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@listen94163 ай бұрын
Would you allow your girl to have friendships with guys going forward in your relationship?
@andres-b1p1p3 ай бұрын
I broke up with my gf for having a very persistent male friend. A couple weeks later she came back apologizing saying she would get rid of him if we get back together. I said no. Thanks Rich
@BG.1083 ай бұрын
A couple weeks, hey? I wonder what happened…
@MzTeriberry3 ай бұрын
😂
@DamazViccar3 ай бұрын
@@BG.108Jaff (just a friend, fool) didn’t feel like committing.
@1simo935213 ай бұрын
Good man.
@supernice_auto3 ай бұрын
a couple of weeks later is predictable- we all know what happened
@teamhachem82103 ай бұрын
1 You set boundaries & they comply 2 They get the commitment GF ect 3 Now your emotionally invested 3 They start breaking those boundaries 4 Blames you for being controlling and manipulative 5 Start going back to who they were when they first met you Pick one that already is that person you want to be with because the end result is heartbreaking, trying to change or condition someone to your liking is only temporary, how they came is how they leave you
@cameroon893 ай бұрын
Good point
@grishg95362 ай бұрын
Underrated comment. 100% correct.
@migueld26712 ай бұрын
Indeed
@rocadezona856 күн бұрын
Good comment...the bigger picture here is that without an accountability system (society, Patriarchy whatever) women are INCAPABLE of commitment, it's NOT their nature,that's why the institutions were put in place, she might play along for a little bit but without male authority you're at her mercy and once you signed the dotted line in the current system she owns your ass
@JC-gw3yo3 ай бұрын
Got it... let them ask first, then 1.. Ex male friends 2.. No more provacative social media 3.. No more girl trips
@vsmith61093 ай бұрын
I introduced my current boyfriend to all my ex's so my ex's can shyt talk about me to him 😂. My boyfriend has me almost every hour of every day working and living together. Unfortunately he also sends me out with an "ex" when it's something I really want to do like camping with the kids or catching a movie on Valentine's day.
@scott64303 ай бұрын
@@vsmith6109what in the hell? You on the wrong page.
@TheScaryGermanGuy3 ай бұрын
In one: You have to make sure that she doesn't scr*w around.
@kimmorrison91693 ай бұрын
@@vsmith6109speak english please
@o0oStillWeRiseo0o3 ай бұрын
Basically no modern woman is date able
@jmona30463 ай бұрын
I've been following you for a while. I am older, close to my 60's and after a divorce from a very long marriage, this is eye opening. Certainly times have changed. No social media in the 90s, Internet wasn't widely available. It's brutal now but it's good to wake up to reality.
@TheoSprinkles3 ай бұрын
Why did you get a divorce? If you don’t mind me asking
@gregwatruba45413 ай бұрын
@TheoSprinkles she probably got bored.
@Random-rt5ec2 ай бұрын
@@jmona3046 I’m 63 & twice divorced. Had I been Redpilled @ age 18 I wouldn’t have married until my late 40’s & I’m 100% certain today I’d be a multimillionaire living along the coast somewhere in Florida enjoying life 1,000 times more.
@paulinekariuki97442 ай бұрын
Very true...
@princeali3162 ай бұрын
Man, it's bad for us younger dudes these days. If you ask any woman to do any of this stuff, they break it off and tell their friends you're toxic/controlling. It's really bad these days.
@benrodriguez36682 ай бұрын
Regarding #2. If you're seeing a woman that posts provocative pics online, it's not a good thing. Serious or casual, leave that crap.
@trinex33322 ай бұрын
Correct
@blbreptiles41262 ай бұрын
@@benrodriguez3668 You never see a girl with tattoos and/or that posts (or has posted) sexy photos that is worth your time... LEAVE
@cosmicsea892 ай бұрын
And if she's a model? Then they're not worthy of marriage?
@TheRealTJErnie2 ай бұрын
@@cosmicsea89 huge red flag
@greenhax92Ай бұрын
Run dude Run
@waggoneer3 ай бұрын
My first major fight with my ex-wife was over her secretly meeting with her ex-fiancé (of 6 years) when she was on a business trip. She had asked me before if, while on a layover, I would be ok with her getting coffee in the airport with him. I told her it bothered me, but that I trusted her. I kind of forgot about the question, but several months later I found out that she had actually left the airport and met up with him in town, got dinner and walked around the city with him. I was wrecked imagining them out as a couple, maybe holding hands or hugging or (my darkest worry) getting a hotel room for a few hours. She, of course, said it was my fault for being upset, showed that I did not trust her, and when I demanded she stop talking to him , she flatly refused. I dont believe she "physically cheated" with him that day. But, it's an obvious sign that my feelings do not matter, she does not value the relationship to risk it, and is not willing to submit to my authority as a husband. But knowing that we were already married, she knew there was nothing I could do about it, short of divorce. Establish these boundaries EARLY. It's too late once they get their claws in you.
@beowulf_of_wall_st3 ай бұрын
No reason tro fight about that at all. Straight to divorce. She definitely slept with him btw, they didn't 'walk around the city'.
@Andreus1543 ай бұрын
Dont trust her. Leave her. She is using you as a backup in case it doesnt work with her number 1 guy.
@330capt3 ай бұрын
@@beowulf_of_wall_st 100% truth.
@robertm.96333 ай бұрын
She’s your EX WIFE… good move!
@RJT-hp8vk3 ай бұрын
No doubt she cheated on you
@kellanwillis45303 ай бұрын
You are 100% right. Quick personal story, I went to Vegas with a girl I knew since high school. She was married at the time but their marriage was going downhill from what she told me. She took a "girls trip" to Vegas just so she could see me. I picked her up at the Las Vegas airport with 3 other friends, who were also all married. We went to Walmart to buy alcohol and then went back to the Harris Hotel (Great Hotel right on the Strip BTW for only $40/night). The girl I knew from high school and I shared a room, while her other 3 friends shared a room. Her friends kept pulling me aside to find out how much sex we were having. I said we were just taking it slow, we haven't seen each other since high school. Apparently her friends wanted to make sure she was getting laid, away from her husband. When we were all hanging out in the same room together drinking, they wanted me to be absolutely quiet when their husbands called because her friends promised "no guys in the room." Later that night, we went to club Tao and I couldn't get in because I had on Timberlands instead of dress shoes, so my high school friend and I went bar hopping while her friends got in the club. We then went back to the room got undressed and jumped in the bed. The takeaway here is that during "girl trips" her friends will support her in her decisions to get laid. Even further, the ones with good marriages may not have been looking to get laid, but enough alcohol and the right atmosphere and they'll have other dudes grinding on them trying to take them back to their rooms, which is what happened btw with her friends. Girl trips especially to Vegas only means she plans of getting laid. Don't let her do it and if she does, get rid of her.
@ShyMplsMale3 ай бұрын
So you're part of the problem. Nice.
@FreedomTravels7203 ай бұрын
Protect your M.E.A.T. MONEY ENERGY AND TIME...juice aint worth the squeeze...many successful men do this and just pay for short time...think about that 😊
@gametheoretic3 ай бұрын
@@ShyMplsMale Just telling it how it is.
@sigmaway57173 ай бұрын
@@gametheoretic He is part of the problem. He is trash.
@ShyMplsMale3 ай бұрын
@@gametheoretic And so am I
@ShyMplsMale3 ай бұрын
This is so wild. Back in high school, if you were talking to a girl a lot and you both liked each other, you two were "going out" and you didn't even think about messing around with anyone else. Why would you if you were connecting with someone and you both were happy? The girls I knew were dedicated to their boyfriends and if anyone was caught cheating, they were called out on it. Men or women. Crazy how times have changed.
@AldermanFredCDavis3 ай бұрын
This is what I remember as well.
@xoxolycadaniel85743 ай бұрын
bcs of the easy acces for males...they wanna try as many....dating apps..insta etc
@markray24962 ай бұрын
Agreed! Times really have changed, thank goodness someone else agrees with me. Yeah in high school it never crossed anyone's mind, including mine. I've held that while women now have become more "modern"
@GBU612 ай бұрын
I started dating in the 70s. That was how it was back then. For a horny guy back then these women today would have been a dream come true.
@mileage_master2 ай бұрын
That is what you did
@steveblackbird3 ай бұрын
Straight up... I agree that these are non negotiables. However if any woman I'm seeing, does any of these things before I met her, I'm not telling her what she can or cannot do..I can however control what I do. I just won't take her seriously at all. Fun only. IE: No commitment from me...if it lasts It lasts, if it ends... I'll find another. NEVER EVER FORGET, women don't change...they just get tired of acting.
@GBU612 ай бұрын
This is exactly my attitude now. Unfortunately every man has to go through a “learning stage” until he realizes the true nature of women.
@lucianom.58553 ай бұрын
My girlfriend has all the good qualities you mention. Still burning desire after five years. However, after getting burned with a messy divorce and horrible marriage, I’m constantly looking for red flags. If she’s there with me when I’m on my death bed, I’ll then be convinced.
@ClarkCan3 ай бұрын
"If she’s there with me when I’m on my death bed, I’ll then be convinced." Nice one. Gotta remember it.
@tpb17173 ай бұрын
I wouldn't even be convinced then...more likely wondering if she poisoned me or something lol
@VR4Arch3 ай бұрын
So you are now the weak link in your relationship? Better give your best to give her what she deserves.
@lucianom.58553 ай бұрын
@@VR4Arch no one deserves anything
@LightYagami-rz6su3 ай бұрын
if her body count is bellow 1, you are good if not, she belongs to the streets!
@turnaround23 ай бұрын
You can skip all of this and just realize every relationship has an expiration date. When it starts to sour: you start feeling disrespected, taken for granted, or your needs neglected, you leave. Easy.
@carlosr1922 ай бұрын
Gratitude and value is difficult things to women have and see. But you can make her smile and be less controller . But be ware as the guy on the video says.
@wtf66942 ай бұрын
👋👋👋
@TheKingTywinLannister2 ай бұрын
Easy to the point till you are having kids. Then it’s not that easy anymore. Unless you want your daughter to have daddy issues
@petergalvez39302 ай бұрын
Easier said than done. I been in this position a year ago.
@turnaround22 ай бұрын
@@TheKingTywinLannister My 10 year old girl is being coparented and is very well adjusted, gets love and guidance from both her parents. You just need to work it out with the ex, live in the same town. But I get what you're saying.
@redman27512 ай бұрын
Yeah I had a GF that we got into it about her “freind”. She refused to drop him. We ended up having a fight, I left for the night and stayed with a buddy of mine that was married to her cousin so she knew where I was and wasn’t out trying to hook up with anyone. Meanwhile I found out later that she went and slept with her “friend”. I only found out months later though. I broke it off with her. She came back a week later with a ring and proposed to me and said she’s no longer friends with that guy. I told her, she should have thought that way before having to have a taste of another man that I asked her to ditch in the first place. I then told her she should go give that ring to the “friend” and see if he wants to marry her because I wasn’t interested.
@tres55332 ай бұрын
I have to say. "Well played chap" as the British would say. You did it in a controlled, classy way. Stay strong my brotha.
@black_triton926416 күн бұрын
@@redman2751 Well played, Sir!
@normangoldstuck81073 ай бұрын
You have got this wrong. Any woman who has done any of those things whether she agrees to stop or not is not worth considering. the well is already poisoned.
@peterkoch37773 ай бұрын
Notice that Rich does not talk about marriage. He only uses the term "committed relationship". You are right, the woman to marry and have kids with should not even have exes, social media and stupid girlfriends that will have a bad influence on her🎉
@normangoldstuck81073 ай бұрын
@@peterkoch3777 The term 'committed relationship' is such a platitude anyway.
@peterkoch37773 ай бұрын
@@normangoldstuck8107 Not really... in fact, it can be seen as verbal contract. OTOH a woemean is involved and words or vows mean nothing to a creature that can change its mind whenever it pleases her🤣
@Sc9cvsd2 ай бұрын
Thats true. If she has done these things then that is her mindset. She is OK doing it and probably will do it again. A high value woman wont do any of these things
@allopez85632 ай бұрын
All women nowdays have a past with another guy. For God's sake they begin having sex in highschool with the chads, they are already ran down. And many men in the US never have had sex in highschool or in their 20s.
@krisztm72213 ай бұрын
Keeper means she's gonna keep your money.
@imacomputer12343 ай бұрын
No guy friends, no posting thirsty photos, no girl trips. I'm gonna need proof an attractive woman like this even exists....
@jayviktor61303 ай бұрын
They don't. They're born with a smartphone in their hands so that the prince of the air can beam the message into their brain. Men need to wake up.
@xabun3 ай бұрын
they do exist, i just dumped one who met all the mentioned ones. but most of the time they still have brain damage, if you know what i mean, and have serious other mental issues.
@Namronnnn453 ай бұрын
It doesn’t. Maybe a needle in a haystack, but for the most part it just doesn’t. Especially if she is attractive. The more attractive she is, the more likely she will fall prey to western degeneracy.
@alansantos61423 ай бұрын
@@xabunThey exist, hidden baddies. But those aren't that good as they say. Women will be women regardless. I know one that has recently had a boyfriend and she never posted until recently when she had a "fight" with the bf. Intimate pictures on the story!She never has done that before. Also hints of a bf but never posts him. I swear when you give a woman commitment they become a nightmare to deal with regardless.
@alansantos61423 ай бұрын
Also if she isn't doing that currently, she will get the itch to do it to get you jealous or some shit like that. It ain't all rainbows and sunshine brother. Become better not bitter.
@Rennette-td2mq3 ай бұрын
Don't do it guys. They are entitled to changing their mind in a heartbeat. And take you for everything
@Random-rt5ec3 ай бұрын
Taking all your chyte is the scary/most damaging part.
@Rif_Leman3 ай бұрын
Women that post provocative pics or wear provocative clothing in public are not worthy of your commitment. Mentioning wanting to do any form of "girl's night" is the same as mentioning an open relationship.
@paulcolin90713 ай бұрын
😳
@zeda64403 ай бұрын
This advice is invaluable! Save yourself the headache & just follow the advice or you’ll learn the hard way
@JimBillyRayBob3 ай бұрын
Anyone who is posting provatative photos on social media is automatically disqualified from a LTR in my book.
@redpillthinking60433 ай бұрын
Yeah pretty much
@jlffried3 ай бұрын
Exactly- why even start or consider any investment of any kind with a woman who posts provocative photos of herself publicly. Its just a no go
@sonicchaos232 ай бұрын
100% got burned by the "guy friend" in my last relationship. You really hope your girl is different from the others but she wasn't. She could never keep this guy out of her life that she swore up and down nothing happened between them. Found out later of course it was a complete lie. After her lying to me, pausing our first date during dinner to text HIM and later emotionally cheating with him, I got setved the biggest slice of humble pie. But you live and learn. Biggest lesson for me, can make the same mistakes in the future. She was also constantly craving attention on social media. I told her to please private her account and she pushed back and never did. All these incredibly unloyal behaviors and SHE was the one who pushed me for marriage by the end when i had to nope out of there. Best thing i could have done
@greenhax92Ай бұрын
similar story
@SKBottomАй бұрын
Me, as well.
@louisvanderwalt282025 күн бұрын
Fuck dude, as the other gents said, so similar to my experience
@danielito-my9pb2 ай бұрын
Broke up with this girl and found out 2 months later she got pregnant by one of her “close guy friends that I didn’t want her around” 🤦🏻♂️🤡
@makenocommento-kj4gq2 ай бұрын
Guys this 1 of the Uncle Rich's best videos, watch twice, 3 times or more, bookmark it, take notes and always refer to it, when thinking about dating, going on a date or you have been dating for 1 or 10 months etc. This information presented is all 1000% Correct, there would be many men who have been divorced or broken up on a long term relationship and saying " I wish I watched and referenced this video, theres no guarantees in Relationships with women, however you can minimise the Risk. Top stuff Uncle Rich.
@VakoCavender2 ай бұрын
i did this with my current girlfriend, this content is gold. we are now almost 7 months together and i can say that has been the best girl i ever gad because she is submisive and have a burning desire, i went all in in terms of not trying to commit firs, just on my way and that is exactly what works and ofc having strong boundaries like mr richard says in this video
@alexj18973 ай бұрын
Rich was spittin' BARS on this topic. 👍🏾
@samuraisaint23603 ай бұрын
The fact that this conversation needs to be had with woman in the first place is a tragedy for all humanity
@robhulson3 ай бұрын
Look, women are the way they are, in part, because men did not stand up and enforce their boundaries. Weak men create bad times.
@alansantos61423 ай бұрын
This is why you always must spin plates, vet them for bad behaviour, use the same tricks they do. At the end of the day, you're the one that ends up laughing and you still got laid. They do not have the same values as us (the falling in love at first sight thing).
@robhulson3 ай бұрын
Wow. KZbin deleted/hid my comment. All I said was something to the effect that we are dealing with the sins of our fathers who did not set proper boundaries, hence the ladies are out of control. Our excellence and boundaries is how we fix this.
@georgedavid38153 ай бұрын
How about "Let me see your cell phone". Thats all you need.
@finnessejets42313 ай бұрын
@@alansantos6142exactly if the woman wants to commit, she’s not looking to do any of this stuff. Im not taking her serious anyway.
@1bizjets3 ай бұрын
There is no such thing as a keeper. Sooner or later she gets bored and wants some one else period.
@DavidRC-m9w3 ай бұрын
Not true. If you’re interesting enough and have boundaries they stay. 19 years of marriage. Ok yes I do have and advantage lol my wife is Eastern European. Not a American pre-diabetic 😂😂😂
@baryl39693 ай бұрын
How sad to see what society has become that you have come to this conclusion…
@esteban14873 ай бұрын
@@DavidRC-m9w19 years? She's cheated on you.
@Cahluvca3 ай бұрын
@@DavidRC-m9wnot the norm anymore but congrats to you
@DavidRC-m9w3 ай бұрын
@@baryl3969 exactly
@bradwjensen2 ай бұрын
You're right, and they're going to call you insecure and possibly think lower of you, but it's about respect and your future.
@DavidRC-m9w3 ай бұрын
Yep, pretty standard stuff. And if she does it and has the humility and maturity to apologize when she’s wrong, she is definitely a top perspective woman to be in a relationship with.
@jbdmb3 ай бұрын
You cant sucvessivelly monitor her for these demands though. Observe the indicators yourself without mentioning them and if too many red flags dump her and move on.
@BryceShamwow3 ай бұрын
Smart thinking. That is the way to do it.
@MrMigido3 ай бұрын
Nah. Lay the rules down up front. If she starts to squwack, walk away as the Boss.
@stanw83802 ай бұрын
Overthinking it here. If you have common sense, use it. Your gut and heart will let you know how to proceed in a relationship, if at all. Don't overthink it.
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
No, you simply don't understand female psychology. You can't think from a male naive perspective. Certain behaviours that woman have we have to be learned and schooled in. You can't use "common sense" for everything.
@HPockets933-xd2zt2 ай бұрын
Anything you tell a girl that she needs to stop doing in order to please you and to be in a committed relationship with you, she will stop temporarily just to sneak in under your radar. If she is doing these things, run from her and find the ones who are NOT doing these things. You don't need to correct a mature adult.
@xabun3 ай бұрын
Man, I _LOOVE_ that more and more men are waking up finally ... Thanks for the Video.
@concarryt3 ай бұрын
I disagree with the notion of dating a girl casually then cleaning her up to commit. If she's someone who has a lot of guys around, posts provocatively and goes out all the time; you should avoid her. You can't fix a sandcastle, prioritise purity
@41203062 ай бұрын
Can't polish a turd.
@KingLamarQuinton3 ай бұрын
These girls need to be PERMANENTLY in the fun girl category
@41203062 ай бұрын
Nothing uglier than an aging woman struggling to stay in the fun girl category. Unfortunately for them, the struggle is real. Men need to stay strong and not let them off the hook.
@tonyoleary2362 ай бұрын
What I have learned about woman over the years is you really can’t tell them what to do. A woman in a lot of cases is going to do what she wants. As long as she don’t have the keys to your house or your bank account who cares. If you find even a bit of common ground with a woman take it for what it is. She can have burning desire for you one day and won’t give you CPR the next. I have been married, common law and all that bull shit!
@kw77962 ай бұрын
Won't give CPR...pretty funny!
@tonyoleary2362 ай бұрын
@@kw7796 That’s true! I am not making shit up! To put your self out there these days could be financially problematic.
@ozmosisnisАй бұрын
Great points and advice. Small suggestion, the audio is extremely sub boomy from the road. It’s fine on speaker phone and laptop but obnoxious on higher fidelity like a car system or headphones. Use a post processor gate/eq
@EmpowerYou-Coaching2 ай бұрын
This whole idea that you can control your partner to ensure commitment is really misleading. Why not trust your partner instead? You can’t control anyone, so no matter how many conditions you put on the relationship, if they don’t want the same things or intend to step out, it’s going to happen. And honestly, all those demands are just going to push them away and create a really unhealthy foundation. The real issue here is fear. Fear of losing your partner makes you want to control them. We need to uncover these limiting beliefs surrounding relationships because projecting them as truth is very dangerous. Instead of focusing on ultimatums and control, get clear on your values and what you want in a relationship. Have those types of conversations to determine if this is the right partner for you. I’m not hearing that in this video. I hear, "I’m scared. I need to control you to feel safe." Instead, address your fears and focus on having real, honest conversations. That’s what builds a strong relationship.
@talulatree52972 ай бұрын
You are exactly right. All that comes from fear.
@kurt64103 ай бұрын
I disagree with you. A woman who has genuine burning desire for you will automatically do them. If you're having to ask her then she doesn't have genuine burning desire for you
@venomrx64423 ай бұрын
Many girls don't because they don't see any issue. Run from those
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
I sort of agree. Most women are not that dumb to not know these things. If she does these things she is not with intentions to be loyal and she is testing your willingness to allow her to monkey branch. If a woman even asks to go out with her friends alone to bars, clubs or girl trips, or talk to "guy friends" that is ground for termination or the relationship, no ifs or buts about it...
@JF-uf5jg2 ай бұрын
A keeper is a women that doesn’t move in( unless you want kids or have them.)you aren’t married too,is committed to you and you are to her. That is equality . Anyone can leave at anytime.
@involuntarilychad40483 ай бұрын
Most women negate this with the bate and switch. No commitment until the hypergamy genes are purged.
@rwdchannel29013 ай бұрын
Women usually wait until around year 10-15 in the marriage to do girl's night out. That's just a girl's trip locally. I was adopted by a married couple when they were in their 12th year of marriage. About 4 years later after I was adopted, I noticed my mother started going out to local clubs for girl's night out with all her girlfriends. She divorced my father after 20 years of marriage because he wasn't doing enough for her. He lost the 5 bed, 3 bath house he built near the beach in southern California. He bought her new cars every few years and used equity on the house to pay for her college education. He adopted 3 kids for her and had her artificially inseminated with 1 kid since she couldn't get pregnant naturally. He took to her to places such as Hawaii on their anniversary.
@robrob90502 ай бұрын
@@rwdchannel2901 He tried to please her all possible way, did not worked.
@dzllz2 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that, hope you’re alright bro
@LunqCharlotte2 ай бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
@QueenJessica-z5j2 ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
@LunqCharlotte2 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
@QueenJessica-z5j2 ай бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@QueenJessica-z5j2 ай бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@LunqCharlotte2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
@Cucumberflavoredmustard3 ай бұрын
I watch how she treats her dad. If she treats him with respect and values his opinions and positions, she will do the same to you. If she treats him the opposite, the chances she will even be receptive to the "no thirst photos, girl trips, or beta orbiters" requirement is virtually zero.
@Katarzyna-h2z3 ай бұрын
Fathers have left their daughters. Now men and women pay.
@Cucumberflavoredmustard3 ай бұрын
@@Katarzyna-h2z Which I why I don't date women who don't have their dad in their life.
@jaialaiwarrior2 ай бұрын
Great observation!
@NadineSigle3 ай бұрын
Hallelujah 🙌🏻!!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻. I was owing a loan of $49,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery, Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $11,000 and got my payout of $290,500 every month…God bless Mrs Susan Jane Christy ❤️
@LentineAbplanalp3 ай бұрын
Hello!! how do you make such monthly, I’m a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself 😭 because of low finance but I still believe God
@LiahSantos-li7xs3 ай бұрын
Thanks to my co-worker (Carson ) who suggested Ms Susan Jane Christy
@IbrahimFilipe3 ай бұрын
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery….Glory to God, shalom.
@DawnJastremski3 ай бұрын
She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 and finance advisor.
@SureshkumarShaih3 ай бұрын
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately
@jbar85jb223 ай бұрын
I've stopped committing. As soon as I see a red flag I go on to the next one as Jay Z says lol
@renegadezen78412 ай бұрын
You've met a girl that doesnt have any red flags? Because I think every girl I've ever met in my entire life has at least 1.
@MacBook1ng3 ай бұрын
A high-value, committed relationship is marriage. Sex is to make babies. Babies need committed parents. Committed parents are married.
@dalewhite47592 ай бұрын
Now it’s just leverage and recreation to have sex
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
Silly comment.... Commitment can be had without marriage. It's just a silly ring and a lame glamorized ceremony. And women have no problem what so ever to break a marriage it's rather the opposite since they have financial gain from it.
@khalifabinhendi61073 ай бұрын
Good video, thank you for the upload. Also, good choice for the outro song.
@4trumpwon2753 ай бұрын
There are no keepers. Hide all assets.
@shyman993 ай бұрын
Test #4: Trump or Kamela?
@TroutButter3 ай бұрын
lol If she chooses Kameltoe, run like Forrest Gump!
@jayviktor61303 ай бұрын
The vast majority of women will choose the candidate that supports abortion. That and feminism is what they care about.
@hurrifanc.34343 ай бұрын
If you choose either you're an idiot.
@GrR-c4s3 ай бұрын
This is good actually. You can tell if shes a leftie or not
@cosmictreason22423 ай бұрын
Trump or Hillary is the real question. If they only lately woke up, they are still a liability
@Icarianbrother3 ай бұрын
The idea that a woman has to have genuine burning desire in a man to want commitment is absolutely ridiculous! A woman can hate the man, but love the wallet.
@nuthintoprove3 ай бұрын
That's why you make sure she has a burning desire for you because you can't create it. All the things you do to create it cause her to loose respect for you.
@Icarianbrother3 ай бұрын
@@nuthintoprove If a woman actually has genuine burning desire for a man, it is ludicrous to believe that it will continue, regardless of what a man does.
@paulinekariuki97442 ай бұрын
Too bad
@Bluejay-zo7mb2 ай бұрын
Plenty women fake the “my one and only” line and they just love the money. It’s my one and only within weeks to the next one. 😂
@Icarianbrother2 ай бұрын
@@Bluejay-zo7mb Very true!
@Steve_Gambley2 ай бұрын
nuh uh, basically DON'T COMMIT especially in this gen. but i agree what you all have just said. thanks my mentor!
@floridasaltlife2 ай бұрын
Good shit right there
@johnjames75202 ай бұрын
I think it depends on the type of girls trip. The types of girls I’m dating would be going on a weekend kayaking, climbing, or backpacking trip which is totally fine.
@janplexyАй бұрын
I have a lot of female friends and I never think of sleeping or having any kind of romantic relationship with any of them.
@AbbaasDarwishАй бұрын
Cos you're a batty boy. You're checking out other guys 😂
@chanicefdz2 ай бұрын
Some girls will not ever ask the “what are we” question because they are waiting for the male to be the one to initiate the relationship. We are conditioned to think that the male is the leader, the one who by nature chases after what they want, and if they don’t, they must not want it that badly. I say don’t wait and communicate. Trust, you’ll know when a woman wants you. All those other boundaries have to be agreed upon by both parties and if you’re requesting that from her, you BETTER be committed yourself and do the exact same. No more guy fishing trips, no more following women who post revealing pics, etc etc. Most importantly trust has to be earned and once that’s there you won’t have to treat her like she’s your Porsche sitting in your garage.
@Prototyp3m1nd2 ай бұрын
Negative. If you really want a man you will do what it takes to make sure he's yours and you will initiate the conversation. Hence why genuine desire is paramount, because women make rules for the guys they have wrapped around their finger and break them for the ones they can't live without. Every girl will bring up the "where is this going" convo when she's truly interested and wants no one else no matter what she's used to, hopeful for, and so on.
@talulatree52972 ай бұрын
If a guy is really into fishing, you should let him. It's fishing. I will say, he should usually ask if you want to go, even if you don't. It's a way to build trust as well.
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
You are confused, or intentionally/unintentionally gaslighting(women are good at this) First of a good woman will understand these boundaries without being asked. Would you be okay with your boyfriend going to bars/strip clubs or trips to ibiza/thailand with his friends? Or keep a bunch of female "friends" he talks to on a regular basis? Didn't think so.... If you truly try to compare going on a fishing trip(where there is only males) with going to bars/girl trips to Vegas you truly are lost, or just gaslighting to get your way. A fishing trip would be comparable more to letting your girl to to the nail salon with her friends. No guy would have problems with that
@TallerLeanerYoungerwithDrSimon3 ай бұрын
Totally agree Rich
@paulinekariuki97442 ай бұрын
Sure
@stevend27482 ай бұрын
Don't wait A FEW MONTHS to determine this. You can screen these red flags within the first few dates. Trust me, don't waste your time trying to change someone.
@carefulthinker1293Ай бұрын
This is pretty good 👍🏾
@JaysonOlivoАй бұрын
The Zoom calls are definitely the best part of the SOU.
@fineartcreators2 ай бұрын
I have watched your videos for years and will continue to do so; however, I feel that many men aren’t interested in getting involved with any woman in general. No matter how convincing your arguments are, there’s always a choice of simply not bothering and having an easy life.
@RodriguezEnterprise3 ай бұрын
This some seriously valid stuff.
@expatguideph2 ай бұрын
Trust is the bottomline to any kind of relationship, even if the girl follows all of these 3 steps but still no trust, that issue will surface up later on and wont do any good for the relationship. Couples who deeply trust each other wont even bother to care for friends or girl outings... I think these are more for people who are scared, well its a good preventative measure but this comes from lack of trust mindset and when there is lack, no matter how many rules or tests you put out there for your partner, eventually it will fail.
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
well you can say that but if you as a woman don't follow these rules by your common sense and knowing what loyalty is., then you show to him that you don't respect him and that you are looking to monkey branch given the chance when you feel you can upgrade. Many attractive wonen have this mindset you have simply because they have so many options and opportunities and they want to leave them open. A smart man understands what your mindset is though and steers clear once he sees it.
@Underworld-Dark-Moon2 ай бұрын
Regrettably women and their lawyers can cite instances of asking her to delete social media posts or get rid of male friends as 'controlling behavior'.
@Dudewtfmandude3 ай бұрын
The truth is that she won’t question these thing or give you pushback if you’ve been the man from the get go. If you’ve been dating for multiple years and been walked all over, good luck trying to enforce no girls trips.
@Random-rt5ec3 ай бұрын
Mine passed all the Red Flag test until BOOM! Postpartum depression and she went full nut job. Spending, cheating, screaming, falsely accusing. She put me through 18 years of Hell before snapping out of it.
@robrob90502 ай бұрын
@@Random-rt5ec You did not tested her properly..
@caeaves2 ай бұрын
Yep. Sometimes the universe tells them no and they break down.
@Random-rt5ec2 ай бұрын
@@caeaves actress Brook Shields of Calvin Klein fame seemed mentally Okay but she also went bat chyte crazy (postpartum) for many years after giving birth.
@Daoldman-r5f2 ай бұрын
Spot on advice.
@rubenperez509Ай бұрын
Good content
@marliegay48882 ай бұрын
Men should be expected to do the same thing as they are asking women to do.
@curiouscat982 ай бұрын
These things you described should apply to both sides. And it should be both sides personal choices to be this way. It shouldn’t be you telling your partner it’s this way or the high way. Because that is only going to delay the inevitable outcome that at some point they will lock you in and do those things anyway. Or resent you for forcing them to do something they didn’t want to do.
@NineOneNine-e5g3 ай бұрын
I'm 62 years old and divorced after 30 years of marriage. Meeting women closer to my own age and there is always a lot of baggage. What about being friends with her ex-husband with whom she has adult children with?
@chopperking0073 ай бұрын
They're are 2 headed snakes....you'll never know what you got
@shawnmcdaniel4353 ай бұрын
Chameleons!
@georgedavid38153 ай бұрын
"Let me see your cell phone."
@ferreirasilas3 ай бұрын
Perfect.
@chriswong86593 ай бұрын
“I don’t have a cell phone.” LOL
@PoyTroy2 ай бұрын
A woman that truly wants you and wants to be with you, will do anything not to jeopardize the relationship nor disrespect you. For example I was with my ex for 5 years. She looked up to me, loved me. I could do no wrong in her eyes. She would go the gym in modest clothing. She’s very beautiful and has a great body. But because in the back of her mind at the time, she didn’t wouldn’t wear revealing clothing or be friendly with men at the gym cause she was scared she’d lose me. Fast fwd to now , of her being my ex. She does the opposite. Wear skimpy gym clothes, is friendly with men and puts herself out there more. Point being , she’s shopping around for a new man. If your women does this while she’s with you , it’s disrespectful and she doesn’t see you as her best friend
@joshuachaffin1858Ай бұрын
A huge reason that I married my wife. When I Started dating her she didn’t even have male friends. She never posted any thirst traps. And she hates going to clubs and bars. These women do exist just very rarely.
@susanbradley-ts3lb2 ай бұрын
I think Rich is an interesting fella!! I agree with him on these issues!
@HuckleDanny9 күн бұрын
Honestly, Rich, it sounds like waaaaaay toooooo much work, and I am no slouch. To me, you know their disposition on these areas long before before this convo. They don't make it past badda bing if they even have a sniff of these traits.
@tkleo20062 ай бұрын
Every time I was getting to know a girl and she had old selfies, pics, photos taken of her showing off, revealing cleavage, drunk at clubs and refused to throw them away or delete them I ended up dodging a bullet.
@RAMZAVFX2 ай бұрын
I'd like to do this as well as Mike's group, but until i get my first couple of properties(2-3y), I won't be able to throw the extra cash that way m8.
@MegaDavyk3 ай бұрын
Like it or not, if she has had 5 or 6 dix she has trashed her ability to stay in a committed long term relationship no matter what conditions she agrees to, to get your commitment.
@41203062 ай бұрын
The ability to control one's impulse is top quality one should look for in a partner. Hence virginity being a guarantee of impulse control. Best women I've been with were virgins. And this has nothing to do with the sex. They all were calm and collected. Don't don't splurge nor thirst for attention. 5 - 6 dix? You could be sure her hand bag costs her 2 months salary.
@theresedascoli3070Ай бұрын
I agree with this advice 100%. Do you believe the "rule" applies to both parties?
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
Pretty much. A loyal man will not go to Ibiza or nightclubs with his buddies in a commtited relationship. Nor will he have female friends he talks to or meets up with. But I think you understand this
@dougirvin24132 ай бұрын
Great channel, lot of good advice. I have a question about the "girls only trips". I've been taking guys only trips (me & half a dozen buddies form church & work) 4-wheeling and dirt bike riding for 30+ years (I'm an old guy). It seems hard to tell your GF she can't go to Vegas with her friends, but I'm for damn sure going wheeling with the boyz! How would you reconcile this delima?
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
blue pilled.... you cant compare going riding dirt bikes or fishing with a party trip to vegas. Are you really this naive? your activity = men only doing a hobby her activity = partying getting drunk and banding another dude
@anotherpuppet2 ай бұрын
The whole bachelorette party thing is a bit far, i can understand extended holidays with single friends but a trip with a sister or something that should be completely fine. I think it comes down to who you are and how insecure you are. If you can keep your woman happy in life and satisfied then you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. If she is in love, she wont cheat.
@SauliusKAY3 ай бұрын
I don't really believe even on these metrics, Rich. I've seen women who pretended for years and if this is the conditions to become a high value man's girlfriend and even wife, trust me they will do all these conditions without hesitations, but the truth what lies behind her mind you will find out only during breakup or divorce unfortunatelly. So I don't really trust all those tests even.
@jayviktor61303 ай бұрын
This is the proper mindset. Too many men are gullible and they want to believe it's not true. You don't really know her until you meet her in family court. Shout out to the coach gang and chameleons.
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial3 ай бұрын
Experience speaking right there. Totally agree. Vetting is pointless. You won't know her true colors until it's too late unfortunately.
@SauliusKAY3 ай бұрын
@@jayviktor6130 my ex wife would laugh if I would hang myself although she was begging me crying loudly if I would be the only man on the planet when I wanted to break up. I stopped then. And sudenly she got pregnant. She tricked me I found out later, but this is another story. But the moral of the story is that people said, they haven't seen anyone loving like she loved me in their life, but after my daughter birth everything changed and after 6 years she got another man. I was about 22 years in 3 different relationships in my life and the only certain thing I got from it - red pill. I am 46. Good luck my brothers. Take care of yourself and support our brotherhood ✊
@robrob90502 ай бұрын
@@SauliusKAY You test her if she is attention seeker these are quite mentally unstable and they can pretend for long time to be quality material, but with right tactics you can expose her very easily.
@frenkozilaza63982 ай бұрын
Who is the girl in the thumbnail with a camera?
@ianfrost80363 ай бұрын
Sometimes they will agree with your terms to get their foot in the door then try to wear you down with the typical manipulation or resent you for it in the future A relationship always seeems to become a power struggle just to have basic boundaries respected
@NotMik333 ай бұрын
Yeah those are just shit tests, they'll happen your entire life since she wants to see if you've become weaker
@Corsairforu3 ай бұрын
The person that CARES THE LEAST has the MOST CONTROL in a relationship.
@robhunter24353 ай бұрын
Do not get involved with these 304s
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
if a woman don't inherently understand these boundaries she's really not a good choice to begin with
@carloskleiber85002 ай бұрын
American women have a reputation
@hogujak2 ай бұрын
It is mind boggling how these moms with young children go on girls trips. I understand taking care of kids is really exhausting. But that doesn't mean she can just go to vegas, cancun to get hit on by random dudes. My wife and I would much rather go on a road trip with kids instead. It is tough with young kids but creates memories you will never forget.
@Simoss133 ай бұрын
Why would you even put commitment on the table if she is/was on social media taking photos of herself and going on girls trips. If she does either or both, she's a fun girl
@geraldmcgaughey53233 ай бұрын
I have only briefly been watching 👀 your channel with total focus, I myself been around the world 🌍 including Las Vegas, and.” I have been through life experiences with western females, and.”I stopped completely dealing with them period, it’s all illusion, it’s like chasing a rainbow 🌈 and.”we all know we’re that leads, my personal advice to any rational logical man, firstly your taking on collateral damage, and your taking a very serious health risk, I would seriously consider going to Thailand 🇹🇭 Cambodia 🇰🇭 Vietnam 🇻🇳 Philippines 🇵🇭 after as I man experiencing these incredible life changing experiences, you will never look 👀 back, happiness fun serenity everything a man hearts is there.
@ilovebohol2 ай бұрын
He’s just a friend… with BENEFITS 😎
@victoriar82462 ай бұрын
Hell noooo / I will be going on trips, thank you very much.
@talulatree52972 ай бұрын
You would still take trips and leave your man? I just can't do that. 🤔
@PlebiteBallerАй бұрын
what sort of trips?
@Hitch101ify3 ай бұрын
okey makes sense, what if the girl demands in return that you wont go on a trip with your guy friends, or she demands that you also don"t go to bars with your guy friends. What would you do as a guy then Rich?
@il90013 ай бұрын
Don't go, to show you are also respecting her and what you demand for her also apply to you.
@Hitch101ify2 ай бұрын
@@il9001 ok but aren't you a beta then if your GF or wife can put restrictions on you?
@il90012 ай бұрын
@@Hitch101ify I would advise to bring it up first. You will show that you're a strong man with values because you will tell her that you don't go on a trip with your friends and you don't go to bars with them, so that's why you ask her not to go on a trip or to bars with her friends either. In fact, since you're the one who brings it up first and you're setting a good example for her, she's not the one imposing restrictions on you.
@adibe39023 ай бұрын
Before you commit to her, be sure you're on the top of your game. If not, don't bother, she'll eat you alive even if she passed all the tests initially 😅😅
3 ай бұрын
People at the top of their game are not spending time here dude
@adibe39023 ай бұрын
Why not? Richard has alot of insight, altough i may not agree with everything. And most importantly, he is not black pilled.
@__a62903 ай бұрын
@@adibe3902 What do you consider "top of your game"?
@adibe39023 ай бұрын
@@__a6290 Understand women are reactive. It's always just you, never blame women, they're just a mirror of your own self-respect, overall abilities and patience untill you build your frame and actually keeping it indeffinetely. If a woman is not a complete angel with you, it's your fault. And trust me, women CAN be gifts sent from above.
@adibe39023 ай бұрын
@@__a6290And for the piece of resistance, never ever impose rules. If you're the right thing, she knows exactly what she must do. If not, she will just play dumb, respect your stupid little rules until she catches you. Then all hell breaks loose
@raquelhaddi692 ай бұрын
And ladies apply this to men as well
@abdulsabr63062 ай бұрын
Is that an Audi RSQ8 you’re driving ?
@mikebender74343 ай бұрын
If you have to ask her to stop doing any of these three things, it is already a lost cause. She may tell you that she will quit her bad habits “just for you”, but she WONT ACTUALLY DO IT….EVER. I would guess at least 80% of women who claim they will stop certain behaviors will simply hide this from their man. That, or they will only comply for a period of time.
@mikebender74343 ай бұрын
@@garrypatrick6097 Yea, I have to disagree with Rich here. The kind of negative behaviors he is talking about are highly addictive to women. I would just as soon date a “recovered” alcoholic. There is no woman over 30 worth a shit that is on social media posting ass pics and tit shots.
@cmnhl1329Ай бұрын
Stay away from night clubs. Why would you pick someone from that cesspool?
@charlesbroderick50302 ай бұрын
Nooo that’s considered friend zoned
@sethdunn963 ай бұрын
I would like to hear a video from you regarding the "Posting pics on IG" aspect. Guys can explain to women how that looks and why they don't like it. So what would be a similar thing a guy could do that a woman wouldn't like, but the guy would think "Well it isn't bad and that isn't why I am doing it"
@joemachine47143 ай бұрын
It doesn't matter if your example is logical or not 😂