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[@Asa...S]

So wait, he complains about "Men are viewed for what they can provide", so he wants to marry someone from another country who will marry him for "what he can provide"?

[@Aoderic]

He's completely blind to the irony

[@MrSaxobeat020]

I don't understand why american men don't understand that relationships are a give and take process. No matter which living species, men and women have to provide for each other in relationship. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@capers72424]

@@MrSaxobeat020 not all American men are like that…

[@aazhie]

​@capers72424 the comment you replied to doesn't say ALL american men

[@capers72424]

@@aazhie it doesn’t limit the number to “some” either, now does it?

[@FFKonoko]

"They are better at preserving their culture" By marrying american bros? I think that might be one of those self falsifying moments.

[@42ayla]

Somehow I feel like if they actually tried to 'preserve their culture' he'd lose his mind, call them commies and send them back where they came from.

[@pridefall3304]

It’s ok. they only preserve the parts of the culture that he likes and magically acclimate to American culture for all the other stuff. Or so I’ve been led to believe.

[@troyduren5079]

He means the areas where they have "preserved" a culture of male dominance and submissive women. 😉

[@jjohnsengraciesmom]

​@troyduren5079 He may mean that, but I do not believe there is any such culture. In addition, it is a lot of work to truly be a traditional male who works hard to provide for the family. So.e have multiple jobs..

[@Maya_hee]

​@@jjohnsengraciesmomThat's literally the culture of majority of the countries. Some more, some less but it's there

[@wonderinart8429]

I have a passport bro in my family. He brought a woman to the states, and wanted her to always be under the impression that American men were the unquestioned heads of the household. But, sent her to learn English at a class, out in the world, where women exist. Went about as well as you'd expect.

[@user-jt5jm3qo3t]

😂😂😂😂 good for her!!!!

[@FireSilver25]

Do tell!

[@user-xl5ys9qu8g]

@@wonderinart8429 You mean she became entitled and demanding, and at some point started to think she could do better and left him after he lifted her up out of her previous situation? Sounds about what I expect .. Women didn't ask for jobs until after air conditioning was invented.

[@Shelleysnail]

@@callmekells.it’s time he got an AI maid/sex slave/laundromat

[@ernststravoblofeld]

​@@user-xl5ys9qu8gNice username, troll.

[@kristenvoskuil9755]

A friend from Korea said that men often tried to date her because they thought she'd be down for the bang maid role. However in her words "We're taught to be submissive to our parents, not our husbands."

[@TehMomo_]

Does he not know that korean women have been swearing off dudes

[@brittany8002]

Also a lot of those countries cultures still want people of similar backgrounds and cultures.

[@annainspain5176]

@@catxtrallways A lot of Korean girls don't want to marry because a) they don't want to "mother" some manbaby and b) they don't want to deal with his mother. They don't want to find themselves living in the same house "just till you get on your feet" and turning into Big Mama's full-time maid.

[@nl-oc9ew]

Lol, Korean ladies are fierce.

[@drakeaciago6491]

and korean woman dont have to sacrifice one year of their life for the country

[@JentilNissaa]

"be the mother of YOUR kids". Not at all objectifying ... married women are still viewed as a surrogate for men's kids.

[@fluffyou9276]

But also has to take care of them.. without payment. But the kids "belong" to the man apparently...

[@iarmycombo5659]

​@@fluffyou9276 only thing that is apparent is that the children will copy everything they do from their mother or their friends, whichever closer.

[@OCEAN_OF_FOXES]

@@fluffyou9276 She as well. Women and children are possesions for the social status. She's basically the sl4ve, she does all the labor, but he doesn't pay her anything more than letting her eat the food and live in HIS house. When she's malfunctioning (e.g. demands equity, or compensation for her work, including 401k, claims that half of his goods belong to her as well, or expects him to validate her feelings, support her and build the relationship) he can just replace it with another family, usually a younger, more prone to manipulation one robot wife, where he can continue on cultivating the entitlement. Just like you wish your laptop will work if you paid for it. Psychologically impaired men do not know love, they weren't properly loved and valued as a human being, and they can't form a deep intimate relationship with another person, it's very sad. They try to imitate the social norms but in a narcissistic, materialistic way, because they need others to perceive them as normal, worthy men, and every worthy man has a family of his own.

[@somegeese]

Your is plural, to play devil's advocate. He also seems like the kind of guy who meant it singular

[@Gildedmuse]

​@@somegeese He used it as a singular pronoun in the prior sentence, and the sentence itself seperates out "mother" vs "your", further indicating its singular.

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

Translation: "US women aren't systemically oppressed enough for me, I need to find someone desperate. to leave their country for a better life and fully dependent on me for that opportunity for freedom."

[@dreamscape405]

On POINT 💯

[@amberdenexter3949]

THIS.

[@redheadredemption3]

Exactly!

[@LegateShepard]

Freedom which, ironically, they will have next to none off under the oppression of a deeply, deeply insecure man.

[@AngelaMastrodonato]

@@LegateShepard actually, these women are shrewder than you give them credit for and he’ll find a foreign woman who will pretend to be what he’s looking for until she gets what she’s looking for then she’ll bounce and clean out his bank account.

[@mslindadoll]

A man once told me that I would never marry or have children because men would just go overseas to get brides. I did get married, I did have a child. In the meantime, the thing for overseas brides is to marry an American, get a green card and then divorce him and get half his assets. How's that working out for y'all?

[@cherryhazard8002]

Does he not know that some men have substance and want a woman with substance and her own life that doesn't revolve her entire life about being a feminine barbie doll? Lol.

[@drakeaciago6491]

for some people work for otrher dont , is the same with mariage in their oown con¡untrys... i still dont undarstan why people get married. make a contrac whit your future partner is the best solution

[@clockside]

​@@drakeaciago6491 Fun fact: marriage IS a contract. That's why you have to go through the court system in order to dissolve a marriage (aka terminate the contract early).

[@drakeaciago6491]

@@clockside i know but that contract is standard and obsolete, there is a need to a new form of contracts (independent of the sex of both part) with the things that people dont discuses for fear. and usually blow on their faces

[@UnBesoDeCristal]

Demonizing the women/children in empoverished countries (largely due to western imperialism and interventionism) that these men groom and abuse... is tacky as hell. They hardly end up in better situations, but they sacrifice joining an abusive/imbalanced relationship with white men (moslty, not exclusively) for slightly better material conditions. Do you think the law protects them and they get anything from being live in sex maids?

[@JustAFanGirl671]

As a woman from a foreign country, we would like to decline this man’s offer

[@TheHanyuuuuu]

In my country in the impoverished 90-ties it was a common dream to marry a westerner and escape poverty that way. Then those lucky brides started coming back saying "its better to live with my mom in 1 room apartments on min wage then with him" Now all girls are extremely wary or passport bros (well, except crooks, they make good money from these men).

[@molliedonner2254]

😂

[@roach931]

As a woman from SEA the only reasons there would be to marry this man are 1) green card 2) wallet

[@MonieM663]

I'm from a "developing country" and I'm always baffled that these men think that our standards are lower for partners. I would literally never date a man living in such a populated country who couldn't find a partner. That's a red flag as big as a sheet imo.

[@chante1955]

🤣🤣 no take backs

[@maximeminassian6002]

This guy doesn’t want a wife, he wants a maid (to put it lightly)

[@Nerobyrne]

In Germany he can pay a lady to clean his pipes and his house, and it's perfectly legal!

[@AshaSelfsDemoFilms]

Bang Maid is the terminology being employed in these discussions lately.

[@SherioCheers]

I'm just glad they're all outing themselves, so we know to avoid them.

[@Nerobyrne]

@@AshaSelfsDemoFilms the true irony is they'd scoff at an actual service which was offering this.

[@deeps6979]

From the look of him, probably a handmaid.

[@bedlambelle]

Lol. One of these, "i want a traditional marriage where you do all the domestic labor, but don't be a gold digger i.e. you must contribute financially" guys.

[@abiean222]

guys like these have to be insane to think that that is in any way logical. the contradiction breaks my mind

[@Swordsman1425]

Saw a text chain like that once... guy wanted a "traditional wife" and the woman was actually all for it... until he insisted that she have a job as well. She rightfully pointed out that she can't do all the chores, take care of the kids, cook, etc while also having even a part-time job. Of course the man called her a gold-digger and she got a good laugh.

[@juliaboskamp9666]

I call that someone who lookes for a submissive provider or replacement mommy.

[@velvethunder]

Child bearing+ raising and household keeping IS labour and has been ruled by many international courts to count as "financial contributions" , AS. IT. SHOULD. they want YOU to raise their kid whilst also being THEIR mother

[@marysueechols2845]

​@velvethunder well, their mother and sex slave

[@notbot2648]

Frankly, not being able to find one woman who shares your core values in a country as populous as the United States sounds more like a "you" problem, bro. Skill issue. You're the common denominator here, after all.

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

Using Dark Souls logic, this guy needs to "get good" instead of complaining about ladies.

[@maem7462]

Right bc there definitely are some women who believe that a man should be the breadwinner and the woman takes care of the house. It’s less ppl than there used to be bc we literally didn’t have a choice. There are women who fit that. One of the best places to find someone like that is at a church especially if it’s a Christian church

[@Aoderic]

He also thinks that it's especially American women that is "wrong" (they aren't, he is) But I could tell him the news, that women here in Europe are even less likely to put up with his outdated patriarchal values.

[@raven3moon]

Yeah, if you can't find one person to gel with in the 3rd most populace country in the world, you're the drama.

[@freddyrodriguez4732]

dude theyre all only fucking yachtbros didn’t u know

[@stoverboo]

My brother in law was like this guy. His third wife was from the Philippines. She was exactly as expected until after the birth of their son. At the point, the gloves came off, and she would scream the house down unless she got whatever she wanted. She spent his savings on a new house in the Philippines for her parents, designer clothing and accessories, trips back to the Philippines (he had to pay ransom to get his son back home again), and she insisted they move to a city with a climate as close the the Philippines as possible and where there is a large Filipino community. He is now looking down the barrel of an old age spent in poverty with an angry partner. The idea that all women from "traditional cultures" will be silent and obedient is laughable, to say the least.

[@Khaleesi_Jack]

They do not. But when they get slapped with the reality they envisioned and created for themselves, it is so satisfying.

[@rosethorne9155]

She won. She got exactly what she wanted. Somehow these men never realize that while THEY are trying to play women for fools, that many women in those countries are adept at sensing men's BS. And that a "sweet, submissive" attitude can be an act. 😂 for guys who won't stop complaining about gold diggers, they sure are quick to run off and marry them.

[@rosethorne9155]

She won. She got exactly what she wanted. Somehow these men never realize that while THEY are trying to play women for fools, that many women in those countries are adept at sensing men's BS. And that a "sweet, submissive" attitude can be an act. 😂 for guys who won't stop complaining about gold diggers, they sure are quick to run off and marry them.

[@alarcon99]

I’m so happy for the Filipina woman in OP’s story 😂❤ that guy got exactly what he deserves.

[@rosethorne9155]

She won. She got exactly what she wanted. Somehow these men never realize that while THEY are trying to play women for fools, that many women in those countries are adept at sensing men's BS. And that a "sweet, submissive" attitude can be an act. 😂 for guys who won't stop complaining about gold diggers, they sure are quick to run off and marry them.

[@mrfomo217]

Travel overseas? Nah, what you're after is to travel back in time.

[@alarcon99]

😂 truth!😂

[@briana14333]

Factual ‼️🎯💯

[@slothmonster7165]

Not even, for all of history women have worked. Guys like these are mistaking women having no choice but to be married due to property and banking laws with women actually being 'submissive' (not that some people don't enjoy that type of role but for the most part the demure outer facade was a complete lie for self preservation) these dude need to read feminine mystique for a real look at house wives of yore.

[@outdoorscholar6016]

No wait, let him travel overseas to Asia (which I’m assuming he’s talking about) and let’s watch as all women across the continent eat him alive 😂😂 From my experience, they do not put up with people like him

[@Nice_Tree]

Haha, no. Chances are, he don't want to be a soldier in world wars or working on a factory or in a field. Otherwise he would have servants and his potential wife would definitely marry him for money

[@I_am_Irisarc]

I don't care what his words say, he just wants a servant.

[@marysueechols2845]

*a sex slave. You can hire a maid

[@realglutenfree]

This is his face after that new wife left him and took half of his money: 😮

[@kimcham9949]

👍🏾 That's *exactly* what his words say. We *all* heard it. 😕

[@WilliamBrowning]

Their concept of 'traditional' life was only a thing in America for perhaps 2 decades. The women he's talking about hated their lives, cheated on their husbands, popped a ton of pills to feel better and/or lose weight and then disappeared as soon they could take a line of credit and escape their meaningless lives. 'Mommy's Little Helper' is a song for a reason. He will continue to refuse to see that Feminism offers him an out. He will continue to blame women for the world that he hates.

[@OCEAN_OF_FOXES]

Because it's a lot of work to be done on men's side, and to start doing this, you'd actually need to acknowledge you've been terribly fooled and you're not that entitled as you had been taught. Most people aren't ready for self-actualization, especially when it involves humbling themselves and taking accountability for how we contribute to the toxic society. And last step, it's very hard to find someone who already did that, or is from a healthy home, to form a relationship without huge emotional intelligence disparity. Women used to accomodate men for that as they've been socialized to do the emotional labor for others, but not anymore. A lot of women deliberately stop doing that and our relationships break on a massive scale. Women have done their work and have higher standards because of it, most men still haven't done the work and aren't even interested in admitting it's the case. So in the meantime, blaming women for their failure is a defensive mechanism until it pupates into a truly good man who can be a partner, or women's killer like some incels.

[@andiward7068]

It was portrayed on TV/movies and has been mistaken for a reality that never existed for the majority of Americans. If those folks talked to the people who lived it, they'd be quite surprised how things actually were.

[@abiean222]

also these men seem to forget that a lot of women straight up murdered their husbands. if you are the one who handles all food and drink, its super easy to poison the people you don't like.

[@charleston1789]

@@OCEAN_OF_FOXESthis is VERY well put! Thank you

[@frozenheart7133]

That'll be the downfall of capitalism. They screwed up when they took the drugs keeping us passive away.

[@thetimekeeper955]

It's always hilarious when these guys demonstrate that they can't see how the patriarchy has been destroying men's lives as much as women's for _millennia._

[@Nat_778]

They complain about men being expected to provide and then talk about how women should stay home to cook and clean with ZERO self-awareness

[@jenni4claire]

​@@Nat_778Every time.

[@42ayla]

Absolute power corrupts absolutely. They seem to forget that includes the creators of the power.

[@AS-my3sw]

It's a self fulfilling prophecy. Every time a guy goes on and on about women like this, I ask them what other men think about it. I would ask this guy, "what would other men say if the woman made more in the relationship?" If they're honest, they would admit other men would call that That's the patriarchy, fellas, anything that would get you called . They can't name one manosphere "issue" that isn't the direct result of the patriarchy.

[@TrevorMom]

As much? When were men not allowed to open bank accounts? Who is currently being told what to with the results of a man’s orgasm? Whose movements and periods are being tracked? Men have had it easy since the beginning of time.

[@Emptytopfloor]

He will learn the true definition of being a provider when he marries that foreign woman he’s talking about. American men have it easy. Men in America call 50/50 being a provider. The joke just write itself. 😂

[@user_7239]

Exactly!! He will be expected to support her and half her family, her parents at the very least.

[@resourcedragon]

Not necessarily. A lot of Filipina women in Australia also work (often poorly paid jobs) but they are contributing to the family income. Or I can think of a Zimbabwean nurse who married a man who abused his first, white Australian wife. The husband (who has a criminal record involving fraud) then pulls all the favourite abusive husband tricks like "I'll fix your car," which basically means it's off the road indefinitely, so then "I have to drive you to work," so she can't see other people on her way to and from work. And, of course, he won't let her go to the African festival where she might meet other people. As she's a nurse, she's earning a decent income, as I remember it, she's probably the main income source in that relationship.

[@JRCGuitarist]

@@resourcedragonThat’s kind of not the point, while yes there are other cultures where Women work. A lot of Men don’t like the fact that Women in America prefer to work, accusing us of “being too career oriented”. But then you get the Men where being a provider for them is more than what they can do handle, so, they want 50/50, but it’s not 50/50 since Women can work two full time jobs and keep the Men happy as much as they expect. For that to work, the Men have to do more around the house relieving the Woman’s burden. And a lot of them don’t want to do that. The difference is, overseas, the Women will work to an extent, but much of their expectation is that the man be provider to and extent, while she focuses mostly on the home, however, most American Men don’t make enough money HERE to be provide the comfort a lot of foreign Women may be looking for. American economy is harder than Foreigners think. The money would go longer overdress than it does here. So, a lot of Women will likely be less submissive with American Men, since they aren’t going be able to provide as well as would be expected.

[@bibliophilelady6106]

I teach 14-15 year olds and have definitely slipped into classroom discussions the fact that if an older person seems very interested in dating them, it is because people their own age won't date them. The same exact advice applies here. If your own dating pool finds you a huge red flag, any other pools you try to dip your toe in should RUN.

[@aellalee4767]

Omg I hope the conversations are going better than the silence at my school. I was consistently made fun of for not sleeping with 30yr olds when I was 14. I would just tell them they'll see it differently when they become adults.

[@bibliophilelady6106]

@@aellalee4767 I had a senior sniffing around a group of my freshmen girls and I was freaking out. We were reading poetry, so I brought up Edgar and Virginia Poe's ages when they married and I tried to slip in some applicable life knowledge they needed at that particular moment.

[@kalenanichol8375]

​@@aellalee4767oh my God. That's heartbreaking. Did any parents find out and put a stop to it?

[@aellalee4767]

@@kalenanichol8375 no, I did have one friend who's parents basically sold her for drugs I think and they went to the police to make sure they'd not bother arresting her for living with him, and the next one. I had a boss whose daughter was preyed upon by his friend at 12, and the court ruled it that she consented, even though age of consent is 16 there. 🤷‍♀️

[@kalenanichol8375]

@@aellalee4767 wow. Three levels of failure: parents, school, and the justice system. Even if the 12yr old "consented", that's still statutory r*** and that guy should have been locked up and put on the list. I hope they've been able to heal ❤️

[@Aoderic]

Finding a woman that likes them as a person, is really not an option for those kind of men. You need a likeable personality, and they simply don't have one.

[@OCEAN_OF_FOXES]

Maybe they should start with working on the relationship with themselves, and become a person they would personally like and trust. This screams huge immaturity and self-esteem issues.

[@vangu2918]

​@HoszHosz So many looking for complete control of another person is sad.

[@OCEAN_OF_FOXES]

@@vangu2918 Insecurity.. Yes it's very sad, not only because it's abusive, but it must be a very hurtful feeling that you can get someone to "love" you only by forcing them to, and you're okay with that... They must feel very unloveable inside. But until they work it out, it's very dangerous for anyone to try and heal it for them. I call people like that "black holes"... No matter how much love you put in, you will get none in return. They're uncapable to love anyone and feel entitled to others trying to get through. It's like a deep, unsatisfied infant need. So many people have it, but gendered socialization produces somehow people-pleasing women and abusive men out of it. And they perfectly fit with each other complimenting this toxic circle.

[@karynstouffer3562]

Dingdingding! You get the, admittedly dubious, prize for being 100% correct!🎉

[@maewest68]

@@vangu2918 how about just some control?

[@vik_versus8003]

Do people forget how small the world is and how quickly ideas can spread now? Women all over the globe are having the same awakening, no matter the culture. Somehow the answer is never self improvement and staying single

[@JayBee-hk7ej]

East European here. I agree.

[@user-jt5jm3qo3t]

African here. We are clued in now too. We need men to cook, clean and be mentally intelligent as well as look after their kids too. No more free labour!

[@purdyculliz]

This is exactly why they want to get control of Tiktok and lock down/censor our conversations

[@Hello-hello-hello456]

This is so wholesome ❤

[@tspencer661]

South Korea and the 4B movement

[@claire98]

As a girl from EU who just got married to a guy from the US, I can tell you, I'd NEVER want to date or have anything to do with someone who's actively searching for a woman, "From another country." That's a huge red flag imo. I fell in love with my hubby by accident, and I can tell you if he was anything like that guy I'd never be willing to go through all the headache of paperwork after paperwork just so I can be with him permanently.

[@karapeters2072]

These guys aren't looking for women from the EU. If you follow this disgusting "genre," they often claim that EU women are even "worse" than Americans. It's the poorer parts of Asia and Eastern Europe that they fetishize.

[@LC-sc3en]

This is how it should be: “When I marry it will probably be to a non American because I travel a lot or spend a lot of time in social circles with non Americans because of (my job, my neighborhood, my hobbies)” Being in a position and knowing the odds is a lot different than fetishizing other cultures or a particular stereotype being attractive to you. This guy somehow manages to be worse than all the idiot women who went to India in the hopes of finding and falling in love with a white Brazilian man after reading Eat Pray Love. Though he is just as disconnected from reality 😂

[@PawleyGirl]

As an American woman who married an Egyptian man... same. 😄 That paperwork is a pain in the butt.

[@miriam4235]

Ofcourse he calls his future wife a 'girl'... Also, as someone from overseas ill pass.

[@Bianca-nb7by]

Haha same! 😂

[@JezeBellaMorte]

Wish I could snap my fingers and everyone on earth would suddenly comprehend the difference between a full grown human and an underdeveloped one and respect them as such. Too many grown men out here going after the most vulnerable, groomable females, just because they got their period.

[@katherinetomasello3661]

Good call

[@TheObserver3]

Yeah he wants someone he can groom and control' he doesn't want to be objectified and he doesn't see the hypocrisy of him objectifying women.

[@RasheedahNizam]

Welcome my green card-needing sisters 😅

[@pleegjepleegje]

An overseas Dutch woman will set him straight

[@jenni4claire]

Any Irish girl would feed him to her cat.

[@42ayla]

6 feet and 6 figures without a man in sight. Sorry about that bro.

[@victoriagds]

Yes. Yes, she will.

[@lilacghoste8366]

That is why passport bro or girl ain't bad thing to be 😂 Some of us ain't heading for asians

[@inertia86]

These guys just don't want to put in the work to be a good partner. That is all this comes down to

[@SherioCheers]

Yeah, they're not taking it well that they actually have something of substance to offer and not just $$ anymore.

[@capers72424]

THIS guy doesn’t want to put in the work. Many guys are willing and able, and DO put in the work on a daily basis to make the marriage and family work.

[@inertia86]

@@capers72424 I was talking about the ones who talk like this

[@kalenanichol8375]

​@@capers72424absolutely - and I'm lucky to have found mine. He's amazing and we work together to build the life we want. The "like this" is implied. If you don't fit ("men are emotionally immature" and you're not), you're not one of " these guys" then they're not talking about or attacking you. And Speech Prof is especially refreshing to me bc he's an older millennial who loves his wife (unlike the men at my workplace that make "I hate my wife" jokes all the time) and is a great example of someone who loves the life he's built It's hard to not feel lumped in sometimes, and I think it is especially difficult for men to figure out how they want to be if their main historic role is changing without good, consistent, easily accessible examples As a society, we're gonna eventually figure it out :)

[@MacRoss44]

​@@capers72424The commentor said "these guys." Not "all guys." You don't need to "not all men," especially on this channel. C'mon.

[@Trogdor1365]

He doesn't want to fulfill a traditional role as a man, so he's going oversees to marry someone who will fulfill a traditional role as a woman? HUH?!

[@GodofPainBelial]

Right? 😂

[@jdprettynails]

Make it make sense 😂

[@katannyadirkson6147]

Hah! Yeah thanks for the irony, bro.

[@taylerkolin3075]

'The problem is American women have easy access to men with more money than me. They're just a DM away' It's not about "core values" then is it? It's about finding women with lower expectations due to lack of access to or knowledge of other options. The ways these kinds of guys get creative to all essentially say "I want women to lower their standards until I meet them".

[@TheHanyuuuuu]

does he thinks women in other countries don't know how to DM? :D If access to rich men is the only problem what will stop his new wife from DMing those guys after he brought her to the US

[@elizabethhenning778]

Whenever a guy talks about "values," what he really means is that he wants a so-called "trad wife."

[@jenni4claire]

But not if she has access to a full spectrum of human rights. That's why they're taking them away from all women.

[@chrisb__]

Considering most of the "trad wife" women can be found in cults, it really says something about a person when their preferred partner type is "cultist".. 🤔

[@lollylolly8186]

These “cultists” aren’t trad wives either. They just pretend that’s what they want. Because they’ve had the privilege of not having it forced upon them like their daughters will if they get their way!

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

He wants an indentured servant

[@JWildberry]

It's gross when men from wealthy countries target women from poor countries because they want a partner that's powerless.

[@donaldwert7137]

Sounds to me like he's attracting the female version of himself and wondering why the relationship never works out.

[@KxNOxUTA]

Not quite, himself - power and choices is what he's into.

[@brennam954]

@@KxNOxUTA I think what they mean, if I'm not mistaken, is that while bitching about how men are just valued for what they provide...his solution is to seek out "traditional" women in other countries who will also value (really, depend) on him for what he provides. It doesn't even make sense. These men are unevolved babies.

[@JayBee-hk7ej]

Hands up from the women who are not from the USA who wouldn't date the young guy (or any similar) either! Eastern European here, I'm raising my hand.

[@Emptytopfloor]

🖐🏽

[@Llynya90]

🖐 I'd like to personally ship him back.

[@susannehuber3996]

No thank you. We have stupid men here as well.

[@Gwennedd]

Hand up! Canadian here...and wouldn't date him ever. His attitude is readable immediately and raises all kinds of red flags.

[@tinkeramma]

I'm American, so I won't raise my hand, but have to say... I've shed exactly zero tears that this dude doesn't want to marry me.

[@SkyeTrickster]

Culture? My grandma is older than most of the "culture" men like him talk about 😂

[@LaughingInTiny]

❤ All I have to add to this FABULOUS comment section is how proud I am of women globally for collectively standing up and changing the narrative. I'm not sure how many of you see the changes yet, but my two young men (17 and 21) have such a different view than guys did when I was their age... and I can see from their online community and influences that things ARE changing. It's taking effort but as we stand up, the next generation is learning to see things in a much healthier way.

[@lollylolly8186]

My boys are the ones that cook in their households, do their own laundry and care for their own kids. They don’t call it babysitting. My girls married men who were raised the same way, no traditional roles unless it’s what they want/like to do. Fortunately I raised headstrong, independent girls and respectful and responsible boys.

[@LenaFerrari]

Good job

[@yachishairclips2250]

To PP Bros: Good luck in finding a partner (woman ofc) that is well off financally/could provide to the family and would be willing to be a traditional woman and mostly stay at home. Because most women outside expects the man to give all of his finances for the family. He is expected to be a breadwinner. And prof is 100% right. The ones willing to date these men... are what they call the gold diggers that would 100% settle for their money until they suck the reserves dry enough to leave.

[@maewest68]

so not much different to most of the women in the states anyway? might as well go abroad and try and find a cheaper bloodsucker.

[@hannahk.598]

@maewest68 Calling traditional women bloodsucker while claiming to have traditional values is getting boring. So you want a wife that beautiful and takes care of herself and is kind and family focused and has traditional values, but simultaneously doesn't feel responsible for her own parents/family, works to make her own money so the guy doesn't need to provide for her and also doesn't care about looks. Do you actually not see the irony?

[@maewest68]

@@hannahk.598 That's not what I said. "all of his finances" does he get all you've got to offer?

[@hannahk.598]

@maewest68 It's a marriage, the literal definition of becoming one unit and sharing everything. What would the woman not share in the case of being a traditional wife with no paid labour?

[@issecret1]

No, most women outside don't do that shit. Don't paint us all with your brush. As an outside woman, I expect him to be independent, work, do chores. Like I do. This shit in your comment is more of a US woman, with the provider obsession

[@anonymousscience4095]

Every time I hear one of these guys refer to grown women as girls, the scenes from Star Trek with the Ferengi saying "Fee-male hoo-man!" come to mind.

[@MusclesandBooks]

I just nearly choked on my lunch. Maybe this dude will at least allow his wife clothing? LOOOOOL

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

How many men think that a tradional life is about love? Or just repeating a custom that more and more women in countries where women have freedom reject?

[@OCEAN_OF_FOXES]

I guess they all think it's love but they don't know what love is.

[@abiean222]

those kind of men don't think of women as human beings, just a sentient fuck toy that will clean their house. they love their wifes and girlfriends the same way you love your phone

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

A decision made to escape poverty is not choosing a PP Bro. These men don't find "love" , they find a woman that qants to escape and Sees them, for whatever reason, as a way to escape the bad Situation. But in my opinion, it's buying a household slave.

[@moniquita720]

And doesnt it just feed into the thing he eays he wants to avoid? Being a tool for an objective of financial security???

[@SherioCheers]

It's very predatory.

[@strawberryfox8819]

Legit.

[@aryaastark9201]

Yesssss

[@adrianhartso7060]

Idk..i work around practically nothing but migrant workers, and the women are so much easier to deal with than american women.

[@KossolaxtheForesworn]

Im guessing he is not talking about european women who are living in countries with higher standard of living on average than the US does. he means some third world developing country where women have no choice.

[@rose.isnotavailable]

exactly. people are fr out here looking to pillage other countries of their "loyal" people. is this not sort of like, a lowkey/neo version of human trafficking? sickening that this is literally already normalized for a lot of guys, this also happens with wealthier older women going to more impoverished countries to have the guys there do what they want.. 🤢

[@jenni4claire]

Of course, even if his creepy fantasy came true and he found his stereotypical "foreign gal", once she is out of that oppressive culture he lured her from, and she associates with other women in her new country, she might blossom into her full self and not be so submissive after all.

[@Aelffwynn]

​@@jenni4claireor she's smart enough to put on an act at the beginning, use him to get citizenship, and then dump his ass ASAP.

[@AmandaFromWisconsin]

It’s funny that those traveling PUA guys say they want to go to places where there are beautiful women, but they never go to Scandinavia.

[@MrsDazl]

That part

[@naevachMaoMao]

I'm Asian women. Yes, is true. We look for rich and try to figure out your bank how many money you have. We not some dumb dumb. Pfffh who said that we treat you like king just because of kindness? We want your money. Lmao Edit: I'm being sarcastic but also spoke the truth. (My English not that accurate don't judge me.)

[@morganeoghmanann9792]

Your English is just fine. And quite articulate.

[@shaktimishra9710]

I hope you don't do same to good Asian man

[@Tenshi6Tantou6Rei]

@@shaktimishra9710if he’s also posing and throwing his money around trying to get a girl, then he gets what he gets

[@shaktimishra9710]

@@Tenshi6Tantou6Rei that's why I said to good Asian

[@nineblackgoats]

I'm not from America but I certainly wouldn't want to marry this dude.

[@cyberius7042]

I've met a lot of women from other countries in college and at work. Every single one of them is more independent and assertive than the "all American" girls in the small conservative town I grew up in.

[@lizziel2433]

Exactly! If a woman (it’s not gender specific thing though) moves to another country, this is a very independent individual

[@Aelffwynn]

My (misogynistic) dad is from a developing country, and he used to make jokes about how he had to come here and marry an American woman to get away from the women in his country "who always have to be the boss." And then I realized it wasn't a joke. My mom bent over backwards for him, and he only did things for her when he felt like it, and it was never what she actually asked for. He would throw tantrums when things weren't how he wanted, and then expect my mom to pick up the pieces and change everything for him. A long time ago, I warned him he'd lose her if he didn't start acting right. A few years later, she left him. I am so proud of her. I don't think my dad will ever learn. I had a talk with him after she left, and he sounded like he really wanted her back. I told him things I felt he could work on, if he really loved her and wanted to show he cared. I'm not sure if he was incapable, unwilling, or both, but he failed miserably.

[@marysueechols2845]

That middle paragraph describes waaaaay too many guys.

[@lilacghoste8366]

That's why passport bro ain't bad for....some of us 😅

[@issecret1]

The systemic sexism in the US is so pervasive, and people don't realize that, it's crazy. I'm from Eastern Europe, and the first time I experienced sexism in the workplace, it was from an American who thanked a male colleague for something I had said. Ir was so cartoonishly sexist I was speechless

[@404errorcodeV]

Imagine his surprise when he goes shopping for a wife and realizes how big the patriarchy problem really is. 🤔 😰🤕

[@sdeisha1]

He's about to be upset because I believe SCOUTS just denied citizens' rights to challenge foreign spouses' Visa denials. So it'll be harder for him to get his new maid, I mean bride to America.

[@melialaa]

*SCOTUS. I'm not american so for a second i missed that it's a typo and thought the comment was about boy scouts discriminating against foreigners 😂

[@annarichter484]

The wee one is in for a rude awakening. We from overseas ain't not what he is looking for, I think he needs a time machine instead.

[@AnnekeOosterink]

Don't punish the women from the past with this guy either! He needs a brain transplant.

[@Dragonmoon8526]

I'm a guy, gay too . . . Obviously, not everyone wants the same thing, but in general, isn't the whole point of finding a relationship to find someone you're compatible with who likes who you are as a person? And isn't just interested in your body, looks, and wallet?🤔

[@nineblackgoats]

Regardless of gender and sexuality, whoever enters a relationship with a mindset like OP just sets themselves up for a miserable life of disappointment and frustration. Why OP would brag about making the shittiest bed ever for himself so he can proudly lie in it later down the road is beyond me.

[@Dragonmoon8526]

@spitt3640 Intresting. Thank you for sharing. I have heard some of the stories about divorce back in the day. I find it interesting how people will argue that marriage is pointless because of increased divorce rates. But, divorce rates increased because people who shouldn't be married. Could finally get divorced.

[@LC-sc3en]

Of course marriage is about comparability. This man just told us he doesn’t think he is comparable with hundreds of millions of Americans. For vague reasons he thinks that the values of traditional cultures abroad might produce women he is more compatible with. But I highly doubt he knows anything at all about any of those cultures and their values aside from some stereotypes about the submissiveness of the women. I mean he doesn’t even seem to know that you can get trad wife’s in the US simply by joining a fundamentalist Christian church. 😅

[@Dragonmoon8526]

@@LC-sc3en People who lack self-worth create very intresting narratives to justify their warped way of thinking.

[@GodofPainBelial]

Do you feel the same way about women who may be interested in (assuming your heterosexual)? If you feel that you want to connect with a partner based solely on who they are as a person, then looks and her being older shouldn't matter to you either. And if they cannot expect you to provide, you should not expect that you can get the currency of sex/free labor from them either, as you're claiming you're just interested in connecting with them as a person because they have an awesome personality. Fun fact: If you're claiming this, you should not have a personal list of wants in a partner like beauty, youth, sex, and labor when you're saying your partner is not allowed to have her own list. Newsflash, we all have a list of traits we want in a partner, this is called desirability. Our partners are human beings, so they will, and are allowed to, have one too. Why else are you attracted to some individuals and not others but for these additional traits (otherwise you're just defining friendship)? They have to, at minimum, be meeting at least one trait you find desirable, whether that's she has a pretty face or a nice body or friendly demeanor, she's funny, etc... Please understand that your partner is human too, has needs, wants, and desires too. If you can not understand this, you shouldn't be trying to get a partner yet, as you're not emotionally ready. Most guys that say things like this are just trying to say, I hope woman don't expect anything out of me, as I don't feel I have anything to really offer, and/or you're unwilling to work on yourself. It shows a lack of confidence, so my suggestion is to start becoming the man you'd like to be. This doesn't mean becoming rich. This does mean becoming a man who you'd like to be based on values and principles. If you become a good man, and you show interest in others than yourself, this will naturally appeal to people, and you will start to attract women without trying so hard then. Learn to be the change you want to see in this world. And remember, that if you expect her to put in effort and work into herself and the relationship, so do you, otherwise your saying you just want a sex slave. Food for thought.

[@almosthelpless9374]

I would prefer to live in a world where my future romantic partner is with me because they like me as a person rather than because they can't provide for themselves.

[@astraamarante6233]

Yeah, those kinds of men are just looking for another mommy so they can stay up late playing League of Legends all day 😂 Just without the “my house my rules” bit

[@redarrw1633]

Ah yes so he wants a slave. Or at the very least someone who has to rely on him in every aspect. Also the idea that he thinks he's not compatible with a single person from United States.....damn, skill issue.

[@maewest68]

Perhaps he was saying that there aren't enough compatible in the States, and there are lots more abroad so it's easier to find.

[@pleegjepleegje]

My daughters dad told her that he would never marry a Dutch woman again after he divorced me. Because Dutch women are too assertive and self-willed. Then he introduced her to his new 20 year younger East European girlfriend. Luckily, his daughter is at least as Dutch as her mother (and father also b.t.w.) 😅

[@42ayla]

I'd pay to send this sad fellow to the Netherlands just to see his face, the country with the tallest women both physically and in their attitude. I'm only half Dutch but my daughter's almost 6 feet tall and training to be an engineer. I wonder if he can say as much?

[@carnevalmefisto]

I'm Polish and men here also complain Polish women lost their minds and we look after more Western men [= progressive] (for cash, in their opinion). A lot of them now say it's better to date and marry Ukrainians, because they are submissive [that's a literal argument]. Not that I know several stories of good Ukrainian wives divorcing their Polish husbands after having Polish citizenship and being able to travel across the EU. Sometimes, when I feel lonely and sad for being single, I go for a walk and listen to young men talking with each other when I pass them by. That work charms, as I no longer feel sad about not being in a relationship. I'm suddenly happy to be single. And of course, I don't claim ALL Polish dudes are like that. Some are awesome. But they are already taken

[@OCEAN_OF_FOXES]

@@carnevalmefisto Ukrainian women are seen as saints, until they actually marry them. Personally, I don't know any happy mixed couple, and when the war started, they were so keen on finding their "real slavic submissive experience". Ukrainian girls are harsh and they exactly know what they want lol. It's true, it's very hard to find a good Polish man. I don't know any. I thought I did (some of my uncles) but when their daughters grew up and we talked, it occured they're all just the same. I suspect some of my acquaintainces might be, or my neighbors (as I see a huge difference in how they treat their kids and wives) but this is how it looks from outside. When I talk with my girlfriends about their husbands, whom they love, it makes me really mad that they can be called good only in the male scale. In general scale, of being a partner, a parent, they can't compete. It's like you would have to compromise a lot and become someone's caregiver just so you can share your apartment costs with them. It sounds awful tbh. I have the same thoughts, in some age, the pool of good guys is shrinking, especially if you don't intend to have kids. The ones who were from healthy families probably are married by now, and those who ended up in a long-term toxic relationship but wanted to do the work, and did it, are in huge minority. There are very few self-actualized people in general, so statistically it's nearly impossible to find someone in 30s. Either in 20s (but then neither you know yourself and you MIGHT be lucky to find someone who wants to go on that journey with you and WANTS to put a lot of effort to be a loving mature human), or 40/50s when the divorce batch comes and they maybe have adult kids already.

[@Maya_hee]

​@@OCEAN_OF_FOXESFunny how every country has this problem. I live in Pakistan and this country is about as nasty, patriarchal and conservative as one can get and they STILL have issues with women becoming "too modern" because putting up with abuse is now seen as a bad thing😂 One girl stands up for herself against cat callers and she has now "lost her dignity and grace as a lady" and should "live in America now that she is so obscene and characterless", all because she chose to walk outside her house. Men be insane everywhere😂

[@resourcedragon]

@@OCEAN_OF_FOXES: When I look at the astonishing resistance the Ukrainians are putting up to the Russian onslaught, I find it very hard to believe that the women are anything other than pretty feisty. (And good on them, so they should be.)

[@remnant1018]

“I’m tired of the options being American women wanting to marry me for the money I flaunt OR American women wanting to marry me as a true partner in all things, SO I’m going overseas to get a woman who’ll marry me for my money, get her green card, and split as soon as she has everything she wants😀”. - OP

[@brennam954]

boy math lol

[@rosethorne9155]

@@remnant1018 and then he'll throw a tantrum and be shouting, "No! I was supposed to be the one getting over on HER! I was supposed to be the only one getting everything I wanted! It's not fair!"

[@maewest68]

@@rosethorne9155 why is that a bad thing? Men deserve to win sometimes too you know, women can't have it fucking all.

[@rosethorne9155]

@@maewest68 Did you miss the "I was supposed to be getting over on her" part? Does that sound like a healthy relationship? Why is it that people expect one person to "win" in relationships? That sounds parasitic and sad to me...

[@marysueechols2845]

​@@maewest68lolol /s?

[@TheAlixm]

10 bucks says this fool has never actually left the US.

[@42ayla]

Sucker bet.

[@BruinPhD2009]

I'm not sure this fool has ever crossed state lines.

[@JasminemPolyanthum]

yeah, dude doesn't even look like he's made it outside of Idaho.

[@alexwyatt2911]

@@BruinPhD2009 That’s not true. He’s obviously crossed over into the state of delusion.

[@gardnerhill9073]

Aw, come on, there was that weekend in Tijuana where he got robbed.

[@Wednesdaywoe1975]

"Why I am becoming a human trafficker" FIFY, lil buddy!

[@szigtema]

Exactly!

[@fullmooneve1651]

As a foreign woman, I'm just here to send support to my American sisters and to applaud them for not wanting this man. We also reject him. Let him be on his own so he can do some well needed growth.

[@suekuarell4685]

Hi from overseas, you can keep him

[@nac.mac.feegle]

What if we threw in a puppy? No? Well, can't say I blame you.

[@suekuarell4685]

can i keep the puppy if i lose the guy mid-sea?

[@nac.mac.feegle]

@@suekuarell4685 If you lose the dude mid-sea, you get the puppy, the year of free streaming subscription, and your choice of adult beverage or cake. Heck, both beverage and cake. Also, do you have a discount for bulk disposal?

[@melonmonte6385]

@@suekuarell4685 I know I'm butting in here but Imma say yes.

[@326159487d]

@suekuarell4685 😂😂😂 I vote yes. Take the puppy. Loose the -men- cargo.

[@ronoc9]

I say good for them. If they want to spend all their money travelling to another country legally, learning another language, adjusting to a different culture, system, and possibly even religion, and commit to living and working legally somewhere, while paying their taxes and adhering to their laws, all in the name of love, that I wish them well. Because that's what they're doing, right? They wouldn't just travel across the globe and bring someone back to America, expecting them to adjust to his culture, his country, his religion, all because he big American man, right? Because that would be messed up. That, some would say, is just a mail-order-bride with extra steps.

[@durabelle]

He definitely wouldn't want her to adjust to his culture. He wants her to just live in his country while importing the parts of the foreign culture he wants her to follow.. which obviously isn't how any of this works.

[@jalifritz8033]

I find it funny because it’s not like men from other cultures aren’t protective of their female relatives. Just remember the many pass port bros that got murdered?

[@strawberryfox8819]

Legit. Especially conservative men will often look out for their female relatives in these situations, even though the reason may be good or bad (such as thinking she's a possession to the male head of the family to sell). The only way to avoid that is to go after women that are alone and most likely living in poverty, so the only help they see is him.

[@jenni4claire]

Weird. I'm one of many American women that I know who married non-American men. Not that there weren't great men in America but because these individual guys "got" us, as people. And that can happen for American men, too. Find love, wherever it is, but not a transactional arrangement.

[@CoachRiRiPFWG]

I'll never understand these guys who want to go back to "the old days" The old days when women were property and it didn't matter if you loved her or desired her. If you didn't have the money, land and status to give to her parents and prove that you could provide for her. You wouldn't get a wife. These past generations have been a blessing that you have the opportunity to marry for love. Now we, the women, are the owners of our own bodies and are saying we provide for ourselves. If you want to be in our lives. We want you to prove that you will not be burdened and provide in order to be with us. Now the Bride Price goes to us instead of our " owners." Most of these guys in the old days of a few generations ago would have sat down in the den with our dads and Told to kick rocks.

[@brackalack1]

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[@rosethorne9155]

@@CoachRiRiPFWG They don't know this. The only "history" they know is from TV shows where the husband comes home at the end of the day from his cushy office job, and his wife meets him at the door with his slippers and a cool drink, and the house is clean, dinner is ready, and the kids are already quietly playing in another room. And of course where there's a laugh track anytime something mildly funny happens. You know, fiction. 😂

[@omiai]

If any man should get a special dispensation to speak for women, it should be speech prof.

[@pepper1739]

Heh

[@OCEAN_OF_FOXES]

I agree. It makes me very sad I've never known ONE man like this in my entire life. Not in the family, not friends, not acquaintainces, not their families. Every woman tells the same story about their fathers, brothers, spouses, and it has become boring.

[@resourcedragon]

Black people need to advocate for themselves, women need to advocate for themselves and so on. But, as a woman, I really appreciate male allies because there are some other men out there who aren't going to listen to a woman at all but they might listen to a man.

[@deborahbee7122]

The face zoom on “devastated” absolutely killed me

[@clauaome25]

Yes, I am devastated, for the woman overseas that will have to take him because she doesn't have access to anything better.

[@Emptytopfloor]

Don’t be devastated. The woman will be with for exactly 3 years. 😉

[@clauaome25]

@@Emptytopfloor true that

[@taefae2850]

I've been seeing a lot of similar videos lately. Men complaining about being resource providers... like the traditional gender roles aren't both providers, just different types. I was a late in life child. I grew up with the cliche 50s gender stereotypes within my childhood home. A housewife that attempts to live to those standards is more under-rated and objectified than this man has ever known. Always gorgeous, always 'available' to him, spitting out kids for his family line, caring for kids, clipping coupons, budgeting, keeping house... etc. My mom was a resource manager. All of us kids knew if mom hadn't been mom, dad wouldn't have been able to function at the level he did. My parents made it work, and growing up, I didn't know any different. I get out there in the real world... lol... Society has changed. Both parents have to have a job... and so many don't understand why responsibilities now need to be shared. Even superwoman wouldn't be able to fill my mom's shoes and hold down a full-time job... being a good sole stay at home parent is a full-time 24/7/365 job. Besides, anytime I hear a guy talk about bringing a woman in on a passport... red flag. I have moved states for partners in the past. I will never do so again, and I shudder at the thought of moving out of the country. Different country, different laws, different culture. It's an instant red flag for me if a man wants to ship someone in... it screams that he wants someone he can isolate from everyone and everything she knows. So that she is solely dependent on him.

[@Lazy_Fish_Keeper]

That last line says it all

[@pameladwyer2244]

This man wants to be the boss in a marriage. Let’s hope this man never has children. He’s looking at other countries with “rose-tinted glasses” and knows less than he thinks he knows. Every country has customs and attitudes which require flexibility, and personal growth, to adapt to. Reminds me of the family who sold everything and moved from Alberta to Russia. Their simplistic, emotional thinking led them astray. Not sure if they’ve gotten the funds to leave!

[@Asa...S]

@@catxtrallways Also, if she's from a poor family, it's very likely that she would send a lot of money to them. Perhaps he didn't count on that either.

[@maewest68]

so she should be the boss instead? Women want it all, seriously.

[@marysueechols2845]

​@@maewest68oh, bro, have a Snickers

[@maewest68]

@@marysueechols2845 No thank you, Mary Sue.

[@Kureijisaikokyatto]

Ahaha. I'm from Russia and I know the history of these dumbasses. Our guovernment used them for propaganda purposes. Like "Look, people with traditional values have escaped from the evil West, from rainbow flags and evil transgender people" But there was one little news report. Perhaps they are only known in the city where they live. And the cherry on the cake: These guys are farmers, and there's no such thing here. I mean, you could try, but it would be huge pain in the ass. It's not worth it. You won't be able to earn money. Honestly, I have no idea what they're going to do here.

[@MissMaam2504]

Yet these are the same guys that will argue you down about America being the "greatest country on the planet."

[@juliea.]

I work with someone who is currently engaged to a Russian woman. He was overheard bragging, "She does everything I tell her to do." I wonder if he'll put that statement in his wedding vows?

[@divamarvalousoneal2454]

It's nice to see a lot of content creators use your videos when it comes to using the good male role model. ❤

[@jesswhycamarz]

He wants to bring a woman from overseas, force her to sign a prenup that offers her *zero* protection and abuse her until she finds a way out. Also, notice how these men always refer to their grandmothers, not their mothers as a point of "perfect wife" reference...

[@rosethorne9155]

@@jesswhycamarz I bet it's because they didn't actually spend much time talking to their grandmas, much less about their marriages. And they of course weren't there to see first-hand how she handled things, or what she went through, or how the grandpa treated her... They have no empathy, but they all saw some 1950s pinup gals and watched The Brady Bunch reruns as kids, and all they remember is "classy looking lady always put together and having food ready for everybody".

[@jesswhycamarz]

@@rosethorne9155 I completely agree. My dad, his father and my mom were very heavy on pushing a narrative that my grandmother was crazy when my dad was growing up. My grandpa was a really handsome and successful man, so of course she was extra shamed for “running him off” As I got older, I discovered that my grandfather had gotten a woman pregnant when my grandmother was pregnant with their second child. He was a serial cheater and gaslit her constantly. The baby was the final proof that she’d be right all along. I think they divorced in the 70’s but my grandma says something that hurt her deeply was that she remained a virgin and did all of the things young women were supposed to do and it didn’t make him respect her. Taking things at face value never servers anyone. These red pill bros are insane. I also don’t understand why they think they won’t bring women here that will end his existence if he disrespects hers? They act like people who are born in undeveloped countries don’t have families that teach them self respect and to know their worth.

[@maewest68]

where is his protection?

[@jesswhycamarz]

@@maewest68 protection from what? Prenups aren’t meant to be one sided. That’s what you clowns refuse to acknowledge. They’re supposed to make sure BOTH parties are financially stable when the divorce happens.

[@pseudopuppy160]

The fact that he assumes ANY woman would want.... him....😂😂😂

[@Reason-gn7lf]

Preach it, Speech Prof! You nailed it. Men like that are faulting women in America for systemic patriarch. Meanwhile, he wants to use it overseas.

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

The sound that plays when you announce 'The Patriarchy' made me guffaw so loud, thank you. lol

[@hotbluflame2933]

I, for one, support passport bros in their campaign. We American women are delighted you’ve decided to remove yourselves from the dating pool. And judging by what’s been happening to passport bros in Colombia, women in other countries see you and your agenda coming from a mile away and are fully prepared to handle the situation. It’s a win for women around the globe. 😅

[@alexandrae5346]

Ironically, when he says only women "overseas" he means only ones he believes are "shithole countries".

[@marylynnhughes8772]

He is one who would like to go back to the 50s where women had to marry to have a full life ❗❤️ you Prof ❗

[@recklessstaghomestead]

The ability some men have to blame women for everything is quite impressive.

[@maewest68]

so if they blame you for anything, it's blaming you for everything? I guess you heard him say in the video women did 9/11 too, did you?

[@marysueechols2845]

​@maewest68 you're special, aren't ya, mae?

[@jpowers7320]

@@maewest68they blame women for all their unhappiness.

[@maewest68]

@@jpowers7320 all their unhappiness or some? Don't exaggerate, it's beneath you.

[@phoenix315]

​@@maewest68Sh*thead alert!

[@NaturalMackie]

Who’s gonna tell him that women from the other countries he’s thinking about want men exactly for what they can provide and men from those countries accept that responsibility gladly? He really thought he said something profound. 😂😂😂

[@AlyssaIrvine]

"I can't speak for the women of America" This killed me 😂

[@onionbubs386]

Imagine being so undesirable that you have to travel halfway across the world to find someone who can stand you

[@SonarTheBat]

The women there don't want him either.

[@domeatown]

As an American girl, I am DEVASTATED. I am devastated for the overseas women, mainly lmao Hopefully he can realize he is a human before then

[@Jennifer-cl1cl]

Whew - men in previous generations were seriously screwed up about this. My parents were born in the 1940s, and when I was in middle school, my mother got a really good job - so good that she was making MORE money than my father. The one down side to the job was that it was second shift, so she wasn't home in the evenings to cook dinner. My father made her quit that job. We were poor - not super poor, but we didn't have much. And my father was made so bonkers by this particular stupid social expectation that he decided he'd rather live on hot dogs and fried bologna cooked by his wife than have the money for steaks that he would have to cook himself. If you have Gen X parents and you've ever wondered why they are a little crazy.....this is how Gen X kids grew up.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

So sorry for your mum having to quit her job.

[@katherinetomasello3661]

He wants a live in maid and a fuck buddy that he doesn't have to pay for... Can't imagine why he's having trouble forming a long term relationship with someone who doesn't want to be used 🙄

[@itamari1144]

Let him go the women in other countries don't play that. Going dutch? Deaded. Cooking? Cleaning! Wait you mean you don't have staff 😂 Good luck on your journey Broseph.

[@RefinedSkye]

Fucking Passport bros

[@roanoke7551]

I know a dude who moved to my country to find a bride, fully planning to move back after. However, he actually did find a woman he liked and realised how much better his life was here, married into the family and stayed. Converted passport bro. Also, i see a lot of these idiots walking around lately. Some really awful fetishization of slavic women in those circles.

[@LunaJones-sn6bo]

I think it's well-known that passport bros are very misogynistic but we need to talk about how racist they are, because not only will they fetishize women (or "girls") in certain races, they also assume that they are stupid and likely to put up with their bs

[@kenyasmith2652]

Hey, don’t be surprised if we see this passport bro on the next season of 90-Day Fiancé. He’s just like Big Ed regarding how he views women.

[@Amethystar]

I'm not going to say this for certain, but I bet this dude-bro would be pretty picky about which country his future partner came from. Sounds like he's looking for someone spineless who will acquiesce to his wants and desires, and heaven forbid that person ever grow a spine. And yah, if he can't find a set of aligning values here in the US where there is literally EVERY type of person available and advertising online, it's not them. I'm lonely and would love to find a partner myself, but I'm also aware of my shortcomings and am trying to better myself instead of looking for someone who will affirm my every bad decision. It's amazing what you can learn with some self-reflection.

[@miciarokiri5182]

Ain't no one catcalling 11 year old boys asking "What that salary do?"

[@KxNOxUTA]

Brilliant! Where's the pplz who hand out awards again, damn it! Alwys late, those bunch! My apologies for the delay! 🏆

[@szigtema]

THIS!

[@jennifertheiss7836]

This is it, you win 🖤🎖️🏆🥇🏅💰🌟

[@draquela96]

This

[@arsena5209]

I hate the fact that I immediately knew what you were getting at, it instantly reminded me how much this world fucking sucks, it's so sad to realise

[@FireSilver25]

My brother lives in Bangkok and told me how Thai women have fleecing filong (foreigners) down to a science. Some have six different men supporting them, and the laws make it so a filong can’t retire there without a lot of money, most jobs are available to Thai only, and filong can’t own property unless they’re married to a Thai. And if there’s a divorce the Thai (woman typically) gets the property. The first GF my brother had there was stunningly gorgeous but expected him to provide a certain lifestyle. Her mom said, “he hasn’t bought you a car YET?! Find an older man, he’ll take care of you.” Then she became a massage therapist in a red light district and started meeting all these rich men. My brother broke up with her after she revealed she’d been wined n dined by an older Japanese man and she didn’t tell him she had a BF. And she still had the nerve to try and get my brother to buy her a massage business. I mean, I love my brother and he has a great work ethic but she obviously didn’t love him, or even like him. I’m glad that ended before they reproduced or anything. Whenever I hear these PP bros talk about going to SE Asia I laugh. The only edge they really have is how strong the dollar is there. I stayed in a beach bungalow with food cooked right there for four days and my share was $75 for everything. Those guys will be expected to sponsor her whole family, too. 😂

[@hayleynhassan]

Yes!!! They never mention the difference in justice systems and the expectation to support entire families, which is cultural! These boys are weenies.

[@SuperAH1985]

Oh no!!! Nooooo!!! I am so very devastated 😢...what will I do when "man I've never seen before" moves to another country, but first had to tell everyone about it. It's like people leaving a Reddit sub ... and announcing said plan through one last post of the Reddit sub they don't like. Speaking of Reddit, ol' boy should check out how the women of "traditional" countries talk about these PP Bros. It's wild when Real Traditional in-laws get involved and demand a certain lifestyle for their daughters...especially from western men. Anyways, I'm curious if my brain is playing tricks on me: are the nails different colors on each hand or is it being filmed at different times? My brain short circuited.

[@amw6846]

He's not planning on moving to another country for reals, just essentially getting himself a mail order bride without adapting to those traditions of the other countries he's talking about.

[@ruhinaresh7410]

Thank you, sir. Couldn't have said it better. By the way, your nails look amazing🥰.

[@DissociatedWomenIncorporated]

Oh yeah as a woman I’m constantly getting yacht and private jet rides 🙄

[@SherioCheers]

omg I died at "two young studs like us" I love your videos

[@Lorvay]

Nothing wrong with marrying someone from abroad if you love each other. Famous example currently is Uyen Ninh from Vietnam who married her german boyfriend. Just dont marry someone because they are from abroad marry someone because you both are mad in love.

[@Lorvay]

@@catxtrallways The culture shock is part of her content especially in the beginning. I like it how they show their love at least in their videos. It is overall wholesome content. Her Husband does everything so she would feel well in germany. She often is giving him a lot back like the Dinosaur Themed Birthday Party. The videos give the vibe that they care about each other.

[@abiean222]

oh i love those two! just an adorable couple!

[@slothmonster7165]

I think they are engaged but not married yet but yes they are very cute ❤

[@lauraelliott6909]

I love them so much! Such an adorable couple. The way they support each other is great.

[@KxNOxUTA]

Love those two. AND even with them you can see how she went from very shy to AMAZING once she settled enough to unapologetically be herself! 🤩

[@megustAslagt]

"countries overseas have seen to do a better job at preserving their culture" I feel like he isn't aware that culture does not start with "conservative culture" and end with "progressive culture". Cultures are fluent. Every time period will have at least a slightly different culture. All countries have a different culture. All families have their own little culture. All friend groups... Cultures are not better because they are preserved. Cultures are better because they fit your own needs better. Meaning that one culture can be better for one person and another for someone else, regardless of how that culture came to be and has evolved over time.

[@Original_Tenshi_Chan]

"The trick is to find someone who likes you as a person." But that is the problem - they don't even like themselves. So how will they find a partner to like that which they themselves finds unlikable?

[@ladyalicent705]

You know what’s funny? I’m from Australia, so that not only makes me a ‘foreign woman’, but one that is very physically far from the US. And yet, somehow, by some strange, almost spidey sense like feeling, I get the impression that I’m not what he means when he says ‘foreign lady’….

[@UnBesoDeCristal]

This is HILARIOUS because we are not even questioning the fact that he believes women are simply 1 DM away from a Yatch... like poverty is not largely gendered due to domestic work leaving women vulnerable, or lack of education, etc.

[@javiernewsam8829]

The irony of these losers is that they say they’re tired of being used for their money, but go to another country to buy women as a trophy with their money.

[@arsena5209]

or they complain about being used for their money when they don't have any money and are broke 😂

[@danic9304]

So - he is upset by being objectified and seen only in terms of his money - but he wants a woman who fits the 'traditional ' model of wife stays home and husband provides? I can't with this level of cognitive dissonance.

[@maewest68]

yeh but the point is women want the "objectification" AND a traditional man? See?

[@NihilisticJawbreaker]

When I was in grad school (for anthropology) one of my professors was doing work with "Mail-order Brides" from countries that were part of the former USSR. She found that most of them exaggerated conservative values to land a guy. Once they got here they were just as likely as American women to leave or divorce super conservative husbands (50% or more depending on the area).

[@xXOFrannieOXx]

I can not hear anything else anymore. Every time i hear a man talk about finding the right woman to be a good mother to their children..hahaha..all i hear is your voice saying " So.....your mummy, looking for a mommy." Hahahahahaha

[@DrewKime]

Really impressed how fast you're changing nail colors.

[@rwedereyet]

Ikr, best dad ever

[@luvnotvideos]

Dude, how do you not have 1M subscribers yet???