WHY AFRICANS DO NOT DATE BLACK AMERICANS.

[@rodericklee3939]

Interesting conversation. Like anything, we must not assume that all African Americans are alike. Popular, current Black American culture and individuals are different. We must get to know each other instead of judging African Americans by media. I was friends with an African woman for nearly two years. The friendship turned into a relationship. I have met her family, paid a dowry, married her, and I am learning her language. This video was somewhat disappointing because it appeared that there was more negativity than positivity. It is what it is. I will continue loving, enjoying my wife, and building with her while the stereotypes continue. lol

[@lastzulu180]

nice job bro

[@khathu919]

💯

[@bigk2198]

Brother, the premise of this video is false. I'm a retired black American living in Kenya, and I get more women than I have time to accommodate. I have several black American friends in Kenya also, and they all have young fine African girlfriends. I understand this sister has to come up with these video topics to get clicks but in this case, she is off base.

[@Andrew-gq2ot]

As a Foundational American Bm I guarantee you we don't sit around and focus on nothing like this. And after 500yrs removed from the African Continent we're Americans culturally where we've developed our own unique style and culture especially depending on what region of America we're from. It's a style that today drives a lot of social media, influenced America therefore the world through political movements, literature, Religion with the concept of Black Liberation Theology, sports, science, agriculture, art, music, dance , fashion. In fact we've made being black cool worldwide at a time when the image of Black people was that of being uncivilized, cannibalistic, Tarzan, King Solomon Mines movies-- We challenged that and Won. We introduced Pan Africanism, Black Nationalism and quoted "Africa is for the African" Martin L Delany 1812-1885 So I think the question should be the other way around about dating and marrying----- For American Bm who're Military officers, Police officers, fire fighters, White Collar and Blue Collar Professionals, Small Business and property Owners, Athletes Entertainers, -----52% are single , 64% are middle class and 8% are Millionaires... So the question should be the other way around ladies

[@amehka5416]

Oh please, I know plenty of Africans married to black Americans.

[@lordknowd37]

No the difference is that some African women are watching how African American women are and acting that way. Wanting material things that they see on TV and expecting African men to provide it in a financially scarce environment. An that same women expects it immediately from a African American man. Men from all cultures want traditional women. The problem is now these women don't want to be or act traditional. A man's worth is based on how many gucci bags can he buy for you and the sad part is that the gucci bag is for showing it off to other women on social media. That's what it's about now

[@maliksy7746]

Right

[@kierrafoster-ba2770]

Also, did I hear that quote correctly..."When I look at TV..." Is that where you get your information from??? Make it make sense.

[@africaine4889]

Obviously they have all their opinions from tv and youtube

[@joshuajackson7050]

Facts

[@Africanchild825]

Indeed! The people who control the media have been the oppressors of AA for centuries.

[@louisianashadowwalkersonof6138]

Hey family I am just seeing this and I have a question. From their own mouth they both agreed that FBA men have no traditional connection. So my question is do they feel white and Asian men have a traditional connection with them?

[@markelraya10]

But we don’t care tho, most Africans are not attractive and are super dark skin. Black American men go for white women.

[@babatundeorisadele2095]

Greetings Ndagire. Wow. If a man is asking for nude pictures in a very short amount of time That’s like a woman asking for money to take care of her bills. Both situations are not acceptable. Both sides of looking for a serious relationship should spend time together learning each other’s cultures. We have to break the American brainwashing that has broken down our relationships. So just be aware of who you’re dealing with. There are fast people on both sides. So really spend time observing them before you get into them. ❤

[@maliksy7746]

Right, the brainwashing on both still exists

[@DetroitMuscle]

They don't hear you though because they are arrogant and dismissive of black American history and culture. It's all good. We don't need them

[@Ndagire]

I appreciate your commentary 🖤

[@dietrichdietrich7763]

Nobody is a monolithic.

[@deaundreashannon8289]

I think us as US Africans have adopted our oppressors attitude. I see my African brothers and sisters still have culture, a sense of self. That was stripped from us. This must be understood by our family on the continent.

[@kylerobinson8913]

African Americans are African. We have not lost our culture. It is in our DNA. If Black people in America are not African because we weren't born on the continent, Whites, Indians , Asians and Arab born in Africa have every right to call themselves African and are entitled to everything a Black African is entitled to on the Continent. Can't have it both ways...

[@desmondnathalielewisthelio7776]

Africans have to understand black Americans had thier African culture strip away from them they're had no choice. Some Africans don't understand that African culture is black people culture our ancestors came from there we didn't get the experience to be in the motherland. You guys got all that experience some African forget that is our culture also don't get twisted is no different one group had the experience the other group had no choice.

[@Smitty753]

I'm sick and tired of people saying we don't have culture no human being does not have a culture American culture is really not European culture is not African culture is not Hispanic culture it's all those cultures mixed into one Europeans in America are not the same type of people the culture change the United States has a lot of African culture go to the South to the foods and even to the style people talk also the agriculture and architecture that is something us as a people need to stop saying because we don't study our own history in see all the contributions culture-wise we gave to the United States we created Memorial Day come on now let's stop with all this BS black American culture is the most popular culture in the world

[@vergespierre4271]

Huh? What are you talking bout,smh

[@minimike8923]

Most African American men I meet had the best interactions dating and marring African women compared to any race of woman in the USA a American feminist and a African feminist are completely different

[@Ndagire]

That's beautiful 🖤🖤

[@benbo7042]

Don't be fooled. Have you heard of the word ' PRETENTIOUS ' ? Wait until you get in . It is then that you will know what you are into.

[@minimike8923]

@@benbo7042 my dad is African and my mom is black American I already know

[@mikejones-wn1sw]

@minimike8923 and that is a very rare union. We don't typically date nor marry african people

[@minimike8923]

@@mikejones-wn1sw yea it is pretty rare I see very opposite cultures between my parents

[@richardlittlejohn7549]

You should be careful not to generalize that all African American men are the same or a certain way because of one experience with one African American. We are very different and diverse in our personalities, our values and attributes. You can pick any two African American men from the whole population of Africa American men and there are no two that are alike. Where we are alike is that we share the same culture, other than that we are very different and have our own individual personality traits and way of interacting with the world. I'm speaking as an African American man myself. Also, don't be fooled or buy into the stereotypes that you see from America. The movies, tv, media, or any other negative images that you see coming from America, cause they are false and not a true or accurate representation of the population of African American men as a whole. Anyway really I enjoy your show, keep it up.

[@Smitty753]

I can agree with that because I can generalize and say most African women have an affinity for white men when they come to the United States do you see it all the time a African woman told me she doesn't have a preference for white men but all her children are by two separate white men one that abuser so they full of crap and the girl in the green hair sells box so she can go on talking about the way we are LOL they don't really know if they just know from what they see on TV

[@ralphwrightengineer]

So, on the one hand, ya'll don't want African American men to treat you like modern women by asking for nudes and moving too fast but then in the same breath, you also don't want him to treat you like you're a traditional African woman or come with preconceived notions of that. How does that make any sense? You're either treated as modern or traditional.

[@Kyle-fp5lm]

Evidence that woman all over the world, truly do not know what they want.

[@senecaureliuslocke9432]

As a FBA man i can confidently say that you don't need to be concerned about us being inflexible to your culture. That's literally the primary reason we're interested in you. We want an African woman because we long to reconnect to our home. Our stolen culture and our women. If anyone has ever tried to diminish other cultures it certainly isn't us...

[@Girlgonewise]

I agree this. I want my sons and daughters to marry women and men from the the continent. As an African born in the Caribbean, I want my children to know their roots and embrace it more than I did as a child.

[@lawrencedesmondleach]

I just watched your video on my TV. I turned on my computer so it could be easier to type a comment. Ndagire, you are very attractive to me. I like you a lot. I live in Atlanta, USA, Georgia, and if I was there in Uganda, I would treat you the same way that I would treat any woman, including the women here in America. I fell in love with Uganda a long time ago. I started learning Luganda, the cultures, the food. I heard you say in another video that you all look up to us Black Americans. Fact is, many of us look up to and admire you guys. You should see how we act when we even mention the word Uganda. You guys make us so happy to even listen to you. I know one guy who has tears every time he looks at the people of Uganda. You guys make so many of us happy. We want to come so bad. Not to mention the music. Many of us don't even listen to American music anymore. We like Apass, Rema and much more. We don't talk about coming to Africa to help. We talk about coming to Africa to LEARN HOW to help, or be a productive member of that society, and we are ready to LISTEN AND LEARN from you guys. You'd be surprised at how many of us right here in my own circle admire and love you guys. We're not bad people over here in the USA. We just have to learn how to 'be African.' I say that because that's where we want to be . . . in Africa. This is getting long and there is so much more to say, but just remember that there are many, many, many and many of us over here that admire, look up to and want to be with you guys. sula bulungi. spend the night well. talk to you later. nkwagala. L

[@chilombomululu6034]

I think things have changed now .am happy to be seeing marriages between AA +africans.these are beautiful connections powerful too❤🎉

[@Ndagire]

That's beautiful 🖤🖤

[@lastzulu180]

i love africa alot to learn tho

[@Hadda23]

Mostly African men and African American women

[@chilombomululu6034]

@@lastzulu180 we cn always learn from each other

[@jobcritic6281]

Wait I’m black American and I dated plenty of African women in America alone. I can only say this in certain countries people tend to stick to there own kind. I had girlfriends from Kenya, SA, Liberia, Cameroon, DRC and Rwanda. But I went out on successive dates with Burkina Faso, Nigerians, Taz’s, Somalians, Guinea Basu, Sierra Leone, Tongo and Ivory Coast. I think because of the cultural differences is what makes black peoples stay away from pursing relationships with women from the continent. In the history of America there was always a movement to deafricanized the African Americans. They wasn’t allowed to speak there language practice the culture nor eat the food. And it’s funny to this day white people hate when black Americans try to connect with their African past

[@naye5178]

You ladies are speaking on the female perspective understandably. But here in the states African men follow BW around like lost puppies😂

[@redsak5311]

They want a green card or something from them. Or they are not good quality men. No proud man does that.

[@Capius1272]

Damn. That's cold though... "you want to get to know me leave my body out of it"... yeah. Respect.

[@mikejones-wn1sw]

This is comedy, we definitely are not lining up to get with any african nor visit africa. That goes for the pur women and men. Hey if this makes africans feel better than have at it.

[@williejohnson487]

Ndagire, did not ask her the governing question: Why do you exclude African Americans but no other African diasporas like Caribbeans, South Americans, Mexicans, UKers; they too have different customs and values Ugandans.

[@tamarabrown5603]

I'm AA and My husband is Nigerian. 😂 He love me and I love him.

[@brendavauters6059]

The boldness comes from 500 years of oppression. This seems to be a problem for you young people who have a need to be labeled African or African American. So many of us have been married, dated, built families with people who looked like us rather than our oppressors.

[@Ndagire]

That's beautiful dear, more blessings 🖤🥰

[@northernking2604]

And that's all that matters

[@GG-jn9fx]

🙌🏾🖤

[@Capius1272]

My experience. Not that it matters. Nigerians (seemingly) relate to "us" much better than others on the continent. I dated a Nigerian woman and it was an insane situation. A good woman no doubt. I also learned a lot from her. Age was our demise. I was simply too young minded. Congratulations to you and I wish it become worthwhile. Plus your children can experience that side of them. Much love to Nigerians they acclimate seemingly better.

[@blackworldtraveler8920]

wow . stop watching reality shows. Black Americans are nothing like this. I'm Black American. Don't know who you've met.

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

I am black american and I live in Texas. Both of you would fall in love with me immediately. 😊😊😊

[@Hadda23]

Nope 👎🏾

[@Ohsnapitzann]

I get along so much better with hispanic people ( especially puerto rican people) they are very friendly,helpful and supportive towards me.

[@godbody5993]

That statement is racist

[@hillieduvalier]

So? Troll alert😅

[@missy652]

Whether what you said is truth or not, you are really in a sunken place just saying some BS like that.

[@Train2Liv]

Just learning about this channel and find it very informative! As an African American man, I’m planning to travel abroad in various countries with thoughts of living abroad. Hearing these lady’s perspectives helps me to know I DEFINITIVELY need to carefully experience continental Africa as well as other cultures BEFORE finalizing my plans! The last thing I need in a romantic relationship is to be with a woman that values many of “western” practices, beliefs, and values! 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️✈️🌏

[@isaiasgonzalez1919]

Your oppressors are people of your own race. They put you down within your community having a resemblance to you. Other African Americans are your oppressors

[@gsmd770]

As a Afro-American man I find this funny. We had to build our own culture,because our ties to Africa we're totally cut. So of course,we can't have have the same traditions or ways. We are the same,but at the same time different. It's called divide & conquer. Be easy.

[@DeanJones-cl8od]

There are many different type of AA men in America. We do have have values. The media type is what you're describing. Also this is new too a lot of AA men. These different types of platforms allows for interactions. Time and maturity makes a difference.

[@joshuajackson7050]

The media literally does the same to them, portraying all africa as backwards flies flying all over the place and dirty that's why a lot of Americans scared to go so it goes both ways.

[@lastzulu180]

@@joshuajackson7050 facts

[@GG-jn9fx]

Exactly it’s like 20million AA men, from all walks of life. You can’t just put us in a box because of experience with a few.

[@vernontrumpet2000]

I am an African American married to an African woman and we get along FINE

[@weskerwillie9044]

I enjoyed your interview. It's common from a very honest perspective and I think your videos need to be shared to more rp spaces.

[@LosAngelesMade]

I’ve been all over kenya nigeria South Africa and girls are easy to get just be urself and be a good dude they will love you! Just be open minded bcus many things we won’t understand about them but I’ve learned to be open to different cultures of our people

[@Hadda23]

I know city girls are easy. I personally would not date African American men

[@Hadda23]

Cheap girls. I would never date abm

[@TallT43]

I always wanted to date and possibly marry a African woman. Have worked and still work with ones who are nice but they already be taken. Would treat one like a queen

[@Ugandanprincessankoleprincess]

Keep trying your luck good African women are still there .

[@darrenhunter6000]

A Africanwoman informed me that Africanmen have told them not to date a Nubianman several have told them

[@benbo7042]

Why should Africans date them? They have different culture. They , more likely than not, will solve problems with violence. There will be issues at home when the African woman wants to help her family.

[@GG-jn9fx]

You believe everything them colonizers tell you huh? Lol

[@TreyMessiah95]

So why are you dating white people then? By the same logic right.

[@LosAngelesMade]

I haven’t watched the video and already know it’s cap bcus I’ve dated atleast 10 African women and my gf is Nigerian

[@shaqb4454]

Great convo. I feel people don’t usually know this but the current AA culture only really took hold in the 90’s. Normal AA people are morally upright, usually conservative leaning with some liberal tendencies. Unfortunately, men like me are often abandoned and ignored by AA women after the cultural shift of the 90’s so now we’re leaving for other places with African women such as Africa and Brazil(the Black side of Brazil).

[@mtheVisionary7.]

I think it would be better if you connected with some African American content creators in Uganda like Oshay Jackson,Safi Prince,Willie Fungo and Brandon and Hajara who have a show called How I met my Ugandan wife,they are better suited to speak on this subject. FYI African men date AA women in the states and vice versa.Most of the talking points were based upon tv and social media and not by real life experiences and interactions

[@abeautifulheart]

Finally, they were on Oshay Also these ladies are pretty young and are speaking from a young person’s experience

[@head-like-a-milk-dud963]

As I black American man I think this was pretty interesting but there was a lot of truths. I’ll never kneel before a child. I wouldn’t care what his title is. Lol

[@jahmala5336]

I love the both of you, and I think that both of you make a good team, communicating the issues of the day. Having it done by two young, and beautiful ladies, Kudos. Keep up the great work. 1❤🌷🌷

[@Capius1272]

This video should have way more views. I searched this because an African woman came up to me and asked where was I from. I said I am American born and she smiled and walked away 😂! The taboo is horrid because I would love the woman/mother of my child to add cultural relevance to my childs life. I love the advise of pretty much allowing the person to be "them".

[@mushluvdbyjah9202]

If you can't treat each other as respectful human beings, what's the point?

[@DetroitMuscle]

These are the types that are extremely disrespectful to black Americans.

[@freaqkwenccplanettv6424]

Peace sisters iam.a.african black American man!!! I think the two of you are so beautiful, elegant,passionate,and super intelligent!!! I understand your perspective but it's not like that with every African American man! You have to judge on a 1 on 1 not a grouping!!! But I will just say that we must get past this mindset and begin to love each other more and take the time to.incorporate more meaningful communication!

[@Ndagire]

One love 🖤🖤

[@themelanatedmr.mosley]

Greetings Sista. Do you have an email address for your subscribers to get in touch with you, share ideas, or shed light on some of your content?

[@brenda3888]

Sounds like she's basing her info from television/ media which we know is acting- pure entertainment and not the culture of AA at all.

[@charleswise1045]

It's the men she picks! All of us are not like this

[@GG-jn9fx]

🎯🎯🎯

[@charlesmassaquoi6717]

I think you're talking to the wrong Black American men. I agree its very disrespectful to ask a woman for a nude photo., especially if you're to know each other. Please don't generalize.

[@jahmala5336]

Love you both, I'm happy to see your friend, on with you today. You should have more discussion on a variety of existential topics, so that you can teach us the pros and con of moving to Africa. Culture and the family structure is very important for Ugandan's and for the Pan-Africanist. Great program... 1❤Ladies 🌷🌷

[@daemanelprince7763]

We're not Africans just a black Americans

[@destinyadam1160]

Never date Africa America they don't have culture

[@MightyAnt47]

Y’all watch to much tv then judge black Americans off what you see on social media 🤦‍♂️

[@saiyanpryme219]

African descendant born in UK, married to an African American. We get along.fine because we are both hueman beings with great overstanding

[@Dcthevoice]

This is sad..... As a black man I didn't choose to be born in America! I would have loved to date and marry a african woman and this is so disappointing.

[@darrenhunter6000]

For me being a Virtuiousman and Ashanti and of Royal blood in my viens Black is Black I only would date and marry a Blackwoman

[@BowdenBrothersBourbonBroadcast]

The dating cultures are definitely different from here in the states than it is in countries on the continent. Both sides have to be open to adjusting to each others ways of moving. I have some experience dating on the continent and it takes work and an open and understanding mindset to what we don't know about each other.

[@darrellgamble00]

It took me a long time to be with my Kenyan wife. And I would have waited longer if she needed me to. Yall trippen!

[@wills6226]

I first want to say that I’m an African American Man and I love your videos, now With that said, I strongly disagreed with many points you made in this video, I understand the misconceptions you have of black Americans men is based on your sources, which I’m sure mostly is from social media and online dating. While my preference would be a more traditional woman, there are many men in America, who do not share my opinions. In fact I would even say I’m the minority. Please, let’s not put out false information about African-Americans like the media has been doing to Black people as a whole for years. Culture is the only obstacle standing in between African-Americans and Africans when it comes to relationships.

[@audiechampion7297]

Ladies, you are doing way too much stereotyping. There are over 40 million Black people in the United States. How many African American men have you met? I've heard some pretty negative things about women from Uganda, but I'm intelligent enough not to judge the entire population of Ugandan women based on something negative that I've heard.

[@kenyattamufumbey.4785]

We are not African Americans I wish people stop calling us this. We are indigenous to America.

[@vergespierre4271]

Exactly 💯

[@RussellDale6019]

This seems like a lie to me. I'm just saying I mean like how many African-Americans has she met. Most of us what West African women anyway

[@Ndagire]

Am always happy to hear you with AFRICANs

[@kylerobinson8913]

@@Ndagire We are African....

[@kylerobinson8913]

@@Ndagire Its not our fault we were sold, stolen, raped, enslaved and taken from our homeland. We are still African.

[@dacoolman6837]

@@kylerobinson8913 Facts!!!

[@hillieduvalier]

The young lady speaking her experience.. typical AA reactions.. smh

[@maryfaye1327]

Not true at all in the states there are many African men that are married to African American ladies. And have been for many of years. So I really don't know whom it is that you are speaking of. And all African American people are not the same. African Americans have their own culture. And that is very good. They were not born in Africa. They were born in America USA. So they are FBA. Proudly They had nothing to do with themselves being born their. However they are a proud people yes. And have every right to be. Because they have fought every step of the way to sub stained themselves in the system that have always been against. And that takes strength and endurance. And that takes strength and Goodwill and power to do that. And they didn't run away from the country that they are boring in. Even though they are oppressed on a daily basis. They have made a life for themselves in America. And yes they have ties to the African continent through their ancestors and blood line. And yes they do want to connect to their ancestors mother land. But they will not begg the African on the continent to connect with them . They have reached out to Africa in many ways showing that they love their people there on the continent and want to get to know them in many ways. But yet some how they are not welcomed as other groups of people. There is always some type of negativity shown and spoken towards them from their own people on the African continent. When they truly do not really know African Americans. It is rather unfortunate. And when they do go to visit their mother Land . They are not welcomed as others. Because there is always negative talk about them. A people that you have truly not reach out to truly truly know. Much more I can say. But I land my plane here.🙄🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🇺🇸

[@GG-jn9fx]

Well said 🎯🎯🎯 at the end of the day we need to realize when we go to the continent we will be treated as outsiders and act accordingly. I still believe there is overwhelmingly more pros than cons if we don’t go there blinded by the fairytale of going back to Africa.

[@michaelhyman7111]

You two just funny, I love the content

[@Ndagire]

🥰🥰

[@drye1972]

❤❤❤❤You 2 are such amazing classy African Ladies. I love hearing the experience and knowledge you share.

[@dobieh7479]

Different cultures. Even in Africa there are different cultures.

[@cel1945]

As African American man, how do we learn African culture about women?

[@davidsejjombwe2313]

African culture about women is diverse because African cultures are different just like it is in the west. Choose your favorite country and learn about their women. Uganda alone has over 40 tribes with different cultures

[@29Levada]

This is really incorrect information. I am aa, married an African from the Ivory Coast. And several family members who are married to Africans.

[@iDeePlease]

i love you guys so very much, i learn from you

[@Ndagire]

love you back 🥰

[@marcrooseler]

So many lies told here. I will be here for a month or two in Nairobi and women have literally invited themselves over. They talk sex openly. On the Kenyan, Ghana, Nigeria sites especially, lots of their profiles say and, if you can see my inbox on women telling me how they like their sex and what they would do sexually as my woman. What I've been hearing from some Kenyan women are mixed, some won't date foreign men some will. But, I haven't met one shy woman.

[@Hadda23]

Greencard buddy

[@marcrooseler]

@@Hadda23 Can't say this is true either, lots won't leave, not just on the continent but in other countries. They start hearing how blacks are treated in some other countries and lots will miss home and love to stay close. Yes there are green card longers, but not as much as I thought there would be.

[@cel1945]

African men date African American women.

[@Capius1272]

True. African women rarely date American Black men. Period. I've been trying lol!!

[@twantacraig.]

Those are your own opinions. And they are coming from only 2 people. I am African American would like to let African woman know that we love you. And we, African American men have been raised by a low level vibration call white supremacy. And our history under it has has totally disrupted our African way of living. You have not explained the tremendous difficulty we had to go threw, to keep what ever identity we have. We, African American men, who are woke, yern for a sister from the continent to teach us how to be african and reintegrate into ourselves once again. Do not look down on us. It is not our fault. Don't look at us as other. We are the ancestors to.

[@darrenhunter6000]

I detest the diabolical term Black Amreican we are Nubians ...Knowlege must be shared on both sides

[@bianca_isqueen]

African men love Black American women. I can't keep them off of me.

[@kaya1926]

What if he was a European man from London or Dubai?😮

[@MightyAnt47]

If I judge all Africans off of social media it wouldn’t be nice

[@AwnanNahalyah]

Wooow!!...maybe you should've had an AA man on her to hear both sides.

[@davidsejjombwe2313]

Ndagire thanks for your video. But i think it would be beneficial to teach our AA brothers and sisters about African culture than shame them. 400 years away from your home strips you of everything

[@Bama7530]

I can't wait too get back to my uganda wife. ❤❤❤❤

[@Simba_tano]

Clickbait detected. I'm African. I guarantee you two haven't met more than 3 black American since they rarely travel to Africa until recently. So all you speak to now is clickbait.

[@hubertbailey2225]

Are any of those women married to an African man. Just asking. Complete ignorance.

[@KB-----]

My husband is African. So this concept doesn't apply to everyone. From what my husband told me, alot of African men are divesting from African women. Soo.......

[@marlioramsey9478]

Sister not all African American men do that, we are not all that way...some of us have respect and honor..

[@wills6226]

My advice to the woman in this video no disrespect, but stop meeting men on the dating sites. You couldn’t be more wrong about many of the points you’re trying to make.

[@MightyAnt47]

A iPhone cost 1,200$ usd if i buy a girl a iPhone she must be my girlfriend 😂

[@grenadaschoolofmartialarts2785]

It is fifty, fifty because it have good American women also and men, just like Africa traditional but it had to find

[@Hearme1time]

This was not your best interview .

[@AwnanNahalyah]

Agreed

[@krendellbreaux7825]

It is terribly and ignorant.

[@earnakassa3062]

There are many African American women married to African men. And in Africa AfricanAmerican men are marrying African women. It’s very true there are the cultural differences which can create challenges.

[@earnakassa3062]

And we are “AFRICAN AMERICANS” please!

[@shontelllacour138]

#Memorandum46 #DividedWeFall #PanAfricanism ❤✊

[@KELLENKASH]

I see many who do we need to come together people

[@Silverbackugx]

This is the first show that Ive seen where you were both wrong 🤣🤣🤣. but it is a little old and has not aged well as you have come in contact with more Black Americans. ❤ Two stars rising. 😘

[@jerrybooker-bm4nu]

Don't bring her back on here she won't help your channel grow,only hurt your channel.

[@childofthesoil1163]

Sometimes I get confused on your question I have also see this question imposed to South African men .As a women u dont decide who ask u for dates .most we would like to date them still waiting for them u ask us

[@louisianashadowwalkersonof6138]

Greetings Ladies I am just seeing your post. I have noticed women from the continent that are not in a relationship with a continental African men. Are in relationships with white or asian men. So do you all hold those groups of white men to the same traditional cultural standards that you place on FBA/AA men? If not Why ?

[@MightyAnt47]

A I phone is expensive yall sound like this lady from Ghana she called me on social media asking me to buy her a I phone and I don’t even know her

[@cappri10]

Love y'all beautiful African sisters, great video I didn't see Esters info in the bio.

[@annmiller5434]

The manner in which you speak with the sounds and the extremely overt gestures isn’t acceptable among certain classes of African American men. We are taught to not accept loudness in civilized society. Now I don’t know about the other issues but I do know the complaints about some African American women and African behaviors as witnessed in this video from the girl in the green headscarf isn’t going to go well.

[@redsak5311]

Her gestures are not overt to us. It's normal. And that's what this whole conversation is all about. We are different. And that's ok.

[@annmiller5434]

@@redsak5311 I think that is what I was saying but I was pointing out an example of how.

[@geraldyancey7423]

Great topic! Keep in mind that all black American men are not like that. I get it though.

[@adams6798]

The lady in green hair speaks a lot of sense the other one speaks just nonsense

[@theauracall]

If that were true then I wouldn't exist 🙄

[@desmondnathalielewisthelio7776]

Africans have to understand African history is black people history period.no matter where you from our ancestors came from there.africans people have to understand you guys got that experience of born in the motherland. we was sold and strip of our African culture so please stop comparing us we all came from the same place we have rights to African culture. i think sometimes Africans like to throw culture in our faces lets not forget we didn't have any choice you guys got that choice to experience the motherland. it is a difference one group had choice the other didn't it was strip and taken away from them. to my Africans brothers and sisters please know your history before explaining.

[@grenadaschoolofmartialarts2785]

Black women is to much of had work, other women take of us , our black woman accept money to destroy the black family structure 😢

[@johndasilva2686]

There is a big difference between africans and african americans . Language food music money culture dress lifestyle family structure etc. So if africans and african americans don't date each other, I think thats a good idea. .

[@jen6741]

They date and marry. Really, come up with real content.

[@grenadaschoolofmartialarts2785]

Ester u looking beautiful ❤

[@vergespierre4271]

Yes our culture as "black" Americans is different,just as your culture is different to us and others globally. It comes of very condescending and snide. As if yall hold your self to a higher esteem and thats furthest from the Truth. And our cultures in America are highly rich and the most influential on the globe and those are subcultures which stem from "black" Americans culture as a whole. Every so called "black" American dont listen to rap or act or operate as or environments that they show yall africans on TV. How they portrays yalk in africa us far worse. And we definitely dont get down how they portrays yall in the media. Majority of "black" Americans date and marry within our group,as most nations of people The world has an obsession with us and itz wild. Don't say no. Cuz our names is in everyones mouth. People who don't even know or ever been round us. We aint african and never been

[@glennlee2321]

You two have to read the chat and talk

[@Ndagire]

Your very free to speak your TRUTH aswell

[@emiproperty2041]

I would love to meet halfway and learn and teach. I would prefer to be with an African woman. 216

[@jamesfaizon5376]

Hmm interesting. Maybe that's why I stay to myself and won't try to pursuit an African woman. Yes I have morals not to ask her for sex or ask for crazy stuff. And yes I understand about the culture shocks on both side! To date an African woman. I think it would be a cool thing to do take her out by her little niknaks and we both go to our separate homes. We would have to get an understanding before anything else. Maybe she wants marriage who knows. But I am not no expert on that. I know a lot of African woman and men marry black Americans and what I see? It works

[@clifforddotson7550]

Wow, this is insane, I have seen your videos asking black Americans in the Diaspora to come to Africa and get a wife, Now you are saying you are afraid of us or fear us. You say you are not stereotyping AA's but then proceeded to do just that,, You copy what the media says about Black Americans, and think that is the truth,, Yes we want a traditional woman, that is why so many have left the hellish States and are seeking wives elsewhere. please understand, that African Americans are not and never will pursue any woman, we are pursuing the idea of a traditional woman, and hoping that we find it. Secondly, so what a man asked her for nudes,, just say no,,, but that dont paint us with the same brush as the man who asked you,, you are an adult you know how to handle that, I am at a loss following you now because passport Kings are going to East Africa in record number now, its all over their pages. I myself have Business Partners in Kampala, Mukono, and Entebee, and have been to Uganda and Africa at least 5 or 6 times,, so what you are saying makes no sense to me,, matter of fact its the opposite,, ladies always asking me to ask men to come with me to Uganda so they can meet them,, Lastly,, if you think for one minute that an African American man is going to bow to any man,, that is not ever likely to happen, and you said regardless of the age, treated with respect yes, honor? Yes, but bow down,, hell no,, smh

[@DetroitMuscle]

Bruh just leave them alone. Go to south America or the Caribbean where they understand history and are sensitive to our history. These African girls are ignorant of world history and arrogant. Let them have their own men.

[@bmizrahi1782]

They are testing out different types of polarizing content to see which one gets views. They know topics about AA's garner attention, discussion, & views so they are testing out different ways to be polarizing or controversial with topics pertaining to AA's in an attempt to go viral.

[@Hadda23]

One thing greencard