Why Does A Man Ignore You.

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Coach Ken Canion

Coach Ken Canion

Жыл бұрын

Why Does A Man Ignore You. #relationshipcoach #datingcoach

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@luludouglas6647
@luludouglas6647 Жыл бұрын
Plot twist ignore me on purpose for manipulation, I’ll just move on. Don’t have time for mind games
@10minuteESL
@10minuteESL Жыл бұрын
Yes. Same with the guy I wasted time on.
@annjones4583
@annjones4583 Жыл бұрын
That Whole PART!! If we are made from a Man, we are "conditioned" to respond according to that man. I be glad when they get that. When it becomes the norm to ignore me? Im done and I don't repeat. Don is DONE for me..
@DawnofRoxas101
@DawnofRoxas101 Жыл бұрын
Maybe that’s what he’s manipulating you for lol
@Onguard8737
@Onguard8737 Жыл бұрын
They never started because of the man to begin with.
@mariefloyd6174
@mariefloyd6174 10 ай бұрын
Amen, I think that it's just stupid.
@gckreplayzjr.1871
@gckreplayzjr.1871 7 ай бұрын
And hes going to lose a good woman for all 3 reasons
@MississippiGirl0103
@MississippiGirl0103 4 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@karynmartin2141
@karynmartin2141 2 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@christalbrown7138
@christalbrown7138 2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@maycambridge9481
@maycambridge9481 2 ай бұрын
Yup
@geministwin6074
@geministwin6074 Ай бұрын
Facts cause I'm tied of the back and forth
@adrienne3682
@adrienne3682 Жыл бұрын
Ignore a woman she moves on
@user-zh1gh9cb4c
@user-zh1gh9cb4c 6 ай бұрын
Thou shouldn’t harm the devil too badly coach
@omphilemathole4450
@omphilemathole4450 6 ай бұрын
Its still ok to move on.
@aylex1974
@aylex1974 6 ай бұрын
He is teaching her to move on
@karynmartin2141
@karynmartin2141 2 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Onguard8737
@Onguard8737 Ай бұрын
Mote like teaching him that he's better off without you
@JennyPerez-kc6zw
@JennyPerez-kc6zw 2 ай бұрын
Whoever trying to figure out why men ghost or ignore you in 2024 is mind blowing put yourself first remember the tables always turn
@missabrownsuga
@missabrownsuga Ай бұрын
Indeed!
@spucutasilvia272
@spucutasilvia272 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for reminding me of this
@yovonnesmith6567
@yovonnesmith6567 Ай бұрын
Why not just say they moved on with someone else
@alabamahall7
@alabamahall7 Ай бұрын
I'm here as well going through exact situation😂
@shanicrystal8671
@shanicrystal8671 9 күн бұрын
@@yovonnesmith6567 so they can try and come back when their little thang doesn’t work out 😅 nah boo stay over there 👉
@teresaknowles7942
@teresaknowles7942 Жыл бұрын
It is a demonstration of childish behavior in all 3 reasons.. Thanks for insight!
@empressboateng7098
@empressboateng7098 Жыл бұрын
👋👋👋👋👋👋👋❤❤❤👍
@Onguard8737
@Onguard8737 Жыл бұрын
Real men walk away because it's the most powerful explanation
@SD62534
@SD62534 10 ай бұрын
@@Onguard8737❤❤
@piricarmen6726
@piricarmen6726 7 ай бұрын
@@Onguard8737Men should not mess with women they truly are not interested in or feel the need to make her chase and obsess. That’s not “real”, that’s infantile and not taking a decisive stance. The fact that speaking up is a problem for men is just sad. So, it’s okay to lead women on and then go silent and frosty? No, I don’t think so. It wreaks of insecurity, immaturity, or clinical narcissism. It is wrong to get someone’s feelings involved and then disappear. And it’s not “needy” for a woman to value her time and temporarily be cross with that person. Their loss in the end.
@geet3187
@geet3187 6 ай бұрын
I told my bf his been childish and needs to man up. 😢 because his been ignoring me 😂😂😂 I need help please and now his still not talking to me😢 what should I do??
@DeeDee_Stands_On_Business
@DeeDee_Stands_On_Business 2 ай бұрын
Doesn't matter...says a lot about him...if he can't talk to me about issues like a grown man, he can go!
@ReinoDaMelie
@ReinoDaMelie 14 күн бұрын
agreed
@darlenebernard4288
@darlenebernard4288 7 күн бұрын
Right, if you see that in the getting to know phase or dating phase, that's a red flag that he's not a real man. A real man knows he needs to communicate because that's how u moved your lives forward. Drop him like a hot potato. Never chase guys like that. If u love yourself first, u will immediately move on.
@GodskidUr1
@GodskidUr1 Жыл бұрын
Godly men with good character don’t do any of these mind games these worldly men you speak of do
@poojasoneja7011
@poojasoneja7011 9 ай бұрын
A Godly man talked to me the first week and ignored the next and that's why I landed up here
@starbeauty672
@starbeauty672 9 ай бұрын
Amen
@starbeauty672
@starbeauty672 9 ай бұрын
@@poojasoneja7011then he truly wasn’t GODly
@Machenziethemodel
@Machenziethemodel 6 ай бұрын
He’s still a man. He can very well do the same thing.
@Demibrown1
@Demibrown1 2 ай бұрын
@@poojasoneja7011what showed you he was godly
@priscillagouldbourne9450
@priscillagouldbourne9450 2 ай бұрын
All three is emotionally immature behavior
@panimanianprincess
@panimanianprincess Жыл бұрын
Manipulation That Why He Is Silent
@dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
@dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 Жыл бұрын
When a man does that to me, I give him the same energy because I don't have time. He gets CRICKETS from me until he can't take it anymore then he finally man up and communicate. Works EVERY TIME..
@ermalovette2075
@ermalovette2075 Жыл бұрын
Sho do I'm going do that now ,he stop calling n texting for a week so I stop for the next two weeks now he's texting asking can he see me I think I'm over him because it was only bout 6 months we talked his mind was on someone else he said it wasn't but I got 7 brothers I'm not stupid ,I'm almost 50 I can't n will not put up with games
@dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
@dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 Жыл бұрын
@@ermalovette2075 EXACTLY! Time is short!
@generally_good_guy
@generally_good_guy Жыл бұрын
As a response back, absolutely. Not doing it in the first place and communicating, ideal.
@christianhenry4173
@christianhenry4173 11 ай бұрын
Well as a man its a win win. Women do it too..its life
@bapbap22
@bapbap22 Ай бұрын
That’s why you’re still single right. Works every time lmao
@Its882
@Its882 Жыл бұрын
The problem is with that woman. If a man ignores a woman she needs to move on. Too stressful.
@denisegassama6016
@denisegassama6016 6 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@AVofficialx
@AVofficialx 7 ай бұрын
I feel like something everyone forgets to think about or talk about is that ignoring someone never has a good outcome as talking and understanding each other.
@Goldblooded559
@Goldblooded559 6 ай бұрын
I agree but the coach is right. Some ppl rather run than communicate.
@karynmartin2141
@karynmartin2141 2 ай бұрын
He doesn't know how to tell you he is married 😮
@misslattybaby1949
@misslattybaby1949 Жыл бұрын
Here's an outcome.....I move on and find someone he's not into playing games. 🙂
@user-by4sd2jy2c
@user-by4sd2jy2c 5 ай бұрын
Facts 😊
@maryanngray4519
@maryanngray4519 Жыл бұрын
A ll he's doing is giving me a way out. I don't need the stress
@iftinjama
@iftinjama 5 ай бұрын
Now I realize why is he ignoring me the problem is not me and this is not the first time he’s done this to me. I loved him a lot. I cannot stop thinking about him, but now I do because he don’t respect me my time he always tells me he loves me, but I don’t think so so it’s time for me to move on. Thank you Coach.
@kimberlymay9497
@kimberlymay9497 2 ай бұрын
Mines got upset because he said he loved me and I laughed. Yes I laughed because his actions was not showing love. So when I texted him the next day I realized he was ignoring my texts. I blocked and deleted him. Yes it hurts but I want a real love not someone saying they love me, but showing me different.
@CradleEpiscopalian56
@CradleEpiscopalian56 11 ай бұрын
He's a coward.
@omphilemathole4450
@omphilemathole4450 6 ай бұрын
Dont confuse ignorance with quietness.
@isidredicus6159
@isidredicus6159 6 ай бұрын
​@@omphilemathole4450 its ignorance...emotional ignorance.
@myishaf3359
@myishaf3359 2 ай бұрын
💯💯
@Onguard8737
@Onguard8737 Ай бұрын
No we can get in trouble. Meanwhile females are not held accountable
@isidredicus6159
@isidredicus6159 6 ай бұрын
Theyre trying to hold onto control when they ignore you...just save yourself the health/ mental issues now and drop him like a hot potato 🤷🏽.
@msj793
@msj793 Жыл бұрын
If f*ck around and find out was a picture it is me. Go ahead and ignore me. My attention is like a light switch. Flip it on and flip it off when no longer needed. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m in therapy
@lesliebarlow5172
@lesliebarlow5172 Жыл бұрын
Well if he wants to move on with something else or someone else then how come he can't step up and say so
@rm5282
@rm5282 Жыл бұрын
A lot of women don't accept rejection well. Men don't want to deal with an out of control person that may end up calling the police on him. Far too many women have used the law to screw up a man's life when he decides he doesn't want them.
@heirofdisa
@heirofdisa Жыл бұрын
@@rm5282 i had a man tell me he hoped i was assaulted because i told him i was not interested. it does go both ways, i think the biggest difference is how law enforcement responds. men are not treated equally: in that, assumptions will be made about men and women can sometimes gain sympathy based on gender.
@rm5282
@rm5282 Жыл бұрын
@@heirofdisa true. I was stationed in Okinawa back in 1990. A woman Marine had relations with a guy and afterwards said he did the R word to her. He was lucky at the time that the Marines weren't like most municipal legal systems. He was actually innocent until the investigation was completed. In the end, it turn out the woman lied. Now, imagine that happening in a civilian environment, that guy would lose everything on the front end without the due process taking is course. I know there are plenty of bad men out there and I hope no one is harmed by them. I just want everyone to get a fair shake.
@heirofdisa
@heirofdisa Жыл бұрын
@@rm5282 like both of us have stated, that's something still in progress. i am glad they looked into that case and protected the man, esp in other cultures that kind of accusation can be the difference between life and death.
@Onguard8737
@Onguard8737 Жыл бұрын
You mean a person you can control.
@bbeautiful6390
@bbeautiful6390 6 ай бұрын
He could be a NARCISSIST nothing you did.🤷🏽‍♂️🤔😔
@brendawilliamsamenkeepthef5805
@brendawilliamsamenkeepthef5805 6 ай бұрын
HE'S IGNORANT IF HE IGNORES ME INSTEAD OF TALKING TO ME AND YES YOUR EXPLANATION IS ABSOLUTELY CORRECT
@smile_nia_
@smile_nia_ Жыл бұрын
Great points. For the most part emotionally immaturity, & lack of emotional intelligence.
@briannall6232
@briannall6232 Жыл бұрын
Just can't be bothered Aka Doesn't want You.
@miracleonyeoma3657
@miracleonyeoma3657 7 ай бұрын
He doesn't want uou anymore
@laoisemeehan
@laoisemeehan 2 ай бұрын
What if he says he wants you badly, ignores for a day or two and then comes back and ignores again? I guess I'm just validation for him?
@saramelle
@saramelle Ай бұрын
​@@laoisemeehan A man who's really interested in you will make it painfully obvious he is. Happened to me. When the guy is truly interested in me I don't even need him to tell me because it is obvious. When he is not or not that much I question myself. Chances are that if you doubt a man's interest in you he is not really interested. I would have moved on a long time ago or continue to talk to him for the fun of it but date other people.
@tiffanyyisrael7989
@tiffanyyisrael7989 Жыл бұрын
Ha! Jokes on him, I'm an Aquarius, detaching is our jam! 😂😂😂
@nikkistahr7105
@nikkistahr7105 3 күн бұрын
😂😂😂🎉 YUP Not sure if it's our super power or toxic trait!! Or both🤣
@marjn1030
@marjn1030 6 ай бұрын
Don't waste your precious TIME figuring out people......MOVE ON. Find others things to do like building a life for yourself and not letting ANYONE STEAL YOUR TIME🙏🏼
@ShazuSofi-fv4xe
@ShazuSofi-fv4xe 11 күн бұрын
And then how can we get the right partner if we avoid every person
@marjn1030
@marjn1030 11 күн бұрын
@@ShazuSofi-fv4xe Read the book of proverbs. Research personal development, Research growth mindset vs scarcity mindset. Work on yourself, love yourself as you love neighbor. Serve others as you work on yourself. Know your Creator proverbs 3:5-6, proverbs 16:2-3, psalms 146. When we humble ourselves and be obedient to God he will build, restore, create renew, protect, cleanse, ect We must be careful of idolizing a man there's greater things God has called us to do but if we are not ready the only thing the man will be is a stumbling block that will cause us to be stagnanted. Read habakkah 2:2 and learn to walk with God. He is your pathway. His word will direct you when you put it and him first. Our soul is like a computer to program and a magnet whatever we have not given to the Lord to mature or deliver us from it's going to show up or attract the same person/people or in our circumstances. Technically we are being prepared to meet God and this earth is temporary. Value and work on yourself, skills and help those around you or on social media and ask God for discernment so you won't be deceived and as you do that he will attract the people worthy to be with as friends, partner, ect🙏🏼🙏🏼
@ShazuSofi-fv4xe
@ShazuSofi-fv4xe 11 күн бұрын
@@marjn1030 ok thnx for writing so much for humanity so sweet of you
@kissmyazzbitches4wat
@kissmyazzbitches4wat 2 күн бұрын
​@@marjn1030 ❤
@thembekadorcaskhumalo866
@thembekadorcaskhumalo866 Ай бұрын
Thinking like that almost got me crazy. They'll usually ignore you when they are busy cheating! So don't worry ladies!
@Cookie-ep7yz
@Cookie-ep7yz Ай бұрын
Withhold your affection and attention and watch me move on. Boom. 😊
@helencoppola3021
@helencoppola3021 Жыл бұрын
Remember, the one who demonstratively ignores you, is the one who pays the most attention to you!
@porschewalker5652
@porschewalker5652 3 ай бұрын
🎯
@daisyflower8362
@daisyflower8362 Ай бұрын
So hes ignoring via behavior but mentally kinda obsessed
@annjones4583
@annjones4583 Жыл бұрын
That's not good. I be glad when men come to the realization that the Women they choose, will respond according to HIS ability to communicate.. When a women switch up? its usually something she's missing from him as well. When we feel pushed away, abandoned and unwanted, we will respond as well and are response is not what he expect, at least for me. Manipulation will get you single fast with me.
@dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
@dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@denisegassama6016
@denisegassama6016 6 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@sharoneh8929
@sharoneh8929 5 ай бұрын
He ignores; not because he cannot communicate. We communicated in the beginning about everything. Now he is inattentive and told he has holding a grudge, but refuses to tell me what it is. So no contact for now. I need a break it can be temporary or permanent. I will decide. I am giving myself some space and time.
@doubletakehighlife
@doubletakehighlife Жыл бұрын
Funny thing men say those say things to women Who express their feelings..... Sometimes they go silent because they can't play you
@Onguard8737
@Onguard8737 Жыл бұрын
You already been played
@sashaclarke2749
@sashaclarke2749 11 ай бұрын
“And you’re free to move about the cabin!”✌🏼
@kimberlymay9497
@kimberlymay9497 2 ай бұрын
😂
@michellelucas7071
@michellelucas7071 Ай бұрын
It’s because he or she wants to ignore you. They either running game, or not interested in you.
@sashaclarke2749
@sashaclarke2749 11 ай бұрын
Na, because I saw how he had no problem communicating with others! This is a lame excuse to have a “pass” for b.s!
@Judy-dv1bg
@Judy-dv1bg 2 ай бұрын
Men are not good at communicating because their brains are different from women's brains.
@Usernpclookinahh
@Usernpclookinahh 6 ай бұрын
They know when to communicate, they choose to stay in a low vibrational state & want their target to accept their bs. Nobody has time for games when it comes to love. I’m guilty for playing games myself but it was never for evil intentions, just not ready or not feeling good enough was the reason but as time goes on, I’m healing from what broke me in the first place. If anyone chooses to play games rather than be upfront, LEAVE THEM ALONE ! They’re not ready or just not simply ready to give you a commitment
@sunnirnDEC
@sunnirnDEC 26 күн бұрын
Give 'em the same energy they give you. I'll enjoy the peace 😂
@lex28lush10
@lex28lush10 Жыл бұрын
Men generally are too complicated to waste too much time n energy... headache .
@ulysses1672
@ulysses1672 Жыл бұрын
Depression is the biggest reason
@daisyflower8362
@daisyflower8362 Ай бұрын
Tell me more please! As in his depression makes him shut down??
@chonkybenetgods
@chonkybenetgods 5 ай бұрын
This also applies to women. If he said something and done something to me, I'll ignore him. If a woman ignores a man, she wants to be chased or to test him if he really likes her enough. And the third reason, she wants to move on because she's been tired giving chances to him. But he still hasn't changed.
@bhagavatilad3268
@bhagavatilad3268 18 күн бұрын
I think I’ve totally blown it with the love of my life he doesn’t even talk or look at me that way anymore
@hulady27
@hulady27 27 күн бұрын
It is unnecessary for adults to ignore other adults....Adults have conversations, they do not need to ignore because they can fully express themselves respectfully.😊😊
@dona_grace
@dona_grace Жыл бұрын
Well he lost out, 5yrs was as long as I could take it
@Resarchaic
@Resarchaic Жыл бұрын
Think about it, you wasted 5 years and you still think he cares🤦🏽‍♂️…
@dona_grace
@dona_grace Жыл бұрын
@@Resarchaic honestly, hard pill but you’re so right and I swallowed it when I walked away, I was already done proving my worth.
@sparklejan3
@sparklejan3 6 ай бұрын
@@dona_graceyou had not heard from him in 5 years?
@gloriavis
@gloriavis 6 ай бұрын
He wont admit he is a liar all u can do is ignore him
@ThemnewKrispys
@ThemnewKrispys Жыл бұрын
If you dont appreciate the attention then u lose it, simple.
@sophiachin1262
@sophiachin1262 6 ай бұрын
He ain't no good. If he ignores you then he don't exist. Nope... closed mouths don't get fed. Well bye. It's bad vibes. Good men give good treatment.. silence is for the grave not for productive living beings. If he acts like he don't know you or don't want you that is a hindering spirit blocking and destroying progress or prosperity together and wasting your time. He just is no good for you. Pray for a proper compatible, expressive, loving spouse and forward in love and joy not hurt and pain. Resistance is futile a man ordained to love, comfort, protect, care and help you go do just that under the Holy Spirit directive if not seek God's resolve. All need a functioning relationship if not it no good.
@Redrose-zc7hj
@Redrose-zc7hj Жыл бұрын
Was with a manipulator, didn't see it coming that he had someone else. Ty ❤️
@arleneaugustahair8393
@arleneaugustahair8393 Жыл бұрын
Nope! Tell me exactly how you feel so we can navigate through things. Holding things inside isn’t going to help anyone. It’s ok to cry or be upset, just not about everything. I don’t even cry or be emotional about everything.
@rm5282
@rm5282 Жыл бұрын
I agree with one and three, I partially agree with two. Some guys try to manipulate women but mostly he is more than likely tire of her antics.
@latanyahall5765
@latanyahall5765 6 ай бұрын
Only a real man will tell her the truth
@Rubbythomas
@Rubbythomas Ай бұрын
4months in trying to understand what went wrong. He just shot down after a little miscommunication. Total silence. He still hasn’t picked up my calls or tex back. When he did he just said I don’t wanna talk. It has nothing to do with u. Guys am I crazy to still want to know … if it’s not abt me then why u can’t even be at least friendly and not just dry silence? Why that attitude towards me.!? Confused. It makes me believe that there is more to that.
@victorianorris1916
@victorianorris1916 11 ай бұрын
All he had to do is say that!! So childish Smh
@user-zh1gh9cb4c
@user-zh1gh9cb4c 6 ай бұрын
He’s 100% on what he saying it also make you a tough guy if you share your feelings for real something will hit u he want you to get back up
@johnhenningfield4360
@johnhenningfield4360 17 күн бұрын
Sometimes people can ruin their own dating experience and it shuts everything down and people don't realize what they did or said, but it happens
@terryA228
@terryA228 6 ай бұрын
He’s insecure & trying to play victim It’s manipulation You’re both adults if he can’t talk it out …. Then walk away !!
@hazelmiller9007
@hazelmiller9007 2 ай бұрын
Oh please somtimes the dog is shameful he can't even look u in the face so he stay silent
@kimberlyhayward7835
@kimberlyhayward7835 Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@shanicrystal8671
@shanicrystal8671 9 күн бұрын
Real
@catherinepridgeon1311
@catherinepridgeon1311 6 ай бұрын
Because I don't care 🤔👍🏾💯🤣🤣🤣
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 6 ай бұрын
Do what works for you
@amandahunter9186
@amandahunter9186 Жыл бұрын
It depends. My boyfriend Freddie always has time for me and I am willing to listen to him because he deserves everything from me
@user-jw1bl4hq9j
@user-jw1bl4hq9j 5 ай бұрын
He is CHEATING .
@mariefloyd6174
@mariefloyd6174 11 ай бұрын
We need our men to grow up. If they're not willing to be coached/molded then there's no need for them to step to us. I really do believe that what we have to choose from concerning most men who fall under this category is only going to get worse. It makes absolutely no sense. It's incredibly aggravating to me as to how vocal that a man can be when he wants something from the woman, but when we want something from him, he's not available.
@gckreplayzjr.1871
@gckreplayzjr.1871 7 ай бұрын
Everything she said!❤❤❤❤❤
@VankoBaby
@VankoBaby 4 ай бұрын
A little insight. If you push me to the point that I don't care anymore you can be sure that you should move on with your life. All the other stuff like blaming and playing games are gone, I just don't want nothing to do with you anymore. Simple as that
@user-su5my7rm1h
@user-su5my7rm1h 6 ай бұрын
Thanks Coach. You alway keep it 💯. That's why I Love You. Communication is key. Man or boy Bye. It's easier to walk . 😊❤
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 6 ай бұрын
Always
@hammond1994
@hammond1994 Жыл бұрын
A man's feelings will be weaponized.
@christopherjameswright9614
@christopherjameswright9614 Жыл бұрын
My nigga preach
@cynthiareynolds1941
@cynthiareynolds1941 Ай бұрын
All of this is so true. I have learned that if a man grew up in a household and he was not able to speak than this is carried from childhood to adulthood. I use to get mad when I ghosted, but I had learned it just wasn’t meant to be. I just moved forward to real men that can speak up. I don’t have time for childish behavior.
@ophrahgrah5002
@ophrahgrah5002 7 ай бұрын
This is something I’m going through now. This guy has had a huge crush on my for months and now I finally excepted my feeling for him. I’ve liked him for 2 months and I showed a little sign I like him and him and his friend laughed. This was last week. This week he didn’t come into the store but walked passed. 2 of his friends came in in the afternoon. As soon as I saw the first one he looked away quickly and was whispering on the phone I had no clue what that was about. The second one came in with a angry kinda look and we locked eyes and that made me laugh and I tried not to and it’s turned into a smile. Then today I saw that same friend who gave me the serious look. He normally comes in to get pastries but this time he didn’t and was texting someone. Then later on I saw the dude I like who likes me, go around the store from the back towards his work place and it made me think what’s that all about. I wasn’t sure if yesterday was a test to see if I was loyal or not before continuing to pursue me or something but I wasn’t checking them out. I look at everyone who comes in the store. And maybe his friend texted him to say oh she’s here don’t walk in front walk around. Like I don’t know if he likes me anymore or not and it’s stressful cuz it takes me a lot of courage to try and talk to someone especially if I like them and today was the day I was going to do that and now look. What do you think?, Please help me 🥺 He used to always be around me and stare like crazy. Now he doesn’t do that as much and I showed him a little that I liked him and that was last week a but now he’s just avoiding coming near the store. Do you think he chose the other girl cuz I’m there was a girl who came in twice just to see who I was and that was it. I think she liked him as well and maybe he decided to choose her. Either way it hearts and I don’t know what to do?
@DIAMONDGIRL57
@DIAMONDGIRL57 3 күн бұрын
I refuse to put up with avoidant immature behaviors.
@hildarendon663
@hildarendon663 Жыл бұрын
Oh! That's Why He Does That....🤔🙄
@user-wu1in6yq8g
@user-wu1in6yq8g Ай бұрын
Hallelujah 🙌 glory be to God always
@Reddrob1
@Reddrob1 Жыл бұрын
This was truly a message I needed! Thanks for sharing
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@anabellelavinamero9374
@anabellelavinamero9374 Ай бұрын
almost man ignores coz his not interested that girl already or he busy chatting other girl flirting his lusty mood
@rhondaprater7361
@rhondaprater7361 6 ай бұрын
That just happened. I said alot cause lm not waiting around. I soooooooagree!! I am better now off for. .that!!!! I want him happy. You are a wizard at your blunt straight no chaser teaching lm loving it!!! Rhonda. Prater . Coach l love your Love &. Relationship sessions!!!! May. Gid bless. Yu.
@maristar2249
@maristar2249 4 күн бұрын
If he ignores me instead of confronting, then he is a coward. He should man up and tell me my mistakes. I am always ready to apologize. No one is perfect, remember that
@isabellamcneish9454
@isabellamcneish9454 16 күн бұрын
Yep he is trying to stay in control it's best to stay silent
@Machenziethemodel
@Machenziethemodel 6 ай бұрын
I’m just staying single.
@Judy-dv1bg
@Judy-dv1bg 2 ай бұрын
Well, this is the most insightful explanation about why a man is pulling away. Other coaches advise women to just walk away, which would end potential good relationships.
@AllThingsFitnessandLifestyle
@AllThingsFitnessandLifestyle Жыл бұрын
What if it’s nothing you’ve said or done?
@dianjohnson7390
@dianjohnson7390 20 күн бұрын
Yeah, he did I blocked and deleted him on the spot 😂😂😂
@MrKing8050
@MrKing8050 4 ай бұрын
Maybe we don't want the women to accuse us of being clingy or getting too attached
@newbergfarms4966
@newbergfarms4966 Жыл бұрын
2 and 3 contradict, and why men use 2 and 3 to there advantage
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын
They don't contradict at all. Change the perspective you are viewing it from and you will see something different
@cassandraturman6308
@cassandraturman6308 Жыл бұрын
Facts everything you said is Truth. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🤴🏿
@Fairgreentube
@Fairgreentube Күн бұрын
They don’t know how to emotionally regulate themselves because he’s right theyre conditioned at a very young age. When you tell male child that they are weak for complaining, you’re not validating their emotional needs. What you’re doing is you’re causing them to Harbor resentment. What did they do? They adopt the world, owes me mentality, and they bring it with them into adulthood and unlike women who normally choose to be more overtly narcissistic. The men choose to be covertly, narcissistic. Covert narcissists are passive aggressive and that’s exactly what this is. It is an insecure attachment, personality style associated with dismissive avoidant attachment, personality style. They dismiss you basically. If these people choose not to work on themselves, become more self-aware and take more accountability they will not change from that. They will continue to cycle for the rest of your lives. If you are with a secure, attach personality style, they will tell you exactly what they think in a assertive way not in a aggressive way. The reason we choose not to date the insecure personalities is because for one there’s a lot more out there than there are secure attachment personality styles. When we do run into a secure attachment personality style we normally feel awkward because they seem boring and agreeable. We have no chemistry is what we normally say. Chemistry is sexual desire. Sexual desire, trumps emotional intelligence. Until we become secure ourselves we too will continue to go after the insecure attachment personality styles also.
@Gg-rssystG8
@Gg-rssystG8 Жыл бұрын
Such good input thank you.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@sandragilmore7716
@sandragilmore7716 6 ай бұрын
Ok bye than. I don’t beg no man !
@kendramonroe5666
@kendramonroe5666 Жыл бұрын
Come on coach!!! You’re preparing me for it all!!! ☮️✨🌸
@MegaLadylove2012
@MegaLadylove2012 29 күн бұрын
There’s a dude whom idk wat to called this. He might be a friend but he’s a vet and heavily into his career. Has helped me a lot with a lot of financial resources etc., like rebuilding my credit etc., He recently posted abt a time he nearly did somethin crazy and I commented ‘sheesh… who made u so angry?’ I send a msg askin for help abt and I noticed this time he didn’t respond. He usually responds quickly to my inquiries but not this time. I sensed hm maybe I hit a nerve or didn’t seem supportive but tht wast my intensions. The topic was dark and a lot of ppl were commenting somethin heavy and I thought, eh let’s laugh and move on. But cool if he does. Cool if he doesn’t. I sensed he maybe going thru somethings and reflecting heavily. I cared but not too much to get all involved. Hope he gets well. This could be why he’s ignoring me
@Rollyax
@Rollyax 9 ай бұрын
Sometimes we just don’t know what to say or don’t feel in the right mood so we delay our answer because we don’t wanna say something dumb.
@cherylconley6733
@cherylconley6733 Жыл бұрын
Baby he done moved on while I sit and wait anyone can have a hoa it takes someone specail to have a good faithful woman
@mizzbellasofly
@mizzbellasofly 24 күн бұрын
We have too many suitors to be worried bout 1 fool. I have so many broken 💔 hearted men out there by trying to play these manipulative tactics. A dude gave me silence for 8 days, and he came back, and I was with someone else. LOL 😆 he's sick right now 😂😂😂 Play stupid games ........Win stupid prizes 🤷🏽‍♀️
@jeriforbes8747
@jeriforbes8747 3 күн бұрын
People say move on.Not so easy when you share the same household and expenses. Life is hard right now, and many just can't leap out into another place. Things are really expensive. Know one said life would be easy so you stay or become homeless...
@sarahwoodyard6533
@sarahwoodyard6533 6 ай бұрын
Or.... he is incapable of hearing ouch that hurts.
@maggiebrown1919
@maggiebrown1919 Ай бұрын
This is why I don’t date.. you’re darned if you do and darned if you don’t 😢… I’m just tired of it all
@MsVMScorp
@MsVMScorp 11 ай бұрын
Or it may just be him
@Healerslightnlove
@Healerslightnlove 4 күн бұрын
I can respect number one. That itself is a learning lesson. However the two and three….reasons are for mental manipulation and lack of maturity.
@kristie5576
@kristie5576 Жыл бұрын
It's sounds like he is talking about me. But I'm not a man. This is not just men. And it's not for an outcome from my husband I'm just not a communicator. I hate drama or arguing. So I just go quiet and pray on it. Eventually it works it self out. And 33 years later. Same circle.
@ireneanderson859
@ireneanderson859 Жыл бұрын
Lol, so many women do those same things and think it is ok. So to them if your man does what you do to him, how does it feel. Just be real
@rhondacummings
@rhondacummings 24 күн бұрын
Thank you for the clarification.
@newbergfarms4966
@newbergfarms4966 Жыл бұрын
But your spot on
@mzsunshine04
@mzsunshine04 6 күн бұрын
If he continues to do these 3 things, he'll probably continue to have failed relationships .
@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp
@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp 15 күн бұрын
That is some great three-point sir I like it keep doing more videos like this about a man does I love it 💘🙏😻💘🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sandrabendt3691
@sandrabendt3691 8 күн бұрын
It’s the same for women goes both ways it’s people
@marybrown6252
@marybrown6252 9 күн бұрын
Sometimes they have something that they want to do.
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