How NOT to set the table when dining at a Castle.

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American Viscountess

American Viscountess

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@innaostermeiere4374
@innaostermeiere4374 2 жыл бұрын
Charming husband, such a sense of humor ! ☺️🤗
@SStroud2024
@SStroud2024 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Julie, We really enjoy your videos! I can see why Luke's ancestor invented the "sandwich" meal! No need to set a lot of silverware for a sandwich. He was a man way head of his time! :)
@sonjawells1515
@sonjawells1515 2 жыл бұрын
Coming from a nation (Sweden) which lives for a good fish course, I love those crescent shaped plates and use mine quite often. Not only for the bones but also for the skins of trout or other cold water fish that get stiff when prepared. Really, you wouldn’t want to dodge a pile of bones or skin on your dinner plate so setting the crescent plates is very routine. The younger ones use them for their breads, their cheeses or even to hold that special spoonful of lingonberries which we set out with almost every meal because lingonberries will go with everything !
@floradimtsis6426
@floradimtsis6426 2 жыл бұрын
Priceless! Your husband is an awesome person. You are such a lucky lady to have met this wonderful human. Love it. ❤❤
@LollieMouse
@LollieMouse 2 жыл бұрын
I would have loved to have heard Luke say, "I love that you tried this by yourself - great job!" and then help with the proper set up that his family is familiar with. Congratulate the wins and encourage future wins. ♥
@ChickasawScot
@ChickasawScot 3 жыл бұрын
I’d love some Etiquette with The Viscount” videos!! Luke is an amazing fountain of knowledge!
@samanthab1923
@samanthab1923 Жыл бұрын
He is lovely to listen to.
@camrobn
@camrobn 3 жыл бұрын
Bless her heart, us Americans haven’t been taught all of these things. My momma used to set her table on Sundays with our fine china and forks and spoons. My dad and brother would just use one knife or fork and lick the rest just to aggravate her. She tried so hard. I, too, love a great decorated set table but I had all boys and no one was interested so I gave up. We have lost a great tradition even if it is one day a week. The USA has gotten lazy, in my opinion. Good Tidings, Julie. Thank you, Luke, for teaching her these new things.
@mindwriter2406
@mindwriter2406 3 жыл бұрын
This was awesome. Loved your dress! Really appreciated your husband’s comment about setting the table with a mixture of “correct” and your own family’s traditions.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! 😊
@whatbirdwhere
@whatbirdwhere 3 жыл бұрын
I would love to sit at a table with all the right plates, dishes, bowls and cutlery, it would be so elegant. I think Julie did a really nice job, she should feel proud with what she did!
@tamaracarter1836
@tamaracarter1836 3 жыл бұрын
This was so very interesting, more videos like this would be wonderful. Perhaps you could also talk us through the family porcelain/ silver at some point in time, or at least go into more detail about some of the wonderful antiques around the house.
@EEN63
@EEN63 3 жыл бұрын
More etiquette and beautiful tables please! Learning how to set a beautiful table is something good for everyone to know and hopefully enjoy. Whether it is set 100% in the “proper” English or American or other culture’s specifics, having a strong basic knowledge allows you to create all sorts of beautiful table settings and tablescapes! I believe creating a beautiful environment for a glorious meal or a modest Sandwich (see what I did there?😉😆😉) makes everything taste better. They say you eat with your eyes first, so I would love to see various table settings with any and all of your different china patterns and specialty pieces, for various occasions and number of courses! You can learn and teach us too! Personally, I would like to know more about all the specialty pieces and what they are used for... e.g. the larger crescent dish as a salad plate but if it were smaller it would be used as a bone plate... or all the different soup bowls and the appropriate soups for each, etc. It could be an entire series starting with the most basic and add on as you go! The possibilities are endless even beyond the place settings... from specialty serving pieces, napkin folds, centerpieces, to chair decor! Knowledge is power and having proper dining etiquette knowledge in your arsenal will have you prepared for any social or business dining situation! 🥰😍🥰
@kristiN1214
@kristiN1214 2 жыл бұрын
I worked at an Officer’s Club in Germany when I was a teenager and we set each place setting the proper way including napkin folding, silver polishing…I learned so much from that job on etiquette. It’s served me well through the years lol!
@veraanderson5480
@veraanderson5480 3 жыл бұрын
Love, love, love this Lady! I so appreciate her efforts with everything she does. She is absolutely brilliant!
@gnarbeljo8980
@gnarbeljo8980 3 жыл бұрын
This was a chuckle. It’s one of those things if you grew up with the custom, you don’t think about it much, it’s just what you know, but if it’s not your culture I guess it’s confusing. But as I see it it’s ergonomical and practical. Napkin rings can be a nice and simple way of getting around the napkin presentation. Everyone has their favorites and mine is linnen table cloths *always* with a good quality felt liner underneath which makes all the difference as it eliminates the ”clink” especially at a table seated for many. I also prefer big nakins like was common at the turn of the kast century and before, not the small modern ones you often see these days that don’t cover much of your lap. Don’t like tables with flowers that obstruct a proper view of those across from you, keep them short or put them on a sideboard or mantlepiece. I always put dessert spoons at center top of the place, handle to the right. I’m not fussy at all. More problematic than all this is is when I see Americans who don’t know how to use silverware eat in public or socially in Europe. That always makes me feel a bit bad for them. Even seen women sit down and eat with their gloves on which is just… idk the words really 😂🤦🏻‍♀️. Table manners are important for social mobility/flexibility. All the eating at counters on high stools won’t do your children any favors in life. But good food (and wine) is more important than most of this. And having a relaxed and social meal together! ❤️🙏
@diduco1900
@diduco1900 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with your entire comment. Knowing the framework can prevent blunders and make for more relaxed dining.
@jenjem5810
@jenjem5810 3 жыл бұрын
Julie How delightful. For 20 years I worked in NYC Setting up weddings a historical landmark building. Marble hallways,staircase, 20 feet ceilings. Absolute blessed Dream job. Saw your grounds tour slanted towards weddings. May you be blessed with success. It is heartwarming to begin married life in a supportive environment. You are a treasure. It is a privilege to be part of giving someone a perfect memory.
@merrywalsh2809
@merrywalsh2809 3 жыл бұрын
Julie, when you placed that square napkin on the top of the bowl, I had a laugh. Never, ever seen that in my long life. Then your husband lamenting your choice of a “bad knife” and cafe glassware. Who knew setting the table could be funny?
@suzannes5888
@suzannes5888 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, this reminds me of when I took "etiquette lessons" as a teenager. In one we had to have a formal dinner with all the silverware. They brought little butterballs made with butter paddles, that evidently were put in the freezer to keep their shape. Well, unbeknownst to me they were not removed the freezerer soon enough. When I used my butter knife to try to slice a sliver of the butterball off, the whole (still frozen) butterball became a projectile and shot down the table and down the silk blouse of the matronly (very large-breasted) woman who was "evaluating" us. Everyone saw it. No one wanted to say anything - and was trying to keep their composure. Being teenagers it took everything in me/us not to burst out laughing. (We were all kicking each other under the table.) The women tried to pretend nothing happened and maintain her manners, so continued eating and chatting with us girls. We all tried to carry on as the butterball warmed and melted onto her blouse...and the oil stain on her blouse grew - and grew, making her look like a nursing mother. Manners can be hard! 🤣
@jeannastephen283
@jeannastephen283 3 жыл бұрын
That story made my day!
@suzannes5888
@suzannes5888 3 жыл бұрын
@@jeannastephen283 Lol, thanks. As I said, the second it happened I wanted to burst out laughing, for about 3 seconds - but then, I saw my life flash before my eyes and spent the rest of the dinner quietly panicking to myself, wondering what tragedy would become of my life after the dinner - and when Mrs. Adair saw her blouse. (Everything is so extreme for most teens, lol.) At that time, I really thought my Father would be ashamed and my Mother would disown me if I "failed" my etiquette training - and it would be the end of the world....but here I am.
@marybazargani6929
@marybazargani6929 3 жыл бұрын
I'm laughing out loud now! That would be a great scene in a sitcom.
@karenogush5622
@karenogush5622 2 жыл бұрын
@@suzannes5888 Well, you definitely made me burst out laughing, and then I kept on laughing as you described how things devolved from there, LOL! It reminded me of the scene in Pretty Woman where Julia Robert's character eats (I think it was snails?) for the first time in a fancy restaurant and the it goes flying, and was caught by the waiter very calmly without him batting an eye.
@kcstill3108
@kcstill3108 2 жыл бұрын
Hilarious!!!! I don’t know how you didn’t laugh out loud!!!!
@JenningsCraftsBoutique
@JenningsCraftsBoutique 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely fabulous watching you two together, I couldn't stop laughing, especially when you told Luke 'he wasn't invited' at the end, that really was funny! All that hard work Julie to be told 'It didn't really matter' how you set the table, what a classic funny sketch this was to watch :0) lol. I would have bought a takeaway too! ha ha ha
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
😊 thank you
@susiehall3529
@susiehall3529 3 жыл бұрын
Luke is a typical man , they love to point out what your doing wrong but then they proceed to make you feel slow.
@RLucas3000
@RLucas3000 3 жыл бұрын
@@AmericanViscountess i just discovered your channel, along with your work with the Smithsonian, which is lovely. Have you seen the English Heritage videos with Mrs. Crocombe doing examples of cooking in the Victorian manor house for the Lord and Lady? Except we never get to meet the Lord and Lady! Maybe you could team up to do a series with English Heritage with some scenes of you and others in the Victorian or Edwardian past? A fun trip through history?!
@JoniNYon
@JoniNYon 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE your videos, your down to Earth, fun attitude and you and Luke's playfulness together! Thank you for showing us the different sides of the Aristocracy, the need to cherish and protect the buildings, the heritage as well as looking at the future. ❤❤
@rachmunshine9474
@rachmunshine9474 Жыл бұрын
@@susiehall3529 I think he’s just sharing his knowledge of how things were done and sometimes still are and making us have a laugh. I think it’s wrong to label him as some kind of bad guy for that especially if you’re not from England as the sense of humors and comments that are considered humorous especially when delivered with a much dryer delivery, or just different from place to place. I thought it was quite funny and I find the two of them endearing together! For what it’s worth.
@irinikout9449
@irinikout9449 3 жыл бұрын
I liked the interaction between the two of you! Can't wait for more videos like this!
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
More to come!
@norma6362
@norma6362 3 жыл бұрын
I think sorry Im not trying to be rude,but by this time of your life,you should know how to lay a table,I know how to do it,havent you seen in so many years,anice table setting
@inaleyen2737
@inaleyen2737 3 жыл бұрын
You should have said, "for my husband and me." I loved this episode and look forward to more videos from you!
@gregghernandez3418
@gregghernandez3418 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Doesn’t she lose credibility when she speaks incorrect English?
@maryfrederickson9400
@maryfrederickson9400 2 жыл бұрын
Please buy her an older manners book by Amy Vanderbelt. It has pictures of all the proper table settings in it (different ones for breakfast, luncheons, dinners, etc.). My dear Mom had one and made all of my sisters (5 of us) read it. She then gave us one when we got married! Some think it is "old fashioned" but manners never go out of style and even though this was 50 years ago I thank my departed Mom.
@anna-maria5186
@anna-maria5186 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Julie, I think the place-mat is called a 'Charger Plate' :) Thank you for fun content:)
@LynnaeaEmber
@LynnaeaEmber 2 жыл бұрын
It is a charger if it is actually a plate, larger in diameter than the dinner plate.
@jadejohns3107
@jadejohns3107 3 жыл бұрын
OMG Julie, your delivery and styling is brilliant! Can’t wait to see the full episode.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@yve2009rn
@yve2009rn 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are so adorable!! Great couple!! Please keep your videos coming. Hugs from Lousiana
@jartotable
@jartotable 3 жыл бұрын
Lovely fun post. We need more light-heartedness in these times.
@carrie5387
@carrie5387 3 жыл бұрын
Once again, your dress is everything. Can’t wait to watch the rest of this! Your videos are always so interesting 🌸😊
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@mrgreene3290
@mrgreene3290 2 жыл бұрын
Love the dress - beautiful, but watch the sunlight through the skirt and don't make the Princess Diana mistake and forget to wear a slip (or is it petticoat in England?)
@nasuswolne5374
@nasuswolne5374 3 жыл бұрын
OMG Julie!!! This was great. Really you need a butler stick for your measurements. I believe the soup bowls are cream soup bowls and thus you would need a cream soup spoon with a rounded as opposed to and elongated/bullion spoon….It would seem that Luke has had this done for him from his childhood on….so he knows what it should look like but I did not find his comments helpful. You did very well. Honestly I would love for you to invite in a butler hopefully a royal butler to give us the skinny on how it should all be done. What a hoot…..Google my arse.
@jamesnbrenda8960
@jamesnbrenda8960 2 жыл бұрын
You two were so much FUN!! Thank you for sharing your lives with us!! Love from Texas.
@Elizabeth-lb2jf
@Elizabeth-lb2jf 2 жыл бұрын
Very entertaining. I know it is a spoof because, after so many years of living in England, and eating every day, you SURELY know how to set the table correctly.
@edenwalsh1014
@edenwalsh1014 3 жыл бұрын
How to cheer up a Monday! I love this. Funny. Sweet. Unpretentious. However you table arrangement went hope you had a lovely dinner. xxxx
@myhs57
@myhs57 2 жыл бұрын
Julie you're such a nice person! Great personallity. I've learned at home how to set up a table as your husband does!
@maureenb6095
@maureenb6095 3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this! You two are so cute together and, Julie, at least you tried! I thought you did a good job. And I love your vintage dress! Thank you! 🌸🌸
@theresedignard4267
@theresedignard4267 3 жыл бұрын
Oh for the days of having servants on staff. :). I so love how you two challenge each other to rise to your better selves. All in fun. Thanks for sharing.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@heidijay5902
@heidijay5902 3 жыл бұрын
I laughed out loud multiple times during this video, you’re always so entertaining. Thanks for all the effort you put into filming your videos.
@Neferteria2000
@Neferteria2000 3 жыл бұрын
The moment the crescent-shaped plates appeared I thought immediately of my grandmother as those were her bone plates! They were used to place spent bones, very often fish bones. Of course she would also have set the table with a fish fork and possibly a fish knife as well! LOL. I now have all of her china but don't think I have ever used her bone plates. I will have to start using them for salad. That makes a lot of sense to me!
@pebblesmiller9026
@pebblesmiller9026 3 жыл бұрын
Bone plates are the same shape but more narrow
@pachecodecastro2593
@pachecodecastro2593 3 жыл бұрын
Barbara, I had the exact same idea! Fish-bone plates! I still have some I got from my mother… that was interesting.
@aliceputt3133
@aliceputt3133 2 жыл бұрын
I thought the crescent plates were bone plates too. But they are wider.
@LynnaeaEmber
@LynnaeaEmber 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I was trying to remember what they were. Bone plates, of course. They would be handy for other bones such as chicken wing bones. Salad plates are smaller in diameter than the dinner plate and placed on top of the dinner plate as it is served first.
@jeffreyskinner7167
@jeffreyskinner7167 3 жыл бұрын
My Girlfriend Ethelwynn taught me a proper table setting . As well as table etiquette. I believe manners can open many doors . Bon appétit.
@marybazargani6929
@marybazargani6929 3 жыл бұрын
Bone appetite is correct. I believe those crescent shaped plates were used to hold discarded bones. Maybe I'm wrong. We will see. Julie is so pretty in that dress.
@melvinclingerman2364
@melvinclingerman2364 3 жыл бұрын
Lol it's Bon Appetit.....I know I work for them
@marybazargani6929
@marybazargani6929 3 жыл бұрын
@@melvinclingerman2364 That must be a fantastic job! They both seem to have great sense of humor and they are very positive .
@gnarbeljo8980
@gnarbeljo8980 3 жыл бұрын
Bone Appetite?! 😂
@marthaross6301
@marthaross6301 3 жыл бұрын
@@marybazargani6929 yes, those crescent plates are for bones. The dress is pretty- but requires a slip (2:50) or a Lady Di moment of legs highlighted by sun…. But Julie has great legs. This is a hoot to watch. I was taught to set a table like her husband 🤷🏼‍♀️
@dorothysue1
@dorothysue1 2 жыл бұрын
I became obsessed with Amy Vanderbilt's book of Etiquette when I was 17! Setting the table properly is so important. I'm sure it's a different set up across the pond.
@rachmunshine9474
@rachmunshine9474 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, everything is different here- from house to house 😂let alone a whole country. While we’re definitely not all rude and brash, (nor some of the many other stereotypes) in America, I think we tend to be on the more casual end of the spectrum for the most part sadly.
@kentbrasloff3945
@kentbrasloff3945 3 жыл бұрын
That was HILARIOUS! Thank you for sharing, and for clearing up a few things. I was brought up (also in the mid-West - St. Louis) -and my parents were antique dealers(!) with the understanding that the crescent shaped dish was a "bone plate" for fish and chicken remains. Hahahahaha. Guess I was surrounded by the Beverly Hillbillies? Since moving to New York some 40 years ago, I "learned me" a few things about entertaining and table settings and now consider myself the "king" of the table setting. I entertain frequently and pride myself on all the small details I create in my tablescapes. Wish I could attach some photos here to show you but it doesn't seem as though you can? Maybe you and Luke can run a contest (Free tour and overnight at Mapperton as the prize?) for your viewers who submit table setting photos? Luke could critique them and you can pick the winner based on who measures up to his lofty standards. :)
@meri8746
@meri8746 3 жыл бұрын
Lol! Thank you for moving the napkin! Enjoyed watching you both! What fun!
@1Thedairy
@1Thedairy 3 жыл бұрын
That was hilarious! Your facial expressions were priceless Julie. Thank you for a good laugh 😂
@emilymayer5500
@emilymayer5500 3 жыл бұрын
Lady Hinchingbrooke, I absolutely adore Mapperton, its history, heritage, traditions, culture. One of my life's pleasures is setting a beautiful table. I learned this art from my beloved Auntie Patricia, who would show me how to set it, then take it apart and say "Now Emily Ann, you do the same." Those lessons, along with I don't know how many instruction books plus paying attention to homes such as yours, as well as experts such as Alastair Bruce of Crionaich, have both taught and served me well. My passion is history, historic preservation (and therefore historic structures and sites), antiques, and all associated subjects including dinner and kitchen ware and table settings. My guests always enjoy coming over for a meal, not only for the company and the food but to see how I've set my table for that particular occasion. Even when I dine alone in a tray in my bedroom, it is set properly. Manor houses such as Mapperton serve as an inspiration. As a side note, isn't it amazing how some designs stand the test of time? White china plates with a simple gold rim are always appropriate. Your set, Madam, is absolutely exquisite. I have similar plates made in Japan (marked Nippon, which makes them date between 1891-1921), and when my parents married in 1968, they were given a set of china in almost the same exact design. Neither, however, have the cream soup bowls or crescent plates, with both have sadly gone out of style. White with gold trim china is timeless, and looks just as elegant and fresh now as it did over 100 years ago. Take care and always remember, history matters. Emily
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Emily!
@kimberlyperrotis8962
@kimberlyperrotis8962 3 жыл бұрын
It’s easy, Julie, just make sure you have the cutlery, china and glassware for each course, and work your way in from the outside. I do like to follow these basics, because that’s what most people know, but if they don’t, they will follow your lead, as the hostess. I like to write the list of courses on my kitchen whiteboard, it helps keep track while cooking, too - did I put the bread into warm, etc.? Also, the butter knife is the short, dull-bladed one, it goes on the individual bread plate, then a common butter serving knife on the butter dish. So, each person takes some butter with the butter serving knife, puts it on their bread plate, then only uses their own butter knife to butter their bread, not the common serving one. I think it’s easier to clear and crumb the table before the dessert/pudding, just leave dessert wine, if any, and water glasses and napkins (on laps), then bring in the cutlery, etc. for that course, which includes coffee service, too.
@tanyaansley8606
@tanyaansley8606 3 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful Julie. A fine table is such a compliment and lovely token to your guests.
@markt.3685
@markt.3685 3 жыл бұрын
Interpreting Luke's comments as a combination of British culture and British humor. How are things going with the place in Italy? Cheers!
@gretah4740
@gretah4740 3 жыл бұрын
To funny! When I was growing up my mother taped a copy of a table setting inside the dining room hutch so when we set table for holidays we could refer to that. Of course, it was just basic settings it as elaborate as what you are setting. Enjoy your videos. 🙃
@courtneyweiser7709
@courtneyweiser7709 3 жыл бұрын
Your humble honesty is so refreshing and brave. I love your videos. They are always so true in there depiction of what an American in Britain would be like.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@FranLuckyflute
@FranLuckyflute 3 жыл бұрын
I would love to see and learn good old British etiquette, including laying of a table properly. It is good to learn.
@englishrose4388
@englishrose4388 2 жыл бұрын
So many rules, so many different dishes-or was exhausting just watching you try to sort it all out! And the table setting is just one aspect of your new (er) life!
@SweetOne.
@SweetOne. 2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🤣 When you get it right Luke should get you some pretty new plate trivets for the table. Much Love to you both!
@DeeLTFL
@DeeLTFL 3 жыл бұрын
I'm loving this! The banter is hilarious 😂
@meowhere2426
@meowhere2426 3 жыл бұрын
I adore the interaction between you and Luke. So adorable! It's like me and my partner!! Love it
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
@parisryan5950
@parisryan5950 3 жыл бұрын
They are such a lovely couple. This is really a fun and informative video. Thanks Julie!
@susiehall3529
@susiehall3529 3 жыл бұрын
You are such a wonderful person Julie ! You make my day with your beautiful writing and humor my dear ! Keep up and GOOD SHOW YOUNG WOMAN !
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@beverlymacdonald
@beverlymacdonald 3 жыл бұрын
Julie, so grand. I so enjoyed this video, actually I enjoy all your video's but I actually laughed with this one. Your table setting was perfect for America. But even I would do something with the napkin, if I was setting a fancy dinner setting. Your family is a joy thank you for sharing with us.
@SeldimSeen1
@SeldimSeen1 3 жыл бұрын
You and your husband are really cute together. Both of you are obviously kind and considerate people. Why I decided to subscribe.
@Rebekahlow
@Rebekahlow 3 жыл бұрын
The Dining Room is so beautiful. I like Julie's table setting.Even with the transgressions.The food would still taste wonderful! Love from Vermont
@vd8698
@vd8698 3 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos. You are more royal than other royals. Your husband hit the jackpot when he found you. What a gorgeous couple you make.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@okienana11
@okienana11 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this thank you, so much fun. Today was filled with sadness and you brought laughter for the evening. Thank you
@lizab.gonzalez3336
@lizab.gonzalez3336 3 жыл бұрын
You are so charming and he IS so kind. LOL!! No matter what, the setting looks beautiful.
@ruthcr8839
@ruthcr8839 3 жыл бұрын
Julie, at least you tried!!!! 👏🏻👍🏻👌🏼😘
@claritadeluna6609
@claritadeluna6609 2 жыл бұрын
That was the cutest and most entertaining show in your collection of videos I’ve seen. I loved it! 😆🤩
@xongkkerije
@xongkkerije 3 жыл бұрын
I love that he is "correcting" her with a combination of fond exasperation as well as a bit of embarrassment that he knows this stuff.
@jolantarobertson3672
@jolantarobertson3672 3 жыл бұрын
Julie you are so much fun to watch. Great to hear your table setting strategy 👍 outloud. For me total confusion. We'll done. Hugs from BC Canada 🇨🇦💗
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you!
@charlottesnyman
@charlottesnyman 2 жыл бұрын
He is so sweet. I totally understand the dilemma with the place settings! I am also American but my husband is South African and they also are very influenced by proper table settings in certain cultures. Well done and I never saw Google....
@loronn7654
@loronn7654 3 жыл бұрын
Just love watching your you tube videos. They make me smile. Smiles and chuckles from New England.
@mariaangelesmarinramirez5376
@mariaangelesmarinramirez5376 10 ай бұрын
Hello Julie, I like your explanation regarding how to set table for dinner.
@mocarra100
@mocarra100 3 жыл бұрын
You know what I love about you Julie, your aristocracy and you're not a stuffy person. You're funny bright witty and a lovely person. I love videos like this can't wait for the next video much love from Oklahoma USA Jackie 🇺🇸💖
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you!
@rhondamartin3575
@rhondamartin3575 Жыл бұрын
Julie, I just LOVE your dress!!!! You did an amazing job setting the table! Beautiful! I use to work in Banquets years ago and I never got place settings right, either! I'd always ask the supervisor to set one place setting for a visual! 😆. Too many items to remember!!!!! Don't be too hard on yourself!!!! Luke, you're too critical! She tried her best!!!! That's what counts!
@joldc5123
@joldc5123 3 жыл бұрын
This was hilarious, of course you have staff that does that for you. So entertaining
@laurenschneider1777
@laurenschneider1777 3 жыл бұрын
I’m absolutely besotted with this channel! Thank you for sharing.
@ltlbit1962
@ltlbit1962 3 жыл бұрын
This was great! You took me back in time to my 9th grade Home Economics class (1978). This was a hard lesson for me to understand the "extra" place settings for glasses, coffee cups, saucers, not only soup but dessert ware as well! I give you an A ++++++++++++. And yes, it isn't "take away"; it's "to go". 😜😁😂😎 from central Alabama USA.
@dimitrafuller5117
@dimitrafuller5117 3 жыл бұрын
I love the banter between you and your husband!
@giginha9175
@giginha9175 3 жыл бұрын
Sooo Goood !!!! You are the best. Quite right, families do things differently but some things are what they are. One thing I like is to have the pudding spoon etc all facing the same way .... Great show ....
@lr50plus54
@lr50plus54 3 жыл бұрын
Haven’t they been married for quite awhile? She’s just now trying to learn how to set the table? But it was definitely funny and entertaining! ❤️
@rossannaguerra8461
@rossannaguerra8461 3 жыл бұрын
thats what I was thinking
@FunmiOladipo
@FunmiOladipo 3 жыл бұрын
Men mostly set the table in Europe. That’s why.
@julierogers1155
@julierogers1155 3 жыл бұрын
It is not working for me in the "funny" and "entertaining" department. Different tastes.
@dianegriffith3006
@dianegriffith3006 3 жыл бұрын
I had the same thoughts-
@TheLeannefarman
@TheLeannefarman 3 жыл бұрын
Probably have had butlers and maids to do the work in the past. Wealthy old school family!
@lisakilmer2667
@lisakilmer2667 3 жыл бұрын
Julie, you're pretty funny in this one, making fun of yourself. We learned table settings by osmosis/exposure since my dad was in a US embassy. The only thing I have to look up is where red /white wines go in relation to each other. But the silverware is not too hard - sit down, pretend to reach for starter utensils, then main course, then dessert. I think the reason you are confused is that Luke changed the rules in mid-stream - he went from formal to casual.
@paulabaker8403
@paulabaker8403 3 жыл бұрын
Laying the table and proper table etiquette has always been a subject of interest to me I just love all of it.i certainly do appreciate your interest and eagerness to keep with tradition and learning to lay a gorgeous table but, alas, you two were too much fun a d I was quickly reminded of just how critical this skill is to get right for those discerning eyes, and yes do take out after all that. Lol. Your husband was sweet about it You'll get it right and then someone can perform that task for you and then you can do a walk about and see that all is as it should be. How perfectly fun!.Loving you two and Mapperton.❤ .
@Smilealot62
@Smilealot62 7 ай бұрын
This episode was so funny! Thoroughly enjoyed it. Hugs to you both 💛💛
@bobchevallier8456
@bobchevallier8456 3 жыл бұрын
Karen here. So so funny listening and watching Julie.
@robertscranton2358
@robertscranton2358 3 жыл бұрын
Give me a bowl and a spoon and this 'Merican will shovel it in!!🤣🤣 I loved when your Husband showed up and changed the entire dynamics, but that's what husbands are for 😁, having been one for 45 years!
@gwendolynfish2102
@gwendolynfish2102 3 жыл бұрын
That napkin fold is called The Bishops Hat! You guys are hilarious! Just started watch your Italy series!
@darlenechandler2403
@darlenechandler2403 3 жыл бұрын
Julie, I so enjoy your videos. You have a lovely disposition and sense of humour, and energy; and it is enjoyable. I so admire you adapting to England and so well. Love your dress. Love all of your videos.
@grisg.4121
@grisg.4121 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! This was the cutest video, Julie! And I adore that painting to your left- the nautical one above where the napkins should have been.
@Diana-yj2ko
@Diana-yj2ko 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliantly funny !! Thanks Julie and Luke.
@marilynpowell6881
@marilynpowell6881 3 жыл бұрын
How funny you two are!! "I'll get a takeaway" was a good idea, cuts out all the phaff!! ;) Thanks xxx
@Aurora-qn2dx
@Aurora-qn2dx 3 жыл бұрын
That room is lovely.. thankyou for sharing the table setting fun.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@nigeldewallens1115
@nigeldewallens1115 3 жыл бұрын
That was such fun to see! When my parents used to set dinner for friends and family, at for example, Christmas! they used to do just like you, re the glasses have different ones for different wines! they had Hock glasses but it was the 60'S! We never had a specific salade plate like the lovely ones you have! We used to use I think a plate to the left, but then that would have been also been for the bread plate? I was then 6-7 years of age! I was wondering where the soup spoon was actually! I will say well done to you, as it must be so daunting when you have not had the formal upbringing! I just learnt from watching what Restaurants would have done back then plus watching my parents too! Your dinning room looks stunning! How lovely to have the history around you too!
@LotusLady9
@LotusLady9 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Julie; interesting video. I have always felt intimidated setting a proper table.🌞
@michael7324
@michael7324 3 жыл бұрын
I love these videos Julie. Thank you and please keep posting.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@kathyk479
@kathyk479 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you Julie I would have gotten take out too! Lolol. You 2 are funny!
@Ellisif333
@Ellisif333 2 жыл бұрын
This is the first video of yours I have watched. You are both utterly charming! And, I would just like to say that, he had me confused about the whole layout too, so you're not alone in that!
@brendam5356
@brendam5356 3 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to learning how do you set a table please I need to know😀😍😍👏👏
@carringtonlefayette8644
@carringtonlefayette8644 3 жыл бұрын
Julie you are truly joyous and relaxed. My friends believe I am a riot as at every meal I use my best china, glass wear and linen napkins which I iron and hand wash. My Husband loves that I do what my Mummy did for each meal as we are special. Love your dress it is beautiful.
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Love that!
@-Anjel
@-Anjel 2 жыл бұрын
the half moon shaped plates are for bones. Nowadays bones are rarely left in, so the plates have become obsolete and are sometimes used for salads.
@tericapp9253
@tericapp9253 3 жыл бұрын
My Scotch/Irish mother in-law knew all things etiquette and would just love your videos. 🍽
@lindathurston7813
@lindathurston7813 3 жыл бұрын
Truly hysterical! I loved it! I had learned a lot of this growing up then married a Washingtonian who was totally clueless, so needless to say it was never used very much 😂
@AmericanViscountess
@AmericanViscountess 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@dharper9332
@dharper9332 3 жыл бұрын
I applaud you my dear it seems to be such a daunting thing to remember............so many services to remember. There should be a manual for all of this stuff LOL LOL LOL
@newfoundland3238
@newfoundland3238 3 жыл бұрын
Looks beautiful,when the food is served all attention goes to the food and hopefully great conversation and wine!Good job Cheers from Connecticut USA stay safe
@melissadriver7615
@melissadriver7615 2 жыл бұрын
You two are so cute together! Love watching you both.
@colleengiven5927
@colleengiven5927 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from Ontario Canada!! Love your channel! I have never seen the crescent shape dish before. Very cool. Oh bye the way we hug in Canada! Ha!!💝
@rachbryant
@rachbryant 3 жыл бұрын
This is great, would love a second round 😂😂
@kcstill3108
@kcstill3108 2 жыл бұрын
Oh no!!!! I remember learning how to set a table, but we never ate that many courses. I thought those smaller bowls with the handles on either side WERE the soup bowls. Hum…… glad my grandmothers aren’t around to see how much I’ve forgotten. You did great - just the napkin needed to be folded and you needed a separate bread plate.
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