeah unless he works on himself he’ll just do the same things if you took him back. Hard part is...you can’t help him. My ex is avoidant too but they can’t work on the themselves in a relationship because they just end up blaming the other person for why they feel what they feel instead of understanding that avoidance is unhealthy regardless if they’re with you or not.
@charlesdesarmeau2572 жыл бұрын
I had an ex reach out with an indirect approach . After 2 1/2 months I got a text message "wrong number"
@marywilliams94272 жыл бұрын
Hello dear, I know of a man| who help me bring my ex back he can also help you just as he did mine, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, You gonna testify.
@stefaniamandi68973 жыл бұрын
should i delete my photos with my ex on instagram?
@TravelButter3 жыл бұрын
Just deactivate ur social media, if u take off specific posts it looks targeted. If they did that they would be doing it to get your attention so they could see it the same way.
@rgustavo1r13 жыл бұрын
I do
@caseyfurtaw10753 жыл бұрын
yes lol
@jgreenhaus4 Жыл бұрын
Feel like you give a bit of mixed messages. You say you don't want to just jump on things and say I want you back when they reach out but you do say that you should "strike while the iron is hot and ask them out/to meetup"... which in reality that's what that action subtly says.
@westyNUFC3 жыл бұрын
Want a brilliant indirect direct that she did to me? She cooked a joint of beef and sent me a picture of it saying I can't eat all of this by myself do you want some. I think I handled it well. I accepted and said yeah, put it in a container. I'll swing by after the gym and pick it up. I didn't assume that it was going to be some romantic meal. I just picked it up and took it home. Well to my mums. I still see where she's living as home. I'm not going to tell Becky that though.
@961009kartellen3 жыл бұрын
Hi Craig, got blocked from my EX due not me. i know about NC but the thing is she before the breakup she was telling me that i wasnt getting her attention that she needed and stuff like that. So now getting blocked and still not reaching out shall make her feel like she was right and i do not care, am i wrong or right ? What shall i do ?
@redhourglass83 жыл бұрын
Wrong. Beg her forgiveness
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
@loveaveradvicetv30013 жыл бұрын
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
@961009kartellen3 жыл бұрын
@@redhourglass8 You sure ? Why would it help, if she was expecting a excuse she would have unblocked me to get it ?
@961009kartellen3 жыл бұрын
Comman people what do you think
@TheKisshu19972 жыл бұрын
''Just wanted to write to you and tell Grandma got buried today''. I was with him at the memorial service about a month ago.. was this him thinking I wanted to know she finally got buried so I could visit her, or is this and indirect-direct... I didn't really know the Grandma, I attended out of respect for her, the family and my bf at the time..
@mumteancosmin1662 жыл бұрын
We argue she told me she needs time, so i start no contact, after 2 weeks told me she wants to break up, shes feels calmer without me, then she blocked ME.When relief stage really started? Any chance to miss me with time if i go into no contact?
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@cyrusphilip9802 жыл бұрын
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@chunkybabbit57343 жыл бұрын
Hey comment section. So after virtually exactly a year of no contact, I get a message from my ex. It went like this: "Hey, hope everything is ok. Can I arrange a day to come and get some personal items?" That's verbatim. I was already pretty done. I thought of her sometimes but the hurt and all that was over. Now I'm kind of relapsing a little. Do you think that's considered an indirect/ direct? I mean, it's been a year of no contact at all. Last I said to her was I wasn't going to be demoted to friend just to watch her move on. That was it
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
What personal items? If it’s nothing big; I’d say it’s a indirect direct.
@chunkybabbit57343 жыл бұрын
@@RHammer1983 Honestly, I didn't ask . I found the phrasing itself to be a bit odd, instead of just highlighting some specific thing she could be talking about. I know Craig always says assume they will come back, but I just went the fast set a face to face route and arranged this coming Sunday. Not had any further conversation so I'm just curious at this point
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
@@chunkybabbit5734 , clearly it’s not about personal items. That’s just an ice breaker.
@chunkybabbit57343 жыл бұрын
@@RHammer1983 If nothing else, this serves to show the power of anxiety in a break up. I was essentially moved on. Now out of the blue, I am questioning things again, stupidly trying to mind read, straight back on Craig Kenneth videos looking for insight etc. I know I'm looking at that from a dumpee perspective, but if all humans are similar, she must also have these same thoughts just in the act of reaching out even if it is just for some items , whatever they may be. As I've seen Craig himself say before, women don't contact men they aren't interested in. They just don't. But that's more mind reading
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
@@chunkybabbit5734 , A year is a long time, it’s been about six weeks for me . We were very healthy and she did it on the phone; fucked me up cause I couldn’t say goodbye. Let me know how it goes, that’s a long build up to talk again.