Why INFJs Attract Toxic People-and How to End the Cycle

[@fredotto518]

Yup, the story of my life.

[@kaycevanveer212]

I am so glad you addressed this. I'm the same! I got myself pregnant bc of my naivety! I'm almost 40 and he's such a scum bag. He's real good at lying. Anyways I'm so grateful you brought this up. So timely. Love you❤

[@trinabrettnell]

Your welcome. I hope it was helpful. 🥰

[@AymanMehrab]

12:13 💯

[@kaycevanveer212]

Oh and I love long videos of yours. The longer, the better. It's like hanging out with you ❤

[@trinabrettnell]

Awe, 😊 thanks

[@LuisPerez-jf8vj]

I am sorry but I think you miss the point. There is no such gift, like superpower, it is just idealization, you try to see your partner with the same eyes you saw your caregiver. They were treating you bad, but you expected them to change, you worked for their love. That is sad, as you are reproducing the same pattern subconsciously. There is no INFJ personality, there is only childhood trauma, and the associated subconscious wiring. Finally, when you finally find a secure partner, you cannot believe he can give you love unconditionally, you freak and you disappear, as you feel unworthy of his love. All terribly sad.

[@trinabrettnell]

I disagree with you I must admit.