Why Are Indians Obsessed With Women's Long Hair?

[@samriddhimalhotra2781]

Not to forget anjali in kuch kuch hota hai - she goes from friendzoned to femme fatale once she grows her hair out

[@shrimigaurav4635]

True af....🙄

[@teacupofwonder]

Not femme fatale, "feminine" and "beautiful"

[@iratakeuchi3031]

Kajol was my IDOL and Kuch Kuch Hota Hai was my favourite film BECAUSE of her tomboy status since it was the only Bollywood film at the time with a girl with shorter hair... when she grew up to be super femme, it broke my 7 y/o heart.

[@amruthap6334]

tbh bollywood has actually taught us that sanskari = lambe baal, suit salwaar and bhakti. if a girl has got high temper and spirit, if she is outspoken than she is a friend but a girl who loves to sing om jai jagdeesh than definitely she is *"marriage material"* I highly recommend this video : Sati Savitri Ya Slutty Savitri | ARREY YAAR BOLLYWOOD Ep 03

[@amruthap6334]

@@iratakeuchi3031 we dnt fit in the ideology of gopi vahu or tulsi no one fits , even my mother don't fit in that role ... but everyone whats me tulsi tere ghar ke aangan ki

[@madhushrutimukherjee]

From a woman who has had short hair all her life, and has been shamed, bullied and verbally abused for having it: thank you so much Swaddle.

[@cherrylvrs3342]

Same here but I love short hair 😍

[@kavi4935]

even i have short hair,...people will talk let thm,...they even shamed me,...but i doesnt matter...if they r so obsessed with long hair ,..then let thm grow or else they have to learn to mind their own business

[@nkj3985]

@Madhu Its true men loves long hair of women but I am 100% sure no man bullies any woman for short hair . But women bullie women bully women.

[@jajaja7394]

lol Who abused u? I'm sure nobody walking down the street would "abuse"u just for having short hair!

[@navyagoswami4937]

Me too and I am 14

[@anaghasiddheshwar3573]

As a girl with short hair, I once encouraged a male friend grow his hair out because he really wanted to.

[@rahuljadhav7459]

Even My gf (yes, she has also short hair ) encouraged me to copy her haircut and I grow out it for like 1.5 year and we did photoshoot of that😍🤌🏻

[@Veronica1306]

My mom literally cried when I cut my long hair.... This obsession is just way too WIERD

[@Priynai]

Omg same girl...

[@aena5995]

@@Priynai oh cant relate lmao i was the one tht was kinda upset 😂😂😂 but i got over it now its long again 😀😀

[@EnigmaTAE]

Same lol. And it’s still the same.

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@gopeswarchatterjee5632]

@@EnigmaTAE : hey Army !

[@vinnienanda]

I feel I am the only one who loves long hair out of choice and my mother always tells me to keep short hair as it it low on maintenance

[@priyakhushi3774]

Even my mom love short hair

[@pranaya9852]

samee, even i love long hair out of choice, but everyone says keep short hair as it is easier to manage

[@walkingtalkingdread]

Lol same. My parents would be so happy if I cut it all off, but I personally, wouldn’t ever do that

[@user-yk5xu8gr1e]

Selfish moms do that...just looking for their own convenience...

[@priyakhushi3774]

@@user-yk5xu8gr1e ohh please think before you speak you have no right to call anybody's mom selfish even without knowing them.Everybody has their own preference ok😠

[@Ariya163]

I want my hair to grow long and wild like the goddesses. But someday I might just chop it off too. Depends on my mood.

[@shuchi108]

Same!

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

Please dont chop long hair is a part of indian beauty

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

@Reclusive Soul oky your life your choice but do onnnlllyyyy what yoouuurrr heart says to you dont just grow hair to chop thatit from myn site

[@Tanvi-wx3sf]

@Reclusive Soul yeah its a choice ofme

[@nehahahahahahah]

Yeah lol it isn't that big of deal

[@rajvidesai9263]

When I chopped off my hair, everyone around me was like damn you did it/ that’s so brave etc etc. and while those comments were meant in a nice appreciative tone, it was still weird that short hair is so out of our normative sense of beauty that people identified it as brave or wild

[@mishasaji2365]

Can relate. It's was especially weird for me because I had short and extremely curly hair too.

[@asharani7860]

Yes....I faced the same thing , also added they asked if I was sick or not ... you know why

[@iratakeuchi3031]

Reminds me of that American short story Bernice Bobs her hair...

[@littlesushie]

It's been 2 years since i cut my hair short. I still have relatives who lament about it

[@DarthVader___]

Same!

[@srijaniroychowdhury7683]

Once my boyfriend told me (pointing at a long haired girl) that he liked long hair. I replied, 'Then grow your hair dude. No one's stopping you' Edit: Wow. My first comment to get 2K likes. 😁 Thanks guys!

[@manisha551991]

Epic

[@remijasmine1515]

Awesome 😃👍

[@sangeethadeva9907]

Preach

[@meenakshiyadav1850]

Yay

[@ompavni]

Best 😁👌

[@tanvip1169]

I once dyed my hair red. The comments I got made me realize how judgemental everyone is

[@sanju7226]

@Ajay Singh Rathore if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all 😒😒😒 coloured hair are so pretty

[@tanvip1169]

@REAL DOGE who told you i was gona be a redhead? Its okay, my brown skin or my red hair is not up for anyone's judgements. Stay safe.

[@tanvip1169]

@REAL DOGE haha lets talk about clownery,sure

[@Mikasa333-x7t]

Here in the place where i come from people make fun of people with coloured hair and girls who wear lipstick because those judgemental assholes are not confident in doing such things. They fear judgement because they themselves are judgemental

[@ayushisingh2203]

Can't wait to dye my hair ffs

[@fwoop4848]

My grandmother always said, “Hair is a girl’s greatest beauty”. And so she always advise me to keep long hair. I love long hair out of choice, but my mother says to cut it short since it’s easier to maintain 😂

[@nkj3985]

She was right

[@mariposa3859]

Short hair can look feminine too. I really like how normal short hair is in eastern countries (Japan, SK, China etc).

[@yensbird]

@Harley Quinn lmao we found a "not like other girls"

[@jessung2460]

@Harley Quinn the "pick me, pick me" energy in this comment lmaoo , i hope you find the validation you wanted lol

[@yensbird]

@Harley Quinn she explained the psychology why does it hurt you I prefer long hair and I support this video as well Not telling you to be a feminist, I feel good everyday that I'm like other girls

[@yensbird]

@Harley Quinn lmao ok

[@jessung2460]

Harley Quinn LMFAOOO that really shows the kind of person you are ,forget feminism you aren’t even fit for supporting your own gender 💀 My parents gave me the freedom to not wear the hijab and even if a Muslim girl does it’s her choice If my little comment pressed you so much you should re-evaluate what you said Pipe down girl

[@shrishtimalhotra2406]

You cut your hair and all of Indian society starts talking like a Vasmol ad.

[@meghnapai5173]

lambe kaale mere baal vasmol ne kiya kamal

[@magicart3712]

@@meghnapai5173 suarakshit*

[@meghnapai5173]

@@magicart3712 XD i forgot

[@magicart3712]

@@meghnapai5173 it's okay dude ki Farak painda hai vasmol kamal toh Kr rha haina 😂

[@meghnapai5173]

@@magicart3712 😂😂 kamal kerna is important

[@ananyasamajdar7467]

I felt liberated to chop mine off, not to mention the reduced hairfall and shorter shampoo time 😄

[@shreegoyal9750]

So on point. It’s huge relief!

[@santanunandi835]

Toh kar na. Pareshan ho gye hum dhai saal se. 😝😝

[@yakinyamaddi]

yessssss its a huge relief😊😊

[@Hari-bz1mh]

To be honest, hairfall doesn't reduce when you cut your hair. Because the no. of strands you are losing is still the same. When you bunch up all of your fallen hair, it'll obviously give a perception that you've lost more hair when each strand is very long.

[@nabarunr3]

Straight privileged male here. I've been the type of person to crew cut my hair since childhood, with only growing it long during the lockdown. One thing I've realized in the summer heat is that no one should be forced to keep long hair unless they themselves want to. First, the heat is annoying as hell and long hair requires a shit ton of maintainence.

[@abhaupadhyay2938]

I like your statement 😅

[@saumyaraj3689]

Why I prefer long hair on me :- - it goes with any dress, from jeans to kurti to gown to suits. - when I can't find a style, I open it. - It make me confident, keeping my hairs in bun.

[@jesustheunfailinggod.1760]

Agree love it

[@pritykumari3606]

Agreed to it

[@sanjivni746]

yes, but short hair suits every style too!

[@noobplays3818]

Yes and I love my hair

[@marychristopher2136]

Saumya Raj it’s your choice The video is saying that girls with short hair also should be respected

[@anahita_sachdev]

Loved watching this! Our hair is an extension of our personalities and we should be able to do with it what we like 💇💇🏽

[@bababa9024]

You should be able to do whatever you like with it coz obviously it's your hair. But if you think it's an extension of your personality.... I'm sorry to say but you have no personality

[@ColourMeRed_1990]

You remember that scene is fleabag- 'hair is everything'... That was dope❤️

[@sangeethav4674]

Don't let a part of body define what you are, it's really bothersome... Like the length of hair, colour of skin, height, weight etc... Grow beyond the body image, maintain the body as you have to live in it, but considering hair to be part of personality is quite strange, as not all people have hair according to their personality

[@arghyabarannaskar6407]

@Shinchan fan Can you explain to me what was the point of the video?? That men shouldn't like what they want??? And as the OP said that they should be able to do whatever they want with their hairs..so my question is, who stopped you??? I have never seen a single person whose hair is controlled by others.

[@arghyabarannaskar6407]

@Shinchan fan where did you see people saying that women with short hair are ugly....Same here I also don't go around saying women with short hair are ugly...I just love women with long hair... Would you mind explaining this video to me?? What message did they actually want to convey?? Cuz all i can comprehend is that this video is all about playing victim card.

[@madhusmitamishra3318]

Completely out of context, but styling short hair is way tougher than long hair 😛😛.

[@roselinexaxa764]

So true 😂 I can't handle short hair. Long hair is way easier to style, throw it in a pony or a bun the perfect hairdo for summer lol.

[@roselinexaxa764]

@Reclusive Soul To each their own, if you like shorter hair you should go for it. Shorter hairstyles are really cool too

[@meghnapai5173]

even if you dont do anything short hair looks good maybe because i have curly short hair

[@_nish.art_]

Been through that . That's why I decided I want atleast mid shoulder length hair. 😂

[@piyusarkar3065]

I think mid length is easiest to style. With really short or really long, options are kinda limited.

[@gospelgoddess]

My personal experience. A Man fell in love with me, while I treated him. Later he confessed his love for me over the phone. After 6 months of consistent communication. He finally proposed to me. He asked me to send a decent picture f me to him so that he can show to his parents. Then when we video called eachother I had short hair. He was surprised and feared his parents reactions to my picture. Since he fell in love with me when had long hair. It disgusted me since hair can be grown or cut according to the choice of a woman but in Indian society it also should suit the preference of your family , suitors and their relatives first.

[@gospelgoddess]

@Gaurav can't agree more. It's almost impossible I see to find love. Even nuptial agreements aint possible without defined conditions and the mountain of expectations from the other individual.

[@sangeethav4674]

@Gaurav I agree, the problem men face when they are bald is also equally appalling... They too have to go through the visually appealing set of requirements like height, muscle etc

[@aena5995]

Wow yall got proposed online, do u actually believe in online relationships etc ?😂😂😂

[@ayishaks6510]

He sounds like a wreck. Maybe his parents hold that opinion. Maybe he is controlling and uses his parents opinion as an excuse. Either way, don't let your heart get in the way of making the right decision for your future happiness. Consult your friends and family. Wish you the best, Ayisha.

[@gospelgoddess]

@@ayishaks6510 It was because of his parents opinion and his upbringing in society like ours where a bride has a certain standard criteria to fulfill. Slim fair beautiful (long hair is a must) Then comes education etc etc Then it's "them"who decides what to do with that education bride holds.

[@panktimistri8485]

I've always had very long hair since my younger days. I was appreciated by my relatives and other people for having very long and straight silky hair. When I grew up, I always wanted to chop off my hair into a Pixie or a Bob but my parents never allowed that. Coming from a middle class family, I was not allowed to cut my hair because I had very long hair. By the time I started working, one fine day I decided to chop my knee length hair to waist length. That day my father said nothing, but he did not talk with me for one month coz how can I decide such a big thing by myself? But my hair grow back long. Now I am married and my in-laws love my long hair too and they are emotionally and lovingly, not forcing, but telling me not to cut my hair as they are the sign of Goddess Lakshmi. I love my hair too, but shouldn't it be my choice to have the hair of my preference?

[@nidhi2693]

this is terrible. you should cut it. laxmi ji loves you and blesses you for being honest in your work and values she could care less about the length of your hair. tell your in-laws that.

[@danaabelle]

It's your hair,your choice...do the things you want ❤️

[@amritarupalaha8097]

I wish I had your hair.

[@rupabasumatary6905]

Same here

[@Moonchild-dr6ml]

I don't wanna be rude . I really don't. Im sorry but that's just toxic. I mean your family....

[@sangeethav4674]

Imagine getting crude comments from girls like you are not supposed to wear jeans because you have long hair, you look way too sanskari!!! I didn't know you were the type who watched English series, you look way too sanskari with long hair, I got almost fooled🙄🙄🙄... Just because I have long hair, doesn't mean I can't ride a bike, like what the hell!!! Is only short haired women supposed to do such things 🙄🙄

[@jesustheunfailinggod.1760]

Totally agree

[@dikshaml5507]

Omg ya. I have knee length hair and people always assume it's because I'm sanskari. Until they get to know me that is.

[@attieke1642]

I don't speak Hindi what sanskari means? ☺ thanks

[@aprik3653]

@@attieke1642 cultural

[@attieke1642]

@@aprik3653 Thank you. Is it said in a good or bad way?

[@EMILY-xc5ju]

I was taught "good girls always ties her hair"

[@yakinyamaddi]

🤦‍♀️

[@nirmaljagga2007]

Wrong

[@nirmaljagga2007]

This is stupid thing to say

[@nirmaljagga2007]

I mean I don't tie my hair that much. It ok

[@ozymandias7372]

Unless I can wield my hair like tentacles to hold weapons like in those bizarre stunt movies, I don't see why we have to deal with the hassle of maintaining such long hair in this humid climate of India.😂😂

[@mishasaji2365]

I remember seeing that in a couple of movies too😂😂😂

[@asphyxia7784]

This^

[@Ariya163]

Yes lol!!

[@sukanyaparashar9474]

We all stan a short haired queen🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@bandanabajaj]

It is a personal choice,Ozymandias,after a person is a young adult.. till then it is whatever the parents choose for you,mostly..No one is being forced to do so,unless it is a religious thing and then that is another story for another day. It is the women who hanker after what they think adds to their appeal..the men frankly,are not bothered about it..they have their one track minds on other parts.🤣🤣

[@shobhanasingh3335]

It's completely a PERSONAL CHOICE!! whether long or short..it's our PERSONAL CHOICE!!!!!!!

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular man ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@adflix424]

@ronlovesit Luster & thickness are a sign of good health. Length has always changed depending on era, society & hair styles. Please educate yourself and leave arrogance behind

[@fahim2638]

The thing is we just love things that we dont have for Example Boys want long hair,girls want short We want white skin and westerner want a tanned skin People in kashmir want to go to somehwhere warm and others just want to experience ice and snow

[@saanvinalavde]

The grass is always greener on the other side

[@_sam_ddn]

A person with straight hair wants curly hair, a person with curly hair wants straight hair.

[@_sam_ddn]

@REAL DOGE It was just an example. Of course what I said doesn't apply to each and every person.

[@_sam_ddn]

@REAL DOGE I know same goes with everything. But I don't think most of us meant that all this (we want what we don't have) applies to everyone.

[@ananyavadheraa]

your point being? username checks out ngl

[@amaldeep841]

My gf's short hair grew in this lock down and now she looks like Medusa and I love it.

[@bornita9384]

@Qub same bruh

[@Hari-bz1mh]

It's not about you

[@VICKY-wy5wh]

Ho really thats good thing

[@rahmanreshad4909]

Same

[@bandanabajaj]

Long hair has always been seen as a crowning glory,and not just for India. I do not know why India has been singled out as being obsessed with long hair,as most women all over the world prefer to have long hair till their forties at least,and the length of hair gets shorter as they grow older. It might have been better to look at the larger picture of women all over the world,rather than just India.

[@nkj3985]

Though this is very true that life of long hair is actually Short ... Yet Long hair women are perceived always more attractive not only to Indian men but also to most of men world wide. And seeking logic in why men "like" long hair of women is a silly exercise.. Because the term ""like"" is ipso facto a reason. It has been observed Long hair women are believed to be more traditional . Every Indian man watns a modern girlfriend but a traditional wife. The reason....It's their choice. Long hair are now a days are not so common or day by day becoming rare. If we see 100 girls randomly, we may find hardly 4-5 girls with long hair...(hair touching their ends to waist) .So rare things are missed and loved if they increase beauty too. Long hair doesn't mean hair length of hair what Karina kapur or other bolywoody actress have. But longer then what they have. When Hair ends touching waist and can hide back completely when unlocked,, only those hair can be called long hair. Long hair alone coontibutes 35-40% to beauty of women . Many time it's is seen even a buxum woman looks attractive with her long dense glossy hair . जुल्फों की शाम ,,जुल्फों की छाँव , गेजुओ की ,,, गेज़ू तले ,,, रात के लिये सर पर जुल्फ/गेज़ू होना जरूरी है न कि सिर्फ बालों की झाड़ी ।. इसके अलावा ,,,एक बात और।ऐसी एक धारणा भी है कि ज्यादातर पुरुषों (पतियों) को एक न एक दिन गंजा होना ही पड़ता है।अगर पत्नी के भी बाल खराब तो हेरेडिटी के अनुसार बेटे बेटी में भी गंजा पन आ सकता है।बेटे में तो चल जाएगा।पर बेटी गंजापन की शिकार हो तो वो डिप्रेशन की शिकार भी हो सकती है। I don't say every men likes only long hair women but its 100% true that no man in the world dislike long hair of women. Men are never obsessed with long hair of women..., but no doubt they like them indeed . Existence of a lot of hindi/urdu melodious romantic songs is because of long hair. That means long hair not only gave eve soothing experience to men but also ear soothing too... Women like clean shaved or beared men is their choice...Not obsession. So in same fashion men like long hair of women is mens' choice not obsession. Many men like short hair women too... Even if their wives have short hair, they love their wifes. The biggest obsession is the presence of feeling in some women ie WHY MEN DO NOT DISLIKE LONG HAIR OF WOMEN... This the hidden obsession that makes a short hair women to teach men what personality means... Show me a single men in world who won't love this type of long hair kzbin.info/www/bejne/anzde2uCYrRrbLc

[@nkj3985]

@bandanabajaj This vdo link reveals many facts... May not be scientifically true but they are deep rooted in belief of men world wide. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qHbRf3uLaJt9a9U

[@veracity5412]

@@nkj3985 but we or the video which talked about stereotypes about short hair don't have a problem with men having a choice to like women with long hair. Of course, your choice is personal to you and you have the right to choose what you like. However, you are just not allowed to pass comments or instruct people or shame them to do different from what society generally desires. That's all the message we want to give.

[@khushi-4900]

These fake feminazi wants a chance to defame indian society all the time I've never seen such incidents so i clicked on the video that what kind of reason she is giving They got some personal taunts and now blame all Indians Every society have such silly problems They can just blame india

[@khushi-4900]

@@veracity5412 it wasn't in decent way man why writing "indian obsessed " Isn't this silly These are problems But lemme tell you nowadays in colleges schools girl is considered as cool hot if she have short hair And my frnds all the time say why don't you cut it's too old fashion Now make a video on that too Same problem you seem to be very gentle but they doesn't seem like that

[@ni3070]

Hair is such an incredibly personal thing, everyone must do with it what they want

[@kimareum29]

I hate long hairs. Whether someone like it or not, it's not my business. I have shoulder length hair just because of my parents. In fact I started growing hair when I was in class 11. Until class 10 I had a boy cut hair. And when I will leave my parents , I'll be back to my short hairs with funky colors. Short hair gives me a sense of confidence.

[@merin5038]

Same dude...My dp is the pic of my hair grown to its longest ( in 1 year as it was lockdown) Im in 11 th and I again went back to my too short hair. Coz short hair gives me immense confidence !! It makes me feel like a Boss bitch

[@cherrylvrs3342]

I'm a boss 😎 short hair is normal

[@ayushisingh9090]

I love both long n short hair. But Im more of myself in short hair.I had long hair since till my 11th and then I cut them off. My family, neighbors, peers were like "itna sundar baal the kyu ktwa diye? Kya hua tumko? Pagal ho gayi ho kya ye kya kar diya apne hair ko? " But I have a supportive frnd as well. She also chopped her hair off coz she wanted it to do from so long but couldn't coz of "log kya kahenge". But my elder brother is really appreciating, he didn't say anything about my short hair. "Uske bal uski marzi, if she feels good in short hair then let her be".I remember my father getting angry on me for having a haircut, " Ye kya kar liya apne baalon ka, ache ghar ki ladkiyan ye sab glt kam nhi krti ab nhi krvana kabhi" . Are bhaii, baal hi to hai isme kya galat kam. Can't understand how the length of my hair defines my character😑

[@khushi-4900]

Just because you get confident in short hair doesn't mean long hairs can't I've seen girls crying after they chopped their hairs short right after 20 days that i want my long hair back i got bored with this😂 No offense but confidence is something which comes naturally so don't rely on hairs for that ❤

[@autumn5203]

I am now better knowing that there are women like me in this world. I was in the 1st Class, when I had a boy-cut hair, I was often teased by boys about my hair. And people always mistook me as a boy. I then started hating myself but my mother told me that I will always look good no matter whatever anyone says. I than whenever the boys teased, just smiled and said " Thanks". I still remember the looks on their faces when I did that. From that day, I live my life with my head up.

[@kanikagour9333]

Listen , anyone can have any kind of hair , why do we have to make it a medium of judgement ?? .. Aren't you contradicting your own words of no judgement ?? ..Long hair or short ,its personal choice ,not a personality trait ..can you please stop scrutinizing over such irrelevant topics and start focusing on something that really matters for good of all!

[@dr.varsha8810]

Exactly

[@sukhmanikaurtoor9581]

Thanks for saying it ! Much needed

[@Indicthoughts898]

I’m glad you don’t suffer but what’s wring with pointing out something women find matters to them.

[@ritikashekhawat27]

Exactly!! These "feminists" can create fuss about anything!!!

[@sukhmanikaurtoor9581]

@action kamen you're just a triggered SJW. Peace out. Lol.

[@sapnasingh1445]

THIS CHANNEL DESERVES MORE!!

[@vidhisharma5895]

Yah, u are right 😊♥

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@aquahorns8995]

Nah it doesn't, it's run by feminist and it's quite toxic.

[@jhanvihemlani8248]

@@aquahorns8995 The fact that it's run by a feminist is the exact reason why it should get more attention. It's not toxic, it's just the truth. If you can't accept the fact that feminism is very much needed in a country like India, then it's you who needs to view and understand this channel even more.

[@TrulyChilling]

@@jhanvihemlani8248 its toxic

[@AyeeShivanii]

Very true. It's all about the CHOICE. n I love my long hair😍😍😍

[@nkj3985]

Though this is very true that life of long hair is actually Short ... Yet Long hair women are perceived always more attractive not only to Indian men but also to most of men world wide. And seeking logic in why men "like" long hair of women is a silly exercise.. Because the term ""like"" is ipso facto a reason. It has been observed Long hair women are believed to be more traditional . Every Indian man watns a modern girlfriend but a traditional wife. The reason....It's their choice. Long hair are now a days are not so common or day by day becoming rare. If we see 100 girls randomly, we may find hardly 4-5 girls with long hair...(hair touching their ends to waist) .So rare things are missed and loved if they increase beauty too. Long hair doesn't mean hair length of hair what Karina kapur or other bolywoody actress have. But longer then what they have. When Hair ends touching waist and can hide back completely when unlocked,, only those hair can be called long hair. Long hair alone coontibutes 35-40% to beauty of women . Many time it's is seen even a buxum woman looks attractive with her long dense glossy hair . जुल्फों की शाम ,,जुल्फों की छाँव , गेजुओ की ,,, गेज़ू तले ,,, रात के लिये सर पर जुल्फ/गेज़ू होना जरूरी है न कि सिर्फ बालों की झाड़ी ।. इसके अलावा ,,,एक बात और।ऐसी एक धारणा भी है कि ज्यादातर पुरुषों (पतियों) को एक न एक दिन गंजा होना ही पड़ता है।अगर पत्नी के भी बाल खराब तो हेरेडिटी के अनुसार बेटे बेटी में भी गंजा पन आ सकता है।बेटे में तो चल जाएगा।पर बेटी गंजापन की शिकार हो तो वो डिप्रेशन की शिकार भी हो सकती है। I don't say every men likes only long hair women but its 100% true that no man in the world dislike long hair of women. Men are never obsessed with long hair of women..., but no doubt they like them indeed . Existence of a lot of hindi/urdu melodious romantic songs is because of long hair. That means long hair not only gave eye soothing experience to men but also ear soothing too... Women like clean shaved or beared men is their choice...Not obsession. So in same fashion men like long hair of women is mens' choice not obsession. Many men like short hair women too... Even if their wives have short hair, they love their wifes. NO GIRL WANTS SHORT HAIR . HAVING HAIR CUT IS NOT THEIR CHOICE AT ALL. They have their hair cut to short because they don't have beautiful long hair. Their hair are too messy to give them beautiful look so they prefer to have them cut . This happens when any young girl/women's hair lack quality. They are not manageable. Uneven , rough , excessive hard , split ended , not dense or so less that neither can be braided to plait nor locked to a stylish bun . So no other way except to have boy cut or at their best bobed cut....भयंकर मजबूरी... what to do.. झाडू broomish hair ,, The biggest obsession is the presence of feeling in some women ie WHY MEN DO NOT DISLIKE LONG HAIR OF WOMEN... This the hidden obsession that makes a short hair women to teach men what personality means... actually some women are complexed of not having good hair to grow them long rather than men are obsessed . Now we come to choice... many time some long hair girls choose to have their hair cut... Because they know they have good hair and can grow them long any time. Now boys also have choice to keep long hair though they appear like a beer if they got dark or dusky compaction. But whatever ...no doubt they have choice to do so. I never say that men don't like short hair women. But I say all men like long hair of women and its matter of their choice not an obsession.

[@ni3070]

@@nkj3985 I agree with most of your points, but some girls can naturally like short hair, nothing wrong in that

[@aa-zv9fc]

@@nkj3985 bhaii upsc ka taiyari krte ho kya.. ias fisrt attempt me hi bn jaoge

[@nkj3985]

@@ni3070 Yes. Agreed. Nothing wrong as Its their choice to have short hair or "long hair' (if possible). In same way if a man likes long hair of women is his choice too not an Obsession what is title of this nonsense vdo.

[@ni3070]

@@nkj3985 I agree completely......but the problem is when girls aren't allowed to cut their hair/when they do, they are judged...... absolutely no wrong in guys having a preference

[@keepersjunk9900]

Wait a moment... all my life I thought my hair length is my choice if I feel like keeping it long I keep it long and short if I feel like it.. the fact that once you cut your long hair it takes a long time to grow it back is one reason I kept it long plus the reason for keeping my hair tied neatly is often bcz India has a hot climate and open hair and sweat is not a good combination..

[@sajalrastogi3904]

Dont let this information be read by others...🤫

[@sangeethav4674]

Haha so true!!! People keep saying that any length of hair is fine, amd if I willingly don't cut my hair because I love it, I am all of a sudden a women suppressed by patriarchy 🤣🤣🤣... Only a few people's hair especially straight hair or well cut curly hair looks good when untied... I myself have curly hair, and it looks really ugly when it's short...I feel irritated when the hair is short gets end pricking around my neck!!! So if I choose to have long hair, am I a no a woman who is in thinking of way of progress??? Don't judge by hair length 😂😂 short or long, it applies to both

[@dr.varsha8810]

Absolutely right

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@jessung2460]

@@destroyer-ev6uv bruv stop copy-pasting this comment everywhere

[@prerna1997]

In my school days I was so ashamed of my curly hair because everyone around me was obsessed with straight hair and they also make fun of me and that’s why I started ironing my hair and ruined it.. back in college when I saw little things then Mithila was the one who inspired me a lot… and now I have such a beautiful curls and I’m proud of my hair.

[@nskfsr]

Long hair is gorgeous but short hair too. I have never have grown my hair long, it's always been short. My mother's hair is short too. We should just respect people's choices.

[@NaeUndungiPangPang]

I have been through this...I once chopped my hairs short and was judged for it,I was forced to grow my hairs long so that I will b consider 'more feminine' n I did so....Now watching dis video I can relate tht 'long hair' obsession. Short,long,mid length,curly,straight or coiled...its your choice how u want them....don't fall 4 so called feminine or pretty look

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular man ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@jksonlycarrot7441]

Had the longest hair to the hips last when 6 years old. Since then a short bob. 23 now. Maa has also been sporting a short step cut for many a years alongwith experimenting other short stylings. And that was where this unwanted suggestions or sighs used overwhelmed both of us. But we both have never felt any different among these long strands everywhere. At the end of the day we,being so satisfied with our choices , made the people around us rethink the length norm that they have actually stepped towards a different outlook!

[@justakpopstan3868]

Finally someone made a video on this, I was criticized through my teens just because I cut my hair short and was refusing to grow them, from both my family and outside

[@cynicalsapience2949]

yeah, I can relate to that very much! and now I'm used to it!🙂

[@sadiaislam932]

me being a desi who always has short hair, ive always loved preity zinta cause she was one of the only actresses who rocked short hair and always had it.

[@daddylevi1721]

Sarawat😭

[@user-yk5xu8gr1e]

@ronlovesit she is very much married...what divorce are u talking abt??

[@Rita_Arya]

@ronlovesit hairstyle has nothing to do with what is going on with her personal life ...?

[@Rita_Arya]

@ronlovesit SO i have short hair, so i am a rebellious feminazi?

[@Rita_Arya]

@ronlovesit okay well, let me be clear, i believe in equality (I'm not "feminazi") And as for my short hair, i have some practical/personal reasons for that And my point was, hairstyle and political opinions doesn't necessarily have to be correlated

[@Rita_Arya]

When i was a little girl, i wanted long hair but my mom wanted me to keep them short because i couldn't maintain them on my own And now that I've grown up, i like short hair and now my parents don't really like when i cut my hair short :/ because when i grow my hair long, if there's no reason, i have to tie them in a bun all hair pushed back, and that's annoying! Though i do agree, i wish i had longer hair when there are festivities because there are multiple options to style them, but not gonna regret!! Also i still see a lot of people in the comments, teaching others about "our culture", so even if the video was awesome, the thought process of the people in our country won't change that easily *sigh*

[@asphyxia7784]

Seriously though I hate having long hair. It's so annoying when the hair gets everywhere. I prefer tying up my hair. I will die of heat and discomfort if I have to open and let down my hair.

[@nkj3985]

Yes you can do to your hair what ever you you want . No one has right to control you . But if you are perceived(by others) beautiful because of your hair then possible if you have your hair cut , may affect that perception. Because "perception" about any thing is OTHERS' right.

[@Rita_Arya]

I agree, I can't maintain my hair well when they are long And only during festivities i can really style them, otherwise they're always tied in a bun...

[@anasmohamed4222]

I totally get your point. But still towards the end of the video, when you showed pictures of women boldly pushing back against this and suggested that women in workplaces need not 'tame' their hair, I felt a bit uneasy. That uneasiness, I think, shows how deeply these norms and taboos are ingrained in our minds. I hope brilliant content like these wil help me to do away with all my scruples.

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular man ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@nidhisingh4949]

Everyone in this section: having long hair is too much...indians r obsessed wth it...etc etc Meanwhile, Rest of the world: get that extension for thousands of dollars just coz they could have long hair...lol ! We can see who's obsessed😂

[@manjotsingh4834]

Actually, nobody cares about this kinda stuff in the west.

[@coolNerdnextdoor]

@@manjotsingh4834 erm yeah they do People spend thousands of dollars every month on their hair....following trends and stuff

[@manjotsingh4834]

@@coolNerdnextdoor I said they don't give a damn to what others say about their hair

[@ishajaleel8510]

The most common example we see of this, is that when a woman gets short hair it's considered as 'boy cut'

[@faizaaj2153]

One thing that I would like to differ with is the practice followed in schools . The thing is that there is a particular curriculum in every school which everyone has to abide by irrespective of gender . In my school no girl is punished for their hairstyle but are often told to make plats and the same goes for boys as well that they need to trim . This makes them look neat and decent . Imagine every student sitting in class with different haircuts and hairstyles ...how would they look like ?

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

I agree. And kids play in mud and sand. Imagine open haired in sand. It will be a nightmare. And fleas😂😂😂

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Agree

[@rujulak9296]

Yes. In our school too girl are supposed to tie their hair if it's long and put a hairband if it's short, just make sure it doesn't drool over our faces because that can be distracting.

[@anjalibaskar6255]

imagine us girls with curly short hair, i keep getting mistaken for a boy, i can’t even tie my hair

[@sinfullymesmerizing3104]

Girl I feel you 100%. I had the same problem when I was younger. Many of my friends and even their mom's used to shame me for having short, curly hair. And the fact that I looked like a boy was always the constant insult.

[@that.ucurlele.gal7]

Curly is beautiful sis! 💜

[@bornita9384]

@AnjaliBaskar I got it girl

[@alvinaalbert9527]

I just went bald and seeing this.. I question the same...😂

[@bye7451]

totoro

[@rupaljain1622]

Same. 🙈🙈

[@sumitrasahu3633]

Wowwww, you guys are brave..... I want that level of confidence !!

[@rupaljain1622]

@@sumitrasahu3633 best wishes for you 🤗🤗

[@sumitrasahu3633]

@@rupaljain1622 Thank you!! 😇 You had beautiful hair !!🧡❤️

[@vaishnavireddy6689]

My hair is short and oh boy the Indian society is so freaking annoying. I can cut and grow my hair the way I want to. Ppl always justify its manly but fashion and style doesn't set boundaries for any gender.

[@pooja350]

You look so pretty with that hairstyle! And it's interesting how I know a person with the exact last name as you in Malaysia 😯

[@vaishnavireddy6689]

@@pooja350 thank you and that's cool.

[@vaisriv]

My best friend has the exact same hairstyle as you and she looks so cute and trendy 😍

[@vaishnavireddy6689]

@@vaisriv aww, good to hear that.

[@aquahorns8995]

We're again seeing indian pseudo-feminists in the comments. The society prefers longer hair on women just like a six pack man is preferred over a dad bod. This doesn't mean that we're mocking girls with short hair or men without six packs. I see nothing wrong with the songs promoting longer hair, cuz accept it or not, they do look elegant the same way a six pack man looks more handsome than someone with a dad bod. Now if you're literally being abused or forced against cutting your hair, then it's something to do with the people around you. If my girlfriend asks me what hair suits hers I'd say longer, now that doesn't mean I'm enforcing it or being possessive, it's still her choice and I'd love her the same.

[@nmo3148]

I think it’s American beauty standards being imposed. Once. We destroy Bollywood we have only skinny blonde celebrities to admire and buy products they recommend. So He ndian beauty standards need to go.

[@shaliniverma7020]

Completely agree with your point.. pseudo feminism stinks in comments and somewhere in video too..

[@jesustheunfailinggod.1760]

Nice, I feel good and proud in long hair ,it is covering and crown not shame, I love when I feel ,how much compassion God has shown when he made me., I love my identity what God has given me ,I wanna Adam like Adam and Eve like Eve,in old times kings and queens both had long hairs,if you want short hair to be feel like strong and boy, you should know , you are already strong creation of God, thank you God , the crown upon women's head.

[@samaira_.1920]

Agreed

[@jesustheunfailinggod.1760]

@g I am not saying about any problem or sickness, I am talking about trend,if someone has hair,then they are chopping,then is God saying them to do that., I am talking about chopping trend ,not any natural issue, otherwise it is your choice, I was saying ,we should not have bad intentions towards those who have long hairs, I am not here to hurt anyone,but about trend and fashion.,tell me those who have long hairs,are they behan ji.

[@Jade-zm2tg]

i cut my hair short like a boy and now whenever i wear indian clothing with my short hair all the aunties and my own grandmother tell me how pretty i looked with longer hair

[@Jade-zm2tg]

@a basketboy because i like short hair

[@Jade-zm2tg]

@a basketboy lol idc

[@yashasvib6448]

Women wants long hair by their own choice becoz variety of hairstyle can be created by those hair, but when anything in any society is continued for long period its become part of culture/tradition. At the same time in Bharat their is a tradition of long hair, carried by men and women both.

[@vishalchhabra2237]

I find it interesting that long hair as a sign of beauty has also always been for the man's pleasure. Uncovered, and untied hair used to invite my grandma's scorn for my sister and my mother. Styling, and generally doing anything with your long hair for one's own self image was discouraged and in some cases taken as a sign of 'ladki bigadna'. Hair represents beauty, femininity and tied hair represents servitude. Draupadi famously kept her hair untied as a constant reminder to her husbands that she was publically stripped and dragged through the court, and that if they were good husbands their wife wouldn't have to keep her hair untied in public. Ironically, she was, through no fault of her own, also at the centre of the Mahabharata, and has always been blamed for it; rather prescient, with how women are always blamed for anything that goes wrong with their man or their families (see Rhea). Draupadi is depicted as the destroyer of several clans in the Mahabharata and her untied hair are the most identifiable of her physical features. For how everyone encourages girls in India to grow out their hair to be beautiful, it is always reserved for the privacy of their bedroom and for the pleasure of their husbands. I don't know what my point is, was just thinking about Draupadi and how she's the most famous woman with untied hair in our mythos outside of divinity.

[@IshikaTanwar2208]

K don't think that what u do is over thinking. It is just a thinking that no body else in this patriarchal society wants to think. Thank you for showing us a way to express ourselves leaving behind the terms and condition Manual of the society.

[@denils7122]

As a boy why isn't long hair appreciated?

[@kittykitkat4968]

My personal opinion, shoulder hair cut looks the best, one can style it, easy to maintain and suits all.

[@abantikaghosh9957]

I was neither told to keep long hair nor my family had any type of objection for short hair ..also my mom supports short hair..but I love my long hair too much and I kept it...I had entirely took care of it...and it is completely my choice Edit: my hair is 3 feet long

[@bellatrix8847]

Just an extra info.. during earlier times in Kerala both men and women used to grow hair(though short hair wasn't appreciated).Men used to tie their hair in a bun on the side of their head, it was known as 'kuduma'. Men also used to pierce their ears, and it was not seemed as girly. Though that's not the case now.

[@saanvinalavde]

I don't know about professional, but tying your hair is actually practical. I loved keeping my hair open whenever I went outside, but as soon as I came home, all I see is hair damage. Imagine having long open hair at work; sweat, tangles and what not. And for women working outdoors,armed forces,laboratories and the police forces, it is close to impossible to keep their hair open during work. I have waist length hair. In the lockdown period, I am oiling and braiding my hair daily, and trust me, my hair have become stronger, thicker and easy to manage(not going outside resulted in less pollution, which in turn improved my hair quality). Daadi galat nahi kehti hai. I have nothing against short hair. Hair of all colours, lengths, texture is beautiful. But I disagree with Swaddle's opinion of 'taming' hair. P.S. @S Ramani has explained my point precisely in her comment. Do check it out.

[@incognitouser8256]

Ancient Indian and Chinese people had long hairs- BOTH MEN AND WOMEN...

[@subhragogoi5335]

There is no wrong in plating or tying one's hair in an office environment or schools or kitchens. It is the same for guys too, men in army have to cut their hair short, men in corporate sector has to have well groomed hairs and some even can't grow a beard. These are certain requirements of some particular jobs. There is nothing to rebel against. If tying one's hair is a problem they may opt to not do that job, it isn't compulsory. The world cannot run with the personal hair preference of someone.

[@thesarcasticpotato646]

My mom always told to cut my hair and I didn't. But then all.of a sudden I had a wild desire to chop my hair off and did it. Then she started to complain lmao

[@serialroaster3968]

Exactly. Why does the society always demand long, "straight" hair!! Even curly hair looks so wonderful. Have a look at kangana. She accepts her hair as it is and some people are always there making fun of her hair.

[@the8star]

I had waist length hair until I turned 16 and then I chopped my hair off to shoulder length hair and my mom literally beat me up

[@thecringecousins8517]

i feel so overwhelmed..like its relatable as helll.... i cut my hair short cause they were easy to manage and thats how i chose to live my life but they way people around keep pushing m to grow my hair is just so annoying........... i hate it there are a few who keep complimenting me for my hair and say that it makes me who i am and is my identity and i love these compliments i was even about to text swaddle on Instagram for a video on hair and i see they already did it two years back... love u guys.....

[@shreyo955]

You are looking good, girl

[@godswill2509]

tbh i hate when people say that long hair defines a woman like wtf....i like long hair thats why i have long hair my friend love short hair thats why she has short hair its all about our choice

[@skshahid5565]

As a man I must acknowledge This stuff needs to be promoted.

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@skshahid5565]

@@destroyer-ev6uv Yeah exactly dude those so called "MAN" norms need to be changed. No one has the authority to tell what's good or not to others everyone's human everyone's have their own set of system it's up to him wether he likes it or not!! Although as a social being on can put his opinion of choice explicitly and surely there's no problem in putting it forward!!

[@skshahid5565]

@@destroyer-ev6uv Although the thing is man and woman can never be equal. In some aspects women surpass men and vice versa. You can't ask a woman to be more muscular and can't ask man to be more generous! Things can't be compared between a man and a woman. All we can do is treat them equally and respect other's decision

[@sruthyts1443]

I have long hair. Trust me it's very difficult to maintain and manage it. I like army hair cut because it's convenient for me. Also having long hair for those who like it is fine too. Long hair doesn't suits everyone. We should choose our haircut according to our convenience and our outlook. If long hair is convenient for you, nobody is stopping you from growing it. But cutting hair short is not a sin. It's our choice whether our hair should look long or short.

[@YoursTAngel]

I would say not obsession but I love long hairs, even on boys!!😁 Like Jubin Nautiyal with that bun, Shaheer Sheikh in YRHPK, etc...

[@akshara487]

I find this unfair too. I always wanted shoulder length hair but my mom forced me to grow hair even though I never wanted to. She says long hair makes a girl prettier. She grew up in a household where women were considered less important than men. She was told to grow her hair out to be feminine. She was taught that women should give up their passion,hobbies and jobs after they marry. So I don't exactly blame her for what she says to me. It's the parenting that made her to be this way.

[@haritasoujanya]

that's it, you gave me courage, i'm cutting my hair tomorrow.

[@selena6697]

If only I had a dollar for every time a guy told me he likes longer hair on women.

[@sangeethav4674]

Well tbh I have heard from a lot of females that why can't you cut your hair short, would that count too??? O mean is it ok to get judged by hair length of its long and not to be judged if it's short?

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular man ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@rac7773]

Where do I send my dollar? lol

[@piyusarkar3065]

I'm so happy I discovered this channel, it's like everything I have on mind is expressed here and more

[@Thekingofwatching]

Hair is a very personal thing to control. I haven’t seen natural or a standard common form of hair in California anywhere. Maybe in a certain group that has a standard for their performance. Not commonly though

[@kasturidas2967]

This is interesting how topics which were primarily confined to academic classroom discussions about feminist theories and patriarchy are coming out & circulating hugely. Can't help loving this channel 💜

[@jayshree9037]

I had short hairs my whole life so once my hair grew i was so happy, like I can style it any way.tbh i have seen some of my friends ask their parents before haircut. Thankfully i had never been burdened with such. My hair is my choice

[@amritpalsingh3293]

But your dp has long hair

[@dipikamondal6840]

Long hair and short hair it's totally my choice..i loveee long hair

[@pallavimali7062]

Hey love this topic which irritate me from last yr. I cut my hair till my chin, many people asked- why (especially boys). In June 2020 I shaved my head and u know it's so peaceful. Now I have little hairs. Actually small hairs are very easy to carry, wash and to nourish... I'll share this to them who against my hair cut. Thanx dear😎

[@nkj3985]

I love my wife's long hair.She has almost classic length hair. 15 years ago when We married she had ankle length hair.

[@juiaware986]

Idk But short hairs make me more confident

[@bobbymenon4057]

Long hair is beautiful. Period......

[@MSBAD-nu8jc]

I literally battled my entire family to let me cut my hair short. My mom is still salty about it because she's loves my long hair.

[@its.a.bellestory]

Again, a good one! It'd be appreciable if Swaddle could post perspectives on women/men with alopecia & conditions of that ilk. The need of flexibility & acceptance rather than condescension.

[@deepakmahadik6190]

रेखा जैसी लग रही है

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

Also yes, the photosynthesis on the mitochondria has had a very tyrannical period lest they should commit something that didn't dawn upon thy self.

[@niveditashaktawat4846]

you connect to this video when you occasionally hear from your mother - " aurat ki shobha uske baalo me bsti h"

[@shwetaparmar7036]

Found this channel on an add and I can never be more grateful...just keep it up💓

[@Divya_B]

Somehow everything about Indians and Indian way is a problem to some people. Every culture is different. Some things need change and others can just be accepted as a beautiful part of it. No one's forcing anyone to keep their hair a certain way.

[@chayanikamurmu954]

I used to have short hair when I was a teenager,and I understood that for my hair type having short hair is too much struggle plus I look stupid. Now I have almost hip length hair,it's way more manageable and it goes perfectly with my face shape. Though it's absolutely personal choice of a woman if they want short hair or long hair,but I think the judgement comes from a different perspective.People with thick long hair were "better gene pool bearer"...it's not long we started living in a hi tech city based society where healthcare is easily accessible. So for having a healthier offspring,people consciously or subconsciously chose girls with voluptuous body and long hair,and muscular tall guys were preferred as grooms.Feminism is definitely empowering.Its needed. But sometimes some "feminists" really make mountain out of a molehill.

[@anjalimukherjee5513]

Exactly, your point is soo accurate. I myself started to grow my hair long since I was 14 and now I have below knee length hair and it is one of the most awesome things.....I can try whatever hairstyle I want, whenever go to public with open hair, people compliment my long hair :3.....also it adds extra beauty and femininity to a lady. Ya I takes a lot if time and energy to maintain long hair but it totally worth it...I'm planning to grow it to the floor and hope I'll be able to reach that mark.

[@mouniswar7]

@@anjalimukherjee5513 do you have a long hair now

[@anjalimukherjee5513]

@@mouniswar7 yes. I'm never gonna cut it.

[@mouniswar7]

@@anjalimukherjee5513 how long is your hair right now , is it till hip or knee length?

[@mouniswar7]

@@anjalimukherjee5513 wow that’s insane. I like long hair so much. May I get your insta id please?

[@akhiljoseph7769]

Women with long hair are more feminine in my opinion.

[@tinklingcrystals6489]

Got rejected by many guys and their families when I sported a boycut when I was 22..😂 circa 1997

[@rahmanreshad4909]

It is their choice what they accept or reject. Stop trying to criticize them. Their life, their rules!

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

legend has it you'd reject not well to do finance-wise men too. But only women can have preferences.

[@zuhasajid900]

I cutted my hair down to chin size 2 years ago enjoyed it a lot but now i am growing them back again i miss my long hair now! Thanks for the insight love from Pakistan 💚

[@officiallydenise]

I like long hair but I cut mine short on purpose so I wouldn’t look so good. I like it better when women aren’t jealous or insecure around me. I also want my clients to feel comfortable and for men to act normal around me.

[@trishnaksingh1606]

i always fantasized having long hair as my mom always made me cut my hair short. Since my mom got busier i was incharge of my hair and decided to grow it out. quarantine was really tough for me so a mental breakdown made me cut my hair completely short. now that schools have reopened, instead of asking us how quarantine was for us, everyone kept telling me "why did u cut ur hair short???!!!! u looked so "beautiful" in long hair". infact none of my friends cared how short i cut my hair and why did i do so... the teachers. the freaking teachers... people who we should look up to, put such a negative impact on our self esteem. i wish being a teacher was not just based on intellectual capabilities but emotional too. some comments have lowered my self esteem so much such that i dont feel like going to school or asking doubts to such teachers as the focus wouldnt be on the doubt. it will be on my looks. i wish our indian education system wasnt so shitty to just appoint teachers based on a petty certificate.

[@poojajoshi1104]

i love to bob cut and short hair.. but the mostly society loved long hair. so last year i chopped my 10inches hair but my all my friends and family's reaction was so bad.. only my boyfriend appreciate me. so my plan is again chopped my 6inch hair in next few months. because i love my self in short bob cut. f**k society and movies

[@nkj3985]

The Science Behind Why Men Find Long Hair Attractive some time no matters how a woman looks physically. Luscious locks teaming with life have been a striking staple of longed after ladies for centuries. When men are asked to rank features they find most attractive on the opposite sex, maintained manes always dominate the list. The truth is that long hair triggers a primal, instinctive response within men. Evolutionarily speaking, long hair serves a purpose. Here’s the real reason why your man can’t keep his hands off of your tresses. 1)Fertility Men are designed to seek out specific physical traits in women. Amongst these are large eyes, pouty lips, child bearing hips and of course, long hair! Heavenly long locks represent a woman’s genetic code; if her hair is voluminous, thick, long and lovely, chances are she has genes worth replicating. The fact that a woman is able to grow healthy locks indicates that she is virile and strong. 3)Youth Of course there are exceptions, but typically longer hair is equated with youthfulness and short, severe styles with age. Girls and women on the cusp of puberty often sport flowing locks. 3)Femininity Although men used to sport untamed tresses of their own, men and women are primarily attracted to one another due to their differences. Feminine traits are attractive to men precisely because they are different and not masculine. Nothing is quite so exquisitely feminine as long locks. Mermaids, Disney princesses, Renaissance paintings - all of these art forms depict women with flowing tresses. Men like your long hair for the same reasons they like high heels and dresses; because it looks feminine. 4)Variety Long hair affords the wearer far more variety than shorter styles. You can wear your hair straight and smooth, wild and wavy, half up, half down, pinned, in braids - the options are endless. This versatility is attractive to men. Experimenting with your style demonstrates adventure and excitement. As men are visual creatures, dramatically different hairstyles are hugely appealing. 5)Responsibility Caring for long hair isn’t easy. Heat styling, weather conditions and our lifestyles can all wreak havoc on our hair. As such, growing long, healthy hair signals a degree of commitment and responsibility, qualities which are both attractive to the opposite sex. 6)Elegance Long hair is an art form in itself. Have you ever caught sight of a well maintained mane billowing in a summer breeze? Men are genetically hardwired to notice these visual cues. Hair serves as a frame to illuminate the beauty of the owner 7)Shortage of long hair women Now a days very less number of girls and women are found who are being with long and healthy hair. So any thing enhances women 's beauty which is less and not very common are given more importance.. 8) health Long hair women are usually healthier than short hair women under same parameters and conditions. The hair receives almost left over nutrition alloted by brain. Because Brain also knows that hair are secondary requirment. It proves how excellently the long hair woman's body is in condition of ideal nutrition that even her hair are long, healthy,glossy. 9)complete woman Scientificall its not proven but you do data base study you will find the divorce cases,,pre marital affairs, cases of betrayal are almost negligible in numbers in case of long hair women. This is perfectly true. Thats why IF POSSIBLE always prefer to marry a girl who has at least hip length hair. I am 100$ sure such women are not only loyal women but free from feminism and truely family women like a goddesses in real world .Real Rapunzel. Men love women's long hair but they are not obsessed. Long hair women look more feminine. Long hair increase beauty look of women 30 to 45%. It gives a different attraction. And its natural. But it doesn't mean men are obsessed. Last but not least...Its men's choice and they have right to Make their choices what they love, like.. They love long hair of women its their choice not any obsession. Women have freedom to keep their hair as they like, long or shirt or Head shaved. But what men love or like is men's choice. Now days we miss actresses with natural long hair.. Even a few women have naturally long hair. In fact out of random 1000 women hardly 1or 2 women have long glossy hair. We badly miss long hair women. Long hair enhances women's beauty by 25-30%. If a woman has long , dense glossy hair , no matters if she has short height, FAT chubby body , too much skinny body , very thin, very tall body.. Her long hair covers her such of her deficiencies up to great extent. Use of hair colors, chemicals, hair packs,, straightening heater have lead most of women to the stage that even men may have their pubic hair better than their hair if they don't shave. Long hair play,long hair smelling are also some romantic practices loved by men. In fact it's men's natural CHOICE or INCLINATION that they perceive long hair women more feminine..But most of the men Hat the exercise in which a women use artificial long hair /hair extensions to be a fake beauty. Men always loves long hair of women... BUT it doesn't mean they are obsessed to them...Or they don't like women (wife/girlfriend) whose hair are short. LONG HAIR ARE NATURAL ORNAMENTS OF WOMEN. NATURE'S GIFT TO BEAYTIFY WOMEN. THOSE HUSBANDS ARE LUCY WHO COULD ENJOY HAIR PLAY OF THEIR LONG HAIRED WIVES.

[@dadapatil254]

You are the only man in comment section that makes sense

[@dracocochanel]

how tf is our hair length "men's" choice

[@nkj3985]

@dracocochanel Hair length is not men's choice. Liking long hair of women is men's choice. And no nonsense person has right to judge whether its his obsession or his genuine liking. Women have freedom to keep their hair as they like, long or shirt or Head shaved. But what men love or like is men's choice... And men love long hair of women. All men love women's long hair.

[@kritikaghai5882]

I chopped my hair short because I was bored.. but I realised that how much I love short hair.. I have been told that I look more fierce with short hair.. I now I rather embrace that because I believe that's one of the things I am.. you can be feminine and fierce at the same time. So chop them if you want or not if you dont. Just make sure it's your choice.

[@ahanalahiri381]

My parents were so ..and are so obsessed with pixie cuts...but I prefer shoulder length or...shorter than that....but not too long...becomes unmanageable

[@beingzombievstheworld]

I don't understand this about the school, how is my hairstyle gonna affect my education unless they're literally covering my eyes. Plus boys aren't allowed to have long hair unless they're of the Sikh religion.

[@therealgrimreaper68]

I used to have long hair for quite a while and cut my hair to shoulder length last year and people around me kept asking why I got it cut so short and even people I have never seen before also asked that

[@shivangikhangarot9563]

It was actually Overthinking 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

I think so too. I agree there stereotyping regarding the hair in movies. But not many girls now a days have the super long thick hair like earlier. Blame the lifestyle or chemicals or water or pollution. So this whole video was out of context. If your hair is naturally falling away you do cut it so not much left to do except agree. And I can not bear open hairs In professional places. People have hair falling throught out the day. And imagine hair everywhere. No thank you. For purposes of hygiene I will tie my hair.

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Yep

[@destroyer-ev6uv]

Some like long some like short its personal choice. Manys girls like muscular man ain't same thing applicable to them. That's why many superstars have six packs. Hritik rohsan doesn't become one of the sexiest man.

[@shivangikhangarot9563]

Yess i agree its totally the choice I personally feel more empowered and strong and more femine in long hair so I keep it takes up a lot of effort to grow it so long and thick and nowadays people don't that amount of time, but that's fine, just choices.

[@rikooangloindianpunjabi5824]

I think jus like d way we are raising awareness on skin color in our country wherein it doesn't matter whether ur dark , fair , brown all skin tones are pretty. Similarly beauty stereotypes for only long hair being beautiful need to be broken .A girl is beautiful with any hair type whether long , short , thin , thick ...its d overall personality that matters and d way she carries herself.

[@rikooangloindianpunjabi5824]

@Anonymousu need to get this through ur head ,that u sound like a real hater. U sound like someone whose entire life revolves only around hair . According to u women like Princess Diana , Scarlett Jhohanson are not beautiful at all coz they have short hair ..lol they're way more beautiful than most of the long haired women I know . Probably hair is the only thing in u which makes u beautiful , coz not everyone can carry short hair 😛 so I won't argue further with u . Whatever 😎

[@rikooangloindianpunjabi5824]

@Anonymous lol ur too much . First stating that only women with long hair look beautiful and stunning and then short hair r ones r not ugly? Lol hypocracy much ? 😛 and I never called u "patriarchal" ur using those terms ur self 😅. And prbbly u shouldn't talk to me , coz I plan to get a bob cut soon ,so I don't think I would fit into ur "beauty criteria" to talk to u 😅

[@jyotsna5276]

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