Black Woman Coming Hard On White Men That Date Black Women - Interracial Relationship - Must Watch

[@Onebaybeedoll]

I did date white men who had no experience with black people. So I may have gotten some silly questions periodically from people who were genuinely curious and felt safe enough to ask. But to be fair, I had some silly questions about their culture too. So I always took it as an innocent learning experience for both, because the questions were never malicious. That being said, my white husband is hands down THE most incredible man I have ever met, and I wouldn't trade him for any man, let alone a black man, on the planet. But yes, he had hella questions about my hair. I was super comfortable with these conversations... how else would he know that my saying I have to wash my hair was not me blowing him off for a date??? No black man has ever introduced me to their families (but they sure as hell lost their minds when I ended things). No white man "forgot" to tell me he was married, or had the audacity to ask me to be their baby mama. Black men? Yup. More than once. But yes, I have had some bad dates with white men, or with indian men who assumed I was easy because I am black. Sucky people come in all colours. However, my experience has been that white men have by far on average treated me with more respect.

[@SultryLoveChild]

I don’t necessarily believe these women have dated out of their race. Given the latest skits and other propaganda being pushed to discourage black women from hypergamy and dating out, I’m giving these videos the side eye.

[@trxphywaifalt]

I completely agree lmao. I’m a black woman with a white guy and we’ve been together nearly 8 months. I don’t see this shit happening in real life bc it doesnt. This is all scare tactics to keep bw away from white men bc they don’t want us realizing we’re wanted elsewhere.

[@trxphywaifalt]

And I have to side eye the bw in these relationships. What does that say abt you that you keep ending up with white men that are r@cist? All of my bf’s have been white as snow and none of them have ever been racist to me or called me the n word out of anger. What type of white men are these women dating? They’re probably seeking out these types on purpose 💀

[@catmouse2882]

Me too...the propaganda is strong. Im a Black woman who been with her white, Hispanic husband for almost 18 yrs....these goofy Mammies in the video are trying to scare Black women from divesting or simply...dating out.

[@kandigg9119]

Honey it’s very true! First white guy I’ve ever dated is now openly racist. Started during trump era. In his words “I don’t know why I ever dated black B’s” he has a mixed child! It HAPENS!

[@TransmutedLiving]

GIVE ALL THESE VIDEOS THE SIDE EYE. I teach this all day, on how black women need to get out of being mules for the black church, and community.

[@stephiiuni]

I've never experienced this. Maybe it's y'all. Be more aware when dating men, in general. Learn to read the room and trust your intuition. I never had a white man call me ni**a or ni**er. Even when we stopped dating, we always hugged and parted ways. There was no name calling or yelling. So, idk who y'all messing with. 👀

[@80soa]

I've exclusively seriously dated white men and never had those types of problems, honestly.

[@catmouse2882]

Me neither ...this is a scare tactic used to scar the fence sitters

[@TransmutedLiving]

​@@catmouse2882EXACTLY

[@cocoace7587]

​@catmouse2882 That was my first thought. Like # girl bye 😅

[@wick3dwords]

Same

[@Luckimee]

Me neither

[@millions2nette]

You could describe bm, the same way, though.

[@NamasteInYourLane]

Yeah you could. Black men who can't stand black women date and have relations with BW all the time. BM who dislike BW get BW pregnant all the time but BW still wants BM though.

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

Blk men are the main ones who promote colorism

[@mizzpoetrics]

Exactly! I'm pretty good with reading the aura of dark skin Bm that are interested because I'm a bit lighter! That ish creeps me out! These men - Bm/Wm, you'll catch those vibes, if you PAY Attention!

[@alli5078]

Girl idk what tyoe of white men ya'll date but Ive been ive have NEVER been called that by any white guy that I date. And ive been in some nasty fights with my ex. Thats wild

[@TransmutedLiving]

Cause it's a whole lie

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

​@@IndiTol-gz8cqits not lucky. This is normal. Maybe a class thing? I date college educated white men at the minimum.

[@katrinkagivens4401]

WHITE WOMEN DO THE SAME THING! I HAVE DATED WHITE MEN BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN CALLED THE N WORD!

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

Me either , it’s interesting how the women who cape for blk love aren’t even the black mens preferences

[@trxphywaifalt]

Me neither. That’s why I don’t trust these bw bc it shows that they’re purposely seeking out these type of wm. If they weren’t how do they keep dating racist wm over and over? All of my exes are white and no matter how bad a fight got, no slurs were used and my skin color was NEVER the reason it started

[@catmouse2882]

@@SylisDaGoldenPeach Chile....a that's a whole read🤣 These Mammies don't even get picked 🤣

[@TheRazorTongue]

Although it’s rarely to this extreme plenty of men date women they don’t like and even go so far as to marry them. Usually they’re getting something out of it and sometimes it’s not readily apparent. It’s either materials, services, or an ego boost. If he’s getting all 3 he won’t ever let you go willingly.

[@womana1993]

I also believe that decentering race is so important. Not "colorblindness", but just not letting race be your whole life/personality. Be a human being first. No one chooses their race before birth, it's thrust upon you as you grow up in society. I mean, y'all do know race isn't even real, right? It's created by humans to stratify each other. Unlearn it and broaden your view. Again, I'm not advocating for "colorblindness". Not the same thing as decentering race.

[@womana1993]

@@HeeeyOhaji What in particular do you disagree with?

[@catmouse2882]

​@womana1993 The Kangz is just that Black women are now moving on from toxic myth of "Black love" and moving on to greener pastures...without them 😉

[@palesamogorosi8939]

Decentering race is exactly what being colourblind means though lol. I'm sorry but that's just it. We cannot afford to decentre race as black people, unfortunately.... it's just impossible. Even if you try it won't work out in the long run.

[@womana1993]

@@IndiTol-gz8cq Please explain.

[@womana1993]

@@palesamogorosi8939 Please explain how decentering race is the same as colorblindness.

[@Jazzy-vx5sx]

Does she have a video telling BW women not to date colorist BM? Aren't they just as messed up as dating racist WM? The messaging to BW about dating out is spreading and these videos are created to counteract that. All men need to be vetted, so if a woman ends up with a "racist" she didn't use discernment. I'll also add that critiquing the Blk community isn't racist if you're non-blk.

[@teresam5199]

Right....so obvious, from a mile away

[@TheUnknownSharpShooter]

I've dated sisters across the color spectrum, high light to deep dark. So stop with the deflection. That only ensures that you're trying to distract from your bullshit. Deflection is what WP do. I'd like to think that you are better than that.

[@khem127]

You havent seen these vids talking about the dangers of dating BM????? Where have you been? Honestly, yall too easily triggered.

[@Jazzy-vx5sx]

@@khem127 I don't date BM.

[@MissKashira]

I don't have a racial preference when it comes to dating, so I've dated people of all races and the most racist thing I've been called is "chocolate." I can't imagine being called the n-word by someone I'm in a relationship with. Hell, I can't imagine any white people in my life letting that word come out their mouth whether I'm around or not. How do you end up dating someone who isn't only comfortable saying the n-word, but willing to call YOU the n-word? Are you finding these white men at MAGA conventions?

[@tranquility9325]

Uh why bring up maga

[@roxy4325]

​​@@tranquility9325hehe..to prepare you. 2024 is around the corner. Might as well start hearing it now and become immune to it when the dark times are upon us. Prepare yourself. Winter is coming

[@Diyoza781]

How is chocolate a racist slur 😒 y'all just love making anything racist.

[@getinloser666]

@@Diyoza781A white man calling you “chocolate” is a fetishizing term. You might as well let them call you “jungle bunny”.

[@randymaylowski2485]

​@@Diyoza781yet they don't care if they say "white ice cream/ chocolate is yummy" to "white chocolate is yummy" to "white cream is yummy" yet if a white guy says "chocolate is delicious" somehow that's "racist"? So it's fine for a black or brown woman to describe the color of guy she wants, yet it's "racist" if a white guy describes the black woman he wants? Makes no sense besides stupidness.

[@tigerlilly9038]

Poor Young Lady, so sorry this happened to her 😢 16:37. BTW *IF ANYONE* says they don't see color: *RUN* . There is nothing wrong with seeing my color the problem is what YOU BELIEVE about my color.

[@meganakinsanya4702]

Why is this even a topic? I have dated white men, cos I guess me being a slim woman with no butt was not attractive to bm. But I never dated white men cos I was on a mission to go on a trend with dating out of race, I just happened to love the same things white peoples do- outdoor activities, country music etc, but I would date African men as well and Asian men. I vibe with all races of men 🤷🏽‍♀️, I vet them the same. No white guy has ever called me the n word, but I do notice that they lead with their money, so I don’t mind that part 🤣

[@Cpre1111]

You vet your partner, regardless of their Race. So the better question is, why arent Blk people taking the TIME to VET partners? True, people can deceive you long-term but thats not the norm. I waited almost a year before I began to date my White boyfriend. I took my time learning him and whether his family would be cool with IR dating. It's on you, not the partner, to vet compatability. Truly take the time to learn the person. Talk about Race together. Ive noticed a lot of Blk men and women get with a non-Blk person and start glorifying Whiteness and putting down Blackness. So their partner starts to feel like they can do it too. ✋️ Stop that. We have to also admit that some Blk people choose non-black partners out of self-hatred and therefore they end up in scenarios like this, b/c they weren't dating out truly for love, but for erasure & status, etc.

[@catmouse2882]

I never needed my white, Hispanic husband to be "pro-Black"...just him to be pro-Me as his wife and Pro-Black women and children. In order to remove myself from Blk male worship...I had to decenter Blk males and put myself FIRST. These ninjas will get none of my support nor sympathy. Hell...there are some Blk women I don't rock with either

[@queensavage9896]

I have. I had a man i was with for 2 years suddenly be super suspicious of every black man I knew, even the ones I was related to. I realized it was because they made him feel insecure. He never called me the N word. I never heard him say it. It was his energy towards blackness. I agree with the sister who said trigger them. I don't play that. Any sniff and I'm out. ❤❤

[@womana1993]

I feel like this is a "choose better" situation. If you are with a person because that person is your friend first, there is mutual respect, etc r*cism in the relationship isn't an issue.

[@womana1993]

I do agree that humans are often f*ucked up and unhealed mentally.

[@roxy4325]

Duuuuude! Both my exes, the only relationships I've had, were both friends first, and months into the relationship they TURNED so fast and started treating me like DOG WATER! and yet we were GREAT FRIENDS for more than a year each! Familiarity breeds contempt 😢

[@Luckimee]

Ive never had these problems

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

She’s saying it to scare bw out of dating out

[@teresam5199]

Me either

[@3rdeyes4theye89]

Yall never seem to hold this same opinion when black women who have never had negative interaction speak on their experiences

[@wick3dwords]

I was born and raised outside of the US. To me, it seems like only American black women have this mentality about white men (or races other than black). I'm in my 30s. I have never and would never date an American black man. I don't like how they (in my experience) approach me and I don't find we have much in common from an interests & education perspective. This is all my personal experience though. Im sure I don't know shit. Haha

[@moremiaj4786]

No your experience is not isolated. I feel the same. I too would never and have never dated an American Black man. We have absolutely nothing in common, save our skin color and I dont like their mentality.

[@canesugar911]

Alot of these BMALES are covert whyt supremacists.

[@meganakinsanya4702]

Same girl. I have never date American black men. We don’t share any values. I am also not about to do no struggle love. Plus these men are too obsessed with hair and skin color, beyond disgusting

[@NoName-oe4gm]

I’ve dated out! I’ve never been called the n-word by any man except for BM🤔. A man Is A man! By the 2nd date you know where ANY man is coming from. Just pay attention….. Standards, boundaries and expectations…. For Every Man

[@marlenequialarafael1408]

Exatly, they been the one calling you that all the time. 😢

[@trxphywaifalt]

It’s like everyday there’s a new trend of hating on bw with white men. Pls leave us the hell alone we don’t CAREEEEE find a new topic worth talking abt.

[@catmouse2882]

That part 💯

[@elizabethrose5007]

No one came for you or anyone dating outside their race.This woman was just talking about her experience and asking a question. If people are triggered by a discussion then there is a problem.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Super triggered

[@avaphynx]

I ask a lot of uncomfortable questions, vet them. With any race.

[@jewelb9433]

I can relate to the Biracial lady a lot. WP can be really, REALLY cruel. For me it went from "You're Black" 🤢 to "Half Black doesn't count, so you don't know racism" and everything in between. Ir's exhausting.

[@Alex8grade]

My husband is white, and he as an individual checked out/was open to relearning things about my culture, but the problem arose AFTER he started bringing me around his family. Turns out they’re SUPER problematic and racist even though his mother is a white washed Moroccan. He was definitely living in delulu land and brought me into the lions den because he couldn’t accept the truth in front of him, and I filleted his ass for it. My husband is now estranged from his family, a decision he chose to make. He is well aware that our black children will not be around these people.

[@shon7425]

Why are so many people are so concerned about other people relationship

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

So I had a bw coworker and we were lunch buddies and one day she showed me a pic of this wm that she was casually seeing. I took one look at the photograph and I explained to her with the deepest sincerity. As God as my standing witness, I want you to be happy and find a good man, no matter who he is but this man right here, is a white supremacist. She was visability upset and was like: no, he's given me money, he's nice, he calls me. I asked her: if I didnt know what a thug was and I said the same thing to you about him being nice, would you not warn me? She said yes. So, I told her...then for the sake of your very own life, get away from this man, he is dangerous. Thank God, she did. One month later he went to jail for a DV charge against his ex wife. Ladies..I'm not saying your stupid but cultures are different. If you are gonna date wm, please have a yte girlfriend or confidante, you can go to, if his behavior is off or questionable.

[@sbakernyc5761]

Lolol you knew he was a white supremacist from a picture? Lolol that sounds super fishy and wild. I dount the authenticity of this story... either it's a lie or ur crazy😅

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

@@sbakernyc5761 it's not a lie. In the yte culture we can tell by looking at someone, where they basically landed in life. You mean to tell me, blak people can't do the same, when they run up on thier own? She was so super excited about this man she was ignoring the bald head with tattoos, the beard, the grunge of his look, the hate in his eyes, his stance, his dress. He looked dangerous. She was younger then me and had a small son and the man was newly separated. KNOWING my culture, he was looking for a surrogate to take his vengeance out on. Being that she was a bw, if anything happened to her, they would have hardly investigated the matter, he picked her for a reason and it wasn't to love or respect her.

[@sbakernyc5761]

@@heneverforesakesme4038 you could tell he was a white supremacist? How? Was he wearing doc martin boots and a Nazi t shirt? Like i said im fiarly convinced everything tou said is absolute bullshit. Makes zero sense. You didn't say you met the man or saw a video, where he could have said something that may have been able to decipher as either directly or indirectly racist. You said you saw a single photo of the man and knew he was a white supremacist? Makes zero sense. Most white supremacists nowadays, the smart ones anyway, don't dress in a way that would allow them to be called out for it. They want to blend in. And any white supremacist that would dress in a way as to announce to the world hes a white supremacist, wouldn't be dating a black woman

[@sbakernyc5761]

@@heneverforesakesme4038 congratulations tho. Seriously. This was the dumbest, most ignorant comment I've read in KZbin all year, which is truly saying something.

[@KEOSHAANEILIA]

I won’t deny that what she saying exist but as someone who has dated plenty of WM, I have never ever experienced that. I don’t know who the hell she been dating. It seems as though that’s more of an issue of not getting to know the white man that you dated and not so much any issues with white men that the black women.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Im in france. As a brown skin american black woman, i am exotic. I love it and use it to my advantage because im a woman and know how to LEVERAGE being exotic to my benefit. Biracial children arent black. The bw are being slow in this. And honestly, have you seen the black community? Some communities its logical to like some in some communities and not others. My biracial daughter - her white genetics are fully seen - calling her black is stupid. The white men i dated liked black people more than i did, honestly. And never had a white men call me out my name.

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

I want to move to France so badly but I’m scared of being the center of attention I’m so shy 🙈 pray for me sis it’s a struggle being black and beautiful 😻😻😻😻 I’m so glad white men have treated you good how you deserve to be treated you go girl

[@Purple_lamborghini35]

American like to complain… bad experience happens all the time, just reflect on thing and don’t repeat the same mistakes.

[@diamcole]

Oh shit, I know her.

[@DestinyUteh]

Really

[@diamcole]

@@DestinyUteh Yeah, we went to high school together lol. I don't want to just drop her socials but she's an author and a pretty amazing person.

[@magsbayou]

I also found, when I dated outside my race, a refusal to just talk about daily experiences if the experience starts to feel like to them it has racist overtones. You can't be with someone that you can't have open and honest conversations on a variety of topics. I have met only one white man in my time, in an interracial relationship with a woman from Singapore that could have those brutally open and honest conversations about race. He learned how racist he was after visiting Singapore and experiencing the people there didn't like White people. So he had similar experiences he had heard black people complained about. Once he returned to the US, he noticed just how racist a lot of white people were and they were the same people that would say "I'm not racist, I have a black friend."

[@desiraemontague6300]

never called the n-word but with the first one i was gaslit, considered delusion and had a chip on my shoulder. I was perpetuating racism by bringing it up.

[@destinyadam1160]

You very right they don't like black people but they like dating black women is doesn't make sense

[@HaleyJo1992]

I remember my mom dating a guy who eventually started talking about the inherent evil of the white man. To my mom. A white woman with a son who is the sweetest person to ever exist. Racism is never cute.

[@vacaspen4002]

11:11👍 there's an expression that someone has to earn instead of you giving them the benefit. Don't put your fantasy on them ;that's not fair to you nor them remember that you are learning about this person from zero

[@beautyininsanity421]

As someone who's pretty much exclusively dated WM and will more than likely settle down w one, a lot of this is true. Like, I don't understand the resistance against what these ladies said. Guys, several of the Pr*ud Boys that stormed DC are married to BW. As BW open their options, there will be BW who maybe haven't been exposed to these dynamics and might not see red flags for what they are. And someone did mention Black dating and colorism, too. You MUST be able to look at the bigger picture with a critical eye. If you've not had the bad luck of encountering this sort of thing, then this isn't for you. But, don't let your need for comfort block you from seeing pitfalls and realities that you might not like.

[@cutesyjam]

I agree. I've had more dating experience with wm for over 20 years, many wm are problematic and pretending that they aren't is walking blindly into fetishism hands. You need different tactics dating each kind of man.

[@canesugar911]

Well, blk women since time have been warned about "da whyt man". But somehow problematic bm are okay. Lol. I don't think bw need a reminder to be wary of whyt men(ppl), its imprinted from birth. The message just seems sketchy.

[@cutesyjam]

@canesugar911 bm are of course problematic in a different way. Indian men are problematic in another way. The issue is that many of the bw posters here sound like they have limited exposure to wm and generalise that all wm are great. The amount of wm ass kissing is really embarrassing. Most men are trash tbh for different reasons and you need to have your wits about instead of bragging that you "don't know what anyone's talking about, never happened to meee". It's giving deluded, inexperienced and naive.

[@bunneywolf]

She’s a plant. This is something you see more with WW/BM interracial relationships consistently. More often than not it’s BW telling mixed and mullatto children they’re not black. But everywhere else you’re considered black. I know this for facts because I’m mixed (not whyte) and have spent 36 years of my life being raised by BW who switch up on whether I belong in the BC or not every other year. But also told me I need to make sure I only date BM or I’m a traitor. And the men?! I’ve seen BM disrespect BW in relationships more than any other group of men. In fact, in the interracial relationships I’ve seen where the man was not black, I’ve noticed how much healthier the relationship is. Now, I can’t speak on hookups and randos. But actual relationships, naw.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

I realized the black community was foolish and not to be listened to when i was 5 and they said i "talked white" because i was educated. You kept on listening to them? You are not black, but black or white presenting biracial with a white or black mom. Thats it. You're not the same as black women. You are half of both. My child loves being biracial, she says she likes she got the best of both worlds. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@LoveK1]

Mixed children are NOT black. They’re mixed. That’s literally the name of their category.

[@mizzpoetrics]

Those children ARE NOT Black! As their mothers tell them, they're BIRACIAL! Telling them they're Black, is in a way erasing their other half! The one drop rule doesn't exist in law anymore, so it should be done away with! And it will be, one Biracial child at the time, whose parents acknowledge that their child is both!

[@3rdeyes4theye89]

There was literally a recent video of white man who's married to a black woman calling another black woman the n-word in a convenient store

[@TheRazorTongue]

I kind of want to see 4:44 dissertation on this subject.

[@catmouse2882]

How are some Black women NOT able to recognize racist WM from non-racist WM???

[@eg4417]

This!! I'm genuinely baffled

[@TheRazorTongue]

Sometimes they’re showing unconscious anti-Blackness themselves which is why some WM feel comfortable displaying this behavior. Instead of Daddy issues it’s racial issues. Sometimes it’s both. A lot anti-Black BW have terrible relationships with their family especially their Father. The BM who was supposed to love them the most treated them with disdain and that’s scarring. A lot anti-Black BP had horrible experiences in the BC in their childhood or little to no contact with the BC and only know the racist portrayals.

[@TheRazorTongue]

And so women have not grown up with healthy relationships displayed to them so they don’t know what to look for.

[@jodynanci]

She’s right! Dated a white guy before who was racist and talked smack about black people which is why I broke up with him

[@bridgettedenise]

I dont know what they are talking about

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

I’m so confused

[@CoacoSuave97]

You guys have to take in account, most blk women are used to a type of man in general. Sometimes no matter the race, that’s just the type of man she personally attracts. I’ve never experienced these things with any wht man I’ve dated.

[@carmelcutie1991]

I've never ever have had issues dating outside my race... But the colorism from black men?! Because dark skin men love light skin women!

[@zanthiumsoulspinner888]

Hispanics be the same way especially if they only like a certain group of Hispanic im speaking from personal experience like make it make sense

[@ShayBoogie44]

I've now opened the race dating pool to include men other than Black men. I actually have a date with a much younger Indian man tomorrow. He's a trainer at the gym I go to and approached me in the parking lot as we were leaving. Never dated a white guy but that will be next.😏

[@LionHeartChardonnay]

Ahem… so update?🫣and yes I am nosy

[@tinab8466]

What is she talking about? What type of WM are you dating? I have never had this experience and I am married to a WM and never been called the N word by him or his family.

[@angelr5694]

what with the tears on black women on the thumbnails?

[@TransmutedLiving]

These CC are getting stupid trying to trigger black women

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

Yeah cuz there’s nothing to cry about lmao

[@CPT_Pepper]

She's talking about Candace Owens' husband 😂😅

[@_Renee2]

I find this to be the case with white American men, not foreign white men.

[@tigerlilly9038]

. he called her a whaaaaaa 😮. how?

[@1iamthestuff]

What’s the problem with a biracial child, not claiming just black or just white? Like I don’t find it weird if the non black parent is a little upset that their child completely ignores their side and their lineage to just claim black. Parents want to pass things down and that includes culture so I can completely understand feeling rejected when your half black/white child doesn’t claim your side at all.

[@Iknowwhatiknow-r9e]

BM don't like BW either but pick-mes want you to force yourself on these men. Just exhausting...

[@garden_3130]

Im so glad someone said it

[@spb8039]

This post sounds like miserable scare tactic to block black women from dating outside the race. Keep your dating pool diverse, and date as many men outside the black community as possible. I have dated others and never had this experience. No black man uses the N word in my presence, let alone a white one. Use your discernment at all times, regardless of the man's race of social standing.

[@lauren6509]

Racist white Brad's aren't dating black women. These Jemimas just be saying anything. If I'm dating a white man he doesn't need to be wearing a kufi or like every black person he comes in contact with, I don't even love all black people and I'm darker than a paper bag. I would date a white man even tho I can't stand most of them, I only need to love one. He needs to open his wallet and love me. Then why is she giddy when a white man doesn't want his biracial child identifying as black when that child is biracial? So much anger, projecting and confusion with that lady in the first video😕

[@3rdeyes4theye89]

A lot of members of the proud boys are married or dating full black women so stop the 🧢

[@ericboswell8863]

No Comment..🤬

[@rainbeauxunicorn5237]

It’s called VETTING. Please learn to do it.

[@kayabe856]

The mixed girls experience…. Wow!

[@nobullzone8394]

I can only speak form my experience I was engaged to a white man for 5 years and my mother called it out she said at the end of things because he is not going to marry you, he will call you out of your name and that's exactly what he did I don't think I was hurt as much by the cheating and stealing a reverse psychology and mental abuse that he participated in when it came to our situation I was more hurt by the blatant disrespect of him calling me out of my name and yes it was the n word after that situation I never dated another white man I prefer black men and that's what I ended up marrying and when I look back at what I went through I regret even knowing that individual this is why it's very important to vet who you're considering marrying I thank God he stopped me before I made that huge mistake and I got to see who I really was dealing with!

[@katrinkagivens4401]

I SAY FORGET THEM!

[@downbad2874]

Duh there are some white man and whit women who think like that but there are some who don’t

[@Me-tb8rs]

They aren't lying unfortunately.

[@terrylu1843]

Sadly I’ve always felt that it would be very hard to date as a biracial woman because of racism and I wasn’t wrong…

[@canesugar911]

Same with BM. Alot are covert whyt supremacists

[@barcaman1013]

Firstly its not a lot of wm. Wm marry blk women less than 1% .

[@jlcii]

As a black mix woman who has dated both Hispanic and white men, I have never had any of these problems. Even when the white men I dated didn't work out, they never caught me a racial slur, nor ever said anything hurtful or harmful about black people, at least to my face. I'm sure it has unfortunately happened to some black women that have data outside of their race, but thankfully that's never been my experience personally. Now unfortunately, when talking about black men, I never even made it to a full on relationship, because we usually clashed so badly, and he would say such hurtful and mean shit to me, it would pretty much die off before it even had a chance to start. But I guess that's a different conversation for a different day...

[@kayabe856]

I’ve dated a non black man and he was racist. He liked me but didn’t really like black people in general. I didn’t realize it in the beginning because I was young and ignorant. He tried to get his family to accept me by lightning up my photo to make them believe I wasn’t black.

[@babydii3487]

Yep

[@O_Deoradhain_Quin]

Bill Burr

[@C.E.O.007]

I've been in western Washington for the last 13 years in a white man definitely have a lingo for how and who they talk about to who... But in reality when it comes to it you already know 😂

[@benruffo1197]

I'm a white male. The more I listen to her, the more I feel a victim of reverse discrimination.

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

There's no such thing. Stop trying to be a victim

[@TylerJ__]

We know y'all dislike Blk Men but like smashing Blk Women. That's why you don't mind lurking this comment section 😂😂😂

[@tailoredbynature6984]

Genesis 3:15.

[@shrelltaylor9270]

I've dated white men I have never had one of them call me that,.... But if they did... I just called him a n... a lover😂😂😂😂😂