White Man Set The Bar High For Men - Viral Video Part 3

[@DuchessOfSuccess]

One man can afford a $35k ring and goes to Florence for vacations, the other runs around filming stupid videos and didn’t know where Florence was 🙄

[@maryfields877]

Girl...the secondhand embarrassment is strong!

[@queenreg7]

He probably thought he meant Florence from the Jeffersons.

[@dday3322]

😂😂😂😂

[@isaa8521]

That man is embarrassing. He’s popped up on my feed several times and he’s so ghetto🤡

[@zoilalulu3798]

Wait is it 5,000 or 35,000? It sounds like she's saying 5,000.

[@LadyJoolree]

"You want to be called King, when its giving servant" Oooh snap! 😂

[@kandi6197]

😂😅

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣

[@TransmutedLiving]

This was a perfect example of a conversation on two different frequencies. The interviewer is on a poverty, misogynistic transactional, fear mindset, where the couple are in a wealth generated, equality, partnership mindset. It was too dufferent frequencies. The black couple was more onnthe interviewers frequency, of course with the BW being unprotected in the conversation.

[@jmunroe]

That was sad to watch. I hope she saw that video and some of the responses and chose herself.

[@unanuevapecula]

yup... different mindset. Hope she sees all the responses.

[@gigif169]

​@nyas2365 shell likely stay....unfortunately. When self esteem is low...theyll put up wirh whatever

[@TransmutedLiving]

@jmunroe it was very sad. Good luck to the second lady. She needs to get her self esteem up cause she's waay prettier then he deserves. Lol

[@vanaphill2454]

@@jmunroe I hope she left him. He's not gonna marry her. Just waste her time.

[@MissKashira]

You can tell the wife is thinking, "Can we not tell this random misogynist I have 35k on my finger? I'd like to make it home with both hands tonight, Love." She can sense the hate, the envy, the jealousy. It took him longer to realize this man was a threat to his wife, but when he did he stepped right up, "I believe that question should be directed at me." When black women complain they aren't protected, the assumption is always we want physical violence. But a lot of the time you can protect someone with words. This is an example of a man protecting his wife.

[@MsBree0]

I fear they're too simple to understand this

[@Chloenextdoor]

Right! In today’s time someone can set you up to get robbed after interviewing & asking about your jewelry.

[@LiterallyTho]

Then date the kind of men that will protect you. If people value you then you don’t have to keep asking for the same things over and over.

[@MissKashira]

@@LiterallyTho When you have a culture telling men that they are beta cucks for loving and protecting women, then the number of men willing to do so grows smaller and smaller. People are always telling women to "pick better, pick better" but no one wants to admit the pickings are slim. That basket is full of rotted fruit.

[@eml5807]

ONLY BROKE BM HAVE THIS THOUGHT PROCESS, BECAUSE ALOT OF THEM ARE NARCISSISTIC AND THEY DON'T LOVE THE WOMEN THEY ARE WITH. THEY ARE LOOKING FOR WOMEN TO HELP TAKE CARE OF THEM.

[@alexnightray3204]

How extremely crass of the interviewer to ask these questions. The guy's obviously focusing on the wrong things.

[@watermelonlover745]

Yes he is immoral

[@puclopuclik4108]

I bet his only experience of partnership are prostitutes. No wonder relationship is transactional for him.

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

He doesn’t like women

[@jeram84]

Well he’s been called out here and other commentators that he looks to stir the pot and belittle women when he can. Part of the manosphere. He’s just crimge

[@blasiankiki7831]

Many Black men do not think women are worth any effort… they think they are the prize.

[@annahjaya700]

“Money is not an issue “ Well damn 💯

[@ARIARI-to2eb]

The white man reacted so well, my God.He was humble, did not wanna scream how much he paid.Defends her when he saw what that dusty tried to do.Just perfect

[@blasiankiki7831]

It shows how they are raised to view women and marriage… vs how Black men are raised to view women and marriage…. That whyt guy is ACTUALLY protector. She didn’t even have to open her mouth…. He told her WHY his woman is worth his protection and investment.

[@sparkling_elegance]

Exactly! Plus he read that stupid interviewer for filth!! He said, “money is not an issue, anyone can get a cheap ring if that’s what you want to do, and it depends on how much you make.” Someone who has money knows how to meet standards and doesn’t need to be concerned with what a woman “brings to the table.” $35k is nothing to him. The stupid interviewer needs to get step his money up like a real man instead of trying to demean that beautiful couple.

[@Justaperson354]

My wife’s ring was 41.5k and I didn’t once regret it. She is worth every red cent! She is my best friend, my partner, my everything. I’m sorry for that interviewer because he’ll never experience true love

[@Heat_Rush]

Interviewer? This is the black manosphere in a nutshell. The black manosphere is against bw and want to prove that we deserve nothing. That's why these guys want to know what bw bring to the table.

[@meredithr9824]

2:36 ' I think I should answer that' omg, hes not even going to make her answer stupid questions. 😢 love it.

[@chamab.6800]

I don’t know anyone that hears “Florence” and doesn’t think Italy. It wasn’t until this interview that people, including myself, knew that there was a Florence in South Carolina.💀💀💀

[@Heartfeltvoice1727]

Ugh…😗I immediately thought Italy😉🎉

[@kimleemoon]

Shows you just how low class the interviewer is..he meant it as an insult. Like the woman isn’t worth spending money for a trip to Florence Italy, but we can go to Florence SC.

[@LisaFrank39]

That part 😂

[@MsBree0]

I'm from SC so I knew of it, but there's nothing there. "City" is a generous term for Florence, SC. But with that said, even I knew it was Florence, italy

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

I immediately went "There’s a Florence in SC?"🤨

[@chantelvenessa]

Ive watched a few videos by that black guy, and he is a terrible interviewer. His questions at times are ridiculous. Its obvious he wants to embarrass the women he speaks to, i was so happy when the husband stepped up and protected his wife. He deserves to be a husband.

[@MsMookalate]

So the husband never stop him from speaking to his wife like that?

[@chantelvenessa]

​@@MsMookalateI don't understand your question

[@mizkomunikation9478]

So many black men try to SAY they’re “providers” , but notice how triggered they get when they meet men who show & prove they can provide without needing to say it. Also notice that the woman hangs back and let’s her man LEAD their side of the conversation, even when she’s asked the question. Meanwhile, the dusty holding the mic knows that even if her man wasn’t there, there’s no way she’d leave her husband for his lame azz. As the saying goes, boys carry themselves one way and men another, and any woman who knows the difference simply does not and cannot tolerate boys after experiencing the love of a MAN.

[@maryfields877]

Well said!!!

[@TylerJ__]

That's 1 Blk Man mam, let go of your daddy issues and seek therapy lol

[@She_Is_Toni]

EXACTLY! You wanna get someone to split the bills with? Move in with one of your homeboys. Get a roommate lol

[@carleyinfinityandbeyond4360]

I automatically thought Italy too. I hope when the interviewer reflects he is humbled. He needs growth in general.

[@prncessbaby16]

Tbh I didn't even know Florence was in SC,I only knew of the one in Italy

[@augustG.I.F]

Money is NOT an issue!! 😂😅🤣 There's your answer. For the AVERAGE Man money is ALWAYS the issue.🥴

[@Luckimee]

They're never embarrassed and it keeps getting worse and worse. I'm so glad they are all over the Internet exposing how behind and disrespectful they are towards women now ppl can see what we have been dealing with for centuries. They always talk about fatherless behavior but they exhibit it more than we do

[@augustG.I.F]

They literally are #never embarrassed. #smh

[@lilianoga937]

❤❤❤❤💯

[@Cantetinza17]

I'm glad that he defended his fiance/wife. Never let someone bad mouth or cheapin your partner. Well said sir! I hope they are super happy with each other for years to come. Also men need to understand that women are the table. You are the provider, so what will you (not can you ) provide to make sure that the table is always set properly?

[@loryndabenson2118]

I kno this might be a big shocker but there are married couples out here that actually like each other as people. I remember one time a coworker asked me what i do after work, and i was like hang out with my husband. They were like why? you see him everyday? And i was like yea well i actually like my husband so I'm going home to see my husband.

[@Cpre1111]

The African woman at 17:04 & the other woman at 21:04 said it perfectly. There's something deeply wrong w/ American Blk men

[@TylerJ__]

You generalizing all African American Men like that is why you should not get mad when people generalize African American Women lol

[@lillybilly9954]

True

[@Beyt_El]

Not all Black men. My Black man don’t got no problem providing for me.

[@SR77736]

​@@Beyt_El well obviously not all black American men. Duh!

[@beepbopboop7727]

@@TylerJ__But its not just a minority of men. Its the mean of all men and the data is normalised.

[@Nunya708]

2:36 #checkmate 💎 Brad ran it down and wasn't going to allow a foolish question to diminish how he feels about his wife. Let me count the ways. ❤

[@beigenegress2979]

Brad understands the assignment: he wasn’t going to let an ignorant, urban troglodyte insult his wife!

[@iwhippedcreamcode4642]

BW LEARN FROM THIS!...A Husband

[@BABYDOLL87LOVELY]

THE INTERVIEWER IS TRIFLING!

[@isthisreallystillathing5060]

I love how bm are skating around cultural differences (yes,based on race). I went to a PWI for undergrad and do ww have a whole h03 phase, YES! However, cultural speaking, wm don’t hold that AGAINST them and by in large they KNOW they’re not getting a mother to their children without a wife. Lastly, even if this guy spent $3500 this guy is “high value” based on mindset. There are a considerable amount of men who think “high value” means “he makes money. Without knowing anything about that woman the interviewer already decided she doesn’t deserve what he gives. He should feel like a loser but won’t because he will go back around men with his mindset and get his dust replenished.

[@barbaralovesmac]

The foundation of a relationship is Love . Secondly, he gets a partner in life . 35K is nothing in comparison to what he is getting and she is worth it and much more .

[@lacheregriffin-denton9946]

Also, my thing is that a lot of black men champion the independent woman. When you look back at the 1980s and the 1990s you will see from everything including music where you have professional black men who were saying they wanted Miss Independent. In fact, they needed Miss Independent because they needed assistance with financially being able to support the black family and actually use that as an excuse as to why a lot of black men abandoned. The black family was that the black woman was too uneducated and she did not have the ability to financially assist him. Now it's interesting that this generation is bashing the same Miss Independent that their fathers were praising. And the whole reason they wanted Miss Independent wasn't because they wanted a masculine acting type of woman so to speak but that they wanted to be selfish and not contribute the full sum of being the head of households requires. In fact, they said they couldn't do that because of the fact that they were being paid less than the white man and so it was unrealistic for black women to have that expectation of being able to stay home and not being a financial contributor to the black household. So what did a lot of the baby boomer black mothers and the first generation X black mothers do they encourage their daughters to get educations because if they wanted a good black men they needed to be of assistance to that black man financially. So what did a lot of the second half of generation X do? We worked our butts off to get education so that we could be viable partners financially as well as emotionally to our black men and now our black men resent the fact that black women are saying well. If I put all this work in for you then you need to start putting some work in for me too. I'm sorry but black women should not accept less than just because we have black men who do not want to excel or think that we should accept mediocre while they always require our best. If you can't fill my cup darling, I will not fill yours either.

[@ineedhoez]

They are only bashing because miss independent is not choosing them.

[@iwhippedcreamcode4642]

So Why Are They Complaining About You Now?

[@lacheregriffin-denton9946]

@@iwhippedcreamcode4642 they're not complaining about me because I don't deal with them. I don't deal with toxic men.

[@Childfree334]

​@iwhippedcreamcode4642 They are complaining because bw are surpassing them, so they have to do everything in their power to humble and shame us back into submission. It works on the pickmes, but it is not working on those of us who see through the BS.

[@TeeCG]

@iwhippedcreamcode4642 Because the younger/current generations of bm (many, not all) do not want to elevate to be equally yoked financially with their women. If you do the research (just Google) Black women outnumber black men something like 7 to 1 in college.

[@bridgettedenise]

light bill men need not apply

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@JustEli007]

Can i just say in regards to the couple.... What a beautiful couple, and may God continue to bless their path. She's a catch as is he... It's beautiful to see it. 🩷

[@phiakate]

16:00 😂😂😂😅I loved her 'Do you not have mothers"

[@tamuz9633]

The guy in the car 🚗 is great to listen to. He speaks so well, very educated and intelligent. I love men like that ie eloquent, rational, intelligent and good looking. Above all, I love SIMPs👍

[@AndyyWithAY]

This should not be abnormal. The value of love varies by couple, but there should be mutual care and respect. I love that he jumped in and answered the interviewers frankly rude questions. He didn't leave her hanging. I just want to say that just because a man is white it does not mean he's good. Some women thinking about IR relationships think he's white, he'll be good. Nah babes he can be a disrespectful dusty too. All for IR, but vet these men. From most of these replies it seems like something got lost in translation, but I read this back and I was VERY clear. At one point there was a subset of BW online talking about just get you a WM, everything will be great. You can't just get a WM. You have to vet every man, and you have to do self-reflection and the work. Otherwise you will attract the same BM dusty in a pallet swap (WM). Like I said I'm full in support of IR, you just can't say that all WM are good.

[@RDCFemmes]

But stats shows that you are more likely to do better so white is the lesser of two evik

[@tessy28]

Honestly if bw keep their standards high AND date out. They cannot go wrong. Much much higher chance of meeting someone better that will elevate your life and that will lead to marriage. I didn't believe it. Until it happened to me and now I got it.👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏼💍 🏡

[@purplegirl8036]

It’s not abnormal. I date outside my race all the time 😂

[@AndyyWithAY]

@purplegirl8036 I didn't say IR dating was abnormal. I was referring to a man treating his woman with mutual care and respect when I said it shouldn't be abnormal. Don't know what race you are, but BW are the least likely to date out. This is changing thankfully, but just because you do it doesn't mean it's common

[@natashabee2676]

Agree, jerks come in all colors!😢

[@vik_versus8003]

The idea that man who can clearly afford nice things for the people in his life should exclude his WIFE because you don't value her contributions monetarily is the stingiest, brokest sounding ish I've ever heard. These are the men that will leave you when they come up. Like they what women to struggle while with them even when they can afford to give her a good life. Why would a woman get married to that?

[@Beyt_El]

I absolutely loved what that man said in defence of his wife. He is what a real man who loves his woman looks like. My husband, who is Black may not have a lot of money but he has set up his finances so that if something happens to him I will be okay. He established a 1mil life insurance policy for himself incase something happens and he’s no longer around. Now at the time he did that I thought nothing of it but as time has gone by and he’s done a myriad of other things for me I’ve come to understand just how much he cares for me. I hope to God that I never have to cash out that policy. The fact that he did that for my sake though shows me just how much he values me and the life we’ve built together. I feel so blessed to have a REAL MAN as a husband. The young lady, his wife is also very blessed. I hope they have many years of happiness ahead of them.

[@Narrow-Pather]

*Men* set the bar high for males. Nothing to do with ethnicity, it's about character.

[@Childfree334]

I disagree. Black men do not set the bar high for any other race of men on anything. Truth hurts.

[@Luckimee]

Bm do not

[@angelsweet9611]

@@Luckimeeyou’re right as a collective they don’t

[@MsElizaRae]

​@@LuckimeeIt's funny they let gay men (Tyler Perry) tell them to lower their bars like..how are yall not insulted?? 😂

[@TylerJ__]

​@@angelsweet9611Blk Women are Not wives collectively lol

[@mossj9636]

Not even a guillotine could stop the head that lady probably gave her man that night for sticking up for her like that. Some of these dudes really need to do better.

[@Grendygirl]

I can't wait for BW to start opening their options

[@DestinyUteh]

We are doing it already 😀

[@matonasesino4153]

"what does he get in return?" 👀 WHAT?!?! Well for starters, how about an whole womb Lady Boy. You know what they've gotta go through just for that alone. Damn! What's up with these 50/50 f'K boys today?🤷🏽‍♂️

[@HHCF713]

That’s why they a f’boys and the emphasis on boys! Immature and dusty.

[@Grendygirl]

lol, exactly, women were always the prize

[@matonasesino4153]

@@Grendygirl indeed🥰

[@selfdiscoverysupport]

In a way I'm glad the interviewer is doing this field research because it seems what he would most benefit from is exposure to new ideas outside his box. Hope he can see the teaching moment there.

[@toomuchinformation]

I doubt it. He'll go back to his ignorant, dusty self.

[@kscommentary1586]

So disrespectful and embarrassing. He could’ve gotten taken out

[@Childfree334]

So many women in the comments talking about they wouldn't accept such an expensive ring from a man. I see the Patriarchy and its programming are still alive and well. If the man I love could afford to spend a million dollars on me because he cherishes me, I would not insult him by not accepting his gifts. Y'all are trying to hard not to come off as goldiggers and you sound ridiculous. Believe me, that man will not hesitate to demand what he wants from you (s3x, emotional and domestic labor, children), so why cheapen your own worth?

[@melissawitt3773]

This is just a case of different strokes for different folks. To me a $35,000 ring is a waste because I just don’t value jewelry that much. Now, put it towards an incredible trip, a piece of art, now we would be talking.

[@beewest5704]

A ring used to be so that if the man died ghe woman could sell it & survive for a year until she can sort herself out. Its more than just a symbol of love.

[@tulip811]

​@@beewest5704good point !

[@heyhey439]

@@melissawitt3773 Something physical and of great value is a gift that can, in theory, provide a considerable amount of money for dire circumstances. If something happens to the husband and she is in a vulnerable spot with children, etc. that ring could make a difference. That is an extreme example but the insurance is also part of the symbol in the gift.

[@ejnichols05]

EVERY PERSON WAS ON POINT!!! 💯💯💯 You can clearly tell that the interviewer is a total narcissist. Not to mention he was salty AF that he didn't have the kind of money the guy had...🤣🤣🤣

[@olove8337]

A lot of these guys were trained to idolize pimps who are anti manhood. Also, many of them grew up poor so if they had a little girlfriend, it was easier to break up with her for that holidays over getting 💰 to buy her a small gift.

[@jessicak3d]

35000.00 is a steal for someone who uplifts everything about you ❤

[@samanthabrahambrown6369]

One of the Best Segments you’ve done so far.

[@DestinyUteh]

Thank you 🙏🏽🤎

[@thatsrealroughbud...2394]

“What are you bringing to the table”, Bruh… women ARE the table.

[@MasonJackson-yz9db]

As a black man, I am embarrassed by my brothers all too often. What the hell does he mean what does he get in return? YOU GET THE WOMAN!!!! HOW MUCH A MAN SPENDS ON THE ENGAGEMENT RING depends on what he makes, how much he loves his woman and speaks to how special she is to him. My brotha, if you can't scrape together enough money to buy a nice ring, rip up your passport and stay home because the dowry's demanded in other cultures will blow your mind.

[@melissawitt3773]

I find issue with the woman at 10:30 who indicates Independant women are different from the gal in the video being discussed. Where did it say she was not an Independant woman with a career? He said he got loyalty, a mother to his children, someone who is good to her family and his. All attributes shared by women who enjoy pursuing challenges outside the home. Thus home/child management is shared. Let’s stop pitting women against each other unnecessarily.

[@rimonique]

Yes she pissed me off. I got major pick me vibes especially when she started waving her ring around in the camera.. women like her can't fathom why another woman would want to live any other lifestyle apart from hers. Actually when she was waving her ring around in the camera I heard Latto in the back of my head singing "My mAn, tHaNk YoU tO mY mAaN" lol.

[@diva46235]

The interviewer is the trash single women are dealing with in the dating world. He’s the type of dude to expect 50/50 on bills while doing 20% of the other house responsibilities while dumping the rest on his woman then complain that she ain’t doing her part if she falls a lil short.

[@Tariyasha]

The fact that this interviewer trying to count his pocket by asking about a ring that is above his pay grade was already funny to me. 😂 Instead of trying to look down on the husband he needed to take notes. 🙄

[@Heat_Rush]

He wasn't trying to look down on the husband, he was implying the wife doesn't deserve it.

[@toomuchinformation]

​@@Heat_RushJust a low vibrational male showing the level of his frequency.

[@Cauldron6]

I really just wish I could hold these ladies' by their beautiful faces and tell them they deserve SO much better than what they are getting... that man knows the value of a good partner and he shows respsect and gratitude, which is SORELY lacking in men's behaviours, these days.

[@beigenegress2979]

BW “sons,” never disappoint! 😮

[@MsMookalate]

14:17 😅 she just reminded me of south Carolina had one too. Idk know South Carolina had a Florence at one point. Like I assumed they pronounce it wrong or their country accent mispronounced it. Only from my true crime shows I got the confirmation they had one. Still my default thought is Italy.😂😂😂😂

[@SharonPorts]

It's good to see humanity still alive!

[@watermelonlover745]

The interviewer was crass

[@freshclean8649]

Where did that what you bring to the table come from? People create things that sabotage relationships. That why black relationships don't work.

[@lillybilly9954]

Do these men want patriarchy or not? Because how do you want to benefit but not fulfill your end?

[@_politefrog_8892]

We want everyone to have the option to chose what kind of relationship that they want. Weather it be more traditional or more modern.

[@wildolive3630]

This is what's missing on social media...good men protecting their women. Stay away from transactional men.

[@Chloenextdoor]

I love the cookout analogy. Why would I REQUIRE you to bring the table when I’ve invited you here. It would be nice if someone brings some sodas without asking but it shouldn’t be expected. If you want a wife you don’t treat her like a cookout, treat her like a life long partner.

[@tamuz9633]

I am proud of being a HV woman. I get what I want and deserve from my man, because he sees my feminine value 🎉❤

[@XiaquaLi]

I'm gonna catch flack for saying this.. but the reason why black men tend not to do this, is because most of them never had examples of marriage or their mothers were unmarried. So something like this is foreign to them. This doesn't apply to all. As an african, this question of what yoh bringing is always from diaspora children

[@Rodrasroom]

That’s 100 percent true! A lot of men have not seen their fathers love their mothers therefore they do not know how to love into a position of marriage, AND they are blind from seeing a woman’s intrinsic value to him and his future legacy and don’t know what to look for in a wife.

[@Spokentruths725]

I just wrote the same comment. We shouldn’t be surprised. How is he supposed to magically do this when his father never did and they learn from other broken males on the internet.

[@XiaquaLi]

@@Rodrasroom right

[@XiaquaLi]

@@Spokentruths725 exactly, their cycle of being born as a bastard, before their parents marry is how we get here. We have children, but cannot commit to marriage first.

[@levelupgoddess9289]

My sperm donor (I don’t call him a father) parents were married and he is a fkn bum. Useless, worthless and a complete waste of my grandmas eggs. Other ppl around him were married too yet he’s still useless.

[@virginialorthe1487]

It feels so good to know that some men agree and looking for that and don’t care for the red pill stuff 😒🙄

[@lauren6509]

15:05 Man yall don woke that man up out his sleep with this foolishness. He can't even sleep peacefully because yall outchea showing yall ass😭 Baby I felt the same way ☠️

[@jeanhyppolite1101]

The 3 month thing was created by a Diamond company….. I wouldn’t listen to their advice lol. Its like asking a car manufacturer how much you should pay for a car lol

[@jadesimone_]

mannn listen i didn’t even know north carolina had a florence, italy’s the only thing that comes to my mind 😂😂😂

[@lkf8799]

Honestly, since women get the short end of the stick so often I DO want them to look at relationships as a business contract. Not that it's transactional but just that they are being smart and not ignoring red flags like the interviewer is sending out. Do a background check, a credit check, and have a prenup for both parties if there are prior assests. Go to marriage counseling and iron out future conflicts. If one of you is investing money into the property or business or education of the other have your name in writing on the benefit side of those investments and make sure there is reciprocity. This couple is doing great because there is mutual respect and investment. They have the support of both families. They know their worth to each other and have a plan for their future.

[@tracyjacksonjackson4221]

Yes ma'am. All we want is to be liked, loved, and have a man that is in love with us. Women of other nations get this far more than we do. Then they try to shame us by saying we are the least married. We are the least married because we are tired of being the least taken care of. If you have to take care of yourself, why do you need to marry?

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

He did and said exactly what a man should. The bar wasn’t set to high for anyone except for those who set theirs below hades. Hint:BW and BM 👀

[@toomuchinformation]

"Below Hades"😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

I wish Wm would be honest and say BM instead of “young men in America” Most BM think like the interviewer because they don’t value WOMEN

[@RosalindJulen]

A scarcity mindset is soooo unattractive.

[@kikijewell2967]

"Did someone ask you that about your birthday presents??"

[@dabzco]

My babe got me 3 expensive ring within 5 years of marriage. Each time he can afford higher he buys a more expensive one without me even asking. Ladies when he loves you he is willing to spend any money without even second guessing himself. 🥰 yes I am blessed and very grateful. I’m not sure what planet the interviewer is from and I’m glad he got checked. My ex went to a pawnshop and got me a cheap ring when I knew he could afford more. I gave him the ring back he got offended I left him and never looked back. I met a man who gave me 3 expensive rings in 5 years marriage. My ex? Still single and hoeing around. Imagine if I had settled 🤔 I would have settle for less. Ladies know your worth and don’t let anyone cheap you out.

[@alicia_nicole]

I hope the people that actually need to hear this do. And that i meet a man as wonderful as the fiance!

[@LuckyOuijaBoy17]

A lot of valid points but it’s different for literally every marriage. People get a ring and start acting weird too…NONE of these couples are giving what people think. That first man is exceptional but I think Men and Women both need to look at it a bit more nuanced. It is not 1946 anymore and the economy also reflects that

[@whattheysayaboutme425]

Love the first lady

[@nwalden5744]

Girl he did NOT say that ring was 5000 dollars you won’t listening either

[@tracyjacksonjackson4221]

As a single mom, I have taught my son how a woman is to be treated using the KJV bible. I also told him that I would have much preferred he had his father around but that simply was not possible as his father became very dangerous. Single moms need to tell their sons daily that this is not the way it should be. No little girl dreams of being a single mom. she dreams of her wedding day and a life with her husband and children.

[@jordanyoung5763]

21:04 This might be the craziest thing I have ever heard. So cause a lot of men grow up with single mother they see there single mothers as a provider and that equates to seeing woman as dollar sigh or ending up in a transactional relationship. But not a woman who works her ass off to keep her family together. Like what am I tripping 😂😂

[@conniemcmillian7010]

That is a man.

[@peacefreedom4930]

Does anyone know the name of the lady speaking @3:45? And the lady in red @20:07 from Africa?

[@clairedee-ay352]

Whats with the obsession of the cost of an engagement/wedding ring? People are focused on the wrong thing

[@stilljocelyn_]

Lmao I am her, she is me!! 😂 14:14

[@UniquaDaBackyardigan]

The image of lady in the thumbnail looks like a dead body.

[@imjussayn7936]

PRICELESS: she waited for him, 5 yrs

[@Chloenextdoor]

I would like to add to the young Nigerian woman that was speaking on Americans (BLK). I would say as a collective the women do not respect the man because the man does not respect the woman. BW have been accepting cruel treatment since our grandmothers and even before then. If you do not see value in something you cannot expect to be viewed as valuable. The bonds have been one sided and transactional. The disdain has always been there but the disrespect happened gradually. I know she means well & it is her point of view. I do hope through the internet other countries are witnessing this. He shouldn’t have spoken to that man’s fiancé period. You cannot just speak to a man’s wife any way!! That’s out of pocket.

[@Heat_Rush]

Some countries do get it. I've seen a lot of comments from women from other countries saying "bw please stop marching and supporting bm, we are tired of watching you all be disrespected."

[@toomuchinformation]

But because BM disrespect BW, they think it's the same for other races of women.........and it isn't.

[@kikijewell2967]

...capitalism... It ruins even love. 🙄

[@princessbc9791]

3 months salary: So, dude makes almost 12k a month and I'm not mad at him.

[@madihaq2252]

I slightly disagree with the title "White Man Set The Bar High For Men". No, he is not setting the bar high. He is conducting himself near where the bar *SHOULD BE* and *not setting* the bar there. He is just inadvertently showing that the bar was somewhere around here and its not there anymore. The bar unjustifiable got moved lower down, in my opinion (and I'm not asserting that I'm right but material that I come across have just led me to my *current* opinion and I still have a considerable amount to learn, keeping room for my change in perspectives in the future) happened somewhere in WW2, started around WW1. A significant amount of things changed, including attitudes towards marriage and s3x. Why? Because population desperately needed "replenishing". (Distasteful way of putting it, I know and I apologise right here for my crudeness.) And there were many other things that stood in the way of it happening as soon as possible, including PTSD, then known as "Shell-Shocked". Those that returned had absolutely no way that these returning men could have engaged in the process of finding a suitable girl to get married to and start a family, etc etc etc. They had very different hurdles facing them that society had no way of identifying, understanding and dealing with. Quite a lot happened between 1914 to 1946, but it doesn't get talked about that would specifically connect to the s3xual revolution. At least not enough. That "revolution" didn't happen one fine day/night. There was a build up. And WW1&2 was a significant contributing factor to it. I think that the bar getting moved could be traced to around this time. Though it would be unfair to say that the reason(s) lay more with this time period. What this white guy is simply doing is just conducting himself close to where *ANY MAN* should be at. And the amount of money is not the issue. We cannot be expecting a working class man to be coughing up money to reach the bar of the Uber-rich, be they old money or nouveau riche. The main thing is he is should be asking himself amongst many other things is: 1) am I ready for marriage? 2) what type of husband would I make? 3) what kind of wife to I want VS need? 4) what kind of mother to my kids do I want VS need? 5) What support am I capable of giving to my wife/family? 6)What support am I expecting from her? 7) is she capable of giving that? So on and so on. The same would apply to the woman. And looking at all the podcasts out there society is not asking itself these questions. All these decisions are based on "lust", which we are fooling ourselves into thinking its love, and "showing off", if you've got it flaunt it as in Look at what I've achieved, now envy me! And it seems that the white guy definitely had been raised to think along those lines that he was able to confidently have this conversation. No, he is not setting the bar high but we are rediscovering the bar and realising that we have been measuring up to the pseudo-bar. Time to dismiss the latter. I could say a lot more but this is just one bit of what we could take out of this clip, in my opinion.

[@NoName-oe4gm]

As long As they Can pay the💡 Bill💅🤭

[@lilianoga937]

😂😂😂😂

[@arogers-zh3nl]

The man said 3500 dollars. Three thousand dollars is not a lot of money. A

[@SoleahWright]

Well I’m From SC So When I Hear Florence I Think SC Too BUT IF YOU ARENT FROM HERE YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE. It’s Not Even A Tourist Attraction Or Of Any Importance In This State😂😂😂😂😂

[@mercybassey3877]

That black guy is always making a fool of himself creating those contents, I hope he is making enough money to cover up the foolery!

[@zoilalulu3798]

So a $5000 ring is a lot now?

[@itninvestigate]

I don’t think this guy is white. He could be Indian like his fiancè/wife. He may just be light-skinned.

[@noonereally4798]

That man and woman are Indian not white.

[@itninvestigate]

That’s what I’m thinking. And it makes sense because the man brought up their families in high importance. That’s common in Indian culture to bring in your parents when it comes to making marriage decisions.

[@marieblade0613]

There's nothing wrong with being 50/50 (equal footing in the relationship). It's the fact that the interviewer is rude and disrespectful. That's the problem.

[@tnewman6967]

❤

[@83npat]

The absolute irony of an AFRICAN WOMAN living in an a EUROPEAN developed country talking about a failed American country. The math.

[@scorpion2958]

Guys don't get married

[@ronniejohnson655]

Mainly women

[@ronniejohnson655]

I bet she cheating

[@KateeAngel]

Honestly, I would chastise for spending so much money on jewellery, when you can spend it on something more useful. Especially cause I don't like wearing jewellery 😂😂

[@Childfree334]

Well, good thing he didn't waste his money on YOU.

[@nataliesparks4829]

ok, do you boo, do you 😊

[@m.d.5050]

That's you he obviously dated his wife and knew exactly what she likes and loves then stepped up to the plate he even planned a destination proposal to somewhere significant to her.

[@Childfree334]

@m.d.5050 It is disgusting how so many women cheapen themselves. If my man has the money and wants to spoil me, I accept.

[@rachaelf5903]

That’s probably because 35k is a lot to you. It’s obviously not a lot to them, they have more than enough left over to do all those things you’re thinking of.