When Your Guy Won't Commit | Adrienne Everheart

[@AdrienneEverheart]

💖 Be sure to join my online Coaching Community: diamondgirl.me/group Please Support my KZbin Work: goo.gl/znM53X Get "500 Ways to Talk to a Man" + 2-Day Classes: EverheartCoaching.com/talk My Proven "Get Him Back" Program: goo.gl/XLTZkp Manifest Your Man, NMM Program is here: bit.ly/newmanmanifesto Get Seven Classes with Myself & Helena Hart: goo.gl/13eFcT Much love to you always, Adrienne

[@alwaysattractinggreatthings]

Yes ! I was afraid to ask him where the long distance relationship was heading. We talked about marriage and he would always say not yet not ready . Well 3 years later , I got tired of the same answer. So I finally let go and blocked him. Done ✅ lol not wasting anymore time. Next ..! 😜😄

[@jessicahitchens6926]

You wasted so much time.💀

[@alwaysattractinggreatthings]

@@jessicahitchens6926 yes, agreed. But you know what it was a big lesson learned. I learned what I am worth and learned that I deserve better. It was a very hard and painful experience but thankful 🙏🏻 for it. Never again tho lol lesson learned. 🌹

[@dejadeluxe3690]

My fireman partner of 18 yrs recently ( with s great pension) recently passed away. For many years he didn’t want to marry because of his first marriage, as time went by sometimes he would mention it without much enthusiasm so eventually I bought my own house. He was a mechanic, Plummer, could tile ect. He helped me with all those things on my house which I will always appreciate I wish I had Adriennes good advice back then, because even with his help the US thing never was really there, very sad 18 yes. I am happy now dating a new man 😊and I love hanging out you lovely ladies 🙃😉

[@MsMaxMonroe]

Amazing work! Thank you for looking after women and sharing your story. We need more women who support other women ❤️❤️❤️

[@awakenedwarrior1166]

Hi Adrienne love the advice. My 'friend' knows we have all the ingredients for an amazing relationship. He wants my love, support, all the benefits of a romantic relationship etc but insists we are just friends. Havent seen him in two years and physically only given him one kiss. 😢Known him since school and we are both 50 so a long time. He lives in another Country and is very focussed on the material. Seen him in and out of really shitty relationships. I am walking away. Thank you you are my oracle.❤

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you!

[@roslyndrayton6716]

I like how you sum up your parents role modelling marriage. Sounds like my parents and mother too remarried to a jerk as well.

[@ojala5555]

OMG what a story with your first husband,Adrienne! You are so generous and high-minded to still talk well about him. After him telling you that he would have driven you out of the house ... I would never trust the guy anymore after such betrayal. I'd lose all my respect for him and wouldn't be able to forgive such behaviour. I'm so glad that you are happily married with another man now.Thank you for sharing!

[@cozettem8226]

This is why we are scared, I finally put my foot down on this guy who wouldn't even commit to date only me after 2.5 years of keeping me as a FWB I said if you want to keep seeing me choose only me. If not I cannot continue seeing you if you want to continue to pursue other women. What do you think his response was? "I understand". In other words he is not going to commit to me. Which I hope he leaves me alone and stop trying to suck me in anymore because I get weak.

[@marytrikilis1192]

Been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years and he has repeatedly said he never wants to get married. The problem with that was he was talking about getting married and then changed his mind out of the blue. 😭

[@bridgetulrich1711]

omg your story at minute mark 9:12 is exactly the same thing I went through with long term cohabitating boyfriend 1 and almost the same conversation with cohabitating boyfriend 2 - made a commitment now. No living with anyone but my husband

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you SO much for sharing! I am so happy to be part of your life.

[@BGivka]

My favorite Adrienne video, glad I found it.

[@karynnpoole9217]

Yes I found all this out the hard way that if you are sharing a home with someone and their name is on the deed but you're not then you get nothing but the trick here is to make sure that your name goes on the deed as well and that your name goes on anything that is important even if you're not married you can still legally do this I found this out because I don't want to get legally married ever again but by law if my name is on everything like the house and the insurance policies in the retirement account that I'm still entitled to all that so for those of you who don't want to get married know that there is another way of doing it

[@adrianamorales9928]

Two questions. Thank you. Love your advice regarding being a woman today. Good for all ages.

[@se8969]

I have your abc programme and 500 words ebook. They both helped me to understand what went wrong in my life and also equiped me with the knowledge and skills to move on. Practicing feminine enerrgy with your methods already made a difference in only three weeks, amazing! It will take time and practice but now i know that i can be happy again. Thank you x

[@cozettem8226]

OMG I fell asleep watching your YT videos and I must have fallen asleep to this one and I dreamt that I was at your seminar in person and everything you said in this video at the seminar was in my dream lol. I know because I just watched it while awake and recall everything you are saying was in my dream hahahaha.

[@forrealservicesllc5029]

I love your scripts! Finding comfort in appropriate spaces with words brings comfort and self esteem to own my dreams and live my truth! Thank you for your content. L

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are so welcome! 💕 I am so happy to help!

[@stoneyvowell1239]

I must say even though I don't agree with everything, I do like a couple of your points especially about the feminine energy! As a man, I do seem more attracted to more feminine women then the "Tomboy" type women. My wife seems to absorb all the testosterone I'm losing so she tends to be in her masculine energy most of the time. Sometimes I wish she would be more feminine, that would attract me more especially if she can open up and let me in so that our "Relationship" can start going somewhere after 20 years of marriage!

[@stoneyvowell1239]

@@LS-im6uc I've been trying to do that for 20 years she's too set in her ways and does not want to open up and be vulnerable! She's happy where she's at and doesn't want to relinquish any of the control that she fought to keep for so long. We're even supposed to doing couples therapy but that doesn't seem to go anywhere either.

[@sumari972]

Have you considered getting near to her while she is busy with her stuff, if she would ask you what you are doing hier, just say, I love to be next to you... and STAY there, and don`t even try to get in ;-) And touch her only if she comes closer, but in a very soft, feminine way ;-) If you want to see that side of the mirror, you have to display it in some way in your approach to her.

[@stoneyvowell1239]

Thanks for the advice. All very good points and stuff I've been trying. Most of the time it works as far as keeping things superficial! We have been superficial for 20 years and the sex is the only thing that keeps us going and the kids and what money I make, like most average couples. At times she shows me a side that wants more, and most of my sides want more out of the relationship as well! But that side is very rare and hard-to-find in her. Which leads me more into why I'm watching your videos to get in touch with my feminine side too. So that I may not only be able to bring out that side in her more often but also understanding that I have a feminine side as well that needs to figure something out! But I should say that I guess our biggest problem is that we are both very avoidant and afraid of change! We are currently seen a counselor of sorts to kind of figure out some of our shared issues together, but it's a very slow and expensive process! I feel that most of our issues we could work together on at home with resources from the internet just like this one to not only help us get in touch with our feminine sides but also figure a lot other things out as well!?

[@donnagrandevaleur4215]

@@LS-im6uc How can honoring your own feelings be emotional blackmail? If you want to get married and he doesn't you must leave for your own well-being. In fact the Men that want to get all the benefits of being married without out the social finacial or legal responsibilites of being married are the ones being emotionally manipulative. To me that is emotional blackmail. They are hedging their bets with you. They get to feel like a Husband/Man without taking any risk, while you keep investing your time, energy and money in a relationship that could very well go no where, and literally leave you with nothing.

[@donnagrandevaleur4215]

@@LS-im6uc She is explaining that in her first marriage she didn't honor her feelings, she went along with what didn't feel right to her. That is why it failed. She is advocating being honest about what she wanted without fear of losing the guy like she did with here second Husband. Nothing blackmaily about that.

[@CherryStump6688]

Every video I watched of a guy not being sure what to do, the solution is always walk away. No easy way around it. My plan is to give it 3 months. We co parent so I’m going to keep it minimal. Once a week for picking up our child and dropping them off. After the 3 months is up? I’ll be ok either way. I either have a 3 month head start to move on or he comes back to me.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 This is such a powerful mindset to you! You are truly a Diamond Girl 💍!

[@meronabraham663]

One of my absolute favorites! 💗

[@cozettem8226]

LOL when I was 25 I had the talk with my boyfriend of one year and had been living together. He left me. Then 2 months later comes up with a promise ring. That is ridiculous do not accept a promise ring a year later no engagement ring so I cut ties off. Of course he eventually married someone else and had 2 kids with her. I am sick of the power of whether we ever get married or not to solely be the man's. We are at the mercy of men all the time.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 I’m so sorry that this happened. I know how bad it stings. It’s never an easy think to deal with. I know you will find the right man. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto

[@griseldamartinezcarbaugh1515]

@16:00: I love that. I never thought i could do that. But, you are so right. it's not up to him.!!

[@erikalbg]

After 5 years of being in a relationship he broke up with me through text because I brought up the subject of living together... I'm heart broken

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Oh honey I am so sorry. I hear about this sort of thing every week. With my first husband I experienced this too. I encourage you learn how to date the right way and rebuild with him or a new man: goo.gl/XLTZkp

[@LisaFreyMusic]

Can you make a video about those of us who did the breaking up because we saw it coming? You mentioned in one of your videos that Your husband’s parents died back to back and he went into a depression. My boyfriend’s mom died suddenly suddenly, and though it was grief that initiated the distance between us, he has begun to heal and find himself, While continuing to starve me from attention and affection, even common courtesy. I went through all the stages of grief, anger, begging and pleading until I realized he is detached after 3 months of this behavior. I tried to break up..but he would not cut the cord, It was as if I’d become a security blanket and he checked in with me daily to make sure I was still around waiting for him. It was emotional torture. I abruptly cut off all contact and ended it. I asked him to not reach out anymore (it hurts too much to talk about nothing with someone I thought was my best friend). It has been two days and he is now reaching out to my daughter. I know I have hurt him, he was not expecting me to do this (out of character for me)but my intentions were to give him space and allow him to miss me. We had an amazing relationship before his mom passed, he was just about to move in after 10 months together. The situation seems unique to the videos that I’ve been watching and I can’t get a clear answer of what to do. Now I’m feeling like I might have made a mistake ..but I’m continuing no contact bc I clearly laid out my requests and he knows what I need from him. I feel like I abandoned him

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Lisa, thank you for writing. You want to learn everything there is about the "ABCs to Get Him Back." There is so much I can share with you concerning the boundaries, expectations and the rebuilding you are facing with your man. There is a lot of love between you two. I hear that clearly. Before you reconcile which is 100% possible, you want to decide if you wish to return being just a girlfriend or if you want to be a wife. Keep learning the material I teach and you'll be READY when he returns and as you continue to rebuild. Much love and healing to you both. This is a process. Learn more here: goo.gl/XLTZkp

[@simranpunia9863]

I am talking to a guy who says that he likes talking to me, etc, but can’t be in a relationship; says relationships bring expectations and that brings disappointments; says we’re talking and we’re feeling good, that is all that matters. I really like him, but I think I’ll have to let him goo.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 This is where you would speak your boundaries to the man. Let him know that you want to be a wife one day. Sometimes the best thing you can do is to walk away. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@EveningTV]

Let me just submit that you can still end up getting screwed over and end up with nothing if you are married. I came out of a twelve year marriage destroyed after we had built an empire out of nothing. He was diagnosed with Antisocial Personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder. Marrying him was the biggest mistake of my life, but it was an education. Devoted the next ten years to learning everything about how I ended up there so I could teach women and men how to recognize disordered people before the abuse begins. I talk about how staying in the feminine is actually great protection from false masculine "Macho" emotionally immature man sized toddlers.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'm so sorry you had a bad time. Marriage is not a cure-all by any means, It's better than just shacking up imho. Wishing you the best.

[@EveningTV]

@@AdrienneEverheart I agree and am happily remarried to a wonderful man now, but I thought that was a point that deserved to be made. Recently found your channel and am enjoying your content. I had a blog years ago called Feminine Arts Academy that I was just starting to resurrect when I found you and a couple of others doing a great job. 💕

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Building with a man is insane.

[@MissAllaCinderella]

What if he tells you he’d LIKE YOU to keep your options open, because all he wants is for you to be happy and find what you’re looking for (being a wife)? 😕

[@AdrienneEverheart]

AllaCinderella believe him and go do it. This is when you listen to the man. Say OK and goodbye. If being without you drives him nuts he’ll come claim you. No texting him either. Get the ABCs to learn more and why this works.

[@ojala5555]

Somebody asked if it's ok to be funny with men. Men might be afraid of sarcastic women,but it's possible to be funny in feminine,flirty and playful way. For example: I asked a guy (who is a policeman)"May I blink your eye at work?" He said "Yeah,but I can't promise to respond you." I asked him "At least you wouldn't fine me for that?" He said "I do not do fines, my colleague does it." I asked "A fine for blinking an eye😄?" And he answered "Well,this would be harassment a policeman😁".. and so on. I like to start flirting and be funny and he plays along, and we both get good mood for laughing together. NB! English is not my mother language.Some things are really hard to translate well and right☺

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 There is nothing wrong with being fun and flirty with a man, but make sure that the man leads and you don’t initiate the flirting. Stay leaning back, but warm, soft and playful. bit.ly/femmtools

[@summmer77]

I’ve been dating a man for 2 months. Already know I would like to marry him although I still need more time to know him. But his essence is IT. He is not winning money/not a provider now. I have a son from a past relationship. There is no way I am going to speed up and leave or push him away because of marriage. If we were in 6 months then yes. But for now I will pop the question and let him know I want that but not NOW. I hope he finds a job and in a year we can be close and then move in together/get engaged

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Leave and get another one. The End..

[@adrianamorales9928]

Dear Adrienne Just found your channel. And I like what I am hearing. I have many questions, but the one I want to ask you is this....How long do you think a woman who is in a long distance relationship has to wait for her boyfriend to commit? And what happens when he has expressed before he is not sure and needs time to sort things out?

[@Fitlover24]

OMG I am in the same situation as yours..... Please Adrienne help both us know what to do

[@traceycorry4151]

Love your content!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I appreciate that! 👉🏼Please be sure you subscribe bit.ly/everheartYT

[@rosecoon1791]

There are some good points here, but I’m in a relationship that is turning out to be dead-end, and I don’t feel comfortable making statements about myself about being a dumb-dumb. I’m too trusting sometimes, but I feel like calling ourselves dumb is too self-deprecating. Especially if we need to work on raising our self-esteem.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Stupid is an apt word...

[@rosecoon1791]

@@jessicahitchens6926 such kind words. 🙄

[@cherylfernandez5463]

This was awesome!!

[@joycewilson7062]

This was a very informative video....I love it

[@shelleypetersen1608]

Thank you for another wonderful helpful video! I'm dating a guy that's not yet divorced so he doesnt even want to discuss marriage...I've shared that I want to be a wife and that In keeping my options open...he keeps contacting me so well see well see.

[@oliveb6318]

9:12 we ve been cohabitating for 3.5 in his place. 2 years were distant. He responded with the exact same response you e received when asked him about marriage. Mine said “we have arguments about little things” and would add something like “I haven’t met any of your family” even though he knew from beginning I told him that my family don’t really care whether I was in a relationship or getting married. He also tried to “pack your stuff and go” but would change his attitude the next day.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

He sounds like a peach...

[@pamguevara9237]

You have said it perfectly..I just need to follow it..Thank you so much.. I need this advice and right words.,to make things work..

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hi Pam - thanks for watching, much love and luck to you, XOXO

[@pamguevara9237]

@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you so much and I am learning a lot from you, How I wish I have that much power like you. It's not that easy, especially when I have been dating a guy for many years,and yet still stuck on that same level,nothing has changed. And now we are in no contact mode.With your video we are learning a lot..I am truly amazed you can explain every details on how whats best to say and do..Godbless your programm...❤

[@theeladyj]

Love this

[@donnagrandevaleur4215]

I disagree the very first phrase a girl should learn before she ever goes on a date is "I don't have sex outside of committed relationships" because you would be saying this if you question his level of commitment, when he is asking for sex and you are not yet comfortable with it. I view this phrase as a crucial boundary, in Adrienne's terms your line in the sand.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You can have that boundary within you and it need not be announced or warned beforehand. Use it when you need it, IF that is your boundary. Otherwise be curious where a man takes things, let it unfold. Sex moves at your pace, not his.

[@kcnnanna]

Wow Adrienne, your story gave me goosebumps!!

[@gt9748]

I’ve been divorced for 3 yrs now, I’m 41 and met a lovely man. I’m attracted to him. He’s got 4 little ones. I’ve got baby fever yes at my age and we’ve had that conversation. He can’t father any more kids. He’s only been divorced for 1 yr. and has a bit of debt from that he’s still working on. My feelings are caught up on this man I really see us together in the future. He absolutely adores me also. I’ve been watching your videos and now I’m wondering if he’ll be able to provide for a nw wife or not.... I don’t knw if I should leave him be and let him get his life together first... or hang in there and get to the 6 month mark to have the I want to be a wife conversation.?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 rule #1: listen to the man when he says, “I can’t..” This would be a wonderful question to ask in my upcoming live class! My upcoming Feminine Energy Course on April 18 & 19 would be so wonderful for you! I only have a couple of seats left! 👉🏼 www.everheartcoaching.com

[@jessicahitchens6926]

You lost your mind with the hormones... and I guarantee your not even with this guy now.

[@rubymontemayor1706]

Thanks for the good advice on picking our man...

[@joycewilson7062]

Now his word means nothing to me and we got in an argument in a restaurant and he humiliated me again and he tried calling me but I was devastated ....three weeks went by then we finally talked....we talked and now he’s falling back in old trusts of controlling me again

[@kaseyhall7548]

This has been very helpful ty

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'm glad to help you! xoxo!

[@apples-girl9210]

Thanks Adrienne!⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@catherinegruesbeck1765]

Hello Adrienne. 👋 Correct.

[@Mrs.T305]

Black men tell me I'm not their gf and I have no right to ask anything. They tell me I'm not entitled to ask them questions and they have no obligation to answer to any of my ultimatums. Ultimatums, rules, boundaries that's how they describe all this stuff I am so open to dating men from other races now. They become angry with me tell me I'm annoying. All of this because I have my boundaries and I'm asking them for dates once a week. I don't think I'm asking much.

[@Gingergurl61]

Adrienne, Do you have any different message when dealing with a widower? I've been dating a widower for almost a year. The late wife has been gone for 5 years. I was the first woman he has been a relationship. He is not wanting to move fast (his words) Any experience with this? Thank you

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you. First it is not about him, (get out of his head) it is about you. "I want to be a wife. I feel so amazing when we are together and I do not want to put any pressure on you, yet what can I say, I want to be loved and I want to be a wife to a man. " Notice you say A MAN not 'you.' Say this and you may need to start dating other men to stay true to YOURSELF. Say it and go quiet for a few days. He may have to lose you for a bit to decide to marry you. 5 years is a very long time. Learn more here: : goo.gl/XLTZkp It's more than get him back ;-)

[@Gingergurl61]

Thank you Adrienne! I’m slowly getting ready for the talk with my man. I love your videos and I bought your ebook 500 ways... We have been dating for almost a year. I’ve had some talks with him but it was before I watched your videos. I was emotional and it didn’t turn out well. I’m trying to turn the boat around and focus on me!

[@katherinemee114]

Sometimes Adrienne you make me laugh so much.......xx

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you! 🥰 That makes me so happy to hear!

[@bloggerisloo9210]

thanks for your advice

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You're welcome! diamondgirl.me/ebook

[@sumari972]

Adrienne, you are so sweet and gorgeous, I (could) fall in love in you, even if I'm a woman :-) Thank you a lot for sharing your story, because it is so true to me too... I was petrified hearing such bad words from my partners of facing these moments of anger... and felt betrayed, even if they didn't have another woman. It is because of these moments of anger, which I cannot handle, why I refused to move together with my partner for 6 years now (I can't even think of wanting a marriage). This is what makes me feel so lonely in a relationship that I prefer to live alone, so I can send the man away when he does not behave...

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Sumari I so understand. Hugs to you. Keep healing and learning. Thank you fir the kind words! 😊

[@juneelle370]

People can marry/parter and live in separate houses… I’m afraid of anger too 🌸

[@bettywormsley801]

This was such a good video

[@jenc.7691]

We are in our early 40s and have never been married. Me & my bf have been in an exclusive relationship for the past 6 months. We live separately but see each other almost every day. He knows I eventually want to get married. However he is not moving things forward, doesn’t ask me about moving in together etc. How can I get him to progress things without pressuring him?

[@KVG822]

Just ask him where’s he’s at, what he wants. Tell him how how you feel. It’s a risk but you’re not wasting more time.

[@ssmith8758]

Oh man, this sounds like me as well. However it’s been almost two years. Don’t let him waste your time. I should have pulled the plug at one year. Don’t move in unless you have a ring too! Good luck!

[@jessicahitchens6926]

He isn't marrying you. And if he does marry at all, it will be someone younger

[@plejaren1]

If you say that- they'd be gone. Frightens them off.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Then be sure to wave goodbye ;-) 🛠️ FEMM DATING TOOLS Class bit.ly/femmtools

[@BeautyandtheBarista]

I feel like I have exhausted the marriage talk. I have spent years in my masculine energy... is it too late at this point? Have I ruined it?

[@joycewilson7062]

I’m so sad....but I’m gonna move out

[@jmarie4875]

Hahaha sometimes even when you are married you walk away with nothing.... 🤣

[@breakuplikeaboss6100]

Me 🤣🤣

[@peyotekaiyote4312]

Adrienne your personal story is the same as mine. North, east south and west.

[@bbuster5667]

I think it would be great if all is women would stand together and have no sex before marriage , no living together before marriage and no cooking or cleaning up after them until they know what they want

[@BetterLoveMovement]

AGREED! The men WOULD be more apt to marry if this happened. This was definitely how it was done in the 30's, 40's and 50's. The darn sexual revolution and the 'free love" movement ruined it for everyone! 😫

[@nahauler]

Except not living with them or anything could lead to disaster 🤣

[@Clau0818]

Wow thanks for sharing your story. I’ve listened to you for a while and had no idea about your experience first husband.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'm so happy to help!

[@jju2131]

Hi Adrianne, love your channel it absolutely give us a learning curve. I would like to understand tho, what does it really mean when a guy says "take care" on a text message or bidding goodbye at the end of meeting/spending time with them?

[@Strwby04girl]

What if you have no desire to be married ever again...??

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Have a public ceremony with friends/family. It must be public! A ring is very important. The man needs these things.

[@marivimoya7487]

Sarah Be I feel like you do!

[@Fitlover24]

If we have given him the same feminine dialogue twice IN A GAP OF 4 WEEKS INTERVALS about marriage, I HAD EVEN SAID HIM IM WALKING AWAY, again after few weeks he tries contacting you,DO WE REPEAT THE SAME MARRIAGE DIALOGUE OR NOW START IGNORING HIM COMPLETELY'.....

[@joycewilson7062]

My boyfriend asked me 3 times and finally I moved in and I gave up my job....moved in and he started controlling me....and humiliated me in public 3 times.....and every other week he would threat to kick me out or take me back to my truck....as I got back out on truck that all settled down....

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m so sorry. Please watch my video on the one question I get all my clients to ask.

[@justgo5529]

You are accurate and funny! That is so helpful advice! Thanks 💓

[@tradermama]

Were good!

[@fenellacorden375]

hi adrienne. How do i have coaching by you please.

[@0judi0bartel74]

Your story 😲

[@mamalovesvintage]

My husband and I are separated cross country. I would like to reconnect with him and I’m going to visit him for my birthday. I need guidance thru this journey. Please help. ~Cheryl

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hi there, so excited for you to reconnect with him. Be sure it is HIS idea for you to come visit. Get yourself the ABCs to Get Him Back and be sure to study the materials in the VIP Library. Love to you! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

[@martaorzechowska2860]

No, Adrienne. Im not scared to ask a man about marriage. But if I did ask, then should I be down on my knee and have a ring prepared for him as well? I don't want to swap the roles.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Asking about marriage isn't the same as asking him to marry you. It's opening up the dialogue about it, especially if he's never mentioning marriage and it's something you want. I go deeper into this, and other related topics, in my 500 Ways to Talk to a Man eBook: bit.ly/500waysbook XO!

[@bettywormsley801]

It could be the opposite as well

[@PadminiRao7]

We were dating short term(3 months) everything was great, and then he told me he is not serious and is not ready, yet wants to be with me as he feels happy around me.. but somehow i managed to say it upfront that i don't want anything casual and stopped interacting. No Texts, no calls, not even asking anything. I hope i did something right. I just felt he was way too confused and didn't want to string along. Do you think i have chances? I know i am being too optimistic here 🥴

[@FM-zg5hz]

Any update?

[@Tudocongbinh]

I have difficulty to attract a high quality man. Do you have any advice for it?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Tudocongbinh yes! Start where you are at and learn what the man is bringing you. Get New Man Manifesto and learn about the n/a man and moving up tiers. Www.everheartcoaching.com/NMM

[@Shasha8674]

10 years of marriage...you may get the higher person's social security later in life.

[@LaGataSolar]

Can these things be said in dating as well? Like if he’s beating around the bush can you just say you’re going to keep your options open or should we just lean back?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 You can tell a man you are dating that you want to be a wife one day and would like to keep your options open. That’s perfectly ok! Learn more here bit.ly/500waysbook

[@LaGataSolar]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy thank you my beautiful FEM coach. hugs xoxo 💋

[@joycewilson7062]

He gets angry and frustrated and says I went through a bad marriage for 18 yesrs

[@faezahjumahat4196]

Hi Adrienne Good AfterNoon From Singapore! If A Guy Can't Commit Or He Is Just Not Sure Where Is He Heading It Is Better To Walk Away! No Sleeping Together, No Sex Before Marriage Or No 'Friends With Benefits' Or He Just Playing Around? If A Guy Put A Woman On A Pedestal Should A Woman Walk Away & Find The Right Guy? Can A Woman Asked A Guy What Is The Woman To The Man Or The Guy Is Not Keen? How Can A Woman Asked The Guy To Commit Or The Guy Is Shy Or Not Really Talk To AnyOne? Can An Ex Return After Ghosted Or Was Silent & Distant After One Year Break-Up With The Woman & The Guy Shows Up & Confess His True Feeling's?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕I would suggest working through the ABC program. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

[@nadineiraortega]

What do you think it means if he plans a trip for the both of you on your birthday? I do not understand what the intention is. We've been separated over a year.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This is a good thing! Sentimental, and be in a place of the moment, see what happens and whatever you do, don’t work on the relationship. Just give him open forum and enjoy yourself. Let him lead. 💋🥰

[@nadineiraortega]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy thank you 😘💋

[@carlitacabrera5845]

You are incredible lol. Does it apply for single woman of 47 years old like me? Who dates divorcee men who had already been through marriage before? . You are great adriane.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

YES! We are the same age, and most my clients are 37 and up. xoxox!

[@carlitacabrera5845]

My dear adriane I became a fan of your videos. I realized I have been doing all wrong. Feeling awful and denying my real desires. I would love to get married some day. This is very unpopular in my country! Lol. You are helping me to be brave enough to face what I really want to be treated in a relationship and get rid of my fears. I will definitely buy your book. Thank you dear. ♡

[@diamondgirlsammy9298]

What if he doesn't want a relationship but he want to spend time with me?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This all comes down to how YOU feel about this. No one else can tell you how to feel or what to do. You can decide to keep this man in your rotation, yet you would be sacrificing your values if you were to become exclusive with a man like that. Learn more with FEMM Tools bit.ly/femmtools

[@ericabassi7728]

My ex was willing to give me 50 percent of everything until a lawyer told him he didn't have to because I earned more that he did and supported him the whole time we were married and despite the fact that we were together 10 years and had a child. I ended up with only the deposit for a new place, that's it.

[@ericabassi7728]

@@sarahjaynescott545 Yes.

[@ericabassi7728]

@@sarahjaynescott545 Absolutely. He made out before we got married that he was doing really well. It was only when we were married and I was pregnant that he told me that he could barely support us both while I wasn't able to work but he hid it from me and I didn't care enough about money before we got married to inquire.

[@ericabassi7728]

@@sarahjaynescott545 No, marriage is no guarantee. I do think the more work we can do on our own self-esteem and self-worth, getting in touch with our own 'inner world" then the more in tune with our instincts we will be, and hopefully, the better we will be able to sniff out the users before they get a chance to hook us in.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Erica Bassi that’s terrible. If you out earn a man by even $1 this can happen. You can get legal nuptial agreements at any time. Including in case of death you can request an autopsy. Think of everything and hire a good attorney to write your agreement.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Were you on drugs? How could you not ask about his financial situation before the wedding? That's on you!!

[@donnagrandevaleur4215]

Are you talking about Joanne Woodward the actress?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Donna Gran de Valeur no..?

[@meld8753]

I wish I could afford the ABC program, but I will just continue to watch videos

[@Shasha8674]

Men don't want to give 1/2 of their income for the rest of their life if they divorce.

[@charivillenebrija6586]

I asked him and he said he is not ready to get married :(

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Aw, honey! 💕 I am so sorry this has happened to you. We must lean back and accept a man’s no. It can be so tough. Focus on yourself. I’d start working through the ABC’s.

[@charivillenebrija6586]

Hi Adrianne, today i purchase your ABC program and on my first week :) thanks!

[@suzieopasole5586]

I need some help with this place Help me

[@bettywormsley801]

Thanks

[@Femininelovevibes]

8 months and he can’t even put labels as bf/gf :/

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 It’s time for you to go over the terms & conditions of your relationship again to see if you are on the same page. You are a Diamond girl and deserve more than a man’s crumbs! My ABC program will help you with this. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

[@Femininelovevibes]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy Your words are too sweet. I just recently purchased your 101 how to talk to a man and it was lovely. I felt so in touch with heart and feelings. I just got your ABC’s. I’m struggling with the 8 month guy and my ex of 5 years came back after 5 months and wants us to get back together. Your program I feel will help me decides what’s best .. thank you so much much love 💕 💕💕💕

[@dianelindenberger6941]

why are you not married to your second partner?.......

[@MissAllaCinderella]

Looking at the date you published this- I’m concerned. Isn’t it legal now to marry if you’re a homosexual couple?

[@iNazarethaNkosazana]

Oh wow your story is such an eye opener. Thank you for sharing. Met a guy since December last year we been dating. we went exclusive to be a boyfriend and girlfriend by the end of February, he took o. Holidays for a week. Was awesome spending time together. We came back and was ready to move forward and wanted me to meet his kids (fostered kids) , that he stay with. He then organized a dinner at his place, all went well. We all went on a camping /Fishing Trip with the kids, just to get to know each better and spend time. Also was a great weekend. Now I don't know if it's the right time to ask about the future of our relationship? Again, on own He knows that I want to be married one day and be a mother of my own children. He is okay and wants to be a parent with me one day. I also would like your advice on how do I feature in his kids life? He is really involved with them and he is doing a great job. I hope I got my questions through clearly. Thank you Helena

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hi this is Adrienne here! You simply say, “The past few months have felt so good. I’ve felt surrounded by happiness and love. I’m curious how you feel?” You can also say, “where do you see us going?” bit.ly/500waysbook

[@iNazarethaNkosazana]

@@AdrienneEverheart thank you so much. I am definitely going to be using your advice. I appreciate you.

[@denyseblair2279]

Adrienne, Love your site! My guy and I have been together since last November. He is in Fla Nov - April and upstate NY April - Nov. We had a wonderful time together, a few days a week and all weekend. We are now in a LD committed relationship, his idea,. We FT and talk a few days a week. I am going to see him for a week in July, a break from the Fla heat! I'm feeling a bit disconnected from him because when we speak, instead of lovey dovey convos, it's more about the daily ins and outs of everyday life, a few laughs, and then blows me a kiss goodbye. I would like to know where we are headed but I'm not sure if we've spent enough time together to bring this up. I would love to know your thoughts. Thank you!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are having a lot of "maintenance" conversations. Yet through the daily ins and outs you can connect. Please get "500 Ways" and learn more about speaking from your heart. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@hananibrahim9692]

❤️

[@callalilly4743]

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[@AdrienneEverheart]

ticheri love to you! 💕💕🥰

[@bellabriggs1393]

Honey marriage means nothing , I was married and my ex husband was on dating sites all the tome , 24 hours after I left the house , he was already going out with all kind of women . I have everything to him and lost it all , the marriage me at nothing at all to him . I would never ever have another man in my house , cleaning after him , giving all to him , listening to his snore , cleaning the dirty bathroom! Marriage does not mean love , commitment our anything , sorry .

[@AdrienneEverheart]

It is the best thing we have although I’m sorry you got a cheater. That can happen yet marriage is the best we have.

[@bellabriggs1393]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy but do you really think that having someone every day , snoring and all the time in the house does not damage the passion ? Also you are a successful woman and you are not afraid of being married and you husband to decide to divorce you and then ask for spousal support ? I lost everything I had being married and I could not wait to be divorced so I would not be responsible for his bills anymore ... you always say that marriage is kind of a safety thing for a woman , but is that right ? If tomorrow your husband does not love you anymore and he wants you to pay alimony? Not sure , sorry .

[@mayetbebe8980]

What if it is hard for him to commit because he is stuck with ex girlfriend who is toxic. He gave his financial support to the entire family of that girl and when he decide to choose me,the girl threaten him to suicide if he do that. What are the things we do if he is not couragious enough to let her go.

[@mayetbebe8980]

Can you make a video about this. i would be glad if you could make a topic on this so that you can explain further about this kind of situation

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you for the great idea! Keep it coming. I may do one about this one day. xoxo!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This is clearly a confused man who needs to learn how to be a man, and how to stand up for what he wants. A man will move mountains to be with you, don't ever forget that! I cover this in 500 Ways: bit.ly/500waysbook

[@lightbulb888]

omg gold dust