Why aren’t you perfect yet??!

[@johnryan3913]

Yeah Finn, I cant imagine any human can be perfect, Oh btw love your voice, it is not too high, and you are quite precise in your intonation 😃 Back to me! I need a bf. I did not find love or understanding in my family, and they all died pretty young. So a partner is Really important. Also writing a couple hours every day. And getting out to hear live music. I have an issue with busses/trains, anxiety about getting lost (based on a real issue I have with spatial orientation) so I avoid unknown trips unless Im with someone. Gotta fight that. You have me thinking. Im smart and some people really like me. So, I have to get through the shame, doubt, etc and try to get what I want!

[@tituscaesar]

I don’t think there’s such a thing as perfection. How would you define it? One person’s view of perfection will be different to another person’s. So, it is an arbitrary, individual concept. Also, within a person’s lifetime, one’s view of it will change. So, it is also fluid, not constant. It is not a reliable barometer for improvement. I feel there’s a certain freedom within being IMPERFECT. There’s room to manoeuvre. I view perfection as static. It would be BORING, becoming perfect! Where’s the fun in that? Within our foibles, and imperfections we can have adventures and fun and drama! That’s what life is all about! Would you agree, Finn?