Why children need fathers PART 1 | Erica Komisar

[@MajorMinor1970]

We have spent the last 60 or so years trying to debunk what nature has been doing perfectly well for 300,000 years.

[@Polytrout]

@MajorMinor1970 You're funny. You think that you're being sarcastic. We REALLY HAVE BEEN spending the last 60 or so years trying to debunk what nature has been doing perfectly well for 300,000 years. This is applicable in many facets of society, particularly when it comes to the importance of men as fathers.

[@finianlacy8827]

..and your understanding of what she is actually discussing here !!

[@brianbrooks8692]

Lol. I've been saying this for years...seriously...the divorce judge wouldn't listen to me.

[@stormhawk3319]

The mother is the nurturer The father is the provider Both are crucial to a child’s upbringing.

[@HPatRoyers-fs2ub]

Men and women are different. This is an Einstein level discovery. Nobel prize coming. 😂

[@davidhunt313]

Fathers are fairly essential in helping their children acquire a sense of humor in the face of life's tragedies and traumas.

[@garywilson7992]

Maybe you could’ve said it a little differently is all, like maybe help children acquire a solid foundation of faith, and dependence upon God, especially in times of life’s trial’s, tragedies, and death, or whenever life becomes difficult, and we need a sense of encouragement, hope and peace. A very real, all powerful and present help in times of trouble.

[@enterpassword3313]

@@garywilson7992 no

[@mikegalvin9801]

Over fifty years ago my teen siblings and I rolled our eyes when our hopelessly "square" mom predicted that "going all the way" before at least getting engaged would end badly even for boys and definitely for girls and that the then new fad for "No Fault" EZ divorce would be disastrous for children in particular. True on both counts.

[@cherylmockotr]

Best short video on KZbin!! These new Gen Z and Alpha generations are screaming out the results of not having fathers available to help them separate from their mithers!

[@enterpassword3313]

Lol not really, of course there is a mother role and father role, but shes just saying stuff about oxytocin that isnt actually science. This woman is off her trolley, she also says in this podcast that christianity invented childhood

[@cherylmockotr]

@@enterpassword3313 I guess you didn't listen very closely. You should try again.

[@enterpassword3313]

@@cherylmockotr no, you just dont know the ACTUAL science, you can listen as closely as you want, thats no substitute for knowing better. What she said about oxytocin simply isnt true

[@JeffCaplan313]

I don't think I'll ever forgive this world for raising me like a girl.

[@cherylmockotr]

You're only angry about it because they raised you like a girl but didn't feed you enough soy products to make you like it 😂

[@EddieM1994]

They clearly didn't instill the emotional maturity.

[@enterpassword3313]

Lol man up

[@georgeparkin4420]

Strange, but..this just rings true, in spit of pharmacology, lol. These things ring true. I'm not a father! I observe people. I care a great deal about children and partnerships. It just rings true.

[@enterpassword3313]

Its got nothing to do with oxytocin though, dont listen to this woman i think she has a brain injury unfortunately

[@candaniel]

Commenting to find this again

[@richardryan2769]

Viva la difference! (French).

[@Bamboule05]

Typo. It's vive la difference

[@SkeeterDunn]

But Men can have babies and we still cant define what a woman is.

[@charlenetruncer1535]

Don’t forget protectiveness.

[@gregorygan2077]

YES

[@EddieM1994]

No, they don't. Studies show that high levels of oxytocin are found in all primary caregivers of children and affect them in roughly the same way. The differences are more likely to be individual or external.

[@enterpassword3313]

She has no idea what shes talking about. The other clips of her are even worse

[@Joyfulminimalist]

She was saying men and women produce oxytocin, not just women. She’s a licensed clinical social worker who’s worked with families for 30+ years. She says what she says from her education and experience.

[@enterpassword3313]

@@Joyfulminimalist she said a lot more than that, and shes wrong about most of it

[@enterpassword3313]

@@Joyfulminimalist its very clear from your comment you only blindly trust her because she seems qualified

[@billusher2265]

False, studies find women have higher oxytocin levels and men and women respond to it differently.

[@JJ82IOE]

Men can do both. Can women? Genuine question.

[@Bamboule05]

Men can do what both?

[@JJ82IOE]

@@Bamboule05 I'm fairly sure it is in the video 🤓🤯 💻

[@YassmineWantsPeace]

I'm a mother and I play rougher and I'm more free and risky with our son.

[@MadaTangdilallo]

Please forgime no l cean Thank you.

[@garywilson7992]

I think that unless someone chooses to be some sort of woke indoctrinated fool, most of us inherently know that fathers are important in a child’s life, or rather they’re meant and supposed to be, but I think there’s plenty of better examples and evidence, than the supposedly chemical affects of oxytocin. But unfortunately there’s also plenty of absent fathers, and abusive fathers, where it might’ve been better if they were absent, because they seem to have done more harm than good, and evidently couldn’t produce any oxytocin.

[@enterpassword3313]

Lol exactly, idk this woman got on the podcast, oxytocin has nothing to do with what she said, there is no evidence of her claim