When Your Philippines Plans Go Boom, and It Was All A Lie

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@danelionheart5881]

Awe Pea still loves me with that secret code touching her foot is how she says I love you Dane Lionheart we made that code up a long time ago and when she waves her foot it tells me she is missing me and thinking of me a lot and when she flips her shoes off and on that tells me she can't wait to be in my arms . Lmao opps was that our secret?

[@TheStygianKing]

As Aksys, great video, Pea. I think this is a case of you screwed her, so she screwed you,

[@badbobby11]

@@danelionheart5881😮

[@49525Bob]

So in essence Mark paid $250 for a few hours service of an escort.

[@ethics3]

@@advancedanr Agreed. Its sad that more people cannot tell when a person is being ingenuine . As a former investigator I would put this persons lying at a level of around 3 on a scale of one to ten , ten being that of a true psychopath . Judging by his body language , speech inflections and things he did not divulge , I have a pretty good idea why his woman fled so quickly , but ill keep that to myself as its fodder for argument .

[@hitekcountry]

WHAT? - It only cost him $250 to find out the relationship was not going to work out, I call that a GOOD OUTCOME. Lucky guy!

[@What11235]

250 is a lot different than 250 thousand! You are right.

[@roberttractortaylor]

@@hitekcountry not to mention he found out the first day and not after getting hitched. Sucky situation to find yourself in, but there's a ton of silver linings if you look for them.

[@RichA-hj7hz]

My Divorce was $400k

[@americanandpinay]

Have to be careful with the new PI laws in the Philippines. It really doesn't even cost that. You just need to know someone who can go down to the local gov office and have her CENOMAR pulled. But if you mess up and let it slip that you hired a PI and she knows about the laws then you probably messed up going to the Philippines. We know 2 guys they've deported for hiring and invading privacy.

[@Robert-Hamm]

EXACTKLY. He got off cheap aside from the embarrassment of it all. Another reason to take your time..... we will get together when *I* open the gate olololol

[@Shanghaimagic]

To Mark: Never, ever give up your passport to any person except the Police and a Government Official. In fact, it's against the law to do so.

[@ausaskar]

Yeah, I have no idea why he didn't just cut his booking short, pay for the 2-3 nights he had money for, go get some money, then extend his stay. Why give up the passport?

[@marcrichard7251]

Better yet he should’ve had a place booked ahead of time before he left the USA for at least a month or two I always do that and I never have a problem. I mean here he was with his girlfriend at some temporary place, not knowing where he’s going to stay next and he’s already in the Philippines that’s too short notice to get a good deal. I always get half off, my rooms because I stay so long and I do it online and I tend to stay at the nicer places

[@tuberNunya]

He is weak. Hiding his money? Who does that?

[@jessemartin2560]

@@Shanghaimagic I absolutely agree

[@makiavelli6101]

@@tuberNunya Anyone who has a brain cell in their head.

[@chrishamlin5863]

I'm happily married and have been living in SE Asia for over 5 years. My advice is to fall in love with the country before you even think about falling in love with a woman.

[@TowManDave00]

Is it just me?... Or does Pea look amazing with her hair up and in jeans!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s rare for me to wear jeans, but if you like ‘em, I’ll gladly wear ‘em 😊

[@bartekwasiewski4684]

​@@TheFilipinaPea You definitely look amazing!!

[@obg6467]

@@TowManDave00 she always looks fabulous 😍

[@oldmanoz65]

Hot hot hot!!!

[@richardm3023]

Yes, it's funny that she considers herself "average", but in the U.S. she could probably be a model.

[@tomcavanaugh5237]

It's like Al Bundy said, "it doesn't matter which one you pick, it'll be the wrong one".

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Al was a prophet of things to come 👍👍

[@roberttractortaylor]

@@tomcavanaugh5237 damn I miss Married With Children.

[@Robert-Hamm]

HAHAHAHAHA Exactly Tom. He was such an optimist eh??

[@tonybattaglio4625]

Bed her don't wed her

[@timsmith8506]

Such a good show!

[@jerryharris615]

Mark, you are a not the first or the last to get scammed. My first time in Philippines back in 1996, I lost $3000 to a gambling scam, which maxed out my credit card so I was unable to pay my hotel bill. That sucked! I always made a paper copy of my passport and had that with me and locked up my passport. I'm retired Air Force and will be retiring from the Veteran Affairs in a couple of weeks. I will be back in the Philippines in March. I'm not sure where you are at but If I see you I will buy a drink. I've been married to a wonderful Filipino for 19 years now. It good that you are not desperately looking for someone and are cautious. Take care and be safe! Pea, Your channel is awesome and I enjoy watching them! Thank you!

[@purplerube1038]

$250 for a night of passion is not the worst loss . The emotional let down would be the worst loss.

[@JesseOsby]

I think he said he was too zonked out from the long flight for that

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, I’m sure he hurt much worse than $250 dollars worth 😢

[@ms1362]

@@purplerube1038 I don’t think there would’ve been any passion unless that $250 was up front!

[@greggingle8886]

@@purplerube1038 absolutely the emotional loss was the true loss as I’m positive if she would ask he would have given her the money

[@toddt5562]

@@purplerube1038 seems that he got an unexpected and expensive "short time" 🤣

[@pleaseactright1]

It boggles my mind how these guys say they studied everything about the Philippines as far as the do’s and the don’ts, and yet they do all the don’ts anyway. Don’t meet a Filipina online. He did it anyway. Don’t let the Filipina meet you at the airport. He did it anyway. Don’t let her spend the night with you if you can’t secure your valuables. He did it anyway. He also said they were planning to find place to live together. He was ready to move in with a woman he just met. And I bet you he has already heard multiple horror stories of other guys doing that. But he was ready to do it anyway. Fellas get your little head under control.

[@haighton]

I did everything he did in 2010 and everything worked fine. She and I started talking online She picked me up from the airport (she actually got inside the arrival building. Which is pretty unique. Back then Filipinos/Filipinas are/were NOT allowed to enter the arrival (and departure) building. We went to the booked hotel The next day she took me to her parents place where I was introduced to her mom, dad & brother. And after that we were still together. Only difference was and is, I had to return back home to get back to work. There is another difference between the guy in the interview and me. I didnt have any money on me. And no laptop either.

[@isaiahhilburn6466]

It's shamefull that guy's over 50 are learning life's lessons in a foreign land. Not smart at all. I'm 54 same as he. You'd never hear/see me on any one's vlog telling you about it either.

[@haighton]

The interviewer can do so many interviews. You will see successes and failures.

[@ArtaherDuron]

Chatted up my Filipina online for a year. Filipina greet you at the airport man. So did mines. Meeting someone overseas is like investing in stocks. Don't invest anything you're not willing to lose. 5 years later we're married & still together. Bad situations occur, they exist in every country & every walk of life. But they're not the majority.

[@rlh125]

@@haighton Yes, you have made the point that guys like @pleaseactright1 always miss: That there are success stories. It's those success stories that cause guys to make the decision to take a chance. And it is especially easy to convince oneself to take a chance when there seems to be no rational reason for the Filipina to betray your trust. Talking all day to someone for 6 months, introducing him to family and friends, meeting the guy at the airport, then ghosting him...for $250? When staying with him might have yielded a lifetime of access to a loving husband AND his money? It's irrational. But it obviously happens.

[@christopheroge2357]

This video has opened my eyes, because I have been talking to several Filipinas from a dating site and I am planning on going there. But the scams obviously run deeper

[@ranti2760]

Never ever try to get a Philippina. Never! You know Philippines’s in Asia as much the same Mexicans for USA, Ukrainians for Germany , maybe it sounds racist but it is what it is

[@stepchicken3238]

Will the photo match the woman when you meet?

[@ronfindley2874]

Mark, you've had some real life lessons learned. Get back up, dust yourself off, and, Keep On Keeping On!!! Best wishes.

[@markmitera4521]

Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

@@markmitera4521 I think he will, too - I have confidence in him 👍

[@NewYorkAcupuncturecenter804]

I’m Mark also hope my story be better been to the PH to meet a girl did not work only money I lost willing and dining excessively but it’s ok I had a great time

[@markmitera4521]

I'm sorry I'm not an Alpha male. I'm sorry I'm not an experienced world traveler. This is my first time outside the U.S.. I'm sorry I fell for someone online. I'm sorry for everything stupid thing I did. Lesson learned, but some of you people are just down right mean. I hope to never run into you in the PH. For those that listened to my story and didn't feel the need to chastise me, thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

No chastisement here, Mark! I don’t think you did anything wrong besides succumbing to the ‘online temptation’ 👍😊 But you know what the sweetest revenge is? Stay here and flourish - and do a follow-up of you with a smiling face 👍😊

[@nows1567]

It's not your fault you got scammed, if you're the guy in the vid. Besides I think it happens to most guys that come here now, maybe not as much in just a few days, still I think most of us have gotten scammed one way or another here. It's one of the drawbacks nowadays in the Ph. in my opinon, scams or dishonest behaviour related to housing or relationships. Good that you brought up your experiences so other can learn. Many say nothing and I've heard of ppl getting scammed, for way bigger money than you, so don't worry about what some says. They probably feel bad themselves for being scammed way more than you, and hide it behind hate 🙃

[@JesseOsby]

Chin up, buddy. You're only out $250 and you still have your health and your freedom. Many many men have made much worse mistakes than you. Learn from them, move on, and don't worry about the opinions of others. "The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself"

[@MrSean03839]

Just ignore the haters Mark, they are all over the internet. You did nothing wrong and this will all be just a blip on the radar of life.

[@deebea6364]

People online with no accountability are very quick to judge and criticise - sharing your story and being open about what you did and the mistakes you made is admirable, and people who see themselves as alphas but go around criticising people on KZbin are cringe - hope the years ahead are the best of your life!

[@alansullins3024]

The pea is the only youtuber that presents fair, honest content on the Philippines.

[@jeffsobey7380]

I am a man of simple goals. One is to not let something like this happen to me. Thank you for the reminder.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And my job is to protect you all I can, and showing stories like this are part of that protection 👍😊

[@andrewcarlson2178]

​@@TheFilipinaPeayou're such a sweetheart. It shoud be our job to take care of ourselves and protect women, but we'll take it where we can get it 🥰

[@flagger2020]

​@@TheFilipinaPea I think you have the following to start a Pea vetted top class dating agency.. but it will be a hassle.. srly, we are happy with your knowledge, humor, smile and charm

[@glenbolton8555]

ahhh youre missing out on so much real life 😆 iv'e had nothing but this crap for over 10 years

[@bobbyjoe6250]

She just didn’t like what she saw when she met him in person. Money is powerful and is very tempting when she knew she wasn’t coming back. Poor guy, I wonder just how often this really happens?

[@JesseOsby]

That's exactly what I was thinking. Putting 6 months of daily effort for a $250 payout would not make sense so I don't think that was her plan. Something about the guy put her off once they met and once she could see there was no future there, there was no reason not to burn that bridge by stealing his money

[@isaiahhilburn6466]

It happens non stop. You will never be saying "poor guy" about me i guarantee that..

[@1320_ikimasho]

Could be, or maybe it's just part of her routine. Something tells me it wasn't her first time doing that.

[@COFFEEVIDZ]

Who's "we"? You got played, dude. You can't be all in just off talking. $250 isn't much so chalk it up as a lesson and keep it moving.

[@joehart7260]

I think you are right. It does seem strange though if she was hanging onto him when they first met like he said. Maybe he just snored too loudly.

[@markreynolds5363]

Good lesson. My mindset going into my first trip (they worked for me): 1) Nothing is real until you meet in person. 2) Never travel *only* to meet someone. Plan a bunch of other reasons…food, sightseeing, museums, etc. It takes the pressure off of both parties in the event that there is no ‘chemistry’. 3) Rent accommodations through airb&b, there are lots of protections, especially if it’s a condo with security guard(s).

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Good plan 👍👍👍

[@borisjoffe]

Airbnb doesn't have as much protection as you think. I've rented a place before that was extremely unsafe and it took tons of phone calls to get a partial refund back

[@markreynolds5363]

@ I’ve been using Airb&b for 11 years, multiple times/year. Never had a problem that was not resolved successfully. How much protection do you think I think it has, and how do you know that it doesn’t have as much protection as I think? Because you had an unsatisfactory experience? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@borisjoffe]

​@@markreynolds5363 You claim that "there are lots of protections". I'm telling you that's not always the case. I had an incident where I had to call 911 and Airbnb completely ignored me and refused to give a refund until multiple phone calls later. And even then, it was only a partial refund for the days I didn't use when I left early. I got zero compensation above that. There's a good chance you just got lucky or booked in nicer locations than I have. There are tons of comments on this video talking about how guys made all the same mistakes as the guy in the video and got married and now have happy lives (and they understand they got lucky). But this video is important for people to watch so that they don't make these mistakes. Your comment about taking precautions about these things is the exact same thing I'm doing in my comment telling people to take precautions on airbnb and not thinking that everything will be easily resolved on that platform. Just because some people get lucky with meeting a girl online or using airbnb doesn't mean people shouldn't be cautious of both of those things.

[@RamosNetwork]

My goodness I really lucked out with my Filipina, I talked to her for months before meeting in person, never asked me for money directly or indirectly, no baggage or trauma, visited her 4 times to make sure no hidden red flags. Now I’m married to my Filipina and just celebrated 1 year married with her, still the same sweet, caring, and nurturing woman that I fell in love with, God really did bless me with the right woman for me 🥰

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@Biggestisland]

Same here

[@paulshamblin6260]

@@RamosNetwork congratulations. I firmly believe there are far more good ones than bad.

[@buyerofsorts]

Still the same sweet, caring and nurturing woman even after a whole year huh? Give it another year....

[@RamosNetwork]

@@buyerofsorts we have been together longer than a year, we just celebrated 1 year married last month. I'll pray you have the same success so you don't have bitterness in your heart.

[@mojolivinginthephilippines3503]

Good luck Mark I’m sure you will find a good loving caring Filipino 🇵🇭

[@crafty24]

Love all your videos and your senses of humor. And also your good works setting people up in their own businesses. You are Awesome! ❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s SO freaking kind of you Crafty! You’re really helping me 👍👍 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@crafty24]

I wish I could be there to help you 🤗​@@TheFilipinaPea

[@billbillson3129]

Cleo-Pea-tra!!! Thaank you for making and sharing your videos with us!!!

[@Louis-ws7iz]

Wow his story was a nightmare, I will be visiting Cebu Philippines very soon hope that never experience any close to what he went through. Thanks for sharing your experience it helps me to be more prepared.

[@Sahrokh]

I actually loved your "Cleopatra" final scene so much! Your humor is so refreshing!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Sahrokh! ❤️❤️

[@bryansammis998]

“Peace of mind is more important than a piece of a$$” Good words to live by!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I wouldn’t blame him! 😳👍

[@surah1655]

This guy is a walking red flag. He broke major rules of expating.

[@goomu5306]

The more videos I watch the luckier I feel. My story started almost exactly like his but in the morning she was still with me. Went to meet her family and now we're going on 3 years and working on a K1.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@timmytravels23]

Same here. ❤❤

[@sinnaru6286]

Same here, we lucked out for sure.

[@Superspice101]

Same here 🙌🙌

[@1604mo]

This is super re assuring. I'm in a similar situation. Younger woman, been talking not terribly long so still new. Planning a trip to meet after the new year. I'm optimistic still, but seeing stories like this makes me a bit nervous. A lot of similarities. I've spoken to the mother on the phone. Everything. Wish me luck I guess..

[@obg6467]

How many other people here can see this dude getting on a plane home broke?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s a possibility, unless his luck changes! But I have confidence in him 👍

[@pakviroti3616]

@@TheFilipinaPea Luck has nothing to do with it. He's a simp, it's obvious. He never had much luck with women in his home country. So he's vulnerable to any attractive woman that spots what he is.

[@UseTheSupeRsonic]

[@AussieTonythemexican]

I just get the feeling he's ill equipped. Nice enough person

[@johnsantos1827]

Nah, homie is gonna be on the streets in Manila

[@PoetryBang-n4u]

Laying down with a woman after getting off the plane whom he had never met in person. Prudence & wisdom, out the window.

[@kranzonguam]

Thanks for this video! People need to remember that it is only fantasy until it's real, and face to face-- and even then be careful! Take good care!😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, nothing is real until you spend time together 👍🥺

[@marcosarteaga4334]

This why I love your videos pea you keep us aware and give us a heads up

[@chrisphillips1973]

Awesome channel Pea! I've been to Manila twice and they were both fantastic trips. This poor guy should probably stay at home😂

[@gerrymcnally9344]

He's been through so much and still he keeps on going. A very remarkable individual. Thanks Ms Pea for the interview 😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

He’s unshakeable, apparently 👍😊

[@johnsantos1827]

Bro....NEVER SURRENDER YOUR PASSPORT.

[@woutergijs5246]

Exactly. Not at a hotel. No car rental. Even if they insist. No. Your passport is also not your possession: it belongs to the country that issued it. ( and you paid an issuing fee and you are responsible for it)

[@kbtred51]

It is normal for a hotel (their deposit), it is covered by police - immigration - barangay registration identification requirements, usually just first night

[@johnsantos1827]

@@kbtred51 No thanks. I'll find a new hotel before I surrender that passport

[@christopherturco197]

Talk about the patience of Job! With that kind of patience, he should do well in the Philippines. All I can say is "WOW!"

[@markmitera4521]

I have often been told that I have the patience of a saint. Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, that level of patience will come in handy, I’m afraid 🥺

[@christopherturco197]

@@markmitera4521 I hope you have smooth sailing from here on out. Most would not persevere in the face of all those experiences. Power on!🦾

[@douglasgraham1916]

Another great video Pea! Hopefully this will help someone else to be more careful and you do a great job with interviewing people! Looking forward to Friday's video!

[@93kk0]

Heartbreaking story. Seems like a good guy. Imagine spending 6 months of your time cultivating what you think is the beginning of a relationship, taking the leap traveling to a foreign country, just to get robbed by the woman you've grown into liking. Mark, if you read this, best of luck!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly 👍👍

[@xpusostomos]

Happened to me also, but I learned

[@sonoftherepublic7737]

Morning Pea! What a story to share, I feel for him and this situation , always be situationally aware 😮-love your outfit at the end❤️

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍👍

[@nate61]

Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Nate, you helped me yet again! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bdaddy003]

His number one mistake was getting involved with a single mother.

[@Dunno-h8r]

Most of them are unfortunately

[@danp6101]

@@bdaddy003 That's not true

[@davidlaksa]

@@bdaddy003 I’m 65. I thought I was a great guy who can handle single mother situations. I had to give up, I was not that great. I’m married to a woman and I went as far as a vasectomy (neither of us wanted biological kids).

[@roberttractortaylor]

Says the dude who can't even get a single mother 😂

[@mosaton]

Good luck finding a Filipina without a child

[@anthonyboone6843]

Keep your head up Mark. There are all kinds of people in this world. Stay positive and you will find the one that is right for you. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@codywy5579]

Good one Pea ... You are the Best!! ✅✅✅

[@oncall21]

Lesson learned. Go to the Philippines 🇵🇭 because you want to go there to check it out. Then look for the ladies/future girlfriend. I’m sorry for Mark’s experience but the only mistake you can make is not learning from one. Great vlog Ms Pea as always. Thanks for sharing!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍

[@robhernandez6105]

Go for the scuba diving so even if you don't meet someone, you still have a good time.

[@Tigger1981]

I'm truly grateful for my lady. We have now been married 2 and a half years, together since February of 2019. My mother in law is about to celebrate her 80th birthday. I love my family in the Philippines.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, Tigger, the time is flying! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Tigger1981]

@@TheFilipinaPea yes ma'am, it is. We are blessed to be together.

[@timothyhughes1480]

Very good , yes there is still a few. And loving her family is a great thing good luck

[@Tigger1981]

@@timothyhughes1480 Nothing but Jesus Christ, not luck. More people should learn to have an attitude of gratitude.

[@travisranney7536]

Love the new ending! You truly are helping many people on both sides of the ocean

[@jackiepoole5422]

Another good one. Thank you Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jackie!! 👍👍👍❤️

[@charlesetienne6037]

Mark is a soft guy, see a guy that has not gone through much in his life for a country like Philippines. I wish him luck for his bravery to stay.

[@constantinhaller4391]

very soft

[@ddphotography4313]

I think it’s time to leave the Philippines

[@martinmoxey2180]

Just looking at this fellow I am not surprised he got taken. God bless him.

[@brianscovern68]

Hi Pea! What a story. This guy simply had some awful luck with the crazy woman. The fact that she waited 6 months to steal from this dude is insane. Have a great weekend.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Something tells me she was hoping to score a lot more 🥺

[@Wookinpanub235]

@@TheFilipinaPea She probably had 20 other simps that she is manipulating. This guy was just a walk in the park for her. I’m sure her schedule book is full.

[@Abelius]

Once you understand Long Distance "Relationships" don't exist, everything becomes a lot easier. But yeah, we all make mistakes. Only the*really* wise learn by the mistakes of others.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I agree, and I think he learned that lesson 👍👍

[@artvandelay409]

I also wanted to add....moving to the Philippines with multiple medical issues on a limited budget is a recipe for disaster.

[@tonywilliams7918]

Thank you for sharing your experiences, Mark. I hope that your future endeavors are more successful, if not manageable to a better pace and degree of comfort for your patience while residing in the Philippines. Good luck!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well-said, Mister T 👍👍❤️

[@mensdailyadviceencouragement]

Damn This is a VERY Deep Story. I'm Glad you did this interview. Now atleast we know that you are willing to give us the heads up on the scam side, the Lies, and corrupt side of the Philippines. Alot of these Romance and Hotel Scams can really discourage a person from coming. But However, there are SOME Expats & Passport Bro's that seem to squeeze through the Cracks and Dodge the Unexpected Bullets. Keep up the Great work Homegirl 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks MDAE 👍👍❤️

[@goofyjohn6191]

Love this wonderful young lady. Hoping the best possible life for her.

[@RaoulLaoyan]

Obviously not much travel experience. Never ever, ever, EVER give up your passport for anything. In the US, you have the option of getting both a passport book and a passport card. Give up the card, but NEVER the book.

[@MrSean03839]

I believe you can also get two passports.

[@borisjoffe]

Why not use a driver's license? Or will foreign countries not accept it?

[@ms1362]

So she laid a pillow in her place right before her escape… just like Alcatraz!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣👍 I wonder he she escaped through an air duct?

[@ms1362]

Probably spent those six months making a raft out of rain coats, getting ready to paddle to another island! 🛶 🏝️

[@jdl2180]

Sounds like you learned some lessons and has the right attitude about things now. Good luck! Mark😊

[@spincube5734]

I came home to my Airbnb in Cebu once & found the door destroyed. I feared my cash, credit cards & electronics were stolen but the thief only took the lightbulbs. I wasn't upset. I was delighted! Another good interview. Thanx Pea!!

[@markmitera4521]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I still need to know where you get these things … 👍

[@spincube5734]

@@TheFilipinaPea I used to steal them from comedian Mitch Hedberg. "I still do, but I used to too".

[@erikgeorge3770]

❤❤ the beautiful Pea ❤❤ always bringing the stories ❤❤ why can't they all be like the Pea

[@silverliner4894]

Because we don't live in a perfect world

[@benlaw4647]

Great interview Pea! I feel bad for Mark. He had alot of bad things happen to him . Mark seems like a really nice guy ! Best wishes for Mark in the future! Thanks Pea! Have a great week! 😊🙏💝

[@JGTaylor62]

Honestly, his story puts a knot in my stomach about moving to the Philippines.

[@markmitera4521]

Better me than you. Don't let my story prevent you from coming here.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Don’t worry, you’re now under my protection - I won’t let you get knotted 🤣👍❤️

[@JGTaylor62]

@@TheFilipinaPea 😅

[@JGTaylor62]

@@markmitera4521 .... My problem is that what you went through has been Standard Operating Procedure through a great deal of my life. Looooong story.

[@ms1362]

@@TheFilipinaPeaSure, but where were you when Mark needed you after she found his money in his underwear?! 🤑

[@Apogge_kings]

But wait. Filipina Pea, you are in a long distance relationship

[@jeremywheeler2122]

That's what I thought 😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

True, but I’ve spent time with him on several occasions 😉👍 And LDR’s aren’t as risky for women - it’s the men that have a lot to lose, which is why I don’t recommend them. In my case, however, he’s safe - I’ve been publicly vetted for almost half a decade, and he can reasonably conclude I’m not a scammer … or so he thinks! Bwahahahaaaa 🤣

[@Apogge_kings]

@@TheFilipinaPea I love you. Have a great day!

[@Steven-t9s]

Pea just scored an own goal!

[@tommyboy500]

Your long distance relationship agrees with you pea You look fantastic!!!!!!

[@CulinaryFit]

Miss Pea, Thank you for delivering yet another thought-provoking and highly relevant video. I always appreciate how meticulously you craft your content-it’s clear that a lot of thought, research, and care goes into each production. Your ability to blend meaningful insights with engaging presentation keeps me coming back for more. Not only are your topics always timely and insightful, but the quality of your production really shines through, making it both informative and enjoyable to watch. Keep up the incredible work!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I couldn’t ask for a nicer compliment, Chipster ❤️👍

[@erniealonzo536]

My dearest Pea, your interview with the unfortunate gentleman was really interesting. I would have just given up and returned back to the states. I have to give him credit for sticking round, good luck to him. Again thank you so much for it was very interesting. Take care and good hunting.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ You are the best.

[@markmitera4521]

Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

He’s got patience 👍👍👍

[@vlogcritter]

That could have happened to you in the states too, then what?

[@markmitera4521]

@@vlogcritter I could have gone directly to my bank. Also, I would have my own place and would not have been scammed by a fake hotel. Also, highly unlikely to find a woman in her mid 30s willing to date a man in his mid 50s.

[@jlawrence0181]

If it cost you ONLY $250 to find out that a woman is not the right one, you got off really cheap. At least you broke it off immediately.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It sure could’ve been much worse 🥺👍👍👍

[@jlawrence0181]

@@TheFilipinaPea You would be surprised at how many guys would take her back.

[@terrycavender]

This is like watching a train wreck in slo mo....... 😱 I feel for this guy!

[@markmitera4521]

I just hope my hard learned lesson can help others avoid the same disaster.

[@rickstahl2066]

​@@markmitera4521 Bro get away from Manila, roll to Dumagetti, and connect with a good expat living here, pay attention to what he does and does not do. Duplicate his actions as needed. I met my girl but did not approach her until I observed her for 2 weeks. We now live together and here outside of Duma, she is a good woman and shows care that is unbelievable. Slow down and pay attention to what is going on, learn a little Basyan and you will find what you are seeking. Respectfully Rick

[@rge9857]

The old pillow replacement trick. Thank your lucky stars. She was gone in the morning without the awkward 'morning after' talk.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@dovoso5685]

Hi Pea, I love that golden chain tied to the back of your hair. Very classy 😊

[@michaeladams9250]

Kind of like my German friend who went to the Philippines and got screwed over by a Filipina. The love of his life so he thought. Who was married and had a child. And with her husband who is living in the place that he rented for her while he tried to get her passport to Germany. I have mentioned this before pea in another comment, in a different video of yours. He now lives in Thailand with the woman that he loves and loves him. I hear from him every now and then, I told him I thought you wanted to live in the Philippines. He said to me f**k that s**t hole, and all their scammers. His words pea not mine. I believe this guy and all that crap happened to him. Keep up the good work pea. PS I might try Thailand too.

[@silverliner4894]

I never came across one that didn't ask for money. So his actually started off better than most

[@DMSProduktions]

They're.

[@woutergijs5246]

Oh yeah… in Thailand you cannot go to your own wedding , with some kids hanging around your spouse who call her “ Mea, mea”, and the so called cousin who accidentally also lives in the house she lives.

[@ARedMotorcycle]

Well, in his words, he's not wrong. Over two decades of experience in the Philippines has taught me that.

[@javieritomac]

Hey pea his story is truly a eye opener it really scary story

[@martinmiller3647]

Awesome video as always pea thanks much love smiling ❤

[@thomadams6671]

Hello Pea, I do have advantage over most expats in the Philippines. I was raised from a young age with pilipino's that lived next door. The first time I went to the Philippines was at a young age of 18. That was in the mid 70's and got stationed there in 83. I continued visiting till I retired from the Navy then a few times after that with my family. My elder kids last visit was right before there lola pasted in July. I am now retired for a second time and will head home to (Iloilo) to spend my life with my second filipina bride, we have been together over 18 yrs and we have 2 kids in college and 1 in 1st grade. So yes ldr's do work if you work together and talk to each other.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@petercraig7508]

This is why a lot of foriners get fleeced, arms wide open for it, why would you trust people you don't even know, would you do that in your own country?? No, so why do it there, shake your head man

[@ryanstocks4298]

She played the long con and took homeboy for a sucker. Let it be a lesson, everyone, you don't know somebody until you've met them in person and spent actual time with them. Y'all need to get off this long distance, over the phone bullshit. It gives off desperate energy and gold diggers can pick that up from halfway across the world

[@joehart7260]

I chatted to an attractive Chinese girl for nearly a year on-line. She wanted me to pay for her visa and airfare to England which would have cost around £2000 ($2,600) She sent me lots of photos of herself and promised to meet me at London Heathrow. How can someone you have never met expect you to lay out that kind of money? It didn't work.

[@sharhune2735]

Great video Pea. Give this guy credit for having a sense of humor about the situation. I'm surprised he didn't have a bad taste in his mouth after going through all that. Take care and I'll see you Friday ❤👍👍.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

He sure does seem determined to stay 👍👍

[@chrisjuricichxl5]

Met a guy in Poblacion who had come out similarly to meet his LDR. She was a PNP employee. Met at the airport and went to the hotel. At the hotel, the family was in the room the entire time till late. No alone time. A trip to Siargao Island resort for fun--with the family. Bottom line, family was ALL over the girl ALL the time; no chance to sit and talk quietly or (whatever) and this went on for enough days that one morning, he just upped and left his Siargao resort hotel, went to the mainland, and flew to Manila. No word, no goodbye. Just consternation.She tried to reinsinuate herself into the relationship but he just wouldn't have it--feeling she was too subject to family protectionism. Didn't bode well for him, he thought. Now he's reported that he's a bit of a rake--he goes from area to area and lives wherever he pleases--hires women as he pleases, and he flits from province to province and girl to girl. He says he's much happier. Huh.

[@roansythen]

Pea as Cleopatra is a fantasy I never knew I had.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣

[@DantManDantMan]

She’s got the hustle down , she has a lot of Marks. So why not meet a woman where you live naturally? When it’s too good to be true ( your fantasy) that someone will fall in love with you over the phone - having not actually seen your body, smell, look, personality, etc etc , nor you hers (beyond face or body) . Heck long distance relationships always fail , if they have not already established the love and connection - in person - for a year or so . Crazy

[@paulstarnes417]

She obviously didn't like what she seen in person, and what she heard. Nice guy but not her cup of tea.

[@babblingalong7689]

54 looking 40, Philippines is doing him good despite the bad things that happened to him!

[@markmitera4521]

Thank you.

[@tak2ulata]

Not throwing any shade, but he definitely looks 54

[@Deveshh]

I was shocked when you said your age. You really look 40. Keep being healthy. Thanks for sharing your history. I wish you the best.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I predict good things for him 👍😊

[@johngore9016]

i dont even like flying into MNL. Go through Cebu! ;) Stay in the Province areas and learn the people and you'll love 'em!!!!! They will teach you everything you need to know! and NEVER give anyone your passport... fk em!

[@robhernandez6105]

Thanks! It isn't always rainbows and honey. No worse than any other place.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thank YOU, Rob, for the tip! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Chromicon]

I think she honestly thought she could be attracted to an older, squishy, very white guy with medical issues; but, once they "did some exploring" in the hotel room, she realized that she was just creeped out and/or grossed out. Then she made the bad decision to just take some money for her trouble and run.

[@markmitera4521]

You could be right.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

We’ll probably never know 😳

[@waltgreen8759]

this is it, exactly. correct analysis.

[@Biggestisland]

I agree. You got off lightly my friend. Take your time and look

[@jamisonreynolds9949]

It would explain why she didn’t rob him blind

[@Stefo717]

Sure hope Mark finds the right woman. He seems like a real decent guy.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I think so too 👍❤️

[@timothyhughes1480]

Decent men’s don’t find good women’s. I don’t know why

[@justingoodnow851]

Pea is the best !! Always bringing the truth bombs !

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@chadw.6049]

Don’t date single moms!!!!!!! Meet the lady in person before getting serious. Forget online relationships, meet girls in the PI. You never know what the girl is really like online no matter how much you think you do. Meet her family before serious.

[@chadw.6049]

And don’t date bar girls!!!!

[@carletto_au]

Someone from the expat community in dumaguete should talk to this man and give some advise before he gets hit by the next scammer

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m on it - I’ll help as he needs it 👍

[@woutergijs5246]

Scammers in Duma? No way. Just innocent students and call center employees from the province. All nice young people eager to show you the waterfalls, beaches and volcanoes.

[@mikes9611]

Hello Pee. You’re the second channel I’ve commented on. This outfit looks amazing on you jeans and nice top, you’re pleasing to look at very beautiful lady. I’ve been a subscriber for years and appreciate the content. I’m 53 years old and single my son is 26 happy in his relationship. We are both traveling to the Philippines from Maryland US in January-February hoping to see you there. Keep up the good work and thank you for your content.

[@justbrowsing6327]

Honestly this man has some seriously bad luck. Scammed by a girl, atm cards don't work, crap and fake hotels. No offence but it's seriously depressing to listen to. 😔

[@markmitera4521]

Imagine how depressing it is to live through.

[@JohnSmith-ti2kp]

@@markmitera4521 I have had much worse happen with traveling, I ended up with a $3000. hospital bill for well over a week's stay.

[@MichaelBrillhart-h1p]

Have to say one more thing...............cut off all communication connected with this woman, including the son..............please dont waist one more minute of energy even thinking about them.......cut it off!!!!! go on.........super nice guy........get grounded.......meet good people..........take your time and yes as Pea said........let things happen organicly.....

[@TheDonFinnemore]

Man, Mark had it rough, sorry brother. I have traveled to the Philippines twice now and everything was smooth. Feeling pretty bad for him. I met the most amazing woman in Taguig and she’s been by my side since day one.

[@scottmadoff7444]

Good morning pea, you're wearing a great smile today

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I hope I’m wearing more than that 🥺🤣🤣👍❤️

[@Heywood.Jablome]

This is why I love Vietnam so much. Everyone so polite and helpful. I once left my wallet in back seat of a Saigon taxi. Didn't even realize it until 3 hours later the front desk called my room and said a taxi driver just returned my wallet to the hotel! Completely intact, not a single Dong missing! Not only did he take the time to return it but i assume another honest client found it on back seat and gave it to him! I never get scammy vibes in VN. I stay away from Bui Vien Street, nightclubs and expats so that helps! 🎉😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow 👍👍👍👍

[@YouDcm]

It's true, scamming is almost non-exist there. In the Philippines it's the norm.

[@AdamPierson-rq6xw]

I know there are many great Filipina women out there. The warning signs are there when you do meet a bad one. I met this one girl and she said her phone broke as soon as I started talking to her. Then I met another one that said she didn't have money to go to her grandfather's funeral. I'm not saying that those things don't happen but I seriously doubt my luck is so bad that every woman I meet has a catastrophic event happen when we start talking

[@timothyhughes1480]

I wasn’t you, you were just meeting scammers in the area

[@FREEINPHILIPPINES]

When I stay in Manila we always stay at the Golden Phoenix Hotel. 4 to 5 star rating 3 restaurants in the hotel plus awesome gym, free Breakfast Buffet with every night stay you won't be disappointed in the Buffet trust me. There are 3 banks within 50 feet with atm 🏧. Stay their you will thank me

[@woutergijs5246]

First trip at The Manila. There after always the 1898.

[@jeffprice6421]

One cannot have a "relationship' with someone they have never met... LDR would be spending time apart of someone you have a real relationship with. And that is tough. but thinking you have a relationship with someone you have never met... Nope.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I agree, Jeff 👍

[@Semiam1]

Wow. Best wishes. I think it’s safe to say that things can only get better

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@dfoster4234]

This sucks, bro. I'm flying there in December to meet my girl for the first time. She's 20, province girl. No baggage, just a fresh start. I have met her family, her little sisters. Prayers, prayers for everyone who just want to have it healthy normal life.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Best of luck! 👍👍🍀

[@tuberNunya]

You haven't met her but you have met her family? How does that work? Do not meet at the airport, dude.

[@dfoster4234]

@@tuberNunya we’re talking about FaceTime type of introduction dude.

[@jimventurini5724]

Great interview. His resilience is commendable.

[@markmitera4521]

Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

He’s got one heck of a supply of patience, yes 🥺👍

[@sniper_pro497]

​@markmitera4521 at last, you know now to be careful, and I'm glad that your staying in the Philippines and enjoying yourself

[@donmonroe5642]

Thank you Pea ❤

[@jerrydover4140]

Homework before visiting the Philippines checklist: 1a) Get to know the languages. 1b) Leave the women alone. 2) Establish a friendly relationship with a trustworthy person. 3) Establish multiple ways to get cash. 4) Secure accommodations thru a trusted professional real estate agent. 5) Build the highest wall around my personal feelings to avoid getting duped. 6) Plan on enjoying the locals and natural beauty. 7) Avoid Manilla if possible. Just a quick checklist that came to mind upon viewing the latest installment from that Filipina named Pea. Have a great evening. I am currently preparing for yet another hurricane. I'm well north of the expected trajectory and praying for minimal impact locally and that everyone stays safe and healthy. Until next time, it's been my pleasure. Now, beat it, lady.😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s actually a pretty good checklist, Jerry 😳👍👍

[@tomlorenz4344]

Or, stay home!

[@jerrydover4140]

@tomlorenz4344 Too much of an explorer, Tom. Experiencing different cultures/places has always beaten staying at home. I can get scammed here. Just ask my uncle, who got duped out of about $80K looking for love in all the wrong places. You can learn a lot from others; mostly what NOT to do. Cheers!

[@woutergijs5246]

What BS this is… learn the language before you visit a foreign country? Stay away from women ( sounds gay to me😅)? Accomodation by a real estate agent? So hotels are not OK nor booking sites? Several ways of cash? Ok, travelers cheques maybe than. Total crap.

[@Networkguy1969]

​@woutergijs5246 If you watched the video, you'd be aware that is where Mark had problems. May I suggest you work on comprehension. Since Jerry said 'before going', avoiding women would suggest to me he's talking about dating sites. That's not gay, that's being intelligent since they're generally scam alleys. If Jerry wants to use a real estate agent for a short term rental, there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, he may find a deal with someone who's trustworthy instead of getting screwed like Mark. Furthermore, having a grasp on the most common language, will take you far with the locals. Have you ever been in an area where no one but you spoke English? Yea, didn't think so.

[@BirdNParadise13]

Mark had a rough start but he's made it through. Glad he's in a good space in his mind and spirit and is able to see the good in the people and the place. I think he will be fine and end up having a good life in the Philippines! Can't understand the women who went through such a long relationship to skip out for a measly $250! Good episode of the Pea Show!

[@markmitera4521]

Thank you.

[@isaiahhilburn6466]

Because they're women. You answered your question lol.....

[@Dutchy-1168]

Pea …. Your background is always so well thought out ! So awesome 😎

[@kricklasalty1464]

Facebook love, chat room, love, sites that help you hook up that you actually pay money. It’s all a waste of time! Just go to the Philippines and find a lawyer get a prenuptial and then go find a woman. You should find somebody within a day. You’ve gotta be smart.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍👍