Why Girls Love Low-Energy “Introvert” Game + (Infield Video)

www.toddvdating.com
I'm a big believer in the idea that game should be effective, rather than just look good. Big flashy moves get big flashy reactions, but they also call attention to the fact game is going on, and they feel unnatural to the girl and her friends. Learn why low-energy game is more effective, and how to implement it.

[@highvoltagee]

Can we see a video compilation of you being rejected by girls?

[@ynglcfr9424]

x GeneraI lmao, harsh 😂

[@satyam8100]

Why do you wanna see him get rejected lol

[@superZEROKID]

I agree. That way we can also learn what NOT to do in game from a master of the art.

[@sampson_]

Yes pls! It would be interesting and make the process less intimidating for newbies.

[@mohamedhadjhafsi9441]

i thing a better question would be "does todd still get rejections ?"

[@brandondaniels9471]

One thing I've been doing to practice making strong eye contact is... when I walk through a grocery store or something, I decide to make at least some genuinely confident eye contact with every single person I see. I notice that some people look down and away (submission?), some people reflect back confident eye contact, and some people smile or reflect positivity. It's a really fun game :-)

[@droopydme]

@Brandon Daniels I do the same thing. It is fun and creates more of a connection with people rather than just going through the motions. I'm getting better at not looking away myself when met with confident eye contact and will often smile and say "hi" or "how are you" to keep it from being a pissing contest. Cute women are the best though and giving them a smirk or using it as an open is a lot of fun.

[@exnihilonihilfit6316]

Ohh, so that was you, weird creepy staring guy! LOL

[@brandondaniels9471]

@@exnihilonihilfit6316 I carefully worded my post because I knew that response was coming 😂

[@brandondaniels9471]

@@droopydme Yep, I notice that stuff, too. Personally, I knew that eye contact was one of my weak points. So, in trying to think of way to become better at making strong eye contact with extremely beautiful women, the thought came to mind... _why not just practice making strong/confident eye contact with everyone so that when a really beautiful women comes around having strong eye contact is actually just pretty natural?_

[@jaypee6870]

@@brandondaniels9471 Eye contact is also a weak point of mine. I'm working on it however sometimes I feel like my eye contact is too intense lol. Is this normal and should I embrace it or do you have any tips on how to "soften" up eye contact.

[@RobGravelle]

" You and I will be friends. You, we'll see." Variation of Borat's "You would be very popular in my country. You, not so much."

[@secondsyth6227]

😂😂

[@cuauhtemocmorisco3493]

🤣🤣🤣

[@slashnagy6]

Just to clarify here, the one he says “You, we’ll see” to is the one he wants to sleep with. “You and I will be friends” is to be polite; this doesn’t translate over directly.

[@Ironfrog-dm3yf]

HAHAHAH

[@internalvelocity6058]

Number one pick up artist in all of Kazakhstan!

[@ChanceBerryman]

If this dude’s game is good enough to overcome being a pale ginger with a dad bod, I def need to be listening

[@mesmith2526]

Alex chicks love us gingers dude lol 😂

[@davlmt]

@Alex Balding is absolutely not a problem unless you believe it is, trust me

[@notbot8830]

My penis is bald, does that count?

[@tamaracoba]

davlmt I’m sorry bald guy, us ladies gasp with relief when a guy has a full head of hair.

[@davlmt]

@@tamaracoba This only proves that you should NEVER listen to women when they tell you what type of guy they like... I'm living proof you're either lying (to yourself) or talking on noone's but your behalf

[@yourfavoriteentertainment]

His low energy still looks like high energy.

[@anishtheodore5010]

Because of his voice

[@edgaral]

@@anishtheodore5010 might be

[@SammyCee23]

Yes. Of course Low energy is superior to High energy. Low energy takes more skill and is more elegant. What you want is to look effortless.

[@davlmt]

So called 'high energy' pick up dudes look like clowns desperate for pussy. Real alphas and naturals won't act like cokehead freaks just to get pussy.

[@itsdeadshot2501]

Yeah you don't know shit.Both work just aswell it's different games

[@AotO_DJ]

@@davlmt Nobody is natural by default. Everybody is trained in some shape or way. Nature and nurture.

[@deckdaler5643]

Finesse vs brute force.

[@nardinit]

@@AotO_DJ There are very few naturals. Plenty of PUAs have said this. There aren't many, they may very well be the exceptions to the rule but....they do exist. A good lookong extrovert that has either grown up around women or is used to being/interacting with attractive women would be the type of person to be a natural imo

[@stefanj7789]

This guy took physics he knows you can accelerate in a negative direction

[@diarmuidbrady8987]

Yeh its retardation!

[@animal0mother]

This dude has a bachelor's in mechanical engineering.

[@eddygci8]

S C I E N C E J O K E S

[@luisberger4094]

Tbh any guy that went through high school should know that

[@8b8b8b]

matt Is acceleration relative?

[@alchemyhendricks725]

I've graduated from rsd to Todd V

[@adr58]

Billy Law that’s like going from Glenn Beck University to Yale, congratz brotha

[@MrHav1k]

@@adr58 Top tier comment lmao

[@thezombiemuffins]

Crazy that Todd used to be a part of RSD lol.

[@brizzy160]

So true

[@tigris8235]

What's rsd

[@boldintrovert935]

I meet so many guys that get reliant on the high-energy, state-induced game. They then complain about how they can't sustain the energy and the conversations die out. I began to use Todd's low-energy style because it was more congruent to me, and it's awesome being able to not only sustain conversations but also be able to get them started in any scenario regardless of my "state." Thanks, Todd

[@dat1008]

i like it also

[@jc3858]

A lot of guys are performing and that’s how I started out but it’s not authentic and will get exhausting quickly because you’re performing.

[@Viewable11]

Eye contact is extremely important to convey confidence and dominance. An important aspect about the "low energy game" is that involves moving your body slowly. Moving slowly conveys confidence: the confidence in that fact that the few moves you make will be the optimal ones, because when moving slowly, you don't have time to make corrections for "false" movements and are fine with that constraint. Same goes for speaking slowly. It conveys confidence into the fact that your words are optimal and and you will not not have time to correct your words as are fine with that constraint. Another advantage of moving and speaking slowly is that it involves fewer movements and words per minute for the girl to observe, understand and react to, which makes the interaction more comfortable for the girl.

[@zzerxes]

Stoicism as a dating style. Not swayed by externals, fixed composure. Not stifled, and still able to express when necessary and useful.

[@umangmishra5614]

What's going on Todd. Just want to say you are doing a great job and a real service to Mankind by this channel.

[@Venomnightshade]

umang mishra Facts

[@VicDamoneJr82]

Big facts his game is so effortless like how life is supposed to be

[@AlexA-tx3ql]

Rad nation

[@gold7790]

Todd’s game, and modes of teaching are simply phenomenal. I have never seen a dating instructor be so precise and clear in his teachings that creates fast results, once action is taken. There isn’t any woo woo bs or two hour long video. It’s just straight facts and to the point. #blessed #thankyoutodd

[@dominantmonarch48]

You are the best Todd, everything is so clear and well done. Quality work man.

[@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027]

Remember the old days when we used to have bars and clubbing?! ; )

[@juliusfr4008]

;(

[@GiancarloP93]

@@juliusfr4008 ; ((

[@arnauadell4824]

I like this new Todd. Very precise, very straightforward, very technical. It looks like exactly what I need

[@DoctoMud]

Love this video. I’ve experienced everything you’ve mentioned in different situations and it feels more natural for me when pulling girls that way. This video definitely helps put things into perspective and makes a lot of sense. Thanks Todd

[@themuslimamericanrefugee-s1194]

I love your integration of authenticity and technicality. Your teaching is actually beneficial, and its rationality is endearing. I'm glad you got away.

[@tropingreenhorn]

As a social introvert, thank you so much for this video, it really helps

[@cornheadahh]

This makes sense. The girls I've been with have always called me "chill" and I didn't really give it much thought until now

[@nardinit]

Chill at yomes can simply just mean not creepy or decent to be around. Ot's not necessarily a word used to describe a potential sexual partner. Just sayin & keep slayin

[@Mew2Win]

The problem with introverts are not that they're introverts but like todd said they lack that intensity. They lack that inner confidence.

[@jasmanrautella3422]

"Get a lot more by doing a lot less" this should be your company's tagline Todd. Love your videos

[@kazonikz]

Thanks Todd, the Intensity x High Energy paradigm was what I needed

[@khokh699]

Bruh, you're genuinely the best coach ever

[@Meshuggapeth]

Low energy, introverted style? Sounds like what I need, I already have too much nervous energy. I’ve always found the smoothest pickups have always been when I am calm and relaxed

[@SuperIcecold3]

@x GeneraI bro that's stupid had girls who were interested in my looks and girls not not interested the key thing here who have to talk both type of girls. If your conversion skills wack then it not going to matter either way

[@dushk0]

@x GeneraI u prevent wrong use of comma by not using it at all? Bro, yo's grammerz makez my ears sore!

[@riffsfromtheabyss666]

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[@chrisjfox8715]

x GeneraI smh

[@chrisjfox8715]

@x GeneraI "there is no smooth pickup" You're either way too technical for your own good, have no experience in the field at all, or you're just ____. Take your pick.

[@Magnetizer]

The higher the energy = more reactive The higher the intensity = more engaged

[@Righteous1ist]

Calm and engaged = confidence, it's not called low energy lol

[@sadabcore1]

High energy often doesn't work simply bc that's not who the guy is. Ppl can easily look through false confidence

[@aygwm]

Slightly disengaged interspersed with moments of high insight

[@elmerovero7528]

Great content, looking forward to buying some of your programs and possibly attending seminars.

[@dzllz]

Toward 100k Todd! Damn amazing videos as always 🥇

[@user-mz9fr8ml5r]

Todd - thanks for everything. Your videos have the same cool vibe that you do. This is not common at all in the PUA community or in society. Thank you.

[@Platikum]

That guy hugging his beer standing next to Todd was literally me in the past with no game

[@Lalo6169]

Nick Ronaldo same here bro

[@Matlockization]

The past does not equal the future.

[@samdobie6748]

That's me now

[@marko514]

Guys this whole "game" thing sucks. Bars and discos are literally the worst places to meet women.. Gallery arts, sport events, weddings, and such are great ti because you know you have something in common and it's much easier to start a conv because you probably have a mutual friend with them and you know what they like and you have something in common. My honest advice is to visit "Coach Corey Wayne" channel. He is a real thing, teaches you how to meet and keep a woman of your dreams. Not this pickup stuff that might or might not work

[@bdizz19]

Marko! Wayne and Todd have videos together already 😂 Your right tho bars and disco are not the best

[@rubytac735]

4:22 Todd does a full Owen impression. Ps. Good work Todd, great content as always man!

[@blueshades98]

I love you Todd. I have been having this problem for so long cuz of RSD bullcrap, Im so glad youre independant now

[@BlaqcRain]

I needed to hear this forreal .. I am not high energy person but I have always been around my friends who were high energy for the most part and I could never understand how to translate for my style ...

[@nik1332]

I'm glad that I'm an introvert now. I will use this type of game instead of extroverted type of game, plus It's just so much more effective

[@jimmybarton9140]

I’ve been doing this without even realizing it for years, I sort of developed an extreme internal self confidence after becoming a Firefighter being that I don’t need anyone or any sort of outcome in a social interaction and I think people are drawn to it? I’m the complete opposite of needy and only say what is needed and I think girls think of me as mysterious for it? It’s really interesting because my best friend is the total opposite but still gets girls too, I think we compliment each other’s differences in approaching chicks and we’re a hell of a duo out there but sometimes his high energy doesn’t work because going higher than high can come off as weird and not work but my lower energy has more versatility in social situations and with that I almost never fail. I barely watch these types of videos but it’s cool to know there’s other brothers out there that can validate my thoughts and make them into a video to help other guys out there, cheers.

[@victorespino5650]

Low energy, but speaking with tonality and confidence.

[@lukedarmanin342]

I could listen to Todd's theories all day long. My only constructive criticism is that very few of his eulogies are backed up by infield footage and this video is a case in point. Wouldn't it be so much more helpful if after every explanation we had an infield clip to demonstrate what he is explaining ?

[@GuitarCoast]

I will definitely try it out. Thanks Todd

[@yannickkhalil3355]

Goddamit, Todd. That's exactly where i was wronging recently trying to be high energy at all costs, while in the past i got good results with low energy.

[@mrkarki001]

Great stuff, once again. Was wondering if you will go in depth about this - and show more infields in the system?

[@user-zn7re1qo8n]

Man like kushtank

[@MikeHersnt]

Bro, your incredible, yes low energy and a good level of intensity is another way to get you laid at higher rates. Once you have mastered your game you will eventually improve your daygame anywhere. Thanks for sharing this video bro.🙏

[@pcman95407]

Low energy does work for me. I still learned something watching this. Mainly I learned why it was working. You do t ha e to sell her on how your going to save her image you show her.

[@jose-oq9hy]

you are with difference the guy who opened most my eyes about game, all my questions during years figured out in short time that I am looking your videos. Some others guys I think only try to confuse people

[@TheReaper002]

This is my personality naturally, I had a huge advantage because I got 5 girls chasing me in one weekend with your help Todd, you are a god. I just need to learn how to close because I still haven't gotten laid.

[@CheezPuffz12]

Nice video todd. Even though i love low energy game and your mindset towards it, can you make a video concerning about high energy game and how to be effective with it? I am going to start implementing low energy game and would just like to see how to have high energy and bring that spark in a set. Thanks and keep up the good Vids!

[@Pedro-hu2eo]

That's exactly the type of person I am, low energy introvert; but I have a really hard time engaging people. I feel like I bore people.

[@TheSwordfish009]

Hmm... Maybe you keep it safe with your comments in fear of insulting them (since girls are very reactive) Do these 3 types of comments: 1. Say something positive and balance it with something negative. (You look like you're fun but.... You look dangerous. Who are you? Which one are you?) 2. Negative to positive. (Why in the world is your shirt so blue??? But yeah at least I can see you a mile away and can't get lost) 3. Neutral (hmm.... You're shirt ... Is blue huh?) Nothing you say needs to be clever. It doesn't even need to make sense. As long as it's about her... she will find it intense (since they're very emotional and reactive)

[@charlesholland1895]

I think Todd is talking about Tyler. Good information keep up the good work, +1.

[@thespiritualwarrior5917]

Very good information. Natural and subtle.

[@Jay-dk6hf]

Great video Todd

[@prinsation6295]

Damn todd another great video man!!, I live Austin Texas, I wish I could of took a bootcamp with you then if I would have known

[@samuelanderson9416]

Don’t be a dancing mooonkay -Alpha male skradegies

[@Remington-wl7jp]

Heeyahs the thang guys.

[@kutno.]

I love you man. I should have watched this video 5 years ago

[@dontcare8333]

Nice video bro. U are the best!

[@bermei5187]

3:17 Love that quote. That's going to be my new motto.

[@darioz5894]

I see it more like relaxed energy, with abundance mentality 👌

[@buddha7178]

Solid teaching.

[@garymorrison4675]

spot on . Great info

[@CircoYTeatroMx]

this is one of your best videos

[@mojmaildljaandroida]

💯 👍 Most of my easiest and quick pools were from low energy game .

[@Zeegoner]

Honest Todd with another banger

[@micahmistretta1448]

Great stuff I have used this on accident a few times and noticed a difference

[@Kingarthurjohn]

Micah Mistretta positive or negative?

[@micahmistretta1448]

Creative Name100 Positive because the Women take it as a silent confident and there is mystery ha ha

[@elevenade]

0:38 oh no he didn't just pick some chick up in the pick up truck. That gotta be an achievement for a PUA

[@svenphil8879]

all you can see is a shot of him walking with a girl, and then a shot of pickup. Certainly Todd has game, but this video shows nothing.

[@ToddVDating]

Lol. It was an uber actually...

[@s.g.3042]

that's pickup for ya

[@Kamn_exe]

The concept of investment would be interesting to expand on.

[@jay1592]

Goddamn 5:15 huge part of my life, hit me like a truck when I heard u saying it. I tend to start convos a legit have fun with very high energy and it drains me out too soon, I literally feel drained out midconvo and sometimes becomes my downfall. Like I run out of thought words..meaning energy. Will try to implement the stuff slowly, it's not easy changing lifelong habits.

[@eldritchword6929]

Deep game. LE vs. HE game. I use LE from a point of disinterest. You can open anywhere with it. HE requires a lot more interest. Run with this.

[@benhanson7205]

Great opener. Compliment conditional on the girl proving herself.

[@nathanielbador3597]

GREAT JOB!!

[@GigginQuick]

Would like to see you someday make a video with Brian Begin about this topic. His style is extremely chill but engaging at the same time.

[@josephgallo4625]

Is there a full infield video from this set at the beginning?

[@thewarriorinu]

סרטון מדהים !!! תמשיך ככה כיף לראות שיש עוד אנשים בתחום הזה בעולם. גם אני מאמן דייטינג בישראל ונתת לי השראה להמשיך :)))

[@jamesthomas5188]

Todd gained weight... still giving good advice tough

[@TheActionTourist]

Pretty sure muscles too though.

[@cryptoslacker-464]

Don't know how old Todd is but putting weight on with a normal western diet is inevitable.

[@hexadecimal5236]

I noticed most of the PUA really focus in their bodies...

[@patrickdakis4437]

It's both muscle & fat.

[@janfredrikhalvorsen3611]

He’s probably just on a little winter bulk

[@Venomnightshade]

Juliens flashy over the top game or Todds results focused technical and in a way humble game decisions decisions

[@luisemilianogonzalezvinces3400]

Well, to be fair, Julien’s flashy over the top game works for him, cause it’s congruent with his personality. Also if you have seen more than just a couple of clips of him, you would have seen that he is not high energy and flashy all the time, what he does have is a great ability to control girl’s emotions and probably the most intensity out of all of the puas out there. Julien in his prime was definitely one of the greatest pua that has ever lived, is a shame that he turned himself into a self help guru

[@Venomnightshade]

Luis Emiliano González Vinces True its all about what works for you. At the end of the day you wanna get laid but you wanna do it in a way that gives you energy not drains you of it

[@ynglcfr9424]

Luis Emiliano González Vinces word! He actually say that in TenGame, try to do it the most boring posible that it still works. He also say that it is all about how you feel not for the girl (be congruent and do not fake shit)

[@jordi0m]

I'd say you don't need to settle for one or the other if you feel like having both. There will be points, like Todd said, that you will feel great and like being high energy, but you should never depend on your energy to game.

[@ynglcfr9424]

yuc0n it is the same that Julien says... vibe is not equal energy, it is all about intensity

[@dutchmaster1999]

What he’s says about resistance from her friends is so true

[@yepotaku564]

Great video man!! Please make a video on how to get hired guns. I can get there no. Very easily but most of them flake. Thanks again.

[@MrRebusBebus]

Lol being an introvert I always found it as disadvantage but now I see it different n funny thing is that's exactly what happened to me previous new year eve . We had a huge party in a house and I met a nice girl there. I wasnt trying any hard keeping it really low all the eve while other guys were all around the place. I got her this night and what's most funny nobody even paid attention to this. Next day everyone was only talking about my photography and how modest and nice I am. If only they knew of what actually happened there lol

[@ryanmccormick2714]

Keep the videos coming !!!!!!!

[@mikegodor616]

Great video. Can we please get a video on building social circles?

[@ChadWardenPS3]

Can't believe this guy hugged a girl during their first meeting. I'm impressed

[@AndrewMindHacker]

Hey Todd, will you upload this infield video to The System? I definitely think it would be great to see more infield footage. Keep up the amazing game, Cheers!

[@ToddVDating]

Not sure if it'll be this video we use, but we'll be adding more to The System for sure.

[@rb-jf4fd]

Would be bettet to see more daytime infields of jp or his others coaches if they agreed

[@dushk0]

it is in the field a field video There is no place for "infield", even Jerry's surname only contains "infeld".

[@UGinTV]

Thanks man

[@dn_oux]

Great one

[@TMAC777777777]

Hey Todd i am gonna really need your help on this one. Yesterday in the club. Approaching a group of 3 girls. Unfortunately my lads never came in for it so i stayed alone doing what i do best having fun and enjoying the interaction. We talk about beautiful girls that also seemed and are really close.. bfs.. And here comes the problem. What to do if one of them has already made up her mind that she wants you and also has let her friends know about it. I understood this and tried to act accordingly by bringing a friend to her, but he just couldn't do it.. probably he didn't like her, but that was a problem for me cause she was seeking my attention even when i was trying to go for her friend. At then end her friend that we both liked each other let her having me.. she withdrew.. What to do on those situations? Have faced this situation so many times that i let things flow without having direct control.. And that feels awkward! Thanks Todd for being an inspiration! Love from Greece!

[@reignrelic]

“We’ll be friends. You and I, we’ll see.”👌🏼

[@MyJunior09]

Todd is a beast, yes low energy and a good level of intensity(not psycho level) gets you laid at way higher rates, it seems to the girl you are a man and you are keeping real. And the guys jumping a all around are just little boys. Once you have low energy mastered you basically can game anywhere and not be a creep

[@amanverma-es8of]

you are 200% right!

[@BackeB]

Lots of good points here

[@fortitude1082]

Very good video. id like to meet you in person. maybe a one on one coaching. where can i find u?

[@saaaaaamy]

Hey todd, really interested in taking a bootcamp. Are you coming to Austin, TX again next year?

[@SebastianSastre]

This is it. The most universal state. You can downscale to socializing or up to flirting as you see it fits. I've pulled a 9 by starting just socializing and see her body language to become girly and started to respond to flirting.

[@ismaelzapata7921]

You guys gotta give a job the force is strong in this one

[@namofontag1433]

What's the name of the Southern like remix at the beginning of the video?

[@kazz5742]

Does low energy also apply to text game?

[@yacinebenali8639]

You deserve more views

[@ibuprofen303]

I tried a lowers set high game thing teh other day. Went pretty well.

[@Hexogentrinitro]

Is it possible to go from high energy to low energy/high intensity to assist in the process of closing in on a target?

[@benjaminmcgrand5961]

Todd it’s like a matter of time before you join the Amorati...your principles and approach gets more and more romantic every video.

[@letsdostuff5864]

I hope we get more infield content added to the system.

[@bestprimal9790]

Hmm I question you Todd about the “Lowkey under the radar game”. I heard elsewhere that you need to state your intention as early on in the interaction as possible considering if it’s a daygame scene and you happen to peacefully brush by someone while on your day to day life purpose. I wonder that if this applies to nightgame more than it is daygame? I realized that if I don’t state my intention the girl won’t know why I’m there and it sort of gives this creepy vibe in her mind. I love the vids keep them coming, just confused about the whole concept towards this, thanks.

[@nickolashaustein]

He didn’t say anything about not stating the intention. This video is entirely about energy. Every time I go out since watching his videos and really paying attention my success rate went from 1/10 to about 3/5. Massive improvement and it hasn’t even been a month since I’ve been applying the techniques.

[@snakeoo7ca]

So glad YT hasn't decided to take this down yet

[@alistairknight7914]

Bokeh game is strong! What lens are you using? I'm guessing it's going through an A7Sii and possibly the 85mm 1.4?

[@idiotrun1997]

What is the actual difference between intensity and energy? Always thought they were similar. Examples would help.

[@entwinedturnip]

Aw man, where were you when I was in my prime!!