Why Girls Are So Mean

As any high school student knows, girls can be really mean.. almost animalistic in their viciousness. And so, when researchers went in search for what's behind this behavior, they turned to the animal kingdom for answers.
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"During the latter half of the last century, evidence of reproductive competition between males and male selection by females led to the development of a stereotypical view of sex differences that characterized males as competitive and aggressive, and females as passive and choosy, which is currently being revised."
Mean Girls: Women Evolved to Be Catty?
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Mean girls: Scientists say women have evolved to be 'indirectly aggressive'
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[@keliallx]

half the girls in my class need to see this video

[@erinconnolly3012]

Half the 8th graders in my school need to see this video

[@user-iz3ns6vb2c]

+Thomas Zenhaeusern lol

[@Mica_T]

Same.

[@2Garins]

so true

[@joselaraguiterrezperez1851]

+Kelia Lim same

[@johnnybgoode1950]

It's not just girls. Females often seem to retain that meanness throughout their whole lives.

[@TheKing-bq4ez]

@Things Things you prove his point right now but what ever

[@TheKing-bq4ez]

@Things Things still proven his point , you girls don't like to hear the truth but claim you're defending yourself 🤣

[@johnnybgoode1950]

@Things Things I said females often do, not that every female does.

[@stub4488]

It gets worse after the wall.

[@N1sjsjsj]

@You need magnesium. Girl hush you're literally proving his point

[@TheHazeist]

Scientists are only finding this out now?!! Wow.

[@venu3334]

NO . its about psychology

[@dickhamilton3517]

scientists require a higher bar than the rest of us. Data and details, how much? when, exactly? in what circumstances? when not? why not?

[@hisoka3159]

Well duh, every girl in the past who acted out a little was put on a BURNING FUCKING STAKE FOR BEING A FUCKING WITCH. So yeah, now that murder of a unique woman is outlawed, it's studied and not killed ;(

[@luciferaswin]

We have been going through it since feminism rose

[@TheKing-bq4ez]

@@wiktoriagawel1656 did you know for an idiot

[@miyumi85]

I have definitely found that women are more passive-aggressive. Women hold grudges, and never seem to let things go. Men duke it out real quick then go back to being friendly.

[@kittenjuggler1]

exactly, a few punches to the throat and then we grab some beer.

[@janawahba7350]

Pika-boo The protogen Lol they aren't stereotyping a gender,they're just saying that there's scientific proof as to why and how females are passive aggressive.

[@pineapplepenumbra]

Yep, it's how things usually are, but there are always exceptions. My girlfriend gets real angry real quick, but then it's over and that's pretty much it. She doesn't play games or hold grudges, and does go back to being friendly, like nothing ever happened.

[@daironlubian6250]

The video is talking about the majority, just because you're a female and you happen to not act that way doesn't mean that you represent that majority of women, in addition I feel like some girls don't even realize or accept that they are passive aggressive but oh well.

[@excusemewhat5270]

YAY, IM BEING BIAS ABOUT A CERTAIN GENDER BECAUSE OF EXPERIENCE, they ain’t too nice.

[@theovl318]

I hate girls that are mean to me, but girls that are nice to me can melt my heart

[@andrewschannel4259]

Girl personalities Rude AF: 94% likely to meet Nice: 5% likely to meet Sweetheart: 1% likely to meet

[@andrewschannel4259]

@angel cake I know a girl like that too. She played softball for years and I met her because of that (no I'm not her boyfriend). She's literally one of the nicest girls in the entire universe.

[@EricSPizarro]

Sad but true

[@BaterBoiJukes]

girls Rejecting me: 100%

[@happymindedness5326]

Even tho I am a girl, I can relate to u

[@dropperdowner7992]

Jeez wow you just put the other sex out as aliens don't you? We're human beings please. We have personality. Maybe I'm ridiculously lucky but I've met an odd number of that 1℅. Unless that's actual stats, please refrain from spreading misinformation. It's very distasteful.

[@Pony7one]

Well I'm female and I'm a loner. I don't deal with drama, cause ain't nobody got time for that.

[@lol70721]

forever alone ;-;

[@Pony7one]

lol70721 Hey hey I got guy friends, man! lol and a boyfriend so HA! I'm not that lonely ;)

[@lol70721]

Desolan Studio :3 Oh I see

[@TyrbeTrost]

Desolan Studio So you agree that guys are way cooler than girls, right? :L

[@leenakahlon5508]

Bitch.

[@alexandralite835]

i stay away from cry baby braty girls. i rather be around nice people

[@thesingingpikachu5351]

Same

[@nymphhoney1639]

Your statement, in of itself, is passive agressive. As is mine. Thus proving the point the video was making.

[@vriskaserket3086]

holy fuck cowan thats some deep shit right there some meta ass shit man *passes blunt*

[@alexandralite835]

Melissa Cowan good it was ment to. only differnce is i will make it known that i dont like what another girl is saying to me and if she doesn't like it then i would rather be around some1 else that treats me nicely and would be honest if im being offensive cause thats how you learn. you can always point something out and not be mean or rude. its called being real. i dont talk behind my friends back. if they say something like "im a negative person" and keep saying i am i will ask someone else if they agree. wether they do or not i tell them the next time that the are offensive. i have to live with a strong opinionated offensive person so it needs to be said.

[@connorsleftnut942]

Melissa Cowan 🤯

[@pete7164]

I love when science "discovers" something that everyone with half a brain has known for hundreds of years

[@sni-ri1yg]

Science makes coke and whisky. Checkmate

[@fastest159]

Wel they are dumb at this point...

[@Phosphoenol_pyruvate_CK]

🤣🤣🤣

[@RyanSyn]

"Passive aggressive" = Smart and sneaky little shits.

[@stuff3977]

My female teacher said many women are complainers and I totally agree with her

[@bearhugger167]

The girls that I met at school... 1. The abusive friend 2. The lesbian perv 3. The jerk 4 the short tempered Somone kill me

[@vriskaserket3086]

you only met four girls? [[ to quote ryuga, "its just a joje sheesh"

[@jessica-hy2eu]

BearHugger 16 SO TRUE

[@bearhugger167]

Haha yes. I mostly hang out with guys

[@GrievousAngel007]

the female species will kill their rivals' kids? wow.

[@rebeccarobinson1007]

+Alley R One "female" isn't a species it's a gender, and two males of certain species do this too.

[@tylersaxon285]

hahaha

[@user-mg8fw1lw9f]

I remember being part of a girl group in elementary school but once they started bullying people I left immediately and was hesitant to be in any groups of girls because I wanted zero to do with such people. I did hangout with other groups but there were always guys in that group. That carried all the way into college. I don't play that shit

[@mohal-sal3998]

You actually made me feel that I have a benefit as a male to stabilize tensions between females, Thank you.

[@user-mg8fw1lw9f]

It's always a better experience to hangout with both men and women. You will have a better understanding of both parties because you will have experience dealing with both people. It isn't 100% guaranteed that every single group of girls will have this tension between them because of competition for a guy but it is damn close. I would welcome the possibility of girls being in a group, having each other's backs and not doing this Mean Girls crap but this is all driven by sex.

[@LB-ou8wt]

Interestingly, there are way more comments about "SJWs", "triggered", and "feminizazis" than actual extreme "feminists" complaining about the vid.

[@yuzk2]

Every reactionary movement goes one step further, some political correctness is a good thing, but the SJW movement took it over the top, but now there's a new anti-SJW movement which basically demonizes *any* political correctness at all... Why can people never meet in the middle???

[@seantripp6028]

That's because the information in this video runs against the neo-feminist narrative, that women are pure and saintly when the data is suggesting otherwise. They would rather remain aloof and subversive and hold steadfast in their beliefs than actually contend with the issue.

[@tedmcfly]

and what , pray tell, is an actual feminist?

[@LB-ou8wt]

Alex Barba A feminist is anywhere between just wanting women to vote and have equal legal status, to believing that women should get paid more than men to make up for the patriarchy or man-hating. 1st, 2nd, and 3rd wave (what we see now with the SJW's and crazy, oversensitive, overcorrecting feminism). So you can be a feminist who doesn't agree with 3rd wave feminism.

[@LB-ou8wt]

At no point have I connected myself with feminism or called myself a feminist. Both of my comments were nothing but a neutral, factual observation and the other the explanation of the range of feminism and the people the range of beliefs of the feminists in our world. Did I say I was one? No. So how have I "connected myself" with gender terrorists (which obviously are a small number of self-proclaimed "feminists" in the first place)

[@classiccarsclassicrock9433]

I am dealing with women over 40 doing this stuff still. I get sick of it. Some woman need to grow up. This makes me think pretty good on myself. I guess they are jealous. Am not changing my self for silly actors.

[@Siberius-]

Jealousy isn't the take away.. that's an excuse people make to make themselves feel better whenever someone doesn't like them or being mean.. but in this case they're just naturally bitchy it seems or they see you as a threat to their work or you're just not in their little social group so they don't like you or maybe you just don't get along with them.. plenty of other reasons.. it's rarely about actual jealousy I find. Especially since women who are more attractive and have more money and a partner and everything can still be bitchy for various reasons. And men. Edit: I'm muting this thread now, so no more replies from me.

[@katycharles1578]

I found older women do this MUCH more. They had time to practice and time to let emotions fester. Lol

[@lizcorbett2587]

I notice women of all ages do it too but it's such a stumbling block for me whenever I encounter it since i work with almost all males. With passive aggressive social games i usually just yield and stroke their ego a bit. *yes i am just a miserly crab at your feet oh goddess. i could never steal your man*

[@samlivegood1938]

Prime example of passive aggressive behavior. This is what passive aggression is

[@johnnonamegibbon3580]

+Liz Corbs This comment is perfection. Internet perfection. *Bless This Comment*

[@thaik56]

I guess that is why most of them are called "females" while very few of them are actually "women". Sorry for being so blunt, I had to say to it.

[@liitirlalance3754]

Truth.

[@MJ-cq6gz]

I don't understand the difference.

[@thaik56]

@Things Things I'll say it then, you have males and you have men.

[@shinagmi]

This is vary sexist, sorry i had to say it :)

[@katherinekunker1419]

In my experience, girls (and boys too) were meaner in middle school. Especially in sixth grade. That...was ugly. The meanness actually declined sharply in high school. But that's just me.

[@kylerparson6668]

Noticed that too.

[@TrailerKeller]

Katherine Kunker I noticed that in high school use guys did not give a shit and we’re just bros

[@hansklok3564]

the older we get, the less primitive we get.

[@burntferidgerator6848]

At my school I'm literally the only kid who is picked on wtf

[@fakename3440]

That's actually true i'm in sixth-grade the moment I wright this and kids who were angels in fifth grade turned into demons this year.

[@kevindondrea144]

I 100% believe this. Without even knowing anything about their research, I've said this same exact thing. Years ago. More recently I said the same thing to a friend's daughter who is going through this same problem. Being bullied because they're afraid that she's prettier than they are and more popular.

[@xxkatgamingxx998]

This is why ALL my friends are boys. They smell like onions...but at least they aren't mean.

[@JeskaDax]

+KatTube Of course, that indirectly puts you as major competition for any girl that is attracted to any of your guy friends. Behavior psychology can be pretty self-supporting, huh?

[@Mica_T]

Same. I do have a few female friends but they usually aren't as close.

[@karlijackson8580]

+KatTube onions??

[@hellothere4485]

😂😂

[@catprowess97]

Hahahahhauaha onions

[@germanicuscaesar7382]

One girl back in the day used to be mean towards me, until I told her she doesn't look like she played soccer. Then it was all tears from that point on, she hated me yet still tried to gain my approval by proving to myself and everyone around me how much she worked out. I found it hilarious on how much she tried, I could have cared less.

[@bruuh3130]

Haha that's why I don't care what people say to me unless it pisses me off then I take action

[@LB-ou8wt]

so basically you're saying that you care

[@bruuh3130]

+LB Fuck yeah

[@Velamaya531]

Germanicus Caesar girls like that made me lose my empathy for foolish behavior. Manipulate someone else not on my time, please and thank you. Now go away is how I saw it.

[@ultimatespider-man3780]

WHEN I READ THE TITLE I KNEW TRIGGERED FEMINISTS WILL COME

[@pseudonym2839]

The title actually intrigued me and I’m a feminist.

[@fememoboy7601]

Shenay Everest Same

[@majlordag1889]

I'm a feminist and was writing in the search bar why women hate eachother, cause so many do. But I've seen a crazy amount of hate in men too. Don't be fooled

[@JanetStarChild]

It's a little different among competing lesbians. Fists will fly.

[@iregretdyeingmyeyebrows5645]

I'm getting sick of mean girls around me

[@flamesfan4lifegoflamesgo508]

To be honest a lot of the girls I have talked to have mostly been nice. But some have been talking shit about me on how I look. And honestly it pisses me off

[@KevinNguyen-rq1zf]

This video roasted every girl in the world.

[@bearhugger167]

Not meh.

[@geminix365]

every fact does

[@hchozn]

Mrgamer 22 not me.

[@hellfreezer3037]

cuz they fucking deserved it

[@psi_fresh6121]

@@hellfreezer3037 all they do is go for people who are sexy and rich or people who do drugs, act tough, and have bad grades

[@hannyaespinoza5111]

And they say gender is a social concept

[@africanprince4884]

@You need magnesium. you need to be sh0t.

[@kayitesimussmann7292]

This is why its easier for me to trust men. For the most part, its really easy to tell if a guy is mad at you or not cause they don't usually hide their anger, if they're upset they'll express it. Whereas if a woman is mad at you, she might be fake nice to you or passive aggressive and you'll never know what she's saying behind your back and if you ever truly likes you..

[@ReptillianStrike]

wait so if a 100% hot girl is mean to another girl who is cute but not as much as the 100% one that means the 100% one thinks the one who is cute is a threat to her boyfriend or a threat in her sex life??

[@Snowdrop12]

Exactly. Interesting isn't it?

[@RoxyLuffer]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. that 100% hot chic (to you) could think that the girl who is only cute (toy you) is 1000% hotter than her. I love that humans are so interesting

[@anoukfleur2513]

Just goes to show that men aren't all that superficial either! :)

[@RoxyLuffer]

I don't believe myself to be male though. Based on that belief, I'm transitioning M2F

[@Shenruss]

RoxyLuffer Better wording would be "The one whom the heart adores is ever the most beautiful", so if a woman who adores herself and IS striking is constantly comparing herself to others, SHE is viewing herself as unattractive. THAT's a major area where all this "competition" comes from; instead of liking themselves and thus being happy, they are focusing on the competition of others and seeing them as threat needlessly.

[@feynstein1004]

Feeling pretty good about being forever alone right now.

[@HentaiSweetie]

1:55 I bet the feminists loved that part.

[@flower5213]

HentaiSweetie There is a difference between feminism and misandry.

[@lol5776]

Flower Not anymore.

[@flower5213]

RedX1000 You sure about that? There are many different philosophies of feminism; many different people involved. Abolishing gender stereotypes will heal men's situations as well. Our struggles go hand in hand against societal role, categorization, and stereotypes, to be recognized as people before anything else. Those who blame men, think men are inferior, and discriminate based on gender are not feminists, even if they call themselves such. They are but harmful perpetuators; no different than the patriarchal structure and sexist perceptions of gender they are trying to fight.

[@LogEekumanAgination]

+HentaiSweetie The part that is upsetting isn't that evolutionary speaking men are expendable. The part that is upsetting is how often feminists don't even bother talking about the unique challenges men have to face. As if it's not an issue. Being evolutionary expendable is for the most part a uniquely male experience. And it can suck. Big time.

[@lol5776]

+Dirk Haupt and they say they help everyone. I mean, I'm all for equal rights, but they are sacks of shit, especially the white knights.

[@virginiakettles37]

This didn't explain why girls are mean. It explained HOW girls are mean.

[@earthinthecomments4944]

Exactly and thats why girls are mean..............

[@spidermilk3447]

+Virginia Kettles I guess it's sexual competition. Pregnant women need someone to care for them in the wild. They would often die from child birth, so the value they put on their sexual partners is much greater then men. Men could in theory impregnate a dozen women in a day, without any obligation to them. So I would guess that that would make the instinct for sexual competition is much more intense in women. Of course not every single woman will be like this, but we're talking tendencies here.

[@virginiakettles37]

spider milk You're probably right. I wonder if this plays into the differences between man-on-man friendships and woman-on-woman friendships.

[@ibras17]

+Virginia Kettles, it did, men are expandable from an evolutionary point of view, women are not, so they can not afford to be aggressive in a direct way thus the passive aggressive behaviour !!

[@johnnonamegibbon3580]

+ibra s Ya got it. Still balin'.

[@efex2007]

men are expendable. so that's why during the burial of her husband, a woman cries with one eye and uses the other to look for a substitute. lol

[@xmrxablexmex]

Thats a sick way of thinking its not even funny

[@seanhennesy3077]

No it didn't.

[@seanhennesy3077]

***** How ignorant can you be? It was talking about animals, and even so, male ones do it to. How about you get your facts straight before you go haring your biased opinions on the internet, bigot.

[@AdityaRaj-zb3vk]

Are you a wahhman too?

[@sidalisidali893]

Lol

[@CestLaVieSellerie]

I'm a girl, and I approve this message...

[@Dandel1onF1eld]

im a girl, and other girls being mean is why i hate being a girl.

[@nicolekramar3788]

im not mean at all, other girls dont like me, and those girls that dont like me i dont like them... .But generally im nice, and really shy, probably the main reason those girly girls hate me is cause im different and dont talk about boy crushes, clothes, shoes, and i dont take selfies, im a gamer girl

[@masquitoman]

ha wow science at work, you are currently using a passive aggressive method to fight off competition(other girls). just as described by the mean girl analogy in the video. so you are the Lindsay Lohan character?

[@nicolekramar3788]

***** huh? what is passive agressive? i didnt even notice... and why would i fight off competition when i dont even think I have a chance with guys... im ugly

[@rinamarie116]

Niki Nicole your are calling them out on their character by implying that they are only superficially into "boy crushes, shoes, and clothes" while simultaneously saying that your "nice" and "shy" that is passive aggressive.

[@nicolekramar3788]

Karina Bertrand they're not only into what i said, there's other stuff too, i dont listen to them, so i dont really know what they talk about but sometimes i overhear, and im not always nice im generally nice , but im always shy until you get to know me better, and i dont mind how they behave its just that they treat me like i dont even exist or like i have no clue whats going on just because im shy, they dont care what i think and when i dont care what they think they get offended

[@rinamarie116]

im not saying i don't believe you that they are mean… i was just saying that Dylan was right that you were, at the moment, being passive aggressive. lmao. if you don't care why even let it bother you enough to post about it? obviously you care a little…. SO I wish you luck with bitchy girls and hope you don't have to be put into any future awkward situations with them!

[@decourtennicolas]

because they are all on the rag... help me out here fellas.

[@bopp3rz]

this comment had me dying

[@ilikeover9000pies]

xD

[@jasmine-pe3ox]

As a girl I can confirm. I remember someone else made this comment but it’s pretty accurate, “It’s like how siblings are more likely to fight each other than their cousins.”

[@MichaelN77]

That was LIKE SO FETCH, Thanks Trace!

[@PrincessWhatsername]

Yeah, honestly, this is pretty accurate. I know I find myself feeling initially spiteful towards other women that I find "hotter" than myself....granted I recognize it so I'm mindful to ignore it (unless they turn out to be really dumb or bitchy). But yeah, regardless of how my self esteem is doing at any given time, I rarely immediately decide I like other stereotypically "hot" women.

[@whyme16]

Yep gotta love people on the internet arguing over whether men or women have more intelligence just makes both sides look idiotic to be honest

[@jonahladish-orlich7287]

I've been good friends with females for almost my entire life, and just as I am about to hit puberty, I have already noticed girls forming social groups. But here's the catch: These groups are hostile to male influence, even though the males are technically their sexual target, so it's technically throwing what you want right at you, and then you decline it. Can you guys explain that?

[@LogEekumanAgination]

+loneevergreen Humans are weird illogical creatures. We always want most what we cant have. If a group of girls is hostile towards men that tends to increase their desirability and thus their status. Socially their status increases since other people see they are more desirable. Sexually their status increases since more men now want them and will bring them resources for a chance to mate with them. It's not just girls that can find jerks more attractive. Guys can totally find mean girls more attractive if it makes them seem more "unobtainable." My explanation at any rate

[@lilqueero6115]

Has anybody realized the anitials are DN which also stands for DEEZ NUTS

[@KevinNguyen-rq1zf]

lol.

[@simtan2418]

No...

[@vriskaserket3086]

HA GOTEEEEM

[@williamthelonelywasp4842]

BRUHHHHHHH 🤣💀

[@carinahoyt2446]

... I was really bullied at my old school... So... Did they say I was ugly because they thought I was a sexual threat?!

[@goji5887]

Not likely... In most cases like that when others try to make you feel bad it's because theyre insecure about themselves and they shove their negativity on others to compensate

[@lizcorbett2587]

it could be that they saw you as a sexual threat, which goes along with being insecure

[@johnnonamegibbon3580]

YES!

[@carinahoyt2446]

;3

[@Infinit3Enigma]

HEY HEY HEY HEY...I good sir are not expendable. Let's get this straight shall we?

[@anonamoft7006]

Get the grammar right and they'll may have a point......

[@Kodachi112]

Anonamo FT No, he just needed a comma after "I" and it would've been ok. I'm tired of these youtube clients complaining about every little thing. EVERYONE JUST STOP BEING SUCH A GRAMMAR STRICT. EVEN I CAN UNDERSTAND THOSE PEOPLE, YOU GUYS ACT LIKE THERE'S BEEN A DEATH IN THE FAMILY WHEN YOU SEE SOMEONE SPELLING SOMETHING INCORRECTLY. IM DONE. No offense, Anonamo.

[@Thalmoral]

In terms of biology, men are far more expendable. You lose all but one man, your group/tribe can recover its numbers quickly. You lose all but one female, and you're pretty much gone as a tribe. In reproduction there's always going to be one gender that is more valuable for a species continuation, albiet both are important, and all of this is irrelevent in terms of more developed societies. Don't worry about it, you aren't expendable.

[@Infinit3Enigma]

oBehemoth lol i know. im just having fun

[@wowomah6194]

oBehemoth well really if I were the only male and there were like 50 women who needed babies to continue the human race, I'd be 'king of the castle' haha

[@miryangkim6186]

Im a girl and im more of a tomboy and I think most girls are spoiled

[@Blindlyfollowingthewind]

im more of a girly person and yes i am spoiled but not as horrid and rude as you are hunny putting ppl down isnt sexy just like stop

[@amolchavan1558]

@@Blindlyfollowingthewind she was not rude she just stated facts

[@wiseguy240Winston]

Tomboys are the best

[@ProductBasement]

If women hang out with others who they don't see as a sexual threat, then why do the super hot girls click up with each other and leave out the less attractive girls?

[@waterball5834]

Men can’t handle a joke. Women can’t handle a very tiny joke.

[@joselaraguiterrezperez1851]

I bet there is going to be that one goddamn feminist

[@catrichbillay1506]

Lmfao

[@SethDaMeth]

Lmfao is right

[@DeLaSoul246]

+Sandvich.bsp .png I don't get it. Why would feminists get mad about this? The video explains scientific evidence for the fact that women are just as aggressive as men- they just use their intelligence instead of brute strength to execute their aggressive will. *shrug*

[@joselaraguiterrezperez1851]

DeLaSoul246 I meant about one single senten... nevermind

[@kyalucero7977]

Well the whole video is about women and hating each other so duh

[@awesomeguy2009]

I knew it was a good idea to not date anyone during highschool. Every nice girl had something *off* about them.

[@henriqueeendr]

Girls have made me lose all of my self esteem. The first person to start bullying me was my female teacher in year 4. A TEACHER!

[@MekahMenke]

this is why most of my friends were guys

[@gorrellchris]

Are they not guys anymore? or not your friends?

[@KorrinG1970]

It's a simple question with a simple answer : PERIODS!

[@sentry3401]

*Hello darkness my old friend, Ive come to talk with you again.* Darkness: So whats up? Me:Im forever alone. Darkness: Sorry cant help ya then.

[@BeastGamerNN]

OPPPSS.. I AM 3 YEARS OLD🥺🥺🥺😨😨😱😱

[@sacredcowtipper742]

Why does passive-aggressive behavior happen? Because sometimes people are not given a voice for direct expression.

[@BlueDrag0nGirl]

This makes so much sense... thank you :-)

[@ahanaroychoudhuri]

We girls are all the time fighting when we're in the same room, who's prettier, smarter, wittier, gets most attention. Even tho it looks like we're nice and friendly, the whole fight happens quite under the table while men, this one particular thing about them really impresses me is that they keep it so real, they do not put up any fake smile, get physical when they are angry and fight it out with healthy aggression while we women are never allowed to be real with our instinct and just agree with the fact that we all girls here are nice and friendly and we are laughing all the time while at the same we hate each other's guts and express our anger in an unhealthy manner by being passive aggressive and a sweet knife and be competive about everything.

[@fearlessswiftie6458]

Dammn you explain it so nicely..and I can guess you are an Indian 😉

[@ahanaroychoudhuri]

@@fearlessswiftie6458 yup I'm an Indian

[@BungieStudios]

Passive aggressive, my butt! You ever see a petite woman take off an Army veteran's head? It ain't pretty!

[@francesca6319]

Love the disclaimer at the end,

[@christineroelens4494]

I thought it was presented in an entirely entertaining way and think you sir are on to something. I enjoyed watching, thanks=)

[@Emma88178]

Total misogynist crap! Boys can be just as mean. And there are an equal amount of nice boys and girls. Any human can have any personality

[@PakiRambo75]

that dualistic view of life is wrong.. and has just been disproved by science as shown above

[@troglastname4729]

+blugeagua stop denying science. not everything is equal, then are more males then females in the world, is that dual no. not saying men > women or women > men but this videos science is very likely true

[@Nnn-oc1vl]

Girls do it on purpose

[@MistressYume]

"Males are basically expendable [...] females are not" LOL THANK YOU

[@Desolator84]

I remember my class back in the nineties, kids and teens used to be friends to each other, no groups, no social-economic status. There was teasing, but never bullying. Of course, this was in the nineties, small village in Serbia.

[@BenCadetThePastafarian]

Wait... So women aren't just like that on their period? WHY!?! NATURE! WHY!?!

[@bearhugger167]

When I'm on my period I'm not grumpy at all... That's just a lousy exuse that girls use so they can get mad at evreyone and be a jerk.

[@transforgoku]

That's something they'll never admit, and still blame it on men...

[@maddiesiegmund5623]

Women get this mysterious phenomenon called "anger" and "annoyance" when stressed or provoked. It's channeled in the socially acceptable way of passive aggression. Whenever a woman has her period, her body sheds most of the estrogen and progesterone that was stored in her uterus; therefore testosterone is the hormone most prevalent during menstruation. This is when more direct aggression or displays of anger/annoyance is likely to take place.

[@aylinerik2208]

How about female introverts?

[@MobiusMundUr]

Women have a sex drive??? *WHAT????*

[@mprogers6110]

Similar

[@jciil2309]

When this came up on my recommend list I instantly wanted the answer

[@JohanStarDragon]

But a question arises, is this behavior innate or is it learned?

[@by483924]

The scientists are zoologists, and I think they're linking this finding to hardwired brain mechanics. It would be pretty un-mind-blowing results if it only suggested a culturally fostered tendency that everyone already knows about. But I haven't read the actual study because I'm lazy, so don't listen to me! The link to the study is in the description if you're less lazy.

[@KatieSimmonspachirii]

I'm a very nice girl, a little too nice. I get pissed off but I won't express how I feel or hurt anyones feelings. I think the way we _feel_ is innate but how we deal with those feelings is learned :) I have no evidence, just my thoughts. 

[@JohanStarDragon]

Katie Simmons I think you're onto something with that.

[@SKiLLsSoLoN]

This video seem to be based on nature. I think a lot of the problems lies in a few things but i'm still trying to understand. First women are the ones who need to understand the inner workings of the human, like emotional, mental, psyche, ect. because they are the teacher of such to the offspring. With that being said, we live in a world that operates on the outter world, (body, material, possession, class, profiling, skin color, ect) and from I understand women are also the very social creatures, they enjoy facts (which we seem to label drama sometimes) and are flexible. Now i'm saying this based on the female nature and not just a female in general. I must also state that I have been learning a great deal of history and women have been suppressed/sub human and it's interesting how we act because of this new thing (which is starting to prove that we have issues with change) -- Just my thoughts!

[@johnnonamegibbon3580]

A bit of both.

[@bananewane1402]

tons of females must see me as sexual competition then :/

[@bananewane1402]

Im female lmao

[@Kevin-um1nq]

Banane Wane don't get offended when people think you're a guy on the internet, mostly it's guys/boys that spend their entire time on the Internet lol

[@bananewane1402]

Minty ayy it doesnt bother me all that much; just found it amusing

[@Kevin-um1nq]

Banane Wane lol

[@bananewane1402]

Theeyes Theears *you're I said the above comment because as a female I'm not particularly attractive or socially orientated, so I can't comprehend why anyone would view me as sexual competition. It's a short way of calling the video into question. *facepalm* Well done for not only assuming my gender, but assuming that I'm lying about my gender.

[@OkamiiNOmino]

Bruh my classmate is rude to me because she thinks I like her XD lol

[@JsnGallardo]

I agree, how do I know? Choir . ooooh, when solos and major roles are up for grabs, the claws come out

[@VIXLIZ]

This really helps me understand my gender a bit better. I suppose since I've always been comfortable in my own skin I haven't had to resort to such tactics.

[@leogarcia8640]

I'm gonna show this to my classmate and PROVE she's mean.

[@ChanelleFT]

This just reminded me of how much I don't miss high school. Then again, some people never grow out of the caddiness. There are reality shows purely based on grown women fighting. *cringes*

[@johnnonamegibbon3580]

I was popular as fuck in high school, and I don't remember anything about it other than the bitches that loved meh. My point, high school is overrated. You'll do better shit after.

[@mipatriabella]

It's so true! And it's so subtle, men don't even notice

[@michaelshannon9169]

We keep making the mistake that because something looks like an adult, it behaves as an adult. Men find this out pretty quick.

[@emismith4187]

The reason is totally sexism.

[@ThrainnTheRed]

So what?

[@emismith4187]

I don't know, it's not like it's a PROBLEM.

[@emmaly8993]

But It drove one of my friends friend that was a girl into insanity making her think all her friends were “fake friends”

[@TheEverythingYoville]

Yeah true, tell that to the popular girls in my school. I'm a girl though. I'm different from everyone.

[@zennyboi5144]

Skeeter Wallen lol omg

[@axelNodvon2047]

+Skeeter Wallen I like your profile pict

[@ThatPhilosopher]

samd

[@user-iz3ns6vb2c]

+Skeeter Wallen lol dafuq

[@Blindlyfollowingthewind]

hunny. you arent you are the same as everybody k?

[@billlevins7460]

so much damage done to people during high school.

[@TheUKNutter]

So is this why most people will get jealous if they speak to someone else?

[@Goldberryvil12]

When men fistfight and physically injur each other it's considered "manly" and even admirable to some men. Why the is the female form of aggression as used on each other such a terrible thing? I don't support or condone physical or mental/emotional abuse but honestly women receive much more criticism for their natural form of aggression than men... Why? Someone mentioned, in disgust, please note, that there are shows devoted to women fighting in a passive aggressive fashion however they seemed to forget that men have shows portraying male aggression and even promoting it as legitimate sports... Wrestling or boxing. I would appreciate respectful input...

[@Rumplefrumple]

+Goldberryvil12 because fighting a man is just that, you can see him you know where he is if he throws sand in your face, he will be shamed (generally). fighting a woman is like sword fighting a fart, there are no rules, you dont know where she is or where the next attack will come from. the only thing you know is something smells fishy.

[@WillShackAttack]

Why can't humans just use their big brains and learn to control their sexual tensions? It's just so sad that despite all the great achievements of mankind we still feel the need to fight each other for dominance and have lots of sex like animals.

[@Sillilesshells]

well, we are animals and we do need lots of sex. no matter the size of the human brain, sex is a need and it's natural to want to be dominant in order to get that. not that I'm saying its ok for people to be horrible. it's just how it is..if that makes sense :)

[@ianjames9360]

Killing your rivals children is passive aggressive? Tough neighborhood..

[@Lindathemightywitch]

I agree with this. Sadly, I have had it happen in my personal life.

[@discountconsulting]

Yes, shunning is passive-aggressive bullying. Ironically, the similarity between the two passes because you have to deconstruct the gender difference between them to see the commonality. Not surprisingly, feminism has compared shunning favorably against bullying as a more social form of 'feminine power' while bullying is negativized and shunned as a form of male domination-oriented aggression. Although shunning results in domination and submission just like bullying does, it was regarded as a subversive form of power and thus validated as being something different from domination. In practice, shunning and bullying are used in combination to exclude 'undesirables' and create exclusive hierarchies and 'in-groups.' What's interesting is when the bullies start getting shunned and the shunners get bullied for shunning. Suddenly inclusive power becomes more effective than exclusion and domination, but of course it doesn't usually take long before love turns to hate and the shunning and bullying begin again. Humans are not as good at transcending their animal nature as they would like to believe. edit: why did the date-stamp list this post as occurring "44 years ago?"

[@JAYDUBYAH29]

the way you all refer to specific science, own up to the sometimes shaky conclusions, and make careful statements about what it may or may not mean is really hugely to your credit. you are adding a young, fun, yet extremely ethical and responsible voice to a zeitgeist flooded with pseudoscience, science-denial and logical fallacies.... may you prevail!

[@bentattersfield887]

Interestingly though, the women that AREN'T mean will be passed over in the end by the alpha males, because they are too easy to get, and the alpha male believes he deserves the 'best' and most difficult girl to get.

[@bentattersfield887]

Personally, I think some women are just needlessly horrible to some men, but by the same token, I am more intrigued by the ones that hold out for a little while-or even indefinitely!!

[@Rationalist101]

I'm not like that

[@thesingdance101]

You see, I am a female and I deal with other girls like this. It's so blatant with some girls. I just don't have time or energy for it. I don't honestly get why some girls dont get this. Every time some girl gives me sass, I just don't talk to them. That's what should happen. Show them their sass doesn't work.

[@doulikepanckakes]

Some girls are really nice that's probably not completely accurate.

[@Sillilesshells]

Haa xD

[@sinbreaker2885]

"some"

[@blakejordan8949]

No shit sherlock

[@williamthelonelywasp4842]

@@sinbreaker2885 Indeed, key word they said there.

[@brickmaster1233]

Only 2% of the girls in my school are nice, the rest make me not want to live.

[@user-fx1re5hx7g]

Some of the girls wanted my friend to be dead. And I was so pissed of why they would say that. My friend didn’t do anything bad to them

[@dragonrush56]

You have succeeded my friend *Applauds*

[@akjtdm1357]

I'm not mean and I'm a girl :3

[@thiskid9879]

Same.

[@johnaayyy3424]

So they say...

[@joeg.3968]

prove it

[@PastryRatty]

Same..

[@originallyhomesick7843]

Same ;-;

[@vriskaserket3086]

Out of curiosity, have studies been done correlating passive aggressiveness with sexual fertility? Maybe nice people are not fertile. Edit: nice women* and maybe men averse to competition

[@djellema]

That's interesting. I'd like to know this too

[@NanaMuffinLady]

From personal experience I say it's plausible. 'Cause once I began to see a friend as a threat I started being mean and passive aggressive.

[@eoinpetticrew8154]

I cant stop watching these videos. Help me.

[@analothor]

they wanna be treaded equally until you hit them now i ask you is that fair

[@analothor]

***** clearly

[@analothor]

***** i think hitting someone is justified when their too rude

[@cantryss]

Equal rights, means equal fights... Until a female breaks a nail.

[@JanetStarChild]

***** Lucky for us, males have external testicles. An evolutionary fuck-up that leaves men ridiculously vulnerable. Balls were made to be busted!

[@analothor]

JanetStarChild yeah but any woman who kicks a man in the balls is immediately putting her life in danger unless its buy accident

[@Frohrain]

thats actually true though most of the hottest girls have no friends. I always wondered that

[@catherinebirch2399]

I'm no beauty queen, and never was, but I got picked on by ugly girls as a teenager.

[@lkofie6670]

I'll tell you this much I did not need the movie Mean Girls to confirm anything for me in regards to how girls and/or women can act towards one another.

[@poppyraccoon]

In high school, I was bullied by both guys and girls. Strangely, the guys were always extremely passive aggressive and the girls got more physical with me. (I'm female) We definitely had more female fist fights than male fist fights.