Who's the Top? Answering Your Questions 【cute gay couple】

[@JoshyAndHai]

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[@tumpaakter5770]

I know who is the top 😁 the top is Joshy ♥️♥️🙈

[@JoshyAndHai]

​@@tumpaakter5770👀✨️😂

[@norakalpisa9668]

So cuteeeee❤❤❤❤

[@armyblink2106]

I also think Joshy is the top

[@tutorxyim_honeycat4352]

I wonder before, why the kichen have difference desain or look in each video. I now the answer now, you guys not live together yet, that must be hard ❤.

[@shyphirenflowerchild4631]

To answer your question as to who is the top or bottom in your relationship; it is none of anyone's business. That is between you two. No need to bow to pressure or answer such an invasive question. Many blessings to you both. May life treat you well.

[@TalasoHuqa-qx9dw]

YES!! Thank you for saying this, some fans are so intrusive it's honestly disrespectful

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️ It's not a question we personally are comfortable answering, but we understand some people are curious, so we try to be playful about it and not mind ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for your support 💖

[@shyphirenflowerchild4631]

@@JoshyAndHai You are most welcome! Hope life continues to treat you well. PS: I subscribed.

[@fdavis1841]

Do not answer that question. It's no one's business. Bless you 🙏 ♥️ 🙌 💖

[@shyphirenflowerchild4631]

@@TalasoHuqa-qx9dw Yes they are! Exceptionally intrusive. Not to mention the seriously unhealthy obsessive compulsion to try to force the ones they admire into roles only they find acceptable. It is alarming at how aggressively fans will attack anyone that disagrees with what they feel is a threat to their idol. To the point of invading privacy, sending death threats, lying, creating damaging stories and bullying.

[@jessicac.4394]

My husband ended his life so I understand the need for mental health awareness. Wishing you both all the luck in the world to achieve your goals.

[@JoshyAndHai]

We're so sorry about your husband. We hope that in the future everyone will be aware of mental health, and resources will be available for anyone who needs them. Our heart goes out to you. Thank you so much for your support, we will do our best to make the world a better place together ❤️❤️❤️

[@SylOnRoblox]

I am so sorry for your loss 🥀

[@fionaatherley3709]

​@@JoshyAndHaiI love your videos ❤❤❤❤❤ so are you guys gonna have children in the future

[@AzthraMoia]

@@fionaatherley3709 yo wth- why do ppl ask questions like that?? 😭😭😭😭

[@SKZWITHZORI]

کاشکی یکی بود که از منم حمایت بکنه

[@Iover7789]

I wish people would stop looking for who's the top or bottom in relationships. Loving each other is what matters❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

❤️❤️

[@zannysholly5975]

Yea I agree with you ❤

[@wholethang22]

Right, they are happy. That's all that matters

[@maharenyiskandar1472]

Sooo, who's the top??? 😬

[@ashley_1898]

​@@maharenyiskandar1472lmao

[@Just_Nat.]

3:45 look at Hai putting his arm around Josh when he was talking abt the death of his brother😭 I swear these two are the sweetest couple I’ve seen

[@JoshyAndHai]

He's very caring ❤️ I'm very grateful

[@Sara_is_Sara]

OMG i know right wen u saw them i sub right away

[@unknown13210]

No need to answer that question top bottom your business

[@danialarsen9597]

Thank you for making me smile, when I see your videos ❤ You are both so sweet and loving towards each other

[@JoshyAndHai]

We're so happy that our videos can bring you joy ❤️ Thank you so much for supporting us, it helps so much ❤️💖✨️🥰

[@cameronadkins]

I love how you two can confidently say to each other and to all of us that you want to get married someday but not yet and it not turning into a fight.

[@フッ-c2u]

二人を見てると幸せな気分になります！！日本語とても上手だし、日本を好きになってくれたのが嬉しいです！ 応援してます！！！

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@upsupeter]

Why do people feel they need to ask gay gays as to there stop bottom situation. Would you ask a straight person that same information or are you just taking thing for granted but only with some people. Not for a moment do I take the time to imagine what others do when they engage with each other. Enough is to no them as a couple ect. That’s it. Why do I need to no what they get up to in private. Perhaps if we spend more time concentrating on our own relationship perhaps thing might work out for you rather then comparing each others, sex lives. Perhaps it’s the grass is greener syndrome.

[@xloppylassx]

I know it crazy how people seem to think that its a gay couple an they need to know everything its called a private life for a reason yes they are part of a public domain and sharing their life but sex life is something thats shared between those involved not the whole world besides who care whos top or bottom they are in love that's what matters ❤❤❤

[@kmk9592]

こんなに素敵なカップルを繋いでる１つが日本語なことがすごく嬉しい！他の動画も見ます！

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます💖💖💖

[@Tom-gv6uz]

Twitterでおふたりの存在を知りました！！ お互い違う母国語なのに、共通言語が日本語なのが素敵です！！日本を好きになってくれた理由も素敵で、日本人として嬉しいです🫶☺️ これからも動画を楽しみにしています！！

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます❤️

[@PrincesitaGasca-kv5tf]

❤

[@Randy43425]

Sweet video. You handled the "top/bottom" question exactly right: Rather than quietly avoiding it, you took it on and said (politely!): "None of your business, shame on your for asking." You two are lovely together. I hope your dreams come true!

[@Namiii_7]

I love how Hai put his arms around Josh when he was talking about his brother to comfort him I love this couple so much ❤️

[@firetech700]

You can’t pick who is top or bottom based on personality. I hope people respect that part of your relationship and leave it. Only if y’all want to say, should it be told. Keep something for yourself. Y’all are so so cute together. And I love seeing how Hai was shy when talking. ❤️

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much ❤️🥰

[@merchii443]

This! And I think that this question is quite uncomfortable and unnecessary to ask. We shouldn't care who's top and who's bottom. It's none of our business lmao

[@JoshyAndHai]

@@merchii443 ❤️❤️❤️

[@paulinelamelin8349]

You are both so true ! For a straight couple, nobody would dare ask what they like in bed… such an intrusive question !

[@BeautycareLove]

​@@paulinelamelin8349um it's kinda obvious for a straight couple

[@cc-li2ss]

2人の母国語じゃない日本語で話してるのが可愛すぎる😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@arpitamishra897]

I m glad u guys wanna travel to India, U ll always be welcomed here. Sending u lots of love and happiness from india 🇮🇳

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you! We are excited to visit someday in the future ❤️❤️❤️

[@Yoniggaisback9057]

​@@JoshyAndHai we'll glad 😊 ro have you 😊😊😊

[@user-bl2pq6pu4x]

2人ともすごい愛し合ってるのが伝わってくるし優しくて和やかですごく癒されましたありがとう🍀︎

[@kathleenaberley8752]

You two are like a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. I'm sorry for the loss of your brother, Josh. Bullying is insidious and your wish to help others is a beautiful demonstration of your kindness and empathy towards others. And both of you wanting to volunteer is commendable, too. Who is top and who is bottom is none of our damn business, unless you want to share it. If you ever come to South Africa, I have friends & family throughout the country. We'll feed and house you whilst you're here, so you won't need a huge budget either 😊 Okay, I'll leave now 😂 this is turning into a podcast, not a mere comment. May all the God's and Buddha continue to Bless you both. 🤗

[@JoshyAndHai]

This is such a sweet comment, thank you so much ❤️ We would love to visit South Africa in the future. We're sending lots of love back to you ✨️💖🥰

[@bakemamushi]

二人の日本語うますぎて日本人にはありがたい…

[@Michi_ya]

Yall deserve the world, literally, the most healthy relationship ive seen...you 2 should definitely get married

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@PaulaSimpson-b7u]

What lovely young men. You both have such a gentle energy that matches each other perfectly. I love to see 2 souls who are meant to be together, you have even found a common language to share. I wish you all the luck in the future with volunteering and I know you will help so many young people. Big love to you both from the UK xx

[@JoshyAndHai]

❤️❤️❤️

[@_k_ya___]

For some reason, I think that the top is Joshy. But it doesn't matter. The main thing is that you love each other!

[@blackpinkblinkky]

Yeah

[@コイハ厶ナ]

お二人がずっと日本を愛して貰える良い国に益々していけたらと思います🩷 優しさがとても伝わりました😊

[@パープルパープル-f6b]

日本人です。 お二人の会話を聞いているだけで気持ちがおだやかになり、とてもいやされました😊 本当にありがとうございます。 お似合いですてきなお二人がいつまでも幸せで過ごせるように見守らせてくださいね😊 応援しております。

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます❤️❤️❤️

[@チョコミント-t2v]

日本が二人に優しくて良かった😊 日本にも勿論差別する人はいるから、そういう人に傷付けられていなくて良かった。 微笑ましくとてもかわいい二人❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

嬉しい🥰ありがとうございます❤️🫂❤️

[@arupaka7139]

お二人の共通言語が日本語というのが日本人として嬉しいです🥹ボランティアが目標というのも素敵すぎて…😭微力ですがチャンネル登録させていただきます！

[@annik3354]

I'm proud of you both and always love you

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much ❤️ It means the world to us. 🌟🥰🫶🥰🌟

[@kpopnoonanikki9211]

I lost my uncle to suicide and I suffer from both anxiety as well as depression so I really admire both of your desires to help those struggling with mental health.

[@JoshyAndHai]

I'm so sorry to hear about that. It's so difficult, but stay strong. We're cheering you on from afar, and we believe in you ❤️

[@so-ek7ys]

お2人とも日本語上手すぎて日本人じゃないのを知ってびっくりしました！とてもかわいくて素敵なお2人でこれからも応援しています💖✨ I love you guys so much🎀❕

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます🥰🥰🥰

[@PsychicLord]

I think at night, Hai is the king, and Joshy the queen, but during the day the other way around.

[@JoshyAndHai]

Oooh very interesting hehe 👀❤️😂😅🫶🫶

[@kevinhetzer5313]

I prefer to think of you both as versatile enjoyinng both positions with each other

[@deejay5457]

Impressed that you came together communicating in a language foreign to you both. Smart guys and obviously devoted to each other. Who’s the top isn’t important. Your love for each other is the most important and beautiful. Sorry to hear about your brother. Hope you example helps others.

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️

[@Redrumomo]

As a Japanese, you only have Japanese communication each other. I’m so proud, you of two speak Japanese fluently! 応援してます！💖

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます💖💖💖

[@jalenleak7849]

They are the most Heart warming couple I've ever seen

[@LondonStinson-wg2es]

I hope you guys do another Q&A because this was so fun to watch you guys answer questions people have asked you.

[@kenfraza]

Josh and Hai, what a delightful video! We know that Hai has met Josh’s parents, so there isn’t a big “need” to travel to Canada. But I am delighted that you’re planning a trip to Vietnam I presume in part to meet Hai’s parents and extended family! One thing I have always thought was part of a healthy relationship was when each person worries more about the other than themselves: you mentioned carrying luggage, etc.! I think the biggest surprise for all of us was that you two aren’t already living together! We presumed that you were!!!!! Finally, the top/bottom question is usually initially viewed as dominant/submissive. And along those lines, sometimes stereotyped into the taller one (Josh) would most likely be the top and Hai being shorter would be the bottom. But that is going with stereotypes! What you guys do is your own business and I thing in a truly loving relationship being versatile would be best. Just my two cents worth. I love all your ideas for places to travel! Many are still on my bucket list like northern Italy and India!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Wow thank you so much for your comment! Yes, we are so excited to venture to Vietnam next year ❤️❤️❤️ and interesting thoughts!!! Thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰

[@nairongirl]

2人で日本語話してるの可愛い😆🫀

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうー❤❤❤

[@Rubyismyname_]

I love this couple together especially when they took care of each other ❤️ I think people should stop asking who's the top and bottom it's a private question

[@JoshyAndHai]

❤️

[@anotheremma6544]

loved this yall are so sweet together. thank you for sharing about your brother i've been there and it's lovely to hear how you guys want to help those struggling with mental health

[@JoshyAndHai]

❤️

[@mariavolpe1248]

Also me and my boyfriend are an international couple (Japanese and Italian ) , so many people look at us in Japan, so I think it's just curiosity, of course there are people that discriminate but it's pretty safe in Japan 🎉 I love you guys as a couple, you look really happy, hoping you can make your dreams true ! You deserve it!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Hi there! Awh that's so cute! There's something so special about meeting your significant other abroad ❤️ I agree with you, it's usually curiosity ❤️ Japan is a wonderful country and we always feel safe. Thank you for the support ✨️🥰✨️💖

[@tamaki8467]

はじめまして。 ジョシュ君もハイ君もお互いを見つめる時の優しい目がとっても可愛いです💕💕 こんなに可愛いお2人が、日本に来てくれて本当に本当に嬉しいです！ お2人でやりたいこと、行きたいところたくさん叶いますように✨ 応援しています！

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます🥰❤️🫶

[@ehkendo]

Hello Josh and Hai, I never understand how people ask questions like that. It's really personal to the people in a relationship. But I hope you guys can stay happy and achieve all the dreams you dream together 😊😇

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you! ❤️ Yeah, we feel it's a personal question and aren't comfortable answering it, but we understand that people are curious, so we try to be playful and understanding about it 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you ✨️💖✨️

[@ぽんちゃん-r6n]

お2人の話している姿からお互いを思っている気持ちが伝わってきて、私も幸せな気分になりました！活動本当に応援しています✨ 以前オーストラリアに行ったのですが、街の皆さんも優しく、豊かな自然に溢れていてとっても素敵な所でしたので是非！

[@goldenhour2410]

After seeing you both on Instagram, I suddenly stumbled upon u guys on KZbin, and I am so proud of you both since your goal of volunteering warmed my heart. I am so glad to be a part of your KZbin family and all the best wishes for your future endeavors I love you Josh and Hai ❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much ❤️ We're happy to have you here 🥰🥰🥰

[@CreeperJa]

Same❤❤

[@もん-h5j]

ハイくんの日本好きになった理由が面白かった。日本人を尊敬してくれる理由として、ポイ捨て少ないとか財布落としても返ってくるとかはよく聞くけど、その考えは無かった！😳 ずっと日本に住んでるのに気づかなかった！いっぱい日本の良さを語ってくれて嬉しかったです🫶🇯🇵

[@VanessaR747]

First off, I just wanna say I'm so sorry about the loss of your brother Josh. It's hard loosing a loved one, I know. 🙏🏻 Then I wanna say, those people that stare at you, they probably have never seen such a cute couple before. Or if they look at u nastily, ignore them. They not educated enough to realise love is love, irrespective of the gender. I just love love love seeing you 2 together 💕 Pls come visit South Africa 🇿🇦, u can come stay by me 🥰

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much. This is a very very kind message ❤️ And you're right, we usually get kind comments, so I'm sure the looks are also kind thoughts! We'd love to visit South Africa someday!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you ❤️✨️

[@kathleenaberley8752]

Fellow South African here, you are welcome to stay with me, too. Between the 2 of us, we'll help you cover the country's highlights. 😊❤

[@cow__yn]

youtubeをお仕事にしたい理由が素敵すぎる😭ハイさんshortで見た時は日本の方かと思ったけどベトナムの方なんですね…！おふたりとも日本人じゃないのに会話が日本語しかないっていうことも凄い！！！頑張ってください！！！

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます！頑張ります❤️🥰

[@tati2.027]

Sometimes I think they are versatile so I wouldn't know which one is the best

[@JoshyAndHai]

Interesting! 👀✨️🫶

[@tati2.027]

@@JoshyAndHai Omg they answered me I wish you the best they are very cute and here is someone who supports you and is happy for your growth on KZbin always keep smiling and loving each other like this 💗🫂

[@JoshyAndHai]

@tati2.027 Awhh you're so sweet! Thank you so much!!! ✨️💖✨️ We hope you have a wonderful day/night ❤️❤️❤️

[@theaidar3444]

this is my first video of josh and hai and i love them already .....may both of ya'll dreams come true

[@mimi-ky5vc]

二人を見てると心穏やかになります。 ありがとう😊

[@aloe4497]

Thanks lovely couple ❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ahh ❤️ This support means the world to us, it helps us so much. Truly, thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@vav942]

Everyone have their own thoughts. I hope y'all are doing well in the future. You just made my day EVERYTIME! Thank you ❤

[@sashaortega4578]

I love how hai put comforted josh when he was talking about his brother, he knew that its a sensitive topic and that it wouldve helped josh out knowing everything will be okay aswell, love these two so much❤

[@sashaortega4578]

Also the way they look at each other❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ころころ-s5r]

日本語お上手です！！！ すごく幸せな気持ちになりました❤ お二人も末長く幸せにいられますように！応援しています🥺❤❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

ありがとうございます❤️❤️❤️

[@mjo_ojm]

日本に住んでくれてありがとう！ 2人が幸せそうで、見ていて私も嬉しいです。早く一緒に住めるといいですね。 日本語はとても難しいけど、応援しています！勉強頑張って下さい。 あなた達2人にたくさんの幸せが訪れますように。

[@JoshyAndHai]

わあ、応援してくれて本当にありがとうございます！❤️ それで、嬉しくさせて良かったです！😊 これからも勉強と動画編集を頑張ります！🇯🇵 本当にありがとうございます🥰❤️

[@마마마이-q2l]

you guys are sooooo cute🤍 i'm japanese and you both are fluent in japanese :) enjoy your life in japan🤝🏼

[@yun121__]

日本語すごいお上手でびっくりしました！！！ボランティアしたいということが素敵すぎて、、これからずっと応援してます‼️🩷

[@pragyashandillya7550]

You two look so good made for each other I wish you both a healthy and beautiful life.

[@yuliya_dxb]

It is not our business and it doesn't matter who is where main thing be happy and thank u to share it with us

[@swathi.pswathi.p8943]

I'm India and I'm so glad to hear that u both like to visit India.❤

[@nur-hc3ct]

i love how they replied to every comments 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 you guys are so sweet and bubbly!!!!! josh's voice is so endearing and hai's smile is so beautiful 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 be happy always and i'll looking forward for your next videos!! 💘💘💘💘

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️ We try our best to read and respond to every comment, because we're so grateful and happy to read them!!! ❤️❤️

[@aneon250]

Take time guys 😌❤️ marriage is ok but building a strong bond with each other is important ❤️❤️ also I love the language thing🥺🥺 its so cool 😌 you guys proved that if two persons love each other language barrier is not a problem 🫂💜 love you guys ❤️

[@nicolewilborn2067]

I never will understand why people can be so intrusive and ask personal question just to cure thier curiosity. Its really no ones business but the two of you. Sn....your are both a very cute and lovely couple. ❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️🥰

[@suparnabardhan9728]

Some questions are not meant to be answered. So this one question as to "who's the top and who's the bottom" let this be a part of your private life. And we love you guys❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️

[@teresatong2607]

So sorry to hear about your older brother Joshy. It is never easy to lose a loved one and while time does make everything better, life will never truly be the same. I love that both of you resolve conflicts/ misunderstandings within the same day. It is never good to go to bed angry 😊 Love both of you. Wishing you a lifetime of adventures, love and happiness ❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much for your kind comment ❤️ Sending lots of love back to you 🥰✨️

[@bangtonboy1964]

Thanks!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Oh my gosh thank you so much! You're so generous, we appreciate this so much. 💖✨️ This really helps us so much ❤️❤️❤️ Truly, thank you. ❤️

[@cassienorwood8078]

You guys are cute together! I’ll never understand why people ask such intrusive questions.

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️

[@souravdas5005]

It's totally wrong to ask such personal Questions and please don't answer such questions, u guys deserve better and to be treated well, love you guys ❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️💖

[@markcouture4726]

Oh stop. Clearly they are comfortable with people speculating - they INVITED it both explicitly in the video and with the ClickBait title.

[@jamesedgar4160]

People always ask who the top and the bottom are. I always feel like some sort of rare species of unicorn being versatile.

[@lindseysaldana4905]

You guys are such a cute couple, you’re also of my favorites!!❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Ahh, thank you so much ❤️🥰✨️

[@greishenrici6489]

¡Gracias!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much for the support 🥰💕✨️

[@earlydeathsama2788]

First of all, thank you for the Persian subtitle and thank you for answering the questions. You're so cute😍 I think josh is top😊

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you!!! And hehe, interesting 👀😂✨️💖🥰

[@victorlarryesmenda2805]

None of you business ❤

[@suzystar3]

Hai is the top is my guess. Sorry I didn't know what else to put here but you guys are very cute! I hope your youtube channel becomes very successful. I'm learning Japanese so watching your videos is really great for me.

[@rwtrwt14]

You two seem so happy together that I love to watch your videos. I hope you get your dream to become full time KZbinrs. (It doesn't matter who mis top or bottom as long as you love each other, which you obviously both do)

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much ❤️🥰

[@lml-c8j]

I like it when Joshi is on top

[@einigoo]

Omg you are the cutest couple I've ever seen😭 Thank you so much for making videos, it makes my day better💜

[@JoshyAndHai]

Our pleasure! You're so kind and we're so glad to brighten your day a little ❤️

[@すずbell]

お二人の関係がとても素敵で見ていて幸せな気持ちになれます☺️💓これからも応援しています！

[@Jjwanggg]

U guys always make me smile 🥺💕 I just woke up and start watching ur video so im gonna start my day with a good mood😍

[@JoshyAndHai]

We're so glad! Have a wonderful day today! ❤️

[@Keira-xs7qe]

How can just looking at a couple like this restore my faith in love? You both are so cute😍 and respectful to each other. I hope you all stay together forever. I believe you both truly love each other. The way you two are completely smitten by each other😊😊😊. Lovely realation. Thankyou fo showing it on KZbin and sacrificing your privacy.

[@makik1157]

2人ともかわいすぎる❤

[@rociogonzalezdiz5337]

¡Gracias!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much! This helps us so much! 💜❤️💖💜❤️💖

[@chatnoir-i8x]

omg you guys are too cute. I just came across your channel and will definitely be a new sub. I really love the energy you guys have for each other and it’s clear to see the love that oozes from Hai’s eyes into yours Josh and vice versa. You guys are KAWAIIIII and I definitely respect the fact that you guys are so in awe of Japanese culture and language even without being born natives. Also, the question you guys received about who is the “top or bottom” is something y’all def don’t have to answer. That’s always a question asked to gay males (single or in a relationship) and I’ve noticed that sometimes it either makes people complete uncomfortable OR people don’t mind it. However, if you felt thrown off by it that’s valid and you don’t need to feel obliged to answer it. I watch a few gay couples on KZbin and just like you guys various of them do not answer and a few would. It depends but I think due to especially Asian BL culture , a lot of STANS are in deep with the shows and movies of BL and apply many of those elements to real life gay couples and expect the same expectations that can be very unrealistic to REAL LIFE gay couples. Some people mean no harm asking and some people do become just too offensive and invasive. Some gay couples do show the dynamics of their relationships clearly (even when it comes to positions) and some don’t and even if it was “clear” for many that still wouldn’t dictate each others “roles” or positions either way. Not to mention, ppl always forget that even VERSES still exist…But, I’m glad you guys didn’t feel the need to truly answer it and that’s really y’all’s business. However, I do think people are gonna always ask stuff like that because gay couples are a true “curiosity” (I am gay myself and the things I’ve been asked and still get asked gets crazy). Much love and light from the USA, can’t wait for more content 🥹🩷 Also, Josh I saw in the last video your bday is in October and I wanted to say mines too. My bday is 2 days after yours so Libra ganggg .🩵

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you for your long and thoughtful message ❤️ Libra buddies! 🥰🥰🥰 Sending lots of love and hugs back to you in the USA ✨️💖✨️

[@chatnoir-i8x]

@@JoshyAndHai🥹🩵🩵🩷

[@hectorfernando4445]

Just be versatile! One or the other can take a role for that top/bottom position. It's really a "I'm in the mood to be the top or bottom today".

[@SanchariDas-q9z]

In my personal opinion we are no one to decide who is top or bottom i only care about your lovely relationship and how you guys are caring to each other keep this relationship for ever and wishing you a happy life ❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you 😊😊😊

[@7uuus805]

3:19 ボランティア、チャリティーって言葉が出てきてびっくりした。日本でKZbinやってる若者でこの言葉はなかなか出てこないかも。素直に尊敬します。

[@ГузельКадырова-е4ъ]

Вооооу, вы такие милые и со своей особой энергетикой)) Особенно впечатляет что почти на все комментарии вы отвечаете, спасибо большое за вашу отдачу)

[@JoshyAndHai]

❤️❤️❤️

[@mocha5550]

2人を見てると可愛すぎて…🙌🫶🤭これからも応援してます！

[@shavani8356]

You guys are the absolute besttt. Wishing u nothing but success in your future. Also I was so thrown of guard when I found out Hai is 27 ughhh love from Canada :)

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much!! Yay Canada 🇨🇦❤️

[@natsu725mama]

2人を見ていてとても幸せになります！多分2人を街で見かけたら「なんて可愛い！こっちまで幸せになれる！❤」ってついつい見ちゃうだろうなぁ😊

[@blushowo]

you know even in straight couples there is a top and a bottom, the male can be the bottom the female can be the top so why are straight people never asked who the top and bottom in the relationship is? you don't need to know, stop asking, that's a private question anyways i love you guys' channel please continue posting!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️ We will do our best to post every week 🥰🫶🥰✨️

[@medeea8078]

You stole my heart at "kitsune" part 🦊 I love foxes very much😭❤️

[@allisonkirkpatrick1732]

You guys are such a sweet couple i wish the best for you guys, as a gay person i personally think people looking at me and the person im with is just their way of saying you guys are so cute because you guys are. Also you guys should visit mexico. love you guys so much!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you 💖✨️

[@んぽちゃむ-d4q]

2人ともかわいい〜💖💖 お忙しいと思いますが、KZbin楽しみにしてます！‪🫶🏻

[@hemads5999]

got to know you guys more through this , u guys are so adorable💙

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you so much for watching 💙

[@bre4827]

Honestly, regardless of who’s top or bottom, it’s not anyone’s business but you guys. You two are wonderful together, love the videos!! Please don’t feel pressured by some. ❤

[@daveg9474]

Hi guys Nice video - thanks for spending so much of your precious time talking with us all over the world. Meeting up just twice a month must be tough. Hope you can be together in one place soon. It would be great if you take us on your trips around Japan and wherever else you go. I'd never ask personal Qs so if you don't say that's fine by me! I wouldn't want me or my husband to be asked such things. We don't like to be labelled as anything but two people who love each other. Stay healthy and happy. Hugs from the UK. D xx

[@JoshyAndHai]

Hello 👋😊 Thank you ❤️ Yeah, we wish we could meet more, but we'll do our best 🥰 We definitely plan to make lots more videos adventuring in Japan ❤️❤️ We feel the same about the labels, just two people in love is perfect for us, which is why right now we don't feel it's necessary to label anything other than that. Sending hugs back ✨️🫂💖❤️🌈

[@Saihyung_95]

i think Josh is the Top obviously in many of your video we see josh at the top

[@nita120594]

Who cares guys 🤫 just be happy and cute together ❤️ I wish you only the best! Keep up with the good work!

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you 💖

[@taniagilsoares2937]

Vcs são almas gêmeas. Um casal adorável, encantador. Continuem mandando vídeos. ❤❤❤❤

[@SylOnRoblox]

It's so nice to see two men who are "different" to a lot of people in this world have a healthy relationship And how do you two argue? I would be like: "Hai, you know what? You are too cute to argue with." I am also gay so it's nice to see that there is a way to survive as a gay man in this world of critisism ❤❤ P.S. do NOT go to the Netherlands in any season except for the spring, since it's extremely hot in the summer, very rainy in the autumn and just cold and sometimes (small chance) snow in the winter so go in the spring

[@coleyoung7776]

Love the video. (From Canada) I’m ready for another Q and A. Also your both Ver. Joshy tops more. Love you both. ❤

[@JoshyAndHai]

Thank you ❤️ and yay!!! Canada 🇨🇦❤️