Why I Chose Not To Have A Child In Today's Culture Environment Overpopulation And How People Reacted

[@GeminiMUSICC]

Jonathan you're so thoughtful and caring. I'm an eye doc, single mom, got divorced 4 yrs ago and 2 wks ago I felt like I hit my breaking point. I'm burnt out from seeing pts all day and when I get home I gotta pick up my son from school, drive him to tennis, cook, clean, pick him up, eat dinner, then drive my daughter to swim and I don't get home until almost 10 pm. But no choice but to be a wage slave right now, gotta pay the bills and keep working if I ever want to retire. I find it de-stressing to watch your vids, thank you for sharing

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hello friend who is an eye doctor and mother 👋❤️ I’m glad my videos give you some respite in your life. You have a lot going on. I hope you find some times to rest and heal ❤️

[@Spacemonkeymojo]

@@GoobieAndDoobie She was giving you a hint about what you were saying towards the end of the video Dr. Goobie 🤣

[@rajmathew6220]

Never forget, you are amazing.

[@GeminiMUSICC]

@@GoobieAndDoobie thank you 💜

[@PinePondCTDevilsHopyard-fy3hj]

​@@GoobieAndDoobieThis is why you are here, Goobie and Doobie! ❤❤

[@uyennguyenmaiphuong9310]

I choose not to have a child because I’m trying every single day to heal myself from the traumas that my extremely dysfunctional family gave me. I’m not mentally stable to take care of a dog, let alone a child. People are very quick to call others selfish. They should mind their own business.

[@Vicente-en2zx]

Problem is, who is going to take care of you when you are older?

[@Tobefrank-33]

@@Vicente-en2zx so you mean to say, you have children for this reason? That is just utterly and disgustingly selfish.

[@Vicente-en2zx]

@@Tobefrank-33 Ok ばかarmchair preacher. I never said any of that in this comment section to go get kids so that you have children to take care of you. For the solution, I said earlier, an alternative is to go to a Skilled Nursing Facility to take care of you. Or hire a caretaker but those are hard to find these days, especially good ones.

[@shineesilvers]

YES YES YES!!!!! People and society should mind their own business!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏 This world is going to crumble anyways, with the direction we are collectively going right now.

[@notchit3542]

@@Vicente-en2zx I know many ppl just throw them in elderly home or just don't care. Not to mention most of the time parents visit them.

[@avikchatterjee1945]

You got a million of partners . Here in India, the psychopath culture is completely unsuitable to have a child. Why bring a life to suffer only? I have chosen your path a long ago. Thank you for bringing up this topic finally. Pure grace 💕

[@markatingi8645]

exactly, why produce a child to suffer in this miserable world. it's better to just live your life and take care of a child maybe in a n orphanage or charity. You can always donate and help out.

[@Ashoka9386]

I'm from India too and decided same thing 👍

[@noelau467]

Hi Goobie! This is my first comment since I started watching your videos. I’m from Hong Kong, and when I got married, everyone asked me to have a child. I struggled with this for years, and I’ve now decided not to have children. Hearing your words resonates deeply with me, so thank you for sharing your thoughts. I'm in my 40s, just starting a new life overseas. I meditate, practice yoga, and work in childcare, which brings me a calm and peaceful life. I wish for everyone to find love and hope in their lives.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hello friend 👋❤️

[@grandma460]

❤

[@18Ram]

goobie has inspired me to covert to islam and have 8-20 children for the propagation of allahs word

[@edwardsbarbara25]

​@@18Ram🙄

[@Ahern1245]

I chose to have a daughter at the age of 35. As a woman, we don't have the luxury of changing our minds at the last moment. Men's sperm are a constant.

[@ceanncora2]

I’ve noticed that a free person dives people crazy. They want you to be married with kids and employed. I think it’s because then they know what you’re busy with and that people have tabs on you. Freedom is wonderful! It’s also wonderful to make choices to give yourself to people. We don’t all have to do the same thing. Peace.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

❤️

[@Aussiesher2011]

People hate others who live outside the "norm", even though they hate it themselves. It takes courage to live differently. But it's worth it.

[@connorbooth7207]

I personally think people don’t like it or find it strange simply because of conditioning. We were conditioned from a young age to think these are the things you to do and have to have to live a respectable, “normal” life. When in reality it’s not. I feel like when some people see someone doing something outside of the norm, it just makes them feel strange because it goes against what they’ve been taught/shown

[@Angela-ur9tw]

One of my 6 siblings chose not to have kids and he has been living free life. In the beginning we were sad for him but now 5 of us have been suffering to help our kids... no choice no freedom no money to enjoy while he is enjoying his own life he can spend money that he earned for himself.

[@creepcraddle]

freedom is a state if mind. And it's having autonomy over your life. You can have this and have a job

[@sharonhall1909]

Thank you for your thoughtful insights. Thank you for talking about the cost of living. I am 81 years old & still work part time in retail. I am on my feet for the entire shift. There is no sitting in retail. I work in a department store that is part of a large chain. The CEO has a net worth of 192 million dollars. I make a little more than minimum wage. I live in a studio apartment that is about 300 sq. feet & drive a 2009 Honda Civic which is a very good car. I am thankful for my Honda. I eat fruits, veggies & sprouts. I avoid processed foods & I do not go to restaurants or buy fast foods. I am in good health & I am grateful for that. I do not see retirement in the near future.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hello friend who is 81 and working part time in retail 👋❤️ I appreciate you sharing your experience here

[@Teffi_Club]

Blessings to you!

[@sharonhall1909]

@@GoobieAndDoobie Thank you.

[@jesuisdenis5739]

America's working poor are about to get poorer.

[@sharonhall1909]

@@jesuisdenis5739 You got that right.

[@joannabusinessaccount7293]

Thanks! Dr. Goobie. for your courage, transparency, honesty for sharing this very important topic.

[@joannabusinessaccount7293]

You would be an amazing dad, ironically 😊

[@3rdeyeEagle]

Kindly contribute your money to people who are poor. thanks.

[@yamisohi]

Joanna I been doing bad in life. I'm struggling paying property taxes. Do you have $1 to spare?

[@joannabusinessaccount7293]

@@3rdeyeEagle no, thanks. I don’t contribute to charity, other than to certain animal shelters on specific occasions. I don’t contribute to religious organizations. I certainly won’t contribute to “poor people” just because they are poor. There is a variety of reasons why someone is poor. Everyone has different ways to contribute so you do you and I do me. I contribute to people who are making a difference in the world in whatever capacity they can make the world better that improves humanity that ultimately eliminates poverty. I also contribute by tipping generously, with every service person who comes in contact with, the taxi driver, the waiters, the airport bathroom, cleaners, the hardworking high school fast food joint overnight junior staff members, because these folks are working hard, and can use an expression of appreciation. Dr. Goobie is willing to take a 100% pay cut from his usual profession - to stand up for himself and his loved ones, to speak against the prevailing healthcare system that is making people sicker in so many instances, the enticement of getting into debt for generations of Americans, the disregard for destruction of our planet’s natural ability to be used up, having other animals killed off - so humans can live, reproduce, use, and exploit. At 8.1 billion people, most of whom are poor. At 40, Dr Goobie does not own a home, but he is doing his part to be true to himself, and educate young and people alike, a perspective that could help inspire other people with new imaginations and sparks of ideas that could enrich everyone’s thinking about their own lives I believe the nuclear weapon of mass casualty that quietly course through this gentle water - is used to stake the dominance of American power in the world, that American currency, the U.S. dollar stays the default currency of the world. Did you know, when Japan and Saudi Arabia want to sell and buy oil - they have to use the U.S. Dollar? Did you know the U.S. is the most indebted country now in the world, and ever in human history? So what is holding up its economic power? if the U.S. government can control the U.S. dollar (just print more if the U.S. needs it for example), the U.S. ultimately controls the world’s monetary trend. These nuclear weapons ensure that order is not disrupted.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thank you for your gift ❤️

[@Yo-zn6vm]

You’re not selfish at all. In fact, you’re incredibly thoughtful, compassionate, and wise to deeply consider the process. Many people bring children into the world without truly contemplating the responsibility, and as a result, our society often struggles with traumas, dysfunctions, and other challenges. If more people took the time to seriously weigh the impact and responsibility of bringing a new life into the world, we’d likely live in a much healthier, more balanced society. Children truly deserve better world. Thank you for sharing your reflections; they’re a gift to us all. 🙏

[@mcwornex2123]

Here’s the issue. The people most qualified to raise children and create amazing citizens of the world are the ones most likely to actively avoid having children. People able of this much introspection are the ones that should be encouraged to have kids. We’re doing something wrong if criminals have 10-12 kids and a neurosurgeon feels he shouldn’t have any to "make a statement" I hate this video for the very reasons I admire this man.

[@Yo-zn6vm]

I understand your concern, but the fact that introspective and highly educated individuals are choosing not to have children may actually point to a deeper, systemic issue. Challenges like the high cost of living, lack of sufficient support for working parents, unsustainable work-life balance, and environmental concerns often discourage those who might otherwise want to become parents. Many thoughtful people may feel that, within the constraints of the current system, they simply can’t provide the quality of life they envision for their children. This isn’t a failure on the part of individuals; it’s a failure of our societal framework, which places unnecessary burdens on those who would make excellent parents if they had the right support. Instead of placing the responsibility solely on certain groups to raise the next generation, we should be addressing the structural issues that make it so difficult for families to thrive. The reality is that our current system often makes it impossible to fulfill our shared desire to leave the world a better place for future generations-a responsibility we take seriously. Our children deserve a stable, supportive foundation, yet the challenges they face are beyond what any one person can address alone.

[@pushpindersyal1888]

​@mcwornex2123 certainly we're doing something wrong. What is wrong is evident from the argument given by some sections of society that 'we (our group, religion, community, caste) must have more children because people from other groups are having too many children and they will take over. It's a skewed way of looking at population. Politicians are invested in this view, for votes.

[@SunnyMidnite221]

@@pushpindersyal1888 You're not wrong! 🎯

[@Hiwot246]

True.​@@pushpindersyal1888

[@SimplifyAfter60]

To be honest, most of us wanted kids for our own selfish reasons. To fill the void in our hearts and our lives. To hear your reasons of not having kids, it's the opposite of selfishness.

[@SheriffofYouTube]

except NOT having kids is permanent// you cant just change your mind and turn things around at 40. nobody wants a kid with 70 year old parents. never argue with nature, Goobie needs a girlfriend no older than 40

[@valerie.]

@@SheriffofKZbin you are projecting. heal. he can adopt when he changes his mind. a lot of people regret having children but somehow the other side of the spectrum is not discussed as often as child free people. and i know why

[@diesports]

​@@SheriffofKZbin having kids is also permanent.

[@maritzatorres8332]

The word is full of selfish men and women who have unplanner pregnancies them neglect and abuse the poor children therefore as a result we all have to pay dealing with infantile immature irresponsible mentally ill society it seems like most did not had what they needed the guidance to grow up being mature responsible human being. Very few humans in this society are smart and educated. Society is ridden wity mediocrity and mentally ill people as a result of all those equally mentally ill people who have unplanned or irresponsible selfish pregnancies.

[@maritzatorres8332]

The word is full of selfish men and women who have unplanned pregnancies then neglect and abuse the poor children therefore as a result we all have to pay dealing with infantile immature irresponsible mentally ill society it seems like most did not had what they needed for guidance to grow up being mature responsible human being. Very few humans in this society are smart and educated. Society is ridden with mediocrity and mentally ill people as a result of all those equally mentally ill people who have unplanned or irresponsible selfish pregnancies then refused to do the right thing and raise a marure human being.

[@peopostorios]

I just love this calming combination of you sharing your deep thoughts and showing beautiful nature, occasionally making pauses in your speech to contemplate waves, birds etc. It's a great video

[@bonniemiller4041]

I could sit and listen to this type of conversation all day long. You're the most intelligent human that I have ever heard on this topic. You are amazing, and you are not selfish. What a serene and beautiful location you picked to have your talk today.

[@Richardwestwood-dp5wr]

He found peace in his life, good for our friends Goobie and Doobie.

[@mcwornex2123]

Here’s the issue. The people most qualified to raise children and create amazing citizens of the world are the ones most likely to actively avoid having children. People able of this much introspection are the ones that should be encouraged to have kids. We’re doing something wrong if criminals have 10-12 kids and a neurosurgeon feels he shouldn’t have any to "make a statement" I hate this video for the very reasons I admire this man.

[@Omar-gv1op]

That’s call awareness

[@tseringkeyzom7224]

You are not a selfish person, you are simply thoughtful person.

[@IamaNewCreature]

💯

[@rajmathew6220]

At least you found a loving partner. That's more than many people can find these days, unfortunately.

[@mimosa27]

What makes it different about "these days" in finding a loving partner?

[@hanac5751]

@@mimosa27 internet

[@chridenner7806]

@@mimosa27 Dating platforms allowing endless comparability, high expectations as a consequence of wrong images on social media and capitalistic optimization in all areas of life, demanding joblife that sucks the marrow out of our bones leading to an immense fatigue, etc.

[@SpyCrew1212]

Loving partner until they’re not unfortunately. Then you’re really alone.

[@chrish9155]

@@mimosa27read the Bible then you will understand it

[@heikoreinhard]

Hello Doobie, I´m a single male in my late 40s living in Germany and I totally agree with your reflections on world population, finances and environment... always a pleasure to follow your thoughts!

[@Kaykobee]

I have lived through several economic crises already, and believe me, raising children is something that ends up leaving you financially with almost nothing, when you are a regular person. My children cost me sweat and tears and yes, I had to continue in a job that was killing me in every way. My kids are good feeling kids with a big heart, but I am afraid of what life on this planet will be like for them. The funny thing is that they don't want to have children, for the same reasons you are talking about. I understand you very well, and you are not selfish, on the contrary, my kids didn't have their mum as much as they should have had me. Children need present parents.

[@jewelleryaddict]

Well said Its becoming a scarey world. Grew up in 50 and 60s a world away. Things were still tuff no cakewalk but compared to now this life is insane. I understand and agree with our kids who choose not to have kids. This world will never get better only worse and we all know this. And it does leave you worn out but hopefully worth it, time will tell.

[@cpirtle]

As a mom to a little boy, I'll tell you, and I'm not exaggerating, it is the best thing in the entire world. I can't even begin to explain the type of love you experience when you become a parent. It's something else. I thought I loved my husband. I thought I loved my dog. And I do. But the love for your child is just on another level. And it makes the hard so worth it. It also changed my perspective on life so much. Becoming a mom made me a better human. I realize this is just my experience, not everyone's. But if there's anything in you that wants a child, I would say don't ignore that.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

That’s beautiful ❤️

[@mmajstor8001]

I do not leave comments. I have huge respect for you. I'm 45 years old childless el. engineer. I watch you since you started, like 1st video and 200 views. I shared your video to my sister, so she can understand me better. And my choices. My father advised me to go to electro technical high school, and then further by inercia. I should have been in art. I wish I did.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hello friend 👋❤️ I feel you. We can live this life together

[@ushnishasitatapatra]

You can always do art, no matter what. Creating is a form of healing

[@blazefairchild465]

I had a scholarship to the Philadelphia School of Art that my parents refused me to go. I graduated at 16 so I worked for two years . Went to University in Iceland instead which was even better ,I met my husband & stayed the next 12 years after I got a fantastic job . So sometimes things change for the better, I still do art as does my husband.

[@ushnishasitatapatra]

@ wherever you go, your Art will follow ❤️

[@naturalnewbie98]

same ♾️🌈🙏🫶

[@4LauraNP]

Proud childless cat lady here. Not only that, I am also Mexican. So many people question my choices and yes, I too have been called "selfish." People, go ahead, google what "selfish" means: "Lacking consideration for others." It is literally in the definition, "lack of consideration," is what it means to be selfish. No, people like me do not "lack" consideration for others. To the contrary, we take every aspect of life into consideration before deciding to bring another human being into this world. This world is a sh*t show! Look at the U.S. government funding a genocide in Gaza. Look at a handful of multibillionaires enslaving the rest of us for their own gain, those are the true selfish @ ss es. Look at greed destroying the Amazon and every single part of this planet that has literally helped us survive this long. Look at us, "living in this planet as if we had another one to go to." Where is all the trash we make every single day going? Remember the opening scene of the movie "Wall-e?" That is literally going to be this world pretty soon. Is that what I want for my descendants? No, thank you. I'm good, and this Mexican is happy with her choices.

[@Dark3x]

theres more trees in the world than ever before, because of the rising co2. Lots of bad things going on with nature, but deforestation is not a thing currently.

[@Wintersnow889]

Im mexican and im 28. Im not going to have kids, i have a medical condition nobody would think i hsve unless they saw it in action. I am, and will get so much judgement from peope. Im not ready for it. Despite my condition, i too dont think this world is good for raising kid

[@Thetattedcat]

💯

[@matten_zero]

Our work is our legacy, not our children. I think we are all realizing this.

[@jaymatthew4106]

This is the most bizarre cope for not having children lol

[@ushnishasitatapatra]

If people focused on themselves first, healed their wounds and respected the life that already exists, the level of suffering on this planet would diminish greatly. 54, childfree and an Art therapist to 100’s of sentient beings for the past 26 years. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience.

[@SunnyMidnite221]

Glad you said "childfree." I think that's a much better description than "childless" when it boils down to a choice. Childless sounds more like people who want or wanted kids but couldn't have any of their own biologically. However, then others pipe up about adoption or surrogacy, so basically there's NO way of getting around it.

[@chelsearose588]

No not focussed on self first. That one of the biggest traps of the modern self help movement. Care for others AS you would care for yourself.

[@haarew8336]

You have an amazing job. Do you have a degree in Art Therapy?

[@ushnishasitatapatra]

@ yes, I received my Masters in Art Therapy 1998 Work has never felt like work. It is a privilege and an honor to be a part of a person’s healing, spiritual Journey.

[@haarew8336]

Are you based in US?

[@CPerry-bu1ni]

“I appreciate this tree … some of its friends have already fallen into the ocean” 💕💕💕 You speak with such love for nature Goobie, thank you xx

[@clarel4584]

I’m Korean-American. I grew up in Ohio. I lived in northern CA in my 20s, and I lived in the Seattle area for 14 years in my 30s and 40s. I was super unhappy on the west coast. I moved back to Ohio at the age of 45, and I found happiness again. Now I’m 56. I enjoy your reflections.

[@afaha2214]

@@hop101 holy sh** dude im so sorry to hear this, what sort of racism did you experience in PNW? what is it about PNW that makes you and clarel unhappy ?

[@AmberMunoz-gi1ic]

fdjcr🎉❤😂

[@MM-qp4pd]

What's in Ohio besides Dave Chappelle?

[@LGrian]

What is it that’s different for you in Ohio?

[@fs5775]

I was very lonely when I lived on the west coast too. People very polite but distant. Coming back east, people were more genuine and authentic and I prefer that even tho the nature is not as good.

[@Adventurer_Emily]

I’m 28 and I’ve chosen to be childfree for a plethora of reasons , both internal and external . I’m glad that I have the ability to make that decision, some people don’t . And I’m glad that people are making a more conscious decision about whether to bring a child into this world or not. I appreciate your wisdom and sharing true , authentic content. 😊

[@18Ram]

you can adopt me

[@edwardsbarbara25]

​@@18Ramshe already said she does not want children

[@gracielazaffarana9777]

Dr. Goobie, thank you. This channel, your channel is your ultimate act of creation! 😊Here we all are, listening attentively and planning to meet again. No hidden agenda, no evangelizing; inviting us to go deep into our human condition HONESTLY and COURAGEOUSLY. It is indeed a far reaching act of creation, I would say. Many thanks.

[@justinjohnsonpnp]

You have a golden soul, Goobie. In my mind, you are in a very small group of people who I would be honored to "go down with the ship" with. Figuratively of course. I just really think you want the best for everything and everyone and you have a great way of communicating that. I have a lot of love for you man, please keep spreading the good words. Also, if you want to start an off grid community in the forest sometime I'm in! :)

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thanks friend ❤️ we might have to start an off grid community regardless if we want to or not. I’d be honored to be there with you too

[@itsmeee4293]

I have NEVER been able to wrap my mind around the wealth inequality. We have sports players making more money than they'll ever need, while the veterans who fought for their freedom to play that sport ~ sleep on the streets and are denied medical care. It's sad and so backwards.

[@szszszsz95395]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@szszszsz95395]

Totally agree. They get paid millions upon millions for shooting hoops while men/women get killed for sacrificing their lives. Veterans, active military, police, fire fighters, and teachers of all grades and levels need to be paid the millions. But, extreme capitalism has killed morality. There ought to be a cap on how much ANYONE can make as an athlete or entertainer or even entrepreneur.

[@mimosa27]

Society is very sick.

[@rlg222]

Its a sad world we live in. What does that tell you about the people who run the world...

[@JimFG]

A College Republican back in undergrad dared tell me that it was all due to supply and demand 🤮 He had no answers when I asked him to please explain how the absurd revenue sharing agreements in pro sports could possibly support his take.

[@stephiereimer8729]

I can't believe that seeing another hour-long video of yours never makes me feel intimidated to watch it. Every single hour of listening to you soothes my soul because it shows me that others share my sad thoughts. Whenever I get to hear another "rant" of yours, I feel hopeful that there are other people who think the way I think. I often daydream of an opportunity to work with you on a video or even just chatting about all these existential fears and ruminating thoughts. Anyway, thank you so much for sharing these videos.

[@jackb7685]

I started with the same video everyone did, I think. I then went to the video talking about the mistake you made at 18. I am now 18, a freshman in college studying a technical subject that I think I care about. I really feel as if I could choose anything I want, but here I am. I've still include "practicality" in my choice. I'm in a subject that will ultimately require graduate school as well (physics). Thankfully I have a full scholarship so I'm not necessarily enslaving my parents, ha! There are other things I care about more--music and philosophy--but I think I've given myself a middle ground by studying a science that I've enjoyed since I was very young. I've always had a desire to run away from society and immerse myself in nature. The feeling comes and goes. Previously, its been stimulated by sources that come from a place of contempt and spite for the world. Your videos inspire that feeling once again, except from a place of peace. I think I will try to do something meaningful in my career--reach some achievement--and once I do, or if I can't, I'll find some way to live humbly. For most of my teen years and now, I've had a mindset almost similar to Marcus Aurelius, except I stumbled onto it myself: I have a wise wizard in my mental space that helps me make decisions that forgo momentary pleasures in search of a wiser future. All this time I've thought of the wise future as a normatively "stable" life. Maybe the wisest life is the one most simple filled with simple passions like music and literature and making money off of simple labor. My mother only met my grandfather when she was 30. I never met him, but she says thats how he lived. He was a construction worker in rutal Kentucky who wrote short stories and philosophy in his free time. He was the smartest in school and could've done anything he wanted, but that's what he chose. It also offers the advantage (or maybe I'm naive) of separating oneself from the ups and downs and struggles of society as you mention. I'm rambling!!! I very much appreciate your videos, may this bit of money (a bell pepper and a half) fuel them if but for 15 seconds more.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thank you for your gift ❤️ you seem like a smart person and your grandpa sounds really cool. I hope you find what makes you happy and have meaning in life. And it may be multiple things as you have suggested.

[@_a___a_]

Jack you seem like a cool person i hope you have a lot of children and they are cool too

[@RhinoJulie]

Wow. Thank you for sharing. Love your mindset Jack

[@cxengel]

You have the right mindset. Always move towards what makes your soul happy. You are an old soul. You already know more than most people.

[@taherehkarbasi3838]

You have a clean and kind heart.everyone can see and hear your heart sound

[@jyotishrestha3062]

Dr.Goobie, listening to your videos has helped me battle my addiction of 12 years. I have been sober since I watched your video about how psychoactive substances affect our brains. I abused THC to crawl into that deep tunnel, and I didn't know how to live without it. I have to thank you. But in this video, I can relate to everything you said. I also wanted three kids because I didn't have a brother, just my sister and I. I'm 38 years old now, and I'm also choosing not to overpopulate this world for the same reasons. I have a nephew. I love him so much and will give this world to him if I can. Now, after listening to this video, I know I am walking on the right path where my mental health and peace are my priority.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Good job friend. I also have not had THC since I made that video. I still use mushroom gummies occasionally as a tool to figure out things that are hard to see and understand. But no more numbing myself with THC or alcohol ✌️

[@shirleyhewitt9898]

You are a blessing! "You are where you need to be" has resonated with me. A higher power is guiding you.❤🇯🇲

[@anntunaley9974]

I had 4 kids and i love them very much. But i was gaslit by so many drs for 60 years bc i was in so much pain but they wouldnt listen.Finally, bc i wouldnt give up, at 60 yrs old, i found out i have a rare genetic illness that i passed on to 4 kids and 5 grandkids. And my husband passed on a mental illness to them that i wasnt told about. I feel terrible about it, knowing that they will experience the pain i do now and become disabled. And have mental problems on top of it. One thing we dont discuss often is the possibiliry of passing on both mental and or physical illnesses to children, and they suffer for it. Many people i have gotten to know with my illness have intentionally gone on to have children, and it just blows my mind. I could never live with myself knowing i chose to have children who would suffer this way. We all make our choices. But i also feel society and family, especially mothers, put pressure on us to have kids. Thanks for your thoughts on this subject.

[@Maria-ni4rc]

Continue to be yourself; you're an amazing person speaking to what most folks are thinking and feeling. Society makes people think we are less than human if expectations are not followed/met. Sadly, I've seen many people lose themselves as they got caught up in trying to keep up. Having kids is a personal decision. The wealthy can afford to have children, yet others can barely provide for themselves. Given the state of the world, I would not bring an innocent soul into today's chaos. I never judge others for the decisions they make because I have not walked in their shoes. I am a tree person, and I absolutely loved the tree you shared. Its unique beauty and ability to continue to survive speaks volumes about determination and adapting, no matter what life may bring...

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

I love that tree too ❤️ it reminds me of my mother

[@LindaHang]

Johnathan, you are such a kind man who stood up and shared your personal thoughts and desires with courages that had no fears. I once thought the same as you and others said the same to me that I'm selfish for not having kids. They said because I cared so much about myself and my body. That's why I don't want to have kids for myself. I once told people around me that I might borrow some one kids to take care of during the day and return to parents after. That was my thought before. However, after too many people with too many reasons , I changed my mindset from not having kids. I then decided to have one. Then, more people informed that one child would be lonely and talked to me out to have another kid. In this world, there won't be enough and can't never satisfy anyone around you. I thought having kids is joyful and stressed relief. Yes, it's true for the young stage of their lives. Until kids get to teenagers and their youth lifestyle are completely challenged, more financial responsibilities, fears, anxiety, and stressful from worrying the world today is really bad and any bad people can harm them at any times without parents watching and protecting them to make sure they are safe. I feel foryou andd your decision from not having kids. The responsibility of being a parent is not easy. It's very difficult.....and I agreed with you 100%.... Who cares what others think negatively about you. Just live life with the way you desire and be joyful throughout your life, even without having kids. I would rather be in your shoes today if I can turn my life around.

[@Karen-m2d1t]

You are definitely a man of integrity; your actions align with your values, even at considerable personal cost. This is true selflessness.

[@YodaThe1]

Goobie, thank you for sharing. You are like fresh air for the soul. It feels good to hear your thoughts. Thank you.

[@vickiwalker3486]

This earth is suffering grievously. We must have space to acknowledge our sorrow and loss that we all know with varying degrees of awareness. Especially because of the enormous value and wonder of all the ecosystems being lost. Like your favorite place on the Hood Canal, each of us can have SOME joy and comfort in sharing what remains. And the enormity of beauty that lies within each living cell in all of life. There’s plenty of joy to experience. Thank you Goobie for your courage and vulnerability and commitment to goodness.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

❤️

[@be-dog-free]

You do know dogs are a negative impact on the environment? Dogs have driven many species extinct, and humans are the ones that bring dogs into the space of natural animals. Yet dogs are admired and deserving of a good life, but not little ppl?

[@bonniemiller4041]

@@vickiwalker3486 Profoundly stated!

[@jyan127]

After all the sleepless of college days and Hard working years, then run into a realization about the frustration of life, the earthly journey is hard, togetherness made this journey possible, with knowing that the world is not our home.

[@andyedison2416]

@@jyan127 yeh the futility of it all can sometimes be quite daunting. I’m trying to just enjoy the journey even with all the hardships thrown in. If I reflect on it too much it leads me to a dark place.

[@PinkShark403]

I’m 24 and still in undergrad. I’ve changed my major twice and I’m planning on changing it again to go into nursing. I enjoy watching your videos and hearing your perspective. You are very inspiring and you have great values (which is also why I enjoy ur videos). I also don’t plan on having kids. I want my life to focus on me and my hobbies, interests, traveling, and education. Thank you for sharing, take care and live well.

[@trumpsnudes8623]

i’m 24 and also in undergrad with a year left to go!! i’m also deeply lost n confused about my major (law) but altho it makes me unhappy i’ve decided to js knuckle down n complete it. ur comment made me feel less alone so i hope mine makes u feel the same. we’re a lil lost but we aren’t the only ones

[@charlizemari]

hey! I'm 23, also pivoting into nursing after constantly changing my mind on what to do. Recently decided to just focus on myself too, which feels so liberating. it's crazy how we all share similar experiences. wishing you all the best in this life!

[@joincoffee9383]

Lots of nurses know more about their patients and their diseases than the doctors do.

[@joannafull3727]

Dr.Goobie, you are wise and caring. You are not selfish. I totally agree with your view. Thank you for sharing.

[@tv9462]

Goobie, have we met before and talked about this issue seriously? Gosh, it feels like you've been reading my brain! 😮 I'm 50 and have one child. After having and raising one child as a working mom in Korea, I've realized now that it was a very wise decision for me not to have more kids. Exactly for the same reasons that you mentioned: financial issue, my own (and my husband's) struggle as a human being about life, environmental problems, overpopulation, etc. When my mother-in-law complained about us not having a second child, I asked her seriously, "Would YOU like to give up your life and raise the second child youself?" She snapped NO immediately, and that was it! Me and my daughter are living happily with mutual respect for each other's life path and individual growth. The only concern for her as a parent is that I can't do much about the aggravating environment of the planet she's going to live, hopefully much longer than me.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hello friend from South Korea 👋❤️ thanks for sharing your experiences as a mother in South Korea

[@raymondbyczko]

'Making room for another person's child' is parallel to a belief I have, that it is better to take care of the current mess, and help society, bring food to the elderly, repair things, repair relationships, adopt orphan cats and dogs and birds, rather than ignoring that mess, and possibly adding to it. A lot of joy in life can be had by simply being there to help, and this does not require children.

[@be-dog-free]

So you list helping every other demographic except children in need, why?

[@be-dog-free]

You don’t adopt orphan cats and dogs, u simply imprison them, cats and dogs aren’t children, u can’t adopt them, they want to be free don’t they? That’s why they run away all the time. Also domesticated cats and dogs are very negative for the environment. Do ur research.

[@be-dog-free]

@@hannesRSAevolution involves reproducing.

[@Richardwestwood-dp5wr]

Since I was in my teens I never wanted to have kids, now I'm a veteran bachelor.

[@Spacemonkeymojo]

That's why he mentioned adopting. Very noble thing to do.

[@AntiHero1303]

brother, society can and will always find a way to look down on our choices in life. If you’re happy and safe, then you’ve got it all

[@queensheeba1791]

I am child free & as happy and as peaceful I can be. My skin glows daily ❤

[@SunnyMidnite221]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I decided a long time ago I wasn't going to have kids. Luckily, my husband agreed and has had no problem with it. His family is Scandinavian and they're more freethinking and unsentimental on the topic of child-rearing (it's actually refreshing). For years I've had to endure many questions and sometimes not so positive reactions about this choice, such as: "you'll change your mind," to "you'll regret it later," "but what about your husband? doesn't he want a family?" (these from other family, not my in-laws) "who will take care of you when you're old?" and "who would inherit your stuff when you die?" "well, what're you going to do with your life instead, then?" and "won't you be bored?" "isn't that a bit selfish?" "but, but -- you'd be such a good mom!" "babysitting is not the same; it's different when the kids are your own" "why bother getting married if you're not going to have kids?" "so you're worried about your appearance or ruining your figure, right?" And of course the ubiquitous and more religious responses like, "but it's what you were designed for" to "you're not fulfilling God's plan," -- or even the more sinister "you won't be contributing to society or the economy," (as if I'm merely a brood mare for the state!). Only a few times have I heard more supportive, understanding, and even humorous statements from people, although honestly those were mostly from women who had kids. Some of them worked in the medical field and understood the risks. I knew I'd be swimming against the tide or be thought of as a "wrong way lemming," but for the most part, it's been okay. Except when it becomes obvious that some (maybe even many) other people are treating me differently, quietly cutting me out of their lives to an extent--even and especially family. I think they're confused as to just why I wouldn't want to propagate their wonderful genes (::sarcasm::), even though part of my decision rested on the fact that there is too much cancer, too many alcoholics, hereditary autoimmune diseases, and a few relatives who suffered either emotional or mental instability to the point of suicide. All of that definitely factored in. And then I was becoming more aware of environmental problems and the obvious burgeoning population that, like you, the idea of adding yet more humans to the planet bothered my conscience and I could not assuage my impending guilt for potentially being the cause of another human being's misery, all things considered. It's not exactly optimistic, I know, but I also think our society's dreamy-eyed focus on raising kids and opting for motherhood is not in line with most of the reality and thus it should ALWAYS be a choice whether or not to procreate. Unfortunately, most of the nation has been against that view, so it's been an intermittent thorn in my side all these years. So, I get it. I'm with you, and I do wish more people would be understanding about this choice, rather than seeing it as an automatic obligation. Love your posts, btw! ♥

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thanks for your thoughtful post and sharing what you experienced from others regarding your choice not to have a child ❤️

[@wknight022]

Thank you for sharing your feelings about children. I do understand your misgivings about bringing someone into This World. I got married in 1986, and the reason was because my wife was 34 and her biological clock was ticking loudly! Either way we were blessed with two wonderful human beings, a girl and a boy. They are grown and my daughter has a son who is 6. As crazy as it was working and raising kids, balancing money, daycare, etc, looking back all I see now are the times that were special. You are special, Dr. Goobie, and practicing or not you are still a doctor and are still helping people to heal, physically and mentally. Sure there are detractors, but they are like static at the edge of a beautiful symphony. Don't let their cacophony drown out the peace you have found and so graciously share. God Bless you and Doobie!

[@tameciabracey7205]

❤❤❤❤❤I wish more people were as mindful, and also showed kindness to those who choose not to. There’s so many broken individuals dealing with issues from their childhood even from two parent homes

[@agotahorvath]

Completely agree with your take ! Not selfish at all on the contrary very conscientious and caring .

[@NE.Pleiades]

I totally get it. Tired of the scrutiny that lack truth understanding or compassion. Be blessed

[@lizabennett7979]

Hey Dr. Gooby, I just thought of something cool. We are all your children and even tho I am older than you, your taking care of us as a Good Father only could. Thank you for that cuz I really need a Good Father. 💛

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

❤️

[@eddiprosper4347]

Dr. Goobie, you really nailed it with this whole video. That $10 bell pepper is the lol peak of greed. That fire back in day was hell on earth. AI is BS. Thank you for doing these videos.

[@Abrade]

I love the idea of adopting, you seem to have so much love and wisdom to provide a child with who is very down on their luck.

[@alisonjones3446]

I enjoy watching your videos, I am 44 years old and don't have children. I was married once. I am content with life! I enjoy traveling and being with my close friends.

[@lespagne49]

I found you by chance. What an interesting lovely person you are. A rare opportunity these days. Thank you and be happy, love and grateful always 😊

[@seahorse251]

My gift to humanity was not having children. Less people to use earth's 🌏 resources. I have had to recover from a tramatic childhood, lack of family support. My sister had two children. One of those children had four children. The other child had two children. That's an additional 9 people to use resources on the planet. My not having a child gives more resources for her children. Now that's love ❤

[@lawnmower1066]

Me and the wife have decided we don't want kids... When they get home from school we're going to tell them!

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

😂

[@12Sharmy]

Hahaha

[@sharinaross1865]

😂😂

[@kathypeaceful]

Omg, that’s so funny 😂. I’m gonna do that too. Lol

[@77gerg]

😂

[@Rkginvincible]

Depression doesnt go away Goobie. Having a kid will surely worsen it. Most of them who are having them are uneducated, greedy or simply became depressed AFTER having a child. Wisdom at a young age has saved some of us.

[@BraveLittleKoala]

Just happened upon your channel today. I’m enjoying your perspectives! My husband and I live north of Seattle. We own a medical practice, and your thoughts about your experience and why you left medicine are spot on. We also decided recently that we will not be having kids for these same reasons. Thank you for making our (seemingly) small population of disenchanted intellectuals of our generation feel sane. No one seems to understand when we talk about these things. I feel seen watching you

[@anonymous0173]

Thanks for sharing your reasons. Some may not take it very well, but your opinions are valid and it resonates with me and a lot of the viewers. It's assuring to hear someone kind and intelligent like you making the same life choices I've contemplated for a very long time. (editing my comment short as I was rambling before. Thanks Dr. Doobie!)

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thanks for requesting this topic. I didn’t realize that people would want to hear about this topic until you asked about it. Thank you

[@vietdang6554]

You’re not bad person to make decisions not to have a child your explanation not to have a child is 1000% right don’t let people comments bother you with your road to healing physically and mentally

[@c2d843]

It’s incredibly refreshing to hear you so thoughtfully explain these inflammatory yet existential topics. I feel as though many people often disregard these very sentiments or treat them as taboo, but it’s often from a place of ignorance or denial. Governments everywhere are going to have to realize that these harsh realities will not be resolved by mere propaganda and empty rhetoric. The most intelligent people I know fear the consequences of ecological collapse and the systemically broken economics that are responsible for it. The social contract is broken.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thank you for bringing up the social contract ❤️

[@ReservoirOfHawgs]

Good for you Goobie. My wife and I, of 28 years, too chose not to have kids for the very same reasons.

[@colinzen]

last time I left my comment that I told you the work makes me exhausted,and sometimes I regret having 2 kids…😢 For 10 years, I didn't live a single day for myself, nor did I have a good sleep. There are always endless work and housework to do. and even countless birthday parties at the schools of my two children to participate…I am not a social person, but I had to rack my brains to think of topics to chat with other parents...🥵🥵🥵I love my children very much, but if I could choose again, I would rather choose to be single forever.

[@philippamediwake1235]

I don’t know how old your children are but i hope that when they’re adults they will appreciate all you have sacrificed for their wellbeing. Parenting is the most difficult jobs in the world.

[@lubagrigor9112]

Your voice is so kind and gentle sounding, you have a sensitive soul❤😢

[@Junglist675]

Hey Goob. Thanks for the this video. I have a son who is my world and I agree, the world is not the same and these days, it seems like more of a gamble to have kids because if they don't make it, they definitely struggle or become your struggle. Thanks for this video, I have no regrets having my son, he has made me a better person. I just need to ensure I take care of him and not let this world enslave him.

[@cgarcia660]

Hi Goobie. I feel like I have the dream life of the three kids and just enough chaos to keep me from complaining. I got to be a stay-at-home mom which I believe is the ideal but it cost me a career, a house and societal respect. Society thinks you can have it all but that is a lie. I’m grateful to have a piece of the pie. My kids are happy and they also don’t want to have kids in the future. I know enough not to blame them. 😅❤ I’m in a credential program to teach art now so I’m finally starting to get somewhere for myself.

[@itsmegianna]

You're a good mom...it is such a sacrifice.

[@giorfi-n7v]

It is selfish to have children, not the other way around. No one chooses to have kids except they want to. They want them for status, FOMO, and self fulfillment, and to alleviate societal/family pressure. Woman in my 50s and so glad I do not have them...I could not live with the anxiety worrying about their future, the future of our society and planet which seem precarious.

[@aep19]

this is so good! well-expressed, clearly communicates how this is a sane, ethical choice. thanks for normalizing it. i think the most impressive part is how you speak for an hour, hitting so many good points, with no interruptions to check notes!

[@Sallyqiqi]

You’re not selfish at all. Instead it’s super responsible of you to decide not having children when you felt you would not be able to offer all the peace, love, and economic support they would need. That’s exactly the attitude all parents should have. To give birth to them is not the end, it’s just the beginning.

[@SavanaT]

Life is complicated and I respect any decision you make.. ❤

[@mjmf1430]

One point that wasn’t discussed is that having a child or several of them and bringing them up, is a healing process for many parents, that is if we survive the process. Peace

[@teescoffee5689]

Good for you! I totally understand your decision and it’s your decision to make. If someone wants to judge you for your decision, that’s on them. I hope you don’t let it bother you.

[@MarlonGalang-i9l]

Thanks!

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thank you for your gift ❤️

[@oanamitchell3481]

You make really great points, like being a wage slave, being in debt since college into adulthood. But maybe there’s hope of a more equitable and just future. You’re not selfish, you just make a choice and should not be judged for it.

[@RoyFJ65]

The most unselfish thing to do, we are a childless couple by choice and both of us are near our sixties. What we see today totally reinforces our decision not to bring up a child. We both went through the grind of working seven days a week to pay off our university bills and even after our postgraduate work, we realized we hardly had any time for children let alone ourselves. What we decided was to save up and travel and rescue fur babies and we feel totally content.

[@rgaja22]

Enjoy your good life 🎉

[@G.Photogirl]

It is not selfish to pay attention to self care. You would do no good to a child if you were overworked and miserable, this would affect the child and the child would grow up unhappy. It is exactly the opposite of selfish to realize what you want and are able to do to rear a well adjusted, happy child. Too many people have children for all the wrong reasons, children who are abandoned physically, emotionally, spiritually, and grow up to be dysfunctional adults. These issues have an overall affect on our society as a whole. Unhappy people contribute to great stressors in society, contribute to things like crime, substance abuse, mental health issues, excesses, bad relationships, and put great stressors on society, especially when it occurs en masse. We are seeing it now with the scenarios you so eloquently describe. So much is broken, can we recover? People who purposefully seek personal fulfillment, peace, or happiness create a better world with better outcomes. They are more in tune to their surroundings, to nature, to how they Feel, react and interact with people, and are more prone to share joy and positivity with others, which has a domino effect. You should never have to explain why you choose whether or not to have a child. In this day where there are bad actors running for government office to try and dictate how women should be, behave, restrict her bodily autonomy and choice to have children or not, is a dangerous and abhorrent thing. This is the very reason I reject those people running for office who try to take my right of choice away. No one should hold power over others in that way. We are on the precipice of great change in our country, and I pray it goes the way of peace and moving forward instead of back. Peace to you, Goobie. Thank you for your insights and courage to speak your truth and your choice. ❤

[@dinahobliosca1343]

I was 41 when we had our son, he didn't come from me biologically but both my husband and I love him so much. Somehow I feel an affirmation from doc Goobie that taking care of someone else's child is quite a selfless act (than adding another soul to our exponentially growing population). Thanks doc Goobie for sharing your thoughts ❤❤❤

[@itsmegianna]

Your love is already so beautiful, doesn't matter biological or not l.

[@Golgibaby]

Thank you for being you and doing what you choose to do.

[@georgios4891]

Its amazing that you share this wisdom in a structured way, telling your truth and being present with your surroundings at the same time. Struggling with bad ocd, I can for an hour be present with your videos. Thank you.

[@KS-su2zi]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and perspectives on bringing your child into this world. I have never look at the situation from this angle. It was truly eye-opening. You’re such a genuine person, and I’m so glad that I found you on KZbin.

[@e.motionmedicine]

I am so grateful for your courage and vulnerability, Dr. Goobie. I’ve never commented on a KZbin video before now, I am THAT moved by your words. Your videos bring such solace and peace to my life. It’s truly like relating to a dear friend or mentor. There’s resonance with so many of your life quandaries and choices. I resigned from a high-paying C-Suite role in Manhattan/NYC and moved to the Rocky Mountains to restore my mental and physical health. A health scare was the catalyst that woke me up. Strange to have achieved the highest levels of success and financial abundance in my career, and feel despondent. This video feels comforting. I’ve always known that I didn’t want children. Always. For myriad reasons, many of which you’ve articulated here. I feel seen, somehow, by a complete stranger. Strangers are just friends you haven’t met yet, after all. Thank you for speaking on this topic. It takes massive intestinal fortitude and integrity to live your truth in the face of judgment, misunderstanding, and ignorance. My value as a human being is not tied to my ability to bear and raise children. I love kids, absolutely adore my nieces, mentor young women, and feel deeply fulfilled serving in the community. I am proudly child-FREE by choice. Not child-LESS. I am a whole, complete human with much to offer, without offspring. The intrusive questions I receive (all from women) are always interesting to engage with, but I have not-and will never-"change my mind." I don’t comment on how people parent or raise their children, so I expect the same respect when it comes to my decision not to have them. My choices are deeply personal, thoughtful, and do not require justification. I appreciate you and all of the beautiful content you share. Thank you for creating and cultivating one of the friendliest corners of the internet. May the blessings boomerang back to you and your loved ones tenfold. ✌🏼

[@Libertybell777]

Hi Goobie, first I would like to mention your haven, what a beautiful tranquil place you have found, it's so peaceful. About your reasons why you at this point don't feel or want any children, all your reasons made complete sense to me you've obviously thought a lot about it, it's a very difficult decision especially in the current situation on all levels in society. I think if more people would take the time to think on a deeper level and weigh everything out in in the present or near future then we probably wouldn't be in the situation that we all find ourselves in, whether it be environment, AI, money food education etc then people would hopefully begin to realise that everyone is unique and we are all not singing from the same song sheet so to speak🤗 keep doing what your doing Jonathon, just be wonderful you, I appreciate you and all the time you put into your videos, I enjoy when you mix them up it's sooooo refreshing. Just be happy 😁⭐️🍄‍🟫🪴🌷

[@LynnCiccone]

Thank you!!! The more perspectives we have the better choices we can make. You have a beautiful heart.❤

[@IlesT-cc8tp]

What an ending. that made me emotional I enjoy very much your content. greetings from north africa

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hello friend from North Africa 👋❤️

[@PeggyShingleton]

Your reasons are logical. Totally a parent’s choices. All I can say Dr. Goobie, is you have a lot of good qualities to give a child. Your authenticity, honesty and life experience. Would be a great model for a child. Priceless gifts to give. Not as many parents could be so qualified. You’d be a great Father!

[@amiesparkle00]

Ironically, most people who choose not to have kids would make the best parents. The qualities that make one a good parents, such as being thoughtful, caring and intelligent are the also the same qualities that lead to the decision to be child free.

[@anntunaley9974]

​@@amiesparkle00you hit the nail on the head right there.

[@PeggyShingleton]

Exactly, another good way to say it.

[@lizabennett7979]

You are such a peaceful person. Your energy is beautiful. 💛

[@reneesaunders2222]

I have 4 children and decided when I was younger I wanted to be a mom and a wife I'm so glad and thank God I'm a mother. Thank you for being authentic about your life... I just joined your page! Thank you❤

[@kayyang9559]

I respect your decision and completely agree with you. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

[@sophiec3592]

I’ had my daughter at 16 year old; she’s now 20 working toward her PA degree while I now am working toward my nursing degree. Meanwhile, I’m a single mom only sole provider, full time employee so I keep our insurance, to support my 9 year old son. I work and go to school about 17-18 a day 3x’s a week. It takes unconditional love, patience, endurance, time (which I have so little as of right now 😢, but I have to go to school to maintain a stable job to provide) , great energy, communication to be a parent. While I’m Growing and overcoming my children are as well. Their dad was a terrible abusive person. What I say is stick to your truth Dr.

[@ceanncora2]

I’m very happy that you have love, peace, happiness, and joy! I don’t call you selfish. Keep your heart open and everything will work out.

[@thuyhuynh7671]

Thanks so much Goobie, you are very knowledgeable ❤

[@SkrzynkaTIVI]

I also dont want to have children, housing crisis and increasing prices of everything made me think about all of this. You cant fully predict what your child will do in the future even if you are good parent and i dont want anything that comes out of me to make another scar on the world. 7 bilion people or 8 bilion is too much for any species.

[@mcwornex2123]

You’re the exact type of person that SHOULD have kids. Because you’re capable of those introspective and empathetic thoughts…. There’s something deeply troubling about the smartest and most responsible group of individuals deciding to avoid parenthood, whilst irresponsible, abusive and immature people don’t flinch at the thought of having half a dozen.

[@stop9359]

@@mcwornex2123 i completely agree with both of you. irony is a crazy thing

[@andyedison2416]

@@mcwornex2123 I totally agree, it’s doesn’t bode well when the brightest minds choose not to reproduce. I see now also that a lot of data shows we have topped out and now entering a population collapse.

[@nat9419]

@@mcwornex2123 Conscientious/empathetic ppl choose to spare their potential kids from a world of guaranteed pain. Whether they have kids or not - the non-empathetic ppl will birth loads of kids

[@kerata3]

And Healthcare commercial comes right after your video, hilarious! Love you too Jonathan! Thank youuuu....

[@Jayhonas]

Ignore the noisy commenters on your YT channel. Block out the noise for your happiness Goobie.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Thank you friend ❤️ I have fun playing with the trolls sometimes. And I got to throw rocks in the water 😊

[@itsmegianna]

​@@GoobieAndDoobieThank you

[@NehaSharma-se8vr]

I have so much respect for you and your decision, thank you so much for speaking your heart. This felt so comforting and full of warmth. Peace and love to you and your family goobie 🙏🏻❤

[@WarmMukwa]

Resources are finite and when they are not shared and are controlled by a few it is a huge problem.

[@Khadejia369]

I feel the exact same way and watching this gave me comfort that I’m not alone, stupid or crazy. And hope that I may find someone who will love me despite this decision 🤍 thanks dr x

[@chelsearose588]

@Khadejia369 when you don't run away from being alone but walk out in strength and confidence you'll attract love to you. It might not be in the way you expect or want but it'll come. God provides.

[@chridenner7806]

Wonderful listening to an intelligent person reflecting on life and his decisions, a breath of fresh air. These are also the reasons why I don't have kids: horrendous joblife leading to huge fatigue, so that I have no energy left to be a good father, overpopulation, dire future outlook on the demographic situation in Europe, and I think worklife will become even more horrific 20 years from now and my kids would suffer even more than I do. Also, ending generational trauma by not procreating is an argument.

[@jambek4219]

Dear Sir, you are full of wisdom, I am from France and here we all think like you, especially people in their forties we all have came up with the same conclusion. The consumption society their built has no taste. If you come to France and tell your story we will tell you BRAVO. Keep living and sharing your peaceful life. Peace and love 🌸🌸🌸

[@misterman1200]

hi Goobie. I’m one of those people on that destructive warship that goes through the hood canal. Very hopeful that we will never have to do our job.

[@GoobieAndDoobie]

Hello friend 👋❤️ I hope you stay safe and also hope you never have to launch those missiles

[@misterman1200]

@@GoobieAndDoobie Thank you, you as well. My wife and I both agree with your thoughts in this video. Being called selfish for giving others the chance to have kids in an overpopulated environment isn't right.

[@banditban09]

Your decision is not selfish Goobie. It is well informed and a good one! I personally want to have many kids when I get older but I get all of these drawbacks and I might not end up having any for these and other reasons. Regardless, your decision is completely valid ❤️

[@SPS263]

Bravo Dr. You both took a conscious decision to not have kids! I wish that more people were able to choose instead of following what everybody does or has. All the best🙏🏼

[@starduck8014]

hear hear x

[@creepcraddle]

If only everyone was capable of this level of i introspection and awakening. We would have much less suffering

[@jacquelinefitzpatrick2405]

Thank you for sharing Dr. Goobie. I respect your choice and opinion. Its a personal choice. Inhave 2 children and wanted them very much. I love my life.