My work colleague not only copies but then tries to out do everything, good and bad, it’s so annoying 🙄
@starrababy3124 күн бұрын
@@NikkiBikkiNZ so does mine! And yes, it’s very annoying
@allisonnovak50022 күн бұрын
The old proverb, “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery” sure missed the mark with narcissists!
@cassanovana24 күн бұрын
My heart almost breaks for someone who is lacking in identity and feels the need, impulse -- fill in the blank -- to copy someone else's something to feel a void.
@Rebeccax0x025 күн бұрын
My narc mother, when we all went out as a family, would wear the same color sweater as me and even dyed her hair to match mine. I didn't understand it then, but I get she was copying me now.
@theastral190925 күн бұрын
Yup.
@flapper2725 күн бұрын
Thanks, HG! Very good video! ❤💚 It's cute when you see a set of little twins wearing the same outfit. But it's not so cute when one of your friends or somebody from work decides to copy what your wearing. After a while, it gets disturbing.
@no.996124 күн бұрын
He stalked out old friends and exes of mine during the odd years here and there that we had apart, he would then mimic them all manorisms from standing stances, sayings and facial expressions to a T so I’m guessing he also had recordings of them to keep it so fresh in his mind in those moments…
@Madamex36925 күн бұрын
i should have noticed the absence of chopsticks in his foreclosed home [yes, i see the elephant.] revealed that i eat with chopsticks whenever possible. “… no way … “, he proclaimed. “… so do i … !”. i have chopsticks on my kitchen counter … he did not. took me 8 years for that unusual, particularly nuanced habit to make it’s neural connection [he did play the long game but yes, there were signs.]
@panda21625 күн бұрын
Same style ,same unique colour and size sofa ,after the 1st visit to my home and it only got worse after that ..
@veebliss126625 күн бұрын
My sister 😢
@theastral190925 күн бұрын
Yeah stopping this at the 7 minute mark - Apple vs Windows anyone? 🧐
@MargaretM-vd7bb25 күн бұрын
If they repeat exactly what you have said back to you repeatedly , does that apply in the same manner. It is so confusing. Thankyou for this Valuable Information HG. ❤️🌻
@marlineemmal645825 күн бұрын
They do that to make you think they're like minded so you'll drop your guard and reveal things they can use against you.
@theastral190925 күн бұрын
@@marlineemmal6458The Narc doesn’t understand why they are doing it (unaware)
@katiemulcahy124 күн бұрын
But, why not let your own personality shine through? Don't you have a personality or construct from past interactions? Or do you loose these traits over time, meaning you cannot hold on to them?
@Brandi_.25 күн бұрын
Yep! My mother remarried and got an identical engagement ring as mine. When I mentioned it, she said her fiancé bought the wrong one and that she didn’t really want it. 🤦🏽♀️🫤. Should I bother mentioning that this was not a simple ring like a solitaire?
@panda21625 күн бұрын
Sounds like she is already aware of this ,how awful for you to be placed in this situation and from your mother of all people..
@kiibo586225 күн бұрын
Why do narcissists copy?! 🙄💕❔ 💕😳❔ Why do narcissists copy?! 😁🪞😬 😍🪞🤩 🤓🪞😎 Why do narcissists copy?! * sense of entitlement * no boundaries * no concerns or considerations * lack of emotional empathy * lack of originality * ability to control is a concern * control being a prime aim Appropriation Of Ideas 💡 Through Copying … It’s Much Easier. That’s Why The Narcissist Copies. (Lazy) Cc. 🌱🪞🌷 🖤 Thank You HG Tudor. 😜🪞🤪 📖 Plus They Love Hoovering Over You. 🤓🧐😳🤨! 🔥 It’s Great 👍🔥❤️ Fun And Fuel ⛽️ They’re trying to fit into the norm by acting 🎭. It’s advisable to behave in the craziest manner possible in a circumstance such as this. ✋🤪🤚 (jk)