I gave up. The endless ghosting, rejection and being ignored and feeling like I’m sub human. I’ve had enough
@paulcooper-n2v2 күн бұрын
I can relate mate.
@michellejessey865423 сағат бұрын
You made the right choice clearly you are not desirable in this market
@BrianWaller-qe7gr21 сағат бұрын
@ wow you broke some major news there jackass
@smcdonald99912 күн бұрын
Stop dating attempts back in 2010. It did a lot to improve my self-esteem and general happiness. Can't beat freedom and financial stability.
@TonyNewman-n9z2 күн бұрын
The juice is not worth the squeeze. Has been that way for decades. Simple as that. The sex and companionship are not worth the massive expenditure of time, energy and money involved in dating modern women. As men age things like peace, quiet and financial security for retirement become more important than moments of wet friction and the chaos that comes with that. Get a dog if you really need companionship and take care of your own needs for the other (or hire a professional). Whatever works for you. Keep your time, sanity and cash.
@georgeedward12262 күн бұрын
The risk far outweighs the rewards. It's that simple. Change that reality and men might reconsider.
@bp68772 күн бұрын
Ever notice how virtually no one starts a KZbin channel talking about how wonderful marriage is? And, at least one individual I know who did make a video to this effect, did not disclose that he's been divorced multiple times!
@Freedom-Fighter12 күн бұрын
That’s because marriage is a modern day trap. It will destroy your life financially, legally, socially, and emotionally. It’s just not worth it.
@ampm84332 күн бұрын
Because these jaded n burned channels make the money. Happy folks don’t need reinforcement from online videos about their relationships.
@BlackPill-pu4vi2 күн бұрын
@@ampm8433 Ill and injured people need a doctor. For some, the original pre-PUA red pill addresses the problem. For most men, however, the black pill is the best medicine and the cure rate is damn near 100% because it treats the real problem.
@RedLegPiperКүн бұрын
@@ampm8433facts
@jimmorrison96562 күн бұрын
I'm 61 and am just not attracted to women my age. But don't have the patience for the younger ones. I am saving for a BMW. ( Big Mexican woman) She'll keep me warm in the winter and provide shade in the summer.
@ironman55112 күн бұрын
best comment of the day lol
@EricDraven-qd9pu2 күн бұрын
Nobody wants old hags.....over 30? Nope
@karl285602 күн бұрын
GORDITA!!!! Heck yea!
@thomasgill9682 күн бұрын
Lol
@SweetCandy-x4j2 күн бұрын
Well younger women are not attracted to you.
@genxjacob2 күн бұрын
I never married but have had my share of long term relationships and still feel like I dodged a bullet. ✌️
@BlackPill-pu4vi2 күн бұрын
It's also very possible that you can find a high quality single woman, her family matches your expectations, her Dad likes you, and her mother is great. Yet, the SW isn't feeling it but, for the time being, she enjoys the new attention. But, after the novelty wears off, she knows she can do better. And she does. And your best wasn't good enough. The long hard path to the black pill has begun.
@johnmusser89252 күн бұрын
A son is a son till he takes a wife..a daughters a daughter the rest of your life
@TimmyCramer2 күн бұрын
Smart Men Don't Marry!!
@smcdonald99912 күн бұрын
Correct.
@chrishodder76962 күн бұрын
I dated a woman and in turn dated the Adam’s Family 🧟♀️🧟🧌
@paulcooper-n2v2 күн бұрын
Their kooky and their spooky.
@spadgm2 күн бұрын
This is priceless advice!
@bobk44092 күн бұрын
It has been 30+ years for me since my last relationship. POS was looking for someone to take care of her, so she dumped me for someone older. The funny thing is that he's now considered to be a senior citizen and will hopefully be planted soon. She's never been on her own...
@andrewgage69422 күн бұрын
I'm so grateful for being born ugly, short and I'm working class, no woman looks at me, I'm nearly 60 and I've seen more divorces than long lasting marriages
@danielboone722 күн бұрын
Same here as you, and I’m 52.
@DMH522 күн бұрын
Yup, I checked out of marriage at 30 and out of dating at 40. Fortunately, no children were ever produced. The amount of nonsense just isn't worth the time and effort. To the young guys who might read this, it doesn't get any better as women age. Their expectations of older women are far higher, and what they have to offer is far lower.
@j.r_ibtbotfa5279Күн бұрын
Great video I almost fell off the wagon keep content coming
@user-gd4ri4pt8j2 күн бұрын
That goes both ways. There are a lot of women that don't want to date anymore either. Me, I've been divorced 40+ years as he was a terrible husband and father and now on his 3rd marriage. Not everyone is the same and you shouldn't let anyone pay for someone else's mistakes BUT when your in some kind of relationship, ONE RED FLAG, get rid of them because forgiving them they will do it again. It seems that appreciation turns into taking advantage of you if they get that second chance. Better to each have their own place so that these quirks don't get on your nerves and when they do you have your own place to go back to.
@EricDraven-qd9pu2 күн бұрын
Whatever makes you believe your own BS 😂
@oceanhedonist2652 күн бұрын
Not everyone can be perfect like you. 😀
@user-gd4ri4pt8j2 күн бұрын
@@oceanhedonist265 no one is perfect but God
@user-gd4ri4pt8j2 күн бұрын
@@EricDraven-qd9pu WHAT!?
@BrianWaller-qe7gr2 күн бұрын
Women giving up dating because they are all chasing the chads and all he does is pump and dump. Older women still find average men invisible. Just the other day for thanksgiving I got invited to a small gathering. There was a single mom there. I heard her complain that she got invited to a church dance and he pretty much ignored her most of the time. While me being single I was romantically invisible to her. Not saying I’d be interested although she wasn’t bad looking but the fact that we both were the only two single people there, I was pretty much not on her radar whatsoever. Never even tried to engage in conversation with me
@Ukfamine20252 күн бұрын
48, never married. I could tell its a mugs game. Been about, but been single for about 9 or 10 years, and loving it. Im not going to unsettle my happiness because of a woman. Plus, at my age, most women have kids, which is an absolute turn-off.
@GungaGaLunga7772 күн бұрын
Tom Leykis preached this for decades and he was vilified for it. You've been warned boys.
@ActiveAtom2 күн бұрын
Never married, no children 1 best friend great hobby turned business no debt = 2 of the happiest people on earth doing what they love and sharing what we do with others. 61 and 58. Our thought on the topic, stop wasting time in these traps and join the likes of guys like us, life is so awesome glad neither of us took the paths of least resistance. Lance.
@gaylaaustin74682 күн бұрын
Right back at ya fellas
@happilyretiredfrommerrill93572 күн бұрын
DAMN--ONE THING TO SAY YOU'RE NEVER MARRYING AGAIN---ANOTHER THING TO SAY YOU'RE NEVER DATING AGAIN---THAT'S TAKING BEING ALONE TO A WHOLE 'NOTHER LEVEL.
@LoneWolf-qk9pl2 күн бұрын
Only with a Marriage contract....period !
@DiegoB05252 күн бұрын
Hey Phil! Your vibe reminds me of "Coach RP Gonzalo Lira". I think it could be the knowledge and experience.
@Hurkuhntreeks2 күн бұрын
❤ RIP Coach Redpill. His videos helped me thru really hard times
@Freedom-Fighter12 күн бұрын
@@HurkuhntreeksIt’s a shame the way he went out. No man deserves that.
@Hurkuhntreeks2 күн бұрын
@@Freedom-Fighter1 especially Gonzalo, he stayed there for his son. He fell victim to the very thing he taught us to beware of. Seems like his exwife destroyed him
@longhitter15662 күн бұрын
@@Hurkuhntreeks No good deed goes unpunished, and karma says what goes round... So essentially you can't win;-)
@danielmurphy-cn9mu2 күн бұрын
Phil have you ever heard the song Makin'Whoopee by Louis Armstrong this is a great learning lesson about a young guy getting married and how things change up on him in a few years, Best Wishes and thanks for bringing out the truth of how so many guys suffer with BS in marriage; For many guys this is just a prison term!
@bambismomkelly74232 күн бұрын
Hmmm....sounds like this is becoming a woman bashing channel.. Guys, it works both ways...we women having a saying about dating men over 50 years old..." He's just looking for a nurse with a purse"
@BlackPill-pu4vi2 күн бұрын
This goes far beyond mere dating gripes. Modern dating and marriage in the U.S. are symptoms of much deeper societal sickness. Going into detail is impossible, given the algorithm that focuses tightly on defending that very sickness.
@Unplugged-r2t2 күн бұрын
@@bambismomkelly7423 I’ve never looked for a woman with $$ just an honest & faithful one I guess they don’t exist anymore
@Invisbleanonymous22 сағат бұрын
@@Unplugged-r2t you would be correct they do not exist anymore. Maybe they never did, and were just really good at sneaking around without being found out all along. The Bible is super R P as well and outlines what we see today in great detail as it relates to fee fails.
@dt878722 сағат бұрын
Very, very narrow minded and shallow. Would never date you. 😏
@Travis.Bickle..2 күн бұрын
I’m 57, divorced after a miserable 10 year marriage. Totally turned off by 99% of women out there today of any age. Id date again but I’m looking at it the way the average female does now….have a big checklist and every box needs to be checked off or it’s not happening. And no I don’t expect anything either I’ve accepted I’m on my own till I die. I’ve become at peace with my dog and cats as my company.
@jimmorrison96562 күн бұрын
Remember when we were teenagers? All the girls were happy and fun. All I seem to find now is drunk and miserable. Oh well, at least there's porn.
@jimmorrison96562 күн бұрын
Dogs and cats are much more loyal than most women these days.
@Freedom-Fighter12 күн бұрын
@@jimmorrison9656 I learned about true loyalty from my dog who passed away last year. He was more concerned about me than he was himself right up till the second he passed away in my arms. God rest his soul.