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[@Neta_2525]

As a black woman, I’m getting sick & tired of watching and hearing everything about race. We are all human beings, children of God, and just plain AMERICANS. We are moving backwards in history and resegregating ourselves.🤦‍♀️ I have no problem with interracial relationships just as long as either party isn’t degrading their own people/culture.

[@jennifers1040]

Same! (Not as a black woman but tired of everything being about race.) In an interracial relationship with multiracial children, race comes up way more outside of our home than in it. Our family is just our family and I wish people saw that.

[@texasbeast2542]

I agree, my wife is half black and I’m a white man, we’ve been married for 20 years. 2 kids in college, she helped me build a business, couldn’t b happier together, our kids are different shades and race is a joke in my house, we’re just family

[@lingjohn1288]

​@@jennifers1040disgusting

[@lingjohn1288]

​@@texasbeast2542disgusting

[@Neta_2525]

@@jennifers1040 I hear you. Continue doing your best for you and your family. Don’t pay attention to them naysayers. I’ve dated and been in relationships with multiple races. I’ve grown numb to how people see me or what they say. Live your life!❤️

[@treanaalfred148]

As a black woman I don't understand black people. I always stood out. And the black people would call me white. 😮 Having respect and discipline is not a color thing.

[@harvestcreativedesign9034]

say it sis. lot of black need to get up and move on from the past.

[@Natasha-kg1zw]

Agreed!!!

[@leasagowers2293]

You are so right. Well said.

[@leasagowers2293]

I hope one day we can actually get to the point where we can judge each other on the content of character and not skin color. Wouldn’t that be grand ?

[@miltonelliott8506]

It's been about race last 400yrs plus jim crow 😢

[@Djhikes63]

My son is dating a lovely young woman who just happens to be black. She is brilliant. She is hard working and putting herself through college. She is the most caring and considerate person. If I could have looked the world over and hand-picked his mate, I could never picked anyone more perfect for him.

[@Godlyqueen11]

Aww, what a sweet and lovely comment. This touched my heart as a young black lady . God bless u! Wishing them happiness @Djhikes63

[@CarlosHernandez-wq9pc]

​@@Godlyqueen11🤢🤮

[@joyceellis9722]

Me too. My DIL is a delightful gift from my son. My cuter than cute grandson is the world.

[@donnaemmi3003]

AWSOME !

[@williejones7878]

I hope she isn’t using him for economic status like most of those women do

[@Lane8492]

I am a White man, and my Woman is Black and when it comes to our relationship, I never really cared what anyone else thought of our relationship because if we both believe in Jesus Christ which we do, then skin color doesn't matter to God Almighty.

[@bloodspartan300]

Disgusting

[@hunna5849]

Skin color doesn't matter.. then why does racism exist 😮

[@Laurita-ev8me]

​@@bloodspartan300Disgusting are racist people like you, whatever your ethnicity or skin color you are. Idk it and I couldn't care less, because your words say all what you are, a racist.

[@Gamereternium-kh9xn]

Its ok. 😂...

[@deeb6270]

@@bloodspartan300🤨

[@cindydunn3036]

"White people do not spend their days thinking about black people." So true. We are living our lives and planning our futures. Love who you love and be happy.

[@chrisallison9151]

That argument could be applied 100 years ago when there was segregation. That was the point of segregation. Imagine a card dealer consistently and intentionally giving you bad cards and me saying that card dealer isn’t thinking about you. They’re just living his best life

[@blaqken7726]

@@chrisallison9151this is officer Tatum channel. These type of ppl ignore everything that lead up to now, and point at you for remembering how it really is 😂

[@TickleMeElmo55]

Please go send a PM to Tatum tell him how you feel. ​@blaqken7726

[@TickleMeElmo55]

​@@chrisallison9151You're creating a straw man.

[@tiffanycurtis4794]

Cindy, can you please tell that to woke Black people thank you girl🥰🥰 because I know that regular Black people with common sense know that

[@tazerface8659]

I was a white kid growing up in predominantly black Chicago suburbs. Almost all of my friends were black. I wasn't allowed in half of their homes. I even heard one father through the door say "You ain't letting the devil in here." I didn't really think much about it as a child but now that I see it everywhere in the way people interact with me, it resonates. I used to think "oh they probably think I'm racist" or something like that but it has now changed. They think that I'm a bad person. I feel like we were really coming together at one point but then the media stepped in. They amplified stories that they could blame on white people and buried the stories that would show that we're all doing the same shit out there and there isn't one race doing everything wrong. Of course 90% of the media stories were fabricated or hyperbole. I walk around thinking that everyone hates me and it appears that I'm not wrong anymore.

[@MsGinahidesout]

That's sad. I'm sorry

[@ndngirl4ever13]

I hate that you experienced that kind of racism and hatred. It shows all races have the few who are ignorant bigots not just white people. I hope one day our country changes course bc we're on a collision course right now.

[@Lisahaven]

It’s sad, but true, and I am tired of it. I too, grew up in a predominantly, not black, but Hispanic community. I know what you’re talking about. I’m done with this racist stuff from the left.

[@juliabarron2122]

Thank Obama

[@Denali_Rebel]

It happened before the recent media push for racial division. The races were coming together and then obama made sure to separate us again.

[@alabamafootball10]

Doesn’t matter the color or race for any man just make sure she is a Christ centered Peaceful Woman.

[@switzjon8405]

Nowadays they gotta be more than that. You see the video when the couple was getting married and she refused to recite the "love, honor, and obey" portion. The Obey part she had a problem with.

[@jaybeejay777]

@@switzjon8405that ain’t Christ centered , now is it?

[@switzjon8405]

@@jaybeejay777 By no means. The mentality of some ladies today "I don't listen to no man". That's the issue.

[@alabamafootball10]

Christ centered means a woman who will submit to her God given husbands leadership.

[@switzjon8405]

@@alabamafootball10 That's a sinful word in 2024. Submit. They actually want the reverse, for the man to submit to his woman.

[@boywonder228]

Heard about a conversation where a guy I know was talking with his sister about meeting their kid's spouses. The sister made the comment about her son along the lines of she just wanted to make sure he didn't bring a white girl home. Her brother responded, "You know, biblically, the only mixed marriage is between a believer and an unbeliever." That ended that.

[@Stephudxo]

As a young black 23 year old, it’s so sad seeing people focus on race rather than love. It’s one thing to have a type, but when you go off skin color it becomes ridiculous. I never understood why this is considered a big issue especially in the Black community. It’s more important to focus on if the person is a true man/woman of God, and that God calls you two to become one. It’s a terrible thing to go off of race/stereotypes🤦🏾‍♀️ you’ll always be disappointed without Christ in the center!

[@geechie-don7157]

You need a history lesson…

[@StukInBuf]

*25TH* like! BTW, I'm Puerto Rican, Jewish, and black... and married to nice German/Irish gal.

[@miggs80]

Thank you for being a fellow black person saying this openly. We get a lot of pushback from our own when we don’t care about skin tone. I’ve dated what seems like the entire skin spectrum and have enjoyed all the different culture I got to experience and learn during these experiences. I’ll never reject my heart based on skin color.

[@geoculus5606]

Huh?@@geechie-don7157

[@TamikoRWhite]

As a black lady who dated out myself, I see a great need for both black ladies and black men to explore the world in search of true love. Many of us black folks are getting passports and traveling to find love and a new homeland.☺️✈️🌏🚶🏿‍♀️🚶🏿‍♂️🧳🧳❤❤

[@RebeccaMesaeh]

My husband (white) and I (hispanic) were at a popular eating place, and an elderly black woman shouted across the restaurant," Does your daddy know you're with him?" I said, "I hope so, he was at the wedding!"

[@DanaNk400]

That was great!! Awesome response! 😂

[@BeeCheap-uc3tc]

Awesome comeback

[@Jaccks2006]

😂❤❤

[@lighty805]

Personally I would have put her in her place.

[@TheMightyWalk]

Black women are rude

[@monicakent6287]

Brandon I have to be honest... I'm a black woman and for the first 11 years of my life I went to a predominantly all black school and was always teased because I was so thin with no butt by all the black boys. When I transferred to middle school that was mixed the white children(boys) we're so nice to me. In high school it was the same way. Maybe one or two black boys had an interst in me. The white boys would compliment me continuesly on my big eyes and my long legs and said I looked like Diana Ross, and for some reason that was funny to the black boys. The majority of my boyfriends were white.My husband is from Romania and is the love of my life and makes me feel so appreciated everyday ❤️🥰 and is everything to me. I have no regrets!!! 🇺🇲🇹🇩

[@Briefly21]

“Black people are far more racist,” this comment is unfortunately true. I’ve never heard any of my white friends say anything or treat anyone differently due to color. But I am in 3 predominantly black local communities that say terrible things in front of me, that I could never and would never say to or in front of another human being. I’ve also been treated very badly and excluded from many events and gatherings that were posted “black only.” I judge people by their character only. It’s so disheartening to see the hatred of another human just for the color of their skin. I am a sensitive person and love people, and have left some gatherings in tears because of how I was treated. One community I never returned to.

[@harleyharris7346]

STFU! You are chatting the most sh*t! You are acting like up until 1960s there was not segregation in the US. That is our mothers and fathers ages. Man is in 3 forums and wants to spread his yt woke knowledge. STFU! It makes you feel better to feel that way, but it is not true and you categorically know it! Stay in your dumb little cocoon of fakeness! YT people are the most racist people on this planet! You just can't say it to our faces like you did a few years ago as it is nighty night. Y'all wish you could abuse like you did a few years ago. We don't want people like you around us. Just an extension of your r*pist and racist ancestors. Yes, blacks only! As y'all won't let us have sh*t Ever! You think that everything has to involve you and it doesn't. Get a grip and stay in your trailer lane 😂 #WAKANDAFOREVER ✊

[@Hello_jo]

Yep. I told a black girl I liked her outfit the other day and she just kept walking past me and staring at the ground. 😬

[@ruzimabonieck6908]

Sorry for that, most of those people have been radicalised and see and think most white people are evil due to history and some of the things that still happens and the media, which is not true, there are good people in every race.

[@JacquelineB-vs9xx]

As a black woman I married a white man and I love to see the surprise looks on peoples faces when I introduce him! We couldn’t care less what people think about our relationship and if they don’t like it it’s there problem. You are right it’s mainly black people who give us the stare.

[@reginacameron3011]

sis you can't folks are so hateful. I have lots of family and friends that are white and black married. I see nothing wrong with it.

[@foundationalstatesmen]

WHILE LYING BY DENYING LONG TERM HATEFUL STARES FROM WHITE PEOPLE!

[@westside8662]

So u take a stare as hate? It couldn't be a look of surprise because u see more black men with white women then vise versa? Has anyone said anything disrespectful to u or treated u different?

[@Checkmate0911]

Nobody's surprised seeing a black woman with a white man. We've. Been seeing it since the plantation. Remember ,? Whats surprising is seeing the rise in black men and white women relationships, which is only a few decades in the making

[@Checkmate0911]

Black women created a whole PHUCKING RACE CALLED CREOLE WITH WHITE. ZADDY . ARE YOU SERIOUS ? WE ARE SURPRISED YOU SAY ? 🤡🤡🤡🤡👎👎👎👎

[@user-kn5pd6my8t]

My white daughter is facing racism from the family of her black fiancé. It's real. This is in coastal Mississippi. My girl is handling it like a champ though, it hurts her at times. We are all humans.

[@Director2024]

He is going to have to put his foot down and set boundaries.

[@vdoc2760]

@@Director2024Facts! When the family disrespect his wife, they are disrespecting him.

[@blacktanner4535]

@user-kn5pd6my8t That black man should be marrying a black woman...thank you family!!

[@ernestmwape]

Historical baggage can be so overpowering

[@user-xf4dy6zl2q]

@@Director2024BM collectively as a demographic lack that masculine DNA.

[@COMBAT411]

All i know is I am WHITE and I Love BLACK Women!❤

[@UNeedDaBeef]

That's all you know?

[@harleyharris7346]

We love you, too! Nobody knows how much the black community appreciates people who appreciate us 🥰

[@tyrishasmith-grady703]

Come my may way shoot as a black women I like vanilla

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

As a Caucasian, I got physically attacked for dating my ex boyfriend who is black. I had no idea who the black woman was until later found out through the police, it was my then boyfriend’s ex girlfriend who he shared a son with from prior years. Needless to say, shortly after the attack, we broke up. She was a jealous ex who couldn’t accept that her ex was dating a white woman. It was pretty horrifying experience because she literally stalked me and came to my vehicle very quickly after I got in my car. It could have been much worse if she was carrying a weapon. Not only that, she had criminal priors. This was in Los Angeles and I was a college student at that time. His family and nieces adored me. I was so close to his mom who was a devout Christian. I miss her.

[@aquarius-woman5364]

But you didn't marry this wonderful man

[@bitrudder3792]

that woman is a wildcard you couldn't possibly control. and she would've been inextricably tied to your life if you had married him, because he has a child with her. very difficult situation. It's sad To leave behind what sounds like a great set of in-laws, but hopefully you will find someone else who is a better fit, and whose baggage isn't so deadly.

[@ataurus2at]

If this was reversed, it would have been on all the big News media's. There wouldn't been a rock that woman could hide under without being called a racist

[@calvinkibisu7213]

The fact that you initiated the break up concludes that you didn't love him

[@bitrudder3792]

@@calvinkibisu7213 - maybe yes, maybe no. I don't think I can make that determination from a comment. Some people love, while making rational decisions about whether that love is a healthy one or not. Others rush in headlong and rue the decision for a lifetime. Romance generally fades with time, so a lasting love-relationship means that love is a decision above all else. People choose (or don't choose) to maintain the "feeling" of being in love more than they realize.

[@AlphonsoFrett-xz6pi]

Because men want Respect and not a fight.

[@d-nice22]

💯 exactly 👍🏾

[@seph---]

Because Karen's aren't a thing? 🙄

[@OMERTA7337]

FACTS!!! 💯💯💯

[@krisj827]

If you think white women never want to fight...😂😂😂

[@jamieb5679]

I'm a white descent of a black male slave he had nine kids with an Irish indentured servant my 7th great grandparents. So this mixing races has been going on forever no sure why people act surprised to see black men marrying white woman.

[@Artak091]

I'm a white dude, my girlfriend is black. My ex is Middle Eastern. I've always thought it's wild how people still get obsessed with skin color these days. With my girlfriends family gatherings, I'm usually the only white person there and never once felt out of place. We need to stop focusing on irrelevant things.

[@pabloashan-deleon3088]

Middle Eastern, Is "NOT A RACE" 🤭😅😂🤣🤣

[@Checkmate0911]

Let the only white person be a white woman with a black man and you'll definitely see how racist blacks are.

[@Checkmate0911]

If what you're saying is true , which I know for sure it isn't . But if it were true explain the term. M U D. SHARK

[@MiamiMargaret]

YOUR MOTHER RAISED A FEMALE DOG❣️🚮

[@lajeca5883]

@@Checkmate0911 of course u had to come here and be racist brah. Of course ! There is a high chance the girlfriends’ family is like mine..open and welcoming

[@donnaeast4845]

I'm a 73 year old white man. I have no problem with who you choose to marry or date. My step daughter is married to a Mexican. Has 4 kids and 1 is half black and 2 are half Mexican and 1 is half Salvadoran. And I love them with all my heart. So who you choose to marry. Just make sure you love them. And they love you.

[@hollydayrobert]

You better marry who God shows you to marry. Not going to work out if you don’t. 😂

[@GrammyPammy961]

I have a beautiful black daughter in law. Her family and mine are one FAMILY. We share a beautiful granddaughter. PERIOD!

[@JayJuthamart]

Awesome may God bless your whole family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@cori7209]

I love your name! My mom is Grammy Pammy to my kids too!

[@GrammyPammy961]

@@cori7209 that so sweet. I have 5 beautiful granddaughters

[@GrammyPammy961]

@@JayJuthamart thank you!!

[@Cindybin46user-nu4hg2dx6u]

But can't you see that we shouldn't have mixed race marriages because this leads to biological wh ite erasure, we speak up against this all the time in the White wellbeing sphere.

[@PineappaPres14]

Just like how a lot of us white men are marrying hispanic women myself included family values definitely plays a big part in it

[@OT_concerned_citizen]

Everyone boning Hispanic women. They're easy and get sprung fast

[@deepdragon2]

and/or Asian ones...

[@user-qe1hy9lt5s]

A white man dating a hispanic woman, lmaoo. Go read a book, so what if you date a white German Argentine pale blonde green eyed Latina? Are you a not a white man dating a white woman. Lol hispanic isn't a race dude, get an education

[@She.belongs.to.the.streets...]

Tatum why did you lie..? I'm a 56 year old black man who dated white women. I've brought them to my parents home to meet my family and there was no problems. Question..? At 56 year old, we're was I when all this racist and racism was going on..? 🤔

[@Nothingtoseeherefolks16]

@@She.belongs.to.the.streets...you’re surprised about Tatum lying that’s what he specializes in you must be new to the program. I watch Tatum because for me personally it’s entertaining I want to hear more outrageous things he’ll say with no conviction. I’ll give him that he’s entertaining so it’s a win for the both because I still watch but I get a great laugh at his nonsense.

[@skottg.walton240]

I totally disagree with this couple. Black people I KNOW don't sit around talking about white people.

[@kat7047]

Clearly you’ve never been on Tik Tok.

[@broncosparks3823]

I remember Chuck D saying, “Every brother ain’t a brother, because his color may as well be undercover”.

[@sarahadp]

Ok. Im gonna share. Lol My best friend was a boy named (ironically) Will smith. Lol. All thru elementary school we had teachers separating us for cutting up in class. We walked home together, ate lunch together, and played at recess together. He lived down the street so we played ninja turtles after school (early 90s). We spent our summers together, riding bikes, exploring the woods and creeks by our houses. He had sisters and so id stay the night and sleep in their room. He was the funniest, nicest, and coolest person i knew. I loved my best friend,Will. In 6th grade we went to a new school. Middle school. We didnt have the same schedule and had no classes together. It was aweful. I saw him in the hall and i ran up to him. He was with a group of black guys. I said "Will! Hey! Hows your day gone? Its been so weird here. Im so glad i finally saw you!!!!" His friends started laughing and said "you know this white girl?" He responded "She lives on my street" Then they acted like i wasnt there and i walked away.... I felt so stupid and that was the first time in my life that i realized white people and black people weren't the "same." It broke my heart and we never hung out again. Ever since that day i understood there was a "difference." Despite what people have you believe, my parents and white peers didnt teach me to see color. My black best friend did. Ge showed me color that day and made us different. Not some white racist. To this day (im 41) it breaks my heart to remember this. Racism doesnt only come frome white people. As a white girl from kansas city kansas, i promise you, i only ever saw Racism towards white people. They were punked in the hallways of school. They were beat up. They got verbally as well as physically assaulted. Nobody ever talks about that tho. Maybe someday someone will call out how ruthless white kids in predominately black schools are treated.

[@1dutchess68]

that is sad.

[@samanthaorologio6866]

All of this is utterly heartbreaking.

[@karenk2409]

People! Teachers separated them FOR CUTTING UP IN CLASS, not because they were black and white

[@jennSalvate]

I agree 100% In elementary the early 80's, In middle school, I was hit 2 or 3 times on top of the head by an over towering by 2ft at least black boy. Had no reason to do that to me besides being mean. Was it because I was white?

[@basi82]

I cried reading your story. I could feel your pain. I'm Black, born and raised in South Africa. Primary school was awesome. I was in a predominantly white school as the country just came out of apartheid (1994) and we were all now allowed to live in the same suburbs and attend the same schools. I had my best friends who were White, slept over, went to Black church in the township together and life was great. As soon as we went to high school, our pasts caught up with us. I had to choose a side. My friends had to choose a side. It's only now 23 years later, I have rekindled with my primary school friends and we have been hashing out what happened and our children are growing up together. But that separation and being forced to dislike someone because of their skin colour broke my heart. Still does to this day because even in my family there are people who want me not to bring my White friends around.

[@ito2876]

I’m Puerto Rican my whole culture, history, etc… is interracial.

[@dontaskdonttell_]

It’s honestly just a lot of self hate because black Americans have roughly 25% European dna on average. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@asrealasitgets7798]

Half Puerto Rican half Mexican…DNA said 53% European, 36% “Brown” meaning Arawak and Aztec and etc. indigenous people, 11% African descent. I got family from Loíza, Puerto Rico who look Blacker than Black people 🤣😂

[@kayp4601]

I am Puerto Rican as well. I am mostly white/Spanish from Spain with a little bit Irish as well. I am also African and Taino Indian. Also, according to Ancestry DNA I am 3 percent Chinese.

[@aharanjunglizmyahawahandya7566]

So You take honor in Your ancestors being nearly wiped out,& Women raped? That's how You got that Spanish name,& Spaniard DNA in Your blood

[@princetigerbeatz9316]

@@dontaskdonttell_ Tatum is a decent being,but I don’t like that he’s married to a white woman.

[@lws08141]

Who cares. It's just skin color. We all bleed the same and we are all brothers and sisters. One God.

[@nduso]

I'm a Marine Corp brat - (Cali born/ 64yrs)we were raised with everyone mixed together - in family we have several mixed marriages - and its never been a big deal. I went to a 'Black" church when I was first saved(2000) - they were super welcoming and it was great - It blows my mind that racism is so much in our face Still! The division is caused by our media - you do know divided we Fall! I do enjoy your content :) Keep it real !!

[@lynnnash1175]

I’m a white woman and was raised in the mid west and was around black people growing up. I never thought twice about race whatsoever we all randomly were at each others house ate lunch, hung out, everybody knew who was who, parents watched out for everybody else’s kids and we respected everybody’s Parents. I raised my kids the same way. I always told my son and daughter, I do NOT care who you fall in love with or the color of their skin. The ONLY this is, they better NOT do, is ever lay hands on you, disrespect you, cheat on you because then they WILL have to answer to your MOTHER and it will NOT be pretty, and I warned every single person they BOTH went out with☺️

[@NrthshorGrl]

I’m a child of the 70’s. Dr. King was and IS the 1st AND LAST word on how to consider race. It’s your content, merit and character that matters not the wrapping God gave us.

[@miltonelliott8506]

He tried that and got him you know what happened to him😢

[@scarasara]

​@miltonelliott8506 it happened because people are ignorant not because he was wrong though he was very brave and courageous

[@user-ot7jx8ds6x]

USA don't merit Anything righteous. USA won't humble their self and apologize to the group of rape and unalive for this USA. Ijs

[@cardboardcapeii4286]

He was a communist who hated white people. You’re a leftist.

[@CSF77733]

Exactly 💯

[@adanpachecorodriguez1069]

As a Mexican born person and raised in the U.S I was never EVER discriminated by whites or blacks or any race. But my Mexican people were racist specially against blacks. Why? I dont know. Its weird, I experienced hatred towards our own. I know there may be racist people but I never experienced, or seen it.

[@donnaroberts4513]

This is nothing new. Most Blacks know that we are hated by the Hispanics. We are more appreciated with the White than with the Hispanics. But the Hispanics are subtle with it. The Dominican Republics are the worse.

[@RichardJames101]

Racism is taught behavior brother. It's apparent you were raised right.

[@angelahendrix107]

I am a black woman married 31 years to a white man. We are still happily married. We are Christians. ❤I have nothing against black men. We just fail in love in our 20's. We know many black women that are married to white men because they have direction in life.

[@williejones7878]

Do u get lashings when speaking out of line 🐒

[@kdbarbour1]

The danger in telling any group of people that “they can’t be racist” is, eventually they believe it

[@LN-Lifer]

And they become it

[@miltonelliott8506]

Black people can't be racist

[@jordantrusel2239]

2023 still unaware of the definition of racism.

[@papazjose1274]

Correct, and it happened to the European Nazi Zionists masquerading as Jews occupying Palestine, and calling themselves God's chosen children while carrying the genocides of the Palestinians = Indigenous people of the land of Jesus...

[@kdbarbour1]

@@jordantrusel2239 they changed the definition to fit a narrative. There is a systematic and racism on a personal level

[@jonathansims9406]

When I started dating white women, most of the backlash I get came from Black females, saying that I must hate myself or I'm a race traitor. Those same women who said those things are still single while am going on 16 yrs of marriage with my White wife. The irony is wonderful!

[@scarasara]

All that matters is that you and your wife are happy. Eff what anyone else says.

[@bitrudder3792]

Decades of really bad welfare policies have short changed poor communities when it comes to stable men with good fathers in their lives. (Disproportionately affecting black communities, but not just isolated to them). And this has bred a series of baby mamas as well, women who probably also did not have a strong father/husband figure while growing up. I believe that many of these disagreeable black women are perceiving a shortage of good men, and therefore they don't like it when Black men "defect" to white women. I see it as an understandable, yet unhealthy, mindset.

[@aquarius-woman5364]

@@bitrudder3792 He's lying no black woman cares anymore. I think black men are obsessed wanting black women care

[@HollyG95]

I know a lot of single black woken and when I ask them why don’t they date outside their race they say no. So I think even deeper than irony is the fact that while some black men have no problem dating anyone a lot of black women have a problem with dating outside their race. Doesn’t make it only ironic but also shows their loyalty to their own race as well. I don’t have a problem with who anyone dates but I do give slightly more credit for someone who does it inside the community like most cultures do. To each it’s own but to say the irony is wonderful when they are more loyal than you is low key wild tho. Especially with the state of black community.

[@jonathansims9406]

@@HollyG95 What I mean by the irony is wonderful means that I'm going on 16 yrs. + of marriage while those same women are still single to this day. No one is wifing them up Black or any other race of men. It's sad I had to break it down Barney style for you to understand (SMH).

[@channahrose]

I went to a primarily black church (was invited). I loved it there. The worship was so different then I experienced before. I ended up teaching sunday school to the children. Great experience in my life.

[@PBStudiosMediaGroup]

One of the few replies here to not crap on black churches.

[@nanchanger]

Ummm, "teacher"? It's than*

[@mjsteward5508]

I'm glad to see more interracial relationships and marriages in our today's society because I'm so tired of this hate division amongst blacks and whites. The older i get, i started to understand more that it's good and bad people in every race group.

[@Ariela_Lionessa_F2F]

I tell my 3 black boys... Let her love the Lord Let her love herself Let her love you Idc the color, and you shouldn't either! I

[@ShellH573]

Your boys are blessed with you for their mother. 💖

[@Ariela_Lionessa_F2F]

@@ShellH573 💝 God bless you!

[@TickleMeElmo55]

This is beautiful! Thanks!

[@seeyourselfclear3518]

I love this. I teach my children date to marry, but make sure the person has a true fear of the Lord and love Him more than you. This way, you will always be treated right because your spouse fear the Lord, even when you both may not temporarily like one another lol. They've never seen their dad and I argue because we agreed to discuss disagreements in private so our children know we respect one another.

[@Ariela_Lionessa_F2F]

@@seeyourselfclear3518 exactly! Date to marry! Does your purpose align? This is beautiful!

[@kathycooper3594]

You are a beautiful couple. Race has never been an issue in my mind. Southern-born and raised.

[@foundationalstatesmen]

Maybe because theres no other different race in your home!

[@jonathanwaston3323]

Lies

[@AugustusGrant-qk5xk]

When we become adults, we mary who we want to. No one else's business.

[@SonofthewindsInc]

You married a woman because you love her and you suit each other buddy . God bless you both. Amen.

[@steveguti6452]

Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he Was Buried and that he Rose again the third day praise God praying for everyone everyday God bless you all

[@JayJuthamart]

Aman 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@charityfrazier8639]

Amen!

[@betsypenn9208]

Is from Fri night to Sunday morning 3 days?

[@PhoebeRomanov]

@@betsypenn9208"on the third day"

[@DCB938]

Not sure what your comment has to do with the video. But I guess the first amendment gives you the right to say what you want. 😊

[@athenamendenhall2651]

When it comes to love, there is no color, but when people make excuses for marrying outside of their race then that means love comes with color.

[@israelemmanuel428]

I am Spanish and my wife is Dominican and we have almost 20 years together and 2 children.. I love her family and the culture of the country.. my best friend is from Nigeria and her children are my godchildren and I love them.. and my Spanish friends from the church are all married to girls from Peru, Honduras, El Salvador, etc. my brother has a son with a Peruvian woman... the mix is ​​something incredible... greetings and God bless you dsd Barcelona Spain

[@1MillionMileRoadTrip]

I am white and my wife is white, my daughter is adopted Korean, you would not believe the remarks people would say to my wife when my daughter was a baby, lucky I never heard it, I would have hurt their feelings.

[@dusticastagna]

A black friend/coworker told me years ago when she invited me to go to her church (down south) that they refer to their services as a Hootenanny. There were people in the isles throwing up (purging the evil) and flopping around on the floor! When I asked if we should call an ambulance she laughed 😂. She was so sweet and kind. She did explain to me what was going on. She actually gave me the best advice on how to find the Lord. A handful years later I was saved, but yes, there’s a huge difference between how we celebrate and partake in our religious faith.

[@arogers-zh3nl]

I don't have a problem with organically emergent interracial relationships. The problem is when folks seek out a race cuz they're better and exclude another race deliberately ..on a job hire, this is racism

[@lisamahoney6332]

My family is white, but I grew up in Tampa which is extremely diverse with many races and colors all together and raised to believe in one God worshiped in many ways and to treat others the way you want to be treated. I moved to NC as an adult and tease my mother that it was to spread my upbringing here because things can be very different. But I raised my kids the way I was raised and my daughter has been dating a good Christian biracial boy from DC for years now. His white mother leans into the black culture and they attend a small black church. There are few white faces, but my daughter thrives there, and I have been specially invited many times. It is a joyful place to be and I always feel welcome. It probably helps that my daughter and I both have large, friendly personalities and grew up in churches with full band praise music. :) But I know that his family and that community would be there for my kid in a heartbeat. And I believe that when you truly respect people, and are not just putting on because you are supposed to, people feel it.

[@bjjonez6711]

Tatum good video hit on key points I thought it was intriguing I’ve been through these same issues bro. But the struggle is real

[@joyjulian433]

I remember a high school white friend marrying a black man and it was a controversial topic at the dinner table. Her parents rejected her as well as her best friend. But I’m proud to say that the majority of her high school friends showed up to her wedding to support her. I met the her fiancé prior to knowing the engagement and he was a great guy. This was back in the late 1970’s.

[@KaareneRNHealthLifeCoach]

I dated a black guy in high school for 2 years… and the black gals hated me…. I just ignored it but it is so true.

[@aquarius-woman5364]

You white women are so insufferable that's why you're called Karen's. No one is jelous of you becoming the face of single motherhood and sleeping with everyone on colleagues and high school

[@jason-hy8ci]

The way I look at is there's So much Misery and Pain in the World that if you can find somebody that cares about you and brings you Joy........ YOU'RE LUCKY.

[@KittyKat-vb1nd]

America can't get out of its own way with racial obsession

[@Mary.andersen19]

Been dating a black guy for 4 years now. My parents LOVE HIM like he's their own son and his family loves my family. I don't get what the big deal is honestly. Back when blacks were treated like they're "less than", I understand (actually I don't even understand racism in general), but NOWADAYS? I REALLY don't understand it. I also don't understand how black people telling other black people NOT to date WHITE people is somehow " socially acceptable", but if a WHITE person told other WHITE PEOPLE, NOT TO DATE BLACK PEOPLE, that would automatically be considered RACIST and the white person would be labeled as racist for the rest of their life. Hypocrisy at its finest.

[@reginacameron3011]

you are dead on I want folks to be happy no matter who they date or marry

[@thelastdrive-inscreen2393]

We dont want you back.

[@Mary.andersen19]

@@reginacameron3011 racism is the DUMBEST thing ever. I don’t understand how anyone can have SO MUCH HATE in their hearts (especially because of something that NO ONE can control). Never have and never will. My dad grew up in the south during the time of segregation and says he still has flashbacks of seeing “white only” water fountains.

[@Mary.andersen19]

@@reginacameron3011I don’t understand racism (like AT ALL). How could someone be SO HATEFUL towards another human being (especially because of a trait as UNCONTROLLABLE as race)? My dad grew up in the south in the segregation era and he told me that he still has flashbacks of seeing the “white only” water fountains in school.

[@reginacameron3011]

@@Mary.andersen19 yeah I’m from North Carolina. Race today makes money. Just look all these race lawsuit. I get called names bc I have non black friends.

[@cdrone4066]

I’m 72 and as a kid I had black friends that came to my house, I went to their house on occasion because both their parents worked and they wouldn’t allow friends over unless their parents were home. Same with my white friends. No issues with race.I’m sick of this discussion.

[@mauriblueball7318]

You guys make too much sense!!!! Blessings to the husband and wife!

[@IKnowThatMyRedeemerLiveth]

I love how these 2 interact, you can feel the mutual respect and love between them

[@DrMantisToboggan2005]

Hey Tatum. This episode hit home. I’m a Native American/White and I’ve dated blacks, whites, Mexicans and Asians. The most racism I received was from Black and Mexican girls. Those families would GRILL me and make me super uncomfortable. They made it about race which really surprised me. Media would like you to think white families are protecting their children from other races, the reality is the exact opposite. It’s all about parents and how your being raised sadly. I assume these girls parents didn’t want them with a white boy for some reason.

[@ELMuurs]

Lololol horseshit

[@MusicaTexas]

I'm Gen X and we didn't even bother with these conversations back then because we had media that was showing us positive interracial interactions. TV, movies, and the like were showing better things.

[@bitrudder3792]

That's probably one of the few positive things that has come out of television/media. I like to give credit where credit is due.

[@ejr523]

GenX here, too, I'm still puzzled as to how this all came about. Growing up in the 70s, it was not just the TV shows but its what we experienced in schools and our neighborhoods too. We did not have a division of races. I agree tv was so different back then, social media is playing a huge role in the way people think these days.

[@MusicaTexas]

I am very proud to be a Gen X kid, even though I am the tail end of the generation. The 80s was my childhood and the 90s my youth and these issues were not shoved down our throats until we hit adulthood and then suddenly there was the media mind control telling us it was there all the time. We lived it, we know it's a lie. Time for Gen X to speak up and let the world know the truth, maybe in the process we can salvage some of the things we let slip for the next-generations.

[@dcg590]

Gen-x does not care about color at all. We played with everyone and were and are friends with anyone. Never ever discussed color because it does NOT MATTER.

[@kimberlybrown5348]

Exactly

[@winstonjunior]

I love this conversation. You guys are an awesome couple. My ancestry is from an autochthonous people of the Balkans in south-east Europe. I don't care about color or religion. All I care about is my language, my music, my culture, my history and the continuation of that. We have been through wars, subjugation, struggle for thousands of years and have survived. That is what is important to me and my family. But I get along and respect anyone who shows the same respect to me.

[@01Lenda]

Long as the person makes YOU happy, treats you well, what difference does race gotta do with anything?!

[@lout3921]

I'm Hispanic and I remember when I was a teenager. I dated a white girl and my parents were fine about it, but my best friend's parents were questioning me why I was dating a white person. I was a little disappointed by the their reaction being that I had a lot of respect for them.

[@bitrudder3792]

interesting. I didn't realize it at the time, but my very best little buddy as a child was part Filipino, and I crushed on him a bit, before I even knew what that meant. I later ended up happily married to a Mexican, but to my knowledge no one in his family cared that I was a non-Hispanic American. that was 38 years ago. I think they would've said something by now, lol, If they were bothered by it.

[@victorialinder3086]

Honestly expected alot more from a Tatum podcast. Talking about the woes of interracial dating in today's society are dry talking points in entertainment today...talking points from the past. Talking about the positive aspects of interracial dating, creative fuuny/sarcastic ways to overcome road blocks in interracial dating with examples...Tips to know how an interracial relationship is right for you! This would have been more engaging, thought provoking, and created more Talking points to discuss in the comments section. Tatum you are probably projecting!😂 People need to realize and start articulating that the black women and men that are conducting themselves this way toward Interracial couples, are more than likely the caliber of person no one else wants....It's the rot that exist in every community; Unfortunately, certain communities contain more rot than others.

[@Sara-fv4mt]

This would explain why bm and ww have the highest divorce and breakup rates in IR relationships. It is based on negativity not positivity.

[@janicew6222]

There is truly only one race of humans with different skin, hair and eye colors and I pray we will all come to realize this and appreciate each other as unique beings. Blessings on you both.

[@bobbysandycam9677]

Skin color is a physical attribute just as blue eyes, brown eyes, short stature, tall stature. It does not dictate a person’s character. It does not make one person better than another. Looks should never be a judgement of a person. If you were blind you would only judge a person by the way they make you feel and the way they live and treat others.

[@machellepate5786]

My church in TN they speak in tongues, believe in healing, yell out, do deliverance. There is black and white. Love my church

[@user-cf1ul6nm2d]

Such a sweet woman, who cares what color she is, she is clearly a kind person and Brandon often talks about how loyal and supportive she is. I do understand the pressure and judgement Brandon could feel in certain situations.

[@iffymay]

I grew up in a predominantly white neighborhood. My black parents were (and still are) married. My husband is white(Italian), and his parents are still married. When I looked for a husband, I wanted someone who had similar values. The few black men that I dated came from broken homes and didn't see the value in marriage. When I dated outside of my race, I saw those men had positive thoughts about marriage, family, and relationships. I couldn't relate to the 'culture'. When I went to college, black girls made fun of me because "I talked like a white girl." No white person has ever made fun of the way I speak. Black people can for sure be racist, and often, it's to other blacks.

[@williejones7878]

Does he have to raise your kids from the other baby daddies or spend his life savings on your weave? Poor guy married a 🐒

[@terrysperman304]

When I was the only white dude at a block party, everyone was extremely nice. I got three plates of wings, we were smokin' and drinkin' jammin' and playing basketball. Other than people calling me "white boy" it was great. I understood that most of them didn't know my name, so I didn't let it bother me when they called me "white boy." Honestly, I only ever get into fights with other white dudes, mainly redheads, and they always start it, LoL.

[@donnaroberts4513]

That is why we cannot judge a whole race when someone acts a fool or streotype.

[@RoRo07770]

It’s probably the same reason I married a white man. I dated lots of men of different colors, and never thought I’d end up with a white guy… Well, 21 years, two children and a grandchild later, we’re still married, and the happiest we’ve ever been! Has it always been easy, absolutely not. Thanks to the grace of God, we’ve made it through some pretty tough times. I wish more people would take marriage seriously because so many people throw in the towel at the slightest bit of problems within their marriage. My husband’s best friend is black and when my husband first brought him to his house, my husband’s father said not to trust black men. Apparently his dad had a bad run-in with black men in the army, so he was pretty racist…the more my husband brought his friend around, the more his dad liked him. Fast-forward to me- his dad ended up absolutely loving me, and was so proud of my husband and I before he passed of cancer. My husband bringing me home opened the door for his little sister. She ended up with a black man as well, and had a child with a black man and my father-in-law absolutely loved him. I just don’t understand racism. There is bad people in every color. A couple of bad experiences shouldn’t be a label on EVERYONE of that color.

[@juliannajones6016]

This was very informative. Thanks!

[@stephzinsmeister662]

Been following you for awhile “as a white woman” and have loved your information you put out. But I have to say I’m deeply impressed and honored to hear the two of you speak your humble truths. Thank you

[@2008LadyLaura]

All woman are beautiful in their own way. I’m Dominican and I have white friends and my white friends are beautiful and my Spanish and black friends too. There’s beauty and value in all races. If you love and respect each other than who cares what other people think. Your wife is so classy. I wish you many blessings and happiness to you and your family.

[@leonietaylor7054]

My sister in laws church is so loud we need earphones. They yell shout jump dance,clap run around dance.😂😂😂😂😂

[@benaiahwright937]

I agree... women are beauty

[@Niki-mo1wf]

I really enjoyed this video. My husband and I and our daughter went to an all black church for 5 years. We were the only salt in the shaker. We loved it! ❤ it's different than a white church. I was a substitute teacher for 10yrs and I had one of my students tell my years later he said he remembered the day he was at church closer up front and his he turned around and saw us sitting a couple pews back on the other side.... he told me and we laughed!!😂... He told me he looked at us and said to himself, "what are they doing here?....and then y'all never left". It was really funny!😂 My husband and I taught for 3yrs. at church. We grew into close relationships with some of the kids at the school I taught at(K-12th) and then at church on Sunday. What a Blessed time of our lives.

[@kellyallday365]

This was the best, you and your wife are such a gorgeous couple. Thank you for doing this.

[@cherylliz99]

Officer Tatum please regard and consider the treatment we as Blacks have received over the years: lynchings, Karen’s. It breaks my heart that even now this display of hatred is rampant.

[@terike9738]

Did every white person do that to black people? And is there no condemnation for all the black people killing other black people? Should every Irish person hate every Muslim because the Muslim pirates enslaved millions of Irish?

[@graceclark3481]

So, that gives blacks the excuse to be racist???

[@nanchanger]

Karen = Anyone who knows who commits the majority of violent street crime

[@deenabeauchamp5290]

Wow you seem to know alot of history for someone who is t a fan . Why do you keep watching

[@deenabeauchamp5290]

@@smirf235 his short clips come up on my feed. They seem interesting. This is the first whole segment I’ve come across. I figured I would listen , always good to get various perspectives. I’m not familiar with his content yet.

[@keithmadison6085]

As a black man some of these topics are a waste of time

[@iroastpeoplenotmeat8671]

maybe cause you are racist

[@face2faceboy]

As a al i agree

[@abbyevans2741]

I agree . As a Hispanic Puerto Rican I feel these topics are a waste of time .

[@tracydysrfggnvbcghvgrdtfac9925]

I’m at a total loss as to why your on here justifying why you dated and married a white woman….and at the same time talking bad about your family and friends, how your family/friends didn’t want you to bring them home.. when Collin K talked about his experience growing up you had a total meltdown and said really nasty things about his real parents and how he should be more appreciative of his adoptive parents. Back to you on here justifying why you like white women ( culture) we can go back to when you said the turning point guy was right to say/ think about when he’s on a plane that has a black pilot if they are qualified to be a pilot or did they get the job because of the color of their skin… Now my question to you is did your wife get that title with you because of her skin color? Back to you guys on here justifying your relationship … WHHHYYY… If you love her/him there’s never I mean never a reason to prove /convince it to the world … so why are you doing this to get you & her more followers? Are you doing this to convince yourselves that you actually love one another? Are you doing this for therapy? P.S. THE REASON YOUR GIVING IS STUPID BY THE …

[@judysadowsky2186]

Hi Officer Tatum and Mrs. Tatum, you are a beautiful couple. I am a brown woman, not black, married to a white man and have three white children. Never had a problem, but people always asked "are those your kids, I politely said yes." Enjoy your video.

[@oneperson5760]

Im white, with a white hisband and 3 white sons. One has black hair, one has blonde hair and one has red hair. A waitress once asked my hisband if all 3 of our kids are his (they are) while i was sitting right there. Some people are rude and shameless.

[@tabbylivvy]

Baby, your babies are BROWN/BLACK. #Dominate

[@khodges2]

He did touch on something that makes sense here. It is what you are exposed to. You don’t know ladies until you’ve seen a wide variety of them. College is a great place to start understanding a wide array of people.

[@delvarisreginald5781]

I really enjoyed this show, officer Tatum. Keep up the good work, man.

[@cbenoit665]

My brother married a black women. We all accepted her, without question, we liked her that was all that mattered. She is a good person - but I wonder how she puts up him-they have been married for 16 years.

[@MayaKanaKa]

Interesting topic! I m a black woman and I went to a black church once. I also had a culture shock 😂 There were like 2-3 people from other races and the shouting made me uncomfortable! I was like why do they have to yell like if God is not listening 😂😂 Luckily I found a mixed church and my family likes it…..

[@oneperson5760]

I like chirch to be more quiet and reverent. If i wanted a rock concert, I’d find one.

[@harleyharris7346]

Has nothing to do with the subject. You're just waffling! Disrespecting your own people because they enjoy God how they wish. Bet you ancestors are spinning in their graves fr. Martin and Malcolm literally died for nothing.

[@harleyharris7346]

@@oneperson5760 Nobody asked! Just because you like something that means that everyone should appease your dryness. In the Bible does God not Tell you to rejoice in his name. Does he not tell you to dance and sing. You sound like you praising the de*il with your darkness. Better you do stay away, about rock concert 😩

[@allenbrady8083]

How she almost unconsciously says “Baby” ❤ Love it!

[@vasilisconstantinides7950]

This is a man who recognised toxic patterns in his community and did something about it. Not many people of any race do that. You have my respect

[@samanthaj455]

I am a white woman who dated and got pregnant by a Cambodian man at the age of 16. Growing up I heard by many in my family that you do not date outside of your race. Well I did and I got pregnant. Many of my family members were disappointed. I had my daughter and she was a complete blessing and my choice led to many of my family members changing their minds on being with someone outside of your own race. I feel I contributed to change the minds of my family and how they felt about being with someone of a different race. Yes I was 16 when I had my daughter but she was and is the best choice that I have ever made in my life!

[@indawhip9410]

It’s important to have your preferences or types but not to down a race especially the one who created you to justify a choice or defending reasoning when you are entitled to have a type. That’s where I draw the line

[@breshuncaesar7446]

All the black girls date all the players on the football team....come on now , stop that's nonsense. Please stop talking for ALL black people are the exact same because we are not. What black woman has the time to be so bothered by seeing a white woman? Please stop saying ALL black people are the same.

[@tbunny86]

I’m going to be as real as can be. N you might not agree but its ok, Im still rocking with you. Your wife is being disingenuous when she is talking as though her family and friends don’t see race. If you’re in a whyte circle 9 times out of 10 something controversial comes up about race, whyte ppl will have negative comments to say about blk ppl. Whyte men would make corny racial jokes and whyte women have their passive aggression. She’s trying to make it seem like her small town is color blind. That sounds so fake to me and everything she said after that i honestly do not believe she was being her authentic self. Tatum was being real but he’s definitely projecting. Blk ppl will make a comment in our head and move on. But whyte areas will for sure stare that blk man down and speak hate. It’s funny how Tatum talked down on his community but his wife said zilch about her community. We just gotta call a spade a spade and stop making it seem like blk ppl are the only ones who have a problem with interracial dating especially when the whyte man made laws against it. It’s apart of American culture. Thank you and goodnight.

[@fefeanng7]

Thank you 💯

[@D0PE-MAN-24-7-Gaming]

Just because you think that doesn’t make it true sweetheart.. I grew up in and still live in a hood that is full of black white and Puerto Rican and Mexican and we don’t see race out here we not brainwashed into hating a color it’s a class thing it’s a class struggle.. ppl who think they better (any color) may look down on you … and also nobody chose what color God made us and we all have different characters…engulf your mind with more education instead of what your being spoon fed.. thank you

[@nynelleven2278]

A black man with the last name Tatum, derived from the English (White) Surname Tatham, looks at his white wife and tells her she took his black last name (she agrees lol)🤯 most of his statements relating to black/white are from within this same deluded sphere of conquered reality.. I have no problem with inter marriage , my wife is Asian, I’m black but I found discomfort with my pure Asian wife giving up her traditional family name for my (misfortunate) Irish last name, needless to say I’m not Irish.. The Tatums prop up these surface level hate comments, so that he can continue to bask in the air of his white proximity and avoid more pertinent topics of inter marriage like the one I’ve layed out.. his wife clearly isnt going to tell him Tatum is a WHITE name , so I had to type this comment … YOU’RE WELCOME BROTHER

[@professorgoat1099]

Dated many black girls through my youth..every relationship ended the second their fathers and/or brothers found out I was white.. As much as my families hated "hood" culture to the point where it seemed they were racist, the second anyone dated a non-white person, my family had always considered them an immidiate part of the family and became defensive af towards anyone who dared comment about that relationship.. As an adult, i realize my families never cared about skin color.. but they sure were prejudice towards social class (trailer trash, hood, thug, and of course never bring home a catholic...).

[@sls1776]

This conversation was a breath of fresh air!

[@KarenLee23]

I love watching your videos!.. I’m so glad I stumbled upon you a couple years ago.. True love doesn’t have a color or discriminate. Your wife is lovely 😊

[@heathermetz6576]

Thank you OFC Tatum and Mrs. Tatum. This is a topic near and dear to me because I like black men and have dated two. The most recent black man I dated, is now engaged to a very successful black surgeon and both of their families are happy. Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean you give up. God will put the right man in my life. Thank you for this discussion.

[@Dwbulldog04]

My mom is in her 70s so she grew up in a different time and prefers me as a black man to marry black. I told her that honestly I had more positive experiences with women from other races. With black women I always felt I was the man they settled with after picking scumbags. With other women I felt more valued as if I am a prize and it’s a better feeling. I am open to dating any race of woman but I know what type of experiences i had with women. I rather go where i am celebrated not just tolerated

[@themrs.547]

100 % across the board! Men need to be appreciated and loved for being MEN.

[@bigal1337]

Finally got to see your “ better half!” That’s why you are so good, you have a good woman with you! Great video!

[@Abbygirl918]

i’m Hispanic and my husband is black. when we got transferred to San Diego from the military, my husband and I would go shopping and black women would throw shade at me all the time and tell me; you couldn’t find a white man to marry you had to marry our black men and my husband would respond, it’s women like you that I didn’t marry a black woman and I never will. my husband’s mother offered me money to get away from her son. we ended up having two incredibly handsome son’s. My son asked me one day. If my Nana hates you: what part of me does she hate? that broke my heart.

[@ricardotobi4156]

I love how you share real feelings and have real convos. God Bless You both. It is my opinion that the most beautiful people I've ever seen are mixed race. All about the love. Also, just want to say that I Know this because I'm a mixed race too, just not sure, exactly. LOL

[@lindaferguson7265]

We are all mixed race and we are all members of the human race. That's the only race I identify with.

[@dawsondetrana5496]

My buddy married a black chick and he almost instantly regretted it

[@Elizathomas1234]

I need to hear the story I'm a conservative black woman so I can guess how she acted but I'm invested😅.

[@Runnit12]

@@Elizathomas1234Conservative black women are very rare. Salute to you

[@Elizathomas1234]

@@Runnit12 we are :) Thank you 😊 🙏 ❤️

[@Runnit12]

@@Elizathomas1234 Ik it’s tough bc the majority makes y’all look so bad but I always try to tell people that not all black women think the same way.

[@Elizathomas1234]

@Runnit12 Thank you 😊 🙏 💓 yes it's part of the reason why I wanted to bleach my skin and get a nose job I truly hate being black today Hate it!!

[@kmiranda478]

Loved hearing from your wife! She’s seems like such a sweetheart.

[@darrylniehoff2707]

I am amazed how compatible you two seem to be .