BK Shivani on Detachment: What Exactly Is The Art Of Detachment | Sister Shivani

'Detachment' is the feeling that you have of not being personally involved in something or of having no emotional interest in it. In this video, Sister Shivani shares the art of withdrawing desire from lesser things and letting them fall away to harness the power of human beings to reach great heights.
Source: Brahma Kumaris
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[@podcastfnw5262]

I've come to the hypothesis that we first need to detach from our child trauma or parents emotional baggage... identify where is the wound and heal by accepting and letting go of it... cause we are basically repeating that same story but with new characters that represents that same feelings..I looked so deeply into this that I can identify who is representing who in my life and it's the same archetypes repeating ..until you let go

[@ravikolhe3302]

😊

[@saraswatibohra2436]

How to heal that wound

[@CSAlish_Dodhia]

​@@saraswatibohra2436 Accepting and letting go

[@raffaellamollica36]

Same script, different cast

[@prachigl5563]

Very well said

[@barshakar7200]

"Attachment creates pain Detachment radiates power"

[@shilpisaini1090]

She is a Real life Angel

[@nancypraj8147]

Yes, she's our god gifted therapist💗

[@bandanamakal]

Yes ❤

[@joshicharan4968]

Detachment is 100% attachment to the moment you live oblivious of past and future.

[@OhHapppyDaay]

I had to read this post twice, but I understand now. Thank you for writing it.

[@bhavanirrao2021]

​@@OhHapppyDaaybut i didn't understand this comment. Can anyone explain this comment

[@utsaharya5463]

It means living in the moment not concerned about past or future ​@@bhavanirrao2021

[@Andrea-ed4hp]

@@bhavanirrao2021it means live in the current moment without any expectations or anxiety about the past or future

[@tsivappiragasam1428]

Silencing myself is one thing but silencing others through my silence is something needed

[@TheProminentPost]

Learning this detachment has bought me so much peace... and being attached to people and things that don't bring me joy was hell❤

[@MsMumbaikar]

Agree. It came to me at thr right time. In fact, on the right day.

[@OhHapppyDaay]

My daughter was in pain. She perceived me as the cause of her pain. I detached from her for her happiness. I Love her very much. I'm glad about detachment. I am free, as well. No more pain for either one.

[@RiniHS96100]

I am in the same situation. Wish I had someone to talk to. It's very painful as a mother.

[@amritaroy3888]

​@@RiniHS96100yes , painful , I can understand ..

[@bmsharma3824]

Attachment creates pain. Detachment radiates power. 😮😮😮

[@subramaniamnagasayi1044]

Cannot thank her enough!! how my approach to life has changed just in last 3-4 weeks and practising her methods!!Om Shanthi

[@shalinimahana6614]

Purpose of detachment is so that if one is siting the other can stand,if one is in pain the other is calm,pain-free,peaceful...beautifully explained.

[@chanilerner2107]

When one falls down, the other can pull you out. Beautiful

[@peterhalstead7682]

This way of teaching and the teachings needs to be in every school in the world.🧡🌲🐝

[@urmila16]

On the beam. As always. This is true spirituality in its most practical aspect. Wish every single person in the world would listen to her. Daily.

[@meenabhatt6401]

Om Shanti ... Sister Shivani ... 🌹❤🌷

[@luckydesilva6733]

With my love & respect . Gods blessings to you sister Shivani .

[@akshitapathak2998]

I feel so blessed that I have got to listen her powerful words. Love her sessions, truly effective to the core. Thanks with all my heart

[@richagarg990]

Such a beautiful explanation why detachment & taking care of self is necessary. Being kind is essence of life 🌸. Om Shanti 🌸🙏

[@Andrea-ed4hp]

wow. this really resonates with me. Love the way this is explained

[@MargueriteSwatton]

Practicing detachment is an art form! Keep up the practice until one perfects it.

[@Heena-pb5us]

You saved me. I'm so glad I heard you today.

[@sunilm1299]

Easy to listen ! Difficult to imbibe & practice unless there is utmost resolve & sincere commitment!

[@shivanimashruwala5821]

It shatters me to the core where I have been that strong support for all the ppl all the time around me. God has always been kind to me and there have been rare occasions I have been put through in miserable conditions. Forget support in any other way none of those are even around to ask how are doing or you will be fine. The thing that has weakened me is not the hard time, its behavior of ppl who I considered mine, helped them in all possible way going above and beyond. None of them are around just to ask one simple question how are you doing or coping up with this. It is really heart breaking and killing me. I am losing my faith from kindness. I am very sure about it that what I am expecting is bare minimum and wont cost a penny.

[@yourhealingjourney9824]

Detachment has made me stronger, way more focused and loving towards others. Attachment has always been a disservice

[@Panirchelvam-yr6xv]

BK sister Shivani after listening to your messages, all my unnecessary thinkings disappeared and I am having a stress free life

[@tsivappiragasam1428]

Great teachings by this sister is gift of God

[@nehapallavi8652]

She has invisible magic wands which magically removes our worries because she knows the value of sprituality she is connected with our supreme lord shiv baba 🎉our shivani behan god bless you om shanti !!

[@lingarajkashyap9681]

OM NAMAH SHIVAY. ATTACHMENT MEANS INVITATION TO DANGER OR DISASTERS AND DETACHMENT MEANS TO INVITE PLEASURES AND FEEE FROM ANY BURDENS.

[@waulau8]

Namaste 🙏Sister Shivani, you are my spiritual sister. 🙏Thank you for the teachings and guidance. I had learned a lot from you. 🙏

[@jkd6969]

Thank for this clarity. Unfortunately we are so conditioned from childhood with such attachment that pulls us down! These twisted ways cause us so much pain and never empower us nor those we are attached to!

[@balajisidd2902]

Thank you madam. I understand real meaning as how to live as an human being and be kind to all

[@raninaidoo3279]

Thank you really appreciate your time & wisdom on our journey. This is mind opening & mindshift for me to practice. Stay blessed - Om Snanti. Indrani Naidoo - South Africa ❤

[@gururajkulkarni343]

how very true, THANKS Sister for enlightening us!! God bless you...

[@DebdulalK]

She is an incredible leader to spread loving compassion.

[@lazitazen6882]

Thank you so much ❤ I have no words to express my gratitude to this video ❤ It helped me so much, so much ❤ God bless you

[@urmila16]

Glass example is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Focus on our mind not stress what is wrong or others' faults.

[@shashichopra1341]

Om Shanti thanks divine angel 🙏

[@stevenfernandes9402]

Beautiful teaching. Thank you

[@mervijaakola1749]

Thank you for the great wisdom 🙏 yes, self-caring is crucial 💯

[@chandankumarshaw2670]

Soooooo good ly explained!!!!❤❤❤❤❤. She is so strong!

[@mixer16ph]

Thank you Sister and Brahma Kumaris. ❤❤❤

[@aishwaryavaijapurkar9671]

Being detached is so peaceful n calm feeling ❤❤❤,

[@waulau8]

A power soul is the one that do not create waste thoughts. A power soul is the one who had the power to put an end to the waste thoughts of the other person. That brought my mind to Bhavan Sri Ramana Maharshi. 🙏

[@sasharenee7348]

Thank You So Much for this subject arena I was seeking for today & the last 3 years since Covid hit!! Was at the edge due to Always carrying family members & latching on to their energies (including the worry, fretting part) & needed my sisters advice today on what to do since I live with my parents caring for one of my parents. She immediately sent me this message & said listen & this was what I needed!!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISE WORDS Regarding Attachment & Detachment!! These words were specifically meant for me & I am Eternally Grateful for You Blessing’s, Sasha Rene’e

[@lakshimil3933]

Nice peaceful satsangvwith you is a blessed feeling love Shivani

[@janiverster6162]

Thank you for this powerful metaphor. I will remember the glass today ❤

[@diah7980]

🌻Detatchment radiates Power . 🌻Attachment creates pain. Inside to Outside. For that I need to take care of myself. When Iam calm and untouched by the people around us. When Iam calm , Iam automatically kind to someone in pain . Radiates blessings . Earn blessings daily . No questioning or judging them .

[@sasisasi-l4k]

Thanks very much. Especially hearing today. I was in trouble in meaningless attachment. Thanks.

[@parishah7494]

Thank you sister Shivani

[@ramaramachandra6270]

Now iam practicing. Thanks Sister ❤❤

[@HermioneIl]

My gurudeva! ❤from Greece!

[@bandanamakal]

I really like to listen to sister shivani ❤❤❤❤ she is Angel

[@donnafernandes3091]

Good stuff right here

[@Drsyed-y3g]

Detachment is positive.

[@sadiaarman363]

The first step to staying calm is, Protect yourself from the energy of the.situation and the people. Be a detached observer. Powerful soul is one who does not create waste thoughts. Powerful soul is one who can put an.end to the waste thoughts of others also

[@25phyll]

This is seriously good stuff

[@StunningIpsita]

I must say she is a living God in this world

[@vasanthar4533]

True..

[@lucillegoldberg1216]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@meidasken3508]

My favorite pod, thank you.

[@supriyadutta1821]

Detachment is never leaving your family and doing whatever you feel like. Detached people give respect and more space to their loved ones without detecting or judging them to change

[@reemaislam8748]

Wow! Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Love and Blessings always ...❤❤

[@ashsuva]

So true, Om Shanti 🙏

[@rajeshwarisrinivasan1730]

Great spiritual insight !!

[@HaharuRecords]

I want buy this women.. Edit: look how gently she blinks her eyes...Thats a sign of purity

[@hiteshe_e9368]

Attachments creates pain detachments heals them , gives power. I m peaceful soul. I have to be happy to heal myself. I have to radiate positive energy ❤ .when I m calm I m automatically kind.blessings is some I have to earn myself every single day . Being calm radiates kindness, being kind radiates blessings. My inner has no connection with outer world. 😊. My inside world which radiates to my outside world .

[@shakirbaloch9505]

Million dollars practical steps to adopt permanently. Thanks Shakir Baloch Islamabad Pakistan

[@prashantpillai-w4g]

🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

[@MjF809]

This is the ROOT of dysfunction We are taught this from birth from family yet its 100 percent curable!

[@nuryanti7624]

Now i understand more about relationship, thanks to her

[@DrArjunGrover]

OM SHANTI....😇😇😇😇

[@andreamurillo09]

Mastering this, would really be amazing.

[@akhileshprasad5644]

All good evening everyone om Santi jai jai

[@rajinilata2243]

Om shanti sister, awesome sharing.😮

[@trueman5948]

All these things are intellectually stimulating........ Madum we need practicle things that can bring behavioural changes in us.... Pls guide us

[@creativechristiancontent]

You have to create a happy warming loving environment for your depressed loved ones ❤

[@kusumsingh1683]

Bless you didi, request you to speak on how to deal with narsissitic relationship and take care of children i such situations

[@Selflovexpedition]

Sirf breakups wale he jante hain how much painful 😢 Attachment is

[@alexandranun]

I feel detached from my kids but that doesn’t mean I don’t love them they think I’m cold and don’t care 😢

[@shivanisrivastava1567]

Om shnti ❤

[@papapapa3399]

Detachment is beautiful

[@makomborerochivanga1318]

Attachment create s pain, detachment radiates power!

[@KindyLemmon]

Life changing. ❤

[@fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377]

this is gold

[@das_krishnamachhi]

I one such bad mom everyday I give my child only curse because I very much worry for him...but now onwards I only give him blessings by remaining detached from him..please God help me to remain detached 😢

[@lowkatherine]

Detachment is freedom

[@ThebeastStandalone]

thank you so much didi i love you

[@LovelifewithGlory]

Namasthe! While I understand everything you said about taking care of ourselves and radiating that power around us, without saying a word, How does someone understand if I'm showing them kindness or not? they might feel even more bitter thinking that I am not acknowledging their pain or it might appear to them that im being insensitive to their grief? idk if I put it across in a proper way, if anyone can help me understand this, I would appreciate it.

[@debasishsarkar5573]

Every people is attached to someone in the world but we must not entgled ourselves with anything.

[@sribatshadas3322]

Its tuff to detach urself when u love that person but might be she doesn't like that much

[@ingernordin3343]

I love this ❤

[@chronicdiseases6274]

I love you and your truth

[@akanshasingh575]

Thank you 🙏

[@unblinkable_e]

💙💫

[@bhargavib707]

Loved it ❤

[@ElenaRoud]

I am ready

[@tsivappiragasam1428]

It is the inner world that should take care of outer but what generally happens is allow the outer to take of the inner and this process affects both inner and outer, because there is nothing to take from outer which is hollow.

[@gursimarkaur1763]

Protect yourself from energy Attachemnt causes pain Physical detached attached twins example My mind is dependent

[@gayatrisibransingh4157]

Yah Sach hai dhanyabad ❤

[@nkarthikeya8113]

Mera pyara baba ❤❤❤

[@NikhilAkhirala]

Attachment creates dependency I attached to business so when business is good I used to calm vice versa so don't attach to anything

[@3jeffnelson]

that's it

[@maryamwaqi9556]

Attachment vs detachment: Depends on the company, which one is more comfortable