Why are you dimming your OWN light?

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Lisa Marie

Lisa Marie

Күн бұрын

In this episode, here are the 5 keys you'll take away:
1. Recognizing your own unique light: Every single person has a light within them. Discovering and embracing that light is the first step towards unleashing your full potential.
2. Overcoming the fear of judgment: Learn how to navigate through the opinions and expectations of others, and break free from the limitations they impose on you.
3. Embracing your talents and passions: I want to encourage you to fully utilize your gifts and not hold back because of what others may think. Your skills and abilities are meant to be shared with the world.
4. Stepping out of your comfort zone: Challenge yourself to step outside the familiar and explore new opportunities that stretch your boundaries. Break free from the monotony and embrace a life of growth and fulfillment.
5. Releasing the need for approval: Stop relying on external validation and trust in your own instincts and abilities. Embrace who you truly are and let your light shine unapologetically.
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@urs561
@urs561 Жыл бұрын
Trying to navigate and let go of the past. That’s what’s holding me back.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
It’s going to be a journey for sure…. But you deserve to operate in your own god given gift and talents. ❤️
@Lladz171
@Lladz171 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@Thisiisus
@Thisiisus Жыл бұрын
Not saying this is good but I’m glad to know I’m not alone struggling with this feeling too
@JuliaShalomJordan
@JuliaShalomJordan Жыл бұрын
Me too.🩵🙏🏻
@geniahwindsor188
@geniahwindsor188 Жыл бұрын
I’m in the exact same boat
@laceyrhodes4858
@laceyrhodes4858 Жыл бұрын
It all boils down to acceptance. Especially if no one actually accepted you flaws and all. 🙏🏼 I think it stems from family members being so judgemental or abusive in your childhood
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@valeriebillings7248
@valeriebillings7248 Жыл бұрын
Truth… Definitely family being judgmental
@empress9857
@empress9857 Жыл бұрын
I think too when we don’t accept our true selfs it’s can be due to us not accepting our selves initially.. seeking outwards and pleasing and molding and conturing we all do well let me refer to myself I’m work on it being my true self yes compromising to an extent however if being me bothers you it’s a flag for me 🤷‍♀️
@lakevahopps7120
@lakevahopps7120 Жыл бұрын
This has been my experience and I refuse to hide, it doesn’t serve me
@francinalazarus9909
@francinalazarus9909 Жыл бұрын
My whole life i used to be so hard on my self. I didn't know my light then. Two months ago i started therapy and began asking myself "Whom am I". At first i had no answer to this question. I was afraid of being judged always. But i am slowly discovering myself. People don't define me. I am learning to put myself first❤. Thank you for the words❤
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Goodness!!!!!! It is indeed a journey. One that is not easy to navigate and full of whys and self doubt indeed. I thank you so much for sharing! I hope each and every person finds that light that can burn bright and endure.
@adiamgebremedhn6694
@adiamgebremedhn6694 11 ай бұрын
I love this for you, I am just now starting therapy, i also have been sooo hard on myself for years. Im happy i found this community and that i stumbled upon this video. We got this , sending my love
@A_Kingdom_Well
@A_Kingdom_Well Жыл бұрын
I’ve held back my light, hid talents , acted poor because I didn’t want those around me to be jealous or feel small.
@shebbysavvas4040
@shebbysavvas4040 15 күн бұрын
Same, mine is so bad I self sabotage.
@lisaledet3261
@lisaledet3261 Жыл бұрын
I was chastised as a young girl for being complimented alot on my gifts and my smile. When my sister came along and the same did nit happen for her, my mom took offense. So I began to humble and dim myself as to not receive criticism for it from my mother. Learning to be me still at 53.
@thmoney25
@thmoney25 Жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful video and topic. I have learned to stay away from family members and people who try to down play anything that I do in life. When you know you are out here breaking generational curses people will try to pull at your leg. Be great my people
@MinisterQueenIFRA
@MinisterQueenIFRA 10 ай бұрын
I’ve dimmed my light for years because I’ve always been different from family, friends even my Church peers. I’ve operated and moved in the way God has created me to be! It makes people uncomfortable because I haven’t always colored inside their lines or followed man made rules. I have Loved the unloved and protected those that needed protection. Thank you keep doing what you do! ❤
@selestineshiro3918
@selestineshiro3918 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is such a timely conversation Lisa. I realized that the people I have been trying to impress with too much modesty were actually waiting for me to step in my greatness and inspire them. I am now fearless and living my purpose according to God's Plan. If you are reading this, trust God for your Guidance and move with Courage. He is the Creator of everything, more Powerful and Loving than you could ever imagine. Being my truest self has become the only source of true satisfaction even when I have to disappoint some people.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Yesss!!!!!!! ☀️✨❤️
@OG_Genesis216
@OG_Genesis216 Жыл бұрын
When God sends you soft reminders ✨✨✨✨
@luzyarri9423
@luzyarri9423 Жыл бұрын
My family, the more I grow the lonelier it feels. The negativity and so yes , I dim myself to not push them away. Staying humble
@tishaxdollface776
@tishaxdollface776 Жыл бұрын
All of the above are holding me back. It’s me. It’s fear. It’s the past. It’s not knowing and lacking in faith. Listening to you is like talking to that one real ass friend who holds you accountable but your tone and delivery is what makes it hit. Usually people try to have these conversations but they come off judgmental. I usually listen via podcast but I enjoyed this.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sis!!! I’m not here to judge..we all are living and trying to navigate as best as possible
@Lexxulv
@Lexxulv Жыл бұрын
I was part of a friend group like this for almost 2 years. I often felt crappy when I would spend time with them. God recently removed them from my life and I couldn’t be more grateful. They were not the best friends for me and to me and they way God removed them proved that to me. I am tired of dimming my light out of fear that I am not good enough. I am tired of befriending and surrounding myself with people who don’t bring me up who don’t want my light to shine brighter
@jacquidanke1263
@jacquidanke1263 2 ай бұрын
I AM GOING THROUGH THIS MYSELF. WE ARE WORTHY OF GOOD THINGS IN OUR LIVES. I ASKED GOD TO REMOVE HINDRANCES FROM MY LIFE AND HE IS DOING THAT. WE KNOW GOD LOVES US BUT THESE PEOPLE WERE NEVER FRIENDS. I WAS REAL LONELY THEN.
@misscandicejayy
@misscandicejayy 8 ай бұрын
That fear of judgment holds me back so much.
@roshundaatchison9975
@roshundaatchison9975 10 ай бұрын
Myself and embracing and truly believing what He is showing me about me.
@andreasimms2827
@andreasimms2827 Жыл бұрын
Very insightful and uplifting words! ❤❤
@luiseelenaa
@luiseelenaa Жыл бұрын
What has been holding me back for a long time is definitely the fear of rejection from people if I step out of the box. When I now, from this day forward step out of the box, I will not care, neither reject my light. I am high value and good enough just the way I am. and so are all of you who sees this.❤ and much love to you Lisa Marie, you are amazing and such an inspiration! Love you so much!❤
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
And when you step outside if it…. Oooohhhh goodness!!!!!! I hope I get to witness it sis!!!!! ❤️✨
@MinisterQueenIFRA
@MinisterQueenIFRA 10 ай бұрын
I ran across your channel and I know it was God! I want to Thank you for being your Awesome self, Beautiful and Wonderfully Made🙏🏽
@TheeStarQueenDrea
@TheeStarQueenDrea Жыл бұрын
I have held myself back for so long because people conditioned me to…as a child I was told even by my mother “ stop sticking your chest out “, “you think you cute” and my sister “why do you eat your chips like that?! So dainty like 🙄” People I called friends, “why you strut like that” “you think you’re better than others “ and sadly even teachers when I showed my intelligence in class too often I guess “show off”…yea, I learned from many others that I needed to be more humble and that being myself was just “too much” But nah, I know, I’m magical af and I love you even if you ain’t rocking with me like that 😘😆 it’s time for me to really be ME unapologetically 💕 thanks for the video sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Sylviascampingandadventures
@Sylviascampingandadventures Жыл бұрын
This is awesome! I have learned to move forward and accomplish that which I set out to do. Is it difficult? Yes it is! Do I need acceptance or understanding from anyone? No. Absolutely not! I have learned to be myself, do my best and observe others. God will always show you the angels in you life and the wolves in sheep's clothing. It's up to me to know who is in my corner. I shouldn't have to change for anyone unless it helps my light towards others. Thank you beautiful lady❤
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
I loooooove this!!!! This is a word!!! Thank you so much for this awesome input!
@VeldaNyambeki
@VeldaNyambeki 9 ай бұрын
Found you today❤ You are light and i love you for sharing. It resonates with me and i love how calm and relaxing your voice is..
@lamonefelder7084
@lamonefelder7084 Жыл бұрын
Thank You Queen for your Wisdom and Enlightened Connection. You're Greatly Appreciated. Blessings to you.
@NoRevengeNeeded
@NoRevengeNeeded Жыл бұрын
What's holding me back: myself, fear, people. I was just talking to myself earlier about this and I rain across this video while watching one of your shorts. This is just amazing.. you have that unbothered spirit. Peace rather. Thank u
@mrsrealbeal141
@mrsrealbeal141 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful spirit❤❤❤
@sitirahtynes7904
@sitirahtynes7904 Жыл бұрын
I do know my greatness! I know my light ! I know my purpose ! I need help to navigate how to show up ! I will definitely reflect on your 3 steps !! Appreciate your light Queen !! You sure bring the vibes !
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Absolutely keep it going!!!!! You got this! Sometimes WE get in our own way
@lillianbalkum5975
@lillianbalkum5975 Жыл бұрын
Your channel popped up, and that was a blessing to me. Sometimes we absolutely have to show up for ourselves. Our light dims other people's foolishness, and that's not our fault.Blessings!
@BkWellness
@BkWellness Жыл бұрын
The question of *why* are we dimming our light is layered & I appreciate that. I've also been asking, *when* did I learn to do this and *where* ? Unpacking those answers has been a journey, yet for me, it boils down to safety. When I feel safe, seen, and appreciated, my light shines. ✨️ Now, it's time to make that the rule and not the exception.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
I love this!!!!! Safety is also a component to this! Thank you for adding this.
@stephaniemillsaps3626
@stephaniemillsaps3626 10 ай бұрын
LOVE 🙏🙏🙏
@ahlynelormeus2088
@ahlynelormeus2088 Жыл бұрын
I think for me coach, it’s just the spirit of Fear; there’s this social anxiety that I feel when I’m around people and being feared by the opinion of others what they think about me due to past times within my childhood traumas that my parents called; being verbally and physically abused is not fun😂 but I am getting over it and In my healing Stage🫶🏾🫶🏾and thank to you❤❤❤❤
@lizzybeth428
@lizzybeth428 Жыл бұрын
How are you getting over the spirit of fear and anxiety? I can't seem to go past it in everything I do.
@ahlynelormeus2088
@ahlynelormeus2088 Жыл бұрын
@@lizzybeth428 everyone is different and we all cope differently; with me I find comfort in journaling, exercising (eg:walks on the park ), playing ball, cooking and of course prayer/meditation….. studying God’s word is one way I escape from anxiety and depression; it gives me a sense of satisfying peace. That’s how I’m learning growing healing and maturing ; those are my coping mechanisms….. like I said we all are different and special In our own way; what works for me MAY/MAY NOT work for you. Give it a shot tho🫶🏾see what best comforts you
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Many times we create scenarios in our heads based on what we THINK people are thinking and saying. We eventually become our own enemy… this is what happens when trauma from childhood makes us feel we aren’t enough.
@ahlynelormeus2088
@ahlynelormeus2088 Жыл бұрын
@@SeasonedDialogue that too🥲
@darteceiascarvers7494
@darteceiascarvers7494 Жыл бұрын
I am holding myself back. Not sure what it is that I fear, but I know that I am in my own way.
@odjessicaward6730
@odjessicaward6730 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@thegreatestbassist
@thegreatestbassist Жыл бұрын
I find these points to be SO CORRECT. Some people shy away from you when you SHINE, I have experienced this. I no longer find time for these people. I admire and promote those who display their GIFTS. Mutual admiration Society. Thank you Sister Lisa Marie, you're THE BEST!!!
@biancahankerson5142
@biancahankerson5142 Жыл бұрын
This spoke to me "Everybody got a light! Thanks
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!!!
@anthonyedavis2346
@anthonyedavis2346 9 ай бұрын
I feel it may be the connection or wanting to have a connection with someone or something in the enviornment the validates or ensures us we are not alone or maybe even encourages us to move in the direction we vibrating towards. May even be the vibration surrounding oneself that hinders our expression of self in front of others. It seems we have to fight the powers to just be expressive which feels exhausting in itself!
@cyrusmcclinton2265
@cyrusmcclinton2265 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much goddess!🙏🏾😇✊🏾
@clemenceWONDER
@clemenceWONDER Жыл бұрын
That's a good talk. Thanks, Lisa. Most definitely I am holding myself back because I fear failing hard, which will affect my wife & kids.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Let’s talk about this! Do you think the failure will trickle down and cause instability in the family dynamic??? Thank you for showing up in this conversation… men are so vital in conversations such as these!
@clemenceWONDER
@clemenceWONDER Жыл бұрын
@@SeasonedDialogue It might trickle down especially financially
@Breath0123withKey
@Breath0123withKey Жыл бұрын
I have been on this self journey for the last 5 years and it has been renewing at each level. It has not been easy but living in my truth has been freeing and true. So, anyone is on that journey its hard but so worth it.
@leratosawatsi3966
@leratosawatsi3966 Жыл бұрын
I am so grateful for finding your channel. Whenever I watch you I feel so light and motivated. I am holding myself back due to fear and self-doubt
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Awwww thank you
@davidcadogan9478
@davidcadogan9478 Жыл бұрын
I have been struggling with this for a very long time and I realised several months ago at age 54 that it has to change. Thank you. The right message at the right time. ❤‍🔥🙏
@tammynicolemyers6521
@tammynicolemyers6521 Жыл бұрын
OMG! You have me in tears. Speak Queen! Thank you! I feel so much better that someone gets me. Over the years, I experienced everything you've said. I hurt from it, but I keep pushing in my Gifts as an Indie Authoress and Poetess. God's strength in me help keep my light sparkling. I had to withdraw from everyone who tried and still try to dim my light. I refuse to allow my Authenticity be altered no matter the outcome. You are nailing it. Much Love to you ❤
@stanDbyme1963
@stanDbyme1963 8 ай бұрын
I appreciate your calming voice tone instead of all of the unnecessary attitudes, and aggressive tones.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue 8 ай бұрын
Goodness… so welcome 💫
@kayecarp5481
@kayecarp5481 Жыл бұрын
I don’t have to dim my light now. When amongst others, or when given the choice of aligning myself with others that are riding low, I get to be amongst them by listening. Keeping my light on. My light is love. God gave it to me. Withholding? It’s time to live. Let love into my fear, terror, resentments, self pity, dishonesty and self centeredness. Not by my will but through surrendering. Life is good. I’m grateful that I got into enough pain to break through, to the other side.🙏🏾🕊
@TokioTokeRedd
@TokioTokeRedd Жыл бұрын
For Myself, it was all three. Fear, Family, and listening to other people. Then I stepped into something beautiful, loving, caring, and wonderful. All of that pot of greatness I stepped into is me. I stepped into loving myself and realized all of the love that had been surrounding me. I realized many were waiting for me to arrive. Get ready world because I am coming to shine my light. Peace and blessings, everyone!
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381 Жыл бұрын
Bravery courage kindness and faith.
@deidreabraham8008
@deidreabraham8008 Жыл бұрын
So much you have sid resonates with me and reading these comments I realize how much of us struggle with finding who we are in christ not in this world.Afraid to find or cultivate our talents and gifts suffering from imposter syndrome.But ladies . I say this let u take our lamps from under the bed and let it shine.For he has not given us a spirit of fear.May we heal and do so gracefully with love❤.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️ yes
@zakaylasimone
@zakaylasimone Жыл бұрын
Previously, it was a mixture of myself and people. I wanted so bad to keep them in my life, but when I realized that they were not contributing to my growth as a person (which is already hard in itself) I knew it would be in both of our interest to let them go. Since doing so I feel a better sense of myself and my higher calling and even more confident to go after it, and grow into the woman God created me to be authentically and unapologetic. Thank you for sharing!
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
This is so good…. And REAL!!!! Honesty in realization to set you free🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@andreacurrie3204
@andreacurrie3204 6 ай бұрын
I dim my light because of other’s jealousy and insecurities. I can FEEL one’s envy for me if that’s the energy they’re giving off and it’s suffocating. LITERALLY… I’m gifted…I’m a Healer and God has shown me this in so many ways. It’s up to me to walk in it now and not be ashamed nor apologetic because, truth be told, this gift is HEAVY and not for the weak… I thank God for placing you in the lives of so many. He’s INTENTIONAL so I KNOW I was led to be a part of your village…I pray your protection because your platform is my therapy. You NEVER miss and I feel as if you are directly talking to me. Grateful.. Thank you for your growth and as a result of it you are helping with mine..🙏🏽
@sllifeofcreativity
@sllifeofcreativity 7 ай бұрын
It’s like navigating life and myself holding me back
@SisMaria1
@SisMaria1 Жыл бұрын
It me holding myself back for fear that ppl won’t appreciate or want what I teach. I am gifted and talented and I love what I do .
@gemmadidit4118
@gemmadidit4118 Жыл бұрын
I have a Playlist called 'listen' for my daily walks. But when I happened to catch the first minute of you, I saw your shimmy and your shine...i had to watch you on my tv. Why should my ears have all the fun? What's holding me back? THE DRAMA! I am not ego driven competitive or vain. Thank GOD in heaven...because it seems to me those are the people who can't stand anyone else's light. I spend too much time alone. I know that. But when the alternative is some kind of FRENEMY, I prefer my own company...thank you very much. The silver lining is that self caring has distilled my better qualities to a higher level. But loneliness is no joke. I'm still looking for my tribe...
@labeautepure1872
@labeautepure1872 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I identity myself so much with your way of thinking. I am struggling to overcome the shyness of an entire life basically due to bullying and toxic family members. Even loving to do many things, I feel stuck and weak, and I was always looking for people's approval to make my personal decisions. Now I am praying a lot for myself and watching videos like yours to encourage me. I cannot get into my 30s like this. I will let my light shine bright!!
@connectwithchloe
@connectwithchloe Жыл бұрын
I just love love love you’re content queen!!!
@erinncole6246
@erinncole6246 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I am experiencing in my friend group right now and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you 🙏🏽
@clairedocteur9027
@clairedocteur9027 3 ай бұрын
AMAZING!!! Oh my!!! I've apologise to myself for making myself small because my light has annoyed them.
@terrencebrown282
@terrencebrown282 10 ай бұрын
I’m struggling with how to navigate getting out what is inside of me. It’s way easier right now to play the game than to take a chance on me. I’ve never confessed that and it’s both sad to hear but refreshing. Maybe what I have to say will help one person and it’s enough. Maybe I won’t be rich but my worth increases because I’ve given to the world what was given to me.
@Nizynae
@Nizynae Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your gentleness. I think for me I humbled myself because I don’t want to come from a place of ego. I have operated in that time before where it caused me to be nonchalant and careless about what people thought about me when in return now that I am mother I try to be humble in a way where God can use me and not come off a certain way. Now, every and a blue moon. If pushed I will unhumble myself and turn my light on high for them to know I am the apple of Gods eye and if you think you getting by your not because everything in the dark comes to light. This was a every good episode, fulfilling. ❤
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
I definitely appreciate the humbleness in every aspect of people. But I also know that believing that we all have something magnificent doesn’t require for it to be hidden or covered because God truly gave it for us to have. Some people humble themselves so much that they humble themselves out of opportunities by not taking the lead in something given OR not believing what other people are pouring into them. Those who consciously stay humble also can appear less qualified than those who are confident in their path, position, assignment, and their gifts. It’s a very hard line when we think about it. No one wants to show up pretentious and arrogant…. We can still exude humility and also be a great light. Thank you so listening ❤️❤️❤️
@Nizynae
@Nizynae Жыл бұрын
This is what I needed to hear, humbleness and humility has been my theme since I been pregnant with my second child. I pray I can take this gem and use to it to ignite my fire ❤
@veronicagriffin1138
@veronicagriffin1138 9 ай бұрын
"The thing that he has given you, is to be utilized for your own good", resonates profoundly!
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue 8 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@iamceceanderson
@iamceceanderson Жыл бұрын
Powerful words which I can receive so easily today, compared to if I listened a few months go. Since enhancing my meditative practice by speaking to my inner child, I realise she is a ball of light who loves and cares for all, and is unapologetic (because she is unaware and living her truth) of how bright she is. Anytime she touches someone they glow (this is all in my meditation). So my reality has shifted and I’m embracing my light and keeping it on 💯 because that’s who I am, and I hope to encourage others to do the same, through example of my life, because we are ALL meant to shine in our own way. Big love Sis! I LOVE your work 😁✌🏾❤️🇬🇧
@armoncustomkicks1560
@armoncustomkicks1560 Жыл бұрын
I just love you're energy ❤️
@beverlyjonesel2290
@beverlyjonesel2290 Жыл бұрын
I love everything you have to say,You r like our modern day Maya Angelou,Even better,I hope you get your flowers Girl
@melaninmedusa
@melaninmedusa Жыл бұрын
I needed to really hear this. - Myself - Trying to navigate life. Life is super hard and trying to find balance, learn who I am & etc..
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Life is so very challenging! But I also feel we have the tools to get to the best place!
@adiamgebremedhn6694
@adiamgebremedhn6694 11 ай бұрын
i resonate so much with this video and also the people who are commenting, Im happy i found this video, i am a new subscriber. Im starting therapy this coming Tuesday, and I am looking forward to it. I truly want to grow and learn to truly love myself and stop relying on others for it.
@juanitawilliams2134
@juanitawilliams2134 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video ❤there are people that I couldn't be myself when I was around them .but now I'm becoming a different person and I love were God is taking me .I'm going to be myself no matter who's around ❤❤
@SonSceray
@SonSceray Жыл бұрын
You're a refreshing reflection of self ✨✨🤟🏽🤟🏽🍃🍃
@-Dialogue.
@-Dialogue. Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the messages! LOVE from South Africa!
@ioannaVD
@ioannaVD Жыл бұрын
You have a lovely manner. Thank you for not molding into a commoner
@divineorion999
@divineorion999 Жыл бұрын
Before i listen further,,i would like to say im staying because of that secy voice sister❤❤😊
@damaris7687
@damaris7687 Жыл бұрын
My goodness. I loved this! Thank you. I hold myself back. I let people hold me back as well
@xNightHawkx28
@xNightHawkx28 Жыл бұрын
For so long in my life I had always been such a bright and star studded version of myself because that's how I had grown to be to get over the adversity I faced. It wasn't until I became sick and had so much time to sit idly while being consumed in my own darkness that I started to dim my own light. I started to question myself and over identity with this darkness and now it's left a dark cloud over me. I had faith that I can become as great if not greater than I once was, I'm just not sure what that journey looks like and how to embark on it.
@monicabrownhayes
@monicabrownhayes Жыл бұрын
This just made me cry, literally! I’ve always dimmed my light so everyone else can shine. Ppl have often told me to shine bc I have a lot of light to offer. Man oh man.
@Jill-u9d
@Jill-u9d 11 ай бұрын
My struggle is knowing how to navigate and finding my potential. I am grown but its difficult to find what is my God given gift. I love your content btw. Please pray for me.
@leilabowers3613
@leilabowers3613 9 ай бұрын
I feel the same way although I know I'm smart but lost me😢
@obakeng_k
@obakeng_k Жыл бұрын
Your voice, though 🤩 You honestly are shining in this space!
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
@vivveene
@vivveene 5 ай бұрын
Amazing video. All my Love from Jamaica.
@natalieespinozamontero4812
@natalieespinozamontero4812 8 ай бұрын
I have noticed growing up, its hard for me to dim my light it is naturally bright. However, the times I embrace it, I feel whole, but I also see how uncomfortable I make people around me feel. My sister would often tell me that I was too much, or that I seemed fake. My light shines brightest when I help others, that is my calling, I can tell. But when my sisters remarks cross my mind, I question my authenticity, my genuineness. So I tone myself down and do good, but say nothing about it. That is how I have lived most of my life, and its hard. I'm tearing up just writing this. At work and school (going for my masters) I feel the same energy, that I can be too much and I don't know what to make of it. =( Thank you for your kinds words from the heart
@LateBloomer1111
@LateBloomer1111 Жыл бұрын
Narcissist in my life are holding me back. One is my mom and the other my children's father. I'm breaking free from their judgments NOW!!
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Good for you!!!! Live YOUR best life!
@jmasteramber
@jmasteramber 10 ай бұрын
Family is holding me back. Afraid to shine. Don’t want anyone to feel a certain kinda way
@leslieransome671
@leslieransome671 Жыл бұрын
What's holding me back: myself and many times, I just don't know how to take the steps to move forward and break forth.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
That’s honest!!!!!
@jenniferbutler7888
@jenniferbutler7888 Жыл бұрын
I'm holding myself back. Beliefs from my past is very loud when I try stepping outside the box.
@ShiningAchilles
@ShiningAchilles Жыл бұрын
"You already know your greatness." I appreciate your talents with words, Lisa Marie and your voice is always so soothing. I used to do exactly what you're describing with family and people I thought were friends, until this summer I did a lot of reflection. I recently went against my grad school supervisor and submitted a brilliant research paper that was grand while staying within the word count. My talents are often complimented but I used to dim them. Now I embrace them. Btw idk if you heard this song but re: on not being humble listen to Jericho by Iniko. It feels like a great track to listen to after your video 😊
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
This! Going against what people feel they know about you is HUGE! I’m so glad you planted your feet firmly and decided to show up for yourself and submit your paper in spite of what your grad supervisor initially felt. When we show up as our best self, the best surely comes FOR us. I’m definitely going to listen to this song. Thank you so much for the recommendation as well❤❤
@ShiningAchilles
@ShiningAchilles Жыл бұрын
@@SeasonedDialogue Perfectly said!! Showing up for us is the best thing we can do for ourselves. You have such a way with words Lisa Marie. May you keep shining bright! And no problem, I hope you enjoy the song! ❤️
@allinalifetime
@allinalifetime 7 ай бұрын
I'm differently trying to navigate to my greatness without fear but just in a different way ❤ thanks for the wisdom
@JoySoDope
@JoySoDope Жыл бұрын
Am soooo Thrilled about listening to your channe!!
@jamessutton9874
@jamessutton9874 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Lisa, first of all I am coming closer to God which is the greatest decision I have made, I am changing my entire way of thinking or reparenting myself. My parent did the best they could with what they had but I am breaking the family curse.
@delisilechristina1476
@delisilechristina1476 Жыл бұрын
Wow... ❤❤❤❤
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
✨✨✨✨✨
@Unstoppable_Butterfly
@Unstoppable_Butterfly Жыл бұрын
Wow, so much confirmation and power in this video. Get out of the box!!!!❤
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@sharonbeverly9261
@sharonbeverly9261 Жыл бұрын
I believe it’s self myself believing I’m not enough
@lilcutie5082
@lilcutie5082 Жыл бұрын
You're so right. I dimmed my light to make those around me comfortable. Enough is enough. Its time to shine regardless
@Willie-yt3rx
@Willie-yt3rx Жыл бұрын
Excellent Timing My Sista . My biggest issues have been fear based and not wanting rejection even though I've ALWAYS BEEN TOLD that I was Gifted as a Speaker , In Leadership , and that people follow me and that I'm relatable to all PEOPLE. YET not knowing how to Navigate or Surrender to God . I've KNOWN THESE THINGS FOR A LONG LONG TIME. I'M A RECOVERING ALCOHOLIC/ADDICT , Ex Convict , HOMELESSNESS , ABUSED BY FAMILY AS A CHILD ...SIMPLY PUT I RELATE TO PAUL ;I HAVE BECOME ALL THINGS TO ALL MEN...YET GOD HAS KEPT ME ,EVEN FROM PHYSICAL DEATH TWICE . NEVER HARMED A CHILD TOOK LIFE OR ABUSED A WOMAN IN ANY WAY. My Sister YOU SO SPEAK TO MY SPIRITUAL CORE AND I'LL BE SO GLAD WHEN YOU OPEN IT UP IN😮 2024. Stay right sized w/God and continue to Be That Beautiful Vessel HE HAS CREATED IN You FOR OTHER'S THAT THEY MAY SEE AND HEAR THE BEAUTY GOD THROUGH YOU... Bro. Boatwright 32 Truly Blessed
@latayapenn9601
@latayapenn9601 Жыл бұрын
First time I’ve come across your channel. Sadly, what’s holding me back is all three. Thank you.❤
@psicointrospeccion
@psicointrospeccion Жыл бұрын
What a blessing
@jordenbaker43877
@jordenbaker43877 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ Thank you for this beautiful message ❤❤❤ For me... I feel I'm a little stuck in trying to identify and build the confidence with all that I'm capable of doing. The gifts that I'm blessed with... I do humble myself to not appear that I'm better than the next person. Past experiences had me where I've faced being looked at uncomfortably because of what I can do and that energy trying to make me look like I'm trying to outshine those around me. I also had to suffer because of the light I consume ... it uplifts the room and the enemy don't like it. So that becomes a battle that I end up fighting alone. I know God sees me through it, it just gets so overwhelming when it happens again. So, I've been staying to myself and just expressing myself using one of my talents to speak to myself through it. Keeping that fire to burn as I still try to wait on HIM to direct my path and open the door for the resources to be the stepping stools.
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
I love this as well! I feel like what god gives us comes easy to us…. But even in it… people can find it off putting or they may question what it is that we have. When I say let your light shine bright… I simply mean stay in it… stay in that place that is filled with confidence and personal agreeable with self
@jordenbaker43877
@jordenbaker43877 Жыл бұрын
@@SeasonedDialogue thank you for the encouragement 🙏🏾 🌹
@MyDigitalDiaries1111
@MyDigitalDiaries1111 Жыл бұрын
That's why I hit all those buttons to keep these vibes going and to beyond❤ And I loved that little shimmy you did😂 I'll have to try that before I start my day.
@CaesarinaMPaul
@CaesarinaMPaul Жыл бұрын
Small society syndrome - where everyone is convinced they have the 101 on your entire journey of life. It is easy to give in to the 'expected status quo' because it makes it easier to stay unseen / under the radar. We were made to shine... This is a masterpiece of an episode. I may have to revisit it a few times clearly. Thank you Lisa.
@donnayabutler1716
@donnayabutler1716 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this beautiful video. I really needed to hear this. I am watching this video while doing my daily yoga/stretch before I go jogging (day 6) while also on my fruit fast (Day 3). For months I have been wanting to start jogging, I found someone who wanted to go jogging with me, but he kept making excuses when the time came around, so I realized I didn't want to wait around for others to do the things I WANT TO DO FOR MYSELF. That was epiphany #1. I also have been wanting to start eating more alkaline foods that fuel my mind, body, and soul, But my family has kept saying that I will get sick from not eating certain foods and etc. Just putting fear into me because I am choosing to do something out of normal and therefore in their eyes "I AM DOING TOO MUCH". When really I believe since I have went Plant Based/Vegan, I have been doing just enough for my well being and some more, Epiphany #2. So i'm saying all of this to say, what has been holding me back is my own fear of doing something that has never been done before. I truly believe that I am NOT crazy, JUST the 1st to do it. Thats all it is. I have been holding onto these expectations others have put on me to fit into this mold they created through their own perspective. But that isn't me. I am much bigger than that. My power and greatness exceeds that. There is no limit to what I can do for myself and the things I can accomplish, once I put my mind to it. My mission is bigger than most and thats why I work harder for the life I Truly desire. Everyday I show up for myself because It makes ME feel good. I do not do it to look cool, to make others feel comfortable, because I am living for DONNAYA & NOBODY ELSE. Everything that has happened to me in this lifetime and any other, has brought me to this moment, here right now. Proving to myself that I can have the dream life, by simply doing what feels good to me. So I am no longer dimming my own light, because my aura shines too bright to dim. I had to overcome these obstacles in my life, to believe in myself enough to radiate the confidence and light, to guide others to unlocking their own energy and love for themselves. This is why my mission is bigger than my own life. I do this for me everyday to inspire others to want to do it for themselves too.
@KayElle211
@KayElle211 Жыл бұрын
People sabotage authenticity. I'm done with social media and with people in general. They don't deserve the energy.
@bratticakes13
@bratticakes13 Жыл бұрын
What’s holding me back? Myself and I’m unsure of how to navigate this process to unfolding my true self. Came across your channel this morning and I am so full of gratitude that you are sharing this valuable insight. I appreciate you for sharing your light 💡
@flowwithmichelle983
@flowwithmichelle983 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful insight…Thank you
@karenrobinson4094
@karenrobinson4094 9 ай бұрын
I appreciate you. Thank you.... and yes, I'm changing that day by day.
@916_Onyx
@916_Onyx Жыл бұрын
Bullseye! 🎯 I promised GOD No More Watering Myself Down, Shrinking Myself for the sake of low vibrational people that can’t handle my Light! Imma blind the shit out yo ass from now to Eternity!✨On Point Point once again Sis✨😎💯💯💯
@jeanjaniceleontine
@jeanjaniceleontine Жыл бұрын
This was so heavenly sent and on time. I have to put this on repeat daily until it clicks for me❤
@SeasonedDialogue
@SeasonedDialogue Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being present ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Sweetiesplanet
@Sweetiesplanet Жыл бұрын
click, click, click...you go girl!!!
@octaviawilliams3159
@octaviawilliams3159 2 ай бұрын
This is liberating!
@leethomas-gg9ud
@leethomas-gg9ud 6 ай бұрын
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