BK Shivani on Detachment: What Exactly Is The Art Of Detachment | Sister Shivani

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'Detachment' is the feeling that you have of not being personally involved in something or of having no emotional interest in it. In this video, Sister Shivani shares the art of withdrawing desire from lesser things and letting them fall away to harness the power of human beings to reach great heights.
Source: Brahma Kumaris
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@podcastfnw5262
@podcastfnw5262 10 ай бұрын
I've come to the hypothesis that we first need to detach from our child trauma or parents emotional baggage... identify where is the wound and heal by accepting and letting go of it... cause we are basically repeating that same story but with new characters that represents that same feelings..I looked so deeply into this that I can identify who is representing who in my life and it's the same archetypes repeating ..until you let go
@ravikolhe3302
@ravikolhe3302 9 ай бұрын
😊
@saraswatibohra2436
@saraswatibohra2436 9 ай бұрын
How to heal that wound
@CSAlish_Dodhia
@CSAlish_Dodhia 9 ай бұрын
​@@saraswatibohra2436 Accepting and letting go
@raffaellamollica36
@raffaellamollica36 8 ай бұрын
Same script, different cast
@prachigl5563
@prachigl5563 8 ай бұрын
Very well said
@shilpisaini1090
@shilpisaini1090 Жыл бұрын
She is a Real life Angel
@nancypraj8147
@nancypraj8147 Жыл бұрын
Yes, she's our god gifted therapist💗
@bandanamakal
@bandanamakal 2 ай бұрын
Yes ❤
@barshakar7200
@barshakar7200 Жыл бұрын
"Attachment creates pain Detachment radiates power"
@TheProminentPost
@TheProminentPost Жыл бұрын
Learning this detachment has bought me so much peace... and being attached to people and things that don't bring me joy was hell❤
@MsMumbaikar
@MsMumbaikar 5 ай бұрын
Agree. It came to me at thr right time. In fact, on the right day.
@joshicharan4968
@joshicharan4968 Жыл бұрын
Detachment is 100% attachment to the moment you live oblivious of past and future.
@OhHapppyDaay
@OhHapppyDaay 11 ай бұрын
I had to read this post twice, but I understand now. Thank you for writing it.
@bhavanirrao2021
@bhavanirrao2021 10 ай бұрын
​@@OhHapppyDaaybut i didn't understand this comment. Can anyone explain this comment
@utsaharya5463
@utsaharya5463 4 ай бұрын
It means living in the moment not concerned about past or future ​@@bhavanirrao2021
@Andrea-ed4hp
@Andrea-ed4hp Ай бұрын
@@bhavanirrao2021it means live in the current moment without any expectations or anxiety about the past or future
@tsivappiragasam1428
@tsivappiragasam1428 10 ай бұрын
Silencing myself is one thing but silencing others through my silence is something needed
@subramaniamnagasayi1044
@subramaniamnagasayi1044 Жыл бұрын
Cannot thank her enough!! how my approach to life has changed just in last 3-4 weeks and practising her methods!!Om Shanthi
@OhHapppyDaay
@OhHapppyDaay 11 ай бұрын
My daughter was in pain. She perceived me as the cause of her pain. I detached from her for her happiness. I Love her very much. I'm glad about detachment. I am free, as well. No more pain for either one.
@RiniHS96100
@RiniHS96100 5 ай бұрын
I am in the same situation. Wish I had someone to talk to. It's very painful as a mother.
@amritaroy3888
@amritaroy3888 9 күн бұрын
​@@RiniHS96100yes , painful , I can understand ..
@urmila16
@urmila16 Жыл бұрын
On the beam. As always. This is true spirituality in its most practical aspect. Wish every single person in the world would listen to her. Daily.
@chanilerner2107
@chanilerner2107 2 жыл бұрын
When one falls down, the other can pull you out. Beautiful
@shalinimahana6614
@shalinimahana6614 Жыл бұрын
Purpose of detachment is so that if one is siting the other can stand,if one is in pain the other is calm,pain-free,peaceful...beautifully explained.
@peterhalstead7682
@peterhalstead7682 11 ай бұрын
This way of teaching and the teachings needs to be in every school in the world.🧡🌲🐝
@richagarg990
@richagarg990 Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful explanation why detachment & taking care of self is necessary. Being kind is essence of life 🌸. Om Shanti 🌸🙏
@bmsharma3824
@bmsharma3824 Жыл бұрын
Attachment creates pain. Detachment radiates power. 😮😮😮
@meenabhatt6401
@meenabhatt6401 Жыл бұрын
Om Shanti ... Sister Shivani ... 🌹❤🌷
@luckydesilva6733
@luckydesilva6733 11 ай бұрын
With my love & respect . Gods blessings to you sister Shivani .
@akshitapathak2998
@akshitapathak2998 5 ай бұрын
I feel so blessed that I have got to listen her powerful words. Love her sessions, truly effective to the core. Thanks with all my heart
@MargueriteSwatton
@MargueriteSwatton 9 ай бұрын
Practicing detachment is an art form! Keep up the practice until one perfects it.
@Heena-pb5us
@Heena-pb5us Жыл бұрын
You saved me. I'm so glad I heard you today.
@lingarajkashyap9681
@lingarajkashyap9681 Жыл бұрын
OM NAMAH SHIVAY. ATTACHMENT MEANS INVITATION TO DANGER OR DISASTERS AND DETACHMENT MEANS TO INVITE PLEASURES AND FEEE FROM ANY BURDENS.
@jkd6969
@jkd6969 Жыл бұрын
Thank for this clarity. Unfortunately we are so conditioned from childhood with such attachment that pulls us down! These twisted ways cause us so much pain and never empower us nor those we are attached to!
@raninaidoo3279
@raninaidoo3279 Жыл бұрын
Thank you really appreciate your time & wisdom on our journey. This is mind opening & mindshift for me to practice. Stay blessed - Om Snanti. Indrani Naidoo - South Africa ❤
@waulau8
@waulau8 Жыл бұрын
Namaste 🙏Sister Shivani, you are my spiritual sister. 🙏Thank you for the teachings and guidance. I had learned a lot from you. 🙏
@shivanimashruwala5821
@shivanimashruwala5821 3 ай бұрын
It shatters me to the core where I have been that strong support for all the ppl all the time around me. God has always been kind to me and there have been rare occasions I have been put through in miserable conditions. Forget support in any other way none of those are even around to ask how are doing or you will be fine. The thing that has weakened me is not the hard time, its behavior of ppl who I considered mine, helped them in all possible way going above and beyond. None of them are around just to ask one simple question how are you doing or coping up with this. It is really heart breaking and killing me. I am losing my faith from kindness. I am very sure about it that what I am expecting is bare minimum and wont cost a penny.
@sunilm1299
@sunilm1299 5 ай бұрын
Easy to listen ! Difficult to imbibe & practice unless there is utmost resolve & sincere commitment!
@tsivappiragasam1428
@tsivappiragasam1428 10 ай бұрын
Great teachings by this sister is gift of God
@gururajkulkarni343
@gururajkulkarni343 Жыл бұрын
how very true, THANKS Sister for enlightening us!! God bless you...
@mervijaakola1749
@mervijaakola1749 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the great wisdom 🙏 yes, self-caring is crucial 💯
@balajisidd2902
@balajisidd2902 Жыл бұрын
Thank you madam. I understand real meaning as how to live as an human being and be kind to all
@DebdulalK
@DebdulalK Жыл бұрын
She is an incredible leader to spread loving compassion.
@Panirchelvam-yr6xv
@Panirchelvam-yr6xv Жыл бұрын
BK sister Shivani after listening to your messages, all my unnecessary thinkings disappeared and I am having a stress free life
@lazitazen6882
@lazitazen6882 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤ I have no words to express my gratitude to this video ❤ It helped me so much, so much ❤ God bless you
@Andrea-ed4hp
@Andrea-ed4hp Ай бұрын
wow. this really resonates with me. Love the way this is explained
@yourhealingjourney9824
@yourhealingjourney9824 Жыл бұрын
Detachment has made me stronger, way more focused and loving towards others. Attachment has always been a disservice
@urmila16
@urmila16 Жыл бұрын
Glass example is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Focus on our mind not stress what is wrong or others' faults.
@sasharenee7348
@sasharenee7348 Жыл бұрын
Thank You So Much for this subject arena I was seeking for today & the last 3 years since Covid hit!! Was at the edge due to Always carrying family members & latching on to their energies (including the worry, fretting part) & needed my sisters advice today on what to do since I live with my parents caring for one of my parents. She immediately sent me this message & said listen & this was what I needed!!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISE WORDS Regarding Attachment & Detachment!! These words were specifically meant for me & I am Eternally Grateful for You Blessing’s, Sasha Rene’e
@janiverster6162
@janiverster6162 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this powerful metaphor. I will remember the glass today ❤
@shashichopra1341
@shashichopra1341 11 ай бұрын
Om Shanti thanks divine angel 🙏
@nehapallavi8652
@nehapallavi8652 11 ай бұрын
She has invisible magic wands which magically removes our worries because she knows the value of sprituality she is connected with our supreme lord shiv baba 🎉our shivani behan god bless you om shanti !!
@waulau8
@waulau8 Жыл бұрын
A power soul is the one that do not create waste thoughts. A power soul is the one who had the power to put an end to the waste thoughts of the other person. That brought my mind to Bhavan Sri Ramana Maharshi. 🙏
@aishwaryavaijapurkar9671
@aishwaryavaijapurkar9671 10 ай бұрын
Being detached is so peaceful n calm feeling ❤❤❤,
@stevenfernandes9402
@stevenfernandes9402 9 ай бұрын
Beautiful teaching. Thank you
@lakshimil3933
@lakshimil3933 Жыл бұрын
Nice peaceful satsangvwith you is a blessed feeling love Shivani
@chandankumarshaw2670
@chandankumarshaw2670 9 ай бұрын
Soooooo good ly explained!!!!❤❤❤❤❤. She is so strong!
@StunningIpsita
@StunningIpsita Жыл бұрын
I must say she is a living God in this world
@vasanthar4533
@vasanthar4533 Жыл бұрын
True..
@lucillegoldberg1216
@lucillegoldberg1216 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@sasisasi-l4k
@sasisasi-l4k 10 ай бұрын
Thanks very much. Especially hearing today. I was in trouble in meaningless attachment. Thanks.
@sadiaarman363
@sadiaarman363 Жыл бұрын
The first step to staying calm is, Protect yourself from the energy of the.situation and the people. Be a detached observer. Powerful soul is one who does not create waste thoughts. Powerful soul is one who can put an.end to the waste thoughts of others also
@25phyll
@25phyll 2 жыл бұрын
This is seriously good stuff
@mixer16ph
@mixer16ph 8 ай бұрын
Thank you Sister and Brahma Kumaris. ❤❤❤
@ashsuva
@ashsuva 2 жыл бұрын
So true, Om Shanti 🙏
@meidasken3508
@meidasken3508 Жыл бұрын
My favorite pod, thank you.
@diah7980
@diah7980 5 ай бұрын
🌻Detatchment radiates Power . 🌻Attachment creates pain. Inside to Outside. For that I need to take care of myself. When Iam calm and untouched by the people around us. When Iam calm , Iam automatically kind to someone in pain . Radiates blessings . Earn blessings daily . No questioning or judging them .
@bandanamakal
@bandanamakal 2 ай бұрын
I really like to listen to sister shivani ❤❤❤❤ she is Angel
@ramaramachandra6270
@ramaramachandra6270 2 ай бұрын
Now iam practicing. Thanks Sister ❤❤
@prashantpillai9508
@prashantpillai9508 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
@parishah7494
@parishah7494 Ай бұрын
Thank you sister Shivani
@DrArjunGrover
@DrArjunGrover 10 ай бұрын
OM SHANTI....😇😇😇😇
@donnafernandes3091
@donnafernandes3091 3 жыл бұрын
Good stuff right here
@HermioneIl
@HermioneIl 3 ай бұрын
My gurudeva! ❤from Greece!
@reemaislam8748
@reemaislam8748 8 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Love and Blessings always ...❤❤
@nuryanti7624
@nuryanti7624 Жыл бұрын
Now i understand more about relationship, thanks to her
@rajinilata2243
@rajinilata2243 Жыл бұрын
Om shanti sister, awesome sharing.😮
@Drsyed-y3g
@Drsyed-y3g 2 ай бұрын
Detachment is positive.
@kusumsingh1683
@kusumsingh1683 Жыл бұрын
Bless you didi, request you to speak on how to deal with narsissitic relationship and take care of children i such situations
@supriyadutta1821
@supriyadutta1821 6 ай бұрын
Detachment is never leaving your family and doing whatever you feel like. Detached people give respect and more space to their loved ones without detecting or judging them to change
@HaharuRecords
@HaharuRecords Жыл бұрын
I want buy this women.. Edit: look how gently she blinks her eyes...Thats a sign of purity
@andreamurillo09
@andreamurillo09 Жыл бұрын
Mastering this, would really be amazing.
@hiteshe_e9368
@hiteshe_e9368 5 ай бұрын
Attachments creates pain detachments heals them , gives power. I m peaceful soul. I have to be happy to heal myself. I have to radiate positive energy ❤ .when I m calm I m automatically kind.blessings is some I have to earn myself every single day . Being calm radiates kindness, being kind radiates blessings. My inner has no connection with outer world. 😊. My inside world which radiates to my outside world .
@rajeshwarisrinivasan1730
@rajeshwarisrinivasan1730 3 ай бұрын
Great spiritual insight !!
@creativechristiancontent
@creativechristiancontent Жыл бұрын
You have to create a happy warming loving environment for your depressed loved ones ❤
@trueman5948
@trueman5948 10 ай бұрын
All these things are intellectually stimulating........ Madum we need practicle things that can bring behavioural changes in us.... Pls guide us
@shakirbaloch9505
@shakirbaloch9505 Жыл бұрын
Million dollars practical steps to adopt permanently. Thanks Shakir Baloch Islamabad Pakistan
@shivanisrivastava1567
@shivanisrivastava1567 9 ай бұрын
Om shnti ❤
@MjF809
@MjF809 Жыл бұрын
This is the ROOT of dysfunction We are taught this from birth from family yet its 100 percent curable!
@papapapa3399
@papapapa3399 Жыл бұрын
Detachment is beautiful
@LovelifewithGlory
@LovelifewithGlory 6 ай бұрын
Namasthe! While I understand everything you said about taking care of ourselves and radiating that power around us, without saying a word, How does someone understand if I'm showing them kindness or not? they might feel even more bitter thinking that I am not acknowledging their pain or it might appear to them that im being insensitive to their grief? idk if I put it across in a proper way, if anyone can help me understand this, I would appreciate it.
@KindyLemmon
@KindyLemmon 11 ай бұрын
Life changing. ❤
@akhileshprasad5644
@akhileshprasad5644 Жыл бұрын
All good evening everyone om Santi jai jai
@fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377
@fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377 11 ай бұрын
this is gold
@makomborerochivanga1318
@makomborerochivanga1318 3 ай бұрын
Attachment create s pain, detachment radiates power!
@ingernordin3343
@ingernordin3343 Жыл бұрын
I love this ❤
@chronicdiseases6274
@chronicdiseases6274 Жыл бұрын
I love you and your truth
@alexandranun
@alexandranun Жыл бұрын
I feel detached from my kids but that doesn’t mean I don’t love them they think I’m cold and don’t care 😢
@Selflovexpedition
@Selflovexpedition Жыл бұрын
Sirf breakups wale he jante hain how much painful 😢 Attachment is
@ThebeastStandalone
@ThebeastStandalone 8 ай бұрын
thank you so much didi i love you
@akanshasingh575
@akanshasingh575 11 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@lowkatherine
@lowkatherine 3 ай бұрын
Detachment is freedom
@debasishsarkar5573
@debasishsarkar5573 7 ай бұрын
Every people is attached to someone in the world but we must not entgled ourselves with anything.
@das_krishnamachhi
@das_krishnamachhi 6 ай бұрын
I one such bad mom everyday I give my child only curse because I very much worry for him...but now onwards I only give him blessings by remaining detached from him..please God help me to remain detached 😢
@gursimarkaur1763
@gursimarkaur1763 Жыл бұрын
Protect yourself from energy Attachemnt causes pain Physical detached attached twins example My mind is dependent
@tsivappiragasam1428
@tsivappiragasam1428 10 ай бұрын
It is the inner world that should take care of outer but what generally happens is allow the outer to take of the inner and this process affects both inner and outer, because there is nothing to take from outer which is hollow.
@ElenaRoud
@ElenaRoud Жыл бұрын
I am ready
@sribatshadas3322
@sribatshadas3322 Жыл бұрын
Its tuff to detach urself when u love that person but might be she doesn't like that much
@unblinkable_e
@unblinkable_e 28 күн бұрын
💙💫
@gayatrisibransingh4157
@gayatrisibransingh4157 Жыл бұрын
Yah Sach hai dhanyabad ❤
@NikhilAkhirala
@NikhilAkhirala 7 ай бұрын
Attachment creates dependency I attached to business so when business is good I used to calm vice versa so don't attach to anything
@nkarthikeya8113
@nkarthikeya8113 Жыл бұрын
Mera pyara baba ❤❤❤
@bhargavib707
@bhargavib707 8 ай бұрын
Loved it ❤
@sharadhajayaraman2092
@sharadhajayaraman2092 Жыл бұрын
Amazing explanation Sister
@shitaldey8982
@shitaldey8982 20 күн бұрын
What if i am not getting any name with whom i want to get attached? Only name coming is my pet Goku.
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