Why INFPs Struggle to Connect with Other Personalities

► Why INFPs Struggle to Connect with Other Personalities
The INFPs are exceptional humans who are very understanding and empathetic, even to those they do not understand.
One of their weak points is they need help to make deep connections with other individuals due to their selective nature.
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[@Recep007]

Infp, don’t care about friendships. based on experiences it’s more chill alone and I have enough things to do on my own. I am nice to people anyways but prefer a comfortable distance to people. People give me headaches otherwise.

[@Zanroff]

I think that generally true, but meeting someone else you click with is something else. It's like realizing you aren't alone on this island. Most people suck though.

[@SmailINFP-pq5iq]

@@Zanroff ...for that we have internet , quora , KZbin .

[@kitathelifecoach]

I'm so glad you said this, I've always said I'm a bad friend. Ppl are drawn to me but I don't naturally feel the same for my friends although I try, I'm perfectly fine losing my friendships and never understood why.

[@SofiLofiAdventures]

Same same same

[@candiceh6211]

😮😮😮 Twin! Where have you been?! ​@@kitathelifecoach

[@essohesmel5003]

so relatable for me , i just lost my best friend for almost nothin now im alone knowin it will take me at leas 2 year to get any friendship i value rn to that level

[@sandwichmaker42zero]

im sorry to hear that, but I know youll get through it 🧡 stay strong

[@learninglifetogether8968]

Sending love

[@_____0892]

as an infp, im so sorry to hear that:( I hope you’ll get better soon and maybe find new friends who care at some point!

[@nahCmeR]

This hurts to hear.. it's actually extremely relatable. Also being a Fearful avoidant doesn't really help :|

[@k1tkatty]

I’m sorry to hear that I hope you make some friends soon or maybe have, if you haven’t I believe in you no matter how long it takes❤❤

[@sla_2023]

Because other types judge us.

[@nicolafarnhill2184]

I struggle because I have values and won't tolerate bullshit. Toxic behaviour and disrespect

[@gksurabhi]

Is it possible for a person to be free from bullshit, some natural toxicity (by virtue of being insane humans that we all are) and some disrespect given that INFPs friendships tend to be intense A little less judgmental, more forgiving, alongwith learning n practising assertive communication to protect boundaries instead of cutting off for self-protection.......help us maintain more friendships in the long run I was previously friendless. Replacing slowly, my cutting off tendency with assertive communication skills..... reaching out to people I cut off.....helped n continues helping me in making more friends ~INTJ

[@nicolafarnhill2184]

@@gksurabhi Practically speaking all this is possible. But you would have to be an INFP and HSP to understand the challenges that we face as feelers. Believe me when I say INFPs are constantly trying to improve themselves and their ability to tolerate. But we weren't put on this earth to desensitize ourselves, but to remind others how important love, kindness and compassion are.

[@gksurabhi]

​@@nicolafarnhill2184 Extend the love n compassion to understand everyone's struggling inside, instead of desensitising. Repair after Conflict....is key to maintaining friendships..... the INFPs I know are now evolving n never cut off (earlier used to in their twenties max) Infact, I have heard online, female INFPs comment on how they find it impossible to comprehend how any human relationship can be just truncated; it's always experienced as a continuation, they say

[@nicolafarnhill2184]

@@gksurabhi I don't think you understand what I'm saying. I don't cut people off from a misunderstanding. I just don't reconnect with people who I don't align with me or who have hurt me. I don't feel the need to. As a therapist I fully understand everyone has their challenges, as an INFP I am more that aware of patterns of behaviour. I just don't need people in my life who aren't right for me and me, them. In the world today there is a large amount of people that have a lot of narcissistic characteristics and are highly dangerous to highly sensitive people. Some ties have to be broken, even with parents.

[@gksurabhi]

​​​​@@nicolafarnhill2184 When anyone portrays themselves as saviours n angels, that amounts to grandiosity and that happens from a place of B&W thinking..... Angels vs Demons..... Good vs Bad Nobody is evil. It's just a concept of us vs them. Difference in perspectives Usually n ironically, it's when we are struggling with self-acceptance n self-compassion, that we are unable to be accepting of n compassionate towards others, and end up seeing some people as toxic n evil.... it's labeling people, instead of compassionately understanding them from a safe distance, as suffering people, struggling to manage their inner self/child

[@RickyOfficialVisuals]

I agree as a INFP I need friendships that goes both ways as far as efforts go

[@J-Earthling]

I feel so misunderstood. These are spot-on for me! I feel like no matter where I am, I do not fit in, and no one wants anything to do with me. And the gossiping thing, yeah, I live in an apartment building and there are so many people that gossip about each other, I wish not to engage. I'm starting to lose my faith in people! They scary!

[@Timelessbeauty-j1t]

+1

[@jenniferpazmino7139]

Hard to find like-minds🎯

[@wanderingthoughts16]

1. 0:49 hard to find like-minds 2. 1:42 afraid of being taken for granted 3. 2:29 they're hard to understand 4. 2:48 conscious of being hurt So relatable for me 🥰

[@Timelessbeauty-j1t]

Is an Infp dealing with same? Super ego ( too much idealism ) always try to break the silence end up with being embarassing Always In search of my vibemates Sometimes isolate myself and try to being cold hearted but cant do Expressive in unnecessary topics When comes to express my own emotions i feel nobody will understand , unable to express my inner side Always help others but for own help i hesitate

[@CastleCaitlan09]

I’m an INFP-T and I just got really hurt by someone. Now I’m depressed.

[@echidona293]

How old are you maybe I can help :)

[@a.n4828]

People want difference but cant except difference. They are scared of difference so please dont shy away due to others and nuture yourself as you are 💙🕊

[@brittanysmith3716]

Wow, all of this was accurate. Especially the part about not finding like-minded people. I feel like I come off as too emotional or intense at times, so I do my very best to tone it down and keep things light hearted, fun and surface level. But then it’s like, how long do we have to keep this going? When can we have meaningful in-depth conversations without it being weird? All this surface level feel so unfulfilling and sometimes pointless.

[@stevemiller8895]

I feel like that everyday!

[@furrosama]

Me too!

[@a.n4828]

It makes me so heard to see this, and thank-you deary so much. I'm an infp a teenager at that yet it's so hard meeting people who get you or who don't have a problem with you being emotional or intense, I've made friends but I feel that they shy away from me and idk I'm left alone I know I'm a sensitive person and I like deep conversations that appear weird, but I wish it wasn't like this. That in order for someone to have any appeal to us we have to be less serious just light hearted and funny 🌕🧡

[@percubit10]

I was never a hermit. I love to connect with people who can have deep conversations and I am very understanding, I can't be around people who gossip and are judgmental. I like to explore., My energy is off the charts and I hate conflicts. I like to be around like-minded people who are understanding and show compassion I love nature and the beauty of this planet. I have a hard time finding like-minded people It is very difficult for me to have shallow conversations.

[@myavoiryamisenko6865]

The background music is so beautiful, I wish it could be downloaded

[@Daeva83B]

Who else is struggling? Raise your hands! ✌ I am struggling that's for sure, always having that inner conflict... I want social contact, yet... i just don't feel like it and prefer to go home. single now for 3 years and i am 40 now. Time is ticking and i really need to get over this or i'll be alone forever. Got a question, are you ashamed of your own feelings? I'm not ashamed of my feelings, but to share them is something i do struggle with. Silly things, like showing a girl that i like her. I don't really show it to her and instead i start to ignore her because of all the feelings inside.. On the other side, i'm so open and can easily share what i think or feel.. but when the feeling gets to close to my heart and i get insecure about it.. then it's... hard to open up for me. Find it so silly.. how will she know that i like her? When i am too afraid to show that to her. While when i look at other people, they just say it or just show it to her.. it looks so easy... but... lol

[@lialy3071]

no I think I have the same thing..maybe we are afraid to get hurt :/ so a slow approach might be the best, testing out waters first, sending signs etc

[@Timelessbeauty-j1t]

Same I guess we all r same

[@Sanatori_1]

for me being social is a way of hurting yourself mentally,people suck they dont know how to see their mistakes

[@thanseelabeegum5229]

I'm an infp and i ghosted my ex bestfriend completely when she did things that hurt and suffocated me , i stay unaffected and try to work out our friendship but at one point i totally lost it and burst out and after that she apologized and try to be like older times , i forgived her after a while but still i drew a line and now we barely talk

[@WhisperedShadow123]

Sounds like me

[@thanseelabeegum5229]

@@WhisperedShadow123 nice to meet u 🤝 i myself feel like an asshole all this time for doing that

[@thetrueFreya]

same

[@MaliMaslacak526]

But you wouldn't have ghosted her if she was decent enough now would you? There are just 3 possible scenarios for this situation: 1. You tell her everything and thereby hurt her since she is not as self aware as you are, thus making her angry and then you end up being a bitch in her eyes - forever. 2. You continue toxic relationship, say nothing, let her step all over you. You wither inside amd lose will to live basically. 3. You say nothing and ghost her - let her live her own life without getting hurt by the truth. She gets hurt by ghosting but not nerely as much by the *truth*. So which scenario is the best, you tell me. 😅

[@thanseelabeegum5229]

@@MaliMaslacak526 omg !! Thankyou so much for opening my eyes , ur words are wise 💞

[@cutiepi3_patti]

Dear all infps, i love u all 🥹💖😭💪🏻

[@trystparadox9186]

As an INFP, I struggle with being authentic in relationships. When I tell what I think people just disappear. I listen to them all the time and try to understand them but when I say that I don't like something they do, they just go away. And then I wish I never said anything...

[@SeelenTaucher]

Thank you so deeply dears. 💖 Glad U Share this. I asked older people: Do U know the difference between Extro and Intro: No. They do Not even know this and IT helps so much understanding in depth. If I would have known this earlier, I would have known, understood Others and myself earlier. Thanks for Sharing. 💖☺️ Love to Introverts, Ambiverts and infp/infj. And I Always thought that this infp was as openhearted with Others Like with me...but I Had No Congrats, finding Out much later, that He did Not even Share that depth with His asian beloved sister. This Awareness was kinda shocking, I did Not know. ITS good to do more Te and watch and ask for truth. And Imagine you would be a shy introvert or one with Attachment Issues, or ocd, any similar, than communication will be much more Important but Not easy for introverts

[@jbrubin8274]

Am I the only one who thinks ‘dear lord keep up’ then immediately begins to beat yourself up that thought even passed by? I mean I don’t actually say it aloud but inside my brain doesn’t care. I’m mad at myself for the thought even passing through to begin with. 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@SeelenTaucher]

I have that too. I call IT "Inner Critic" or "overthinking" or "my inner brain Bitch". That head voice is so Bad to self and Others, but my Fi Feelings and Ne is soft and calm.

[@JrneyLwi]

I understand because I am the same

[@jbrubin8274]

@@SeelenTaucher Thanks for your reply. It’s nice to know I’m not completely alone on this one. Also I’m so calling it my ‘inner bitch brain’ from here forward. It’s a brilliant phrase to describe how it feels. 💯🙌😂🫶

[@jbrubin8274]

@@JrneyLwi Oh my gosh, I was kind of scared to ask. I’m glad I did. Thank you for making a stranger feel far less alone. Sending you all my best wishes. 🙏💯🫶☮️

[@JrneyLwi]

@@jbrubin8274 May you get all the success and happiness you deserve! Wishing you well ! us infp's should stick together :-)

[@SmailINFP-pq5iq]

I don't struggle to connect with INXX personality type .

[@_CtrlAltDelete_]

Thanks for never giving up on the content although it is a small community of us. We still appreciate and have hope that in a time like this people eventually take the time to understand themselves. 🥺🙏

[@lindareubens5174]

So true

[@lilac624]

NFs go well with other NFs.Additionally, FPs go well with FPs.. That's based on a research when it comes to an intimate relationship.. Moreover, I got to read that we can easily connect to people who also use introverted feeling preference

[@benjaphanwhosthere2150]

I give them a second chance even it not with big hope like before but I really give them just... IF it happen to disappoint me again it will never be third. I will see your fall (only if you still near by) and will listen what you what to say. I mean talk as you want but I never be there for you.

[@samtula5946]

I just want to know which mbti types aren’t annoyed by us and actually like us long term as friends/ significant others Thanks for your content Mind again :)

[@MindAgain]

Thanks for watching - see this kzbin.info/www/bejne/aqbFmX1_g9apn9U

[@nicolafarnhill2184]

PS I'm not erratic in the slightest.

[@JohnSims-su8tn]

I'm tired of getting burned 😢

[@danielcooke9974]

5.Other's dont want to deal with the time they are down and find them wierd so avoid them

[@appletreel6487]

An infp likes the background music. What is it?

[@justchristine369]

What does INFP stand for?

[@sandwichmaker42zero]

Introvered iNtuitive Feeling Perceiving

[@rahasiamanusiaanalyticalps3273]

The way this video is described = 1. Infps = good human being 2. Other people = bad human being When in reality. It could be the otherwise

[@gksurabhi]

Being stubborn irrationally (Fi-Si) loop, is one of the issues they say, of INFPs Don't we all come with so-called toxic behaviours capable of driving people close to us crazy insane n in turn bringing out their toxic behaviours Being adamant for INFP values: INFP perspective Being adamant irrationally: others perspective We all are capable of being toxic n provoking others into exhibiting their toxic behaviours, in turn Adamant to not self-introspect their adamant behaviours because INFPs refuse to see it as anything beyond their INFP values....... One area requiring serious introspection by developing their inferior cognitive function of thinking? And which also holds the super power to break the isolation pattern in INFP n seeing others as toxic....while ignoring their own toxicity? Ni shadow becomes overactive in looping phase. Ni shadow in looping, is narrow minded conclusions. After the cooling off period, Ne, the main tool, becomes accessible n can be used to understand multiple perspectives......for self-introspection, self-acceptance n self-compassion first n foremost and that will naturally help us be accepting of others n help us have a compassionate understanding towards others

[@johnknight9150]

Not with INTJs