Why Do Guys Pull Away Once They Feel Like They Have You. You Thought He Really Liked You?!?

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[@Bella-Mae0422]

Men love playing the "game" until they lose. 🙂 Love your honesty Elliot!

[@phxarizona7201]

So true ❌⭕❌⭕💖

[@How.Dare.You.]

Well then hes an idiot if he takes me for granted. I have a whole line of guys waiting to meet

[@LemansSunset350]

👍🏻 ain’t nobody got time for that lol

[@nietzschesmuse]

So truth so many men so little time what can I do?

[@MelaniaRose]

Keep your options open ladies 😌

[@littlelily4]

I like your energy !

[@littlelily4]

Well you're lucky nobody ever hits on me (whereas it happens to my 12 y older colleague pretty often) so it's not easy

[@Jenny-cd2so]

To sum it all up, get a DOG. Did I hear you say cuddles? Yep, dog. Talks? Yep, dog. Never get interrupted again. Try seeing a dog pull away when you holdin that stack of bacon in your hand.

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

❤

[@Jenny-cd2so]

@ cuddles may be questionable, but yes. A cat would also do.

[@monicaaustin2711]

Cats are better ^_^

[@cherrylane79]

Or a cat. 😂

[@jennydixon9239]

It's the pressure in the beginning that men apply that I don't understand, it feels like they really like you but it's fake...its super confusing and makes me look uptight and closed off.

[@nietzschesmuse]

It has become obvious to me they suffer from emotional attachment injuries. As result initially they love bomb us however they dont have the maturity for longevity. The come across as fearful avoidants with their weird inicial love bomb particularly when they are older. Younger guys are a little healthier psychologically.

[@DG-on9dz]

@@nietzschesmuse I’m glad you brought this up bc I see a lot of people calling them narcissists. I think there are a lot of narcissists and assholes out there doing this, but I think a lot of it is immaturity as well. I keep reading everywhere how women are love bombed and some men have said it’s bc they really like you a lot, but then get freaked out when they have you or feel embarrassed for how they acted in the beginning. Just a mess!

[@nietzschesmuse]

@Cindy Lou They are avoidant their mother ignored them when they were kids thus they only "love" you if you are cold as their mom were to them. Look it up "Emotional attachment styles" Most guys are fearful avoidant, anxious avoidant or insecure for it used to be normal in previous generations to be emotionally distant to kids particularly baby boys to teach them how to "be a man".

[@nietzschesmuse]

@Cindy Lou You are absolutely right however I am yet to meet a guy sexy or interesting enough to keep me interested, they are mostly inexperienced without anything to offer.

[@MelaniaRose]

I’m already drained thinking about this

[@nietzschesmuse]

Most men are not interesting enough to get me in bed their lack of creativity imagination and vocabulary turn me off. By the time they stop taking me on dates it is a relief for I dont have to be the one saying "I dont want date you anymore". Besides there is a line up of new admirers waiting to take me out of the competition.

[@Thislife78-p1w]

Yup you read my mind

[@nietzschesmuse]

@@Thislife78-p1w initially they love bomb us however they dont have the maturity for longevity. Most men come across as fearful avoidants with their weird initial love bomb particularly when they are older. Younger guys are a little healthier psychologically. My advice never date only one dude, they must first prove longevity and commitment to earn and deserve our loyalty. Just play them like they do to us, threat them as disposable.

[@maggiewei2142]

@@nietzschesmuse actually the love bomber I experienced was a younger guy first time I dealt with it too but players come in all shapes and sizes!

[@shannonpenrod2461]

Player playing a Game. They all play with the same rules. Once you learn the rules then you know the game.

[@sarahbaha6197]

Yeah I just ended things nicely with a guy who "was too busy for a relationship atm" 🤷‍♀️ sparks were off the charts what a shame...he'll regret that

[@FleurRebelle]

ATM?

[@sarahbaha6197]

@@FleurRebelle at the moment...haha makes no sense

[@staceyv2683]

Same. My heart hurts so bad.

[@staceyv2683]

@@FleurRebelle at the moment

[@jaceem4175]

No sexs is the key ladies. You kind of learn afterwards. If they want to leave BYE! Go and hope you are happy. Be careful because you never know what ya gonna get.if you know what i mean. Am sticking closer to GOD and if he decide to bless me someday with the right gentlemen then i wait because that is the right thing to do. If you rush into a relationship with the wrong guy then your going to get hurt. So take it slow and find out if god sent this guy or is he just another waste of your time. Let them go because we live in a dangerous world and we have to find out some background checks before moving forward on the guy.

[@parfecto7716]

It's practically impossible to get a guy. That's it.

[@justines1919]

According to these videos it’s like being able to run through a fucking obstacle course. Be sexy and hot but not too hot give him sex but then take it away after 6 dates then jump through a ring of fire while juggling his balls, make perfect landing into the girlfriend zone!! Amazing!! You did it!!! Lol 😂 you got the fat bald motorcycle salesman of your dreams who will cheat on you with his secretary six months from now! You win!

[@heatherann4390]

Pulling away after sex and hanging out with other girls is NOT ok.

[@roser8911]

This… I was emotionally, mentally damaged.

[@victoriaofthewattsfamily1198]

Love that your back in the car ❤️

[@chellybabyme]

I don't mind if you jump all over the place personally. It's amazing the way you offer multiple explanations what on the surface seem similar. It is different, obviously every situation is different in the way you explain everything is so helpful. You always give new information even if I've heard a slight skew or hints of it before, I hope that makes sense to you. BTW, I started to type ...."You're amazing." I changed it to . "..it is amazing the way you..." Something I learned from you. Something like don't Elevate him but Elevate his efforts.

[@Ks_milf]

It's hot cause you're in there😍! Thank you for this vid...keep them coming please! And ladies, get Attraction Academy, it's sooooo worth it!!!!

[@avgwhitegurl6646]

I told my guy about how this guy at the gym was all over me, so later he texts me how great I look, etc. Make him feel like someone will steal you. He needs to know he has competition! Next thing you know he's texting me, I wonder where my baby is!

[@adday.]

My long distance boo does not like the idea of me at the gym, hehe.

[@justines1919]

Why are you watching dating videos just to brag about your boyfriends to all us single ass losers who nobody gives a shit about. Cool lol

[@wowwee0]

It's one thing for this to happen with a few weeks or a couple months of dating. There isn't much depth to it yet. But it's devastating when it happens after years of a committed relationship. When CAN you trust someone?

[@melissalastname]

Elliot in with the A+ advice like usual!

[@ElliotScottDating]

Thanks beautiful

[@KiaPiaaa]

It's all a big game. You either choose to participate or leave the game ladies lol

[@chynabarnescb]

I got pregnant again that made me leave for good..i just can't believe how we put our all in a man and in the end it's so not worth it ...

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Now you see why I don't wanna sleep with these men ? They switch it right up THE MINUTE they get it. I don't mind if we don't end up together because of that. I don't mind BOTH of us losing this game but you ARE NOT going to use me just so you can get a release. And I know all these men have 100 other women besides me if I don't give it to them. Sure ! You can go them then but you're not getting it from ME.

[@lindamarkkanen158]

You are so on point ✨ Your videos right now are just what i need to hear to keep my mind on track

[@ElliotScottDating]

So glad!

[@kateedid44x69]

Best video Ive seen... EVA!! Gawd.... never let them know they have you. Kiss of death!!

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

Thanks Elliott ❤ In my case, he did tell me that he wanted a relationship, then did all this (flirted with others, pulling away) as soon as I agreed to sleep with him.

[@mamatried925]

I love your advice bc you keep it so simple and real!!

[@ElliotScottDating]

I try

[@eleseclarke6038]

A lot of female dating coaches I've watched say men have the need to pull away and need some space from time to time

[@justines1919]

Little did we know it’s from sheer laziness and constantly seeing what other options they have lol 😂

[@HaileysHealth]

Yup, this video sums up my situation with the guy ive been seeing twice a week for over a month lol

[@Angelde21]

I would love a video on finances: the in and outs of proper investment from a man with a practical expectation in mind...

[@Yumyumhoneybun]

You’re so funny Elliott Scott

[@basicinfo2022]

This is why you do not emotionally invest or attach in a man youre dating. Dont give them intimacy until they meet all of your standards. The game is over once you give it up to him too early.

[@melissajohnson7252]

Damn this was for me

[@rareroseglosses1554]

@elliot I think sometimes guys pull away because we start acting overly intense and excited and they feel like we are overzealous and sees the intensity and that scares him off

[@cherrylane79]

But if you don't water "the plant", it will die. (the plant = relationship) The third option could be that he has something on his plate he doesn't tell you about. (stress, health issues, work problems).

[@justines1919]

If he invests in you after 6-8 dates what then? He gets comfortable and bored and dumps you after a year because he sees better “investments” elsewhere? Cant wait! Lol 😂 these videos are legit depressing. Meanwhile we are just blindly loving the shit out of these lame ass balding guys lol it’s hopeless

[@Danag20]

So this is happening and I just said ok screw it. Im not going to be mad, just going to get on with it. I starting dating other men, and now that’s not going to stop. But I notice he is coming back.

[@stefanieleavitt5224]

What about if their location is always changing on a dating app (he's a truck driver) like he's constantly on it but not texting as much? But he does make an effort when in the area to see you?

[@toscadonna]

He has a girlfriend or two in every city just like pilots do. Get rid of him.

[@gloriaa0214]

Omg this wow

[@livelearnlove9086]

So he is keeping his options open just the same as us women should. This way u can pull away too.

[@Yumyumhoneybun]

I’m late for the party today

[@juliet1122]

Will you invest in me if I tell you I think I love you, before our first date?

[@tricia4075]

Can you help me please? how do I get you to help me?

[@ElliotScottDating]

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[@Mia-nd5cp]

A solution would be helpful…

[@janedane9898]

What about if he's played u for 3 years?

[@justines1919]

Leave

[@Nielx3]

Did you just wake up?🤭😜

[@ElliotScottDating]

Yes lol. in all my videos I just wake up and turn on the camera. Fun fact!

[@janedane9898]

Sick of the BS games. Seriously I ain't dating a kid. I need a MANNNN

[@janedane9898]

Actually F the man!... No man has ever been as loyal as any pet of mine!!!

[@lizstarcevic9657]

What age group are you referring to as this sounds like a male who's immature and not a real man

[@justines1919]

Because they are lazy and greedy and selfish and immature ?? Lol 😂 just a guess. I don’t think I actually want to understand the male brain. It’s disappointing lol 😂 the more I learn the more I just want to be a nun

[@PolarBear-mj9wt]

Recycled content again

[@nancybean7593]

There is a reason for that. If you step more back and look this is one of the main things that women complain about. Unfortunately he is just showing how he has to continue to drive it into the ground and women still make horrible decisions and not listen.