Where Narcissists Lie N Wait For You

[@tracycampbell3060]

This type of ministry was needed back decades ago. I'm glad you are here Kevin. You need to write a book on this

[@DannyGarrigan]

I'd buy it

[@alal792]

@@DannyGarrigan Well the OP video creator DOES have some of his DAD in him, as evidenced when he was explaining how his Dad died video. I reference the baby picture and the COMMENTS he made at that time about himself, pure narc behavior. Of coarse there is a difference between HEALTHY Narcissism and MALIGNANT narcs...so yes I do get that very much. Yet here is the thing, it is STILL narcissism. Where I am going with this is that THE PATH TO SELF DISCOVERY is a journey, and it is OBVIOUSLY ONE AWAY FROM CO-DEPENDENCE, so this video either intentionally skews that or just plain makes a mistake about such. I suppose it is good for business or some such (once again a narcissistic mindset IMO), yet I must add that it is VERY poor for truth/understandings sake. How anyone who is supposed to be an expert can either forget, or leave this out IS ASTOUNDING!

[@raven4090]

I'd buy it, too.

[@joancramer3675]

I believe in time you will do a book. Perhaps even speaking engagements. You’ve much to teach. Plus having Jesus in your ❤provides your guidance So sorry you got hurt and now this has become your passion to help others too “Lord give him light for his future each step forward to where you’d have him be. Bless his efforts for his future destiny. In Jesus Christ Name Amen” So grateful to have been lead here. Certain from His Grace. Ms. Joan😊

[@JackessofalltradesMON]

Definitely write a book, but it would most likely be a 1000 pages. The Bible of Narcissism.

[@janedoe5229]

"Devour" is the perfect word. And once I escaped one, another one saw my confused distress and swooped in with love-bombing and destroyed me all over again.

[@AwakenedAvocado]

Well mine was the devouring mother. The oepidal mother. Not my real mother fortunately but she stole me as a child . We get smarter and wiser

[@lyndarestrepo6562]

I am sorry janedoe.

[@muma6559]

It happens. Now you will be doubly sure. Be sure of yourself

[@leahflower9924]

Cannibals

[@Farhat-afza]

100% true janedoe. It has happened to me also.

[@annastone5624]

As a catholic there was NOTHING about self-protection. It was ALL about forgiving the sinner. Absolutely twisted us, and primed us for abuse and to quietly and self-blamingly submit to abuse! Meanwhile we’d be going to confession as little kids asking for forgiveness for feeling angry at the people exploiting, bullying and abusing us. Absolutely CRAZY!

[@michignamymichigan]

Amen.

[@donnafoley2167]

Oh sweetheart, catholicism is a narcissistic cult. I was brought up into it and as I got older and actually read the Bible; The catholic religion does everything that GOD says not to do. Call no one father except for CHRIST. Do not worship idols, false saints. Mary is not to be worshipped. She was used as the birthing home for our Messiah JESUS. Catholics always try to impress GOD and you can't impress GOD. You worship and obey. GOD created sex between a married man and a married woman. Catholics think that they are impressing and pleasing GOD by abstaining; and then a great majority of priests rape little boys! Etc GOD calls us to be born again. Stay away from catholicism. They are deceived and look to deceive others.☺️

[@georgesontag2192]

Nobody taught self protection. The ways of getting destroyed was kept a secret, and they knew many young people was headed that way.

[@Lyrielonwind]

That's why I get away from anyone who seems messianic and I can't stand the word "sacrifice".

[@EVOLr]

In complete agreement with your statements.

[@emyleewong3600]

Kevin I’m Haitian, I really get your analogy. Narcissists are always looking for vulnerable people. They can smell your insecurities from miles away. I have been a victim for a lot of times because I left their kindness fool me. I was such a good an innocent soul, people have changed me completely when I realized there were a lot of wolves amongst the sheeps

[@pujachitade622]

I totally relate to this.

[@shibboleth111]

Trusting someone does not mean they are trustworthy .

[@lritaable]

That’s the endless cycle of empathic, good hearted, positive people. It’s so difficult to believe that someone has a hidden agenda that feels almost shocking every time

[@carolcote1596]

Narcissists are in our homes, schools, churches, workplaces, neighbourhood’s, professional services, political parties….They are everywhere…

[@MielaMaze]

Don't forget dentists and doctors 😅

[@brightpage1020]

Like them or not they are as human as we are.

[@randy_cbc8811]

@@brightpage1020 Evil, Cruel, and barely human. But you're right, technically speaking, they do qualify as human beings.

[@LindaLouise625]

@@brightpage1020 so what? WTF does that mean?? We are NOT Equal > Narcissists are fkn Evil. So what they're human .. tf is that supposed to be a passive agresssive attempt to have Evil Forgiven?? FK YOU.

[@InvisibleWarrior279]

Nailed it. It is like Dorothy returning from the land of Oz. It was all nonsense!!! We had everything we needed to be complete all along .. we just let the narcissist-industrial complex convince us otherwise. I am back from Oz and planning to stay in reality indefinitely 😇

[@jennyhewitt3472]

Great advice! Accept yourself & then accept who's good for you & who's not. Thank you for this

[@SharkE747]

"Trust" is nothing but a five letter TOOL. I trust no one, even those closest to me, family.

[@julienatoli8561]

Aaamen!! We give what we got!! And absolutely true that WHEREVER I go ... THERE I AM!! 🙌🕊️✝️ I say educate yourself people!! These toxic individuals WILL morph into anyone & anything!! EDUCATE YOURSELF!! Thank you Kevin! .. Love you Brother ❤️❤️❤️

[@oceanaoushn8803]

Brrrrrrrr..scary .."They will MORPH into anything". It is true though

[@shirleyvanderheijden5934]

❤Thanks Kevin from heaven!

[@TheFrogmaster7]

You are right, self acceptance is the first thing you have to do to ward off these demonic narcissists. Thank you ❤️🙏

[@Onafarmlovinit]

The Bible instructs us to “trust No man.”

[@YukonFox1972]

Yet OT God is extremely narcissistic.

[@nancyoni1234]

​@carriekaskiw4781 The God of the old testament is the same of the new testament. It was Christ who led them. 1 corinthians 10:1-6

[@FancyTruth1]

​@@nancyoni1234Jesus came to warn about yahweh, the OT god. “All that ever came before me are thieves and robbers: but the sheep did not hear them.”

[@izawaniek2568]

Spot on Kevin. We need to accept ourselves and see how masterfully we have been created and then start improving slowly with patience, love, care and respect for our humanity. Thank you. God bless you❤

[@rosemarie7816]

I'll

[@haniaga6405]

I ‚ m listening to you from Poland . I’ ve got a narcistic brother who destroyed 3 generations - my parents , his wife and children , me and my family . Now we are all far from him but I still feel insure . Your lectures are great and help me a lot ! I think it’s good that you tell sth about christians perspective , because it cause also a lot of problems . I always wanted to be good for him and tried to understand but it didnt work .. Thank you , you are great Kevin 😁

[@AdelaCho-gl4sx]

KRAKÓW too😊

[@moscowcowboy_13]

Czesz. Dzin dobri!

[@leahflower9924]

I don't want to be dismissive but I question if kids can become narcissists without it having anything to do with the parents and then somehow the parents are victims of the kids I do believe some kids are born psychopaths and can be dangerous to the parents

[@lovelv1278]

​@leahflower9924 one of the parents is always a narc who creates further narcs !

[@Michael-e8l2l]

OH MY GOSH. WOW . GOODNESS AND YOU NAILED IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@CarolS330]

Finally! Somebody, with a Biblical perspective! Jeesh!!!

[@lillianperez589]

The last time I saw my ex. He admits to me . He doesn't love anybody. Right in front of my face. They are evil. No empathy. Empty souls.

[@malindaallen718]

On rare occasions, the truth slips out of their mouths.

[@MrsK632]

"codependency only exists in an abusive rleationship" OMFG I needed that, and it's true, tyvm

[@gstoil]

Exactly as you said it! self-esteem, self-acceptance. Otherwise you keep seeking validation from others in an endless loop. from others that are never satisfied...and keep forgetting what you have done. Slight move towards taking care of yourself and they will start telling you that you do nothing for them.

[@eyeoffthetiger2691]

Good points Kevin. I learned the hard way..Thats why being TOO nice to people is not good..That's when ppl take you for granted. Lessons learned. When you have discernment, gutfeelings, intuitions..Trust it! Wherever you are..The Universe has given you the gift of discernment .

[@zsmith6127]

Coach I was that person I was scammed various times I was taking for granted I lost a lot specially money,Finally a light came on now I don’t trust my boundaries are high I love myself. I don’t take any friends request from social media I’m careful with phone messages emails etc. Thank you for your content 🎉

[@bonniebrown1112]

A Narcissists will teach you the best lesson in life, Beware of People

[@elizabethash4720]

And you can do it. Never accept criticism for loving yourself and being strong.😊

[@leahv.2537]

​@@elizabethash4720absolutely 😊

[@leahv.2537]

Wise choices @zoesmith

[@zsmith6127]

@@leahv.2537 Thank you 🙏

[@lisarochwarg4707]

Narcissists go where the vulnerable go. They follow their prey. Life coaches, influencers, doctors and nurses, cops, priests, therapists, etc. Of course you'll find plenty of them in the entertainment industry and politics.

[@coach_amy]

Great message, Kevin. I had to replace the phrase "self discovery" with "self improvement" as that felt more accurate for me. I realized in the past year that it has been my willingness to improve myself that got me in trouble with all the narcs in my life. Their "hoops" they wanted me to jump through were traps because I saw their "hoops" as my striving for self-improvement. Of course I always want to be better and do better. But I didn't see that I was looking from the lens of perfectionism, rather than accepting myself as is. Had I just allowed myself to be imperfect and stayed in awareness of my value, even with my imperfections, I wouldn't have chased their dangling carrot of "approval." I would have said, "Hey, if you don't value me as I am, you're not for me."

[@fairpoet81]

Amen, Amy! 🙌 I plan on using your quote, "If you can't accept me as I am, then I'm not for you". THANK YOU. 🙏 Happy 2024, may it bring more of what you adore! Blessings from Austin ❤️‍🔥

[@Justjewels8436]

This world is craaazzzzy. Tbh im tired of dealing with these nasty people

[@moscowcowboy_13]

My wife got conned into a women's coaching program after buying into the lives of the founder. She had gone to her for some personal coaching initially. She invested nearly $10k and got nothing to show for it. Her coach expected her to work for free and bring in new coaching clients for her boss, not herself. Finally after going no contact with another abuser, she gained the insight to go no contact with that women's coach.

[@LS-di1yg]

Sounds like a typical MLM. They’re always a scam and target vulnerable people.

[@annastone5624]

I’m so sorry. Yes the self help works and coaching world is absolutely full of predators.

[@leahflower9924]

This is one of the best videos pertaining to narcissism that I've seen not trusting seems so radical because religion and all institutions say just believe just trust just have faith

[@annastone5624]

Listening to the opening Kevin and commenting as requested. 100% know what this video is going to be about and 100% experienced this over and over. Very proud that just last week, for the very first time I recognised it before I got drawn in! A first encounter with yoga teacher.. who ‘cares so much’ immediately crossed my boundaries, then began inflating herself, angry when I tried to interrupt to ask a question, devalued me..all within seconds. now I’m just shocked at how I’ve let these idiots into my life over and over, as they Trojan Horse’s it into my life under the guise of ‘healers’

[@annastone5624]

Well I’m not shocked, I’d been systematically coerced into this position all my life. What I’m shocked about is how this issue is not addressed. Well done Kevin, you are UNIQUE and SPECIAL! Connected to truth.

[@Lyrielonwind]

I quit therapy with a known psychologist after a year who was becoming guru-like and the way he talks about abused people telling them about their "sh¡tty" live and later saying that light workers signed a contract saying we will be abused when he's supposed to "heal" us. In that case; spending money in a therapy doesn't make sense if we have signed a contract for a miserable life before birth. I just couldn't stand his arrogance and incoherent speech. Suddenly I realized I didn't need that and I said it; they took it like an insult when I just said I didn't like the way he referred to victim of narcissistic abuse.

[@blessed7927]

Spot FREAKIN ON I like what you said about “you’ll go with anything”. “ Looking to belong” - gullible, trusting, working on self discovery.

[@AwakenedAvocado]

Not me much woser and smarter but always ,always stay aware. There's reason you were targeted and could be again . Learn how to identify them and traits and be honest when you do identify them to be harsh toward them. They teake advantage of you because they know you're forgiving, they know you are better than them.

[@shirleyvanderheijden5934]

Trust is destroyed but no regrets! People must earn your trust and not many are trust worthy! Self discovery is vital,and the narc taught me many lessons,but now my boundaries are my protection! Naive people get used and abused,thank God for getting insight and Truth,discernment and His wisdom and love,and people like you Kevin that shares your experience! Trust no one! Trust God only!❤

[@shirleyvanderheijden5934]

Yes! Self acceptance! Find your identity in Christ! You will find belonging,pure love,Truth and peace! Gods discernment empowers me and I became inter dependant in a spirit to spirit relationship with my Creator God!❤️

[@lovedunkin]

By 6 minutes in, I thought you were talking to me personally. Yikes.

[@CDRFINANCE]

Same 😂

[@cathywasserman4571]

This is such an important video, thank you so much! I have been researching narcissism for many years and you are exactly right. Narcissists pray on people in therapy, 12 step groups and other self help and self discovery oriented activities. They both want to extract from what they perceive as vulnerable people but they also love the mask that doing therapy, 12 step etc provides. It's a total win win for them and very dangerous. And you are also so right, the healing process is really about self-acceptance and of couse that doesnnean we don't grow or course correct some behaviors at times, but rather fundamental acceptance of the gift we all are and have. Thank you again!

[@elizabethash4720]

Well I never knew that All my mother could ever define me as was someone who was "too trusting". Yes I have allowed people to exploit my kind and caring nature. Thankyou so much for pointing this out, it is most helpful and life saving to know.

[@tammylines2779]

i don’t trust, trust is earned

[@freeandfabulous4310]

So good, Kevin! I shared this with my teen daughter who said she wanted to go away to school to “find herself”. Out came your video and we listened to it as a family and talked about your concepts! Genius and life altering!

[@deborahwiener5636]

This is the most helpful You Tube I have ever listened to you! Thank you so much! Self Acceptance is the Key to it all!

[@ritadoran5039]

Excellent title Kevin While trying to find myself The Devil found me. I cried out to God and adked him from my soul to heal me and help me to stay away from these parasites also forgive me for being lonely and falling prey to them they are sent from Satan I really believe sent to take us off our path of peace& Godly living I was on it And I'm going back no dating means no narcs!!!!!!!! God bless you

[@kimkrueger3620]

That is true. Right on bro. I totally agree with that. It's happened to me in my past. Since the crazy events that have happened to me, I am in a better place and I am very much almost healed from it. Probably well through the journey. I look to God more now and more discerning with others.

[@AwakenedAvocado]

How long did the healing take you? Any tips 😊 I'm on the healing journey ,and think I'm over half way now,, but still some things to do

[@kimkrueger3620]

The healing journey I have been on has been since 2018 with a few crazy situations that have happened. But the most recent happened in 2020 throughout 2021. I just continue to live my best life and not be bothered by narcissist and I picked up a new hobby that brings me joy and it also is therapy. And having one real good friend and God on my side helps too.

[@AwakenedAvocado]

@@kimkrueger3620 all the best continuing the journey, keep faith and keep going 🔥i will do the same

[@ckcares8067]

Kevin, the truth hurts but i have to face it & claim back all the years the locusts have devoured...this is an excellent teaching...brilliant, in fact...thank u Kevin, yes, there are so many pushy people out there, desperate to find another victim to micro manage. Narcs are very good at micro management...they thrive on it.

[@EVOLr]

I include prayer everyday along with watching your channel Mr. Kevin. Thank you for all you are doing. May God continue to Bless you sir. Keep combatting and rebuking the lies of the Enemy of this world.

[@Shadowlord45]

"If I were to author a book" Cmon Kevin just do it already! You know we would all buy it 😂😊

[@BATransformed1]

@kevin You have an important story to tell, much-needed and hard-won wisdom. Put it into our hands where we can underline and dog-ear pages…have at our fingertips exactly that which we need to be brought back to our attention…and a resource we can pass along to others like us who are struggling to find the way out. 🙏

[@conniebraaten8945]

Kevin, I just discovered your channel. Dealing with a narcissistic relative has just reached a climax causing several in the family to decide it’s time to distance themselves from this person. The things you are saying match almost exactly what we are experiencing. Thank you so much!!

[@anthonywhite6530]

Recently you put a video up about codependency. Giving people. However, codependency can involve giving for validation thus causing others in your care harm due to an over kindness with things/ money others under your care need. It's not a simple problem and can cause great harm to children who are raised in codependent and narcissistic homes. Giving is beautiful only when priorities are right. Love your work. Love your Chanel. Thank you.

[@abender06]

The whole "being vulnerable" movement is the dumbest thing ever. This world is not a place where you can be vulnerable around people. To the contrary you need to have a thick spiritual armor especially out in public.

[@equallove0]

Amen ❤ hello I've been a great subscriber for years on your channel a couple weeks ago I was on the summer vacation and I met a guy and he was very forceful on trying to start a relationship with me and he would not take No for a answer he was very narcissistic so I am the pilot of my own plane and I cut him off even though we had nothing on I did not like the persistent bullying technique that he was using be careful out here Thank you so much for your messages

[@finchman1]

Self-Validation is key.

[@ROM.1089]

That was me, way too trusting, no more, but still a magnet to narcs, but....these type of people really hate us.

[@DesertLife4me2]

Thank you for teaching us important life skills. Spot on. Just like with personal experiences society and the government have become narcissistic. I see it so clearly. Does anyone else? Put our trust in God not in others, government or society.

[@freeandfabulous4310]

Well done, Kevin! Excellent example about public education reinforcing external and false expectations. And, where the God -given uniqueness of us all is ignored. Another example is the George Bush “No Child left Behind” directives. Every child has to be like the norm, made up by people so far removed from each individual it was not relevant to each unique, beautiful child.

[@christyadams1498]

Thank you for your honesty and wisdom. I am deeply grateful.

[@cinthial7220]

Yes accept yourself and if people don’t measure up just cut the cord right then and there so they know they can’t push you around. Don’t matter if it’s in the work place or even customers. I bartend and every customer that has tried to be rude and treat me bad I put everyone of them in their place and you what every one of them have respect for me now. If I get fired I don’t care there’s other jobs. And yes you are right sometimes you have to cut ties with every friend you thought you had and found out they were not, god bless you Kevin thank you Royal we for making everyone see

[@msprettykawaii950]

Dear Lord, thank you for reminding about: Life is not always fair Some are truly mean and abusive people Most Manipulative people cant change You cannot please everyone You cannot force someone to love you There are many things you cannot change The world is not safe No one really has your best interest except yourself Hope does not apply in relationships (hoping it will work out, hoping you will be treated right), Hope is only connected with God Dont expect all people to treat you the same way you treat them

[@agnieszkabujak1658]

In-depth and very valuable analysis. I've listened to it several times. And I feel empowered by your lecture. Thank you ❤

[@jamesh8648]

Proverbs 3:5-6 King James Version 5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

[@BushraS-zl6gi]

'There is no upgraded-self', the exact opposite which self-development promises, and never gets delivered! It's all about self-acceptance, and the upgrading happens then and there...Truest thing!

[@MasechabaMZ2307]

Wow, thanks Kevin once more. That's exactly what happened with me.Seeking support shelter, identity & to be complete as a woman , fulfill societal norms & belief, fragile but attractive, single with worldly status & matetial🙈.l currently feel like l "Sold my Character & innate talents to the Devil" This was so insightful. 👏👏👏. 'l totally agree with you "Trust & Love are so abused currently, this they "Dont exist". Worldly materials are honoured and appreciated, more than Humans. 👌

[@MasechabaMZ2307]

@@bettinahippel5660 🙏🌹

[@MasechabaMZ2307]

They're within us all and Nothing & No one can take them away except Higher Powers ☺️🤷

[@marilynwarbis7224]

I very much like this refreshing outlook which empowers us, rather than disempowers as the 'self-improvement' lobby would do. At one time I strived towards the light and ignored the darkness: this made me a sitting duck for a predatory narcissist.

[@yvonnejones3572]

Kevin, you have been so so so helpful to me. I am healing right now 😌 ✨️ 🙏

[@cherankimiorak1739]

I am really loving your videos, so insightful! This is completely true! I was lost when I meet my ex narc Bf and craved validation that I was good enough due to my past trauma. Thank you Jesus, have free me from a demonic person 🙏🏽

[@gracekennelly8534]

Fantastic video Kevin! 🙋‍♀️🙏🐕. Thankyou so much.

[@sharons2215]

I love how you talk about this topic, and also no other ministry or others online talk about narcissism like this. Thank you very much for truth.

[@mzgreeneyez9048]

When I was finding myself, the Devil found Me.. Very accurate.

[@MB-xw6xt]

Wow wow wow! You have shifted my perspective. Thank you 💚😊

[@zippyz4170]

Great points Kevin. On point, once I found out that's how people saw me I watched their behavior and then called them out on it. I should've just walked away cause I got a smear campaign instead.

[@emmajohnson6955]

Back on trake is good word,cuz I already know myself....

[@lo-ul8nq]

Thank you Kevin,you're so right about everything. It's so very very true. I am so glad I am not where I used to be. I been by myself for over 10 years after I was brave to get away from my x husband who was a Narcissist and got a divorce. I learned a lot about myself since I been single and I am healed . I know now that people have gain your trust instead of just giving it to others. I know where my worth is and values. My peace comes from God. I been to celebrate recovery and other groups I went to at my church that has helped me. Jesus is our hope

[@muma6559]

so true, self acceptance. No-one can take that away

[@alexismerrilldragonqueen]

This is constantly why I say "I don't trust." No matter who it is. They will betray me, they will let me down. I can only trust myself.

[@GNGU247]

Very thankful for you man. You're one that reminds me that all hope and humanity isn't lost every time I listen to you. So many flashbacks are happening just from watching this. This is why I need to hear this but hate it at the same time. It was stressful and exhausting enough from the first round, ya know? See you soon 🙂

[@LeslieGonzalez-t5z]

You better like yourself cuz everywhere you go there you are. 🙂

[@daniellejohnson8910]

WOW!!! TELL IT!!!😮❤ THANKS, PRAISE JESUS!!!🎉

[@ursulaericsson9813]

Oh my! This is so good! I can see how and why I almost ended up waisting too much time on a toxic person. And I feel empowered to start accepting myself and live as the light I am again. ❤

[@emyleewong3600]

I just started to watch him today and I just love ❤️ him. I wish I knew him a couple years ago, it would have saved me a lot of pain and heartache. Nobody educated us on these Live saving subjects.We were to find them on our own and in the hard way. May God give you good health to continue to educate the younger generations.❤❤❤

[@Michael_Arguello]

Within the first minute nailed it.

[@RubyZanUK]

Narcissists go after people who have issues asserting themselves and their boundaries. Work on yourself. So you can run them off by simply being you.

[@perdunja1]

Nobody touches me except family and hugs and kisses with family, not able to be taken asunder to hell, no more!

[@tmking7483]

For sure _ its crazy how many new weird friends i have _ gross _ totally relate _ just had someone try to read tarro cards on me. Then theres the ones who want to put me in a trance to reprogram my consciousness _going on retreatswhere they isolate u and drug u for your mental health _ so u can change for the better_ i wonder for whos better?

[@colettespencer3357]

In defense of the "reprogramming your subconscious "... you are probably referencing hypnotherapy. I am studying that to help people heal. I have seen one and it helped me tremendously. So ????

[@SuzkaMares]

So true! We think we can pull others (narcissists) up but too many people know our heart and WILL use us if we allow them too. In the process we lose our strength and give too much. Strong boundaries are essential.

[@pujachitade622]

This video spoke a lot to me, I always exaggerated what I am not good at to others so that I overlook what's good into me. Definitely this video will take me towards self acceptance which I always struggled with. Thank you Kevin for opening eyes.

[@VMM34]

And we can spot exactly the moment their horrible personality envelops us in that icky way they have. Yet I've gone along with it in the past. Now i have a list of phrases I use to get away from them, doesn't even matter if they know you're lying. In fact thats a good thing, as then they KNOW you're onto them and you won't be tailing along

[@Js-wd6dr]

I am setting boundaries now. Too bad for him if he doesn't like it. I know who I am. It's not what he wants me to be although I did not set boundaries before. Who says I have to keep doing it. No one.

[@maryglo1]

Go grey rock. Not silent treatment but boring. "That's nice." "Okay" "No". 'Sorry you feel that way." " I don't know." "Hmmm"."No" "Can't" " I gotta go!". " I'm too busy to talk about that."

[@Js-wd6dr]

​@maryglo1 the silent treatment is boring...Grey rock isnt...lol

[@donnafoley2167]

Kevin, I can never say it enough; I am so thankful for your ministry. All the seeds that you have planted has helped me, healed me and given me wisdom to live the life of peace, joy, prosperity and health in which our LORD and SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST has called us to. GOD BLESS YOU ☺️❤️🤗

[@staciehulm4595]

I think if you have a strong sense of morals to guide your decisions, you can spend time discovering yourself. I've managed to do this since eliminating the narc relationships in my life 3 years ago. Understanding God's parameters for my life alongside knowing the red flags for narcissism has allowed me to do this while holding narcs at bay. It's lonely but worth it.

[@kellywalsh4596]

Amen 🙏 love and accept yourself ✨

[@ibbetsonjulie]

Wow, self acceptance is exactly what I needed. Thank you very much

[@oceanelf2512]

I already had self-acceptance by the time the narc got into my life, but I thought she was the one who needed a friend and some guidance, believing her victim stories about how everybody abandoned her in the past etc. I did not set boundaries because I overestimated her, thinking she was an adult and would just know what reasonable boundries were. It wasn't until our relationship crash&burned that I found out through videos like this one, that she is a covert narc. There were times she tried to change me, and I refused.

[@deborahrobinson6553]

Wow. I really liked this insight, it answered a few whys perfectly.

[@raidenewalden4354]

I’ve give my trust yes because you fall into someone that’s not a crime . If later on I found out who this persons is .Now it’s my turn to think .

[@AdelaCho-gl4sx]

Kevin I Love You 😊 (polish) tak jak brata, dziekuje Ci za ten materiał. Tak to prawda. Podroz jest tylko jedna, wejsc w ciemność swojej samotnosci, odnalezienie samego siebie i zaprzyjaźnienie się z tą rzeczywistością taka jaka jest. Myslimy o biednych dzieciach w Afryce, a częściej to nasza dusza umiera z głodu, opuszczenia i cierpienia. Dziękuję Ci, niech Bóg Ci błogosławi.

[@sandramullins612]

Thank you for speaking the truth! I need self acceptance.

[@atpeace006]

Yes! Exactly what happened

[@robinchilds7492]

He followed me on Facebook for months. I had lost my fiance unexpectedly and when he thought the time was right he made his move.

[@benwil1715]

Hey Kevin,I think you were live and I was to 🐔 💩 to click on.If it happens again I'll be in my Sunday best!!IM STRUGGLING to survive and thrive.I have the best motivation to overcome the impossible

[@adelg6698]

Ohh my how true.. some of the worst Narcs pursue relationships during missionary work! YES! Keep eyes open folks and trust your intuition. Anything odd is a red flag

[@rambultruesdell3412]

Good awareness insights regarding 'self discovery'. Yes, vulnerability, openess to exploitation 👍👍

[@shirlspark_stardust]

As a person who had a malignat narcissistic father and toxic mother this is what lead me to attract a malignant narc spouse whi acted just like my father i thank God im out i left that demon im out the way for God to deal with him he will reap what he sows i was vulnerable after my father died here comes another one. My parents especially my mother was verbally abuse towards me as a child and I felt no connection to my father growing up at all no relationship at all very dysfunctional growing up.

[@traceyduncan2458]

Omg been binge watching you this weekend 😂 I’ve been through it and know wtf I am now, just need some confirmation that I am ready to date again, been single and solitary for 3 years now and I feel ready to now be open to having friendships, a relationship again, love what you share, thank you, you rock!!

[@LindaLouise625]

OMG Thank You!

[@LindaLouise625]

I have so much gratitude this morning .. I just can't express it in words.

[@Luke747gal]

Amen. In my early 20s I was vulnerable, overly trusting, had low discernment and a need for belonging. Thank God I wasn't open to anything. But I went to parties, got drunk and needless to say was sexually exploited. Ended up married 27 yrs to a serial cheater with sociopathic, narcissist traits. Still married but finally my eyes are wide open.

[@perdunja1]

I take it to ❤ about discovered self already, and protected from narcissistic, toxic abuse. I AM self discovery, knowing who I am solves the vulnerability problem, nobody tells me what to do or who I am and do not have to utter a syllable, because I KNOW who and what I am, it reminds me of Matthew 16:19.