Why You Always Lose Power To Men And What To Look Out For

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[@fireeye33]

it's easy not to lose power to men when you are not afraid to lose any men and chose self respect over relationship

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

Men lead, like it or not he's in contol of where relationship goes. Pay attention to what he says. Don't give yourself to anyone who doesn't actually want you. There's lots of options.

[@melmel7011]

Not completely. If a man is truly in love he has no control.The woman has the power

[@tracymullane8818]

Vetting a man :Things that don't work- If he's newly single, If you're much older, long distance (sometimes) or he's been cheated on, If he's newly divorced, and signs he is emotionally unavailable.... even if he doesn't know it. You have to be the one to look for the signs in spite of what he says. Thanks Elliot!

[@ElliotScottDating]

I got the power of Jesus coming out of me with all that light!

[@jenreid444]

Lmao hallelujah

[@TheNisiu]

Lol

[@mera6306]

Lmao

[@pams.8502]

I came with this video after i just got up in a call with the man in which I have situationship with and told him my boundaries and told him we might not be in same page. He said something about football teammates have training passing the ball. In relationship he said there is no training, we have to do it together so we cam get to the goal fast. He also said that there is no boundaries what we just need is understanding of situation. We have been friends for long like more than 2 years and started romantic situation just a year ago. I'm just so confused😥

[@happysmile9]

@@pams.8502 Be careful.. Don't fall for that.. He might tell you so because it's what is convenient for HIM and what HE wants.. But what do YOU want?.. If you don't want what he says and offers, just get out.. Run.. Just make sure it's this the case indeed and if yes, just go.. Don't settle and don't waste your time.. Don't forget your standards and your boundaries.. Later you might think, what was all this bull*hit and why didn't I stand up for what I wanted?.. The man must provide you with CLARITY and NOT confusion.. Been there.. It's EXTREMELY painful and confusing and definitely something not nice at all!!.. I can feel you.. Stay strong.. Just take all this into consideration.. I don't want to persuade you to do the one or the other, but be careful and don't fall for everything they might tell or give you. Listen to what your heart and your own good benefit for yourself has to say.. And don't rush things.. Just some food for thought.. I hope everything turns out great for you!.. Stay strong, stay safe, stay happy and God bless you!.. Remember.. since He's always with you, you're NEVER alone and you'll make it!.. Just give it to Him and you'll get to know what to do.. 🤗😉❤️

[@Michelle7.17]

Elliot, your advice is accurate, brutal at times, but accurate. We women need to quit allowing others to govern our lives, men as well as other women. If it’s so easy for a man to get the “P” then we need to become more selective in who we become intimate with. Even in nature it’s the male who has the colorful feathers, shows off his mating dance, and fights other males for the woman’s affection. Women, have lost sight of this integral part of human nature. Live your best life and develop yourself. If a man comes along, but you two don’t have the same values or relationship plans just say, “ it was nice to meet you” and move on. Everything will be okay 👌🏻

[@Michelle7.17]

u knoe wat dis is You have made a good point, but I wouldn’t necessarily call it b.s. when a woman “gives” to a man. We are born “givers” and caretakers. Your point is accurate, we women need to pull our energy off of men and quit giving, giving, and giving when he doesn’t want whatever we are offering. Women need to love on themselves and their “girlfriends “. Men don’t need to be taken care of, they need love, affection, and friendship etc. Yes, women do need to be better listeners when she is getting verbal and nonverbal cues from a man, and when she does, I guarantee she will see that her relationships take a turn for the better. I’m in this process of change right now, and I can actually see relief on the faces of the men in my life. I guess that they feel that they can relax around me because they don’t owe me anything in return. Thank you for your comment, I’m always willing to learn something new about the male/female relationship.🤟🏻

[@j-tenn226]

All this makes me glad I’m 29 and a virgin. I’m avoiding so much drama

[@Swiss_Girl]

its not that bad. I am 30 and found my man 1.5 years ago. before I also enjoyed my datingyears😄 of course there were heartbreaks, but I always leard

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

Stay off of tinder if you want a relationship. Period!

[@nailpolishinhale]

Yes forget the apps meet someone organically

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

@@nailpolishinhale dating apps never work out for hardly anybody unless you are one of the lucky ones. But yeah I'm not going to use them anymore I can go out and volunteer and have better luck finding someone who is serious than those losers online.

[@joannecarolyn1595]

All the advice you've given, I learnt the hard way over 20 years. Younger ladies, please listen to Elliot! 😊

[@smores8982]

Yes! Please stress the 6-8 weeks! It shouldn’t take any longer than that for him to know if he wants a relationship. Also, my take is...if he just wants the sex and can easily get it elsewhere, then good! Go and find a dummy or sucker who lacks self-worth/respect and will easily give it up. If he’ only wants sex, more than likely, those will be the only types of women he’ll be able to attract. The decent ones with healthy standards and boundaries will detect the sleaze vibe and run.

[@leesteal4458]

Good advice but please resist the urge to call other women dummies or suckers.

[@kimt8162]

He's right. Tough to admit; but he is. You have to make sure early ON in the relationship that you are both on the same page. Or else let him go. And make him work for your approval. In my first relationship, I assumed we were on the same page. I was so wrong. I actually should have brought this up so much earlier; I ended up waisting alot of time. 5 years; I assumed he'd give me a ring and be happy about it. Just because we spent so much time together. I was shocked and so wrong.

[@Lea-ik5cs]

Love you Elliot! Thanks for this one.

[@ja190]

Elliot you are the best!! Thank you so much for the insight.

[@Livelearnapply]

Pure facts. I learned the hard way. Finally got out of that situation. Thanks mr. Elliot. Big brother advise

[@aishascott5635]

Best video ever, Elliot!!

[@brendacardenas1420]

Your Spanish follower love your Chanel!!!

[@gif2476]

Thanks so much!

[@margaretchristian7215]

Let him go get it from someone else. If he’s a player let him go. Like Elliot says your just wasting your time. Before you know , two years will be gone and so will he.

[@queenjee8570]

Thanks Elliot! Love you forever! 6to8wks. On it! Such an intelligent approach to dating.

[@stellarhope6954]

thank you. youre so smart. thanks for the advice son

[@mo0729.]

¡Número uno!

[@zenyoga5116]

I love how you deliver the advice. I get it all but as you may know i don't follow like I should. I met this guy about 2 yrs ago and we are in and of each other's lives. We mainly hangout go on outdoor adventures and get intimate. I don't expect much from him now but he can be confusing. I know that we aren't good for each other AND he won't commit so why do I keep getting involved.

[@heatherann4390]

"Little tinglies"

[@darly63]

"Tinglies down there".....lmao spot on! 🤣

[@o0Affinity0o]

OK but the thumbnail for this is terrifying 😂

[@janessalee8659]

Okay but what about past the commitment. What about if you want to get married and have kids now.

[@alexandradaniels5237]

"A flock of moosen."

[@rebeccajones8628]

What if they already had kids.... then what? argh....

[@h.y1778]

🤙

[@leesteal4458]

Elliot, I am 43, there is a 33 years old guy who has been after me. I have always filtered out every younger man. Do you think that I should walk away because of the age gap?

[@matilda4406]

Lee Steal, oh dear Lord NO ! My mum was significantly younger than my dad and they had nine children together and 55 years of marriage. Don't look at the age, there are loads more significant areas to look at.

[@leesteal4458]

@@matilda4406 I understand but isn't it harder when the woman is older. Elliot spoke of age and I am wondering what is an appropriate age difference between a younger man and an older woman. The guy won't leave me alone but I am wondering if he truly cares.

[@matilda4406]

@@leesteal4458 Ohhww, dear me. Give him a chance for couple of months with affection and positivity. It is easier with younger man, not harder. Wow! It's a bonus if he likes an older woman. Still test him of course and find out who he is as a person, don't worry about the age. I have a friend who married her husband a long time ago, he is 14 years younger than her. The French prime minister is 24 years younger than his wife. It can work beautifully.

[@FM-zg5hz]

What ended up happening? Are you two together?

[@IslandLakeIL]

I love your advice & it does work. I realize you need to make money but it's annoying as F when you're finally getting to the point & there's an ad every 50 seconds. It's getting to the point where there are so many ads that interrupt your flow, that I have to rewind it & I think this is my last E video because come on man. At least put them in at a point where you're taking a pause, not mid syllable. I get it, you are making a living but look at the difference in ad placement w your two top competitors. 3 actually. They'll finish point 2, then an ad; not mid-sentence. You give TRUE advice & you're helping women who are willing to out your advice in action. I'm just of the brain or personality type that it's too annoying. I listen to another one who doesn't sugar coat & he's not pushing ads every 50 seconds. It's an 11 minute video! You lost me w the not the use of ads, but how often & interrupting they are. When we watch TV, a sensible story break is created to keep you tuned in but not break up the story mid-sentence. Be more wise. Take my advice as I take yours. You do tend to digress or lose your train of thought & that's annoying but then you're finally climaxing & ban, an effing ad! Thanks for reading my rant.

[@Gem3237]

So... as a woman.. We should go back to making men fist fight and only mate with the winner lol. You want to spread your seed and it’s my job to find the strongest.. 🤷‍♀️. Seems fair.

[@dawnspage5091]

Well, dont have sex before marriage then. Have standards

[@laur2139]

That’s not entirely true. If you’re a great girl. A beautiful girl. A guy will want to be you’re only. Period. Psycho douchebags are not counted in this a d yes they are about. But they don’t count.

[@dawnspage5091]

Thts why ur supposed to have children in marriage

[@normadelossantos4310]

Bad video delivery El,,, a first for you