Why I Transitioned From Man To Woman

[@andrea7mares]

hi everyone! thank you so much for watching. 🥺 this was a really tender time in my life and i’m really excited to share it with you all. especially any young trans kids out there. know you’re not alone and that it can be a windy journey. take your time and find your people. 🫂 can’t wait to share more with you all! ♥️

[@r.moreno5297]

We love & support you🖤 Happiness over everything baby.

[@jasminerox292]

Thank you for sharing your experience! You’re so beautiful inside and outside! One of the best things about the LGBTQ+ community is that its so diverse and unique! Happy Pride!🌈

[@kilaueazswe2769]

You’re beautiful!

[@jenniferhensel7987]

You are brilliantly beautiful 😍, thank you for sharing your shine 💖

[@biancalambert5401]

Love you SO much Mares! You are an inspiration!

[@bluishblow]

it's so interesting hearing her talk about how she recognise the priveleged she had being recognised as male and them all the "new" oppressions emerge as a femme latina. every experience is unique, happy pride!

[@thesolvent]

What's the privilege and whats the oppression? She was born looking like a tall very slender man that's very hairy with very dark hair on a light complexion in a majority heterosexual world. I don't agree or disagree. Just asking for context so I can understand better.

[@BeautifulMuslim99]

Male privilege? I mean everyone has there own privileges. Can you agree?

[@Anonymous-nc7eo]

*he

[@LadyWarrior4JC]

@@BeautifulMuslim99 GOD CREATED A MAN AND WOMAN. NOT A TRANSGENDER.

[@ArnoldSchwarzernigga]

"HE"

[@lisakaye2110]

I was born female. My voice is low. My dad calls it a "whiskey voice". Lol I am 5'9" and weigh approx 165. I have always been very "masculine". My parents thought that I was gay because most of my friends growing up we're boys.lol I played male sports, etc. I just want to let you know that being a masculine female is just who you are and it's fantastic!!! Be you honey!!

[@LochNessy13]

I grew up pretty masculine too, but mostly because I wasn't allowed to be feminine. But I still enjoyed the "privileges" of being tomboy

[@lisakaye2110]

@@LochNessy13 I used to spit. My dad would always say, don't do that, girls don't spit! I never understood that. I'm a 55 year old grandma, and I still spit! Lol

[@LochNessy13]

@@lisakaye2110 I never did spit lol. But being able to wear comfortable clothing and not getting made fun of for doing girly things were (sadly) great lol. And congrats on being a grandma! I will have my baby in 3 months, but I'm already imagining how great it will be to eventually be the matriarch haha

[@lisakaye2110]

@@LochNessy13 CONGRATULATIONS!!! There is nothing better or worse than being a parent! Lol Except being a grandparent. You can send them home when you're tired. Lol Good luck with new baby.

[@oa4485]

I’m from Mexico City people being gender fluid has been a thing since my moms age. She always told me to be open minded and accepting of others when I see them. Not that they should be treated differently however the discrimination was very public and without remorse. Im glad that here in America and Mexico and we are growing. I always tell people “We have the right to a happy life just as long as you don’t hurt anyone”

[@annabellatremblay1910]

ur mom taught you well

[@officiallybrenda]

It actually really depends. My parents are anti lgbt people. Myself not being a hetero person, I won’t date until I’m like getting things together.

[@jenniferbates2811]

@@officiallybrenda very smart, wait until you feel safe. Emotionally and physically. You're not alone, I promise you. ❤💙💖💜🤗.

[@officiallybrenda]

@@jenniferbates2811 ♥️💯

[@mustafahall3865]

I want to see more of her journey! Such a beautiful soul

[@commieman3781]

His

[@timapeutic]

you’re muslim?

[@mustafahall3865]

@@timapeutic nope

[@dundundun430]

@@commieman3781 wow you must be trans too

[@dundundun430]

@@dorlis1 on what?

[@virginiamarquez-skaien2246]

She's my baby girl She's my pride and joy She's my favorite Buddhist She's my long gone boy... I grieved him leaving But as we transitioned with her As I saw her emerge with the most genuine joy Her tension was gone The sadness had left The femme showed up Without a single regret So much grace and dignity She had fully emerged A sister, niece, girlfriend, daughter, granddaughter a dignified woman With no need to Apologize for finally Being her... Some of us will never Have to fight to just be So her courage to fight Takes the breath out of me I'll love you forever I'll love you for always As long as I'm living My Daughter you'll be. #proudmom #Pride2021 #transgenderrights #lgbtqia

[@BeautifulMuslim99]

lgbq is a sexuality.

[@PaoPao901]

What a privilege it is for you to let us in to such a vulnerable time in your life. Thank you. Sending you so much love and support.

[@Mackerachi]

Ah! She's so pretty. Those last few shots where she's just out and about being herself you can just see this glow off of her.

[@Mel12722]

Yesss

[@NfShf]

he?

[@alishagrace710]

@@NfShf her pronouns are they/she :D

[@NfShf]

@@alishagrace710 thx

[@bastian9693]

Too bad though, she was a very handsome man before transitioning.

[@orlandorocha6390]

can we take the time to talk about how nice her curly hair is?

[@maggotst.pierre2361]

I couldn't stop admiring it 🥰

[@calistamontoya3745]

Right!! She's so freaking gorgeous

[@Ky_The_Weird]

It's amazing.

[@elizabethconroy7665]

It’s beautiful Wish she’d give me some

[@mayasquaw2254]

He had curly hair to begin with it got longer

[@xobeautybysierraxo4543]

She is so amazing for this. I clicked on this spontaneously and I’m glad I did. This was super insightful and I’m happy to have had the opportunity to hear her story. Happy pride month to everyone especially her.

[@Mel12722]

I'm proud of anyone like her

[@sandy80334]

She’s so gorgeous I literally am mesmerized

[@MIDOGALI]

He is?

[@dundundun430]

@@MIDOGALI can you read? 😑

[@Anonymous-nc7eo]

*he

[@JazzM1357]

Omg! Super proud! I am non-binary! It’s very difficult especially in Hispanic culture. This is amazing! Thanks for sharing your story!

[@PennyMsElite]

Non binary means genderless?

[@ohboilien]

@@PennyMsElite it can mean that but it differs for every person. Many people use non-binary as an umbrella term (tho some do not) which then can mean all other gender that are, like the word, not the binary (man and woman) I am non-binary too and for me it means that I am gender fluid, I don’t have a defined gender and I fluctuate between genders. I’ve tried to move towards to binary genders (because like Mares says in video, it’s easier in life) but it just doesn’t feel right, I’m still always fluctuating. Hope that anders your question!

[@PennyMsElite]

@@ohboilien Wow! I never heard of this. Im use to bi gay and les

[@grey5395]

Its true I'm genderfluid and Hispanic and I dont think it's okay for me to ever come out as my mom is transphobic and homophobic and I'm gay and trans so its like 😩💅

[@Keziah2447178]

@@PennyMsElite gender identity and sexual orientation aren’t the same thing.

[@haveagreatday8695]

The amount of times I cried watching this video is a lot, I do have a transgender sister who was born as a male.And this just really hit home. To anyone who doesn't feel comfortable in their body don't keep quiet, being you and your gender is a lot more important than what other people think, if anyone tells you what you feel is fake or a fase, it's not your feelings are valid. I love you so much.Lots of love ❤️

[@RiverWilliamson]

"[Male privilege] that I never liked, but still benefited from" Gosh, I know that feeling

[@BeautifulMuslim99]

I mean having him work for you ain't enough privilege. Let's talk about racism then a political stance.

[@incaray69]

The feelings your having are the feelings women have every day. Welcome to womanhood beautiful lady!

[@liyaaqatjacobs3941]

He aint no woman and never will be a woman no matter how hard he tries he always been seen as a man that transitioned into a woman and no matter how much you agree or hate on me,the facts stays the facts.

[@sanjibnath2804]

​@@liyaaqatjacobs3941 and he will never get pregnant

[@Ambient_dreamer]

I love this journey for you, thank you for sharing it with us. Side note: the tone of your voice is so wonderfully soothing and hypnotic.

[@thealpaca6685]

His journey from the light to the dark side of the force

[@keikialanifrazee8892]

Awesome! This is the first authentic sounding Trans Story I’ve come across, & their hard journey to be on Hormones to transition! She isn’t being pushed, & her Dr worked with her appropriately to help her on her Journey! Her Happiness is mine as well! 💗👍

[@sangochan716]

Been obsessed with her since the tarot video. SO happy for her, SO proud of her and the people around her for supporting her. She is gorgeous inside and out ❤

[@sawaalbino]

Girl, i'm a woman, who is rough and tough. I am not feminine at all. My father always send me to walk my little sisters (they are in their 20's) to anywhere, one of my guy friend said that he felt safe walking with me. When i was 7-10 years old i thought that i was actually a boy who trapped in a girl's body, I was sad about it. But when i turned 11, i decided that nothing is wrong with me being not feminine at all. I LOVE being a woman. No one can change that.

[@batitagonzalez9710]

You're amazing and I feel truly blessed to be able to see your journey. You're empowering story and how humbled you sound talking about everything you've learned about male privilege versus the situations that a Latino women face on daily basis it's just incredible. You're such an inspiration ☺️

[@BarbieVicko]

Not being able to accept a compliment is "such a female thing to do" as a cis woman I can tell you, you are not the only one females are not the only ones to have insecurities, the body dismorfia is a real struggle for a lot of people everyday, but is such an amazing thing to be open and talk about it. To share our journeys, I resonated a lot with Andrea since she appeared in BuzzFeed videos, I'm also a Mexican woman and I love to see someone who could represented me some how. She transmits so much light and beauty ❤️🌈

[@elderemomom]

I remember her doing the tarot reading on Ladylike and I immediately fell in love with her energy and I am so glad she’s happy 💕💕💕

[@steffany4lyfe]

I’ve seen you pop up on buzzfeed a few times before and always read you as female. I hope oestrogen helps you and the rest of the world read you the same. Also oh my GOD I want your hair. I just looks so effortlessly cool.

[@ellieisanerd]

It was very interesting hearing her story. Personally, I know more trans men than trans women, so it is nice to learn more perspectives on transitioning.

[@BerthaRomeroG]

hm, why is the eyeliner application at the beginning flawless?

[@afiqite1921]

She is a strong lady!! Do know that she is not alone in her journey and that she is super brave

[@kelseycox2658]

I wish this video was three hours long. So SO happy for her

[@rla26368]

FWIW, I first saw you in a BF video and you were reading tarot cards, I knew you were transgender but always read your kind, peaceful spirit as feminine and I’ve always seen you as female regardless. You’re an awesome and amazing person and I could listen to you speak for hours. Hugs!

[@JenVills]

I cried...........Andrea you are so brave, thank you for letting us in during your journey. I know I will learn so much about how I can support trans people during their journey 💙💚💛🧡❤️

[@michellemuneton154]

i also use spironolactone but for pcos. i do feel like the reduction of androgens has improved my mental health as well as my physical health

[@Charlotte-ty9my]

I love her hair!

[@ShelleyTemplar1986]

She is so beautiful.

[@zay395]

No, HE. Thats still a male.

[@alishagrace710]

@@zay395 they go by she/they, therefore is no longer going by he/him 😄

[@commieman3781]

He

[@alishagrace710]

@@commieman3781 she is so beautiful!! 🤩

[@alissahooker]

Good luck on your journey. Sending all the good vibes in the world.

[@kuroiscute150]

She’s very beautiful

[@commieman3781]

He

[@encanta411]

Hearing her talk about recognizing her masculine privilege is so important and so refreshing!

[@FlotsamCarnage]

Yes andrea yes power yes femininity yes vulnerability yes authenticity !!!!

[@ShlNeIson]

Im so damn proud of her

[@AmbitiousPanda]

Him

[@cassiusvoidkin]

Almost every woman who doesn't fit into the narrow expectations placed upon them by society (trans women, plus-sized and fat women, athletic and muscular women, women with less curvy bodies or smaller breasts, tall women, hairy women, women of color who have to contend with extensively European based beauty standards, women who don't feel comfortable in "femme" clothing or make-up, who have shorter hair, who have broad jaws or shoulders, etc.) have experienced that fear that they are not feminine enough and the anxiety that they are going to be put in even more danger because of it. It's a very female experience. Welcome, sister!

[@b0o0dlesn0o0dles]

I’m a non binary women and I connected so much with how Andrea discussed gender and her frustrations around how other people perceive her gender. I read a comment on the as/is video of Jordan discussing his gender that said “it would be so much easier if Jordan dressed and looked more androgynous. Then they wouldn’t be misgendered as much.” I love my body and my boobs and my curves. None of those things about me are indicators of my gender. It’s been engrained in our society that those characteristics makes someone a women when they don’t. I don’t want to have to change my body or physical appearance for other people ever. What needs to change is how people understand and perceive gender.

[@Melissa-fp1kh]

This was incredibly educational, thank you for sharing your story, Andrea! As a woman, I always knew there are gender traits enforced by society but your experience is eye opening.

[@BeautifulMuslim99]

Gender norms. You can only make the choice.

[@c..m.3661]

Hi, Don't let what someone says put you down. You are a beautiful person. Negative comments are that persons thoughts, not your identity. I wish you to be who you genuinely are.

[@ohboilien]

Thank you Mares, for sharing your story. I see myself in you, in your fluidity and in your choice of words and feelings. I was assigned a girl a birth and share many situations and feelings that you talk about. I’m thinking of starting hormones and I’m super unsure. I remember you from one Buzzfeed video and I remember that I felt this understanding of your person, that was surely on my side only (like how could I actually understand you, we don’t know each other) But now Im guessing it’s because I already saw myself in you and I’m happy it’s still the case. This video helped me a lot and it made me more proud and safe in myself whatever my decision about hormones will be. Thank you so much. All the best for you 🏳️‍⚧️❤️🫂

[@nickimott4727]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us sweet lady. Welcome with open and loving arms to the sisterhood. May your journey fulfill you in ways you never imagined, and bring you joy in all things. Even when you feel dread or anxiety, reach out to your sisters because we are here to carry you when you can't do it on your own. We are family. Can't wait to see more of your story. ❤️

[@blueedits.comofficial]

I am so proud and look up to Andrea she is such yet another amazing latinx person. As someone who is currently struggling with gender I relate a lot. My family is just so unsupportive of me and call me confused when I am only trying to be myself in a society that labeles and stereotypes.

[@lucygrayson6034]

I've always loved Mares on the videos she's in, and her hair is always poppin'!!!!!!

[@lankastols7817]

You are so beautiful and not only beautiful, but you have this dope personality as well - you truly have a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing this - I may not be trans, but I love hearing your story and seeing your journey on becoming who you really are. So happy for you and proud of you 🧡

[@tanyaevers-jordan8624]

Your videos touch my heart. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your struggles and achievements. So inspired by your bravery and honesty.

[@deniseuterus]

TE QUIERO TANTO, ANDREA!!! 💕 tienes todo nuestro apoyo por siempre. so proud of you, thank you for sharing your story with the world.

[@alexanderforselius]

How do you remove the mustasch entitely permanently prevent it from growing?

[@ElsV535]

This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm crying so much because coming out fully to who you are is so scary and difficult. Thank you for sharing.

[@DaringAries]

I’m so sad that this video was under 10min! I love your soul and I am so happy you have chosen to take the next step. So much love is being sent your way. Enjoy your journey love ❤️

[@tamaraobrien3831]

It was such a pleasure to meet you at Queer Prom. You have a beautiful soul and a beautiful personality. I am so glad you get to live as your true self. 💖 love and positive energy. ✨

[@karengerber8390]

In happy tears for you. Best of luck & good fortune!

[@Justfrekinmakingit]

I can’t wait to hear more about your journey!!!!!

[@keletsongake2884]

Can we get more? She's so beautiful and amazing

[@maggotst.pierre2361]

Theres gonna be 5 more episodes =] its a year long journey so I'm really happy we get more. One short video can't possibly convey such a complex time.

[@LadyWarrior4JC]

@@maggotst.pierre2361 GOD CREATED A MAN AND A WOMAN. NOT A TRANSGENDER.

[@sanorvee1368]

so proud of you ! thank you for sharing this 💗💗💗

[@TheLaraParker]

you are such a beautiful soul, thank you for sharing this with us

[@readmelancholystrumpetmaster]

Be yourself and don't worry what you look like. The whole world is happening in your mind. Accept

[@androgynousbean3098]

I'm identify as a nonbinary transmale and the biggest fear I have is the fact that I want to grow my hair out and still be seen are more male. What you said on policing is too close to home, I have been told by so many people that if I tried to grow my hair out then I am giving into being a woman instead of a man. Thank you for showing that issue because it is so prevalent in day to day life.

[@ms.meganemetz1873]

Wishing and hoping you enjoy yourself in your skin. It is so hard to be vulnerable and you are letting others understand the challenges you go through. I really hope you find Peace and Love for the yourself.

[@stacycamacho59]

My cousin is FTM... Non-binary... My aunt is their grandma. We haven't had any issues with it like their parents did. Dad is from Colima.

[@mayleenalexxis6763]

Yasss we love to see it!! im a Capricorn female and lolll ilyyyy don’t let anyone fog your vibe🤍🤍

[@elizabethconroy7665]

You are a beautiful Lady You’ve gone through a lot Please keep us updated on your Journey Hugs from Amman Jordan Middle East

[@angelicationgson4785]

Omg!!! I'm so proud of you. Happy Pride Month! 💖💖

[@autumnradabaugh6036]

Mares you are so brave and so stunning. You are just a beautiful person insider and out.

[@nataliyakuznetsova8226]

Wow, this video is so real and beautiful, it makes me emotional. I wish you all the best on your transition journey 💖 welcome to womanhood!

[@ibrahimadrameh7770]

This is the most silliest thing

[@snowcat6071]

But why can’t you wear feminine clothes, connect with women and wear makeup without coming out as trans?

[@jooj3699]

You can. She just knew that transitioning hormonally was what was right for her. You can choose not to transition at all, to transition hormonally, or to have top and or bottom surgery. Everyone’s gender journey is different. Hers just happened to be hormones!

[@lorenamorales2134]

I have always thought Andrea was so beautiful and elegant

[@siobhanmoriarty89]

We love you girl! You're beautiful and perfect. Support you in all you do.

[@TheNursejules]

Mama you are beautiful! So happy you’re living your truth!

[@anasztykiel]

i absolutely love this and her!!! congratulations on your journey, and i seriously hope for the best!! stay amazing :)

[@unknownhero5894]

My eyes is blind now thank you 😂 1:34

[@Allexandra04]

I’d love a follow up on this! 🥰 Good luck with your transition, girl!🙏🏻

[@Rebmetpes4]

She was meant to be a woman PLAIN AND SIMPLE!

[@jenniferbates2811]

Please remember that YOU are the ONLY thing permanent in your life! Treat yourself as such! You dictate how your treated, first by yourself, then others.

[@SuperPooped]

Congratulations on your transition! Sending love and support

[@bestnarryever]

Mares, thank you so much for sharing your journey! You’re lovely, I felt like I sat down to have a conversation with you and I could go on and on haha happy pride! 💛✨ latinas unite 💕

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

sounds like a really gentle kind human being. i dont know why i have the perceptions of gay or trans woman being very short, and on the highly defensive side. this is nice to see and gladly challanges my acquired precon

[@Hanna4645]

her hair is beautiful

[@maaikejthimm]

Thanks for sharing this 💪 you are beautiful, and I am sure it will work out for you in the end! I wish you so much luck and happiness, as well as strength on your journey ♥️

[@starxiii9116]

I hope one day she can look back at all her hard work and know she made a real difference for people 🌈💜

[@davidspears700]

Already waiting for the uneducated hate comments 🤭

[@k4t13dash]

same here

[@Mel12722]

I found one! :D Hate comments make me laugh

[@davidspears700]

@@Mel12722 Honestly same

[@Mel12722]

@@davidspears700 I'm laughing at them, but being genderfluid and Pansexual myself, I'm also getting a bit mad

[@davidspears700]

@@Mel12722 Understandable, I'm a bi trans man ✨

[@lolamesser2463]

Such a sweet human being!

[@RoserraRae]

HOLD ON STOP THE VIDEO HOW DID SHE DO THAT EYELINER

[@loribrice4053]

So proud of you!

[@marielveganbeauty]

This video was so enlightening. Thank you for sharing!

[@that_1_theaterkid227]

Shes so beautiful! I cang imagine what she is going thru.

[@AmbitiousPanda]

He* you are what your born as, don’t defy god

[@Laliyahish]

@@AmbitiousPanda people aren't born with pronouns, one does not have innate pronouns, they're socially ascribed and she's a woman who uses she/they pronouns. Nothing to do with defying god. Is wearing glasses defying God by not accepting that you have poor eyesight?

[@commieman3781]

He

[@mayasquaw2254]

He said people misgender him as a man. through society he operates the world as a man regardless if he unconsciously doesn't know. How one feels inside is irrelevant to the naked eye.

[@stefaniewichgers8149]

You are such an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your journey! You are such a beautiful soul💞

[@alyolsen]

Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate and respect your honesty and I stand with you! (insert hug) I don't know how transitioning feels, but I have heard it can be difficult physically, emotionally, and mentally. I am rooting for you! I am praying for you to be successful and find joy in every step of the road ahead. You are amazing, Andrea!

[@lavane26]

Not only was this so touching to watch, it was also very educational. I didn't know that you first get analyzed and diagnosed with gender dysphoria to get hormone therapy. Also, the part about realizing that you're giving up your male privilege. It was really interesting, very enlightening, and saddening as well... I wish things were simpler, I wish things were easier for trans people, trans women and cis-gendered women in general. I wish gender wasn't such a heavy topic, that everyone could just identify as whatever they want and other people wouldn't get so worked up about it... In the meantime, I'm very happy for Andrea's journey, and I hope she continues to be as glamorous and as soothing a presence as she has been from the first video I saw her.

[@jodiecrofts2190]

This is beautiful Everyone is beautiful

[@lunalee5843]

Love that she is loving her best life!

[@katiegustafson7845]

This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing the beginning of your journey. And you ARE beautiful! Take care and keep up the amazing work!

[@ziantaylor5839]

You are absolutely beautiful! Thank you so much for willing to be so open and vocal about your experience and that hair like you're kidding right?! STUNNING!!!!!

[@kallmenikk]

Babe, you HAVE ALWAYS BEEN a woman. Will ALWAYS be a woman. And ARE a WOMAN. dont let anyone ever tell you otherwise. :)

[@jodiecrofts2190]

Preach!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@Mel12722]

YASS!!

[@ohboilien]

Well, I’d say for some of us people is is affirming to say that for for others it’s not. Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying we shouldn’t say that, but some trans women (or trans people in general) have not always been a woman or a man, for some it’s more fluid. Like me, I’m thinking to take hormones (I’m afab) and I have not always been a man. And I didn’t understand Mares as that she has always been a woman, but maybe our understanding of her words is different? Idk ☺️

[@kallmenikk]

@@ohboilien thanks for the feed back! I always enjoy when someone has a correction so i can do more good than bad :) im 13, i try my best.

[@mayasquaw2254]

@@kallmenikk Deception does more harm then good.

[@demonicastar]

She has such a great smile and that mane stunning! She's glowing I truly wish her the best

[@feelspecial9084]

I identifi as genderfluid (my prounuance are she/they) and it felt weird and disgusting to always be called she and that people would see me as a woman. I would sometimes have panic attacks about it and i would ask myself: “Who are you?” “What are you?” But a Day when i was just like looking up things, i came upon the term non-binary and genderfluid. I had found me, i began looking into it and found out people used the prounuance they/them, i had finally found something that fit me. Since i have been much happier and are planning coming out to some people. I just want to say Happy pride month!🏳️‍🌈

[@Mel12722]

I would have replied to this comment sooner but I had to watch my gf's live- YES ANOTHER GENDERFLUID! I NEVER FIND OTHER GENDERFLUID HOOMANS!! :D

[@cryssiortiz6977]

Thank you for sharing!❤️🌺

[@amyhunt8379]

Thank you for this. Prayers and love sent your way.