Why A Controlling Husband Says His Wife Should Be Submissive To Him -- Dr. Phil

[@eb8555]

"ShE jUsT hApPeNs To Be In ThE LInE oF fIrE." 🙄 way to take responsibility for your actions...

[@mischafoxlysander8989]

What's the point of every other letter being capitalized (not sure I spelled it right)? Makes it hard to read and dumb.

[@lavendertownwotc6819]

Lmao but she’s not in the line of fire, she’s the TARGET

[@jesidillon4593]

And like what fire, hun? You're a pastor, not a WS Wolf

[@LuxeMindsetVibes]

The fact that he is a pastor and is suppose to be an example his congregation is what scares me. I hope he is not leading a male marriage ministry

[@lookdawg187]

Well Jesus did warn us about it. Also the verse about Jesus loving the Church... contradicts his actions, he literally lead people away from the Roman beliefs who created the Catholic Church, and denounced Synagoges... Jesus preached outside... If Jesus popped up this day and age, they'd call him the anti-Christ... Romans and Jewish had him killed, then spun it into a new religion to control the masses he tried to liberate. Matthew 23 Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples, 2 “The teachers (Pastors) of religious law and the Pharisees are the official interpreters of the law of Moses. 3 So practice and obey whatever they tell you, but don’t follow their example. For they don’t practice what they teach. 4 They crush people with unbearable religious demands and never lift a finger to ease the burden.5 “Everything they do is for show. On their arms they wear extra wide prayer boxes with Scripture verses inside, and they wear robes with extra long tassels. 6 And they love to sit at the head table at banquets and in the seats of honor in the synagogues. 7 They love to receive respectful greetings as they walk in the marketplaces, and to be called ‘Rabbi.’

[@roonil3931]

I mean, one of sylvia Likens' torturers grew up and became a pastor so

[@beckysnyder4591]

I went to a minister to talk about what my husband was like. He old me that you do as your Husband says no matter what. He did not believe a thing I told him. I left so upset I never went back to his Church.

[@thomasfristmd1876]

False prophets.

[@LD-tk7qf]

This is her chance to destroy him ! Make sure everyone at his church see’s this

[@Tomi-vw3fb]

he acts as if he's a catch

[@kermit3550]

The only thing he can catch is these hands 🙌 🤛

[@marieuwimana655]

@@kermit3550 lmfaoo

[@VintageRose75]

@@kermit3550 Boom!!👊 Mic drop!! 👋🎤

[@anononnl]

RIGHT????? LOLOL!

[@dinayooo3660]

this made me wheeze

[@katiedavies3732]

This is domestic abuse. He needs help and she needs to leave

[@firewings4742]

You are correct, and once she leaves, she needs to get help as well

[@Zeldagirlartist]

@@firewings4742 usually people don’t leave if they’re dependent. Definitely something she’ll have to figure out on her own if she ever wants to be happy

[@loubalker5635]

She is my aunt they are still together and have 4 kids now (my cousins)

[@drakelondon6849]

These are all paid actors.

[@princellpalaceoforganizing75]

Correction he don't need to do nothing but live breathe eat s*** and die now what she needs to do is step move on plain and simple and stop playing the damsel in distress victim

[@basiaturner4659]

as a Christian i am embarrassed of this guys claims..

[@effoff1]

As a Christian I'm embarrassed of Dr. Phil here. Ever heard of the time Jesus ran amok in the temple, in front of the congregation?

[@nanaadusei6604]

@@effoff1 he did that because the market was disrespectful in terms of the temple. Doctor Phil has a point

[@kattieenneper7369]

Yeah, actually the bible says that men should love his wife just as Christ loves the church. We are equal.

[@kattieenneper7369]

@Brian Karimian I am a Christian I believe I am saved by grace I do not believe that I have to work to be saved.

[@kattieenneper7369]

@Brian Karimian also Proverbs 31 is an excellent reading for this topic. Also the verse that says Husband love your wife as God loves the church it goes on to say that Christ died for the church. Husbands should be willing to sacrifice themselves for their wife.

[@penncakes07]

Abusers gotta stop saying “i don’t know why I act that way”

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

Some of them don't know, some of them do know. Sometimes it's mental illness that never got treated, and sometimes it's an issue of entitlement because they've never faced consequences or they don't care about anyone else.

[@saynotohookups]

@@imalionimaqueen7234 Nevertheless they are held accountable. Besides these guys are more than likely lying.

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

@@saynotohookups not disagreeing with you there. I definitely had a different mindset when I made my first comment. A lot has gone down since then.

[@oscarbear7498]

He's a man working on instinct of a alpha , nothing wrong. She's the problem. Feminism is trash 🗑

[@jaelyyymar8071]

“...my wife is in the line of fire.” And that’s when you know you have control issues!

[@alindaalexander5198]

that's when she should walk away

[@ShreeNation]

"Weaker vessel" This boy didn't get slapped hard enough by his mama.

[@sarasorensen2650]

His mama would have been slapped if she tried.

[@ShreeNation]

@@sarasorensen2650 Then he would've had his life rights taken away from his lifegiver right on the spot.

[@finalgirl640]

🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯

[@frankwoods4532]

hahahahahahaha, that's funny. But then she jumps in and halfheartedly defend him. [ well he's getting better. ] Why then are they on the show? He's a bully and he misrepresents the Bible.

[@ramathanfatima3963]

So true he needs a slap thare gon wake him up.

[@MegaJacko4]

I love how angry dr phil gets when this guy uses scripture to excuse his behaviour. And dr Phil slaps him down for abusing and manipulating the bible to further his own interest.

[@oliviagrace6914]

*Bible

[@MegaJacko4]

@@oliviagrace6914 Out of the 121 people who read and liked this comment you're the only one who felt the need to correct my grammar. So I'm really sorry you don't have anything better to do with your time.

[@SceptrePotter]

@@MegaJacko4 its not grammar, its basic respect for your Holy Book. I am jot christian btw. If you just want likes, don't comment

[@faithoverton5259]

Yes !!! I love that he slammed the guy for using the scripture as the guys agenda

[@wendygraham6863]

@@SceptrePotter hateful for a true christian, show some kindness like Jesus did

[@redooc223]

What a creep, both physically and emotionally.

[@kshitijsharma5974]

He is a real man

[@nousername8947]

@@kshitijsharma5974 pretty sad that u view that creature as your idea of a real man.🥴🤡

[@nyleac4389]

Do people just marry someone because they feel like they need to be married? If he has this mindset why would you marry him?

[@abbaker553]

People like him are usually good actors. Once the honeymoon phase ends, the true monster appears and remains. Decades of sorrow ensue, especially when a child is also involved.

[@dillonsamaroo2057]

This guy looks like he is hiding a pickle under his tongue

[@jameswilson3991]

he is a fruit loop linda in scotland

[@esmeraldaparker2137]

I've been wondering where I have seen him!

[@dola6354]

😂😂😂

[@tylerdavis8468]

@Waffleburp and there’s my ride 😰🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

[@SliceOfLizBee]

LOL

[@estheraruka6374]

He's a pastor but he is not a Bible scholar. The contradiction stinks to high heaven.

[@melinaframe5319]

Thank you for that comment Esther! It is one nasty contradiction.

[@ei_maj]

He's not even qualified to Pastor. He's been married and divorced how many times? The Bible gives specific qualifications on who is called to be a Pastor and a leader - and this guy doesn't meet em. 1 Timothy 3:1 KJV This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. 3:2 A bishop then must be blameless, *the husband of one wife,* vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; 3:3 Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; 3:4 One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; 3:5 (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?) 3:6 Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil. 3:7 Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.

[@christiandenault7606]

Actually, if we wish to be honest with each other, none of us are "Bible scholars" because the Bible, being the Word of God, is so complex that no one in history, other that the Lord, is able to fully comprehend it all.

[@ei_maj]

@@christiandenault7606 that's not true at all?

[@xlunadivinerx1585]

What a sad little man

[@donnahilton471]

Sad fat big man

[@josephdurkin8180]

I agree, he's scared she's gunna leave so he makes sure she cant

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

@@donnahilton471 LFMAOAOAO

[@kelelithabane2849]

small......

[@drmether9150]

Lmaooo he’s 6’5 and 350 pounds

[@shylamynainvestments3941]

OMG did he just say weaker vessel😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱 the nerve 🤢

[@fawnieee]

Women: can make an entire sentient human being, cell by cell, with barely even a drop of DNA This guy: WeAkEr VeSsEl

[@eileenlee3902]

@@fawnieee ....I know, right?

[@lookdawg187]

They're talking about weaker physically, which can be see in sports constantly. Here's what Muslims, Christians and Jewish claim, who all have a form of this in their books, it's more about protecting and honoring... rather than what dude makes it out to be. Peter 3:7 In the same way, you husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way [with great gentleness and tact, and with an intelligent regard for the marriage relationship], as with someone physically weaker, since she is a woman. Show her honor and respect as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered or ineffective.

[@lookdawg187]

@@fawnieee Being able to have a baby doesn't mean a woman is physically stronger, look at sports for example... or look at other mammals in nature.

[@user-zz4eu6tm2t]

@@lookdawg187 yes, men are typically substantially physically stronger, but what does that matter in a relationship? Im stronger than my friends, does that give me the right to rule over them because I could overpower them and force my will upon them? No. It doesnt.

[@deetag7621]

I just wanna thank my Mom for making me the badass that I am. I would have lasted 2 seconds in this marriage.

[@nala7658]

😂👍🏻

[@marie-ange3965]

I wouldn't have lasted 5 minutes into the first date! Wth he just say?!? Weaker vessel? Wife must submit? GTFOH!!!!

[@tameshabaptiste8397]

@@marie-ange3965 I wouldn't have gone to the date

[@marie-ange3965]

@@tameshabaptiste8397 the only way this guy even gets a date is by deception

[@mystical_shreya]

And i would have only left after teaching tht guy

[@Cac95]

I hate the idea of the submissive wife and controlling husband. A relationship should be a shared experience and needs to be open to each other about everything.

[@wendygraham6863]

Exactly, it should be a partnership

[@jayfabulous2801]

@@wendygraham6863 exactly! I am a christian and also a femenist, I believe God has created us different but equal!

[@gracieraths1930]

Hey look. A nice version of the way I was raised…. Imagine this man with a wife and 8 kids and he is a narcissistic preacher with a “ I’m a prophet” ego. This man is nice compared to my father.

[@AK-xi5vy]

Not for religious people tho: Ephesians 5:22 KJV Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 5:26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 5:27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

[@raghavnamasivayam5098]

@@jayfabulous2801 we like submissive women in bed

[@redooc223]

It’s his phone??? Total Red Flag there. Run, lady, run.

[@me-xx2gl]

1950s goals?? My father was a 1950s father. He did not order my mom around. He was not abusive to her. It worked for 60 years and my mom never withheld anything. She was independent although in keeping with the times. He would not tell her how to run the house or kerpbtrack of her. She never told him how to do his job. What a crock.

[@Orion227]

Thanks Dr Phil for showing he was manipulating scripture for his own purposes.

[@TheMissSmitten]

This guy forgot that one part in the Bible that says, “Husbands, LOVE your wives.”

[@claudia_chen]

He probably crossed that line out. * reading and highlighting * “ -Husbands, love your wives- Love them just as Christ loved the church.” That seems good enough.

[@RebekahAPinto]

not "Husbands, Control your wives".

[@ei_maj]

Yup. Ephesians 5:22 KJV Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 5:26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 5:27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

[@Stranger_Than_Fiction299]

If men focused on loving their wives as Christ loves the church- which is a very tall order if you truly meditate on it- they would be surprised how willing a woman would be to submit to that kind of love.

[@suchaxcapricorn6420]

nah im not “submitting.” idc how religious he is we’re equals

[@Stranger_Than_Fiction299]

@@suchaxcapricorn6420 color me unsurprised. People like doing things their own way then wonder why they get in a mess.

[@suchaxcapricorn6420]

@@Stranger_Than_Fiction299 ? huh i can make my own decisions thank you very much

[@Stranger_Than_Fiction299]

@@suchaxcapricorn6420 never said u couldn't.

[@casebased8391]

@@Stranger_Than_Fiction299 _“wonder why they get in a mess”_ Why assume they’re in a mess just because they don’t lead their lives according to your religion? Lol

[@fmlunchbox]

I really appreciate Dr. Phil shutting down his ability to blame it on his religion right away, without shitting on his religion. He just straight up told him he's wrong.

[@callesierra]

She is totally enabling his behavior. She chimes in with “ he is making strides”. O.M. G.

[@rachelgarber1423]

Well what happens is, she’s been beaten down so much she agrees with him, “enables” to keep the peace

[@morganthomas4050]

Christian community: we do not claim him

[@Dem0nD0ll]

Go read the above comments. Apparently, some of you do.

[@bellerain381]

Thank you!!! This guy likes to cherry pick the Bible to control his wife!

[@Maceman486]

@@bellerain381 To follow the bible you pretty much have to cherry pick. There are way too many contradictions to not cherry pick. There are so many different denominations of Christianity because people cherry pick. I guarantee you that you yourself cherry pick the bible in some way.

[@yudasrain4774]

@@Maceman486 false read the kjv and apocrypha even the bible say not to cherry pick "precept upon precept".

[@sunburntsilverado7665]

I like your name 😃

[@thebohomom]

Sara, your husband is ABUSIVE. My ex husband was the same way. It finally went so far as to him starving me and our children and telling me "if I just prayed harder and was a better mormon, God would provide for us". He will end up abusing you until your broken and I pray you've left his disgusting little self far far behind

[@vixxxenfoxxx3660]

Oh my, I thank the moon & stars you were courageous and strong enough to not only recognize the harm but leave it. How dare anyone, may it be man or woman, blame their partner for such garbage behavior.

[@tyjopopp2164]

That's sad, I'm glad you are in better place and left him.

[@catherinemcgovern293]

That dude has serious issue, wife needs to RUN

[@m.e.b.255]

He's not the bread winner, he's the bread eater.

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

IM CRYIRNDJSKSKS STOPP

[@stephaniealvarez1260]

🤣💀

[@preciousgoje2193]

ahahhahahahaah

[@Anonymous_Belle]

Hahaha 😄

[@d820m]

She ain't missed any meals herself, big as she is

[@severetiredamage6754]

I hope she became her own person, outside of that relationship.

[@Gun5hip]

Women need to stop enabling men like this, ditch them, ignore them, refuse them. Don't marry them if they want to acquire a mate then they'll just need to behave or be alone.

[@oscarbear7498]

Women want these sorry soy boys weak men until it's gets real. Then they want the big aggressive men to defend them. Dude is trying his best to be a cute little kitty cat, but just by his sheer mass alone, he's a tiger 🐅 not sure why he has a thirt for blood at the petting zoo lol

[@theoneonyoutube4925]

@@oscarbear7498 Aggressive men don’t protect anything but their glass egos. _That_ is true weakness.

[@mangafq8]

So weaker vessels bear children, right Jason?

[@fawnieee]

I'd love to see this guy go through building an entire sentient human being, cell by cell with barely a drop of DNA. The body being torn and ripped apart all to produce a baby and birth it, changing the entirety of the bodies hormones and still call women the "weaker vessel" 🙄

[@neoklein7775]

That's true weaker vessel bears children, in the household the husband leads and the wife must submit to the husband

[@neoklein7775]

@@fawnieee its in the bible and you can find it in 1 peter 3 7

[@fawnieee]

@@neoklein7775 Jesus would laugh at you. Why do Christians cherry pick what they like and don't like about the bible? In the new testament jesus constantly defended women and told men to treat them respectively, I highly doubt he would agree the controlling and a busing women. He literally told men to cut off their arms if they couldn't stop themselves from touching women without consent, to pluck out their eyes if they couldn't control their lust. "Love your wife as Christ loved the church" is in the bible, I'm not even religious but I think jesus would vehemently disagree that controlling and a busing your wife is okay. 🙃

[@neoklein7775]

@@fawnieee cherry pick? Maybe you are not familiar with the doctrine of dispensationalism, and about Jesus teaching men to treat women respectfully you meant by telling men to not commit adultery?

[@rebeccagerber6370]

Well-said, Dr Phil. This man is controlling and possessive, and I truly hope his wife broke free- she's deserves better.

[@janedoe7229]

My God I’m glad I’m divorced and no longer date. It’s just me, my puppy and kitty. And the grandchildren visit when I want.

[@teresewecker]

Hey Jane Doe,, I hear you there.. I have my three boys at home,, which are my cats.. I'm an attractive 62-year-old woman.. and I don't want to deal with a man's drama,, his kids, grandkids or his erectile dysfunction...

[@carolmartin4068]

A wife is not a dog she’s a human being.

[@MegLeb2010]

She is 100% in abusive marriage. He may not beat her but he is abusing her. Anytime your partner has a tracker on your phone they have definitely crossed the line. He needs to get himself help and if not she needs to leave him.

[@prettylyricsmarie]

He is insecure, so he must know where she is at every time.

[@natashawigley5552]

I cringed so much when she started speaking. Everything that came out of her mouth was classic signs of an abuse victim - she's scared of how he might be later so she's trying to please him by defending him.

[@tonyacaliendo2351]

Dr Phil Thank you for exposing doctrinal truths as distortion with a man who is just plain insecure and abusive!! Thank you so much. Its sickening to hear this.

[@happyfeet9893]

I really find it offensive when people use scriptures for their own agenda...so true.👍👍👍

[@catanalinacazenave130]

Why does he sound so proud about punching a wall next to his wife? *Yea your truly a man of God ain't cha*

[@supernovatarot1928]

Damn this man had the balls to admit he's a narcissist without even saying. he describe everything about a narcissist.

[@ranitagadling4312]

The fact that it took her this long to publicly call him on his BS & embarrass him beyond belief is extremely embarrassing for her not so much for him.

[@pettc6757]

She sounds like the typical abused wife. He's a bully and needs help. I find that big, tall men have inflated egos.

[@tatyanaperez8193]

Thats why i teach my Son how a women is important and deserves loves and respect.

[@eaglemgtow2789]

Teach your bloody daughter that

[@Chapa24.]

Sarah obviously looks like she’s defending him out of fear of him. She’s been groomed.

[@cookie_dough_hangover]

Quite possibly, but how did they end up on TV is beyond me.

[@carlaprimrose902]

Yup another one using the bible as a crutch🤦🏼‍♀️he should research the meaning of submission

[@southernarts4443]

If he considers himself a stronger vessel, I would love to see an episode in which he had to go through eight hours hooked to a pregnancy labor simulator. THEN let him see who's the weaker vessel. LOL

[@helenedahlsveen93]

She is so broken.... she makes excuses for him... this is so sad

[@wilfredocaraballo4894]

Just hearing her starting to talk to dr phil i can instantly see that she se is scared of her husband so she's defending him

[@belinda6829]

He is absolutely HIDEOUS on all levels. 🤮🤮🤮

[@francescacampobasso6781]

sis leave him as fast as you can...man like this are no good and they will never change...i hope the best for every womyn like her!

[@remorselesscuckslayerii8276]

This is not a traditional marriage, this guy is a control freak.

[@discoveringlisa486]

He’s not fit to be a pastor. God never told husbands to bully and intimidate their wives.

[@FreeSpear]

"Line of fire".

[@cookie_dough_hangover]

He should be grateful that he even has a wife!

[@inthelandofmorethansmall7582]

What he is describing is NOT SUBMISSION. This is abuse. SUBMISSION is VERY DIFFERENT

[@njgiggles100]

There is nothing wrong with religion (and I'm not religious by any means) but people take what they want from their religous studies instead of taking it for what it is.

[@SylusLady]

Couldn’t have said it any better

[@elainedeming2822]

Girl, move in with your mom, get a job and live in PEACE! You have so much time left to live and so many adventures to have. Your husband is blanketing his ogre type of behavior in our Lord. 🌞

[@thuhanguyen2367]

“I don’t think Christ was abusive with the church” 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼

[@thecalmingspace7242]

Independent nature with a submissive characteristic... What does that even mean? I don't think this guy knows what he's talking about.

[@daishar8647]

I think his behavior is overcompensating for something.😂

[@tianaharrisingh7013]

I agree 😎

[@ncchia]

This is such an attack on Christianity. Then he puts himself in a pastoral light to be credible so he can construe the truth. Thank you Dr. Phil for putting this hypocritic in his place and standing up for Christ's meaning.

[@protohass]

Finally a Dr Phil video without disabled comments

[@afeefacellularhamzacellula4730]

Thats why women should always give their daughters the best education and they never have to have a man like this in their lives, she csn be independent and totally not controlled by anyone

[@kageoashj2912]

No one: This caring mother: 👁 👁 | 👄

[@diehie3820]

I dont know how she could let someone looking like that control her.. bruhhh

[@andrealynn776]

Dr. Phil nailed that verse to a T. The submission comes from the love

[@mayte_j4008]

why would u follow a book that was written hundreds years ago, when woman was seen as an object???. Sarah, just let him go, he is wrong and abusive

[@joshcollier5768]

2:27 robin gets wet in the pants when ever dr. phil puts someone in their place

[@elisemiller13]

classic abuser enabler relationship.... as to his abusive behavior and i perhaps missed it if anyone has noted....she defended him...classic behavior, typical denial by the one being abused...hard work to break this cycle, but it can be done....myself, I had to leave and do deep work so I wouldn't get involved in such a relationship again

[@dollypartonhurry8862]

He's no prize!

[@aaroncrawford5638]

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.”Ephesians 5:25 | KJV go love your wife sir

[@hannahmartin475]

“I don’t know why I’m an abusive piece of garbage that lies about gods word”

[@Dem0nD0ll]

That’s pretty much most Christians

[@caitlinsalinas70]

this is what we call ✨toxic✨

[@paulakarwowski]

Who would want him to even touch you.

[@youllmakeit4546]

Submit to your man ladies. You're his queen, obey him, respect him, it's not about you or how you can benefit.

[@beataslupecka1177]

Exactly I agree !👏💯

[@TurkyPirlo21]

Give this man some props, he admitted that he does not know why he is doing that, which he is totally open to change his behavior when he knows the reason

[@elizabethkizzar5489]

Has this guy ever seen the movie "The Burning Bed" because he's gonna be the lead in the reboot if he keeps pushing her.

[@ashleyoreilly5327]

I live in a traditional family and not all traditional husbands are controlling like this. I think controlling husbands use the traditional lifestyle to cover for their insecurities sometimes and trick the woman they're with with the lifestyle so she has no way out. It's fine to live life in gender roles as long as both people agree it's what's best for their family and both people are happy. I bet she wouldn't care about her traditional role if he wasn't such a jerk.

[@elainecottrill6082]

Actually a wife is not a weaker vessel. But to be treated like a weaker vessel.

[@TheMissSmitten]

BRO, Dr Phil preaching it up here. Thank you Jesus.

[@kimgaskey8416]

I agree with Dr Phil. A true loving God fearing husband is supposed to love his wife as God loves the church. This guy is not doing that! He's doing it wrong!

[@amaliemorales7463]

how can someone be independent but also submissive ??

[@helenburns6914]

She needs to leave before things escalate

[@taylor4778]

He reminds me of my ex and his mother. I helped my ex become an ordained minister, and he turned on me using the Bible to try and justify divorcing me. His mother was involved with a little store front "church" and would try to guilt me with her interpretation of the Bible. She had once been a pastors wife and I guess she couldn't stand not being the center of attention anymore. The comical thing is, my father-in-law was a retired Methodist minister, and God love him, he was the only person in this mess that ever accepted me for me, despite the fact I was/am Catholic. I never heard him try to use the Bible to make people feel guilty or as his own personal weapon against people. I have to wonder if he had lived if my marriage would have ended when it did. He passed away, and it was only a couple of years later that my ex and I divorced with him blaming me for everything and using the Bible to try and justify his actions. I feel sorry for any of his past, present or future followers! And, he wasn't a very good husband. Secretive, demeaning, sneaky and a fairly heavy drinker as time went by.

[@mig7290]

He sounds suspicious. Maybe he's got a good reason to be suspicious.

[@saynotohookups]

Not necessarily.

[@christinerewell9954]

She needs to leave him!

[@zenebornman7917]

Dr Phil strikes again! 😃❤❤

[@ViolenziaDomestica]

2:32 Robin just beaming with pride for her husband 🥰

[@GeorgeFafa]

The church wasnt even invented when Jesus was around, but he did smash a synagogue up pretty good! Allegedly...

[@stanwatt1423]

That was because of the evil that was taking place in the Synagogue a righteous indignation if you will . A follow of Christ should always stand against evil !! This Pastor needs help and admits he is failing those of you with out sin cast the first stone.

[@GeorgeFafa]

@@stanwatt1423 Not even drunk or on drugs would evil be a fitting description for a market in a building. This pastor is beyond help, he can not think for himself, he should join a eunuch monastery and spare us his idiocy, and especially spare that woman the life she is losing.

[@angiefromnairobi]

"Weaker vessel"??? TF🤮

[@susandavey2361]

He acts this way because he's scared she's going to kick his sorry arse to the curb and find herself a real man let's have it she can do wayyyyyyy better she so pretty

[@anniewallace3601]

It's his phone.... that's so sad that she has been beaten to the point where she doesn't view her possessions as hers because he provided it for her. It's a gift.

[@karmanovec626]

I wouldnt be caught dead submitting to a man

[@andrealeigh8123]

Are there more of this episode? I want to see Dr. Phil set this A-hole straight!

[@christinaf713]

Women are NOT the weaker vessel lol. I'd like to see any man have the strength to bear children!! Not only that but if he has to feel the need to be in control and force her to be submissive, then HE is the weak one!! He is just afraid and insecure! An ex if mine also twisted up the wording regarding submission in the Bible to try to convince others that he should be in control. It is NOT ok. And God would never treat someone like that. A husband is supposed to live his wife as God loves the church. Manipulation and control is NOT loving!!!!

[@tblasley1700]

From the perspective of someone who was educated in the Bible for over 13 years but is no longer a Christian, I can definitely tell you that there's at least 10 verses that say specifically, "wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands." Although most of the specifics aren't important in Christianity which is what people like this guy get wrong. The few verses that say that your wife should submit herself to you are far less important in Christianity than the countless verses that talk about achieving salvation through Christ, which is the most important principle in the religion. As for verbally abusing your wife, the Bible strongly recommends against that.

[@effoff1]

Exactly, and Jesus did verbally scream at the congregation and ran amok. Dr. Phil is factually wrong here

[@gabrielacard7050]

@@effoff1 omfg shut up .

[@psychedelicpayroll5412]

@@gabrielacard7050 No. he’s right. Their is a story of Jesus getting angry and throwing chairs and destroying stuff at them when they were having a flee market inside the temple.

[@anoushkafonseca9353]

@@psychedelicpayroll5412 yeah true but I'm pretty sure he did that because they were misusing the temple right ?

[@psychedelicpayroll5412]

@@anoushkafonseca9353 Yes. It also was what got it destroyed by the order of Emperor Nero. They hid all their money in the temple when the Romans said they stopped paying their taxes to them as a protest.

[@merryhunt9153]

Wife says he acts like a 1950's husband. I was alive in the 1950's and normal men did not act like this. Whatever century this man lived in, he would be a bully and a weirdo. 2. He claims to be a pastor. Ask him what seminary he graduated from. .

[@theokhotsa7146]

Did they turn on the comments👀

[@KingStr0ng]

*Dr Phil:* "Roast this man."

[@randilamkins5095]

It is pastors like this that keep people away and there are a ton of them!