Why are Indian men NOT marrying?

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There are youth organizations who demand different things from their elected leaders. Some want employment, some want reservation, but now there are youth groups who want wives! Yes, a lot of men in India - especially in states like Haryana - are unable to find wives and therefore aren't getting married. Why is this happening? Is it because women's choices have changed or is it something else? And while not being able to find wives is out of their control, there're also men who are not marrying out of choice. Stats show fewer men are marrying today in India than ten years ago, while the population of eligible bachelors has increased. What is the real reason behind this phenomenon and how is it impacting the lives of men and women across the country? Let's find out.
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Markers
00:00 Introduction
01:25 Reasons 1. Lesser number of brides due to a skewed sex ratio
04:35 Reasons 2. Preference for grooms with government jobs
06:49 Reasons 3. Some young men do not want to get married
07:16 Consequences 1. Impact on men
08:28 Consequences 2. Impact on women
08:52 Consequences 3. Crime
09:57 Conclusion

[@mohak_mangal]

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[@survive9741]

Bro please add captions , you got viewers not only from North ,some are from south also... kindly think about it

[@aruneshsingh5582]

Bhai data sudharo apna Ratio me ab 1020 girls hai 1000 boys pe

[@surajmaurya2553]

video on divorce??

[@surajmaurya2553]

@@aruneshsingh5582 that's not a census data wo national family health survey ka hai

[@srikaranb3649]

Love your vids. Kindly consider adding subs. Though I can understand a bit, having subs will truly provide full understanding.

[@virajbhambid2657]

Salman Khan The Brand Ambassador Of Singles 🔥😂🇮🇳

[@dipanjanghosal1662]

Car, footpath aur harin. Aur kya chahiye zindagi mein

[@ayushman7428]

@@dipanjanghosal1662 *hiran

[@rajpatil2024A]

Modi ji and yogi ji also 😏

[@AshmitManak]

*Ratan Tata*

[@sharunps4356]

@@dipanjanghosal1662 neelkhaant

[@nishantaadi]

I am 30 years old single man. All my life I got rejected by girls due look and status. Same groom family keep rejecting me due to look and status. I told my family I am happy to be the single. Today, I work for myself, earn for myself, spend on myself and love myself.

[@niteku6448]

Try approaching not so beutiful poor girl.

[@nishantaadi]

@@niteku6448 Nothing work, so called poor girl daddy want status quo.

[@nishantaadi]

@@markratata Great bro, as a Doctor you can even have far better life then me, jealous. Hit the gym get great shape, wear cool cloth, eat well and enjoy the life. That's my target only currently struggling with money. So live a life.

[@redleon7689]

​@@markratata well, my life is pretty much same as yours. It's OK to live alone, if someone ever show interest in us than we can think about marriage.

[@yashjain5189]

Yeah bruh earn money 💰 should be main focus. Your look doesn't matter when you have money

[@deepraogaming]

As a guy i think its better not to be married than marrying a wrong person. Goes for both male and female

[@anony5021]

Considering the lol population... Avoid

[@divyaprashanthprashant7387]

True

[@bruhaintnowayugonnanowme3942]

Yea lol

[@ppen8359]

A right person today may become wrong person after marriage. Marriage is 100% risk.

[@Sati-hd9oi]

100%✓✓✓

[@Ankitsingh-mt5gq]

No marraige No drama No divorce No alimony Stay safe stay strong, peace🤙

[@archangelmichael8209]

no dowry too

[@hackingpanchal8283]

Only marriage with your hand

[@sharathSizZle]

😂 I tried getting hitched and 99% of the wamen 1st question how much do you earn, not what is your name. 2nd question more of a statement 😅 they all demanded 25k onwards for makeup and for parties with their bf with occasional hotel room rent to have fun with bf 😂 after listening to all that my parents no longer tell me to get married 😂

[@nishugowda6172]

​@@sharathSizZlemen can expect dowry, beautiful girl, educated one and who knows every household work why can't girl expect a financially settled guy. What do you expect l then? Men shaming girls who are fat is it fine? Who will pay the hospital bills, groceries and school fee for the kids? Moreover respect matters when men don't respect women this is what happens. Buying bride?

[@tamoghnagangopadhyay2847]

​@@archangelmichael8209Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal and women especially feminists support alimony but men in general dont

[@magirai12345]

I'm a 30 years old female n i have seen my mom facing domestic abuse from Dad during childhood and this has made me realize that it's better off being alone than with the wrong person. Same goes to the males too

[@hariommanjhuindia627]

Ha , isi vajah se hame independent hona chahiye specially financially

[@hermionegranger8629]

(in the west, or in India?)

[@being5411]

she chose bad partner

[@INDIANATHEIST526]

@@hermionegranger8629 india me domestic voilence zyada hai

[@jagwarxofficial6184]

First of all heal yourself with philosophy and spirituality . Go exterior discover the world and reboot yourself and then retook decision

[@vbalaji682]

As a 25M, I feel the concept of marriage nowadays to be a kind of big business deal and nothing else. You study well, graduate from a good college, make a decent salary but the moment you hear about marriage people say you don't have a house, car, you have this much loan and what not. They are simply saying WHAT YOU HAVE IS NOT ENOUGH. Of course people can earn this over a period of time, but what's the point of marrying someone who doesn't want to be on your side when you are working hard, struggling but wants the fruitful results alone? It is better not to get married than ending up with a person who judges you for your materialistic possessions.

[@defensefanbd2237]

U have said the same thing i am thinking all Day

[@bindutiwari4263]

@Harsh Patel nah that's not at all true . Your source - Just Trust me bro

[@kislaysingh3446]

@Harsh Patel never ,, you have seen wrong mens ,,, average looking hardworing ....>>>>>>> beautiful

[@kislaysingh3446]

@Harsh Patel 😔😔,, yes bro beacuse of family pressure ,, better to find groom with the help of relatives and friends network and make the girl financially independent [ goverment jobs using reservations] this would be a good move

[@kislaysingh3446]

@Harsh Patel bro bpsc ka exam ,, ssc ,,, every state has their exam like bpsc and most imp exam THE GATE exam can be given by even bsc students ,,,, pcs exam ,, lower pcs exam and many more bro ,, meri bahen bhi pcs ki tayari kar rahi hai bro

[@amitbhadana4109]

Today, female donot want to get married.. it's true. I'm 27 year old female and i also don't want to get married.. bcoz in every marriage around me except for my parents, i have seen mental and emotional abuses, sometimes physical also.. crying girls with no option.. so, many people think that it's better to remain single and unmarried than abusive relationship and divorce. Ask any married couple around you, almost 99% will say that marriage is like a trap. Also in Indian society, parents donot want their children to do love marriage, and instead they try to find girl or boy by themselves in their caste.

[@TheKuttaapi]

correct

[@Sifubhaiarmy]

Very good bro I appreciate but I am belong poor family and I have one sister if you don't choose poor girl for marriage so this is also not good I suggest you should decided marige with good girl and low income family that my opinion and also I agree many good looking girl rejected me and also I have one sister they want married but know one want poor family background

[@Apexedits056]

You are a female,but your name is Amit Bhadana 😅

[@arnavsamaddar6638]

Stay single and deprressed

[@TheAvics]

I am 29 years old and have a govt job. Still I don't want to marry because of my medical condition. I have auto immune disorder which makes my life worse. I don't want any girl to regret after marriage 😞

[@uttam_k766]

Sorry to hear this.

[@lyyliesther984]

God bless you and bring you lucky times

[@rajeshjaganathan224]

Even my doctor also said something like that. But what does it mean. What is the issues we face because of it. Can you share a video describing about it. Thank you

[@Ascendify5]

enjoy life as much as u can bro.. have trips.. eelax meditare

[@b-23aryankishore64]

Enjoy your life

[@Ayush_Thakur16]

Rich men don't want to marry because they don't want to loose their freedom. Poor man can't marry because most of the women will prefer to stay unmarried rather than engaging with poor men.

[@thethreespikes9737]

Truth. Girls have become outright materialistic.

[@puguwash]

What you said is true. Women want husbands with salary packages very High or matching them as evident in matrimonial sites. Well women are right in having that demand. So it is tough time for boys. I am single at 36 and not sure if I would be able to get married.

[@shekharkapoor9208]

@@puguwash same with me 33-year-old

[@NatkhatNoble]

@@puguwash How are women demanding a very high income husband right? Financial growth can happen even after marriage.

[@Gr8_Yagami]

@@puguwash Lol why women are right in having that demand?

[@parthjain1496]

*Advantages of Not Doing marriage* 1. SAVING EASILY 50 LAKH ON MARRIAGE 2. NO CONFLICTS 3. YOU CAN LIVE A GOOD LIFE WITH YOUR PARENTS 4. more savings, Means Better Lifestyle 5. NO DEPRESSION, MEANS NO HEART ATTACK, MEANS LONGER LIFE

[@sciencespectrum3855]

Yes👍 but we need artificial baby making facility🤓

[@aosatishkumar1890]

What about sexual desires?

[@sciencespectrum3855]

Agar Sadi kar le to jindegi bhar wife tang karte rahenge😭

[@saurabhjakhar5582]

@@AkshayShukla. 🤣🤣🤣

[@sciencespectrum3855]

@@vinayrao1087 artificial intelligence can make you happy 😊 they will treat like a human😁

[@Brainy_Gamer3355]

To be honest. For all males and females marriage has become a mystery. Some feel it as business. Some are afraid of toxicity. Some don't understand why to get married and loose freedom. Inshort everyone is confused in the aspect of marriage 😂

[@silviatevini5815]

I married with One boy tamil origin but after10 year we divorcied he look for Money and go abroad

[@PreetiSingh-bh1ff]

​@@silviatevini5815But why you both gave divorce?

[@IPSITA1000]

That's why soul searching taking time for yourself to know yourself deeply is very important first

[@Brainy_Gamer3355]

@@IPSITA1000 If one is able to activate the complimentary energy within themselves, then the dependency on other gender becomes less. It can be achieved using yoga, Healing process etc. Twin flame is all about the same, to realize we are complete with in our ourselves, realize and embracing it.

[@Brainy_Gamer3355]

@@silviatevini5815 sad to hear dear, Hope you grow more powerful ❣️ . It's all part & parcel of life

[@LinilKomban]

We need to talk about educating these depressed men about happy life without marriage. Marriage is not a key to happiness. There are many males and females choosing to stay unmarried and are living a very happy life.

[@freezingmoon5415]

Happiness within oneself is important. If our happiness is based on other person then our happiness can be destroyed immediately.

[@AshTheDuke]

These days men need women who earns wells and pays the bills equally

[@ss0498]

Yes, correct.

[@user-rc8vy6fg9f]

After reading so many comments like this, I think I'll not get married by my choice in future and also the girl I'm looking for is kinda rare to find these days😅

[@rishaveagarwal3737]

the main reason is many of us had seen toxic marriage of our parents , and don't want the same thing in our life

[@hermionegranger8629]

Interesting. Bigoted people will say My Parents' Relation Was Perfect, bcs My Country Is Perfect ...... Interesting to read many different opinions on the topic nowadays.

[@Kathakathan11]

@@hermionegranger8629 what who are these bigoted, any person who has seen mom or dad suffering won’t lie. But there are functional marriages too.

[@Musk1111]

100% truth

[@animeshjha2442]

Exactly same with me

[@SabyasachiBeheraIGIT]

Actually, this is the reason for majority.

[@prysp]

I was born in Haryana, but later moved to Jharkhand. The first thing which I noticed after coming to Jharkhand was that in my class the girl population seemed more, which was indeed true. In my school in Haryana, there were 23 boys and 7 girls, while the same in Jharkhand was 25 girls and 30 boys. I remember that I once heard my mom talking on the phone that there are no girls in Haryana. 😅

[@fakeidi]

I recommend you to go Kerala 😅

[@prysp]

@@fakeidi Wait, is the case opposite there?

[@shashwatkumaratul1886]

It's true

[@green_hedger_68]

@@fakeidi Kerala is totally different. Different Culture and language.

[@princeofheaven19]

@@fakeidi kerala was great but the boy child disease is catching up , child sex ratio has declined to females

[@prasadraopilli1764]

Please do not ever get married. Be free and be happy.

[@DAANISH_KHAN_]

Reasons a guy scared to get married - 1. Unstable income 2. Unsecured future 3. Unemployed 4. Girls have high expectations from her life partner. 5. Extra marital affairs of girls 6. Harsh Alimony and maintenance 7. Unfavourable marram laws against men. 8. False matrimonial cases against men. 9. Loosing freedom, doubling responsibilities 10. Girls have social media partners, colleagues and ex-bf to support, but men haven’t.

[@ss0498]

Facts brother.

[@Aaradhya24]

Good. If guys stop marrying it'll be like a heaven for Indian women

[@ss0498]

@@Aaradhya24 Not only for women but also will be a heaven for men too.

[@Aaradhya24]

@@ss0498 YES. And men should support it whole heartedly

[@ss0498]

@@Aaradhya24 Yes some of us are already doing that and more are following in.

[@DeepakKumar-ws9wj]

"Being in a relationship is about solving problems together....Problems you wouldn't have if you were single." 🤣🤣

[@mando9181]

😂😂

[@user-ml7sq4wp3c]

Bohoot bard hai tere bato mai

[@hermionegranger8629]

(What's so negative about solving problems together, just the two of you?)...

[@sendbreadandveggies]

@@hermionegranger8629 those problems won't even exist if there is no relationship.

[@itv5610]

lmao

[@jugnu2344]

Love is blind but marriage is eye opener. I'd rather be single and miserable than married and miserable. And my wallet said we can die together. 😇 💫

[@laughterstation9270]

Sigma comment 🔥

[@Ashish-uo5nm]

Jai Guru Gaur Gopal Das ji ki.. 👍😄🤗.

[@peterparker9954]

Marriage cannot work in tandem with ego

[@karandullet380]

Mate you'll soon change that view

[@karandullet380]

@mommydeath then why are you telling us that shouldn't you he busy mourning her loss?

[@realbigmanoncampus]

Men who are even considering marriage should visit the divorce courts and see how men are being rammed by the women and judges; how unfair is the system; how tragic is it for men and their families.

[@Chandrashekharbanerj]

very true

[@anayadegani626]

And see how courts deny women for wanting to break marriages for domestic violence

[@ajaygosai1759]

True ✅💯

[@suhasvigneshwar678]

I thought Indian law system was better than US in treating men?? No??

[@realbigmanoncampus]

@@suhasvigneshwar678 Not really. In both systems women face no consequences to making false accusations - at least in divorce courts.

[@Vroom2k]

We missed a point.. More empowered females don't connect with equally empowered male.. But since both are getting equal work opportunities, there are only few men left better than that female..

[@amritasahu2023]

Hypergamy concept. Right?

[@absar8304]

Let me give you an example of the same in my actual real life experience, i have a friend who works in IT he is almost 29, he is actively looking for a bride and so when he got a match with a girl, her father was a driver of some sort with monthly income of 10K , my friend said if the girl is good thats all that matters and he went to see the girl , but the father of the girl rejected him saying he doesn't earn much, the package of my friend is 15lac per annum 🤦‍♂️

[@tanishthajaiswal8928]

He couldn't count the zeros properly

[@srikarchinna1793]

Let them reject ....sooner or later they will realize and will come to realty.

[@abracadabra7550]

Yes this happens quite a lot. Even non earning girls with bad family background financially wants upwards of 20 25 lpa. Thats why try having love marriage with colleague/same college. Both will earn equal.

[@soumengorai8346]

@@abracadabra7550 i have 2 factories and 3 room for rent and big plots to give to bride and if they need gov job i will ready to prepare for it but after marriage this is my strategy 😂😂my age is now 25 years but I will need a bride somehow so that our marriage will be done happily and have a better kids in future

[@KUSH_Joshi]

@@tanishthajaiswal8928 haha

[@abhinaba_pal]

To all men out there. Focus on your life, serve your Nation, and always keep your Father and Mother happy.

[@yashbush7145]

Abeyy chup

[@Kushagra.j]

Focus on success bitches will come running

[@krish4134]

One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)

[@ashamedtobeindian6418]

Serve your nation and in exchange get rampant corruption, pollution, inflation and taxes in almost everything.

[@gautamyadav10]

Ladkiya onlyFans and insta pe naachkar bhi paisa kama sakti hao , so boys focus on career and money only.

[@bishwajeetpattnayak]

In today's society, there is immense pressure to live up to certain expectations when it comes to financial stability and material possessions. While I may be able to provide for my own basic needs, I worry that I may not be able to meet the high standards that are often expected in a marriage.

[@debanikgoswami4834]

Most guys of our generation are struggling with career. Even in 30s we don't know if we will be well settled or not. There is no point getting married.

[@maishayartonahi]

@@debanikgoswami4834 actually. I'm a girl and I know ki ladki ni bhi kamati to usko still respect aur acceptance milega. Bahut ladke shaadi krne ko ready honge. But what about men? Unko to koi dekhega bhi ni. Society is very unfair for men and this is why I tell all my male frnds to just focus on your career and not run behind girls... Survival bhut mushkil hai ladko ke liye.

[@durjay21]

You forgot the misuse of biased women centric laws like fakse 498a DV 125 false cases...once a family falls prey their sons afraid of marriage. 498a is now one of India's booming profitable business

[@newaryamen]

Liberals like him won't ever say that

[@azmathmoosa4324]

A lot of men need to understand, it is better to be unmarried than to be in the wrong marriage. A wrong woman can single handedly throw your entire family in jail with fake allegations and demand massive ransom as alimony. So you are relatively better off at this moment. Focus on stabilizing yourself. Women will come if you have enough money to provide them a decent lifestyle.

[@meenapatel1648]

I can say the same for the reversed genders My mother always taught me this ☺️💗

[@rutvikrs]

@@meenapatel1648 that is literally programming trauma into the next generation. Ask her to stop

[@meenapatel1648]

@@rutvikrs so it is wrong for a woman to stay single then to get married with a wrong man? Lol what

[@babysroundhead]

Don't entertain unnecessary people be it men or women

[@rutvikrs]

@@meenapatel1648 any parent imposing their experience onto thier child to the point they leave aside an aspect of life is programming trauma. A healthy parent informs and guides the child through the experience. Both the OP and you are so afraid of a "relationship with the wrong person" that you will never accept flaws in the other person.

[@sodiumchloride5202]

As an Introvert I will never marry. It's better to remain unmarried than having an incompatible spouse. I love my single life. I can feel peace and solitude. Majority of people marry not because they love the person genuinely, but because society forced them to marry. There is no genuineness.

[@rajagopalanb8265]

🙂

[@ayushyash6021]

Don't use social media too much!

[@meghnasoni]

Your parents won't agree though

[@subhanshaik19]

Beta jab tum 35 ke upar ki age ke hojaoge tab pata chalega

[@subhanshaik19]

Agar tab bhi nahi pata chala to budhape bada pachtaoge

[@SunLake-pr1di]

You came in this world alone, you live alone, you die alone. Never marry ✅ Chase your goals Live your life your way Bother none except your parents. Stay away from - 1. Drugs, alcohol, cigarette etc 2. social media like FB, Instagram etc 3. Marriage For guys - Don't chase women, there are none worthy of it

[@ajaygosai1759]

💯

[@ak.v7]

Absolutely true sir

[@priyankarai6501]

himalaya chale jao ise acha 😂 aisi zindagi se behtar to maut hai

[@vaibhavroy79]

@@priyankarai6501 maze karna sahi hai, chakkar me phasna galat hai. Consensual maze karo, no problem.

[@rahulmma]

​@@priyankarai6501Kya aap shaadi ke liye ladka dhoond rahi hain?

[@masterankit7268]

I have also decided to stay unmarried in my life and it's my firm and final decision. What I believe is that marriage must be optional and not be enforced upon by family/society. And I am happy that my family is educated and agrees with my decision. Our Constitution grants us right to live our life our way.

[@ss0498]

Yep marriage is a just an overrated ceremony, and after getting married I have seen things go horribly wrong for some people better be safe than sorry.

[@boss_niko]

I love you bro you took the right decision. Look at Salman khan. No wife, no children, no burden nothing. Full bindaas life.

[@chetan4066]

It seems to be a global issue. I've spent more than five years residing in Korea. I came to know that most of my Korean friends are not interested in getting married when we talk about marriage. Compared to India, Korea has a substantially larger percentage of single people. Even girls do not desire marriage. This is due to the high living standards, independent lifestyle, unstable financial situation, and many other factors. And unfortunately, it's become a common issue within several parts of India nowadays!

[@daredevil30000]

Korea is going to face population crisis soon.

[@peterparker9954]

Korean population is rapidly declining

[@kdjoshi726]

@@peterparker9954 Because of high living standards. Education & rent are high af there

[@utubefreak7167]

@@peterparker99540.8 birth rate will do that

[@dhonikumarshahi2806]

@K & D joshi that's not good for a county like Korea

[@LaxCF]

I am 23 preparing for job i belong from middle class family Reason i dont want to be in relationship now is because i dont have enough money I can't go on a date to any restaurant and ,I don't own bike. I have limited amount of money which i spend only on my needs. And also I approached a girl few yrs back i shared my feelings to her and got rejected it was a great life lesson. 😂 From there on i spend lot of time with my family and its an amazing experience ♥️ ❤️.

[@Godamongmen494]

badhia h, ladkia social media dekh ke apne swapno ke mahal me ji rahi h jo ki kabhi pura nehi hoga ....jab vo budhi ho jayegi aur koi attention nehi dega unhe tab bhuktegi like in America

[@LostboyK79]

All the best for your future ❤

[@tarunkalra8327]

👑

[@LaxCF]

@@InshruTripathi i know bike,car financial condition yeh sab toh reason nhi he rejection ke,she sees me as a friend not more than that and that's ok. ♥️

[@champion344]

@@Godamongmen494 ha be 😂

[@trkartik7633]

In TN, even a gril earning Rs.10k pm wants a boy earning Rs.100k pm. what will u say abt this?

[@man58652]

@@ssdftddrt1540 ok even if 100k guys set higher standard what about 95% other guys? It‘s about them they struggle. These girls won‘t find 100k+ guy but they still want it. And their want destroys common man.

[@_Virender]

Marriage is like a side quest in the game and you can skip that and still, you can complete your game.

[@indo_cad8877]

Perfect

[@trishachoudhury7313]

Exactly

[@AshTheDuke]

Cool

[@g_a_m_e_rharsh39]

My uncle did an inter-cast marriage, initially his parents and family were skeptical but she turned out to be a really smart person, with good communication skills and she's really good with people, now everyone loves her. They were colleagues and then they did an love marriage.

[@Aradhaya45720]

I think sometimes love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Atleast in love marriage people care about each other and know enough about each other....

[@AshTheDuke]

Kash mere sath aisa hota

[@GurpreetKaur-hj9xg]

I think inter-cast marriage is a good thing. Somehow a lot of people are attracted and have more respect for other religions. Same thing happens abroad - people have respect for foreigners more than their own country people. They have successful marriages.

[@rajeevmishra8932]

​@@GurpreetKaur-hj9xgnot really....this is sure opposite attracts but attraction is not eternal. My sister had inter caste marriage and she complaint and advise my younger sister to marry in own culture and own community.

[@vartika76297]

​@@rajeevmishra8932arrange marriage me kaun sa love eternity hota hai bhai

[@krish4134]

One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)

[@souvikdas9110]

This is the exact reason for many men to be afraid of marriage.

[@krudenx3488]

After being false accused you lose all sorts of things in life that you built with struggle

[@bhavesh916]

Ipc 497 has been struck down by Supreme Court. It can only be grounds for divorce and isn't a crime anymore.

[@islandsunset]

Adultery was declared unconstitutional by the SC. Sec 377 can be used to give justice to male victims of rape. Yes, sec 377 was used to wrongfully hold LGBT+ youth but now it had been read down. Now only non consensual (r@pe) are held illegal. But I agree that men cannot be victim of domestic violence in India as of now (for dense people this sentence is according to Indian laws and not my personal opinion SMH 🙄)

[@kumarakash5219]

Yes mairrage is becoming curse..

[@dhruvbhartia90]

I don't think we should make fun of Salman Khan for not marrying anyone. It's his life his choice. Even though he is a celebrity, he is still human and we shouldn't comment on his personal life.

[@amitjose3739]

dude is living the life, he doesnt pay alimony and probably hooks up regularly. If any one tries to falsely accuse him or frame him in any manner, he will show them what happens at night, when she walks on a foothpath.

[@tula__]

Thank goodness!! My parents don’t pressure me to marry. I’m a girl and really fortunate. I think marriage should not be such a stigma. Live and let live. Take the power in your hand. Focus into getting financial independence. Irrespective of gender, age!

[@MySonu17]

Pl अपने मा बाप के लिये बोझ मत बन जाना.

[@tula__]

@@MySonu17 financial independence का मतलब पता है ??

[@ss0498]

If he has understood that he wouldn't have said that. Do what makes you happy and never give in to pressure from relatives.

[@MySonu17]

@@tula__हा पता है पर मा बाप के घर मै रेहना एक जवान लडके के लिये बिना कमाये और बिना शादी करे लड़कियो के लिये ज्यादा तर मा बाप के लिये बोझ के समान है. (10% मा बाप ऐसे नहीं नहीं होते )

[@AshTheDuke]

Friends with benefits is the best option

[@mohammadatik786]

No depression No Drama Single life is best 😊👍

[@utkarshshaw8317]

Pakistani are not allowed to watch Indian video

[@max-cs9ko]

Angoor na mile toh khatte hai😂😂

[@nishantjaikari2484]

Eather u r living in joint family with brothers , or with ur friends as room mates , or u haven't reached the age of 37 at least ... It's very hard to live alone in ur own house , with all the luxuries with no one taking care.... What's ur punch ???

[@bhavesh3729]

Mene to bol diya hey ghar pe shadi nahi karu ga, chahe BMW bhi dede petrol to hume hi bharna hey,😎🤣

[@raneatharva3016]

@@max-cs9ko Exactly 💯

[@shekharbhosale4234]

Finally someone’s talking about single men’s mental health. Kudos to you Mangal 👏🏻👏🏻

[@sunriselotus]

I think overall men’s mental health needs to be addressed.

[@TheQuietKId55]

Problem ye nhi h ki ladki nhi h Problem ye h ki dhang ki ladki nhi h

[@Msmithjonesraven]

Sahi baat bhai, 2 rishte aae shadi k and its not that they are bad looking but they are too bland aka they got no hobbies or things they like and their whole personality is based on 'mai khana bna leti hu", which is not bad but khana banane k alawa aur bhi to kaam hai.

[@TheQuietKId55]

@@Msmithjonesraven bhoto ko khana banane me bhi problem h

[@Rakesh.Mishra1991]

Single life is one of the best way of living, every married people are stuck with toxic partner be it arranged marriage or love marriage.

[@earthshuman3864]

They want women but Not daughter Simple and dark

[@_Virender]

and women want money. Simple and dark.

[@vaibhavigaur1842]

@@_Virender and men want beautiful wife

[@denzylfernandes3280]

@@_Virender True

[@vishalrai9532]

@@vaibhavigaur1842 and women also want beautiful husband but they don't get 😂

[@Godamongmen494]

@@vaibhavigaur1842 so why should I marry someone to whom I'm not attracted? It will be unfair for her that her husband is not attracted to her.

[@bong....uronchondi329]

Bro being single is the best thing , no one will stop you, you will live with your own rules...

[@Deolucky15]

97000 married males do suicide every year because of these type of characterless wives 🙏🙏

[@jibran4794]

Biggest reason is our culture. The same societal rules that make male -female interaction so hard in our society also cause these problems.

[@Anushka-fz9bm]

absolutely agree

[@Bharatwasi7]

@ISLAMOPHOBIC BOT No need of a BOT, focus on video. What did you learn from this video?

[@jibran4794]

@@spam403 you call this stability?

[@kanwalhemant]

Upgrade your culture

[@kumargupt3426]

@@Kukhyaati True

[@rigaldotselk4403]

To all the young men out there I want to tell you that focus on your aim and become something big in which you're really passionate about and think that as a kid when you used to take stress and all the responsibilities were upon you and no one was there to give you emotional support much but still you battled it and won so why not now remember guys we're self dependent people without relying on someone else we can live our lives fighting

[@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416]

Ok Eren bhai

[@balaji7233]

@@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416 😂. Eren was right

[@lionheartJustin786]

The thing is whatever we do we will still remain average Joe in this world.

[@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416]

@@balaji7233 I will follow whatever eren Yeager bhai says. Eren bhai zindabad

[@yashwardhantubid2581]

Yes Brother 😈😈

[@_Cricket.tube1]

Marriage comes with risk and the risk outweighs the benefits. There's a risk that comes with marriage that essentially only benefits a woman. When a man marries a woman, all he can do is hope that one day she won't wake up and say"I feel like I don't love you anymore and I want to go, but you can't do anything about

[@gal_targareayn6721]

You could have done anything about it before that point came.... But I am sure introspection is not an Indian man's game.... Better you guys remain single

[@TheTanmoy16]

​@@gal_targareayn6721so your introspection didn't include the fact that communication could be the key? Or introspection is only on men's part? Heart to heart conversation could've also solved that issue. But no the men has to introspect. Then again what could go wrong, win win for women and lose lose for us men. 30% of man's worth easy cash because daddy's Lil monster "doesn't feel it anymore"

[@gal_targareayn6721]

@@TheTanmoy16 cope harder....

[@gal_targareayn6721]

@@TheTanmoy16 you should be scared of daddy's little monsters.... Atleast the fear will make you vigil and sensitive of other people's emotions with whom you live and give you ability to be better listeners... Talking about heart to heart 🤣🤣🤣🤣 with the inability of actually listening and then taking action over it

[@iammealways1124]

Yes I find that actually marriage system is 80-20 benifits for women and men respectively even she is beautiful and he is ugly. It's a huge Indian trap if you want to get out from that you loose your 50% assets and money lol 😂

[@areebkhan9475]

Nowadays marriage is not anymore marriage it becomes a business dealing

[@KingKhan-bi7kb]

To all the young men out there. Work smartly and pursue your goals, get rich, be disciplined, go to gym for yourself not to show-off, be the best version of yourself in terms of personality, be honest to yourself and think 10000 times before marrying because if divorce happens your wife will take away your children, half property, money and permanent monthly alimony even if the divorce is initiated by her. Take care of your parents and be strong. 😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@gamingwithpankajagarwal6773]

prenup is a must even if that means you'll need to marry without proper rituals

[@shekharkapoor9208]

bitter medicine but it will benefit in long term

[@RaviVerma-my4gp]

@@gamingwithpankajagarwal6773 what us prenup

[@RaviVerma-my4gp]

@@shekharkapoor9208 which medicine

[@John_Wick720]

@@RaviVerma-my4gp Jo uppar described hai 🙃

[@ss0498]

It's 100% better to remain single than getting married. No responsibility, no tension, hassle free life and healthy wallet.

[@ajaygosai1759]

💯

[@tdmking1329]

But I fell lonely 😢

[@ss0498]

@@tdmking1329 That seems like a you problem.

[@sureshpeshawaria347]

Then don't marry... I hope you keep up with your words...

[@ss0498]

@@sureshpeshawaria347 sure .

[@farhanmansooriofficial]

Rahul Gandhi Yogi Adityanath Salman khan Apj abdul kalam Atal bihari wajpayi

[@jasmine0613]

Caste system is a whole another problem . My mom very casually says to my elder brother that yes you can fall in love with someone at your work and have a a love marriage but make sure her surname is Gupta/agrawal/goyal/Garg . Like now you would have to fall in love as per surnames . However i as a girl ain't allowed to love . I am all expected to have an arrange marriage in next 6 years . Great!

[@aryan507cz]

Your mom is right bcz different caste actually have different upbringing and thought. For example in my bramhin family alcohol is strictly prohibited but in many caste that is not a big deal. Your mom is also doing the right thing by not allowing to have boyfriend bcz most of the boys of my generation will not get good job . So eventually breakup happen which will decrease your ability to deeply love your future husband. If a husband and wife are each other first relationship then they are more likely to lead a happy married life as they will do everything to keep each other happy.

[@rajavarma8882]

Ha ha ha ha ha ha

[@athribhat2243]

Your mom is 💯 correct

[@gabbarsinh4680]

You didn't mention one important factor!!!!! Girl with 5L package wants boys with 50L package. I have seen couple of cases near me that boys are so fed up of rejection due to their salary that they now gave up on marriage and don't wanna get married.

[@GeneralInfoSystem]

Exactly

[@S-tx2lk]

Why the hell they need such gold digger person in their life? Why such desperation? Only for s*x?😒🤦 Stay bachelor and enjoy life na.

[@fakeidi]

I see a girl who is unemployed and want a nri boy

[@Roopesh0409]

some get cheated so deeply they just get drowned and couldnt get rise. and life inside them dies eventually, with all desires gets dead. We shouldn't break trust, life becomes punishment after getting cheated for long time

[@shubhamzanwar8041]

Completely agree with you. Girls are having so much expectations as they have more options even if she is not earning much or looking good. But if you don't have good looks then your good salary also not gonna help

[@anubratabit3027]

As somebody who continues to battle mental issues, I think that it would be incorrect to state that only men in Indian society don't get to talk about their mental health. In reality, nobody in Indian society gets to talk about mental health. It is still a taboo subject outside the urban upper middle class Indian society. Concepts of depression & stress are seen by an average Indian as fanciful terms used only by the elites of Lutyen's Delhi & South Bombay. Visiting a psychiatrist is considered equivalent to being certified insane in the larger society. This is mostly because of the fact that the school curriculum doesn't discusses about it unless one enters medical college & the resulting lack of interest for it in the public. All of this results in cases of schizophrenia, bipolar disorder & multiple personality disorder being tagged as ghostly/demonic possession, people silently suffering under family members with intermittent explosive disorder, children with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder being not cared properly, post-traumatic stress disorder being hushed up & a host of other societal problems.

[@the1stmetalhead]

Not only that mate, it is also very expensive and not affordable for a lot of Indians to visit a therapist or psychiatrist. Especially adult boys and men in our society since they have this responsibility to take care of their family and not appear weak despite going through all the motions .

[@hindu_1188]

Shut up , depression is imaginary all mental

[@shadymello9146]

It's impossible to approach your parents with such issues. I tried...It's not like they don't believe you it's just that they don't know how to handle it as they were always told to "suck it up" because "that's life"

[@the1stmetalhead]

@@shadymello9146 so on point mate. Also as a growing adult I feel like it's my responsibility to not burden them with my issues and instead help them get better. It's a slippery slope but we're all riding it.

[@killermakd2015]

there are two ways of looking at it, one is your way which is what i will refer to as the wester idea of visiting a psychiatrist, the other is the indian way, meditation. You see, historically, tension and stress have never been lower than today. while today we worry abt competition, back in those days ppl worried abt life and death. the factor that has changed is our ability to cope with that shit. ppl are getting mentally ill simply bcz their patience has decreased over the ages. thats the lowp oint of technology. instant gratifications, fast travel, consuming american cuisine while looking at our phones. in between our lifestyles, we have no breaks to simply think and observe. to contemplate abt the event of the day. to think where we could have compromised, to think where we could have won. all the time our mind has learned to be occupied so much that whenever there comes a time we are unable to occupy ourselves, all hell breaks lose, we start observing how deep we r already in the abyss. in a nation where we already have simple free solutions, even in them all we do is click photos and post to get likes. what else do you expect. our parents might not have gone through the immense competition but then they also didnt have all those mental issues so frequently. these days kids so randomly say they are depressed that it has lost all its meaning here. poor marks? depressed. lost a game?depressed. i mean wtf. not in a relationship? depressed. cmon ppl. all it takes is 15 mins in a day to sit straight close your eyes and focus on anything. no cameras no devices. just think. start there and slowly progress towards say your faith. all it takes is to not look at the phones during those bus rides and metro rides. all it takes is to have less oily food and more roti sabji. change your lifestyle, accept your reality. even a psychiatrist can only hear you. its not that effective when you really spend all that money.

[@muskaanvyas9097]

Its great to see you are bring such topics which people take lightly but are serious issues

[@RkR2001]

You are So Right!

[@noone.7785]

I am employed and belongs to a prosperous family, but i decided to remain lifelong single since class 9, as after the school, I found being in a relationship was no more fun but was a responsibility and I found it tough to be bound by that life long responsibility.

[@shekharkapoor9208]

mere saath bhi aisa hi hua hai till 33 year old single

[@nishantjaikari2484]

What's ur age ?

[@ayeshakawakil845]

@@shekharkapoor9208 me 40 ka hu...have gf from NE, we don't need social approval for our relationship, we r happy to be together without any courts and government intervention

[@alextiru4778]

@@ayeshakawakil845 full form of NE?

[@ayeshakawakil845]

@@alextiru4778 NE means North East...She is from Nagaland

[@sudipmukherjee5836]

Mangal, U missed a VERY IMPORTANT POINT!! Since your video revolves around unmarried Indian men, the main reason for this situation is the high bargaining power from the prospective bride and her parents. On any day, if U go through a 'Wanted Grooms' section of any Indian matrimonial website or regional newspapers, U will easily find those criteria, not commonly matched by major population of Indian single men. For example, IIT/IIM (Both) Graduate, 7-8 digit Salary, NRI, Government job, Height above 6ft, etc. Whereas, in 'Wanted Brides' section, Maximum criteria that U will find from the men's parents side 'Wanted homely, qualified, beautiful girl for....'. U see the difference of wants here?? This has come to a level where every Indian knows at least one person, Man or Woman, who remained unmarried, just because either their criteria from their prospective partners were NOT fulfilled (mostly Indian women), or their demographics could NOT match the criteria of their prospective partners (mostly Indian men).

[@cringebee-vt1nk]

Exactly.....It is difficult to digest that how could a women or girls parent bargain or argue....aren't they a cattle or something to get shift in truck from one place to another....n how dare she is educated or ugly or want to work,this is just not acceptable...she is a girl she have to be dependent and obey order.... I m a man this my patriarchal system....don't u dare girls expect something from me,it's me who is expecting your independence ,chuck of your dad's money to get married

[@TheTanmoy16]

OMG! This should've been pinned. Best in the comment section

[@zuckthebetacuck2789]

Hypergamy is universal.

[@amritasahu2023]

Qualified but homely? This breaks me. 😑😑

[@akshatsingh7223]

Great Content as always. Good job Boss

[@Prakash-vs3yo]

U r always so too the point bro. Very well researched

[@aakashdeepkharia3220]

"Remember brothers marriage is a distraction stay strong until you achieve your goals "

[@harshalahirrao683]

🗿

[@peteck007]

And what about those who have achieved their goals??

[@fivecardan]

Yea.... Those goals won't even be valid if earth's population drops low

[@peteck007]

@@fivecardan lmao yes.. ye alag hi prajati nirman Hui he.. Sigma Chad 🤣

[@Stoic_27]

20 pushups now 🦍🔥

[@jugnu2344]

Men opting out of marriage is not a problem. It's a solution. The word Marriage gives me free dipression and anxiety.

[@anayadegani626]

Another reason is also women are becoming independent so it's easier for them to say no if they don't want marriage many women are scared of marriage because their husband has a lot of power over them and social issues play a big factor how people blame women when they give birth to girls the increasing rate of domestic violence and dowry then being forced to give up your career there are many other reasons of course but i feel these are the main

[@funnyman3510]

Sounds like you're from a north indian state

[@anayadegani626]

@@funnyman3510 this doesn't only occur in north indian states

[@aftabmohd7235]

It's our mistake wherein women were not given importance earlier and made a liability...and now i feel proud to say that men are facing what women have been facing for ages...but times will change and surely both will have mutual respect...

[@arnavsamaddar6638]

Its lie thta women wer oppressed for ages. Thye were oppressed for few centuries while men being oppressed since ages

[@adityasalunkhe1288]

yes but it isn't problem of good guys and girls tho, then why shall they suffer?? It's not like they did anything bad

[@amritasahu2023]

Right

[@amritasahu2023]

​@@adityasalunkhe1288If you're a good person, wait for a good person and don't settle for the bad one.

[@thetrickster9885]

​@@amritasahu2023what is "good"?

[@jainsushree]

Tbh, it's a win. Peeps are choosing to not settle for less(both girls AND guys), which might be seen as acting selfish but y not fulfil ur own dreams before taking responsibility of fulfilling those of ur coming generation :) Edit: also Many people hv realised that there's much more to life than just furthering ur generation

[@GaneshAher1729]

Why not just call it a bramhacharya?

[@KUSH_Joshi]

May coz of social media influencing a lot by showing better life style

[@jainsushree]

@@GaneshAher1729 well u can still date so not exactly brahmacharya 😅

[@GaneshAher1729]

@@jainsushree bramhacharya is for 2 kind of people Those who want to completely devote their life to God and want to take sanyas And other is Those who want to have family. Different rules of bramhacharya for different kind of people. It's not like brahmachari people can't marry.

[@jainsushree]

@@GaneshAher1729 ooh didn't know that..well now I do :)

[@codetocompetectc1810]

Inter-caste marriages are very rare and sometimes parents stop and emotionally torture their children. But I think if someone is educated and good, it does not matter from which caste they belong and I think these things makes our society more mature.

[@ajsuraj]

In fact educated people are more likely to maintain cas in marriageste. For instance Bamans.

[@usnasi4439]

I am a child of inter caste marriage and in inter caste marriage myself. Many relatives of mine are in inter caste marriage.I never had bad experience, rather only good because of government schemes to help children of inter caste marriages. Only excepton was when my parents were looking for an alliance, both castes (my father and mother's side) were not interested because I am a mixed caste.

[@codetocompetectc1810]

@@ajsuraj No that's not correct.. I have seen people coming from progressive societies and educated too are more likely to accept inter caste marriages.

[@codetocompetectc1810]

@@usnasi4439 Love to hear..More power and love to your parents❣️

[@ajsuraj]

@@codetocompetectc1810 That's an exception not the norm. However such initiatives should be welcomed & celebrated. The families should be garlanded so that they promote it & break the social stigma.

[@kirankurwade]

Good One !

[@user-hi7qx2iq4j]

To be honest Indian men need to be a little stronger and stop craving for marriage! You won’t die if you can’t find a partner ! Men need to raise their heads high and focus on their lives and become UNSHAKABLE individuals of high values ! Don’t be so anxious to find a partner ! Being An individual you are the most powerful being ! IF LIFE CONSIDERS YOU WORTHY YOU WILL GET YOUR WOMAN BUT IF NOT ITS NOT THE END OF THE ROAD! You can do other greater things in life ! It’s a shame that men are getting depressed not finding a bride ! Live life with pride and dignity for yourself !

[@nucleus5543]

...failure of many marriages in society is also a reason why it is a challenge to commit to another person in a less tolerant environment.

[@rahulsamant2003]

I m glad in tribal communities girls r in good ratio with respect to men.....even more than men.....but to change the situation in country level it will take time and innocent men will suffer because of mistake made by our parents 😭

[@manthanpatel6295]

And sc st don't have dowry pratha

[@saitama2508]

@@manthanpatel6295 they do

[@user-wq3hh4up7r]

@@manthanpatel6295 because there condition is not good, once there condition will improve they will also start demanding dowry, and conducting very expansive marriages.

[@user-wq3hh4up7r]

@@saitama2508 right only poor and backward st SC don't demand dowry,

[@rahulsamant2003]

@@manthanpatel6295 we don't have dowry but things r changing now for bad.....i have few cases where girls after marriage is taunted for things she brought as gifts......and few families take Pride in expensive gifts they received. Ppl here r getting influenced by other communities in terms of dowry which is bad. We need to take care of this.

[@OnlineMarketingRope]

I 32 right now and decided not to marry. I earn, cook, clean my house, take care of my parents and everything in my own hand don’t feel I need to get marriage ever. No need to spend 5-10 lakhs in wedding which may have no return. Divorce rate is rising, women file fake rape/domestic violence cases against men/husband. Individuality is important. Regarding kids, India is overpopulated; cost of education, property, and healthcare is rising alarmingly. Don’t want to bring a child in a country which have corrupted govt. poor infrastructure, lack of resources to lead a average life. Better travel, invest money in FD, MF, stocks and create wealth and adopt kids.

[@KunalBahuguna-gp7hu]

How did you convince your parents?

[@OnlineMarketingRope]

I am 18+ matured person and independent individual. Why would I need to convince my parents ? @@KunalBahuguna-gp7hu

[@vishnuMSify]

Guys it's better to not get married than going through harrasment of law department after marriage. Get well educated get a decent job and enjoy Life.

[@karanpatel1346]

I genuinely believe that romantic love between two people is an illusion, the idea of love of two people cannot simply be at same page and as love is an emotion like anger it's actually not constant but momentary. And that's why remaining single for life makes sense to me.

[@AakashKale27]

no buddy nothing as such . Hopefuly you'll find someone u love

[@ajaygosai1759]

💯

[@maishayartonahi]

@@AakashKale27 so love is permanent? Aaj ke zamane me to ni hai atleast 😂

[@AakashKale27]

@@maishayartonahi everyone's experiences vary na...but I've so many examples right in front of my eyes and hum bhi aaj ke zamaane se he hai .. it's probably just hasn't happened to you yet. I've changed from being the hook-up guy that I used to be to a loyal husband in the past 6 years. It happens when it's bound to happen. Peace ✌️

[@maishayartonahi]

@@AakashKale27 cool. Best of luck ☺️

[@prysp]

*Meanwhile how two of my friend’s family view marriage -* Friend 1’s family - You won’t bring any girl to home, we will! Friend 2’s family - You will find your bride, we won’t! Meanwhile me - I would prefer not getting married. 😅

[@kartikeyrathia4227]

U r very chalak bro...

[@speakingsarcasm9014]

"Meanwhile how two of my friends' families view marriage -" sounds better.

[@ayeshakawakil845]

I gave challenge to my parents to find bride and they were unable to do it as every girl has some past relationship which we found out later

[@jioboy2676]

@@ayeshakawakil845 Why girls r becoming so Tharki now a days and who are those boys who enjoy them??😡😂😂😁

[@ayeshakawakil845]

@@jioboy2676 That's not my concern, but such girl should not be allowed to enter inside my house is my only concern...warna poore kul ke izzat jayege bhatte me

[@vijaypawara1088]

Bahut bahut dhanyawad apka ye topic lane ke liye 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@licht-san3148]

Marriage is becoming a deadly trap for Indian men these days due to absurdity of Indian laws. Imagine working hard, earning and saving your entire life then you get married and if you have divorce then everything you have worked for is taken away from you. You loose the house, you loose half of your salary, you loose the kids, plus getting heckled in the courts is common. Imagine paying money to your ex wife who will now use that money to fund her lifestyle with another man. Who'd want that life? Lol. Better to be in a live in relationship. Less issues like these. I mean, there's issue of fake rape cases nd all but if the girl is good it's fine mostly!

[@skmuzammilzeeshan6173]

🤣

[@cherrylle]

You can sign a Prenuptial agreement before marrying. That way you won't loose anything after divorce. (No legal value, but it has persuasive value. Means you can show it in court if it's a 100% original Prenup. Your chances of paying alimony might decrease 🤷‍♀️)

[@seku3509]

@@cherrylle not legal in india

[@saintpixie2765]

Hinduism is the reason behind such poor sex ratio, boycott Hinduism

[@allenrockstar2933]

@@cherrylle PRENUPs not enforceable in courts of law. Any contract that supersede existing law is not enforceable. Matrimonial laws are biased, if gender neutral the implementation is biased resulting in Indian men suffering after false cases, unjust alimony and maintenance.

[@sameerbadage7286]

Actually i think it is our educational problem With education we can solve 1) sex ratio problem 2) career problem 3) early age marriage 4) problem of lack of sex education 5) gender equality

[@ASPIRANTJEE-op3un]

What???Sameer bro kuch bhi..tune sirf aise hee 4 5 social problems bata diye joh iss topic se related bhi nahi hai..

[@rutvikrs]

😂😂

[@speakingsarcasm9014]

Nope, girls (not girls actually, the girls' family) should stop their unrealistic demands. Not everyone can get government job or 6 figure salary.

[@karpytoyt7074]

bhai tujhe jha per sirf unpad hi milenge education naam ki kuj chij nhi hoti😂

[@amanjeetmalik]

@@_Virender jaisa ki video me bola h ....log private jobs ko insecure maante hain. Bhle hi bnda crores me kmaa rha ho.. ye lack of education hi h...

[@sunriselotus]

You should be really proud of yourself for making this video because you are aiding to uplift all peoples sufferings and please continue to o your work in this way of serving humanity.

[@futureteacher7986]

I am a girl and I am career oriented I don't have problem in marrying..... I don't like the fact that whole financial burden falls only on the guy that's why I want to work after marriage too......but the problem with Indian society is the prime duty of a DIL is to serve her husband amd in-laws and be dependent on her husband for every small things she wants.....they won't allow you to work for managing your expenses and then if the wife demands something she will be labelled as materialistic and non comprising All these things are stopping me from getting married

[@rob4614]

Obviously they wont allow u to work as when u have a child that child is dependent on you so you must sacrifice ur happiness for the child

[@futureteacher7986]

@@rob4614 Why doesn't it apply on the dad? Is the child only the mom's? A mom is expected to sacrifice her wishes for the child but the father is absolutely free to go and have fun with his friends and all They don't even want to invest time in their child's education......sirf paise Dena sab kuch nahi hota......this is why in India children are more biased towards their mothers.....they are not comfortable in sharing their problems with their dads

[@mahesh619ra]

​@@futureteacher7986 i agree , but most women marry guys who are well settled rich men who want to be a girl should be a puppet 😂 , marry a guy who is equal earn as much as you

[@futureteacher7986]

@@mahesh619ra I don't have any problem with that

[@futureteacher7986]

@@sagars861 Pehle government job lag Jaye meri phir de dungi

[@aishwaryamaiti4249]

I agree with everything you mentioned, The only reason men hesitate to get married is that some women abuse Indian law. These types of women lack ambition for their careers as well. One of my friends studied engineering but decided to become a housewife because she told me that her bakra (she said those words for her husband) earns more than she expected, so she does not wish to work nor does she wishes to contribute at all, given that these properties are hers. She can obtain them through any means she chooses. After hearing her reasons, I stopped talking to her. Hence, I urge every single man and woman out there to stop thinking that just because you aren't getting married does not mean your life is over. The marriage system has become a wholesome trap to ruin either one of the partners mentally and emotionally and also, waste their hard-earned money. hence It's more important to maintain self-respect rather than get humiliated.

[@Godamongmen494]

😵oh teri aysi bhi ladkia hoti h🥴soch raha tha Arrange marriage thik h, ab too bilkul nehi karuga,

[@appliedmech]

Saddening. I feel, institution of marriage is dead now. No point of marrying.

[@r_saneee]

that's why i'm thinking to travel russia for russian girl

[@hunnybunny8179]

if possible...kindly give a small hint to that Bakra plzzz...as stealthily as u may do but plzzz

[@aishwaryamaiti4249]

@@hunnybunny8179 I wish I could, but what if he still take his wife side, popat mera ho jaayega, and some men do not understand the consequences till they see themselves, so let it be😞

[@chandankumarsah5271]

Benefits of not getting married: 1) More Saving 2) High standard of living 3) Away from Depression(girls) and pressure 4) Enjoy with multiple women rather than getting bounded with single 5) You will have more freedom

[@hariommanjhuindia627]

Kash yah baat tere baap soch leta

[@chandankumarsah5271]

@@hariommanjhuindia627 mere papa ki bhi shadi unki marzi ke bina hui thi

[@BeingVishalYadav]

Main to salman bhai se inspired hu 🗿

[@loveshell007]

By your logic, multiple women = multiple depression

[@chandankumarsah5271]

@Sigma Male thanks for support bro... People like you can only understand what I am trying to say

[@thequeryqueen]

Mohak ladko se zyada to ladkiyon ko shame kiya jata hai. I'm a 27 yrs old unmarried women whose seen her mother treated like shit by non other than my father since childhood. All around me while growing up, all I've seen is men abusing their wives, whether its relatives or friends. We women when are married are treated nothing more than "Glorified kaam waali baiya" in the name of marriage who are demonized for no reason from time to time. Our pain and struggles are never even considered instead we are again shamed for it. Its not like there are no good men in the world but I just don't have the strength in me to risk it because I know, I will be the one who will ultimately suffer if anything goes wrong and still no one will even give a damn instead I will be demonised, humiliated, shamed. I rather choose be alone I'm better off by myself. I am enough.

[@Discoveknowledge]

Ok but no one can live alive in her full life agree 💯 ? I think 🤔 you should marry someone who is unemployed you earn ,tell him that he do all household works . By the way aap job karti ho ? What qualities you wanted to see in your future husband 😊

[@thequeryqueen]

@@Discoveknowledge Yaha job ki baat kaha se aa gai. Maine toh aisa kuch ni likha hai. Aap kuch bhi matlab nikaal rahe ho.. Aur mai jo experience kar rahi hu wahi bol rahi hu and by the way ek unemployed bande se shaadi karna bhi hell se kum nahi hai. Mera cousin bhai unemployed hai aur meri bhabhi job karti hai. Dono bohot jhagadte hai aur suffer bhabi ko hi karna padhta hai. Das baate ushi ko sunni padhti hai. Aur lagta hai maine jo upper likha hai aapne pura padhaa hi nahi yaafir aapko samajh mai nahi aa ayaa acche se.

[@Discoveknowledge]

@@thequeryqueen Ok you are right but according to me marriage is very necessary for our life without marriage we can't live alive in this world . Aap kab tak apne parents par financial dependent rahungi . Waise aap job karti ho ki preparation kar rahi ho . Presently I'm preparing for upsc cse .

[@thetrickster9885]

So much self victimization good luck forget marriage it wiill be tough to live alone if you are a narcicist

[@Abbyramrosy]

Still so many women lose their lives because of some men. Shame 😢 it's men who need better education....😅

[@mithunnair8587]

So happy to see these types of videos being made to make people aware of the unanswered problems in our society

[@siddhantoroy2232]

Financial security is one of major reason urban youth not getting married I know girls and guys who don't want to marry yet just because they are not self independent or not saved enough money or insecurity that they want to enjoy their life at best before getting married after marriage "ghar ki zimadariyio meh hi jeewan chale jayega"

[@shekharkapoor9208]

yeh sach hai aadmi apne liye waqt nahi nikal pata

[@Traumatised311]

Very true

[@shubhammayekar9210]

Great video

[@manoramashukla5207]

Nice video sir... it's helpful..I'm student.

[@NirmalKumar-sc5tk]

Indians are crazy about government jobs, don't know why 🤷‍♂. I am working in IT sector and I am earning more than most government officers. And yet I was rejected by girl's family twice in arranged marriage setup. They say that private job is not secure. But if one has enough skills, he/she can find another job easily.

[@anishashaji4133]

Exactly 👍

[@alextiru4778]

Bhai aapko sidha sidhi ladki ki family ko bolna chaiye ki Jab Life ki security nahi hai toh Job ki security le kar kya karenge

[@ashishjoseph3522]

Recession, the constant struggle to upscale and staying relevant to the industry standards is not a headache for us. Meanwhile we government employees were chill even during covid. The child of even a peon is secured with top class education if one is employed in the central government.

[@anishashaji4133]

@@ashishjoseph3522 exactly even if we try to live a simple lifestyle, inflation is pulling down savings

[@ashishjoseph3522]

@@anishashaji4133 Corporate sector does take care of the employees nowadays and I am not against any private job. But when in a government job one feels like, "my basic security needs have been satisfied, now I can find time for other stuff to do"

[@anonymous-yt8jq]

Remember guys no one will make you happy in your life , if you think after marriage your life will be good then you are living in dreams , enjoy what you have , have gratitude in your life , see positive perspective of single life

[@raneatharva3016]

That's why you need to find the right person & have to 'Live-In' because of Indian Laws !

[@anonymous-yt8jq]

@@raneatharva3016 happiness is not related to marriage , you can be happy without that also , you just have to accept yourself , no one is right for you apart from yourself , we have to look for partner who will be just part of your life not your life

[@gautamyadav10]

If men's do not have sxual desire, The never want to get married.

[@anonymous-yt8jq]

@@gautamyadav10 no one want commitment brother whether you are guy or girl , in past time marriage was need for both men and women , women needs protection and men need it for obvious reason , now women are no longer require mens protection so they will also won't prefer marriage but it is not acceptable in our society so still it's happening but time is changing rapidly

[@mandarp9472]

Maintenance can not be denied over adultery charges. So wife can have an affair and still can claim maintenance, alimony from husband.

[@chiranjivibotla5186]

Sahi vedio banayee.. Sir.. It's true.. Make many more vedio on this topic 👌👌

[@amritangshudas6768]

Le me:- living in W.B , afraids to get married, rejected 4 girls, enjoying bachelor life!😎🙏😎

[@ayanmondal772]

Ki junne bhai

[@amritangshudas6768]

@@ayanmondal772 simple hisab: "Why u going to share ur favourite pizza!, If u could enjoy it whole alone!"😋😋

[@being5411]

@@amritangshudas6768 wah kya bat hi bhaisab

[@mogleesh-22]

I see Smart man. 🙏

[@xcaIypz]

"Jo hame chahiye use ham nahi chahiye, aur jinhe ham chahiye vo kise chahiye "

[@Kushagra.j]

Two can play this game. Even more so with girls. They want a handsome man who is above 5'9. Earns in lahks and also has a house or atleast his own apartment. They ask a man not to be superficial yet judge him on his appearance and bank balance. They want equal contribution in house work while not earning or earning not even half. They don't want kids and aren't able to maintain harmony with in-laws. They Want to have independence yet still want a man's money. Want freedom yet don't want to work. They want someone to be there emotionally yet themselves become unavailable when needed. I'm not generalizing 95% of women are very good like in my family and some of my friends yet these 5% of feminazis ruin the reputation of their fellow ladies and willingness of men and their respect.

[@Ash-sw6sc]

Jinhe ham chahiye voh hai hi nahi 😂

[@globaldata8898]

@@Ash-sw6sc haa bhai 🤣👍

[@cherrylle]

​@Kushagra Shut up. As if men don't judge women?? She should be skinny, waist should be this much, She should be well educated BUT ALSO a good housewife, She should have a good degree but we won't let her work, She should have fair skin, She should bear children as per he wish of husbands family etc etc Some even expect bride to play lakhs crores in dowry and the bride has to take the whole wedding expense. Both men and women are victims of toxic Societal standards, so don't blame only women

[@squ34ky]

_"I wouldn't want to belong to any club that would have me as a member"_ _-Woody Allen_

[@areyaverma4740]

I love your perspective ..from a girl perspective would also like to share how most indian men and their families have unrealistic expectations from girls ..and seeing our mothers and grandmothers struggle we don't want ourselves to be in certain situations... Which move us away from marriage especially from thoese men who want a wife who they can control

[@ss0498]

Better to be single than being in a needless marriage.

[@adityasalunkhe1288]

most is a bit too much right? Like how did you estimated that? Based on your experience? If i said the same about girls, how most of them expect a richer family despite belonging from a poor family and then filing a false accusations against them, will that be right?

[@amritasahu2023]

Agreed. ❤️

[@amritasahu2023]

​@@adityasalunkhe1288 Even poor girls want richer boys mostly. I can agree with this part. But the false allegation part..mostly? Nope. ( but, yes. Even if it's just a fraction of women doing it, it's enough to make any good man scared. That's understandable. )

[@shyammohanty01]

According to National Family Health Survey, 2020-21 (NFHS-5) India’s Sex ratio in 2022 is 1020 females per 1000 males. In the rural area, the Sex ratio is 1037, and in the urban areas, it’s 985 females to 1000 males. (Little confused on the part mentioned the current sex ratio is 925/1000)

[@SilentKiller-jv4sd]

Sir please make a video on boys mantel issues and solutions specialy for parents. To show them what they are facing. Many young generation facing this problem because of family pressure. I think this will be a turning point for every indian parents. Thanks 🙏

[@Rishabh-Dev]

Guys, it was nothing but a prank, I just wanted to know how people would react. And i am somewhat sad to see that most of you are completely against the concept of marriage.😕 I don't know about you all but I just can't wait to get married and have kids of my own.✌️

[@ayeshakawakil845]

@@Rishabh-Dev u want my retirement age to increase by 15-20 years 😭

[@rhythmgupta1615]

More power to you... I have similar plans about orphanage..

[@merakhudkachannel6620]

I am also 27 but I can only make maggi rarely , i need life partner to do all work. 😉

[@t62adriver55]

I recommend you to watch up in the air, this might answer your question

[@VikramjitSingh924]

Bhai i m 26 and I work in Amazon bangalore and I m experiencing similar freedom and have decided not to marry. Unmarried life is best and more importantly it's better to stay unmarried when we analyse biased marriage laws against men. 0 laws to safeguard men against false dowry, false domestic violence case and now new law is about to be passed i.e marital rape ,just on the basis of wife's claim the entire husband's clan can land up in jail without any evidence and it's on the husband to prove himself and his family as innocent.

[@S.T.S.R.]

You are right bro.☺️

[@loneaspirant]

I m 25 and struggling and really after my first relationship and things happening around me has totally forged my mind to never get married ✌️😂

[@ashikaushik1044]

Hi Five .... God behtar hai jab single hai 😁

[@adityasalunkhe1288]

@@ashikaushik1044 dating is still fine, just stay away from marriage

[@Nicks6603]

I too had decided 4 years ago that i will stay single my whole life. I don't have the mental strength to take care of someone and i don't want to let the other person ruin their life because of me