Why Indonesian Girls Are Not as Innocent and Pure as You Think🇮🇩

[@maxlowe4829]

Dated a indonesian girl in my western home country, she was sweeter then most western girls and very prudish but she was just as deceitful as any western women i have dated eg keeping/seeing multiple guys while demanding i dont talk to other women(i wasnt). Also acted very humble in the early stages then turned out to have a huge princess attitude demanding ridiculous things.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Glad you dropped her. Sounds like she was a woman with narcissistic traits, manipulative and abusive. You find these girls anywhere, unfortunately.

[@maxlowe4829]

@@MinimalistNomad Yes she showed many of those traits if I was younger I would of fell for her act but in my mid 30s I've seen all the games these type women play.

[@forfunsabaidee]

OMG it's like you described my indonesian ex that i met in the Netherlands. Incredibly humble and virtuous in the beginning, treating me like a king. Later on I noticed she is lying to everyone (me, her friends, her parents, her collegues,...) like it is a secund nature. After a few months slowly but surely starting to act like a princess, impredictable, neglecting me until it became intolerable. Towards the end triangulating me against her ex and other admirers, while saying "she has trust issues" to manipulate me into doing even more one sided effort for her . She changed from the sweetest angel I've ever met to the most manipulative person I've ever met. What a ride... But I do have to say that I think moving to Europe changes many of these girls. I noticed bad influence by some of her also immigrated friends who take pride in being "independant", instagram show offs, and at the same interacting with men from an opportunistic perspective.

[@maxlowe4829]

@@forfunsabaidee Sounds like we dated the same girl, and yes the instagram showing off was her and the rest of her friends did the same thing think it was to show off back home that they have "made it in the west" lol, her and her friends had a HUGE ego under the pretty humble face act

[@JanekWerbinski]

It's normal and OK. They are hardwired like that. You didn't set and enforce boundaries. So they try to test you. I did the same mistake in the past.

[@ARdamonx]

im from Indonesia, Indonesian women are not as innocent or pure as people thinks, a lot of or maybe most of them are not that different from western woman if they given a chance

[@JanekWerbinski]

And still I prefer indonesian women over western

[@leigh8926]

Chinese who's borned in Indonesia Just married for money nice house not for love

[@JanekWerbinski]

@@leigh8926 I bet you don't know about how love is different for men and women. That's recipe for disaster.

[@HaraldDevries-m2f]

For me Indonesian women are just as hard to get as the girls in my home country (netherlands). I can meet some women over 40, but wimen below 38 years in Indonesia are always on the lookout for younger, more handsome guys. I am 49 and in shape. I been in Jakarta, bali etc for 5 months again now and have not been dating. I matched with a few women here on dating apps but most of them are looking for a quick €. The ones not looking for cash are dating lots of guys and are never interested (or have time) to meet in real. I know this is not the experience of the vast majority of Western guys in Indonesia but it is my own experience.

[@ikeskifan]

Your experience is closer to mine than those people making fake videos

[@MinimalistNomad]

Interesting, indeed. Thanks for sharing. I was just about to say that your experience seems to be a bit of an exception.

[@HaraldDevries-m2f]

Yes i never met a foreigner in indonesia let alone jakarta, whether bule or middle eastern, indian, african who could not meet any woman they wanted. Even really old out of shape guys still date everybody they want. I am the only exception as far as i know.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

​@user-fi5ho2bw8v I doubt that you're the exception. I recommend you dye your hair (professionally). You're in shape so thats good. Have you tried Phillipines?

[@HaraldDevries-m2f]

@@GUITARTIME2024 never went to philippines but i went quite a few times to Thailand where i have exactly the same problem as in Indonesia. It seems all asian girls that like western guy like certain type(s) of Western guys and for some reason i don't match the type for all nice looking Asian women I expect it will exactly be the same in The Philippines.

[@Countrymusic516]

Thank you so much for your videos. I am an American getting ready to move to Germany and I've been talking to an Indonesian girl (22) who is also moving to Germany to work as a nurse. We speak German and English together, I love practicing German with her. Our relationship is already pretty serious. I really hope it can work out between us. Do you have any advice for me? Or which of your videos should I definitely watch? This one was VERY helpful. Vielen Dank.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks. No particular video I recommend. Just search through the playlist and click what you find interesting. Advice: be careful calling your current connection with this Indonesian woman a "relationship". You don't have a relationship, yet! What you have going now is an online connection, not more, not less. This is important to discern. Anyway, good luck with your endeavours in Germany!👍 Keep in touch!

[@Countrymusic516]

@@MinimalistNomad Thank you very much! I don't refer to it as a relationship yet, but I just meant what we have together is serious. I'm looking forward to more of your videos!

[@flyinghighorlow3476]

My Indonesian wife had a job in the state as a divorce lawyer. Yes, you must get permission by the governor to get a divorce if you are working for the state. She has been telling me about so many cases, most of them they got divorced because of cheating and physical abuse (as everywhere else in the world). But some of them got actually divorced after just a week or two, they had never been together before the marriage and then it didn’t work out at all, some of them they hadn’t understood the meaning of being together.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Divorced after only a week or two? Strange...

[@iwantyourcookiesnow]

Indonesian young women go to Singapore to get their hymens repaired if they lose their virginity before marriage. This is from my female college friend.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Interesting. They must have some cash though. Certainly not cheap...

[@akale2360]

Or buy one of those artificial hymen kits.

[@troobix_s]

20:20 - that is what they always say - I had only 2 😆But yes, it can be true. Although I know some situations, when after a girl got cheated on by a local guy, she would start sleeping/hooking up with bunch of foreigners (or even local ones, as a revenge) - letting themselves out so to say. Based on their personality and how much they are desparate, they will have 5-10 or even more random hookups, before they realise they are not like that and it is the road to nowhere. And then they will try to find a more stable guy. It is what men should also understand. No girl in her sane mind will tell you that she had 10 random guys boinking her within a year or so before you. She will only tell you what she considered "serious relationships". Some girls will tell you all, but that takes a lot of love and courage.

[@MinimalistNomad]

In theory you might be right. But the practise in Indonesia looks different. As mentioned in my video, the girls are neither holy Marys nor sluts who are screwing around because they seek "revenge", at least the good girls. A good Indonesian woman with standards and self respect would not do what you described.

[@troobix_s]

@@MinimalistNomad That is good to know 👍 Thanks

[@Gab-ll6ds]

Never ever trust an Indonesian woman, they are Indians after all!

[@antonvandenheever4410]

I like the English with the German accent!

[@MinimalistNomad]

I try my best!😂

[@GUITARTIME2024]

As an American, I don't. Lol.

[@mnraiders8546]

Met up with a woman in Balkipapan after talking for 2 years(couldn't visit Asia til 2022) and it was like it didn't matter if I was there, I was surprised that I met her parents on the last day. Now I have a GF from the Philippines.

[@ivotsveykov7566]

I can’t say I have your experience but as far as I can say they’re definitely not innocent but if you’re giving them love and support you’re getting amazing live time partner

[@MinimalistNomad]

Exactly. That's it!👍

[@WineSippingCowboy]

I agree 👍 I was in Singapore 🇸🇬 last year, 2023. Some Indonesian 🇮🇩 women are like that: I met them there and in my hometown area the San Francisco Bay Area.

[@faustinodibauda251]

Great to know thank you

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

So, i need to go to indonesia as well as ph 😅

[@MinimalistNomad]

You're gonna be busy.😉

[@dariuschambliss1221]

Which tribes are the darker skinned Indonesians? Not just the Papuans? Which towns and cities?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Visit West Timur. This is a province.

[@DRAGONETLION88]

I am in a relationship since 9 months with a helper working in Hong Kong .( I am not leaving there). What you say about Indonesian girls in Hong Kong is 100 % true, above all how they enjoy their sunday (in WC). She is very sexy and cute, and had, I guess a lot of experiences before me. I am in love with her and she wants to marry me. I don't know what to do, I am blind.

[@short-shorts1325]

What's the meaning of WC?

[@highstakestrading]

WC = toilet? so fun in the toilet on sunday?

[@MinimalistNomad]

WC stands for Wanchai (most likely). It is an entertainment district in Hong Kong. Many Western expats and Filipinas, Indonesian girls hang out there especially on the weekends to enjoy and have fun.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Enjoy! But keep your thinking cap on. You will need it.😉

[@short-shorts1325]

@@MinimalistNomad thank you

[@funnylucu7101]

I’m on dating online too.tinder I don’t know good or not?

[@MinimalistNomad]

I don't have experience with Tinder.

[@short-shorts1325]

I'm 48 years old will it be hard to attract 30 old women in Indonesia?

[@DRAGONETLION88]

I was in Jakarta 4 years ago, I was 55. It was crazy easy to pick up girls. I am athletic and still handsome, it helps maybe.

[@HaraldDevries-m2f]

For me its impossible im 49 and in shape

[@short-shorts1325]

​@@DRAGONETLION88thanks

[@short-shorts1325]

​@@HaraldDevries-m2fdo have an idea why that is?

[@MinimalistNomad]

No. This is not my experience. Indonesian women are attracted to men who have their act together. Older men (also foreigners) have that advantage.

[@AnDi-w6r]

What city is this... Jakarta or where ?....Btw you can also visit Batam, malang or Solo

[@MinimalistNomad]

KL (as mentioned in my video).

[@livingdead233]

They are like Indian women.

[@JanekWerbinski]

Funny thing. All girls I've meet also had only 2 boyfriends, independent of their age. In the west we usually multiply declared amount by 3 or 5 to get real milleage. Here seems to exist constant of two. :-)

[@GUITARTIME2024]

If you believe that, you'll believe anything.

[@JanekWerbinski]

@@GUITARTIME2024 I act as I really believe it. ;-)

[@dezcuts5319]

@@JanekWerbinskilol😂