Why does the person who loves more always gets hurt🥺#ytshorts #youtubeshorts #shorts #motivation #lifequotes Speaker: Sadia Khan
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@jeanwiler371911 ай бұрын
Yes we’re chasing a feeling, not a person. So so true!
@IGIG-m4u11 ай бұрын
Yet if the woman neglects her man’s need for sexual attention, and her man cheats somehow the man is in the wrong. But if a woman cheats for not being called beautiful the woman is in the right? That’s why women don’t deserve men anymore, the women just want to consume life from men and cheat on him if he doesn’t let her suck his energy from him.
@margiecruz107711 ай бұрын
That was the line that hit my truth.
@sameera346911 ай бұрын
Agree
@aripa809311 ай бұрын
No wonder I never had a type
@Leaf21911 ай бұрын
So a liar manipulator. Guess girls never grow up
@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau11 ай бұрын
The secret of a good relationship is to treat each other like you are still dating. Never take the other person for granted. ❤
@skylana9911 ай бұрын
Agree.....Treat your partner the way you want them to treat you. ❤
@Holisticfive11 ай бұрын
Dating??? You're not in High school when you're 70 or 80. It's about commitment not about Disney love
@Holisticfive11 ай бұрын
People are addicted to toxic love
@esterriesparabe11 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELLY, I AGREE 100% I always believed that if you are present and you apreciate what you have and who you are with in a daily basis, it is always like new . It is a shame when in a partnership, only one of the too does it, because is unvalanced and the on that is more present will suffeer and feel alone and unapreciated....
@skylana9911 ай бұрын
@@Holisticfive I think people have just learned to accept the love they think they deserve so in order to find better love yiu have to love yourself better first. Because you can't give someone something you don't have and you usually end up receiving what you're giving.
@eniolabaki385010 ай бұрын
“Unfortunately all it takes is one man to give a little bit of attention…” is crazy to me as a woman. The world is messed up today because we glorify “our feelings” above the truth and bare respect. You don’t eat dog shit because you are starved!
@thisweekinternational770210 ай бұрын
The sanest comment out here, in my opinion.
@FOH4510 ай бұрын
most will and then rationalize it
@vishalchoudhary571710 ай бұрын
If only every woman had that same mentality there would be no cheating happening today and at the same time man has to understand that he has to convey his emotions to his women
@umhummumum10 ай бұрын
said it like a true lady ,🤍
@penultimania429510 ай бұрын
except comparing it to dog shit is not accurate. You would eat a rat if you were starving, instead of your regular steak.
@matussafarik95237 ай бұрын
“Its a feeling she’s chasing, not a person”. Hits hard
@annadonahue411922 күн бұрын
Yes
@ayushighosh2011 ай бұрын
Men do not understand how "You are so cute" or "you are so beautiful" can melt his partner's heart... Can't explain.. You'll forget everything and start blushing and feel loved not because of the compliment but because HE finds you as that.❤ Update: From the comments, I would like to clarify again that it's not the compliment that makes you blush, it's not a random man/woman saying it to you will necessarily make you blush. It's the person you are in love with and who's in love with you. Relationship is a very practical thing, but simple things like these keep the Romance aspect of it alive.
@tiashepherd404211 ай бұрын
So true I love it
@JessicaColwart-jd6ej11 ай бұрын
Or listens to your opinion and tells you how smart you are. I don't want to always hear I'm pretty or sexy. That's just good genes, but I worked hard on my intelligence.
@tahmeedmazumder687711 ай бұрын
Doesnt work. Unless she wants you. Makes you feel even more defeated cause you said those words with all the love you had in every fiber of your being and it meant nothing
@_sadaf_11 ай бұрын
@@JessicaColwart-jd6ejexactly, how to let him know this🥺🥺
@JessicaColwart-jd6ej11 ай бұрын
@@_sadaf_ stop prioritizing him and start working on you. If he don't see it then he ain't the one, he's just a lesson
@fasmsoomar215010 ай бұрын
Why can’t we just appreciate the person we have by our side, cherish him/her and grow old together ❤
@AshwaniDevMishra-xr9yj10 ай бұрын
Are you single ? Please reply ❤❤❤
@i.a.-infiniteawareness499110 ай бұрын
💚👍
@AnitaKumari10 ай бұрын
Because that is boring! And to do it for 20 years or so is very hard. Edit: So, work on keeping the spark alive, don't change partner.
@AshwaniDevMishra-xr9yj10 ай бұрын
@@AnitaKumari hello Anita ji I want to have some boring time with you. Are you interested?
@your_average_joe578110 ай бұрын
Men are so desperate and women are narcissists ✅
@brucemolina629110 ай бұрын
If the man leaves/cheats, it’s his fault. If the woman leaves/cheats, it’s his fault. Sounds like equality to me.
@DontTestMeAtall10 ай бұрын
Exactly! One half of the message is a terrible message and yet people here in total agreement without understanding the downside of the half of that comment.
@CarecaRusso10 ай бұрын
Narcisists....
@brucemolina629110 ай бұрын
@@CarecaRusso I can’t help it though
@MMOfreakOUT110 ай бұрын
Well, it is the excuse they use when their man comes home from Afghanistan.. "you weren't giving me any attention! I needed manly touch!"
@RandomUser1332410 ай бұрын
She never said its his fault😂 I have literally heard men say cheating is the worst thing a woman can do but when a men cheats its fine because he doesnt get emotionally attached. Single mothers are shamed even though the man left. Literally every time i see a happy couple post something there are hundreds of comments saying she probably cheats💀 Cheating is never okay gender doesnt matter. Go to any "alpha men" podcast, there are hundreds of them, and what you will find is 100 times worse than this and i dont see any men there complaining about mysogony or inequality there
@OrchidTingz6 ай бұрын
This is so true that is why healing and developing good mental health and discipline is so important so that you can fortify yourself best you can because that temptation is very common and challenging to overcome!
@emeraldwagner81953 ай бұрын
Wtf what temptation. When me and my man go through a rough time we talk about it like adults and deal with the issue. Why tf would you look at another dude and b like 🫦 omg I can’t resist the urge to frickin cheat. Ridiculous. Wake tf up girl and change yourself
@Kam_Davis11 ай бұрын
I agree with this ohhh so much. This was literally me. My husband even cheated , I took him back because I loved him so hard, so much and I wanted the marriage, white picket fence dream. He never told me he loved me or I looked nice. His eyes were roaming, giving other women attention, even at office parties or outings. Fast forward to almost turning 40 after spending over jeesh 20 years with this man, I was done. And yes, someone else had caught my eye before we divorced. We had already separated, but still , after years of him not seeing me- it was not hard to walk away. There was no 50/50. I was giving giving oh so much, and when your person can’t even make time for you, say you look nice, say I love you- well, those are years I wasted waiting..
@scenery732811 ай бұрын
Can’t imagine how much that hurt you. Glad you are with someone now that knows your worth
@emmamorales969811 ай бұрын
Sounds like your man was chasing. Obviously insecurities no self-confidence chasing a void. Any time they need to cheat on a significant other or spouse they have weak traits and will not change unless they seek help/therapy 😞. Sounds like you wasted many waiting for a man who was not worth waiting for. Hope you have found happiness within yourself or with someone special ❤❤
@IGIG-m4u11 ай бұрын
That’s why they really need to change the marriage promise of “for better or worse” into “I will stay married to you unless you cheat on me or make me unhappy” because that’s truly what every marriage is about, for everyone. Marriage is never about staying married unconditionally like the marriage ceremony attempts to sell. Marriage is always about staying married unless the other person cheats on you or makes you unhappy. Glad you left your husband but why even get married anymore if marriage means absolutely nothing when your spouse could still cheat on you or still make you unhappy in marriage. No more marriages should be happening. Marriage is a way to pay the government. And marriage is only a couple hundred years old but has been sold so well that it’s now considered a right of passage into adulthood, for both men & women. You didn’t waste years being married you were a victim of being sold “getting married.” People who stay married for life will tell you they were not always happy throughout life but they stayed together anyway. And after talking to so many lifelong couples I truly believe they all stayed together because neither had energy or confidence to enter the dating scene again, and upon entering older age their lives together became a matter of convenience. Basically, nobody has a fairytale marriage but we are sold such ideas in movies and such. We all know every young person thinks that marriage means they’ll be happy every second of everyday for the rest of their lives. Not until they get older do they realize marriage wasn’t what they’ve been sold that marriage was. Young men think marriage means crazy good sex everyday. Young women think marriage means crazy good attention from their husband everyday. Society’s older adults must stop lying to young people that marriage is a dream come true or that it’s a fairytale come true.
@Kam_Davis11 ай бұрын
@@emmamorales9698 thank you, you’re so sweet! I did learn to love myself, that was a huge lesson for me, and to accept nothing less than what I know I need. I’m not high maintenance, such a simple girl.. sit by the fireplace in winter, decorate for the holidays with me.. enjoy nice walks.. he’s out there but maybe God is saying hold up girl, your still not ready to trust and give ! Sending hugs 🤗 and love ❤️!!!!
@ahanamarysebastian680111 ай бұрын
I’m just in 2.6 y of marriage but this is my husband now. I feel you I know how it feels. Unfortunately I don’t even look at other guys who offered me everything I’m still blind knowing that I’m in dark.
@Vegan_Fairy_x11 ай бұрын
After watching this I balled my eyes out over all the men I have ever been with, I have only just realised how hurt I still am, I haven’t cried so much about it until now. I have met so many cruel men and stayed with them for too long. To anyone reading this, you are worthy of so much love, never ever let anyone tell you otherwise. Do not stay with someone who doesn’t make you feel loved or appreciated. I have wasted so many years trying to please men that were never satisfied, no matter what I did. It is draining, excruciating and a waste of precious time. I am no longer dating but focusing on building the life I want. The right guy will show up. Please don’t make the same mistake I did. It’s hard when you really love someone, I know, but the longer you stay the harder it gets, and love itself isn’t enough. When you find the one you’ll know. Don’t lower you standards out if fear that you won’t find better. You will.
@JackieSkellington11 ай бұрын
It took me three bad LTRs before I married my love, at age 54!
@LuvableAF11 ай бұрын
I am on this earth for abuse. That is IT.
@JackieSkellington11 ай бұрын
@@LuvableAF no, dear Please get a good therapist
@LuvableAF11 ай бұрын
I can't. The guy claiming he loves me took all my money.@@JackieSkellington
@pavlatkacikova781311 ай бұрын
You Are absolutly RIGHT!!!
@Keewi311 ай бұрын
True, been with my hubby over 20 years and he tells me he loves me and how much of a great mother I am to our children everyday, how beautiful I am (even when I don't think so), makes iced coffee every morning, very affectionate, and so much more. It's the little things that I appreciate.
@charlesadams827910 ай бұрын
be thankful for that and above all, seek The Lord with Him and your children- you will be blessed. Read Matthew 5-7 and John 14-15 (and obviously the rest of The Bible, but this is a good start)
@Bro.ŽO10 ай бұрын
most of men will tell that if you are good woman. Your husband tells you that because you are good
@simshengvue579910 ай бұрын
You need to reciprocate or you are just a narcissist
@Keewi310 ай бұрын
@simshengvue5799 get a life troll and quit making assumptions off of strangers you know nothing about off the net.
@kunalkumar271710 ай бұрын
@@simshengvue5799most of these females are though. They just want love, care and attention, and in turn they assume men to be robots.
@acool59245 ай бұрын
Feelings comes and go, loyalty is forever.
@tobe-you-tube661223 күн бұрын
Absolutely not. No one owns you loyalty if you're a jerk
@harry-rt2xl23 күн бұрын
Feelings comes and go, loyalty is forever.
@Edoardo.F11 ай бұрын
Ive been starved of attention. God made it so, in the beginning i had withdrawals and it made me feel unseen and I had to go to a place of healing. You see, ultimately the attention you receive from your partner is a bonus, and yes it feels nice.But that feeling you get needs to be a constant foundation you have within urself, for yourself and from you creator our father. That way you are always secure whenever you partner is in a state/phase where they cannot give or completely seize to give you that special attention. God is amazing, turn to him and find treasures and healing like no one or nothing can give you!! ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH❤
@bernitacenteno132611 ай бұрын
You said a lot for yourself, but your words were chaotic to me. Sorry 😢. I get it though, as you attempted to tell about your healing and God.
@K777angel11 ай бұрын
Thank you
@K777angel11 ай бұрын
@@bernitacenteno1326she is saying God fills that need to be loved and seen so that you're not so dependant on your partner to meet that need. She is saying is icing on the cake. It's a bonus, but because God is meeting your deepest needs you can still exist and be strong until your partner gets their crap together.
@K777angel11 ай бұрын
@@bernitacenteno1326Ella dice cuando Dios es todo, Él es el fuerce tú necesitas. Más que todo
@enjoywarmwinters11 ай бұрын
Wow that was so beautifully said. God does provide us with all we need, we have to trust in him and allow it.
@emacwakeup11 ай бұрын
This is why it's important to love yourself the most
@lajefa144011 ай бұрын
this isn't about how much the woman loving herself. this is about conscious effort. it counts regardless of how confident the woman is about her appearance.
@ambersoria11 ай бұрын
@@lajefa1440 Loving yourself is a key component, but If you’re insecure, you’re gonna be needy. Realistically not all men will be able to meet these toxic expectations, and if these women are insecure, then they shouldn’t be in a relationship in the first place. In the end both will get hurt.
@ambersoria11 ай бұрын
@@lajefa1440conscious effort totally counts regardless though. It’s appreciated either way and it’s an added bonus if it’s done right
@Ihavehadmanynames777911 ай бұрын
They dont love themselves that’s the thing lol they know they are demons
@MarinaPerla911 ай бұрын
@@lajefa1440nah bro if u love yourself it doesn’t matter if other ppl give u attention cus u love yourself regardless
@CarmenElRose11 ай бұрын
It goes both ways. Basically, let's cherish each other.
@BornOfSovngarde10 ай бұрын
Girls are stupid
@karl857610 ай бұрын
No it’s not, women are slaves to their emotions and addicted to feelings. They need that rollercoaster and drama otherwise they‘ll get bored.
@tonisilvennoinen927710 ай бұрын
Was thinking the same, thank you.
@empressstaceyjackson537510 ай бұрын
❤
@karl857610 ай бұрын
@@tonisilvennoinen9277 you’re welcome
@lioness68536 ай бұрын
This is why VALIDATING YOURSELF is so so important! Because when you validate yourself, you stay true to yourself. When you stay true to yourself, you respect yourself. And that is why you don't go against your own values, you simply leave the table when love is no longer served. This goes for both women and men.
@husainalkhuzaie10 ай бұрын
My mother is from Bahrain, she cares about my dad regardless of those examples, even when my dad got into an accident and couldn’t walk. She worked and remained loyal. A good woman is good, regardless of such situations.
@goldieswitzerlox10 ай бұрын
Well said, a good woman is not an American one more than probably.
@elim702610 ай бұрын
That's not the point. She said lack of attention, not turn disabled.
@S.Moon111110 ай бұрын
@@elim7026Touché
@averageguy730310 ай бұрын
Loyal is loyal, no excuses. Forever is forever no excuses reciprocate through good and bad . Never break that bond . Team work communication trust transparency.
@MiViLiX10 ай бұрын
@@elim7026tch. How very insensitive. Shame on you
@MrMonkeyCheater8 ай бұрын
Stay loyal and communicate! Don't go for others. First end relationship, then go for others.
@lynnewint31127 ай бұрын
Some people doesn't do that though, because they think everything is replaceable in this world
@Polyglot8o57 ай бұрын
My ex never ended the relationship. She just ghosted me acted as if I never existed. I was so worried something happened to her but nope she saw my messages of me texting her if she’s ok and she blocked me.
@QueenIsabella7777 ай бұрын
At that point, if the man isn’t giving you attention he’s also not going to care about your needs obviously. Even if she said something , he would probably not just change. This is asking for a woman to have the same rational power as a man - and this is the main message here - women are driven by their feelings. You can never change that that’s what makes us women. As a man you have the power to keep your woman in a good state and responsive the way you want. But when you don’t give her attention she can’t really rationalize her feelings (all of the time), some women do - the ones that are at the level of not damaging themselves over something others did - but most of the time if you’re really emotionally involved which all women are , you will lose it.
@GigaNetBoy6 ай бұрын
Remember, that does not work cause she will only completely leave you as soon as she has the "assurance" she is secure with the other dude.
@sandrawelch48936 ай бұрын
Go towards the Lord Jesus Christ he's the only one that gives you full love and attention you can't get it from your biological father any boyfriend what wasted time... Please seek the Lord Jesus Christ and he will satisfy our desires thank you Amen!
@oliverjo19958 ай бұрын
It definitely goes both ways. Men need to make their women feel like queens and loved and adored, and women need to make their men feel like kings and respected
@joannestennett488 ай бұрын
Absolutely this ❤
@4real4real-cf1ii8 ай бұрын
Yes
@thisisarmando83938 ай бұрын
It goes both ways yes but men do not want to be treated like a "king and respected" by their women. Men want her feminine energy not respect. Men want respect from other men. Women want a feeling, men want beauty and feminine energy. It's actually harder for men not to cheat as a beautiful woman can walk into a room and the man can easily fall in love but for a woman to fall in love she must spend some time with this man so he gives her this "feeling" she desires. This is why the stats don't lie, men cheat more than women but you cannot treat a man with respect you have to show him your feminine energy and that's including a woman's wicked (b××chy) side as that's what he craves everything womanly and feminine.
@meditationandrelaxationmot61218 ай бұрын
Yes‼️
@cassandrahayes7008 ай бұрын
I completely agree.
@Thewanderingwalter6 ай бұрын
My girl is always trully loved respected and given affection
@spoonypoon799811 ай бұрын
100% true! My friend and I walked by a bunch of gorgeous guys and she said did you see all those guys and I said no.. where? That's when I knew I was in love with my boyfriend at the time who became my husband. I didn't even see any of the guys walking by.
@lesismore4911 ай бұрын
My boyfriend can’t understand this. He says I can check out guys if I want because he can appreciate some other beautiful woman. I tell him I don’t see other men at all. They might as well be a mailbox or a light post. They don’t catch my attention or attraction at all.
@jermaphobic830811 ай бұрын
If you didn’t see them how could you tell us this story?
@moiseadjani329811 ай бұрын
@@jermaphobic8308did you even read what she said?
@spoonypoon799811 ай бұрын
@@jermaphobic8308 Because after she asked me if I saw them I turned around and looked.. Then I saw them...
@jermaphobic830811 ай бұрын
@@spoonypoon7998 yeah I know I was just being facetious lol
@gabrielakarl385911 ай бұрын
Sadly so true....after 7 years of marriage, neglected physically and emotionally..bagging him for it, I finally ran for it in the first person betraying him and my beliefs. I will never judge again. A woman will never leave a man unless things are terribly wrong and she had already tried for a long time.
@faith101011 ай бұрын
Not true
@LuxLucis_11 ай бұрын
I will never judge divorce again. I know how it hurts when you feel lonely in couple.
@Beanboi222511 ай бұрын
Why don’t you just divorce him if you were unhappy instead of betrayal?
@irisrodriguez.11 ай бұрын
I hope all the people in this comment section has gone through it. That take the time to just come to judge someone you don't know. 😒
@pettylilthing11 ай бұрын
Girl 💀 you should take more ownership for your own actions. I understand he wasn’t treating you right, but you could have just left instead of lowering yourself to that level.
@mandiac153211 ай бұрын
So true! Speaking from experience… Was 10yrs together wth babies and things get dull and comfortable and this can really happen. But if ur soulmates and can communicate it will work out. Communication is key!! Here we are 25 yrs later!
@MaxineShaw-de7bh7 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@gina9136 ай бұрын
Sad but true 😔
@Key_111111 ай бұрын
This is why men say when women cheat it's worse. Because it's true. Your relationship has been dead long before she cheated and it's entirely too late to fix it.
@bluefalcon172811 ай бұрын
Same when men cheat.
@miyangtangwan704611 ай бұрын
They say it is worse but it is mostly preventable. They just choose to ignore the signs until it's too late.
@Key_111111 ай бұрын
@miyangtangwan7046 Yeah exactly! That's the part they're not getting. They don't care enough so by the time she cheats it's too late.
@darthmoovius497111 ай бұрын
That's a lie it's just as evil both ends
@Key_111111 ай бұрын
@darthmoovius4971 You're not getting the point. Obviously cheating is bad, but motive makes a difference.
@jeanettemccoy763610 ай бұрын
I was starved for and thirst for tooooooo long.. I had blinders on for any other MAN out of love and respect. I prayed every day to get my heart back!! God answered my prayers. Loving myself turned me inward and upward.
@naya2468110 ай бұрын
You really don't need the love of others who will hurt you know that your loved by your Creator who blessed you with life God has always loved you God loves you first and will forever love you if you look for love from other then prepare yourself with a lot of pain but the love you get from God is forever there and the love you give yourself will help you grown to love yourself remember no one will love you like God and your parents and yourself..I pray that you see the love that you're looking for has always been around you and that you can love yourself more than a man or anyone else can love you....
@ladyfxllc10 ай бұрын
@@naya24681❤❤❤
@ForeverTogether2199 ай бұрын
@@naya24681 You both can love God together n share prayer time n God adores your praise.. It would be wonderful singing hymns together with your soulmate n Praising God n feel the Holy Spirit… That’s the ultimate… It’s the best feeling n sharing that together will increase your love for God n each Other🙏🙏🙏🙏💯
@Skyscraper20159 ай бұрын
Uh you love yourself already. What do you mean?
@ForeverTogether2199 ай бұрын
@@Skyscraper2015 I love myself enough to prepare for a Leap of Faith to spend the Rest of My Life with A Sweet Man who’s Heart is Bigger than Mine.. Merry Christmas Skyscraper
@angietblisstravels11 ай бұрын
A narcissistic unfaithful man will lie to your face, tell you he loves you and your beautiful to keep you all the while he’s cheating on you, this has been my experience….
@JeremyYu-r8g11 ай бұрын
Just move on and try other men
@QueenDee10111 ай бұрын
Same
@stevendalloesingh11 ай бұрын
It's always the mans fault, you didn't do anything to drive him into another woman, literally? Do you go to the gym, are you younger than 30 and older than 23? Are you atleast 5.5"? Do you cook? Clean? Good listener? Do you keep your nagging and whining to a minimum? Do you resp3ct him?
@hailiniallapanna11 ай бұрын
@@stevendalloesinghso we have to be perfect in order for you to stay loyal but we have to stay loyal despite you being 5’8, obese, wrinkly and bald?
@stevendalloesingh11 ай бұрын
@@hailiniallapanna I understand that an argument here and there are a sign of a healthy communicative relationship, but I'm 5.9 barefoot! Wrinkles are inevitable, sooner accepted, the better. Crowsfeet means you love laughing, that's healthy!
@francesbeth20777 ай бұрын
When someone doesnt respect your relationship, they think they have the liberty to say anything they want, they never appreciated you or valued you. You shouldn't have to love yourself in order to be loved. You should love each other.
@rosemarietolentino32189 ай бұрын
The one who is in love puts the other first. The one who is not in love puts themselves first.
@pumpdump42749 ай бұрын
Facts. Cheating is a selfish act.
@beepbop4168 ай бұрын
@@pumpdump4274has nothing to do with cheating rn
@MisterBrewer8 ай бұрын
Or they are a narcissist
@kishat92008 ай бұрын
Ewwww yes i feel stupid seeing all this i lost myself treated my two girls at a low vibration one my child one his after i snapped out of stupidity all these years later i had to apologize to my two girls like I’m so sorry i was putting him over everything and didn’t see y’all when y’all needed me most. Ugh shit is wack
@ReggieRorick8 ай бұрын
idk if i agree with this because if you do it to much and be a people pleaser then woman wont respect you. ill agree 50% with you on this
@huntersage190310 ай бұрын
Selfish love isn't love. Selfless love is actual love.
@whiterodman10 ай бұрын
💯
@FranzCev10 ай бұрын
There is no such thing as selfless love in a romantic relationship
@jaredloveys961710 ай бұрын
@FranzCev says who 😂
@terry922010 ай бұрын
Love is action not a feeling
@andoverb130710 ай бұрын
This lady is full of crap. She is condoning cheating. Almost every woman gets attention of a man every day, so no it doesnt take just one man to give her attention, she is looking for a specific high value man to give her attention to fill the void. Lady let me tell you the same thing can happen with a man. Most men are starved of sexual attention from their very own women but they are living with it and guess what a zero woman is giving sexual attention to a man who is sexually starved. Guess where are all the ladies? They are attending a man who has tons of sexual attention. I have watched hundreds of content makers not sure why this lady annoys me so much. Oh I know why because she is so ignorant.
@Stanleyyelnats77510 ай бұрын
Chasing a feeling, not a person. Sounds like a reliable person 👍🏼
@braennbart10 ай бұрын
What a horrible mindset, no accountability or integrity in sight
@Ringerofthelie10 ай бұрын
Women are addicted to feelings and can't control their own
@waddakno964410 ай бұрын
Remember fellas. If a women isn’t toppin you on the regular… it’s okay to leave if someone else comes along & does it for her. Equality :)
@heatingandairbender885710 ай бұрын
Loving a modwrn woman is basically like ingesting a slow acting poison at this point. 👍
@andv99310 ай бұрын
@@braennbart it's not horrible, it's feminine
@VioletBlue-q8v23 күн бұрын
💯% TRUE. Couldn't agree more
@julieseward138510 ай бұрын
This goes for everyone! No matter the gender. Tell your partner what you need and meet his needs! 30 years married here, raised 4 kids... marriage is like a nice car. Keep it clean, serviced, protected, and babied
@successmaharjan29069 ай бұрын
❤
@ValVanee9 ай бұрын
Babied?
@rol4079 ай бұрын
I'm deprived of all kinds of attention due traumas I can't get any
@Veronica-wg4zl9 ай бұрын
That's so true!
@ireneandrews64869 ай бұрын
So true, both ways, ❤
@Anonymous_Ali0110 ай бұрын
"Respect women not bitches" Thomas Shelby
@rene375910 ай бұрын
Respect humans and treat them with dignity. Thomas shelby is a psycho criminal character who is a horrible person who does not deserve any respect. It says a lot about you to take advice from a trashy make character. All women are women wether you like them or not. Your behaviour towards other human being is a reflection of your inner self. And men call ANY women wo displeases them in any way slurs. Alot I'd men do kt know even what it is to respect, love or honour any type of woman being they have an ego the size of alaska, suffer from narssistic traits and have a superiority complex towards women. They only time they maybe tolerate women is when women are serving them but even then they can and wool treat women with disrespectful behaviour and words just to "put them in their place" just pure sadistic egomaniac behaviour.
@noneofyourbuizness10 ай бұрын
May Allah guide you
@mamatronic96310 ай бұрын
By order of the picky blinders !!!!
@ibrahim_-_-_10 ай бұрын
@@noneofyourbuiznesshe’s right tho
@chrzig55410 ай бұрын
Men can be Bitches too...
@99avilyssa11 ай бұрын
Once you love yourself you don’t need attention from anyone. Took a while but I’m here
@spiritualawakening-manifest11 ай бұрын
Absolutely. That's my point too
@theirishsaint432411 ай бұрын
Yeah. I’m trying to figure out if this woman is excusing cheating but can’t really make that determination on such a short clip
@GhosstLY96111 ай бұрын
@@theirishsaint4324 no bro, she is partly correct. If you’re not giving women time and attention, then trust me someone else will. And it’s only a matter of time before she goes looking for it.
@theirishsaint432411 ай бұрын
@@GhosstLY961 well I would agree to an extent as long as she’s willing to admit men shouldn’t live in sexless marriages either.
@GhosstLY96111 ай бұрын
@@theirishsaint4324 that’s true. Women want attention and men want sex. Fair exchange in my opinion. However men’s needs do seem to be looked down nowadays, whereas women’s it’s seen as a priority.
@kool38843 ай бұрын
You’re not kids, you’re adults; communication is key!
@BillyCook-m3i3 ай бұрын
How can you communicate when you never get that time with them
@trichmomma11 ай бұрын
16 yrs. Starved of even affection the money didnt fill the void. I didn't cheat I asked for a divorce. No alimony, no child support, awesome coparenting situation, he pays my bills while I go back to school. He has the kids when school is too hectic. Open door policies. Our business was his dream, its still his I'm no longer with his company. Im omw to becoming a DPT, that's my dream. I'd have to say we are both happy and our kids too. Rare but divorce doesn't have to be drama filled.
@lindacasey501611 ай бұрын
What you describe sounds so empty, but you made the most of it. I hope you're able to date in a way that suits you so you can experience epic closeness to another. You may with your kids already. That counts but it's different. Even if you're not interested in a significant other, that's cool too. I did want to say, I tip my hat to you for focusing on what you needed to build. And exercising care not to pursue destruction. I don't see this enough❤
@srikrishnavasanth389511 ай бұрын
You can ask for divorce but you can't say you need attention and care. I can't empathize when you can't even take minimum responsibility towards your communication.
@Snowhite-tx4sm11 ай бұрын
I can see the emptiness even in how u wrote. I'm so sorry.
@Mmmmkaaay11 ай бұрын
@@srikrishnavasanth3895I'm pretty sure she told him what her needs were. I certainly told my husband what my needs were and he didn't give a shit so now he's an ex.
@lilianamunoz300311 ай бұрын
@trichmomma Im in this situation right now except I don’t want to go back to school. I guess I will just suck it up.
@reneecrotty691011 ай бұрын
I know a guy who didn't want to tell his woman that she was beautiful because he didn't want her to "get a big head"... well yeah she left him and he is still clueless. Her new boyfriend tells her how beautiful she is all the time and she is full of joy and love for him
@IGIG-m4u11 ай бұрын
Yet if the woman neglects her man’s need for sexual attention, and her man cheats somehow the man is in the wrong. But if a woman cheats for not being called beautiful the woman is in the right? That’s why women don’t deserve men anymore, the women just want to consume life from men and cheat on him if he doesn’t let her suck his energy from him
@skincarerainbow495011 ай бұрын
I don't know about her, but you are definitely definitely beautiful ❤
@maceyr.658311 ай бұрын
This is my situation. Omygosh.
@sleepyjavanlangur11 ай бұрын
Sounds like he was an insecure loser.
@reneecrotty691011 ай бұрын
@@skincarerainbow4950aww thank you beautiful! You too!
@Jw-ev3kf10 ай бұрын
gave a woman everything told her daily she was great, showed love and compassion comforted her when she lost her job worked extra hours for her to back to school even did all laundry/ dishes supported her daily and she still cheated on me
@ivanklimovich665610 ай бұрын
That’s a different situation. Can’t you see😂
@terry922010 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that unfortunately this is to common story
@claytonmartin47610 ай бұрын
She disired to cheat and become a whore
@MarkLong-o9z10 ай бұрын
These evil monsters don't care bro , that's why u don't go above and beyond for not 1 of them
@hyyhenthusiast10 ай бұрын
She was a bad woman not a good woman turned bad
@angieramirez66126 ай бұрын
So true… long term marriages suffer those consequences the most. Humans must hear things sometimes to feel loved and appreciated… but it becomes a habbit to not even show gratitude towards one another for even the breakfast we make everyday. The getting up and cleaning everyday… the going to work for the family everyday even when the body aches, heart hurts, and mind is a mess. A simple thank you, I love you, I get you, you are amazingly beautiful to me, you mean the world to me means more than a you are so pretty everyday.
@teresawatson903211 ай бұрын
Sooo true!! All I need is for a man to make me feel special and loved consistently and I will follow him to the ends of the earth.
@herikaniugu11 ай бұрын
Men*
@nicktincher126011 ай бұрын
That shit takes away more effort than you think. “All I need” is a fucking LOT.
@teresawatson903211 ай бұрын
@@nicktincher1260 Well for me all it takes is for my significant other to compliment me & hug or kiss me every one in a while to remind me that I am loved by him. It’s not like I’m expecting expensive dates or flowers or anything. Shouldn’t a man just naturally do that for the woman they love? But you’d be surprised how many men emotionally deprive their women by never complimenting them, speaking to them coldly and rudely, and not returning their physical affection, I’ve seen it first hand, and sometimes the woman didn’t do anything to deserve it, the man just got to comfortable and thought that he could still get the benefits of a relationship such as a clean house, food and ‘intimacy’ without keeping up his end of the bargain. Toxic relationships go both ways and it is not always the woman’s fault.
@teresawatson903211 ай бұрын
@@herikaniugu nope I meant *man*
@herikaniugu11 ай бұрын
@@teresawatson9032 you cant get a single man to love you forever, but a series of men can do it
@Christ-Ina8611 ай бұрын
This woman knows the real Deal ! So wise and aware
@raymorales273711 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 so wise she knows how to blame a guy for sleeping around 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@WalburgisLuppus11 ай бұрын
@@raymorales2737exactly Ray, this woman is speaking 🐂 poop. She is a narcissist who is using her desire to cheat as a reason to blame the man for her inability to not be loyal. She hates herself and seeks validation for her insecurities in other people and things.
@theymockedjesusalso11 ай бұрын
Evil woman speaking to the evil in other woman.
@troooooper10011 ай бұрын
I feel bad for morons who listen to this advice she will leave you if you're nice to her for a guy who isn't then she will complain how men aren't nice to her... If you're a man know this you have to do pull and push .. women run on feelings not logic feelings are stimulations... Too much she goes on pedestal too little she doubts you like her.. cycle
@voinyperkelee10 ай бұрын
Keep listening and invest in cat food.
@RosaRafaelaFaicol-vr5om11 ай бұрын
It's true . Feeling neglected, taken for granted And unloved are the fastest feeling for a woman to turn away.. but it only takes attention & conversation to return her feelings for her man again...
@trains88911 ай бұрын
That's not a good woman. A good woman is mentally stable, not petty, and doesn't welcome any other man's attention. A good woman would respect herself so much that she will never disrespect herself by welcoming disgusting petty trivial attention.
@thelordiswilling11 ай бұрын
@@trains889happy someone with a brain isn’t just sticking up for what other people say women need to develop this type of mentality
@lemontea527211 ай бұрын
@@trains889what kind of bs is that 💀
@holysmoxes127010 ай бұрын
@@lemontea5272Found the cheater
@cindyw963214 күн бұрын
Very well said.. Women are chasing the feelings 👍
@Royalskyblue11 ай бұрын
A guy as a joke once told me i have "really pretty eyes" when i literally dont. He was fooling around, but those words stayed. Men think being born as a woman is all rainbows and butterflies but its not. I dont want to sound less priviliged or anything. I know we both have our own struggles in life. But its completely false that we are always getting compliments wherever we go...and even if we do, we also know the intentions behind it. Whether its heartfelt, a tease or a joke. We dont always have several friends to talk to or are close to other girls. Some girls are alone. We too feel sadness, lonliness, and unworthiness. On top of that when men act so careless and clueless about their female partners, it shatters us🥀Please give time to your partner. That is all she really wants. She doesnt care about your looks or your money. The only thing a girl ever wants is for a guy to look at her and appreciate her and everything she does for him. Its that simple. When a girl comes into a relationship she is all for the guy, as the woman described in the video, she becomes blind to everything else, only her man matters. All we need is some acknowledgement. I know this doesnt go for everyone but in general a lot of women are like that. We are designed to care and nurture but just like a plant cannot give oxygen without the water and the sunlight, we cannot nurture you or your family without recieving your care and affection.
@victoriaodili-akpom401911 ай бұрын
💯 % thank you for taking your time to explain this very important point, I thought I was going mad
@trynatural2311 ай бұрын
So true! Great comment 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾💯
@trynatural2311 ай бұрын
@@victoriaodili-akpom4019me too! I thought I had cheater in my DNA. I don’t. I just come across whack, emotionally unavailable men🤷🏾♀️
@ricalorenzabonus11 ай бұрын
I felt this
@Sarah-kv3qs11 ай бұрын
Okay loved everything but most women/girls aren’t getting with men they aren’t attracted to or can’t support them too
@Mary-zo4rx11 ай бұрын
Thats why we need to seek love in God our spouses can't Iove us unconditionally
@sameera346911 ай бұрын
Yes
@aPeachWhoLovesYeshua11 ай бұрын
Of course! Also any God fearing man wouldn’t make his wife feel unloved or undesirable.
@twoprayingbuddhas89211 ай бұрын
Exactly, make God the center of your relationship
@karinesavard201611 ай бұрын
Amen!! ❤🙏
@ElizabethUkeh11 ай бұрын
A God fearing man loves his spouse unconditionally. Stay safe though lol
@CoolBurnz10 ай бұрын
Assuming they’re referring to cheating by “turning bad”, no. It’s not a matter of losing attraction. Cheating is a lack of strong morals which is what the majority of society is missing. If you lose attraction to your partner. Address the issue or leave without cheating
@catboy964210 ай бұрын
I 10000 % agree no matter why she cheated she could have told you then slept with another man but still if women think the get starved of attention how do u think us men feel we only get attention when were rich sell drugs or on the rare occasions handsome
@radhikag329110 ай бұрын
Marriage is an exagerrated man made concept. If it were 100% sacrosanct then don't you think all other animal's too would practice monogamy and be restricted to just one family. There are all kinds of marriages and what is ok for you may not be for other and vice versa. So let's not demean ppl unnecessarily. There is a reason why divorce happens and There is a reason why infidelity is not a crime as per law. Darwin's theory anyday over man made institution.
@aldahhebert7 ай бұрын
The feeling when a person plays another person against another😢
@tiakabatzudirtia355310 ай бұрын
And do not forget that there are girls no matter how much a man pours out water on her, takes care of her, gives time to her, never leaving her side she did gonna betray that man. Breaking his heart so badly that it will be way too hard for him to trust any woman.
@gloopy595110 ай бұрын
yeah and sadly also vice versa
@indigorager10 ай бұрын
Yeah..adult up,
@Kofi419_10 ай бұрын
Narcissists for you
@user-j1spswelskisj10 ай бұрын
That happens to both men and women. Some people are just selfish who'll use us to kill loneliness until they find someone better, we just gotta s*ck it up and move on with life.
@Equitywaters74910 ай бұрын
@@user-j1spswelskisjExactly 💯
@PRBSurfer849 ай бұрын
Unfortunately our phones give that feeling so easily that its hard to compete. Most humans touch their phones more than their loved ones.
@shirevalleytransformationp32228 ай бұрын
So true. Sadly
@TeddyHaney8 ай бұрын
@@shirevalleytransformationp3222you hit the nail right on the head
@amandachristine92867 ай бұрын
Yeah, wowwwww it would be so nice if I was his phone!!!! I’d never even have a single thought or second guess!!!!!!
@MaxineShaw-de7bh7 ай бұрын
Good one 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@outsidethebox84067 ай бұрын
A phone can't compare to the feeling of human love & contact. I don't know what you're talking about.
@julievanzile248211 ай бұрын
This is spot on. Give her enough give her reciprocation she wont leave
@ifallthingsmatterАй бұрын
I agree with her.
@marcellejane229811 ай бұрын
Lived with emotional abuse for 7 years and he cheated with a gambling problem. He was my first from my culture and i trusted him so did my family. He put me through alot of suffering i was trying but he wasnt. It was time to leave after his constant repetative lies i hit breaking point and left. His remarried and ive been single for 15years. My boys where babies when i left. My boys are now young men who make me so proud.they have been my life purpose. I sacrificed my night outs meeting men for my boys to makesure they have everything they need.m greatful to god for everything even though its been difficult and men cant see my value when i meet them, im also not trying to convince anyone either and walk away.if men i meet choose blindly thats not my problem either. I have other things to be greatful for. Thankyou god❤
@srikrishnavasanth389511 ай бұрын
you're strong.
@222-l6h11 ай бұрын
I can feel you somehow i wish you a healing from that terrible experience you have faced you are so strong keep going
@Rauly8411 ай бұрын
If she chases the " feelings " , then be ready to chase forever. Cause feelings are momentary
@CarecaRusso10 ай бұрын
True.
@CarecaRusso10 ай бұрын
And thats what happens with those women.
@fatimaa827610 ай бұрын
This isnt just about women, it goes both ways ...If you won't consider your partner feelings, then you can't get upset when they're no longer attracted to you
@itsmygalaxy10 ай бұрын
Ok
@soundfxsar930010 ай бұрын
@fatimaa8276 The thing is that women don't give a shit about men's feelings. Most women, especially in the West, only care about her own feelings and emotions. Most men try to help or make her girl happy, but there are some women that don't appreciate that support from a man nowadays.
@Kate-rv6kx11 ай бұрын
If you don't tell her, someone else will.
@Ihavehadmanynames777911 ай бұрын
You think they care about getting a compliment? When they have 100’s of simps on social media lined up telling them that every day? Women know when they look attractive they don’t need anyone to tell by saying that they’re just trying to put you in the simp trap so they can justify cheating or worse. A metoo claim
@Ihavehadmanynames777911 ай бұрын
At the end of the day their 😹 Will always be wet for those who don’t give her the time of day. No matter how good you are women get bored easily
@bishalghaley11 ай бұрын
Listen her carefully 😂😂she is literally blind for attention .. Love yourself brother.. If you already know she is with someone else then it's better to walk off then asking or saying if u don't someone else will 😂😂.. But yeah You should tell her and accept rejection like a man
@trains88911 ай бұрын
That's not a good woman. A good woman is mentally stable, not petty, and doesn't welcome any other man's attention. A good woman would respect herself so much that she will never disrespect herself by welcoming disgusting petty trivial attention.
@ktxtenskz744111 ай бұрын
@@Ihavehadmanynames7779lmao spoken by a man? You’re generalising… stop.
@Listentomusicist7 ай бұрын
This is so important to know and understand.
@StruggleEndure11 ай бұрын
My head is spinning. My ex used to get mad when I gave her too much attention. She called me "needy". Then when I backed off , she said "you're not caring like you used to"
@troooooper10011 ай бұрын
Exactly... If you are nice you're too nice, if you're cold you're uncaring... You have to do push and pull
@trains88911 ай бұрын
let me guess: You are a Virgo.
@StruggleEndure11 ай бұрын
@@trains889 no. Gemini. But I don't believe in that Hocus Pocus
@valdecibessa536211 ай бұрын
So true
@samyakchhajed10 ай бұрын
You know something, it all depends on the girl's mood. So, be both caring and moody sometimes.
@missbecky25379 ай бұрын
Omgggggg so true!!! I WAS blind to other men, they actually were invisible because I KNEW there was no man that was goingto treat me like he did, absolute sweetheart and generous & I constantly thanked him.. I got pregnant then he started getting meaner, a little meaner.. a little meaner… putting me down, raising his voice, straight up ignoring me when I spoke or cried like I didn’t exist, I gave birth & he told me I wasn’t his priority... now I fantasize about some imaginary Superman coming to save me from this sadness 😩 I know that’s ridiculous but it’s what I catch myself doing often.
@AlexHeavenOnEarth4U2C8 ай бұрын
It's just a phase... He'll eventually remember his love for you and how lucky he is to have you...All couples go thru up and down periods in life together..."Family" is the most important thing in the world. Hold on to it no matter what..."Family" is the new trend...It's more important than the latest fashion, the latest jewelry, cars, etc...
@gloriavis8 ай бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊
@LarennPBel8 ай бұрын
If he is still doing that and making a few feel really bad about yourself by showing toxic traits this is not good and it’s not a form of love. I know that someone commented and was trying to be encouraging but until you have been in that situation, and how isolating and lonely person will feel on top of the mistreatment, that will cause you to possibly put distance between you and him. You may not put distance right now today, but you eventually put distance between you and him and when you get your thoughts together and you’re by yourself and you’re looking at yourself and you’re looking at your child And you’re thinking about the things that he’s unsaid to you whether it being insulting mistreatment just not treating you in a kind manner you will then put up your boundaries and make sure they’re hard boundaries and you won’t put up with it no more maybe the wake up call will be telling him when you decide and have your ducks in a row that you want to divorce. But that’s not something to throw around, just because you wanna throw it around, what you do is you put hard distance between you and him and right now during this season of your life with this person you focused on your child and you focus on your mental well-being you go to counseling if you believe in it which I do and you go to counseling to get help in a space that is OK for you to talk about your problems and your feelings and your issues and you sort it out over there. And you work on yourself. At the end of the day you have to be a happy person. You have to be a happy content person so you can raise his happy Beautiful precious child. Whether he’s being a butt hole or not, you have to find a way with those steps, I told you eventually to find your own happiness. And after you find your own happiness and time has went by and you see nothing has changed and I mean and reason of amount of time like let’s say you decide to stay with him another two years, and he still being the same way he got worse you know that there is a line drawn and you do not have to accept because how you will be acting or feeling your child will sense see. And do not let this person mistreat you in front of your child do not let anyone mistreat you in front of your child. I know my long statement wasn’t broken up by a whole bunch of periods because when I was talking through the phone to record the message but I hope you really understand what I’m saying. If you read my comments, I would love to hear a response from you and I wish you all the best and all well. I say that because I’ve been in those shoes that you’ve been in in the same similar shoes my situation might’ve been a little worse. my child’s father had got me pregnant and had got another young lady pregnant the same time our babies are 3 1/2 weeks apart and during the pregnancy he was really a jerk but after I had her a few weeks after I had my child he just got meaner and meaner and nastier, and he will say things and do things in front of other people in front of his friends and family in front of the other lady And even though we have eventually had broken up, but he got meaner and meaner, and I had to figure out how to navigate coparenting with him and I went to counseling I went to therapy and now I’m OK with how it is. I made my peace with and I’m actually happier on the other side and I think think that could be because I loved him so much. He was one man that I can say I think I loved him the deepest and I loved him the hardest, so that heartbreak hurt even more. But the blessing I got out of it I have my beautiful, healthy child who brings me so much joy that if it wasn’t for him, I would not have. So I only speak from where I’m at and where I have been. Thank you for reading this message. Whoever read this I wish you all a great blessed day.😊😊
@missbecky25378 ай бұрын
@@LarennPBel I appreciate your response and yes I read everything :) That is actually what I am doing, trying to " give it time" maybe things will adjust themselves but in the meantime I am quietly studying to be a medical provider on a grant and I am 3 years away. When I am spoken down to and crying and feeling isolated, I remind myself this isolation keeps me focused on my studies, I raise my children during the day, and do my homework all night listen to youtube in between. I do not talk much about my studies out loud so nobody around me can put me down here or make me feel bad about what I'm striving for. Like you said, we put distance between ourselves and others, I have already began that when I saw a shift in character immediately after giving birth. When I am getting yelled at, ignored or being told all the things I do wrong as I'm crying my eyes out holding our baby, I think about what our lives could be after I get my license to practice as a provider, if he is nicer and more loving we can have a beautiful life together....if this continues then I have my career to fall back on to support my household independently. I had imagined myself spoiling him and take him traveling as my forever thank you for being my support during my long educational journey, but now I'm not so sure I feel that way. Now I feel emotionally battered and feel my career is my way of "getting my ducks in a row". Thank you again for your responses, I didn't even think my comment would ever be looked at, 🥰
@tdog9991008 ай бұрын
Try telling him all this instead of a bunch of randoms online
@alphabetagamma414210 ай бұрын
To be brutally honest, that just shows lack of character of the woman. If you don't feel happy and satisfied in the relationship, you leave. That's it. There is no excuse in the world for cheating. You are the only one responsible if you cheat. No matter the premise.
@whiterodman10 ай бұрын
💯 they can't commit. It's not in their DNA. You'll think yours is different than all women in the world. That guy friend that is "gay" or a best friend she dated so long ago. Take it at face value and find another one. There's billions of them on earth.
@christianprice983210 ай бұрын
Facts
@paulojamo544210 ай бұрын
Big words
@suzieq196910 ай бұрын
So true!
@Mystery66810 ай бұрын
💯
@valentinvillalba90166 ай бұрын
What a statement, “chasing a feeling, not a person”. I know I have my flaws since I’m an avoidant partner but I knew I always loved a person over a feeling because love is unconditional
@walsh0078 ай бұрын
This works both ways. Its called been taken for granted
@jeanettepelletier140211 ай бұрын
She’s right you can’t starve for attention and love ❤️ it’s our human nature to wanna feel loved and appreciated. Not starving and with holding affections as a tactical goal.
@michellemcgill932810 ай бұрын
This goes for both Men & Women. Don’t starve your partner of attention & care. No one wants to feel alone while being in a relationship.
@brunodj158 ай бұрын
Thanks. I didn't give my ex enough attention, but when I think about it I was starving too
@kcg39276 ай бұрын
Her statement is 50% truth. Because he feels the same way.
@samanthasmiles91128 ай бұрын
This is so damn true. I dated my ex for 6 years and he treated me like shit. I have no idea why I stayed so long. He always criticized me and never complimented me. I found myself attracted to other men!!! I never cheated but I found myself daydreaming of being with other men all the time. Like.... obsessively daydreaming. It was weird. I finally dumped him. Ive been married to my husband for 10 years and he makes me feel like the most beautiful woman. I never daydream about other men.
@sailormoonrocks88 ай бұрын
This happened to me too. My ex was abusive.
@ksshenandoah91968 ай бұрын
Me too. Never cheated, but I couldn't stop craving affection. Never looked at other men, but I was so lonely
@SincityOg8 ай бұрын
Your a victim as always 😂😂
@sirprize51917 ай бұрын
The moment she dont get her needs met is she thinks obsessively of cheating. Always a victim. That guy deserves better. Should dump you but he won't ever know who you really are. Sick
@cinelli077 ай бұрын
Modern women have zero loyalty.
@racquelechols586910 ай бұрын
I LOVE my man bc he's always asking if I'm satisfied in all areas and is 1000% emotionally available.
@Jblah10 ай бұрын
Bcuz hes gay😂
@rQ6Oo10 ай бұрын
I wonder how poison tastes
@nitins380110 ай бұрын
Poor guy😢
@racquelechols586910 ай бұрын
Hatersss 🤣 damn be loveless then!
@fitnessvigour605110 ай бұрын
@@nitins3801😂😂😂😂
@ArApoorvaJugati10 ай бұрын
No matter how beautiful or rich, at the end we just need a real soul to understand, but it's just so rare to find a real one...
@yogeshch69538 ай бұрын
U do get but takes time. Trust the timing. Good luck🙌
@ArApoorvaJugati8 ай бұрын
@@yogeshch6953 😇
@MamaMilkBubbles7 ай бұрын
Self-love, ladies. That's what we need. ❤
@ThankyouItsallgood4 ай бұрын
Be quiet
@stefanhopfer39052 ай бұрын
ironic, right,-)? you, you, you -get, get, take... No, its not enough to bring the hard facs, man also have to handle and ceep woman in an smooth/glorifyed mode, to ceep them stay by us and see, respect our worthy inputs -great! congrats, if..., but i do not agree in this oppinion. Good mature woman/relationships do not act this way. Yes man can easyer loose her loove/attension, but this is only right 4 a selfisch-mode, wihout kids and high logterminvestment, ist a okbeeing together, as long it feels good, nice-agreement... witch is not bad, but a Special joy way withoth depth and reposability, where woman van easyly collect
@jdgarage8511 ай бұрын
This is sad, that a woman will betray a good man with a pure heart for a temporary “feeling”. People need to stop throwing away forever for a quick fix.
@kjb983710 ай бұрын
A good man doesn't neglect his woman. They are saying a woman STARVED of affection. They aren't saying a man thats got a lot on and will return to a normal level of affection and attention soon enough they're saying a man that barely acknowledges their partner is alive let alone shows them love care or companionship.
@jdgarage8510 ай бұрын
@@kjb9837 Communication is the key factor here. It’s not uncommon for a spouse to feel that way especially in a long term relationship. And a lot of time the other person doesn’t know their partner feels neglected and all it takes is for them to communicate how they feel and if that person truly loves and cares about their partner they will make sure to correct it and make them feel loved. And if they express how they feel and the other person ignores it then maybe it’s time to leave the relationship. That being said cheating is never ok and is unacceptable. There will NEVER be a good “excuse” for anyone to do that to someone period
@shreeshiva942110 ай бұрын
@@kjb9837: a good woman isn't an attention seeker
@charlesadams827910 ай бұрын
@@shreeshiva9421bingo
@-FPujithaSuri-mg7tr10 ай бұрын
@@shreeshiva9421just because a person is seeking attention from their loved ones, that doesn't mean they are attention seekers Men/women want the person they love to value and shower him with attention and love
@jonnytango280110 ай бұрын
I think it's 100% true for both men & women ...can we start thinking about the fact that men also have needs ...?
@jocelynegonzalez866310 ай бұрын
Needs like what?
@ThatsPerty10 ай бұрын
Yes we do have needs but compared to women they are completely different
10 ай бұрын
That's the HUGE PROBLEM these days...ALL the attention has to be for the women and the men has to guess what is in her head. But no one cares about the men, though as if the men doesn't have feelings !!
@johnsmith103410 ай бұрын
@@jocelynegonzalez8663you’re seriously asking that question?
@emmaVTEC10 ай бұрын
Mens needs are completely different.. are you trying to say you need your girlfriend to tell you that you look cute more often?
@jessicabrewer8911 ай бұрын
This hurts my heart bc it's so true 💔
@JoshuaTCoe11 ай бұрын
It shouldn’t hurt it’s nothing but fair. I’d your woman wasn’t sexing you you’d want sex and probably to go elsewhere. If you don’t treat your person right we can’t expect them to suffer being treated badly.
@jessicabrewer8911 ай бұрын
@JoshuaTCoe I agree. It still hurts, though. It hurts when you do everything, and you just want love in return. Sex is so important, and there are some men out there who have "man problems" and can't get it up and refuse to get help and the downfall begins. There are women out there who refuse to have sex with their husband for YEARS and then he gets caught up and the downfall happens there. When I love you, I want to please. I want to make you happy and I want the same in return. There is nothing sexier than a person who keeps meeting your needs bc they just want you to be happy.
@jessicabrewer8911 ай бұрын
@@JoshuaTCoe and vice versa
@JoshuaTCoe11 ай бұрын
Yes, it takes wisdom to get what you want. I know you can get it, but you have to be wise and humble to hear and receive the truth. The adapt to that truth-- nothing will stop you. I found most women have no idea what they're doing. Men are a bit more aware because they're forced to be. But the lack of awareness or intelligence towards navigating these issues to get the results you want is astounding from the average person. It hurts, but that hurt is also needed. If there was no hurt it wouldn't be as valuable when you did find that person. When a woman or man gives you everything you want you will really appreciate it because you understand how valuable it is. And that appreciation itself is good. So we need the hurt too. The key above everything is wisdom. Most people do not have it and assume they do. They take my words lightly. It's not wise. God bless you in your pursuit of wisdom.@@jessicabrewer89
@kimberlyy62097 ай бұрын
Amen! Speaking the absolute truth!
@AaryanDesai-p3w8 ай бұрын
Real Partners don't really play games such as that starving, chasing etc... That's what immature people do and the one that doesn't know what they want and how to treat people...
@Falas934 ай бұрын
Agree with this
@hunttrades4 ай бұрын
100%
@learavivo59463 ай бұрын
Have a good way dear friend ...thank ypu for all this definitions et explications . Good life ... don t return to me it s better for us
@p_s117411 ай бұрын
It's a feeling she's chasing, not a person..that's deep!
@WisdoomOperational11 ай бұрын
that actually explains all of their insanity, destruction and chaos. While you are occupied fighting the world, u turn away ur attention from her for a moment and you're done for
@slummdogg11 ай бұрын
And pathetic ! She said that with her soul. Women are a trip. Chase all the feelings in the world You loonies🎉
@marcmuwanga6811 ай бұрын
And when the dust settles after chasing a feeling, she has left chaos and destruction in her path. Another reason not to marry these dysfunctional creatures. What happens when you become sick and can nolonger be physically give her that attention? The world should really stop enabling the worst traits in women. 😂
@ginikalgo391811 ай бұрын
This is sad
@cellb261910 ай бұрын
it's not deep. It's pathetic!
@laralara161011 ай бұрын
😭😭I really need a warm hug 🫂
@barnikab410611 ай бұрын
Please accept a virtual one from me... You deserve the best ❤
@yakubusamaila84837 ай бұрын
May God bless the wives of service men and missionaries who remain faithful despite not seeing their husbands for months or years. Those are true women!
@TheRival-_-10 ай бұрын
You’re the only person responsible for your actions. If someone can’t meet your needs whether they’re too high, too low, or just right; it’s not your moral right to cheat. Tell them what they’re not doing and continue building the relationship or breakup. (I’m literally a sociopath, never been in a relationship, and I somehow understand loyalty is important more than these people smh)
@lesliesantos85959 ай бұрын
Yeah and both sides need to be very clear what they want and need. Otherwise they can give off red flags to each other and then do exactly as this lady is talking about having no attention. .lol like my ex literally only assumed i wasnt ever gonna open up and literally talked to someone else and still had a dsting app so i was like wtf bro after alot to build up to me seeing that damn app on his phone. It was insane.
@devprem119 ай бұрын
Exactly
@eugenetsuman25679 ай бұрын
It seems like she's just trying to justify reason to cheat.
@Darkechodk9 ай бұрын
Most men don't say they are starved, they just continue on trying to make the relationship work. If she is starving, it's because he is.
@S.T33L8 ай бұрын
Exactly... must be his fault still according to this video huh...
@willdartist8 ай бұрын
Real shit! 💯
@taraz67868 ай бұрын
@@S.T33LShe’s talking about a woman’s perspective buddy, don’t take it personally.
@mollygrace30688 ай бұрын
It’s wild how many men online are convinced, or trying to convince others that men don’t cheat. Where did this come from?
@MoneyMaker-j8g8 ай бұрын
@@mollygrace3068 give men credit were smart. He cheats cause you just wasn't the right one. When did dating become a marriage?😅
@GrammarProductions10 ай бұрын
If you're chasing a feeling and not a person, then give that feeling to yourself. But never allow yourself to step outside of your values because you lack "said feeling."
@iheartbestupid8 ай бұрын
They just want to hurt other people. This is a justification. People who love themselves don’t stay in toxic relationships, and they certainly don’t cheat.
@Thestonedavidthrows8 ай бұрын
@iheartbestupid 100% agree. It's a whole Lotta damaged goods out here. And now they have "Therapist " guiding them with kid gloves instead of life smacking them in the face.
@jjcarr66064 ай бұрын
Wow that's really heart wrenching 😢
@carlbernardo534610 ай бұрын
I can’t understand how men can ignore their wife. I tell my wife everyday second i can that love her and express love to her. Give her hugs as soon as i can and to my daughter.
@Whowhatme10 ай бұрын
Yeah but she do the same for you. Not likely
@jbell949010 ай бұрын
See, I did this too.. To the point where we were told on multiple occasions that we're too lovey-dovey.. And she still chased another.
@Rocksteady365mac10 ай бұрын
Yea you’re doing too much. She’ll view you as weak and easy, Almost simp-like. She’ll def be banging other dudes soon unless you sort yourself out. I know, I’ve banged plenty married women on dating sites who all claim their man is too nice to them. It’s tough a world out there
@lingwabolingwabo163410 ай бұрын
😂😂😂...been there done that...this is a woman you're talking about. The answer that was given to me after all that attention was given for years?...your love is suffocating me. And by that time she was cheating already. I pray your family stays as it is. Blessed.
@CrazeyLazeyHazeyDazey10 ай бұрын
When my wife was thinking of leaving I said something to the effect of, “What about the X I do for you? And the Y? And what about this and that?” Then I said, “You’ve never left this house without hearing me tell you that you’re beautiful. I never leave this house without telling you that I love you.” Her answer, “What if I don’t care about any of that stuff?” That was earth shattering. We’ve since worked things out but I can tell you if they are over the relationship, they’re over it. You simply can’t get through to them.
@TheGreenAnima9 ай бұрын
If the relationship is not based on unconditional love, unconditional self love and love for the other, then we have what we see today; a transaction.
It's not just about a girl. All human in every position, wife, husband, children, a worker, everyone
@mortalkomment802810 ай бұрын
She's chasing a feeling, not a person. Well spoken.
@fluegelziner2hoch1010 ай бұрын
Yeah, and I‘m sick of it.
@RightCornerVillain11 ай бұрын
No truer words have been spoken on this platform!! My wife has the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen and I told her that everyday when we were just friends
@priscillaL837 ай бұрын
This is true very true.
@jacklarue70498 ай бұрын
I do think it’s ultra rare to see a couple where BOTH genuinely love each other a whole lot. Just seems as if one is almost always in it for the ride
@PenelopeCashew11 ай бұрын
That happened to my mother. She didn't turn bad, just away. A Neglectful spouse, can reek havoc on the emotions of a good woman.
@marcmuwanga6811 ай бұрын
Haha. Justifying your mom cheating on your dad? 😂😂😂 Oh man! Where is that asteroid when you need it? We need to wrap this up and give the planet a new chance😈
@markissmith10 ай бұрын
This Statement Goes Both Ways 💯🍻
@wps6209 ай бұрын
She's for the streets. She wants her man to be a woman while he protects and provides. Impossible. An emotionally vulnerable man is not a an alpha provider.
@Hjackie-4 ай бұрын
This is extremely right
@na-ra870111 ай бұрын
That's why self love is important ❤
@ashelygooden467210 ай бұрын
purr
@na-ra870110 ай бұрын
@@ashelygooden4672 meoww 🙃
@realist793411 ай бұрын
Any man can become bad, any man can become good, any woman can become good, any woman can become bad. But... It is where they start from in the first place. People fall too quickly because of lust and not love. They see and they feel from the sight which is blinding because society has made both men and women believe in falsehoods. Finding a great woman or a man is like picking apples from a tree. Most will pick from the bottom branches or from the fallen because it is easier. The best apples are at the top of the tree and require the most time and effort to obtain. Stop giving in to the easy ways of love and life. Purposely find that hard route, put in the time and effort and grow, find out who you yourself really is and you will figure out exactly what you want in life and never will you just settle for the apples that are bruised or that are not ripe.
@roseebud11 ай бұрын
Some good wisdom right there my friend
@redleeks625311 ай бұрын
Bullshit
@user7959210 ай бұрын
This works both ways. If a husband is rejected by his wife, that can drive him into the arms of another woman.
@fortencuales10 ай бұрын
Marriage is another ball game if you cant resist temptation dont get married
@whiterodman10 ай бұрын
Definitely a female responding
@godleveleldritchblast525710 ай бұрын
It does work both ways because you have a duty and a responsibility, that is what marriage is. It a duty and responsibility, it not a fun little dance. It has ups and downs and it's about showing you that chose that person for themselves not for how they make you feel.
@mr.meowgi944410 ай бұрын
@@fortencualesHow though? Cause at the base of it, the argument still stands
@MarkMarconi10 ай бұрын
oh boy you better grow up, relationship is dedication
@captainglazz42027 ай бұрын
Keep the energy since day 1 some time will be tough and some good but it’s how both treat eachother. This isn’t just a female thing a man can get this way too! Respect and wear your partner like a badge of honor ❤
@jeanettemccoy763610 ай бұрын
She is sooo right my heart breaks still..The starvation turned me more to the devine!! My cup over flow. I starved and turned it into feeding and feeling myself with God!! Power!❤
@shivangikashyap863411 ай бұрын
Respectful women does not chase feelings, they chase dignity and integrity.
@shaistaijaz201911 ай бұрын
Ur right in addition I believe same goes for men 💯
@zawadiyahb.798211 ай бұрын
Yes, BUT if you’re not feeling the love why would you want to stay. Love carries a feeling too, you can feel love just as well as hate, animosity, etc.
@arifluqman300111 ай бұрын
@@shaistaijaz2019i agree with u 💯. Woman love come from affection her man show, Man love come from respect his woman show.
@pattagobhi701511 ай бұрын
A respectful woman can be sad and disappointed from within
@shivangikashyap863411 ай бұрын
@@pattagobhi7015 but changing men is not the solution!