I used to think that we don't finish things because we got what we need and often see the final work in our mind. I have since learned that we don't finish things because we lack discipline, artists are especially susceptible.
@MeiLing198219896 жыл бұрын
The Rich Rose Sometimes it is lack of discipline sometimes it is because we got what we came for. Some of us are plate spinners who cycle through our projects. Usually, we eventually pick a ptoject back up a later time and then finish.
@chrisshergie10306 жыл бұрын
Platinum Rich Rose but why do some lack discipline, when by every other standard they are more exceptional, intelligent, and talented? Your first idea ive never thought about until now. This video identified going to different schools was an underlying reason. I went to 7 different elementary schools from K-5th grade. Not looking for an excuse, just reflecting.
@annafedorova_sf2 жыл бұрын
One thing that really resonates with me is starting to think of yourself as Professional regarding the art you create (rather than dabbler). My work isn’t in art, but seeing my side/passion projects through this lens helps me adopt strategies to become more deeply involved with them - down to “project managing” to the finish line. Dabbling feels safe and fun. Being a Professional raises the stakes, and helps take your own efforts more seriously. If you want to, of course. When you’re ready.
@blackbird88375 жыл бұрын
BS. Here's the truth. We get to a point where we love our work to its current extent, maybe even be surprised by how much better the work is than we think we are.. and the fear of ruining it by finishing it deters us from doing so. I once talked to a great artist and he asked me if I do doodles. I said I don't. He said that's the problem. If you can only pull something off only in one angle or one particular way you will always be afraid of ruining your work. You need to let go of the mental boundries of perfection and rather see every piece of work as practice and one step on the endless stairway of becoming a great artist.
@danielgriffin10694 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@fullautomaton59483 жыл бұрын
This was more useful than the whole video.
@gS0yeUE0udz7d3 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@SadTown993 жыл бұрын
I agree… furthermore I think the non existent scale of value we critique our work on, should be completely disregarded. Art is just Art. I don’t believe in good or bad creativity & I certainly don’t believe in only creating for the sake of other people’s enjoyment or opinions.
@tygorilla.tactics2 жыл бұрын
Reason for every thing you do
@MsGnor7 жыл бұрын
Barbara Sher wrote "Refuse to Choose" for people with 'too many interests to pick just one'. If you are super curious and struggle to finish projects, I encourage you to check it out!
@bRealBlknsexi6 жыл бұрын
msGvious I'm going to look that up! Thanks!
@l.w.paradis21083 жыл бұрын
This is a thought.
@nerdyninja98773 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! just searched it up and its super relevant to me
@RadishTheFool Жыл бұрын
That book seems super relevant to me. I put it on my wishlist right away. Thank you!
@WinstonCorneilius8 жыл бұрын
I have a serious problem with not finishing my art
@robertleedavis38158 жыл бұрын
I often work better if I have a purpose like a deadline for a commission or exhibition.
@mrericmendez50497 жыл бұрын
If I have a deadline, thats literally what it is and I die. And my art goes untouched 😅
@robertleedavis38156 жыл бұрын
it may help having a goal or purpose... like creating it for a gift, or an exhibition,.
@Hope-vb9ox6 жыл бұрын
OmarsDad me too
@youremybiggestfan6 жыл бұрын
Its just non finito just embrace it
@erikanovakova972 жыл бұрын
This talk truly touched me, I teared up several times, it was so real. Thank you beautiful human for being so strong for showing yourself in vulnerability.
@eveningdim71678 жыл бұрын
I have a problem with finishing things. So many projects. I got maybe 30 drafts on wordpress, several songs half-written/translated, almost 2 dozen years of art left unfinished. A lot of times I find myself putting effort into the things impossible or difficult for me to do instead of finishing easy tasks that arr nearly done. I just posted a picture of Green Diamond on my deviantart, a simple picture of pen & colored pencils; and I consider that a great accomplishment, considering my record.
@robertleedavis38158 жыл бұрын
AubrentheJack thanks for your comment! Are you exhibiting? Often if I have a exhibit or viewing coming up it helps to motivate me.
@johnnycryo96383 жыл бұрын
Same here . I'm barely finishing my portfolio with over 100 designs from 10 years ago...I understand
@wewewewe59527 жыл бұрын
i didn't finish the video
@nnn-qv7fu7 жыл бұрын
Same here. Savage comment.
@robertleedavis38156 жыл бұрын
No worries!
@bakh916 жыл бұрын
he sounds so fake. He's an actor acting like an artisit, obv a bad actor lol
@barlitosguy14156 жыл бұрын
wewe wewe I was gonna say that lol
@leejardine_5 жыл бұрын
fr tho
@annafedorova_sf2 жыл бұрын
Your talk is so beautifully insightful. Thank you for sharing your story and addressing this topic. The art work you showed here really spoke to me, it’s so thoughtful in the way it captures a life. What a gift to your partner (and yourself)!
@rosequartz41023 жыл бұрын
This means SO MUCH to me. And I'm from Elkins Park so I have zero issue picturing every facet of your story. I needed to hear this today. I need to hear this tomorrow and every day until your words commit themselves permanently to my soul. Thank you.
@lisengel24984 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for sharing your beautifull and strong story of becoming a person of love - and showing the importance of being loved and loving to find your purpose and the courage to live it
@purplelotusjewelry26488 жыл бұрын
Such a brilliant talk about, Why we don't finish things. Living a creative life is essential. This is a very inspiring talk. I also loved how you show the influence of one person, in your case your grandmother can make the biggest difference in ones life. The way we encourage children and see them is so important. Thank you for sharing this beautiful work.
@robertleedavis38158 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words. My grandmother was a wonderful and genuine soul! She still inspires me to be the best person that I can be!
@purplelotusjewelry26488 жыл бұрын
@robertleedavis38156 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your encouraging words! Yes! Creativity is the way to a better life!
@Simplesimple1236 жыл бұрын
I never finish things or goals. My interests keep changing and it's beyond depressing, I feel like giving up because I feel no purpose to life if I lose interest so quickly in every single Thing . I'm creative but my styles and interest changes so much . I feel psychotic and I don't know what to do .
@JoeGuapo5 жыл бұрын
1chipchap how you doing?
@daisyreyes34503 жыл бұрын
Same here🥺🥺🥺🥺
@nerdyninja98773 жыл бұрын
someone recommended Barbara Sher's book Refuse to Choose, and i think it might be helpful to you
@muiithehappy61486 жыл бұрын
this is really wonderful and inspiring I erase one of my unfinished artwork and drew a new one with completely different style and finished it recently. Thanks Robert, greetings from Malaysia.
@Trickster-y2i3 жыл бұрын
Thank You for such an inspiring talk! I've spent several hours suffering from stomach pain but now It is almost over. I listened to you and your story impressed me so much that I started crying. I feel much better. I can relate to your story. Thank You so much for your story! It is a treasure!
@leaderstribunebyglowy73682 жыл бұрын
I am too, having stomach aches, due to anxiety relating to his topic.
@kmbrpower9 жыл бұрын
Yeah, so so happy to see you doing your thing Robert. I just wanted to give you a big hug and hear your lovely loud laugh. Hugs from Shanghai. x
@robertleedavis38159 жыл бұрын
Thank you Kimbra for your support and encouragement ! xoxo
@TwylaG-Artistry4 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t have watched this at a better time!!! ...not only about unfinished (things) but my art as well. Thank you for the wonderful perspective!
@kodexi27616 жыл бұрын
Great video. I've taken up piano, swimming, football, etc... I've only ever really been good at drawing, which I still enjoy occasionally. I've always left things because I've become bored of them, more interested in having more free time to procrastinate... I guess it takes time to find to solidify yourself into your true passion, and experience.
@Queenzipzip2 жыл бұрын
Sounds similar to my life. At about 40 I was diagnosed with adhd. Many people with adhd love novelty. Once the novelty wears off we tend not to persist with the activity and boring stuff is reaaallly hard to motivate yourself to do. Loads of people with adhd are also creatives. We're ideas people! We need to find and engage in what we're passionate about to keep us feeling alive and engaged in the world and give us motivation to persist.
@LoveActions6 жыл бұрын
I agree...We finish when we are passionate and on purpose with that particular train of thought...Sometimes we must challenge ourselves to free fears that encumber our Truth from coming out...Thank you for sharing your Truth and enlightening us to the organic process of life
@autreUS43 жыл бұрын
The thing is with me I finish everything I do. I have no drafts. Telling myself every time "this will be my breaking moment". Yeah I upload and post art online after I finish and not many people see it, but it’s nice to see my finished projects
@unburriedtalents5993 жыл бұрын
Passion and purpose. Agreed. These are essential to finish. Otherwise, I just have to resolve to finish. It's nice to just do what I care about but I know it can't always be that way. But it is my goal.
@marleywaters87872 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mr Robert Davis
@LuvliexXJazzieXx2 жыл бұрын
That was so beautiful. Brought tears to my eyes. BRAVOOO!!!
@chrisfox41576 жыл бұрын
We are all works in progress regardless of temporary setbacks “ keep breathing while continuing to put one step in front of the other, that’s the work, having a goal and a creed is useful but those can change along the way.
@mangoyacho2 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@philippeg38 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring talk, Robert! Now I don't have to feel guilty with some unfinished projects! Thanks for sharing your personal story too, very compelling.
@robertleedavis38158 жыл бұрын
Ha ha! Guilt free living motivates us to act. Thank you Philippe for your support and encouraging words!
@philippeg38 жыл бұрын
Robert Lee Davis Alway happy to help!
@rdhall62364 жыл бұрын
Good job, Robert!!! Love your art!
@derpydayha7 жыл бұрын
Good talk. Those mouth sounds are giving me asmr tho lol
@robertleedavis38156 жыл бұрын
Ah dry mouth syndrome strikes again!
@MianCowell6 жыл бұрын
poor operating from the sound desk too
@selahkeys4 жыл бұрын
😛😛😝😝
@SadTown993 жыл бұрын
I been trying to hand this man a glass of water for 5 years.
@ccabell49 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reaching out and letting me know you were on here! Awesome presentation and lovely painting too. Kids were watching with me and they remember meeting you so many years ago. Big hugs :-)
@robertleedavis38159 жыл бұрын
Wow they must be seniors by now! So happy that you watched as a family!
@selahkeys4 жыл бұрын
WOW I FINALLY GET IT !!!!!
@diaryofseresha5 жыл бұрын
The grandmother story made me lil bit teary :"). No one can ever love you like a granma. My nano(granma, mother's mum) is like that she so amazing. Went to Iran n bought me dress n pants as gift from her own money. I love her to death. Be good to your elders kids
@helsha3 жыл бұрын
I struggle with finishing things so much that I haven’t even finished watching this video :/
@omroop2 жыл бұрын
You have speak my mind ..andI got relieved from the baggage of my unfinished business,,artworks.👍💖
@MsGnor7 жыл бұрын
Special beyond words, in all the ways. Thank you RLD xxxxxxxx
@joeykher5387 жыл бұрын
Thank you..very inspiring.
@lOwlEyesl6 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful message!
@tumininu80862 жыл бұрын
the temptation to not finish watching this video 😔
@loriatsea3 жыл бұрын
8:45 We don't finish things when...
@mxndyjxye4 жыл бұрын
i honestly thought this video was about why i dont finish my art bc of laziness or something lol but he literally made me realize things.
@joaidane Жыл бұрын
I think we don't finish because we're pretty sure that anything we could add, that we can think of at this point in time, will not make it any better! It would "finish it" in a sense but in worse state than it is now. So we'd rather not do that and just wait for possibly some great inspiration down the road. :)
@gteamer18 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@solidmasterdante7 жыл бұрын
Using headphones. It's VERY hard to focus beyond those mouth sounds :/
@robertleedavis38156 жыл бұрын
Yeah! I do hope you were able to get something out it despite the distractions.
@zerutsega3016 жыл бұрын
duuude ikr i cant focus even zo im not using headphones
@ningli74909 жыл бұрын
Hi Robert, so happy to see you and watch your talk. A nice way to start Sunday. Great presentation and touching, inspring stories. :)
@robertleedavis38159 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ning for your words!
@spelaelizabetapahor95683 жыл бұрын
Great ❤
@pastelkar82023 жыл бұрын
I thought this was a beautiful Ted talk!
@user-hh9jc9hs8f4 жыл бұрын
For me I just get short bursts of excitement and creativity, and once I start the project, and I am pretty far into it, I just become more and more uninterested; it just gets boring
@kyonas60474 жыл бұрын
Yeah for me i can't put more than 2 hours in one piece even if i try to countiune the piece it never works or it turn out bad
@tubbysza5 жыл бұрын
I have a serious problem with not finishing my art. 1 of my arts is watching KZbin videos. I didn't finish the video.
@MM-bw1lo4 жыл бұрын
Great Ted Talk, "We don't finish things when were not passionate or on purpose"
@tubbysza5 жыл бұрын
Damn this is a great ASMR video. Helps me fall asleep with those lip sounds.
@carlitoxb1107 жыл бұрын
I don't finish what I
@RVANae7 жыл бұрын
Carlitox b Start* lol
@joyfulcookie927 жыл бұрын
Lol
@FUNNYMANERICWHITE4 жыл бұрын
Joyful Cookie lo
@benblume66232 жыл бұрын
Its hard to see when something is finished. I don't know. I often think about doing a copy or many versions of a piece, so I can try changes and see then what it needs. But its very hard to touch a work if it has reached a certain level. When it feels so full already and its hard to anything. What I just realized is that if you really feel the work you maybe don't have the problem, because then its no adding, you know when a change is real.
@illuna57515 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful message, thank you Robert. 🙏🌈🌿🌻🌠
@ndodier3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 The answer is so simple if it was unfinished it was because it was not ment to be. It was not in alignment or on purpose it’s just a part of our story ♥️
@astralflux90796 жыл бұрын
😮😮😮 I needed this ... I’m always giving myself such a hard time for not finishing my art v:/
@JoeGuapo5 жыл бұрын
Astral Flux how you doing?
@Soho91114 жыл бұрын
I watch this video at 1.5X speed is it count that I have finish the video or not?
@desertshadow725 жыл бұрын
I still doing know why we don't finish things. Also, I'm not sold its good, even after your touching and vulnerable stories.
@Autumn666145 жыл бұрын
My Grama used to buy clay for me. So I made her some little sheep. She would keep them in a nestle' tin. And she would do the same thing. T.T Love you Mee-Maw.
@DarthUmbreon3 жыл бұрын
I was just wondering why I can never finish tv shows but it got way deeper than that 😅
@LimStephBianca3 жыл бұрын
damn i can’t even get myself to finish this video
@cjsamtab77 жыл бұрын
In Singapore, MOST people (if not EVERYONE) will have to leave their Dream/s in Cold Store.
@jasonbutz51653 жыл бұрын
HOW ABOUT THAT JASON BUTZ 51 ARTWORK
@marshallrickman82353 жыл бұрын
Closed this by mistake... Almost didn't finish it.
@commontopg33203 жыл бұрын
I can barely even finish this video
@raiyanbhuiyan43698 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to get me to finish nuke school
@alexfxlll7 жыл бұрын
lol
@akshaypathak79994 жыл бұрын
hahahaha
@mindjoystudio64363 жыл бұрын
What a heartbreakingly cute kid you were. Oh my.
@DonSnypaDynasty4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to finish this video, bu...
@Rokvtm6 жыл бұрын
You will not finish because you know were you are going. That certainty makes it boring, Be more impulsive and plan less
@bobbyprasaddas76943 жыл бұрын
And I could not finish this video
@MunniDivya5 жыл бұрын
There's no closure for anything for me
@Monteiro757 жыл бұрын
I never finish things. Including this video, but I liked . But you need a glass of water when you speech
@BobrLovr5 жыл бұрын
No employer or game dev will accept a half finished song. Sorry, finishing things is an objectively good quality. This is like saying hey you finished in 4th, at least it wasn't 5th, definitely detrimental to personal development.
@yabontheinternet86404 жыл бұрын
As soon as I read the title I felt called out wtf-
@johnd33012 жыл бұрын
I didn’t finish watching this video… you bored me.
@monikathomas49855 жыл бұрын
So hilarious how he changes his voice 😂
@kkendalbruce23325 жыл бұрын
I find it suspicious that he tears up about his grandmother the same time he did when he gave this exact same speech.
@Scandallas04 жыл бұрын
Speech or monologue? 😝
@yeahrightbear88834 жыл бұрын
Damn I'm barely 5 minutes in and I'm trying so hard to finish this. Edit: Alright guys I made it. And you know what I learned? I learned that much like this video some things aren't worth finishing which also happed to be the point of this video. This guy basically says its okay to not finish thing. This is not what I was looking for at all. I need encouragement to finish a project right now because if I don't I will really be hurting myself in the long run. I doubt anyone in this comment section is going to finish reading this comment.
@bsdiceman Жыл бұрын
I finished
@nan87732 жыл бұрын
So much drama in this video that I couldn't finish it either 😑
@_matetina4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t finish watching the video
@alexfxlll7 жыл бұрын
*gazes into distance* laughs "anyway". started to get a bit annoying tbh
@timmy54422 жыл бұрын
in
@IriaChannel6 жыл бұрын
This guy makes me uneasy
@atamtaki93363 жыл бұрын
What a cheap emotion talk. Can't stand this silliness.
@prdiludi44326 жыл бұрын
anyone annoyed with his sloppy mouth sounds?
@marianjrr661815 күн бұрын
didn't he have diabetes in a another video?
@benblume66232 жыл бұрын
I can't listen to this his mouth is so dry...
@mrericmendez50497 жыл бұрын
Unpopular opinion: Theres like *no energy* in this dude's voice.
@analoti7 жыл бұрын
what does that even mean?
@mrericmendez50497 жыл бұрын
Like I feel like there was no excitement. :( I loved the content but it could be just a small suggestion to amp up the energy. Like be exciting! It is supposed to be an inspiring video.
@Fyrtenheimer6 жыл бұрын
There was plenty of energy -- it's a very moving and inspiring story. Getting motivated in only one manner is going to hamstring you.
@maoix237 жыл бұрын
Hello mr.davis! I was in your class last year! Your talks are so inspiring, please continue inspiring people and being amazing!💕💦