My Ex Is Dating Someone New

Finding out that your ex is dating someone new can be extremely difficult. It can hurt you far more than you would expect.
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[@xtrekrex]

One of my exes I dated did this to me. Long story short, she left me for another dude. I pretty much died for nearly 2 months. I would always imagine my ex having sex with the other dude and going to all the places we went to. It was bad lol. Then I decided that I need to get it together, so I started traveling solo and started opening myself to other girls. Long story short, my ex contacted me around 3 months after she pretty much told me to F off. She wanted to get back together even when she knew that I was already dating someone else. Seriously, I never would've thought that she would say, "Me and this guy aren't connecting. I really miss what we had." It's too bad that I learned to overcome all the BS and decide to stay with the other girl. What Craig says in his videos is super legit. I never ever ever ever would've thought that she wanted to get back together. Ex's feelings change. Sometimes it just takes time. In my case, it took her a while. She also compared the other dude with me and made her realize that I was her best option lol. Our feelings change too. Now I'm okay to never contact her again.

[@lemotheemonemo]

You're better off without her. Sounds like she has "grass is greener" syndrome. Best of luck in the new relationship! :D

[@Danash2013]

Agree ☝️😁

[@markmz3369]

That's a great story. My ex left almost 2 months ago after overlapping for god knows how long - I think she still expects me to believe she just met this new person and is suddenly in a relationship. I would never take her back now but it would be highly satisfying to say thanks but no thanks!

[@mura0]

good for you man. My ex is with another dude. I saw the pic last night for the first time and it killed me. I don't picture them having sex or anything cause I know our sex was just unbelievable and she will not find anything better. What hurts me is the fact that she will probably get attached to this person. But I know she still thinks about me. She still "liking" posts on IG of breakup, feelings, hurt etc..things is its been 2 months after the BU. Maybe she will move on for sure now.

[@sandman4471]

If the sex is better with u she’s gonna come back as soon as she starts having problems with this guy. Relationships die but the attraction never does i say give it 2 more months she’s gonna reach out

[@avocado5960]

My ex girlfriend broke up with me after a relationship of almost 4 years and after a month later she have a new boyfriend. She literally told me that she don't want to have any relationship and wanted to focus on herself and also her career but a week later she texted and saying she's seeing someone else and she needs to block me because she doesn't want to make her new boyfriend "uncomfortable". I'm just speechless.

[@PricelessBinkey1337]

Idk about yall but if she had a rebound after we dated, i aint takin em back

[@jomainabraham672]

my girlfriend broke up with me and two weeks later she already in a relationship with another guy 😢 5 years down the drain...my heart hurts so bad!

[@xlSHOCKxl]

Trust me homie she will be back just don't try to get her back let her come to you it's hard but take it one day at a time don't call her or text. Cry that hurt out after a while it won't hurt no more. Im going through it now she'll be back trust me

[@karlbeats4026]

what happened now?

[@naadde]

Updates?

[@paveljakl]

@@xlSHOCKxl why would you take her back whe she already had sex with the new guy..I would not take her back

[@renzmariacuna9595]

any updates

[@LifeCrusaderCoaching]

Betrayed is what I feel

[@sanlaw584]

My Ex jumped straight to a work colleague who he had known for a while. They have been together nearly two years. I just want him to be sorry.

[@ShadowDotSeven]

Literally same, my ex dumped me and pretended it was my fault. Me and her are both 16 btw, she dumped me for a 20 year old she works with. This happened about a week ago and we were together for 4 years, since we were 12. So much pain.

[@arlind3739]

@@ShadowDotSeven same here. Let them be. Their loss

[@lousassle792]

Happened to me, she went with another guy within two weeks after our breakup. Worst feeling ever but I got thru it, and you will too.

[@StEkArN9999]

@lousassle782 thanks brother, i am in this situation right now

[@tena2013]

I hope I can. Rn I dont see a way forward

[@godsgirlkennedy6124]

wow. i really want to thank you from the bottom of my broken heart; this was so comforting

[@porcelli5566]

So dam painful

[@Dimasik91]

You Guys get me out from so deep shit, you can't imagine! Thank you!

[@lili63js51]

Yeah same

[@sundoobie]

Happened to me last week with ex fiance, 10 year relationship, child, home, dogs. Gut punch but final straw to convince me to move on permanently. Hardest period in my life but trying to stay strong instead of going down a dark path. Your video helped a lot Coach. Thank you!

[@remyd1984]

Same here mate. 13 year relationship gone 6 year old brand new house dog the lot! The thing with mine it’s been 2 years but only 18months we’ve stopped being intimate but was still emotionally connected! I just couldn’t open her up to try and fix our issues. Anyway she meet a new bloke and rushing ahead into a rebound! How did your situation turn out mate?

[@fanningconstruction2050]

Makes it even worse is when you get engaged 💍and she's talking to someone at work and two months later feelings evolved and then your throwing her out because she's cheating.. very heart breaking.

[@playalot86]

My situation is that she became exclusive with someone new after 9 months apart. She's been with the new guy for 4 months, now, but she orbits my Instagram Stories every day, multiple times a day. She's been doing this for 7 months straight and counting. EVERY DAY, and I love it.

[@adrij4961]

Update?

[@playalot86]

@@adrij4961 She's still with that guy to my knowledge; 13 months now...

[@aqilah95]

I’ve been replaced with a girl who I warned him about. A girl who he has only know months over me who has been there for him for 6 years. It hurts so much.

[@kyliearcher5137]

twentyfour. I’m going through the same thing, but 2 years instead of 6. How are you doing?

[@aqilah95]

@@kyliearcher5137 hey! It's been 4 months since the break up, but I'm fine now. Im trying to rediscover self love and rediscover myself. I hope you're doing well too!!

[@kyliearcher5137]

I’m so glad to hear that, I really am. It’s been about 3 weeks since I’ve figured out about the 3 months of cheating that went on. I’m doing better than at first.. but I can’t stand to see them on Facebook, and I can’t stand to know when they are hanging out. It’s a dagger right to my soul 😭 she was my dream girl. We were engaged😔

[@aqilah95]

@@kyliearcher5137 oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you blocked them on Facebook though.

[@kyliearcher5137]

The “new girl” unfriended me, and it really upset me because like, as crazy as it sounds, seeing her page and what my ex commented and things gave me peace, of like knowing exactly what’s going on between them. Now that I think about it, it’s actually better this way. As for my ex, I still have her on facebook... and I still talk to her everyday. We had such a beautiful love and I’m so emotional and attached that, although the strong side of me shouldn’t talk to her, the weak side of me just... can’t even begin to think about not having contact with her. Do you contact your ex or anything? How on earth do you deal with thinking of them together and things?

[@undertheearth5405]

I love you margaret for covering the emotional side for us women. It really helps.

[@umare666]

I don't usually comment on KZbin, but I wanted to say that thank you so much Craig for making these contents and being there for thousands of people who shares the same pain. I was dumped around one and a half year ago, and have been working on my self and doing no contact since day one. I just discovered that my ex started a new relationship yesterday through my friend. The pain is so heavy and physical, I felt like I couldn't breathe. But within the pain, I know that this really does help me to finally move on and stop fantasizing about what we could have been. I will continue to better my self, no matter if they cared or not. I know my family and friends will always love me and will stay by my side. I came to learn that it's unexpectedly a good thing to experience a breakup, since that enables me to feel the love from other connections in my life (friendship , family etc.) more clearer than I ever had before. To anyone out there who is struggling, I hope you feel better, I really do. I love you all so much and we will get through this together

[@tylerstronk]

Just today I found out my ex is seeing someone else. I was in class I saw that she was sitting right in front of me with the "new guy" and I have 3 classes with her plus lunch. I'm staying in no contact and just focusing on building myself. It was bit surprising to see someone that I've been with for almost 2 years quickly jump into another relationship. It's been about 3 months since she broke up with me. The only thing I can do rn is continuing to better myself to see that I come to the best person I could be. Much love Craig I hope all is going good and to everyone out there. Edit: I think I was that 97% but she got out of a abusive relationship which was clearly bad and she knows it and I think I was better match for her.

[@tylerstronk]

@@Atothetheist yeah also turns out they started dating at little over a week after she broke up with me. So it's possible that she was cheating on me may not on physical but on a emotional since. But doesn't matter ik I'll find someone better than her won't be all that difficult.

[@DiegooFXX]

So any update?

[@tylerstronk]

@@DiegooFXX my knowledge they're still together which honestly doesn't matter to me. Currently I'm feeling my best ever and was able to create a support system. Something I didn't have for many years and probably wouldn't have if she never broke up with me. So really it was blessing in disguise. That and I learnt some much about myself and others. So really if someone broke up with you take the opportunity to better yourself in every possible way. If you do that you'll be healthier and therefore attract healthier good people in your life. So if you're alone dealing with a break up. I highly recommend slowly develop a support system but do mind and understand that you can't talk about the samething for too long. I can on and on for hours on what I learned and ways that helped me.

[@DiegooFXX]

Thy HumBuzz wow I really appreciate that I will definitely work on that😌

[@tylerstronk]

@@DiegooFXX you're welcome man glad to help in any way I can

[@DB-ue7cs]

After 13 years my ex is in a new relationship three months after breaking up.The girl practically is living with him. the kicker here, right from the start of this new relationship he reached out to me. For six months he hid this relationship from me. We'd been talking about understand each others attachment style and really put the work in to learning to related. He said he needed/wanted to take care of him, his house, cottage, etc..first.

[@sune89]

Could you make a video on how to deal with thoughts about your ex being intimate/having sex with someone new?

[@0220LMB]

Yes, I also need that video.

[@outroseok]

yes these thoughts are awful

[@user-il1if6fn4m]

Agree

[@dannycolwell8028]

Agree. It’s making me sick to my stomach

[@Kristian-oj7qy]

I’m so thankful for these videos, I learn so much every day. I think a super important point to highlight in this video is when they talked about the guy who went through a lot of growth and the girl didn’t and went back to the ex who didn’t want her at all. She left a good man who was improving and making himself more valuable because she couldn’t handle someone like that. She was more than likely very insecure and controlling in certain ways and when she felt she lost that control over him and he was making himself more valuable than her, it freaked her out and she maybe felt worthless or not good enough next to him anymore or feared he would leave her for someone better- it was uncomfortable for her. So what does she do? She goes back to the ex that maybe was similar to her or less valuable all because it was more comfortable for her. Crazy stuff right there. I’ve noticed with my ex now that she has a rebound, it is clear that she has a much higher sexual market value than he does and it is clear that he is anxious because he is already posting the grand gesture on social media. When my ex felt I was going to upgrade my value when we were together, it freaked her out and she left me because she couldn’t control me in certain ways anymore. I bought a new car and started working out, she wanted no part of that. I even insisted and told her I wouldn’t leave her, I wanted her to have my children and be together forever. She was my woman. She has shown desperation, weakness and her avoidant tendencies. I know for a fact she didn’t fully process the breakup and she is using this new guy to ease her feelings, which is selfish. She’s not with him for the right reasons, thus it will not last. She’ll have no choice when they breakup, either process the emotions and come back to me, or continue to hurt yourself and others by jumping from relationship to relationship and not fix what’s wrong with you personally. Love you guys, you guys really have made a huge impact on me.

[@carlosa1811]

I appreciate your comment. It's good to know that other can help you to get over this. Thank you

[@remyd1984]

What happened in the end mate?

[@JAAPJXBIT]

Just found out my ex is seeing someone else. Its what I get for not getting rid of her SM completely... 3 months since the BU and 2 months NC. In a way, I am glad it happened cuz now I have just closed off all but blocking her number. I can finally close this chapter and move on.

[@Danash2013]

That's how I felt. When you know, it alters your perception and it's not about getting your ex back anymore! Go get yourself back! Congratulations on your new phase of self growth!

[@joanellebracht5311]

Coach Craig, I love how you share with us about how you felt and dealt with your past relationships.

[@RecksBlack]

"I did all this work and I still lose." - Coach Margaret

[@BryantYazzie]

My ex did the same to me.. after being married for 8 years, get a divorce and 3 weeks later she back with her so-called KING that ruined this relationship.. I was hurt, upset and angry.. after watching these video I'm doing the No Contact but is difficult with Kids.. I'm trying to be strong and do my best.. I started working out and notice a change in my body. Also started buying things for myself and loving the kids more each day.. thanks for you short videos, it does help and go along ways.. Thanks Craig and Margaret

[@jodeenow31]

Same here. Stay strong. Even it's hard...

[@marilopez4943]

No contact with kids is so hard 6 yrs together 7 months since broken up and I’ve heard of a few oh his friends it kills me but we have to stay strong unfortunately we can not change the situation but only ourselves

[@BryantYazzie]

Thanks.. so yesterday I talked with the ex and told her I dont wanna fight for anything.. I'm going to keep my distance but yet I need my kids in my life. I just have to continue moving on without her and just let her do her thing.. I told my family and friends to let her be, let her do her own thing and just continue to loving my kids . I felt better after and it did help with the no contact and special after seeing her in person, I'm like, I can do better.. lol "not to be mean" But being divorce and single father, most of the girls just step away which brings me down. So I just let it be and focus on myself and hit the gym.. hahaha Thanks for reading.. and let's all build together..

[@jodeenow31]

@@marilopez4943 Oh yes, I know. You can't do No Contact with kids. But you can only have "business talk" about kids and organization. And anything else.

[@jodeenow31]

@@BryantYazzie It's hard to put your anger aside and not fight, but it's probably the best thing to do. For kids. Be the smartest of the two. That's what I think. Because if your ex does not realize it, your children will remember and grow with it. And time will do the rest. For my part, for the moment, I do not project myself into anything at all. I only focus on my kids and try to become a better version of myself.

[@hardvibes]

After a 5 year relationship and 3 months of no contact she told me by text message (last december) that she started dating someone else. It is indeed the worst thing that ever happened to me. In this video you say it's not 100% sure it will last. Well I know it will last, since she's chinese (living in China), she's 30, and all she wants is to get married, be provided for everything etc. She's working in the luxury business so I'm sure she found a rich guy to marry asap. They're all like that, and I thought she was different, SHE made me believe in 5 years she was different.

[@erickmorales7647]

sorry for that deep deception brother. Im going through the same . U can never tell ppls next moves and the influence they catch on

[@adj5767]

Like really? Why didn't you marry her? You wasted her time for 5 yrs and now you're bitter she found someone who will actually marry her??! And these posters......sheesh.

[@hardvibes]

@@azazel3944 Yeah I'm starting to believe it was for the best. She only cared about money, as a classic mainland chinese, and all the sacrifices I made for her meant nothing. She didn't deserve me.

[@hardvibes]

AD J Your comment is simply ignorant. You don't know anything about me, or her, or our story.

[@christinalewis3635]

Your right a lot of women her age only have their mind on marrying/ baby someone they dont look at the bigger picture

[@nehachauhan4312]

Yeah, my ex left me for someone else and now she has made his life a living hell but he is still willing to make that work out. This shows that how much unhealthy he is emotionally.

[@WOGLIN]

better for you

[@nehachauhan4312]

@@WOGLIN I don't think so because I still love him. It hurts to see him in this mess

[@WOGLIN]

@@nehachauhan4312 Think about the fact he left you for someone else not caring so much about YOUR FEELINGS, you need to work on yourself with the time you will be happy to have dodged a bullet, that break up will make you more strong even if you think the contrary at the moment, i can guarantee it to you im in the same boat than you.

[@nehachauhan4312]

@@WOGLIN yeah I know & I am working on myself. It's just, things will take time

[@WOGLIN]

NEHA CHAUHAN definitely it’s a process, you will recall the good memories, the habits ...but the time will make you feel better at the end

[@tekken278]

I broke my ex 2 months ago..today we text and she said she's engaged!!..like wtf after 2 months!?.How's this possible?

[@froggy1285]

She has a new boyfriend after 2 months of being split. She was my first love and it's so painful to see how fast they're moving. She was giving mixed signals right up to the day she started dating someone else. I'd appreciate and opinion on this because they seem perfect and happy together 😭

[@SuperUNREALX]

Froggy128 Any updates ? I am in same situation

[@froggy1285]

@@SuperUNREALX Well they aren't together now and I'm in contact with her now but it's stalling and she's only really interested when we're in person. She was always blunt when texting

[@SuperUNREALX]

Froggy128 that’s good to hear you guys are back in contact. How long did they last ? And were they blasting their new relationship all over social media rushing the process?

[@froggy1285]

@@SuperUNREALX They only lasted about 2 weeks because the new guy got jealous and stuff. They actually tried to hide it and it was so low key that they looked like friends if you didn't know they were dating

[@ericestrada9122]

Froggy128 Im in the same situation rn man this shit sucks so bad !

[@ilona1663]

Just found out my ex is seeing someone else now. At least he is making it appear that way on FB. Yes I was stupid enough to check to see what he is up to. Of course I thought I wanted to move on, but now my heart is breaking again. Completely devastated. He has a lot of things at my house. Trying to stick to no contact but just want to pile all of his shit in my car and drop it off at his job. Trying to breathe and be strong. Breathe. We all just gotta breathe!

[@imthebest7290]

I’m sorry. Hope you’re all better

[@inserter400]

EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS TRUE, I HAVE BEEN WITH MY WIFE FOR 23 YEARS, I DONT KNOW THIS PERSON SHE HAS TURNED INTO, SO COLD AND MEAN ! WE WERE SO SO IN LOVE AND I STILL AM . SHE IS DONE ! SO SCARED OF THE DAY SHE SLEEPS WITH SOMEONE ELSE.

[@lazulineblue5235]

After 2 years of relationship, he asked for a space and time to sort things out. His parents engaged him to a girl from same culture as him and he tried to stand for me but at the end he caved in to his parent's wishes. I gave him 2 weeks space to think and when i came back he said he started having feelings for her and that his feelings for me started to fade.

[@pixiscalore4483]

Now watching this one. I just finished my 6year relationship. All this time he keeps on saying he wants space and time for himself, that we are not breaking up. Then proceeds on blocking me, now a month after, his relatives told me he tried to bring someone new. All things are possible if they really dont care about you.

[@Orgnl1]

Wild..exact same things just happened to me.. Last few weeks and got discarded a week ago...same shit though...effn crazy!! would have been 3years today.. Sucks so bad...lol

[@PancakeRecipes]

Coach Craig can you please do a video about how ex’s can regress after breaking up with you? I’ve heard you mention a few times how the Applebee’s girl regressed to a younger version of herself after the breakup. This has happened with my ex, when I met her she seemed quite mature for her age and the entire time we were together she acted a certain way. Then after dumping me she started hanging out with a new group of friends including a new guy and just recently she reached out and we’ve hung out several times. The main thing I’ve noticed is that she acts like a completely different person, she acts very immature almost like a teenager. It’s hard for me to wrap my head around it. On the flip side I feel like I’ve matured and grown a lot since the breakup because I’m determined to not make the same mistakes I’ve made in the past. Because of her regression it doesn’t seem like she is seeing the changes I’ve made. It’s like both of our emotional states are at two different levels when during the relationship they were the same. Now she’s even farther apart from me because she’s at a childlike level and I’m making an attempt at being an adult. Our wave lengths are on two completely different levels so I’m having a hard time re-connecting with her. On top of all this she is hanging out with a new guy who is also very immature. The whole situation sucks.

[@alexistaylor8251]

My ex gf came back , she called me on July 31st to receive closure... but we had already been in nc for over a month... And then she called.. after a month of NC! WHO DOES THAT?

[@paveljakl]

My ex breakup with me week ago and already have a new guy. I cant sleep i cant eat im devastated..

[@Digitalizedx]

Update? Hang in there king mind came around and then revealed she has a bf like why did she come around?

[@kassidykilborn5815]

He started dating her a week almost two weeks after we broke up. They’ve been dating for almost 3 weeks and already saying they love each other. Worst pain ever. It’s also his best friends ex and she got cheated on a month before our breakup. I know it won’t work or at least hoping

[@kassidykilborn5815]

TIME TO RAGE of course I don’t mind. What’s going on with your situation?

[@WOGLIN]

She just broke up with me, when few days ago she was talking about making a family...what is more hard to accept is that she refuses to confess that there is someone else in the picture, and she continues to reach out being caring an the day after becoming cold. She says she is confuses about her feelings, so I DECIDED to en that game myself, not easy but WE ONLY LIVE ONCE AND WE SHOULD SELF RESPECT ourselves first.

[@sonysailor82]

He told me in person after telling me that he was missing me so much... I’m suffering so much!!!

[@codydavis3100]

How are you feeling now?

[@sonysailor82]

@@codydavis3100 much better... thanks for asking

[@imthebest7290]

@@sonysailor82 glad you’re better 😞

[@tamekaallen7023]

My ex that I was with for almost 6 years left me for a woman that is still married and with her husband. They’ve been seeing each other for about five months. They have a deep emotional bond but he says that he isn’t serious with her and we will work things out one day. I’m sick!

[@brandonsousa9683]

So my ex and I broke up about a month ago... The other night I decided to stop by her place and as I pulled up she walked out her door with a guy and then she saw me and pulled off away in her car and told me to f.. off. I went inside I shouldn’t have and saw Chinese food in her bed room and Netflix on. Really hard times right now. I have no chance she’s moved on for good

[@piccalillies]

It was a great decision for me to have taken myself off his social media because I was ignorant of this (had been feeling anxiety) until he reached out and told me himself.

[@rickyellis8505]

My ex said she is talking to someone else but I imagine she will be dating him soon, absolutely gutted. Heart broken and depressed.

[@elijahgawatna7647]

Hi....having issues about your love life?..I'm giving you chance now to clear out those issue and get whosoever you want

[@elijahgawatna7647]

I recom mend you to (Dr. Abuya) he can make your ex come to you begg ing you for second cha nce, ever since he helped me, I have b een enjo ying a perfect relatio nship with more commi tment with my ex, I will adv ice you to seek his help..thanks 🙏🙏

[@elijahgawatna7647]

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[@elijahgawatna7647]

There is chance to get her back if you are truly ready to get her Back

[@ett2]

Has anyone's ex ever come back when they absolutely knew it wasn't going to happen? She says we "grew apart" ect.... Just not sure what to think.

[@A2Kaid]

@@jwil9000 Why would she add you back on Snapchat? Did she breakup with the other guy?

[@ponokunishima1]

However, a few weeks ago, I was in Subway restaurant and a guy came in to pick up an order for someone and when he said the name “Jennifer”, I turned towards the guy and my heart just sunk to the ground! Now I know that the name is a common name, (and the guy looked a little older than the both of us) I don’t really know that many girls named Jennifer, other than my ex and my sister, but my sister shortened her name to just “Jen”.

[@albertov182]

These videos help me and give me lottle hope. I wish i could afford a 1 on 1 coaching 😢

[@akifkhan4516]

Just today I get to know my ex is dating my freind....and till evening she was saying me too give time to her.....I m broken too much I hope after 3 months I would be laughing on them....I never cheated never told her to do stuff which she was not cool with....she broke up with me....told me I am posseive about my freind and now they are dating....life is full of pain second time this happens to me....two exes with my two freinds and I am just lost with my life....hope they get karma and hope God gives me what I deserve and that's love because never I did wrong to anyone and still

[@Stephanie-ku8wl]

Why do they call you when they are with someone else?

[@_Nawbro]

Good vibes literally like leave me alone !

[@samkriebel8471]

My ex was seeing someone two weeks after we broke up I think she was talking to him before we broke up she’s a bartender and has a lot of opportunity’s to meet guys

[@Vrxkz]

My ex was in a relationship 2 (1/2) weeks after our bu as well (although, I'm guessing they knew one another) therefore, I'm assuming he left me for her. I'm humiliated to be honest. This is killing me and I still can't get over it! I😔💔

[@samhill7471]

Experienced the weirdest thing. It’s been 4 months of him being with the girl he dumped me for. I’ve assumed a hundred things. That she was better than me in every way. That she’s been doing fun things with his family, etc. Ended up talking to his mom a few days ago. She said he doesn’t call the girl his girlfriend....just a friend. They’ve never done anything with the family. They don’t go out at all. She doesn’t speak to his mom. Just heads straight to the bedroom apartment when she shows up without speaking to anyone. She’s super introverted which is not his style. I just don’t understand why he left me to hang out with someone that he’s got so little in common with where they do nothing. He has reached out to me numerous times so I feel like he misses me or is bored. I relate so much to what you’re saying about the replacement person who has nothing on you. I’m not sure what to do. I haven’t been no contact because he keeps reaching out.

[@PancakeRecipes]

Sam Hill I’ve had a similar experience. Found out my ex was hanging out with a new guy but she refers to him as her “buddy”. I finally hung out with both of them several times now after she reached out to me. Based on what I’ve seen it doesn’t seem very romantic but I know for a fact he’s trying to have some sort of relationship with her. He’s also literally the exact opposite of me and doesn’t seem like her type. When she interacts with him she acts like a totally different person and not like how she acted when we were together. The whole thing is so confusing I can’t figure out why she wants to hang out with me and him at the same time either.

[@samhill7471]

Upson Downs That is weird. This girl of my exes spends the night at his place so she’s at least a friend with benefits. But I just don’t see what he sees in her being that she’s that introverted. I feel like he’s just trying to fill the hole left by me with anything. It’s a distraction and keeps him from coming back.

[@0220LMB]

What if you didn't find out through social media? (Blocked) And she just mentions it randomly after we had been back in contact and talking a lot (her always initiating contact)? She tells me during the worst time of my life while going through the loss of a loved one. Why not assume that it might hurt me and not say anything about it at all? Why did she feel compelled to tell me that esp after we had been reconnecting LD over the phone? I would have just been blissfully unaware. Now, I am all messed up not eating and sleeping, thinking of her in someone else's bed. She said she told me because she thought we are friends. I told her that's what she wanted. I never djd and I told her goodbye. She apologized and said she won't call me anymore. What are the reasons they would tell you?

[@chrisbrand5728]

My ex didn't dump me until after he started seeing another woman. Dating both of us at the same time while telling me he loved me and planning a life with me (his words). We were together for only 9 months.

[@labanmwende1878]

Hello, coach, good advice thanks... She dumped me and she told me she moved on to another guy after one month now is 1 year later but I never forgot her it is very painful thanks.

[@lorihykaway2126]

Or when the new girlfriend (whom he claimed did not exist!) discovers he's still talking to you and she makes him send a message stating that he has a new gf and can no longer have any contact but the next morning he messages you saying it's not true and he doesn't know why she thinks she is his his girlfriend...less than a month post-break-up😳😳

[@markmz3369]

I get why a rebound relationship typically doesn't work out because they don't know each other well yet, but what about someone who was an "overlapper" (i.e. cheater) for several months with someone new until they finally dump you and move on to that new person -- meaning by then they would already know that person better than a typical rebound relationship. Would you expect that relationship to have a better chance vs someone she met right after the breakup (i.e. rebound)? Or is it worse since it was built on deception?

[@austintang1645]

I’m in the same situation, the new person was just waiting in line and she emotionally cheated and was always venting to him instead of me. They met 2 weeks before the breakup and I’m confident he encouraged her to leave the relationship and take advantage of her vulnerability after the breakup. Two months later they’re official now. The thing is it’s a long distance rebound from Washington and Nevada. My ex plans to move back to Vancouver next year permanently for school so it would’ve been long distance with me or this new guy anyways, but at least they will be closer. I’ve lost 30 pounds, realized what went wrong in the relationship on my part (such as not contributing/providing enough (she spent more money on me than I did on her) and being able to emotionally understand her) and already spinning plates/meeting new people. The pain and anxiety relapse sometimes knowing that I lost a good woman, but I know deep down she lost someone who would’ve never gave up on her. Either way she wanted to move back home to Vancouver for college next year and stay there permanently and my hospitality degree is so much more useful in Vegas, so long distance would just be an ongoing standoff between us. I just wish we could’ve spent her last year here in Vegas together, but she’d rather breakup and then jump into a long distance relationship with the guy she told me not worry about when I caught her flirting over text with him a week before she broke up with me🤷🏻‍♂️

[@renzmariacuna9595]

@@austintang1645 how are you now? im kind of going through the same thing rn

[@halo99yo]

Any updates from anyone here?

[@MOTwaccoe]

My ex wife of 23 years dumped me for someone else. We were good together or at least i thought we were. I am now single and don't see my kids as much. I hurt everyday for the last 4 months, I want her new relationship to fail badly and her reach back ojt to me so I can laugh at her and tell her to get lost

[@lindawells9328]

Awwwww I love and I miss Margaret because she was such a very beautiful, smart, loveing , careing and a very wise woman. I love you to Coach Craig and I am so sorry for your lost . Be blessed and safe . Miss . Linda ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

[@ponokunishima1]

My breakup was due to my anxiety level and made me do crazy shit. Then the pandemic hit and because of that, my separation anxiety kicked in and made me sad and lash out at my girlfriend and get mad at her through text and such. She couldn’t take it she said and then I realized she was crying again.

[@1dontknowmyownname]

My ex came off the dating website we met on, so she's probably in another relationship, I don't look at her social media or her friends just a disturbance in the force. It feels like the final nail in the coffin despite 4 months of no contact. I'll keep working on myself before going back into dating, I'm not sure if i should want her back anymore as within a week or two of being dumped and abandoned she was on a dating site and had blocked me on everything. 😞

[@christianjohansson6867]

Same thing here. And efter 2 weeks i was drivning by the sidewalk when shes walk hand in hand with this ugly Guy... 😏🙄

[@adrij4961]

Any updates man?

[@GirlsOnTop_]

My ex started talking to the girl 10 days after we broke up. But he emphasized to her that he doesn’t want to have a serious relationship, and of course the girl agrees. I know about this because this girl keeps stalking my social media accounts and even sending me messages (with the fake account) asking if I have a boyfriend. I stop putting my ex on the pedestal. But still want him back even if it’s seems so impossible, he reached out every week or two, but i think he has a grass is greener syndrome so it will take a loooong time and i’ll move on. On week 6 now. Still feel shitty every day. Heartbreak is suck. Feels like I should be alone than giving my love to someone who is not going to return it back.

[@marie-claudeboivin7702]

Can a rebound last over 8 months?! He seems "happy". I just found out he is dating and he told me it has been 2 months, but a friend told me it's been 8 months. He started dating a few weeks after we broke it off apparently. :(

[@marie-claudeboivin7702]

@@azazel3944 I always thought it was less than 6 months. Unfortunately, I know the girl and he seems happy with her even if he still reaches out to me. We were together for 4 years. So I don't know if he would hurt her too. He is a respectful person and says he would never hurt anyone but he hurt me a lot. Words vs actions. :(

[@keithbrown2425]

@@marie-claudeboivin7702did he ever come back or reach out

[@dragonfly1955]

All my ex’s got married to the person they dated right after our relationship

[@dragonfly1955]

Azazel one after a year, another ex they met 3 months after our split and married 3 years later...

[@sarahobrien7111]

My gosh I’m exactly the same! Two exes met someone straight after me and married them years later. That really made me feel like shit -twice!

[@israelventura2739]

Getting married is one of the biggest mistakes a man can make

[@suset813]

Exact same here ...all of them to the person right after me...serious n non serious 6 in total.... my figures quite impressive lol

[@timt8925]

I'm a good luck Chuck also

[@rebekahtinker1749]

Margaret's discourse explains something my ex recently said to me after we broke up. He said that he "regretted wasting time on me and was now looking to find the poor wonderful women he had been messaging with a view to dating when he decided to chase me and get me back again" my ex has abruptly broken up with me twice now....he puts me on this pedestal and when I show normal human failings he jumps ship. I go from goddess to demon in his eyes overnight. He has now imbued this other lady with goddess-like properties. I can see he is not able to integrate the negative with positive emotions at all, they are separate entities to him...he is 51 and I do not know if he can change himself now. I look forward to hearing a KZbin on this as it explains my ex well. It will help me move on as my personal insecurity does make me struggle with self blame a lot. I want my next relationship to be healthier.

[@rebekahtinker1749]

My ex is now dating someone new (yes I stalked his social media). Trying to get over him but I gave in to the temptation...I try to focus on the things he did that annoyed me, but the nice things also come to mind...he could be quite loving and gentle. He did change overnight both times into this brutally hard, unloving man. I think ww

[@95awesomenes]

She posted on Facebook that she’s in a new relationship. She made it public in the middle of December, we hooked up on thanksgiving, but on the relationship info it says the relationship started on December the 1st. Soo... I’m not sure if this can be considered a rebound relationship?? It’s been 2 months already and my depression and anxiety are ip to the ceiling.

[@normanorma8505]

Less than 24 hrs after my break up this week my ex was back on a dating site that we met on .Looking for a long term relationship he had down in his introduction after being together 3 yrs .I'm fuming/ heartbroken .

[@christianjohansson6867]

Same here. Any updates ?

[@fleadoggreen9062]

Dang so many heart breaks

[@claudettealexis8145]

Yes same thing I’m dealing with now

[@lielastrong2026]

I’d like to share a semi success story! Very simply, after 3 weeks my exes rebound failed, the woman in question cheated on him. He is still chasing her though, so what could be the next step? Hmmm.

[@heae90]

Awesome coach! Definitely going to pick up some workbooks

[@sanlaw584]

Well my Ex Husband ran off with a work colleague he already knew, it’s been 18mths and he is loved up and putting it on social media where our teenagers see it. We are getting divorced but I don’t understand how someone can leave their family without saying a word or trying to work on it.

[@robertgalvan8094]

Because they are selfish and thinks it will be better when that's a lie

[@williambr88]

Narcissist...

[@fleadoggreen9062]

So what happened, I feel for ur teens and you, stay strong

[@jclips3040]

We split up 3 months ago, went full NC 1 month ago. Just found out she’s seeing someone new, is this a rebound? She told me in our last conversation how she felt so lost without me and she still loved me but ‘can’t’ be with me.

[@Vrxkz]

Well, I guess my ex and his new relationship is amongst the mere 3%. That would be my luck. 💔

[@user-vp8oz1pj9c]

Mine too. I get the feeling that he's gonna marry her like very soon...and it's only been a few months. All of his friends and family approve of her.

[@Vrxkz]

@@user-vp8oz1pj9c I can't handle it. I'm so head over heels in love with him. I just can't get over it and it's been 6.5 months

[@sconeman168]

I just found out today that my ex of 2 months is dating a new guy. The fact that i found out because he tries using my google chrome and changed the name of it from mine & hers to his & hers fucks me up and cant even fucking sleep (my name and her name to his name and her name)

[@rickcope3226]

@@sconeman168 my girlfriend of 13 years is seeing somebody after 3 week. I feel like if I see this guy I’m going to approach her and say. This is the idiot you left me for? I want him to approach me. I would break him

[@NaomiMarie1130]

@Erin Wilson-Xayaosa update? Did he marry her?

[@aaronnugent8909]

My ex fiance broke up with me three months ago. we were together 4 years. we have a two year old daughter. i give or take one week after she broke up with me she was talking to a new guy. i found this out by checking her phone. i shouldnt of done it but she was being way to distant with me when we have a lot of obvious history. she told me that she wasnt talking to anyone before i seen it on her phone. when i pulled her up on it she told me they had been talking for a few weeks but it definately wasnt serious and they were just friends and that she wasnt talking to him while we were togther. I believe her in that respect. its been three months and she has repeatedly knocked me back and has told me shes been happy by herself and she doesnt have feelings for me anymore. everyone i ask for advice pretty much all tell me to move on and forget her. im finding it very hard to do so as i still very much love her want want to make up for my mistakes. what do you guys think?!? thanks for listening

[@rickyellis8505]

I would be lost without these videos, because I have no idea what to so so my self

[@GroovyChic868]

I left him, so he could work on himself. I felt like someone was in the picture. After being broke up he just announced he has a new person.

[@dannycolwell8028]

I didn’t even stalk, I fuckin stumbled on it while collecting a Venmo payment. Emotional ambush, sent me spiraling and I told my boss I was feeling sick and had to leave work. Cried so hard on my way home I almost ran a red light. What makes it worse was it is a guy she had a little fling with before we dated. So she was thinking of him the whole time we were together.

[@tommyturner8736]

My ex and I been dating for 5 months and we grew really attached to each other. She kept ignoring me and not responding to my txt for 3 weeks. So I asked her do you need time to think or are we done. She said we are done. 2 weeks after she started talking to someone else. What should I do?

[@MrCholo420]

omg I'm just going through this but im stick to the nc and last weekend she call me out of the blue drunk telling me she make a mistake but i was smart enough to know that she was drunk and that she regretted the phone call next day and that's what happen she text me next day telling me that she sorry for the phone call . i just responded short and i will continue to give her time if she reaches back i know i will be another person more mature and more comfortable with myself thanks for your videos!!!

[@leonardoyuzoreisshibasaki6584]

It took my ex two weeks to start going out with another guy. I got to know it because he happens to be one of my bestfriend's acquaintances. It's hard to think it's a rebound because my ex just looks so over me. Even though I know he is the kind of person who would definitely do whatever it takes not to go through any pain. Anyway. I kind of feel it is not going to work out, but I could just be telling myself nice lies. I don't really trust my gut anymore when it comes to this.

[@jasong6967]

Leonardo Yuzo Reis Shibasaki There are sooo many girls out there. Get another one

[@SoberIrishman]

Ask yourself this....why would you want her back if she is willing to lay down with him....bro, i am going through the same thing. If she can be intimate, then she does not deserve you.

[@JasonJarred]

Jason G lol, he said “he”, so lots of girls out there probably isn’t much consolation

[@jasong6967]

Jason Jarred Haha. Lots of guys out there then lol

[@jasong6967]

By the way everyone in this thread is named Jason.

[@Sevoflurane2014]

Well my ex left me after 4 yrs and junped into rebound the same week and has been in it for 3.5 months. She didn't even upgrade. She downgraded to low hanging fruit because he was available. This guy is below me on every single level. He lives at home still with his mom and dad and he is 32! Well guess what, she is probably going to get married to this guy. She is already talking marriage with this guy! So IM gonna be the one the nightmare happens to that this video says WONT happen. Unreal and it crushes me knowing this isnt the guy for her. He even has a crappy job. Im bettwr looking, make 6 figs, have my own house and 2 paid off cars. And she called me recently and told me she was happy but then also in the call she missed me. Ridiculous

[@bonniechampagne4093]

Very good guys!! Very comforting, and so insightful! Thank you both for such wonderful content. Bonnie...

[@RawAndUncut211]

I've been watching your videos now for about a month and a half I've been broken up for about three months she broke up with me I chased initially and I backed off a couple times she reached out we went back and forth try to do the friend thing I recently 2 days ago met up with her face-to-face told her I couldn't do it anymore because I found out she is dating another guy and not getting serious with him but dating him she been on three dates with him so she's obviously into him she told me she respected my decision but wanted to remain friends I told her know if she couldn't give me what I wanted out of the relationship which was to be with her romantically then I had to go and that's where I'm at right now

[@GirlsOnTop_]

RawbD aka Roberto DiNero move on. It’s difficult but you deserve the better love. You are nobody’s second choice.

[@RawAndUncut211]

@@GirlsOnTop_ thank you and that's what I told her that I deserve better I wasn't going to stand on the sidelines NBA bench player did I deserve to better and I was going to get better and I was not going to try and move on and also keep her there like she was doing me

[@gerardbatrow8043]

How can a person tell if they themselves are the rebound?

[@zackdavis6598]

my girlfriend left me for her ex, who cheated on her worst is that I help her recover from him for 6yrs,

[@bad.chickie66]

Same

[@kimberlyboenker9315]

What if he has known his "rebound" for 15 +/- years

[@destroyerwill6122]

Wait for their marriage to fail

[@Dad_Brad]

This is the message I needed to hear this morning.

[@jjuyjhhj]

Do you think this applies in a LDR? My ex fiancé and I recently broke up and she met someone new 3 weeks after. We spent a lot of time together seeing each other over the past 3 years and were planning for me to move to her this year until COVID happened. I’m thinking she’s just on an oxytocin trip with this new guy. Can someone help?

[@kewl800i]

I am waiting for someone to answer this.

[@0220LMB]

Any updates?

[@jjuyjhhj]

@@0220LMB moved on. I actually spoke to her two days ago. We just hoped each other was doing good. I don’t feel anxious or emotional anymore towards her. Life goes on and you find better.

[@CAR_EDITSS66]

Make a video on “ex keeps contacting but doesnt want to commit”

[@anewman1976]

Just be firm and tell them, I don't want friendship I want to be you partner like before again, if you don't want to try to work it out then please don''t contact me again.

[@GirlsOnTop_]

+1 keeps reaching out but no intention of reconciliation. Don’t know wth he wants.

[@morelions4014]

I thinking more my ex had some sort of split personality. She is so different now to the day I first met her. That is what is so hard to understand. One day they seem to be so happy you have come into their live. And made them feel better about themselves. Especially when their previous boyfriends where very nasty to her or so she says. All I did was be kind caring and did anything for her. I've been told I don't have a nasty bone in my body so the saying. And I often think now shes just taken advantage of that. Soon after the break up she's staying round one of my new friends. It just seems the timing works out so well. What it seems is when she said well go on a short break from each other is around the same time I became friends with this guy she's now seeing. But I'm guessing as she must have liked him more or for some reason after a month or so she decides we need to separate completely and stops staying around mine and immediately is sleeping around what is suppose to be my friend. Because I haven't known him long he doesn't know what I'm like or how I truly felt about my ex and they claimed that at first they just saw each other as friends but eventually after seeing how I reacted and getting so upset and confused my ex admitted they were seeing each other. I see that them being together forever like mentioned in this video. But as I've found out that actually my ex is that sort of person and can just jump straight from one person to the next with not a care in the world for how much she's hurt me. I know now it wasn't worth one of my tears. Hopefully I'll learn from this in the future. But of course situations like this make me think it will be a very long time before I trust or even want to have anything to do with another woman. I believe its difficult to know how long any relationship will last if they will work or not. Some couples are meant to be and some are not. I'm pushing forty and it just seems to get harder to have the confidence to even try again. Its like trying to look for the perfect woman out there who will stay with you and love you forever no matter what. Its always nice the thought of settling down and one day being a father. You see plenty of teenagers these days walking around with push chairs. I guess the way it is that you only get one life and always assume your only be happy having a girlfriend or settling down but most of my adult life being single is not so bad its often the constant rejections by these women that I guess because how guys brains work look amazing and sometimes they are but not necessarily right for me. The right personality has to be there for anything to work as well. I've only watched a few of these videos on this channel but they have made sense instantly the moment I read them. Probably now I'm more looking at how to improve my confidence and be brave enough to go out there and start talking to women again. Otherwise staying single and having no contact with other woman I guess won't help my confidence. When you stay single for ages you get use to it and adapt you whole life around it. Probably I'm actually looking for a very complex woman as I'm sure I know myself that I'm a very complex individual and spends a good 70 to 80 percent of every day thinking about a thousand things all at once. I'm not sure many women could cope with that. Somehow I need to calm myself down but that's like trying to change who I am .

[@johnwargin4027]

The easier they can change their feelings, the less healthy they might be.....How very true. Excellent statement. My ex went from from love to no feelings within four days and this shocked me and almost traumatized me. Later I found out, that she is prone to depressions, had distance relationships and had an avoidant attachment style. I got a great advice from my step brother who is also a psychologist. He advised to quickly start dating and I found a new partner who is stable with her feelings and who desires a happy relationship.

[@soskul442]

Yeah only thing worse than your ex dating someone new is when that new someone is your best friend 🙃 also when it's after 4 days

[@MA7-6585]

Sorry that happened to you!

[@soskul442]

Thank you all for the kind words. This all happened a bit more than 2 months ago I think and while the first month was painful and difficult to even breathe through, I started watching Craig and realized that when your ex does something so disrespectful, impulsive and borderline inhumane, your process of getting over them speeds up alot. I've been in nc for a month and it's been great to keep me from beating myself up so much and getting immense anxiety attacks.. Also I can see my abs now!

[@tr9809]

Help! My old girlfriend attaches herself intensely and so quickly to someone else she sees as a safe man. This man is beaky buzzard! He's a snake who manipulated her to make her feel vulnerable. But I think it will last between them.

[@froggy1285]

I'm in a similar situation, it's been 2 months after we broke up from a year long relationship. Not sure if it's a rebound but he's everything to her now

[@mattshenkerwhat]

This sounds like a good thing for you. If it’s true then that means that she’ll see this at some point and gain new appreciation for you!

[@gbrl89]

Unfortunately, in my case is not rebound, however she tried to get into a rebound, but she only managed to find a replacement six months after. I'm done, I'm moving on.

[@sanlaw584]

My Ex has been with the replacement who is 13 years younger than him for two years. Would just like some karma tbh.

[@fleadoggreen9062]

Dang how are you, stsrt exercising it’s the only cure, plus no contact, I know it fricken so hard

[@1226summer]

I want to know what if my ex has ended his rebound and jump into another rebound again now? Is it still the same?????????

[@luiseleon93]

It’s hitting bottom . It hurts like all HELL. But you’re already at the bottom, only way to go now is up!

[@CochoAntonio]

I have the same exact story of the guy Craig mentions; it feels really bad being replaced out of the blue, especially if you’ve done a lot of inner work and even though you still lose. Mine happened this January and I’m still struggling with moving on :/

[@renzmariacuna9595]

hey how are you now?

[@CochoAntonio]

@@renzmariacuna9595 I still remember her but it doesn’t hurt anymore. I accepted it a while ago, I feel better now

[@renzmariacuna9595]

@@CochoAntonio thank you for responding! i am currently going through this so it's comforting to know that it gets better. glad you are feeling better!

[@CochoAntonio]

@@renzmariacuna9595 you're welcome, This moment has come to your life to teach you something. It will pass. Feel the pain, the sorrow and anger, don't deny them. You will be stronger and wiser at the end ;)

[@elenalimberg7364]

My ex also went through a divorce. But now he is seing a woman he had a relationship before me. They know eachother for 4 years. And we know eachother for 30 years. Relationship was 6 months. She posts photos of them kissing. They are taking walks together. I am devastated.... What should I do?🙏

[@sarahobrien7111]

It’s been nearly a year and he’s still with her :( I can’t stand it! He hasn’t indirect directly contacted me but we bump into each other and he’s very nervous around me even when she’s there. I act polite and friendly to both but I keep it brief. He hasn’t separated from his family of origin so I’m wondering if this is a problem in their relationship - she lives with him at his family home. Should I keep waiting it out? I’m dating others but they haven’t been great experiences.

[@juliana12357]

my X had a new girlfriend almost 2 years before I exposed him - he denied her multiple times that day. He lie and shows a fake personality always performed with me for 10 years. The new girl always new everything about me like his Ex because he played a victim and I was the worst person ever. He told her I was his Ex no longer with him and she believed him. Once she knew about I was still around, she insulted me with the worst words ever I heard in my life. She insulted him back- but I believe they are together -a year being passed. I think he gave her his new version of our break up and she took him back. Disgusting.

[@still_in_jail9465]

Try this she got a new boyfriend with my name n it hurts see her say i love *my name* and making instagram highlights of him and its named *my name* with hearts but its hurts cuz it aint me

[@godsgirlkennedy6124]

Still_in_Jail the same thing happened to me, my ex started dating someone new with the same name

[@920mario]

She is evil

[@gem3530]

Wow this is one of the best videos I’ve seen especially the integration at 18mins - @Coaches please please can you do a video where Coach M does come back to this on another day? The whole video I can’t express how much I felt all of that every word the coaches have said and how much all of this resonates with me and calmed me down - they didn’t value or appreciate us and all the time we spent together meant nothing to them and I meant nothing to them and after all good stuff you’ve done too - they can still walk away? They make it feel like you did absolutely nothing good to meet their needs while they selflessly met yours? They paint this narrative of you in their head in order to justify dumping you. When Coach M states at 12minutes was the most vital line I have ever heard from all my videos across so many channels over the last 2yrs of my healing process - ‘how we mustn’t think it was all our fault but rather how our ex missed all the good things about us we thought they would have understood?’ You question if all they did was ‘fake’ - exactly as coach m says she believes they are for most part sincere up until the breakup - I guess I have only after a long time finally given him benefit of doubt to say he didn’t fake the feelings before when you feel after they left they must have right? The worse is when they leave you not wanting to try to talk to you or reconnect - I know sumx they can be in rebounds but what about if they had already started long term friendships inappropriately with others and females ? That doesn’t just ‘end’ because now that person and them have been connecting way longer then you two have just before the breakup 😔 so I guess all this warm person you once knew is so cold to you it’s because they have switched it off and I have to accept dumpers just have to do it so they don’t feel guilty when they do dump you 😢 and maybe they truly have just moved on - loved you before but accept when you were with them you remind them of too much a painful period in their life that they can’t even stand to look at you or be with you since you remind them of this massively unhappy time in their life. As if you were sole cause of their unhappiness and for the relationship not succeeding 😔 Keep strong guys and keep at it. Your healing is imminent.

[@Oliver42495]

My ex broke up with me and it has been 2 and half months Later I’m doing no contact and nothing from her yet my birthday past and she told me “happy birthday” and later I found out she just told me because her mom told her to wish me a happy birthday 💔 we been together for 7 years my high school sweetheart I’m devastated I’ve lost 20 pounds I can’t eat or sleep I’m trying to move on but my brain just keeps playing this Fantasy she’s coming back. I’m trying to work out, go out with friends. Any help ??

[@elijahgawatna7647]

There is chance to get her back if you are truly ready to get her Back

[@elijahgawatna7647]

I recom mend you to (Dr. Abuya) he can make your ex come to you begg ing you for second cha nce, ever since he helped me, I have b een enjo ying a perfect relatio nship with more commi tment with my ex, I will adv ice you to seek his help..thanks 🙏🙏

[@elijahgawatna7647]

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[@AAbattery444]

Out of all of your videos, I'm surprised you don't have one on when to break no contact... Somebody always has to break no contact eventually. It would be really helpful to have some guidance on what situations in which the dumpee should be the one to break no contact first.

[@Sethdropgloves]

Alex Arici the dumpee should not break no contact.