Why Brett Cooper Kept Her Relationship A Secret

[@ChrisWillx]

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[@BY-vatic-s]

Still can’t deny the chemistry you two have- you need to have her introduce you to a girl - you totally missed out Chris - you should have made your move when she was still single

[@commonsensecraziness7595]

Privacy isn't something someone should have to apologize for.

[@aubreycarter7624]

Honestly, it makes me admire Brett more that she is sticking with her guns and keeping private things private, and respecting her husband's wishes! That's one heck of a green flag! And yes, when she announced her engagement, I was so freaking curious! I wanted to know what kind of guy he was, but she had said she wanted to keep that stuff private, and I resected that!

[@balancer182]

She owes it to her FAMILY and close friends perhaps. But definitely not to strangers on the Internet.

[@1981lashlarue]

Does she even owe it to them?

[@lorigthefirst]

No, she only owes herself and only whoever else she chooses to know…

[@lorigthefirst]

It is very interesting how some people assume others tell family and friends details about their private life 😂

[@SirLancelot86]

nah she owes me ,cause i wanted her😂

[@justaguy4771]

⁠@@lorigthefirstI mean it’s not unreasonable to assume that family and maybe friends would know more about their relationship than a random on the internet and in a way yea for the most part depending on what it is and how close the family is, family gets told

[@quincycamo7577]

She showed she's about as traditional as you can get. She follows him and came right out and SHOWED us that while her career is important to her, her husband, her family is the most important. I applaud how she's handled this. I wish more of her generation were this wise.

[@zenon3021]

she's an actress working for a propaganda organization (the Daily Wire)

[@erikaa.3030]

Amen!! I love how she said " He is still the head of our household" and thank she trusts him to lead their family.

[@lioraoppenheimer8965]

@@zenon3021 are there any media that aren't prop orgs?

[@Sophie-P]

I think it demonstrates she stands behind her moral convictions. If you're wanting a serious relationship (and you're somewhat famous) your privacy, your family's identity and status all come before your fans. Strangers aren't owed every detail of your life even if you're an 'influencer'. Especially if you're just dating and not yet engaged/ married. Smart move Brett. Glad you're in the married camp, may God bless your family.

[@julielopez7475]

What People need to understand is we don't own these people. You can share whatever you want. I think it's extremely wise to keep your private life private. I can't stand the way people overshare. Some things are sacred And they are so much Less sacred when shared. You also open yourself up to opinion You might not want or need. What a wise young woman woman you are.

[@lioraoppenheimer8965]

and THESE PEOPLE don't own US!

[@__G__-]

It was a smart move. A big chunk of her audience are guy's simping over her and didn't want to ruin that

[@3000MrGian]

I’m one of those guys but I’m starting to move on now 😢

[@MattPritchardOfficial]

Nothing new. I remember reading an article about the same thing happening with Christian Singer Amy Grant back in the early 1980s.

[@craigwillms61]

I could be her grandfather I'm so old, but she is attractive in multiple ways, not just her look. To be sure I can't watch much of her stuff because I just am not interested in pop culture. Still, I appreciate her attitude and she's not bad to look at.

[@sararichman6612]

😂

[@Mr.YasQueen]

@@3000MrGian Stop simping for online women brother it's pathetic. Just cut out celebrity crushes, day dreaming about them. It's a waste of time. Be in the present, go chase your goals, dreams and eventually a girl in real life. You're better than this.

[@nataliamurdaugh]

My husband and I were talking about that same topic of social media creates parasocial relationships. And it is why a lot of these influencers are so successful. In the age of loneliness people are grasping for relationships and actually begin to develop real emotionally dependency on people they’ve never met. Its highly interesting and just has terrifying. It’s why people are willing to give to go-fund-me and likewise why influencers receive death threats.

[@JamaicaZ160R1793010A]

Says a lot.

[@deanfirnatine7814]

People are going insane it seems from loneliness, girls writing me on dating sites multiple times, that I have never responded to because it was a bad fit, act as if we have a actual relationship. I am caught somewhere between sadness/empathy for them and fear for how crazy they are.

[@charliedontsurf334]

Brett didn’t owe anyone that information any more than Lauren Southern did with her divorce.

[@robertweidner2480]

Keeping it secret is good, she'd lose all those simps who think they have a chance with her.

[@er1q1]

this is the reason. simps are not unique to left or right

[@bkseitz]

Happy the two of you found each other. Best wishes

[@jondrake1977]

Because she doesn't need weirdos (though who simp for her, or those who absolutely hate her) to attack him.

[@jamesfoxsmith]

Because her relationship is none of our business. Why is this such a hard concept for people.

[@aubreycarter7624]

Right? Like, I was curious what her man was like. Like, what traits does this man have that made Brett like him? But I didn't expect her to tell us everytwore. She doesn't owe me a story! Especially since she's said in multiple videos that she was going to keep her dating and family life private! I'm glad that she's happy, and that she's found someone to commit to, and who committed to her. And I'm glad she's sticking to her word.

[@keithkarvelis82]

Exactly. She doesn't owe anyone an explanation of her personal life.

[@Meah-t7q]

❤❤❤❤

[@jasminehouston-burns1691]

There is something here clearly universally important to preserving a relationship.

[@izumijojo]

Have you seen her upload schedule 💀 bro she's so hard working, now i feel bad about myself

[@laughingvampire7555]

one of the main killers for relationships is letting people from the outside in, whether you are a private person or a public figure, so kudos Brett for protecting your relationship and well, the simps will have to grow up

[@BruceCross]

Many people claim that celebrities automatically give up their right to a personal life. They're idiots.

[@elgooges]

I don't think it's necessary to broadcast your private life 24/7.

[@clarifyingquestions]

or ever broadcast your private life

[@Meah-t7q]

❤

[@cynthiaromero5719]

I was a oversharing woman, but now i know i will not do that again EVER. Now, i have a bf and if people ask me things about him, i`ll just tell them small things, pretty small, people tend to ruin things they dont have and want!

[@northernbloke6787]

For me oversharing is a massive betrayl, my life is mine and if I choose to share it with someone it was shared with that person not her entire friends and family. Unfortunately a lot of women treat that as insecurity when in fact it's wanting to have your own space

[@cynthiaromero5719]

@@northernbloke6787 exactly

[@blandine449]

Nowadays privacy is a luxury, I respect Brett for keeping it a secret. She motivates me in all ways, love her for this

[@MountainofInspiration]

Good for her. No need to over share. Certain things should be private until they mature into something really serious.

[@Blessed3724]

This is lowkey some of the best dating advice I've seen in maybe years?

[@KeithLuttrell-fj7tu]

You go girl, you make good decisions.

[@sherryjohnson3804]

A relationship is hard at first without the whole world being in on it, she's such a great role model on how to be a normal young woman

[@trenae77]

Why did Brett keep her relationship a secret? Because her PERSONAL life is none of our business 😂 What she wants to share she shares. What she chooses not to share is private information for her to protect as she sees fit.

[@Meah-t7q]

Right good point

[@Ucold2play]

She was cheating on me

[@db1777]

Cheating on us*

[@trex1448]

Ben Shapiro might be down for a tryst. Don't give up hope.

[@grahamzibar]

😢

[@danfontaine8179]

I’m sorry man feel free to dm me. Idk if you can do that on KZbin but try.

[@erichofficialeurope]

​@@db1777😂😂

[@cdnrednek1027]

Don't worry about it, your life is your life. Just because your job puts you in the public eye, doesn't mean they have to have personal access to you. Too many people in this world think they are entitled to personal access just because they watch you on a screen. Beware of some of those people, if they don't get what they want.

[@chrisflood8458]

Why did Brett Cooper keep her relationship a secret?......because she could. And she should be able to. 🥰

[@MichaelMowlam-v6j]

I didn't realise as a bloke that I could have a chance with a woman I haven't met, excellent, my kingdom for Margot Robbies digits 😂😂😂

[@earlarthur9378]

Brett is awesome. Great video sir!!

[@elizabethkuhn8139]

I was excited and surprised when I heard you were engaged, but I wasn't mad.

[@laughingmoustache8809]

It's not like people were interested to know

[@JackHaveman52]

I didn't feel betrayed. Disappointed would be more accurate but in a realistic way. Not one tear was shed.

[@2dogs1tale81]

Marriage is a partnership. The thing I appreciate about Ben Shapiro is that he married someone who is a doctor, and even though she took time off from her career to be home to raise her children, she went back to her profession. If you love someone you never want them to bury their talents or not use the gifts God has given them. It can be done when BOTH partners are equally supportive. I really believe that Brett found this in her husband also.

[@wildcatblue13]

Being a doctor is a job , being a mother is a far better gift

[@mae2759]

Amen! It's great when your spouse supports your career and finds ways to make it work, even if it's a demanding job or hobby.

[@User-pu3lc]

Whatever the reason stated in this video. The real motivation is knowing it drives better viewer numbers if she is perceived as available.

[@astromigui]

She has more views than before and she's publicly married now.

[@_good_for.]

​@@astromigui you know he's right, being single attracts more views

[@astromigui]

@@_good_for. well I would have guessed so too. But we can look at the numbers and see that no. Same for Candace Owens

[@_good_for.]

@@astromigui who the bloody hell is candance owen

[@joshbrookes6439]

​@@_good_for. Seek her out you might learn something.

[@Gianna20958]

brett is so pretty

[@Lily-678]

What à beautiful and intelligent young woman 💜💖✝️ God bless you and your family 🌷

[@tonnyrodrigueznunez]

Good for her!!!! but its good to let them know that you are taken, cause in my country we said that "A Land without title has no owner".

[@warcraftaddict117]

Eric's wife: Well Brett, you show a good head on your shoulders. I trust your judgement. However I do have to say since it wasn't shared here that 1. I hope he does show interest in what you do because even though you are a public figure, God gave you talent and he should support that or you can both, either of you share how you nurture that in one another because art and work blend in your industry. I admire his reasons for wanting to know you but it does raise red flags with me and should be something people in dating should raise a question of because even though people may be and often are opposites in many ways in order to compliment one another, especially young people should be cautious when someone uses a phrase like that like "I want to get to know you and not your work" what God has us to work at IS valuable and brings something to the world. You not only politically commentate, I can see in your words a heart for helping people grow more discerning in life. There are those in this planet who twist that and then the other person who has so much to offer and give ends up in a relationship where they themselves are devalued and their gifts that God gave them to help grow wonderful and unique things.

[@JasonTaylor-po5xc]

I think she handled it wisely. She nailed it when she said after he proposed "now it's real" - that's it. How many people have photos of past romantic partners in them? I had a rule that when taking family photos, I never included anyone that wasn't married into the family - or, at least I took two - one with and one without - just in case it didn't work out. Of course, that was before AI tools. I think it is important from a dating credibility/advice stand point. She does occasionally respond to videos of people complaining about the dating world. Knowing she is engaged and soon to be married does elevate her credibility in that department. Additionally, dating someone with a huge following can be stressful - so no point having him in the mix of that unless things are real.

[@kcarter0265]

Keep doing what you are doing Brett. I appreciate that you have kept so much private and enjoy what you do share. You are making good calls for your family’s wellbeing as well as your own. Ignore the very creepy guys who act like they own a part of you because you have a commentary channel. They need to realize that their chronically online behavior toward your relationship is actually toxic and unhealthy.

[@MatthewWhalley]

I reckon her Snow White movie will blow Disney's out of the water. Hope we get a trailer soon.

[@puichiung2959]

She's certainly nicer and fairer than Rachel from Disney's SW movie.

[@Mr.YasQueen]

Both will suck probably lmao

[@4loops43]

Well, this isn’t really new or even gender specific, many popular men also kept their marriage/relationships a secret because of female fans …especially in the 60s. (Ya it’s not even an internet thing)

[@jarksruus3391]

Privacy for sure, but the post marriage life she wants to embrace (home making, home schooling, and farm life of some sort) will probably force a break with the Daily Wire or change the focus of her channel. That is likely part of the reason for the silence. It just surprising that they would shoehorn in a wedding while the Snow White film was demanding her time and attention.

[@antiderrida2117]

Never understood the celebrity simp. You have to be extremely delusional to think Brett is going to randomly pick up your DMs and fly over to see you, when the mid barista at your local shop won't even do that.

[@lorigthefirst]

Honestly hadn’t heard of her until fairly recently. She’s fun! As a hetero woman, she seems more like a “girl’s girl.” I’m surprised at all the weirdo guys “simping” for her.. yikes… I’m glad she’s being wise about her personal life. 🙌🏻

[@SeanzatChimalley_MMA]

Female Ben Shapiro

[@TrangleC]

I think they must be related. They have the same eyes and eyebrows. Would be hard to distinguish if you put them both in burkas.

[@_good_for.]

😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@TrangleC

[@seancsnm]

Fem Shap

[@joshbrookes6439]

I don't see it. Never have seen it. It's gotta be a conspiracy theory. Why people continue to keep saying that kinda bugs me cos she looks nothing like him not even close.

[@rallytip]

​@@joshbrookes6439she looks extremely like him. Are you blind?

[@SnifferSock]

Her back story is pretty cool. Basically became an adult before she was old enough to take driver's Ed.

[@jeremyg591]

Brett isnt an idiot. She knows to grow her channel, she has to dangle the image of herself being accessible/obtainable to simps.

[@cm-yu6gu]

She didn't dangle an image of being obtainable.. can you give examples of where she did that? Its the weird simps who placed on her on some pedestal and made her their fantasy who perceived it that way. Can you give some concrete examples of where she actually did that? Because her content, how she speaks and presents herself, none of that has changed from before her marriage to after

[@jeremyg591]

@@cm-yu6gu uh oh! Simp detected!

[@cm-yu6gu]

@@jeremyg591 im a girl bro

[@jeremyg591]

@@cm-yu6gu ah, it makes sense then that you don't get it Men just naturally attach themselves to women they think may be single, and women know this

[@cm-yu6gu]

@@jeremyg591 please can you explain more about this and the male psyche. Because for women we feel like we are just acting normal and expressing ourselves (like Brett just chatting about whatever topics cause its her job) and then men form this emotional attachment and create a fantasy that is fully in the man's head but not the woman's and it takes on a life of its own that we have no control over. Like I will just be living my life and walking down the street (I currently have a stalker) and if I have an unwanted interaction with a delusional man (delusional being someone cannot read the room or pick up on cues that im uncomfortable) the ONLY thing that gets him away is saying I have a boyfriend/husband. What IS that???? And you said men naturally attach to single women and women know this, but no we don't?? Not to the extent that men feel it.. its so weird. No im genuinely asking you to explain it to me because I don't know what the solution is. Avoid ALL male interaction altogether unless its your father/brother/other family or partner if you have one??? Its very impractical considering half of the population are men and you have to work and go out and live life with the rest of the populace So why can't men just get it together and not delulu create fantasies about women they clearly aren't in a relationship with or ever will be and just act fking normal lol

[@JackVogel2024]

Online behavior is so damn strange

[@jake_steele]

It's the parasocial relationship. Feels very weird & shows a lack of setting emotional boundaries.

[@dr.zuzykitsune]

She’s not displaying a character that’s in opposition to her real life by getting married and keeping it private, so I don’t see why people think she owes them that information. People should only get mad if she’s posting content about being single and living a single life then find out she’s married.

[@Justin_Bailey_NES]

Brynn Shapiro.

[@mushroomlw1717]

Nobody cares about the other daily wire creators' relationships. I don't understand why people would care about her relationship. Or anyone's relationship.

[@jonenglish6617]

Who your favorite celebrity is dating is none of your business

[@alternativeware]

I was more shocked about the fact that she is a Republican, but that is just Brett.

[@steveminton8329]

It's Her business

[@JohnnySalami6]

Relationships are monetized now.

[@sabihashariq394]

I really hate the word simping don't fuckin use it here we didn't simp for her we adored her. She was just ideal woman we wanted for us .

[@crapione]

I don't understand what's wrong with Alex Cooper's story

[@AyeSeeVeeTV]

Such a classic beauty ❤

[@brotherelf]

"what dress did he wear" who asked that? What are they trying to get at? Is there something your not telling us? Lol 😂

[@johnl5316]

who is she?

[@lIlllIIlIllllII]

weird female ben shapiro

[@Muhluri]

conservative political commentator backed by a massive media company (daily wire)

[@daveSoupy]

she's got a show on Daily Wire that has a lot of viewership. it's mostly a reaction channel with social commentary from a 21 year old.

[@ajdrums8075]

​@@lIlllIIlIllllIIWhat is weird about her? She seems normal and personable

[@kittyKatfish]

You're living under a rock 🪨

[@monarosaart]

Love Bret ❤

[@AFlemPen]

By the way if this isnt a wake up call to the simps then its over

[@lennard5393]

And now its not a secret

[@izumijojo]

How the f can she speak so fast 😂 the words are going above my head.

[@lorigthefirst]

True story- I always lower the playback speed on all videos of hers to 0.75 because she doesn’t just talk fast but she doesn’t annunciate well, either- a bit of vocal fry and speaks a bit through her nose. Lowering the playback speed helps greatly! 🤣

[@jdoveyk9422]

Lightweight I watch in 1.75x speed 😂

[@ZairuK9001]

That is because what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom, not to be blasted out to everyone like you're some kind of pariah.

[@Marcustheseer]

i dont understand people that make a fuss about who someone is with,its there private life stay out of it,its non of youre busnis.

[@virtual240]

Brett doesn't have trouble dating. She should go ask an average single guy what dating is like. I bet the guy will say: nonexistent.

[@sisuriffs]

Same reason John Lennon kept his marriage secret in the early days.

[@tetertertertert]

Brett this is called stalkers....

[@LastMinuteGuess]

Because I want to be able to see her as my virtual conservative mommy, obviously.

[@theicekingonYT]

There’s a solid base of bret’s fan base that’s simps so I didn’t think about it but I’m not shocked

[@MrCaren]

1st comment from the Fan of Brett Cooper. Quick Question: is Sheldon Cooper is your brother?

[@EloffKilian]

Who speaks the fastest, Brett Cooper or Ben Shapiro?

[@daveSoupy]

.75 speed changes things man

[@ProHunter_invencivel1]

Proverbs 3:23

[@gaypreator8547]

Then Prov. 4:12. Prov. 10:9

[@DutchKC9UOD]

What nimrod would think posting on her KZbin channel could lead to dating her? Lol

[@sayitall123]

I’ll save everyone 11 mins: Her fan base is mostly simp men and revealing her relationship would hurt viewership. You’re welcome

[@geraldstiling3735]

My favourite KZbinr is Adam Savage🔨.My second is Simon Whistler🤓 . My third is Every day Astronaut Tim Dodds 👨🏼‍🚀...My incentive for watching was not matrimony 👰🏼😂

[@shawnmcquillan3874]

Who did she marry???

[@probablynot1368]

In October 2023, Cooper became engaged to Alex Tombul, the founder of an advertising agency. They married in April 2024.

[@justtalk4793]

Is it just me or does Brett's speech sound different from her yt videos on the comment section when she's talk anywhere else. Like she has to swallow and moisten her throat every 5 seconds to speak. On her channel, she talks really quickly or maybe that's sped up. But here and other times, she sounds so different. I'm just wondering if it's a speech defect, her regular speech or it's not how she talks all the time and how come she sounds so different on her channel

[@davetdowell]

'Phone Voice' maybe. Lots of people do that develop a 'way of speaking' for specific purposes, I've also seen 'presentation voice' and even 'presentation mode' in people who have to do a lot of stand up speaking. In someways I'd be more surprised if she didn't develop/have a specific way of speaking presenting, given her job. I'd consider that to be normal. All them TV presenters don't talk "like that" when they're not at work, it'd be really bloody odd if they did really.

[@sweetsmakemeshredded3672]

Her husband had nothing against Chris holding her?

[@MGShadow1989]

Why would he?

[@kavyaachari-b3j]

@@MGShadow1989 modern femisnism which she bashes on and on

[@MGShadow1989]

@@kavyaachari-b3j - what does that have to do with the premise of her husband having an issue with Chris? Brett is a good egg. Chris is a good egg. Where's the issue?

[@DoctorMandible]

Except that didn't happen

[@cjdelavara]

Yeah pretty much stopped listening and following her content after she got married.

[@AndyStitzer]

Didn't know anybody cared

[@memeorandom2299]

Who TF is Alex Cooper????

[@cp_vaughny]

Their logic on couples privacy is really odd. The idea that if you post online, allowing a little window into your existence, means the audience should be allowed to see & know everything is so f*cked up. If we were talking about a government you’d, rightfully, be screeching about your freedoms. Just another drowning in a pool of hypocrisy.

[@TrangleC]

More interesting is the question whether she is related to her boss Ben Shapiro, because they have the exact same eyes and eyebrows.

[@careyfleming3412]

Who the heck is she - and why does she matter?

[@ryanjones358]

All celebrity women should to let us think we have a chance even if we don't.

[@geraldballesteros3839]

Sorry. I can not relate. lmfao! I can relate if it were: "The Problem With Dating As An Introvert."

[@Tehstampede]

Men reading this, if you think you have a chance with any female content creator you watch, please go outside.

[@tetertertertert]

ahah he could not help himself.... that is all I will say

[@mohamedgtmf5awadallah123]

Man, I love hehehehe

[@Snarge22]

Didn't Brett marry a guy she met at work? Yet the narrative from both men, women, feminists, and society is to not be fishing in the pond you're working in.

[@RebelCowboysRVs]

Brett married her brothers best friend. They knew each other growing up in Chattanooga. She did run in to him again at work when she moved back to Tennessee. But they had history long before that. She moved to a new job in a new town where she knew no one outside of work, ran in to a childhood friend an started hanging out with him.

[@icestationzebra8636]

Don’t care

[@DisapprovingFather]

Bc young hot influencer chicks are VASTLY more popular if they are single. It's that simple. She knew her view count and subscribers would take a massive hit as soon as she couldnt pretend to be attainable. Nice attempt at coping though.

[@rivgacooper5330]

Yeah it is why k-pop stars are told bot to leak relationship information, but also it works for men too, boy bands back in the 90s were told to make out as if you are single to help sales of music. But she may not be lying it is possible that her now husband is very private AND she wanted to keep it out the media to keep her popularity.

[@jefflartigue9110]

Keeping her private life to herself is wrong? She owes no one that information. Good for her. She's smart, pretty, and has the guts to keep her private life to herself, WOW she's the package. No wonder this guy Proposed. I wish her nothing but happiness, and good health. Congratulations and I hope he's worthy of you.