Why Black Women Feel Dating Black Men Is 'Dating Down'!"

In this episode, the #DailyRapUpCrew dives deep into the concept of "dating down." Our guest share personal stories and insights on what it means to settle in a relationship and the importance of aligning with partners who share their values and ambitions. Topics include avoiding relationships with those still living a street life, the significance of moral and value alignment, and the challenges faced by successful women in the dating world.
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[@tharealisrael1447]

They act like they dating them is paradise it’s equally dangerous,stressful,and tiring at least men admit we’re not perfect

[@ListwaLanyap1760]

Women admit they're not perfect?

[@ListwaLanyap1760]

Women admit they're not perfect?

[@Heavon1999]

True sht

[@tharealisrael1447]

@@ListwaLanyap1760 they love it when a black woman dates or married a white male but it’s WW5 if blackmen take a picture next to a white woman and you know it

[@RoblEsquire]

I could not have said it any better!!!!

[@DonyoSanghelei30]

“We’re nurturers, we’re healers…but I’m not healing you!”🥴😂 That means, brothers, when you’re going through something these types of women aren’t going to help you. Stay far far away.

[@RoblEsquire]

This!!!

[@AffectionateCardGame-kx1lk]

Black women are not healers or nurturers. Ion kno why they going around telling this boldface lie 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@cr-rp7gh]

None of these females are over a 4. Let's be real.

[@KenyanFleming91]

Seriously

[@j.baldwin3012]

I bet most of them have college degrees and/or businesses. None of that makes you more physically attractive. Atlanta is flooded with barely average looking, college educated boss babes who think their accomplishments make them better looking.

[@elaynaaubreygonzo3744]

Facts got them handsome squidward jaw lines an lookin old old

[@truebengalsfan]

@@elaynaaubreygonzo3744come on all of them are beautiful queens lol

[@AffectionateCardGame-kx1lk]

Big facts 💯

[@robertbrooks4413]

The first BW who claim to 'never dating a Drug Dealer'😁😁😁. Funny, but nobody mentioned the financial part!

[@DonyoSanghelei30]

This only affirms their record dating record of the type of men they’ve gave themselves to or have only associated with and the type of men they have only known in their lifetime. Then criticize men for whatever situation only to show that the only men they know are criminals😂😂😂This is why black women are the least desired because of lack of community accountability, lack of solid men in their lives and lack choosing better when they know better.

[@betablaahkn3454]

Wait - she doesn't date drug dealers anymore let that sink in

[@joshuajackson7050]

Dating has become like an auction no morals no character or treating them right just the highest bidder wins.

[@tayloralfaro3239]

Pretty spot on

[@LindseyDean-hp7qg]

Says the men that like to rate actual human beings with stupid numbers!

[@j.baldwin3012]

Where is this "everybody has trauma" stuff coming from? No, if everybody had trauma, then trauma would be normalized and people wouldn't need therapy to deal with it. Outside of dealing with the death of a loved one, all other forms of trauma are highly abnormal for most people.

[@mrmoe110]

Mannnn they call everything “trauma” nowadays lol. If a kid got picked on for his clothes in school that’s “trauma.” When I was growing up that was just another day of the week. You toughen up and get a thick skin

[@kentrellhose9714]

Victim mindset. Everyone wants a struggle story and to be special.

[@TeeDaHotboi]

BW are the only women who considers themselves to be dating down? You never hear other cultures speak of this. They want you to accept everything with them but want BM to come healed and successful

[@LindseyDean-hp7qg]

Because other cultures actually UPLIFT their women! DO You hear other races of men proudly talking about how their women is the bottom of the barrel all the time and that they prefer other races? Plus most of these bandits can't build s**t, material or spiritual.

[@_anansi2146]

Men expect women to heal them. How? most men dont even feel comfortable in being emotionally vulnerable to women without it being weaponise.where is this expectation of healing.

[@betablaahkn3454]

We have to start translating the woman speak - some Black women date bums intentially to maintain control of a relationship and to also blame the bum when things go left.

[@jamesburton8350]

The lies , we dont expect them to heal anything , they dont understand we want the same grace they are given for the mistakes they have made . They confused that with wanting to be healed , they say anything to down play us as black men and to up left they selves, they really think they are so much better then us ,because they got degrees.

[@jasonwolfe3252]

And why is she talking about dating drug dealers? I've heard some bw admit to only liking a certain type of bm. The stereotypical street dude or the top 5% dude. The average every day brother with his ish together but who may not have the swag factor is invisible to them. But of course when they date out they don't mind being with that basic Brad. The black wife effect proved that.

[@jamesburton8350]

@jasonwolfe3252 bro everything you said was facts. But they don't listen to us anyways, and the things about the basic ass white dudes is a fact. All he had to do is dress like us and get a hair cut and they okay with that, they don't have to have no swag, and then they say stuff like we'll he pays all the bills or he knows how to treat a woman and they don't do anything definitely.

[@UzitheSaint]

My thing is how is this even true like that when there is a constant complaint from them about men not showing emotions or opening up?😂😂

[@Aguni_xoxo]

Even if you get degrees they will still find a way to downplay it . You just shouldn't bother with blk women bruh

[@stevelumumbashabazzz5087]

@@jasonwolfe3252 I’ve always said the average black man is not the same as the average white guy. A black man who is mechanic is unattractive to most blk women but a white man with the same job is attractive.

[@trellclemons8311]

These dudes do not push back enough on these women they let them say anything and get away with it

[@tuff3jay]

It's content bro let the women tell on themselves

[@trellclemons8311]

@@tuff3jay lol you're right...the more they talk the more they expose themselves

[@clubmbrsonlytv]

How we expect them to heal us when they constantly complain about us not opening up and being vulnerable 😂 just talking to be talking

[@stevelumumbashabazzz5087]

When I see all the options I have and I see blk women talking about dating Down, I laugh 😂

[@coachkeith643]

Black men are the kings of dating down. Especially in the looks category.

[@kojoefante]

@@coachkeith643just you and your friends

[@sidneywilder2731]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it is kinda funny when I think about all the problems that comes with dating females like this 👍 good luck to whoever is dating these headaches

[@liveloveplanpray]

I won't date a drug dealer cause he hasn't bought a house or car! Wilddddd!

[@liveloveplanpray]

Also, men generally date down... women rarely do. Men's SMV goes up as they get older and a woman's goes down more quickly. Men hit their prime 30 plus. Women's prime is 18-24 says the market not what you or tom, dick, or harry says.

[@julianthegrappler]

These are the women that want us to embrace their flaws😂

[@makisbonds9198]

1:45 They don’t let Black ppl get those licenses weed dispensary, liquor etc. they want Black People to use it not sell it legally 💯

[@doubleburgerwitcheese7602]

Bible says a man's glory is his wom_an but her glory is her hair.. They only love themselves..

[@cephalonplant4087]

Why did you separate woman

[@jlg993]

ALIMONY, CHILD SUPPORT, and CUSTODY are considered "opt-out" clauses for women

[@EntertheBlackDragon]

The problem I keep hearing from these women is that they sincerely believe that they are to be "obeyed" and "listened to" by black men and that will solve every problem in our community which couldn't be further from the truth. The problem is the severe lack of respect for black men as fathers, husbands, and leaders. I as a black man do not need "help" acquiring an LLC or getting my small business together. What a man needs is a woman who will be his peace, and men who fought through hellish wars and battles can only heal through peace. If you will not be what I need you to be then we have nothing to discuss. What is missing here amongst these women, is that God has given you everything you need to provide to a man. You're thinking has convinced you otherwise. We wake up every single day to face whatever turmoil society throws at us black men and need more than any other man a peaceful, quiet, and agreeable woman to help provide us the peace we need to live in a civil society.

[@Stonecoldalston]

2:58 definitely we don’t choose who we come from but we can choose where we’re going

[@makisbonds9198]

What Man needs a Busy Woman???!!!

[@kinggandyel9339]

1:44 She oversimplified the idea of transitioning out of switching from informal weed sales to tegal market. The requirements are far to high for the majority of people.

[@keeptheklout2881]

As of lately I think the guys stopped giving pushback and just agree with everything

[@elaynaaubreygonzo3744]

Is that a dating coach that isn't married thought it was kendra G 😂😂😂

[@Stonecoldalston]

2:43 women do the same they want their man to help heal them

[@tykendrick800]

They gonna cheat with the drug dealer

[@prenticecobb5429]

Bruh you cannot pay me to date a block woman 😂😂

[@tonylittle7288]

Everyone isn’t equipped to build a business.

[@chasehlee7197]

Eli's marriage idea just makes divorce the default. You still have to go through the splitting of assets including kids. Make it harder to split rather than make it easier.

[@Stonecoldalston]

How many men really expect women to heal them most men hide what their going through from through women it’s usually women that put their traumas on the men their dating and want them to help them heal

[@marcusevans406]

I hear hate in their voices

[@poeticwisdom3]

The marriage contract that expires was in a sci-fi series Earth 2.0. I like the idea, but it will kill the biblical family model. Most men would want to leave, and most women would not, if it lasted till the contract matured.

[@xG1ZZM0x]

The hypocrisy, every woman expect everyone they get with to heal them, be emotional support. But they can don’t the same for a man.

[@Stonecoldalston]

1:44 dating a drug dealer is not dating down dating a drug dealer that’s stuck in the corner boy mentality is dating down

[@kingrambo519]

Only black women talk like this smh

[@chasehlee7197]

i can't tell you how many women i've heard that their love language is all the languages. and that doesn't mean they will take just any of them. that means they want all of them fulfilled.

[@hsand8178]

Correction: Not

[@hsand8178]

CORRECTION: DO Not

[@Trey2423]

The lady said she wants that grit, be up till 3 workin and wake up at 6. The other lady said bc they are successful doesn’t mean they don’t have time for you… grit up till 3 and at work at 6….. ok haha. They just lake to talk at this point.

[@njabulov.hadebe9102]

Bra tell me youre single without telling me youre single. These women are all walking contradictions

[@TeeDaHotboi]

Black women want the finished product. But want you to build and grow with them.

[@truthtelling1195]

If he means the finish product then you have a long way to go but don’t you also want the same thing at least someone who is cognitive recognise their wrong and is on a journey or actively making steps towards growth isn’t that something everybody should desire. But this is what we are talking about when we say that we are not allowed to have any standards because us asking for you to invest more into your mental health is now seen as an insult 😂😂

[@TeeDaHotboi]

@@truthtelling1195 no one says this ever. Women love to diagnose your mental health when it doesn’t fit their narrative or agenda. How long does it take to learn this? Unless you’re 35+ when do you get your ish 2gether? Wanting this from a person 25 & under talking about building with someone is a bit much. 2day these women want men to be financially, emotionally and mentally stable at day 1

[@truthtelling1195]

@@TeeDaHotboi I think a lot of women are reasonable when it comes to finances you guys watch too much Kevin Samuels and Kendra G and sensationalise shows. You do realise that decent person is not going on Kevin Samuels or Kendra G . Women like myself wouldn’t step foot on a platform like that so your perception and reality of women is skewed because of what you consume and your algorithm. The number one thing women ask for is emotional intelligence for you to get your mental health order before you enter a relationship. This goes for both genders.

[@truthtelling1195]

@@TeeDaHotboi if this is such an impossible task that may be relationships are not for you as I said before most women recognise that in today’s economy it’s more than likely unreasonable for the average amount to provide for the household by himself and most people according to actual factual statistics have a two income household so let’s not harbour on financial preferences because we all know at the end of the day most women compromise and most people work together. The mental health aspect is a journey you have to do alone and a lot of you are looking for your partners to be your mother your lover your mental your therapist and your nurse , and it’s impossible for a woman to stretch herself in 100 different directions, especially when she’s not being fed back. Loving a BM is so hard and almost impossible dealing with your trauma is too much from your childhood to your everyday experience walking on this earth as a man is too much, so maybe you are better off with other races who have not experienced the trauma who can handle your situation. BW also have trauma but are more willing to go to therapy and do the work however in this community the experiences of of BW are often dismissed, especially by BM. Very often a BM is the root of the trauma. We just don’t work well together , I think it’s about time we learn how to live statically and separately at least for the next 10 years. But I don’t see any of us getting back together

[@mahalavholmes893]

Who thinks that???? Really

[@jasonwolfe3252]

Most bw. They may not say it openly but they definitely say it with their actions.

[@Operator-Six]

Caribbean’s and Africans they think like this

[@tupactargaryen]

@@Operator-Six 🧢

[@CjBlk]

​@@tupactargaryen jus bc you don't want to believe it doesn't mean they don't think like that

[@_anansi2146]

@@Operator-Six what evidence do you have to support your statement

[@tonyeffik6781]

is this title not clickbait or i’m missing something? these ladies didn’t say anything of the sort & now ppl are in the comments violating

[@Stonecoldalston]

0:23 what is she talking about there’s way more people in the hood that’s not living the street life then the ones that are

[@Aguni_xoxo]

It's simply them viewing black men as less than and there selves more than, by default. It's better not to try and court women like this cause in the end the relationship wouldn't last unless you a 10x of what she views the average blk man.

[@DFJR93]

Healthy Conversation! Refreshing!

[@johneta7665]

Because the wm taught them they were better than us.

[@Heavon1999]

We dont even have the same opportunity when we both go through this same racist systematic oppression. It’s disgusting how us black men are looked down upon. But, we love and strive everyday we’ll be fine🫱🏼‍🫲🏾

[@WIXNGFRMLUVOKC]

Ong nobody worry about these single mothers 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️💯 with baby daddies they don’t even know Lol💯🤦🏾‍♂️

[@upsurgeagency3593]

..But as soon as they see a bm w/ a ww, it ain't dating down no more..its: "They taking all our good men." With bdubz: You ain't nobody till somebody loves you.

[@kamohlaubrey336]

6:18 both sides do that

[@chrisgoodworld]

How old are these successful women

[@sidneywilder2731]

They so annoying at 2 minutes in I stopped ✋ watching to come to the comments section 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@DonDon-ge5dg]

Isai 30 Woe to the rebellious children, saith the Lord, that take counsel, but not of me; and that cover with a covering, but not of my spirit, that they may add sin to sin: Fuck therapy TMH 613 COMMANDments therapeutic

[@jahkarimirza7286]

BW should xheck their stats before they look down on BM. The nerve.

[@tyroneaugustine229]

Only In Blakkk America!

[@Operator-Six]

Wrong we don’t even know if these women are African or Caribbean living in America

[@heruapocalypse2021]

Dating Them ain't no Breeze either.

[@rizgeezy40]

And this is why i dont date them

[@hsand8178]

My Brother, All BW. ARE Not The Same, And CANNOT Be C COMPARED To OTHER Races Of Women,HISTORY DOES Not Involve OTHER Races Of Women ,ThEY DO Not, NOR NEVER Will UNDERSTAND The STRUGGLES Of Bm AND Bw. Yet These OTHER Races Of Women,Are Glorify By Some Of Our Brothers. Those Bm Who UNDERSTAND This Narrative. I SALUTE You,You Are The Real Kings🤴,And Truly The CERTIFIED Men. A CERTIFIED Bm Has Love ❤ FOR The Most HIGH FIRST,LOVES HiS ANCESTORS,FAMILY AND CULTURE,And DOES No DeVIATE From It, Respects,Bw . WORKS Hard For An Honest LIVING,DESPITE BEING LOOKED DOWN BY SOCIETY. Ex. BEING Called ThUG ,And TOLD ,You Will Never AMOUNT To ANYTHING. LOVES❤ HiS Bw With All THEIR IMMPEFECTIONS. HE PROVES HIMSELF FIRST To Be STRONG BM. HE LOVES The GIRL HE MARRIES, A ND MARRIES ,The GIRL HE Loves❤. ALL PRAISES👏

[@glf9834]

I dont like this title

[@maxcelestin2446]

These women are hilarious, they want higher man but don’t realize that would be dating down for those fellows . It’s ok cause they queens lol

[@boycottactivision]

That's why we gotta leave these Wmn to date up, & find their Yt Prince Charming. Get out there way BM.

[@sidneywilder2731]

That's what they're saying without saying....but I get it,get out the way bm 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ where's brads

[@boycottactivision]

@@sidneywilder2731 Uhh... Do You🤷

[@carmelcapricorn7701]

Go 2 God 4 peace. Then go from there.

[@MexicanApachemiwok777]

It's all wahmen regardless of race tbh.

[@aaronanderson3076]

Bw so full of it SMH

[@hsand8178]

My Brother, All BW. ARE Not The Same, And CANNOT Be C COMPARED To OTHER Races Of Women,HISTORY DOES Not Involve OTHER Races Of Women ,ThEY DO Not, NOR NEVER Will UNDERSTAND The STRUGGLES Of Bm AND Bw. Yet These OTHER Races Of Women,Are Glorify By Some Of Our Brothers. Those Bm Who UNDERSTAND This Narrative. I SALUTE You,You Are The Real Kings🤴,And Truly The CERTIFIED Men. A CERTIFIED Bm Has Love ❤ FOR The Most HIGH FIRST,LOVES HiS ANCESTORS,FAMILY AND CULTURE,And DOES No DeVIATE From It, Respects,Bw . WORKS Hard For An Honest LIVING,DESPITE BEING LOOKED DOWN BY SOCIETY. Ex. BEING Called ThUG ,And TOLD ,You Will Never AMOUNT To ANYTHING. LOVES❤ HiS Bw With All THEIR IMMPEFECTIONS. HE PROVES HIMSELF FIRST To Be STRONG BM. HE LOVES The GIRL HE MARRIES, A ND MARRIES ,The GIRL HE Loves❤. ALL PRAISES👏

[@xG1ZZM0x]

The hypocrisy, every woman expect every man they get with to heal them, and be their emotional support. But they can don’t the same for a man.