The Unfiltered Truth About Dating Models

www.toddvdating.com
If you've never dated a girl who is a "social 10"... i.e. a model, bottle service girl, stripper, pornstar, or other girls who is paid to be hot... it's very easy to put them on a pedestal. We've been trained to admire such girls and to think they live perfect charmed lives. Nothing could be further from the truth. The fact is that their glamorous lifestyle is a trap, and these types of girls have just as many issues (or likely more) than everyone else. Learn how to get entitlement with those intimidating girls in this video.

[@Marshmellow3971]

The odd part is "models" are actually pretty common to run into. Seems like every woman I meet these days is like "Well, I work at Chili's but my career is as a model/fashion designer." They're basically the female version of soundcloud rappers.

[@pslovebird]

I HAD to LOL at this lmaoooo

[@0ioiuibgfg]

omg im a soundcloud rapper, my feeling was hurt.

[@Chretze]

@@0ioiuibgfg Gimme that mixtape!

[@Ban00]

This anology was gold soundcloud rapper lmaooooo

[@overanalyzing]

I friggin luv this comment

[@nico10x]

"Borrow some abundance and entitlement from the future and start acting if you were already that guy" Loved that quote

[@slumbermaster6932]

Aspiring Actress/Model/Singer is alternative term for unemployed.

[@Kenny-Alpha]

Lol that was funny and I believe you

[@user-pv9my4gl9w]

No, just as he said, most are working jobs. It is just that their up keep takes so much $$$, that they live in squalor.

[@devinpeirce7152]

Jaanu Gul or waitress

[@slumbermaster6932]

​@@user-pv9my4gl9w living a high-class lifestyle you clearly don't have the finances for? Totally unemployed in theory. Basic fundamental economic principal, don't spend money where it compromises your living situation

[@user-pv9my4gl9w]

@@slumbermaster6932 I agree, it's simple math; but financially irresponsible and "unemployed" are two different things.

[@nick_diesel]

This is 20 minutes of 100% accuracy. I live in Miami Beach, it's all too familiar.

[@joekolpe9849]

Hagahshaga

[@shalmarhinds4117]

I’m from Miami... shit true💯

[@madmarvcr]

She's not yours, it's just your turn

[@Jashan720]

madmarvcr Play the same game with her, simple.

[@alexd4566]

Disgusting comment

[@Ne3zyTV]

go back to your MGTOW shit so you can cry more there

[@Ne3zyTV]

@Anton Boludo hahahahahahahahahah in your dreams maybe

[@ainzooalgown7589]

i dated a playboy model, not worth it she was too high maintenance, always asking for LV, Gucci, Chanel, clothing, bags, shoes and such, dating or fucking models is easy the difficult part is are you able to bankroll their accustomed lifestyle and always wanting to show off, i can pull most girls, its just i rather stay at home and reading a book while sipping on Remy Martin XO excellence, than go out and date or game, there is too little reward for too much work. a day on the track drifting while burning 10 sets of tires is more fun than dealing with women

[@atomalisaid8127]

this guy is hyping me up now. i'm worth it

[@austinsftw]

ong

[@Jasiel.95]

Hell yes!

[@Alph92]

you always were, bro. you always were.

[@sase1017]

Nope, it delusional mentality, it s not good for men who believe it

[@shozanhanma2709]

@@sase1017 ah ha ha. Weak. Everything you said about the women models is true no delusions. And if the not enough thing seems like a delusion, think of the crumbs in your high school that got girls just cuz he thought HE was the shitt LOL you just got to think like he did LOL

[@MatthewCoast]

A lot of "models" actually pay to be models... I don't count someone a model unless they get paid to be a model, which is like the baseline.

[@rayadisurya7343]

agreed.

[@martinpiekarski1512]

Yep, truth is that it's not really a profitable career, unless you are very lucky. It's similar thing with being an actor - it's also either underpaid or even unpaid job most of the time. I know something about it because I do acting as a hobby. And even though it may seem ungrateful, I do it out of pure enjoyment.

[@BluntlyBlondie]

This must’ve been recommended for me because I am a men’s rights activist. I watch a lot of MGTOW videos, Jordan Peterson, feminist fail compilation video and conservative videos too. LOL KZbin things I’m a dude. Nope just a bisexual lady. I can tell you guys one thing is for sure though, he is absolutely preaching the truth. ABOUT EVERY THING. I watched the entire video and absolutely everything he said was spot on!

[@tremainw1413]

No, he's preaching generalisations and over-simplifications to the gullible. The truth is far more complicated, because each of these 'hot girls' is an individual, after all. It's just a young mind's mistake (or such could also apply to those who are matured yet whose minds never reach greatness) to think otherwise. You will likely see later in life, that I'm right..

[@maxstone9999]

Tremain W exceptions don’t often destroy the rule.

[@maricampari3970]

Hey, my sister from another mister! You're on point.

[@bagelstruth9313]

Why are you a men's rights activist? Why do you think so many women who are men's right's activists are bisexual?

[@wanderer5200]

@@bagelstruth9313 Most likely they were burned by women at some point.

[@JoshAndBooze]

Makes you realise these hot girls are just human beings trying to get by...

[@donaldbiden9492]

Hot women in my city can make over six figures easy. Many of them just waste most of it.

[@whackoization]

No They're obviously robots.

[@c4p4c1t1v3]

HOOMAN BEANS

[@mnoell35]

Makaveli - truest words ever written!

[@futurestrangeofficial]

Feelsbadman

[@chaitanyajagarlamudi5434]

“Borrow abundance from your future”

[@HussRisingYT]

Truth. Thanks Todd.

[@ThugByChoice]

Jags This mans advice is gold.

[@goodstuff4096]

I remeber sifting through endless sets of self help literature in my late teens and early 20s. This shit is so innocuous; so riddled with half truths and gross, but very convincing, overgeneralizations. I'm 29 now. I am currently traveling the world and seeing the places I always dreamed about. I am in no way the "man I saw myself as", or even that much happier to be honest. But, I always see these vids about visualizing the future to manifest it fucking infuriating. Life is never what it seems. The best things are those which have been unplanned, and unexpected. Beware of these snakes, for they have deceived even themselves. Life will work out as it should, don't get tangled in the lies of "triumf of the will" for everyday shot like money and seduction. The dissapointment and failure is crippling to where the only cure is total numbness.

[@Diathon1]

@@goodstuff4096 It saddens me to read this. I have been, and still am visualizing my future and it has been amazingly helpful to me. I've seen and done things I would never have seen myself doing just a few years ago. Right now it seems the more I see proof of the effects of my visualization the more the vision crystallizes in my mind and the more proof I see. I suggest you try again, but don't have negative expectations hidden underneath your outward belief. I believe this might be why things haven't been manifesting for you.

[@AlexRmex]

OutlawTL glad you took your time to help this person. Continue forward with faith in the Law of Attraction!

[@Amundstvoll]

Wow, the hate in the comments. He is trying to tell these poor guys that they are worth something, and that they and women are just humans. He is telling these guys that they have value, and if they work hard, they will have more value. Even if they currently have almost no value, they can get value in the future. I'm guessing people would have a different opinion if he claimed to be a life coach, and not a dating coach.

[@jimbotheassclown]

LOL if you need this greasy dude to tell you that you have worth your problems are more than dating skank strippers .

[@stefanmakara373]

Actually, no, he is kind of wrong. Through the entire video he talks about the girls you want for a short amount of time, easy girls and dumb girls. Girls that are for a fling. He talks about having flings, not relationships. That part I get. He explains those girls date guys for money/status. It is also clear that men date them for looks/status. But then he says you deserve those flings, are entitled to them, just because you are on a path. No you don't. If you are a great person bettering yourself, you deserve a great person bettering herself. You deserve someone equally smart and ambitious. But you don't get to drown in easy pussy like dudes who burn dollarbills for fun. Because you want those girls for looks, which they provide, but they don't get the money that you may someday make. They don't get the status. And since they are fling girls, they won't be there for it IF you make it someday. So yeah, that's the tea. If you want easy chicks, you need to have what they want.

[@Amundstvoll]

@@stefanmakara373 It's a long way from nothing to one. He isn't specifically saying people should only get flings, but you need at least try to talk to people if you want a relationship.

[@stefanmakara373]

@@Amundstvoll Oh course you do, and having confidence in yourself while you are working your way up is important, and can help you a lot in meeting new people AND meeting a girlfriend because if you meet a confident woman on the path, and you are meek and shy because you are not at the top yet, chances are you won't click. BUT, he is not talking about girlfriends, he is talking about flings. And I am sorry, but you CAN'T expect to be treated the same as a dude who is rich as fuck and stuff like that. I mean, first of all, it is a really icky and stupid goal, to want to drown in pussy (which is basically what this dude is describing) but okay, if you want that, sure, but you are not entitled to it? And talking about being superior to these girls... well, ok. You are better than a bimbo. Congrats? I don't really mind that he generalized but some guys will take it more seriously and then get mad at normal girls for not acting like bimbos.

[@omarlerouge5420]

He's not talking to "poor" guys. In order to lock those models you still need to be successful.. probably make a 6 figures a year to provide the girl with the lifestyle she was used to live (travels, a nice house ..). an average Joe won't get a 10.

[@shentanomoroy7361]

So much hate in the comments from women and simps. He's literally just speaking facts from what he experienced and has seen. Is that really a problem?

[@Eirud]

The problem is that experiences aren't universal facts. He comes off like he's speaking a universal truth where in reality that's just not the case.

[@angelosfotos2086]

He's talking and talking and talking about things everyone knows...plus his mentality is not the best

[@stefanmakara373]

Some of this makes sense I guess he just seems like he is taking it more global than it is But (I am at the 8th minute now) I have to say that if a girl thought being a bartender/hostess was going to pay forever, she prolly isn't all that smart? So yeah she will be too picky about guys or shit like that. I mean, I also met a beautiful model (who worked for a legit agency) at college and she was doing very well in college. Hard one. So it isn't universal but there is a difference between women who model because they enjoy it, and those who do it in order to look better on a husband finding resume.

[@serviceaccount6475]

hes glazing over the fact that theyre still cunts. just because hes able to sleep with them doesnt change that

[@selfmadeselfpaid13]

@@Eirud He is combing his anecdotal evidence with decades of study and apprenticeship. He is extremely effective unlike a lot of dating coaches.

[@no-bozos]

This is why a man should not choose a woman for her looks. Don't get me wrong, you should be attracted to your woman, but she should prove herself to be a good friend first and foremost. My wife was and is a "hot girl", but the thing that made me choose her was that she had the qualities that make her a good mother and she was a good friend to me.

[@Feber2001]

It all comes down to who she is as a person. If she treats you like sh^t, your life can go downhill, and you pay for it with your mental (or, financial) health..If she's pretty, but a *snake*, (lies, cheats, manipulates, gaslights) then she's IMMEDIATELY unattractive. If she's a good person, and fun to be around, though, that drastically changes her value towards me in a positive way. She can wear all the makeup she wants...the Truth is, If she's a bad person, I cut ties. If she treats me right, however, I'll return the favor for sure.

[@no-bozos]

What part of, " Don't get me wrong, you should be attracted to your woman", did you NOT understand, copchie? Before you make a comment you should read and understand that which you are commenting on. Yes?

[@Ratrix]

Good for you my friend. Often men get called shallow for going after an attractive girl but being shallow is going after a girl ONLY for her looks. Her being attractive is why you’re interested, her being a good person is why you commit.

[@no-bozos]

@@Ratrix - Thank you. You understand perfectly well.

[@sdprz7893]

You're married, why are you watching these type of videos?

[@MrHav1k]

This one is going in the Hall of Fame!

[@sebastiancastillo8512]

This was extremely well said, Todd, thank you!

[@ArtisticLana]

The reason a lot of attractive women don’t get corporate jobs or office jobs is because other females in the workplace are always threatened by them, so these girls have to work these model or actress jobs to get by. I have read so many articles where attractive women get shit on in the workplace because nobody takes them seriously and think they only got the job because of their looks. I know an attractive female who got dropped down to 8 hours per week at a job because the other females complained she was getting more hours then them. The reason she was getting more hours is because she did more work and the managers noticed this. But to please the other females they reduced her hours and she had to quit and find another job to survive. It’s not always rainbows and butterflies for attractive females. Other less attractive females are always hostile towards them.

[@alexanderprince146]

This is undoubtedly one of IF NOT the BEST video on that I’ve ever watch come out from a pickup coach ever. This is paradigm shifting shit.

[@theprinceofdarkness4679]

@yeahyeahblabla someguy hey, go mgtow full monk. PUA is not for you. Friendly advice, dude.

[@OEThe11]

@yeahyeahblabla someguy This lifestyle isn't for everyone. If you believe what you just said, then you believe that.

[@Martin-xv]

@yeahyeahblabla someguy So why are you here?

[@rll1236]

exactly bro, holy fuck my mind just shifted and recognized my value

[@rll1236]

yeahyeahblabla someguy - Holy fuck you are ignorant about game. Can’t believe how you came to these shitty conclusions lmao. Fucking another mgtow chode who’ll blame and demonise women forever rather than admitting that he’s the problem and needs to work on himself. I feel for u bro, may you soon realise the truth

[@udornyc]

This video appeared in my suggestions and the title caught my interest, because I am a NYC based fashion photographer and I work in that industry. I do mostly work with working agency models and have a ton of friends among them, who are constantly booked all over the world. HOWEVER, most of the regular models are indeed "slash" models or actresses and are, as Todd described, living on very tight budgets, because, even if they shoot campaigns, it can take several months until they are getting paid. Couch surfing is part of their survival strategies, not always because of financials but of a nomadic lifestyles, e.g. one of my closest friends, I just run into her at the drug store (Duane Reade)... she lives in Acapulco now, just arrived after two months in Milan, where her phone got stolen, was shooting a 2 weeks campaign in NYC and going to LA afterwards. But she's paid well. Over 90% of models live in circumstances that Todd described, and the truth is that the industry is not glamorous, it's hard work, going to casting calls, waiting, waiting for bookings and waiting to get paid, while having to do all that maintenance (plastic surgery is more an LA thing than NYC industry tho)... and they have to earn a living in between. So, heads up... good summary, @Todd V Dating

[@phillipwg9925]

Thanks for offering the insight and elaborating on / validating some of the points Todd made , good to hear from someone in the industry 👍🏼

[@jeffwolfe4058]

great story!

[@Dieje]

Awesome perspective. Thank you

[@Jemso999999999]

incel

[@walterhicks5520]

LOL....providing a good summary of how pathetic their lives are, in no way validates sending simps/targets to them for the pickens.

[@elinope4745]

If you need a pretty woman to feel good about yourself than you have already lost. Self confidence comes from the self, and it is the only confidence worth having. It doesn't come from your neighbors, your parents, your girlfriend, you friends, your old schoolmates, your boss, your country, your church or anything like that. It comes from you. How good did you do yesterday by YOUR standards? How good did you do today? Its worth taking some time to contemplate what YOU really want, vs what people have told you to want. I promise you that a pretty woman becomes a normal woman once you see her everyday for 6 months.

[@richardscathouse]

But I'm not gonna accept a modern tattooed land whale either! I have some standards to pass on to children!

[@elinope4745]

@@richardscathouse oh yeah. Land whales have no self respect. If she can't be trusted to take care of her own body how can yoy trust her with any of the important things in life like caring for children? My point is that being single isn't so bad.

[@QuartuvLarry]

But for 18 years? A different spiritual species THAT makes!

[@Matt1Up]

Yeah. He's saying the same thing in this video. Maybe you should watch it.

[@rbrie81]

Eli Nope I understood exactly what you meant. I agree with your statement.

[@laumay7364]

When you're pretty you don't attract the best, you attract everything from the creep, voyeuristic, narcissistic playboy to the convict. He doesn't see you but the glory of his reflection off the cornea of your eyes.

[@playa5586]

lau May 💯

[@Trump-A-Bad-MF]

Wtf is wrong with you b*tch

[@vasylmalyshka4346]

Todd, this is just gold. Thought I knew enough about models, but now I feel I understand their psychology much deeper, which makes it easier to look at them as just people. And yeah, love the way you present your material - each sentence is there for a reason, no water and straight to the point. Awesome!

[@djfee]

Todd, that was pure gold. One of the best video clips I've ever seen. And, yes, I am on that path and so close to being super successful in my business life.

[@heri_prieto]

djfee i dont believe u

[@djfee]

@@heri_prieto I don't give a fuck what you believe

[@bomah3486]

Hey, Todd, that 5-min speech from 15:00 to the end was amazing. You literally have me crying and up in my feels right now. I have been writing down my visions, reverse engineering my goals, and generally organizing the direction of my life to the proper direction. You just gave me an amazing perspective. I appreciate you for that.

[@Paul-yk7ds]

No kidding, it's one of the best clips in Todd V history, and it's near the end of a video about models, kinda random haha.

[@hellonikhilgarg]

Todds insights have always been sheer gold. His way of speaking shows the depth of his insights and how much he believes in them. Love it ❤️🔥

[@bearcolombia]

Used to think pick up artists were all slimy and projecting superficial tendencies into the population. But Todd is measured and acknowledges all guys benefit from developing an ever better pick up confidence. If guys abuse it then that is up to them, but the skill of being engaging with any and all girls is inherently neutral as a skill in and of itself, and it makes life so much better, for the girls too.

[@Gaonaism]

Todd is not just intelligent, he's wise. "There's lots of ways you can step Up in life through your own efforts".

[@ruok3351]

Alejandro Thats fucking common sense dude. Did u actually grow up thinking ur gonna be spoonfed for the rest of ur life? Smh 🤦‍♂️

[@Gaonaism]

@@ruok3351 nah pussy

[@beenmajor1019]

Lomborg stop being a hater. just enjoy the messages.

[@thelightinallofus4649]

Can't even believe the paradigm shifts I'm getting from your videos Todd. Even after years of following RSD. Thankyou!

[@JK-wn1dm]

This type of content is so good! Thanks for creating this video!

[@raymiller6351]

Can confirm, once you figure out everyone pretty much sucks it gets easier to live life.

[@dimitar45802]

So much value.. thank you!

[@martyzeenyc1210]

This video was so eye-opening to me that I watched it twice - something I’ve never done on KZbin...

[@alexanderandreev3780]

Best video posted by Todd I've seen in a while. Thank you Todd. The value is appreciated.

[@06livefast]

Models and actresses seek validation more than any one. Why? Their life is full of rejection (failed auditions, creep casting couches, trying to please since they were young, etc.). Come out seeming like you have value, have wit and sense of like you are really close to your family and have a good group of friends, and she’ll bow to you.

[@mintwax9002]

Dude i see your comments on the subscribers I'm subscribed too. you should make your own channel

[@elmerovero7528]

*Seek validation from guys who are on their radar

[@godkimseokjin6429]

HOTBALLZ true

[@elmerovero7528]

@John Van Hof not exactly, there isn't such high self steem where the person never seeks validation, we are social creatures we all seek some sort of validation, hence Instagram followers, Facebook likes, KZbin thumbs up..

[@richardscathouse]

I just can't get past the plastic tits!

[@renegadezen7841]

This is one of the best rants ever. Needs to be edited in like at the end with Derek and Julians legendary 2 hr mastermand about "9s and 10s game"

[@Trump-A-Bad-MF]

That was a bonus of pimp no? I agree it's legendary

[@ronitm60]

You got to respect people who give out quality advice on internet for free! Respect for you Todd!

[@kcrl1]

Dude, you should make this into a TED Talk!!! Most relevant life coaching video I've ever seen! Good job!!!

[@loured851]

they are wayyy to politicaly correct to actually listen to him

[@KS-ur8nj]

The world is not ready for some type of truth

[@zareeftashfique8168]

They would label it as promoting rape culture

[@dreamsblueprint9147]

Best way I ever heard it said. There’s just no reason a decently successful guy should be nervous talking to a girl like this.

[@waltervillacorta32]

Oh Man this was so deep, Had to rewatched twice, this Is gold

[@radman2995]

Can so much relate right now, I have read first three books of Reality Transurfing recently and prior to that The Fountainhead which been recommended by Todd as well(one of the best books I've ever read probably), which been helping me a lot recently and when I'm watching this now, it all makes so much sense. I feel to be on the right track for the first time in my life now, but there was a lot of hustle, inner fights with my crappy habits and struggle before I got to this point, but man, it was totally worth it! Thanks for sharing, it's a great content!

[@daffertube]

The ending was very inspiring. Thanks, Todd!

[@HG51_]

that was absolutely incredible man, really one of the best videos I've ever seen

[@wefiyhigh56]

Dam, after the middle part of the video is the most interesting part to me. Dam good stuff todd. Been watching you for years. I am rooting for you! Best wishes for you for 2019

[@richardscathouse]

I didn't make it that far! My scam radar was screaming too loud!

[@wefiyhigh56]

@@richardscathouse yeah I have been watching Real Social Dynamics since I was 13, I am now almost 21. Todd was once a part of Real Social Dynamics but no longer anymore. I am so glad to have learned from Real Social Dynamics Crew at such a young age, it took me a year to find rsd and took it very serously when i turned 14 because I have had a lot of social anxiety problems, yeah there are a crazy amount of videos by RSD and they can very very long sometims, RSD took down many of Todd's products and videos, so now todd has to start from scratch.

[@Raao1]

The last segment is paradigm shifting. Thank you Todd

[@blackwitfreckles]

Todd, this is the best video I've ever watched regarding dating 10's and a man's value. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@focusedallday5620]

I think Todd is talking about the "the wall"? lol Great Video Todd. It's true, never put women on pedestals.

[@jeffreyscottking]

This video is going to get a shit ton of views. Great point of view anyway. Thanks Todd.

[@rokYYs]

Doubt it. This content has a lot of value though it's not sexy or entertaining.

[@Crypto-Legend]

Do a shot everytime Todd says, "like." 😂

[@alanames2275]

Hey Todd, The last part of that video is fantastic. Solid NLP, just like a good Tony Robbins bit. "You are their 10, as long as you are on the path" Cheers man.

[@SantaBarbaraBiking]

This made me feel better about myself. It’s true about hot women living in squalor. I rented an apartment from this college student and the place smelled like cat piss. She had a cat that she never cleaned up after and there were actual cat droppings all over the place hidden under the couch and bed. The place looked like a hoarders apartment.

[@scowlistic]

Illusion shattering, devastating truth.

[@walterhicks5520]

LMAO! This a fake account that Todd has, isn't it?

[@richardscathouse]

Barely, red pill

[@guilhermegonzalez5013]

What a speech! Man, gratefullness for this content....Im happy that i found you about almost six months ... your content is gold. Greetings from Brazil.

[@gofishglobal7919]

This was exactly what I needed to hear as it us exactly the situation in which I find myself right now. Thank you!!

[@prodigalson2670]

This is all great when you think rationally, but when you talk to entitled arrogant women it is not that easy and we know what they r like today

[@selfmadeselfpaid13]

That is why there is a whole method including pass shit tests and getting her to chase you

[@rickyvue7393]

Great content as always. Todd, just wanted to say you always have great music playing in the intro and outro. Whats the track in the intro of this video? Anyone know?

[@BarackBananas]

Intro song is: Move on - by Above Average. kzbin.info/www/bejne/l4eXeJ-rodKWj7c

[@rickyvue7393]

@@BarackBananas Thanks. You're awesome.

[@seanlyons14]

I love this. I appreciate how you understand you have to change someone’s mindset before you can actually have them believe any of this will become true in their lives

[@GuyMichaely]

3:57 "cuz game is that easy, yes" "HAHAHA"

[@MrTherisktaker88]

Saving and adding this one to my playlist

[@jordanburrill883]

Hey Todd! Thank you for this look behind the curtain. I couldn't help but feel empathy for these struggling girls! I've never cared allot about ranking girls. A six is no different than a ten. Everyone gets use to how any woman looks in some months. Yes, I admit it, I want to help them all! Not because they are just pretty. I admire their pluck and determination in a grueling industry. Cheers!

[@eliaswrwf5826]

This is one if not THE best video you've made. Let alone the RedPill stuff and the pickup. These analogies are pure golden for self-development

[@heavnbound]

Wow, one of the most motivational and factual speeches I've ever heard. Listen to the very end. I've been on the PATH for about two years now, starting my own successful business (brand), overcoming my health issues, mastering my diet and exercise regimen, and all this while I was 31 and still living with my parents. I go to the gym and because of these changes I get looks from the most attractive girls working out at my time. I have options now. I get to decide what girl is worth my sacrifice and self control and hard work and consistency and courage. It's not what you say, it's what you do, day in and day out when no one is looking that defines you. Family, friends, and people I've never met look me in the eyes, smile more, and treat me with friendly manners. The haters still hate but who cares. This is the way life was meant to be lived. Respect yourself and live far beyond your standards. Master your health, your career, and the evolutionary code in women will notice. One life, only one, don't wait. TAKE MASSIVE ACTION, stop kidding yourself, making excuses, or babying yourself. You can do anything you want.

[@JohnHoulgate]

I had a job assignment when I was in my twenties where I had to get these two models to appear in my client's booth at a trade show. They were very nice as people, attractive, but not supermodel attractive. They put a lot of work into their craft. One did a lot of modeling for companies that marketed exercise equipment and she demoed the equipment in infomercials. After I first met them and asked them to be in our booth, I arranged a second meeting where I met them at one of their homes. It became clear that some rich person had her living there. She probably wasn't paying rent. When the trade show weekend came, both showed up, performed their duties, but about every 10-15 minutes they were running off to the ladies room to primp themselves. They were constantly fixing things in their clothing and make-up. After that experience, I could not imagine dating a professional model, at least while she was still working as a model. The constant attention to their looks drove me nuts. I'd really like a girl who's not so obsessed with that. I later had a girlfriend who put on quite a bit of make-up to cover up her freckles. She was Japanese. She was very cute with her make-up on, but when it was off, something very primal stirred in me. I just wanted to take her, wherever we were in her condo. I find that I am more attracted to women who aren't so heavy on the make-up. The natural look does it for me.

[@BetterNerfDarius]

Todd I'm falling in love with you. No homo.

[@brio4477]

I'm not gay but Todd could probably pick me up.

[@ts3011ISRL]

Brio LMFAO

[@phantom-xb6wv]

Brio nigga u gay

[@bobweissenberg9700]

im not gay but ill let todd dominate me

[@Lol-rj8ri]

Makaveli - 😂😂😂

[@tommyvuitton3113]

Super eye opening, excellent value, thx Todd

[@chewy-2008]

Thank you Todd, really needed that at the end.

[@_jamesbradley__]

Todd, Thank so much for your time and effort to make this vid😎👍 All truth spoken in your vids!👍🏻 So many guys make the woman the center of their world. Many virtuous women are awesome, but there are so few of them; as many materialistic women are tainted from today's modern society. Many hot women get married only to get divorced, some intentionally.(mostly true in developed countries). by the way, I have been to 54 countries and lived overseas for 10 yrs.

[@justicewarrior9187]

"IT'S JUST YOUR TURN" Always remember that

[@ck6639]

Justice Warrior Matt from 33 Secrets and Coach Corey Wayne said it LONG before this guy. Regurgitation at its finest.

[@johnjohntv1195]

ck6639 And it was said long before they said it too. It’s ancient wisdom at this point.

[@cowboyfromhell9661]

So much value. Amazing video!!

[@FluffiBunniBae]

My favourite part is when I ask her to tell me something interesting about her in my qualifying and she says "I'm a model" and I say, no no something interesting lol

[@ActivateLA]

Slashers, first time hear this. Great game! 👍👍

[@elmerovero7528]

Yeah hahah good catch, true

[@persianguy1524]

@M R the fuck is this deadspace?

[@sashaventures3968]

lol, I somehow relate to this as a woman! Work everyday to get where you need :) Stay on that path

[@miodragstojiljkovic3706]

This whole video is literally about shalow relationships who aren't worth your time no matter how hot they are.

[@Soulixs]

also stick on the path

[@petersherman2187]

Spot on.

[@woooweee]

This is the modern mating environment, and then after you "save her" comes the divorce, because that too is rewarded.

[@xgullafter9590]

@MMAFather - member of the growing MGTOW rebellion basically you're a loser?

[@federico520]

Miodrag Stojiljkovic u can’t even write bruh

[@Pain-bf8mr]

Keep up the good job 👏🏾 I expected it to be different but Well said

[@peterceccarelli5846]

Wow Todd excellent. The 1st time I’ve EVER heard it put that way. Very true!!!

[@dark644]

wow man, i felt it deep. thank you

[@bobo1749]

.... that's what she said 😂

[@dionysus649]

@@bobo1749 lmfao

[@davebb36]

I dated a model. She was not a happy person. Complained about her dad.

[@ErK61]

WOAH!!! She was unhappy and complained abt her father?! What an evil person!!!

[@timonburns907]

@@ErK61 not the type of women you would be around with unless you are interested in a incredible great ons

[@justanunknown1073]

@@ErK61 Is there something that was upsetting you? I noticed how you seem affronted whenever a descriptive comment (without necessarily denoting, or connoting anything negative) about a particular model is made.

[@gustavomrosas4758]

@@ErK61 you are either a simp or a femenist. Also you are not true to yourself.

[@drapered7762]

A girl with daddy issues or technically father attachment issues is a major red flag men need to stay away from. Sex is good. But the emotional roller coaster she’ll have you ride on is not worth it.

[@moderfoq]

What i just watched... you re awesome man, AWESOME

[@thepoetpen7154]

YOOOOO, THAT LAST PART GOT ME SO PUMPED!!!! Todd, you have my heart!

[@ZUPRA9050]

This makes alot of sense, I really enjoy Todds scientifically founded approach. This is information I can actually use and it makes it easier for me to understand women a little bit more.

[@sharafelemam3917]

This is one of my absolute favourite videos of all time. I don't know where did all the trash come from (Probably due to the Addy A-Game thing), but pay them no heed man. You've inspired me and many more to become better. Thank you Todd.

[@TheTylrBllmn]

Damn dude. Solid gold perspectives here. Just what I needed at the perfect time, and the last thing I needed to see and hear to know I'm not wasting time listening.

[@pbot2029]

3:55 Todd's look on his face is PRICELESS

[@metalsabatico]

What did the dude say?

[@maxstone9999]

Man this is eye opening. Where were you ten years ago.

[@timothyn4699]

It's a good video and I appreciate seeing another perspective. It's interesting to think of it as living in a place of instability, though it's similar for guys if guys don't go to work. You sometimes have to take on the boring jobs to get stability, and from there you can reach further or go more to jobs that you want to have. If you opt for the exciting but low future jobs, that's going to hurt you long term, though as mentioned in the video most girls probably don't think of the wall or realize quite how it may affect them. I think for everyone who's stuck in a rut, it helps to realize your own potential. It's never too late to learn something new, or to try a different job. With the internet, it doesn't have to be expensive either, you can essentially learn any life skill for free on KZbin. You just gotta grit your teeth sometimes and do it. At least that's my attitude these days to life, I realize it's not easy, but everyone should know that's a possibility. On that action path, as a guy and being problem solve-y, it's hard not to wonder that if a hot girl/model really wanted stability, why doesn't she focus more on finding a quality boyfriend? If you despise they money rich 'chodes', why not find someone you like and flirt with them? Most guys would feel lucky to be with said girls, and many think she's out of their league, so they don't try. If she reached out to them, sure, she may get the appearance of being a 'slut' or 'easy', but they'd probably find good success rate with it. If they, or women in general, really want to snag and keep a quality man, I think they'd benefit by setting her hypergamy/expectations under control and focus on finding and keeping the one. Which means sexual fidelity and investing in those relationships, building character and not skating by on looks alone. I didn't know it was so tough and crazy expensive for girls to get/maintain the looks, but if you've got the style, you could probably snag most men with a bit of initiative, then focus. The earlier this is done probably the better per youth. And depends on the guy, I'm pretty practical and financially thrifty. I'd like a pretty girl, but not at the cost of $5k a month for beauty treatments! That's level of $ is about 4-6 months living costs for me. Yeah I live modestly, but point being, this level of $ difference is the key problem per life living costs/spending. If I had a gf, I'd more in the range of eh $100 a month for beauty products + clothes, if they're expecting me to pay for it, with other money going towards the needs of living (and savings) rather than wants. I'd rather have a semi-pretty, average girl who's chill to hang out and can be a cool friend and do awesome things like, eat pizza together, but if you're model-level pretty then you have what 90%+ of men would want already in the looks department, it's just a matter of scaling it down and enhancing other life mate qualities. Being low cost/maintenance is a big plus, in one's own life and in finding a mate, unless you're gunning for those with a lot of wealth, but that may limit your options to older men. But hey, I just know how to live quite thriftily for my own life as a guy, it's hard to say for certain what it'd be like to live for females. A lot of it sounds like optional spending over requirements though, which is a trap a lot of people in general get stuck in.

[@laroiceturner9059]

This was one of the greatest presentations I had ever heard, period!

[@devontemoericke493]

This video solidified todd as the goat

[@VII0777]

Stay on the FUCKING path. Todd you're awesome. There are so many good reasons to stay on the path. It's always good to be reminded of one of them.

[@mano40]

Amazing. Eye opening. The things i realized from my life experience, expressed by your words

[@philadams9254]

Holy crap. Thought this talk was going nowhere but the 2nd half is GOLD

[@anottakenusername3189]

A lot of the girls being talked about in this video are either wannabes or just really bad with money. There is an important distinction to be made between women who have discipline vs most girls. Discipline is hard to find in either sex, but when you have a hot girl who knows what she's doing and is willing to put in the work she will make smart decisions and use her increased earning potential to do things like invest in buying property that she can rent out to make residual income for the rest of her life. Unfortunately, most people don't think that far ahead and I have met plenty of women in Las Vegas who used to have 200K+ a year "hot girl" jobs that came with lots of perks and opportunities to meet rich men, but are now desperately trying to hold onto their golden years way past their prime. Life gave them a huge opportunity and they fucked it all up.

[@AnthonySforza]

Hahaha, Vegas girls... "'Nuff said." Notwithstanding, I actually shoot models and holy shit are they trainwrecks. Sure, you'll have your standout one who stands above the rest every so often, but usually, models are never on time, easily get lost when given directions, and don't call when either happens. The worst are the ones who don't show up, but then don't call either, leaving my staff and me at the studio with our thumbs up our asses, wondering what the hell's going on. Then all that money comes out of MY pocket. Usually, when finally getting ahold of them, it's something along the lines of "Oh, it's not MY fault, I was just out drinking last night, so I'm hungover and not really feeling seeing the lights, today." The day of a job that she's known about for over two weeks, some over a month. Nothing is ever their fault. Then when they DO show up. There are the ones who hadn't shaved their legs in like a week, or under their arms, then drop the whole "Oh, you can just photoshop that out, right?" as though taking care of herself is MY responsibility. The ones who reek and then I'm supposed to shoot them in designer clothes. Or those who bring their significant other who tries to highjack my shoot. Most of these models are actual agency girls. Oh oh, the worst though, the absolute worst, are these "Instagram Models." They walk in like they just came off the runway at a Victoria's Secret Fashion Show, acting as though they're Naomi Campbell or something because they have hundreds of thousands of followers, yet can't pose for crap like it's their second or third actual photo shoot ever... because it IS their second or third ACTUAL photo shoot ever. The most bothersome part about this whole thing is OTHER photographers who are all "Well, that's just the way it is" or make excuses for them. It's as though they're so enamored about what their job is, that it's like "I can't talk bad about the goddesses, they'll punish me!" Seriously, so many of them act like fedora tippers, it's not even funny.

[@anottakenusername3189]

@@AnthonySforza I believe it. The problem is apparently the rest of the world doesn't because of the constant media brainwashing. On occasion you get an honest person invited into a studio just so hosts/anchors can laugh at them. TV is mostly women patting themselves on the back with the "you deserve better" entitled attitude, or comedy shows where the husband is a fool who just fell ass-backwards into marrying a woman merciful enough to put up with him. I remember bringing this up sometimes while I was stationed overseas. However, even in room full of maintainers who are fully aware that the military gives women the best/safest jobs(admin, medical, etc.) and expects less out of them(lowered standards across the board, but especially for physical fitness) there would STILL be lots of men who would look at me like I'm INSANE. This oblivious attitude is exactly why women get away with walking all over men and never even realize they are being irresponsible in any way.

[@nhzsk7236]

buts thats still ALOT of girls... and not even just the "Hot" ones

[@anottakenusername3189]

@@nhzsk7236 That's fair. I've definitely met plenty of dudes willing to give it all away to a plain jane out of desperation if that's what you mean. Also, technology/social media has definitely highlighted how rude people can be. I was raised in a way that it would never be acceptable to ghost someone, however, apparently that's the norm nowadays and girls will actually blame you as being "unreasonable" for wanting a response out of common decency.

[@nhzsk7236]

@@anottakenusername3189 cant demand anything from women. Generally a bad idea.

[@anonamous365]

The Wall...Its undefeated

[@truthimagination2997]

LMAO!

[@rangariraikunedzimwe2780]

the wall is muhammad ali..

[@zizi393]

the part about being on the path is a great advice. Thank you.

[@flightmode7655]

god damn Todd....the last two sentences made me realize it... i am on the right way. haha thank you so much for your content. you can't imagine how helpful this is.

[@randommanny7659]

This stuff is really red pill. Wow

[@1deagmafioso]

why r u surprised?

[@valuetainer3437]

Although todd is purple pill (internally he's red, bur business wise,, purple)

[@aegyobot1923]

Thinking you can get models as sub5 is bluepilled

[@madhattermd1]

What does that shit even mean?

[@Mayhzon]

@@djdarklyceum Actually, if your woman is only good for sex it's not a good partner I'd say. There are girls who actually make good companions. Who can offer more than their body. And it's *those* types of girls that make your purple or even blue pill. Because you cannot fathom when being with them how there could be other so damaged women out there.

[@jackchivvis4188]

I grew up in Vegas in the 60's-70's and got sick of trying to date "hot" girls. Most had no depth. So I made enough money to move to Colo. and start buying real estate and found a average looking Colo. mtn. girl who was very out-doorsy and got married @ 32. Fast forward 33 years and many adventures later and we are super comfortable working when we feel like it, traveling and living in an awesome place. She is trim and super fit and treats me like a king.

[@guiltyspark8140]

a 20min long video of nothing but truth made it feel like it was just a few seconds. loved every second of it.

[@TheThompson425]

This video is the best you ever made. It makes everyone who watches it better.

[@Wanderlust]

This is gold

[@thrls]

This puts gold to shame

[@theturokchoi]

i was about to write this exact comment

[@elmerovero7528]

I'm subbing to your channel wanderlust!! Amazing music, so lucky to have come across you

[@chrichtonsworld1]

Gold? This guy has no clue what he is talking about. The fact that you think he has something to tell you about women and dating is pathetic. But go ahead follow his advice. See what happens.

[@elmerovero7528]

@@chrichtonsworld1 is not like you are helping anyone with advice? Yet you bash other people for trying.. Menso

[@mendoc89]

10:12 , “Sir, I’m dropping some knowledge, please refrain from interrupting me.”

[@muskduh]

Cesar Mendoza refrain

[@ishmael802]

Lol

[@nomadml9716]

I'd like to sit in his audience and laugh uncontrollably each time he recounts another fake story about him being such a hot stud.

[@imthebestdirector]

Good stories bro. keep them coming.

[@PoipoiFR]

The "Path" and "Future Abundance" theories are what I really got out of this. Really good to keep in mind.