Why Is He Giving Me MIXED SIGNALS? TEEN EDITION

[@chelsieb.593]

the funny thing is, im probably giving him mix signals too

[@denissesantiago1310]

same here 😔

[@louiseclarke8948]

Lol

[@serenarose143]

Same. Sometimes I'm like all closed off and then sometimes I'll be happy smiley and staring at him

[@claireatucf]

+Serena Rose same

[@sammi5059]

Omg my situation but since he gives me mixed signals how do I know he likes me ugh

[@MimiTruongMay98]

Having a crush and trying to make things happen is so difficult!!

[@blessiemary]

i know right 😭

[@lovetrustandpixiedust]

+MimiTruongMay98 I feel ya.

[@sasi2701]

I know right

[@candygirl828]

I feel you especially because I'm a junior and my crush is a senior in high school and he graduates this year and graduation is in a month and he is going to college upstate and I won't see him again :((

[@katdf6226]

ikr 😂😂

[@claxre3812]

Am I the only one who thinks ask Kimberly should be in a teen magazine??

[@laurenperez5646]

Nope she's amazing

[@childishsadbino8169]

dank deyante YAS!!

[@babyy_savage763]

Better to listen and watch then to read

[@xandyflossgaming6521]

dank deyante yes, but Thats actually a good ides

[@melissaseverson8771]

SHE NEEDS TO BE IN ONE AM I RIGHT 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

[@dimpledaddy5115]

A crush is called a crush because that is how you feel when they don't like you back 😢

[@kittycoolll7649]

Haha

[@southsideserpentslimes9352]

Sixteen candles 💛

[@gabrielbermudez9012]

Ew

[@four20game]

RM is my bias😤😤

[@angelarose3632]

Omg I never thought of that lmao

[@mikaylas.6631]

IM SO GRATEFUL I FOUND THIS YOURUBER

[@celina9804]

kayla lew I'm glad I found my Uber 2

[@childishsadbino8169]

Celinaaa 😂😂😂

[@notava6601]

Is it me or sometimes do guys act like your best friend one day and the next they ignore your whole existence :/

[@QUARTERMASTEREMI6]

@A V A Quite true there!

[@endpain2474]

Ava Is Trashy no it’s not just u

[@chigirii]

True!!

[@maziepowers858]

Yesterday I made the brave decision to ask out the boy I liked and he said yes I am so happy!!

[@gracemelki6753]

Mazie Powers now ???

[@childishsadbino8169]

Mazie Powers congrats!! I hope everything is going well

[@yn565]

I asked my crush but he just said it's a bad idea BUT he was smiling at me that time it's so much mixed signs UGH!! But I'm happy for you Mazie Powers ♥♥♥

[@anilorac8233]

Omg you're so lucky!!!

[@celenamorris]

So weird haha you ALWAYS upload a video that relates to whatever Im going through at that time. Its so cool and the videos help a lot. Thanks Kimberly!

[@jasminebieber4011]

same😅😅🙈💗

[@louiseclarke8948]

Same

[@rawanbaghdadi1847]

Same

[@laqiney3748]

HONESTLY

[@YCal-s9w]

How do I know if he likes me or if he's just really REALLY nice?

[@taylorworthy7376]

same

[@YCal-s9w]

I grow more confused by the day

[@elliechantellephillips1887]

+yarden calif me to

[@heathercolby3427]

Lol you dont

[@cherylbrown6447]

yarden calif that question is the worst!

[@laurenperez5646]

I think he found someone else😔

[@dropDeadLoveli]

It's ok one less guy that isn't your perfect match

[@brookiecookie5243]

don't worry he miss out

[@brookiecookie5243]

:):)

[@fabulasstyle7796]

Lauren Perez don't worry he isn't worth your time and beauty

[@cloroxbleach894]

Lauren Perez same ):

[@brooklyncampbell7389]

Is it weird that sometimes when I catch my crush's gaze, that we'll both just stare at each other with blank faces? It's so strange lol. And then the other times we'll just look at each other and smile. I'm so confused >~

[@victoriagrace5134]

My crush is sending me crazy mixed signals. I know he doesn't dislike me, but I don't know if he wants to be friends, or if he likes me. We don't know each other super well, but he seems to make an effort to talk to me in our class, and he's given me a compliment, that I did not expect from this guy. He agreed to be my friend on facebook. But he doesn't necessarily like everything I post, or make a huge effort. I AM SO CONFUSED. HELP ME.

[@gracemelki6753]

Nobody At All he may confused

[@luluv2292]

thanks for helping me realize that the guy i have a crush on is garbage

[@Kameja_V]

I feel so sad no one likes me...And all around me everyone likes someone or is being liked by someone🙁☹️😪

[@breannadonovan3880]

I know right....I like this guy but I don't think he likes me but I catch him staring at me tho

[@Kameja_V]

he probably likes you then but its such a bad feeling when he doesnt like u back :(

[@breannadonovan3880]

+Kameja_V.1738 yeah 😞😞😞

[@mikaylamaloney9753]

I need help!! This guy I thought liked me (I didn't originally think he was super cute, but then his personality really brought it up!) and was going out of his way to talk to me for about a weekish (school just started, we're both new) but now... I try to talk to him and he seems kinda distant. I'm not sure if I was too reserved at first so I scared him away or if he was just being nice. UGH, HELP PLEASE!!!

[@elenayoung9235]

Omg same

[@janetmartinez4414]

omg same!

[@fabulasstyle7796]

Mikayla Springs he may be confused. Confront him and try to be sly and ask him what is going on. Be confident and if he says no he isn't worth ur time and beauty

[@lexussykes]

I feel you darling been through the same with the whole sudden distancing it was like hold on to this while they spread the situation thin... It began to frustrate me how all a sudden they're treating me like a complete stranger after. They had been the very one to tell me that I was their best friend like what gives???

[@rocioperez6369]

Mikayla Springs same here

[@nicolemarie6834]

It's weird becasue I watch these videos when I don't need the advice at the time because I want to know everything for the future cuz I'm only 11 lol

[@TheBraverMe]

I did the same thing at 11. I love psychology and videos like this. It pays off! :)

[@itzelcruz7957]

im only nine

[@louiseclarke8948]

SAME

[@MeMe-pl2cq]

+Nicole Emmerson this is so adorable haha

[@kavesharaina8037]

+Nicole Emmerson i m 12 and i think in love and lemme tell u..........IT SUCKS so best advice for u avoid crushes

[@rabanikhehra9940]

I really hate it when they give you mixed signals its so annoying!

[@justanothergirl9502]

There's this incredibly hot guy and we were I guess friends we texted a lot even up to 12 at night but then all of a sudden he just broke it off . He started getting rude, ignoring me , making fun of me and talked about me behind my back. I'm pretty sure he likes my friend now...😞 But the worst thing is I still can't get over him he said he hates my personality even though he doesn't really know me.. Tbh I don't like his personality too and I know he's a horrible person but I still can't get over him please help me .

[@brittanyarmstrong1225]

I've been in that situation, you just have to try not to pay attention, and tell yourself that he isn't worth it and you deserve someone better.

[@RaveLopez]

aww, I'm sorry :( my advice is to should try and talk to other guys and try and find someone else.

[@justanothergirl9502]

ThatOneCookie thx for the advice 😊

[@fabulasstyle7796]

Just another Girl hmm. Well find out all the single defined flaws in him and it doesn't have to be his looks. look on how he treats people and if he treats you bad he will do th3 same to others. He obvious isn't worth your time so don't give him a time of day. Stand up for yourself and confront him personally and tell him how he hurt you. You r amazing and don't let a stupid vial boy riun ur day!😊💙💙

[@thefriendlyneighbourhoodra5396]

You are a powerful queen forget him don't waste your time on him find someone else and show him what he missed out on.

[@euseo]

AGGHHHH THE FRIEND ZONE

[@sosounheard]

*watches video, pauses at #3 * *texts him* " WAIT NO, IM INTERESTED! COME BACKK"

[@meggie19]

I'm so confused because we are just friends but he used to always tease me and mess around and now he doesn't really talk to me what happened?

[@i_love_bts775]

He’s confused between me and another girl

[@RatuLubis]

i'm always stuck on no 6 when it comes to a guy..... why.... oh why..... :'(

[@meyea8783]

FRIES BEFORE GUYS!!! HAHA

[@gamercat2747]

Me yea ooo im haveing McDonald's

[@ramunecapy]

He is really nice and helps me with homework then suddenly ignores me the next period

[@sadiaislam932]

I don't even talk to my crush but he always stares at me and whenever I'm around he kinda tries to impress me. So idk if he likes me or not because he called me ugly once.

[@samanthaeliz9087]

he's probably trying to hide his feelings

[@lexussykes]

don't count on the one who tries to impress you count on the one who's impressed by you. If you're his crush sometime he will tell you strait out.

[@galacticjewels7856]

My crush is literally showing all the signs that he likes me, except well I've heard of a guy likes you he will be in your area a lot but he moves around a lot. Like if me and my friends go outside he might go inside anyway, or if I'm near he will talk to me for a sec (or not) then leave. His friends say he likes me, he talks to me and stares at me all the time, but then there's this..

[@skaienn]

Maybe he is nervous around you!

[@mrslizardking2339]

Am my crush doesn't smile at me but always stares. Any thoughts/ advice? Maybe I should just move on to someone else?

[@patriciamccar9739]

MrsLizard King Talk to him!

[@fabulasstyle7796]

MrsLizard King Look at his body language. is his body pointed to u and is his posture straight or he isn't closing of his body like turning away from you that possibly means he is intrested

[@jessiiplayz2533]

MrsLizard King OMG LUCKYY !!

[@sunflowerseeds783]

mine too😂😂stare like a stalker

[@mangojuice2792]

Same here girl

[@kevinnyshines7367]

#5 is the only one that I can confirm this is so true

[@mariannaa.4138]

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaah I got mad at him and now he's sad and I feel so guilty!!!

[@Mishy82193]

I've been going to group therapy/support group at this certain place for a while & known one of these guys for a while there & we never bonded much until these recent past 2 months & i recently realized omg i think i like him cause i really wanna be around him more & get to know him even more but not around group sessions--like hang outside of group stuff. And i've been noticing he's sorta acting the same way & we're like showing massive interest but not DOING anything about it because we're both shy lol--so there's a lot of that "tension" & angsty feeling....how do two shy people FINALLY admit their feelings? We're not messing around with each others feelings, the mixed signals are just happening because neither of us is saying anything! lol its killing meeeeeee. I hope you can help!! :)

[@rileyann807]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. The guy I like, well its a long story but... We were talking for awhile and we really hit it off a few days ago. I believe what he was doing was in a way flirtatious! I was telling about me going to semi formal and he goes "Well wanna go with me next year?" playfully. He said a lot more stuff that brought me to the conclusion of him liking me, but then today things got bad. I snapchatted him and he kept giving short answers and kinda acted like he didn't know what to say. I did the same after awhile to play hard to get, but he kept answering with random snapchats, so I know he definitely wanted to keep the convo going. Well then, a girls worst nightmare, he opened and never replied. And I even asked him a question and he ignored it! Today we barely have spoken and I was on Cloud 9 but now I feel very sad about this... HELP!! :(

[@scarlettwillis9703]

Literally told my crush I liked him today and have been looking up how to know if a guy likes u videos these ones where definitely most helpful 😅

[@kaidentautjo1877]

Number 6 is what I'm here for. I'm always paranoid of that bcoz I know love can cloud your judgement

[@jaylinnicole6351]

Anyone else have to rewatch her videos after having a new crush?

[@avelane9993]

OMG THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED

[@aishahoussein7525]

Omg your like the only youtuber that gives me advice that really works I love you keep making awesome videos💞

[@Kat-yg5up]

I just LOVE your videos, Kimberly!!

[@charlottev1351]

Kimberly I LOVE YOU! This is EXACTLY the video I needed right now!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@evieoneill1842]

I feel like he's sending me mixed signals because even though he snapchats me every night and asks how my days been, sometimes he asks me to play truths, and uses many emojis, at school he still talks to me but more in a friend way, and on snapchat, he always sends me topless selfies like 💁🏼 idk

[@tillyharter6294]

thanks for all the amazing videos. keep up the hard work . love you !☺😊😀😁

[@lizvel3171]

I'm probably giving him mixed signals too! 😂 when he's in a flirty mood I act like I don't hear anything he says but when he's in a serious mood I'm always trying too talk to him and try to flirt

[@laurenbowers5710]

Oh my, thank you! This helped so much!

[@katrina5292]

and now i finally know!! thank you so much Ask Kimberly!!😶💗

[@georginahammond7809]

you are absolutely amazing, love you sooo much!!!!!

[@rayleenarmenta1047]

OMG I needed this advice and omg thank you so much you are very amazing !!

[@masha1683]

I've always wondered if there's ever been someone who had a crush on me and watched videos like this to try and fingers out if I like them back. I also wonder if I've ever had a secret admirer who would think about me when he goes to sleep or wakes up... 🤔

[@RoseChan420]

OMG #1 JUST EXPLAINED THIS GUY I KNOW OMG!!! lol

[@naazy27]

Tks Kimberly ..this kinds of helped me of what to do now..thank you so much😘😘😘

[@lizhdz5356]

I love your advice❤❤❤ thanks for everything!!

[@michellemei123]

She is so pretty to watch.... and ofcourse, the content is interesting as well

[@rubsey_roo3871]

I literally love your videos so much💖

[@KaoticGood1830]

HELP!!!!! I've been in a flirtationship with my close guy friend for almost 4 years now. You know that area between friend and relationship that you can spend some time in before it fizzles out or actually leads somewhere? Yeah. I've been stuck there for years now. We like each other and I've made it clear that I want more, but despite a few make out sessions and the constant flirting that we do (when we're both single), he keeps coming up with reasons why we shouldn't date, from distance to religion to being too busy to not risking our friendship, it's always something that has nothing to do with him not liking me. I've tried to make him choose friendship or relationship so i can get out of the gray zone that i truly hate, but it only results in us getting all awkward and sometimes not talking at all for a while. Mostly, I'm just confused!!!! Why would a guy give me mixed signals for so long, and more importantly, how do i make it stop without losing him as a friend?

[@gracegreene3616]

I love your videos so much!!! they help so much thanks!♥️❤️

[@natashajobe2948]

My crush dont not smile but stears at me and when i watch him he looks away.And sing love song to me.I love it.

[@alexavargas2397]

I need help. OK so I have a crush on my best friend's best friend, and when I told my best friend I like him, he told my crush, and now my crush is sending mixed signals. I catch him looking at me, when I say hi he gets really nervous, and he even says hi to me first. But, a lot of girls like him and I just feel like I'm not good enough for him or he could do better, which he honestly could. My crush is REALLY shy so that makes it harder to tell if he likes me or not. One good thing that I found out today though is, since hes best friends with my friends, they talk about me a lot, and I heard my friend ask if he likes me and he responded " I like her, but I feel like I need to start talking a bit more to her". I heard him say that very clearly, and I'm relieved he didn't notice I was listening. But anyways, what I need help is with getting enough courage to talk to him and not blush, fidget a lot, or sweat because I do that a lot even if I'm just around him. My friend is making me talk to him a little more because of what he said, and don't get me wrong, I want to talk to him but I'm just afraid. As I said, I don't feel good enough for him because many girls like him, but hes not a fuckboy or anything, in fact, he's the exact opposite. So if anyone can help me come up with things to talk about and say, please help. Thanks and sorry for making this look like a school essay D:

[@leahgroenveld6860]

+alexa vargas Hey! I'm going through basically the same thing. I'm really super shy and pretty much the most awkward person in all of human existence, but somehow I got my crush to (i think) like me too! But what I typically do to talk to him is ask him about school assignments, about music, about sports, or I give him a compliment. Typically this doesn't really spark a complete conversation, but it works for a minute or two. Eventually you guys will probably come into a habit of talking to each other, like we have. anyway, enough about me. If he told your friend that he likes you when he didn't even know that you could hear, GIRL HE TOTALLY LIKES YOU! and about the getting nervous when you talk to him--hunny that's the story of my life right there. I know this is really stupid advice but the only way out is through. just swallow back the fear and talk to him! it's super super hard, i know, but totally worth it in the end. especially if you know he probably likes you too. Good luck!!!! :)

[@lanamaire1275]

OMG..i screwd up on number 5. in the beginning of semester 2 we had a signed seats and i sat sat next to a boy named nathan and i was the last one to find my seat. when i was takeing off my backpack he took the chair off the table and set it down for me and he did that for a week and i didnt respond. he was really polite. I NEVER RESPONDED OR SAID THANKYOU. then later on in the semester when we got new seats and i sat away from him I started to like him and then we all got the same seats we got earlier in the semester back. I started to change the way I acted around him and i put down his chair for him but he never noticed and i dyedmy hair blue because I LOVE the color blue and he never noticed, i changed the way i dresses and he never noticed. then he would always face twards me and sit really close to me. later at the end of the semester we got new seats again and i sat kind of close to him and i would always turn around and look at him. then I saw him put down a chair for another girl in front of him and i got really sad because I think he has feelings for her. and i screwd up bro and school just ended and now i have freshmen year in a couple of months. I hope I get classes with him.

[@lanamaire1275]

I just realized how much I wrote sorry

[@claram9802]

this dude i really like only flirts with me when he’s with his friends. when he’s not he just acts normal or ignores me. and when he’s with his friends he says the sweetest stuff and it’s gotten to the point where i get excited to see him with his buddies. what should i do haha

[@omnomni270]

I found that my crush actually just didn't want a lot of people in our grade to know that we liked each other because he hates gossip and stuff so that's why he didn't really act like he liked me during lunch and break and such but then after school when there was less people we will just hug for minutes 😊😊 I'm glad that he doesn't tell everyone because I've had almost relationship get messed up because of other people that were just being annoying and making situations way more awkward and weird than they had to be😋👍👍

[@gamercat2747]

Omnomni people are anoying i get u or they tell u for dumb thing i mean a girl/boy have to love

[@bibbabookgirl8469]

My crush, who is also my bff for like 8 years, really hates texting, but prefers phone or vid calls, so figure out your crushes personality before deciding he hates you bc he doesnt text girls!

[@bangstanctx7925]

I just can't really tell since sometimes he acts like a player but then other times he will act like he really likes me

[@cassandrawatson8149]

You'r so amazing!!! Im a big fan of you :)

[@veronicaoliver5465]

I please help because he's such a nice guy and I see that boyfriend potential

[@therealawkwardstarfish]

So I'm confused I've known this guy since we were in elementary school ( I was 8 and he was 7 ) He would always say hi to me every time he saw me (I don't even know how even knew my name them). After 3rd grade, I changed schools and I never saw him again. Years later I heard someone saying hi to me and using my name. It was him again. for the past two years, I've come to know a few people in his family that help out at church.For the past few months, he has been giving me hugs when he sees me or when I'm about to leave. I didn't mind that because I thought we were on the level of friends. He's a very nice and outgoing person but also likes to joke around a bit. When I was leaving after I volunteered to help out at a retreat at church, he followed me out to my ride, gave me a hug and left ( at a distance where my sister can see from inside the car). Since then, I feel like he's has been playing with me more than other people (Ex: One time he was making weird faces at me at a door window when I'm on the other side, Another time he was awkwardly dancing while I'm trying to sing at church and cheering me on saying that I'm a good singer). I've been conflicted on whether he's low key crush on me or not. He has asked about my family and I've had talked with him before. Now I'm starting to have a crush on him and idk if he feels the same. (I'm 17 he's 16 btw)

[@ygbgbbghnynh5187]

With my crush people always tell us that we should go out and he blushes and says “no”

[@cmaesron5099]

There's this guy I know and he stares at me in class all the time , we only talk a bit and when we make eye contact it feels like he is interested . I recently found out he apparently likes another girl and texts her and even gave her a nickname I'm so confused because of this , he acts like he likes me but all evidence says otherwise. I don't know what to do..

[@zararosen7717]

Can you do a video on what to do if you really like a guy but you don't know if he likes you back... and btw love your videos

[@isabellacrabtree1586]

he tells me im cute, but then the next week he says he likes my best friend; and it go's in circles

[@kavesharaina8037]

i think 2 years is enough for figuring if he wants me or not

[@annepham8987]

I was just thinking about it and look what pops up thanks

[@isabellamarialeon4491]

Here's the thing. I confessed my feelings to him and he said he "appreciated it" but that he wanted to keep building the friendship we have. At the same time he's flirting with me, saying I'm a diamond in the rough, have cute features like dimples, inviting me to dinner and a movie?? And I have no idea what his real intentions are with me?? Please help a girl out

[@cecileemariebrookins]

Love your videos

[@amberelle5457]

Sometimes me and the guy I like will talk FOREVER at lunch and exchange huge smiles during Phys Ed and English, but other times he seems like he doesn't think of me that way, but OTHER OTHER times he seems in love...

[@aphrospice]

Where is the ADULT version?

[@firstlast4835]

love your vids....its helped me soooooooo much 😘😘😘

[@ellanorris5243]

I have a huge crush on this guy, and my friend (we'll call her A) texted him and asked him who he liked a few weeks ago. He told her that he liked another one of my friends (we'll call her B) but when A told him I liked him, he said that he liked me, too. I was texting him for a little while and it was going really well. He didn't know that I knew he liked me, and when he found out, he told me that he did like me but didn't want to date. He said it was because a girl broke his heart not too long ago and he needed to get over it, but when I checked the texts between him and A, it didn't show the part where he admitted to liking me. A says he deleted it so I wouldn't see, but I'm starting to think that he just said he likes me so I wouldn't feel bad. When I saw him on Thursday, he came up to me and we talked a little bit but not about liking each other. Then I told B to come over and her and my crush started acting all teasy and flirty. I tried to brush it off because my crush likes to goof around and is flirty with me, too, but I can't help but think it's weird. HELP!

[@preciousndzy5950]

I also receiving mixed signals 😂 My friend tell me that my crush likes someone else. So I just frust. But, I confuse when he always staring to me and he always seek my attention. I really dont know how to react 😂

[@666ozark]

ok tbh the guy i really like isn't the hottest but his personality is 10/10 and he's honestly perfect in my eyes because we just connect you know? as sad as it sounds i don't think i can get over him

[@crunchmr3302]

Hey Kimberley My crush is sending me mixed signals. He tells my friends came catching his bus that he never looks at me and lies. But when I actually tallied up how many times he looked, there was 110 in a school day. It's kinda hard to pick out if he likes me or my friend. He's super awkward with me but super confident with her

[@imacaligrl4life]

Kimberly, I'm generally hoping you can help me with this. There is this guy I like (met him 6 or 7 years ago and when he was in my state for an internship and then he moved back to his home state and recently moved back a year ago and we got back in contact and started seeing each other again...like hang outs and what not) Now, yes we have slept together multiple times but I feel like my feelings for him has developed a lot quicker than his. I recently ended a nearly 3 year relationship with someone I thought I was going to marry but realized he wasn't the one for me. This "new" guy (only cuz he moved back a year ago) and I connect so well (at least I think so). We definitely have interesting conversations where I definitely feel like I learn things from him. Just yesterday he suggested we go on a hike together (we didn't cuz by the time I would be ready he said it would be too late) but the closeness we share isn't awkward at all. We're so comfortable around each other but I'm not

[@太陽-e2x]

my crush and i stare at each other and i think we r having a competition on who will be the first one to look away lmao we r way to confident with each other but then sometimes we suddenly get awkward 😂

[@kittycute6612]

My crush gives me mix signals, he friend zoned me and also he told me he doesn't like me, when I'm at school this other girl likes him and she just try to take him and i sometime feel jealous but he is in a gang so i think he only likes girls that are from the gang, the girls in the gang look way more prettier than me and they are rich and also the wear clothes like nike, adidas, and Jordan, i think he only likes the girls from the gang. :(

[@gamercat2747]

Kitty Cute dont waset your time on him u dont need to be rich to be pretty ur pretty just the way u are ur asome u seem like a cool kid to me 😊😁

[@lexussykes]

I swear I experienced #3 I had wondered if I was ever really good enough for them. I wasn't the chosen. I thought they were the best. Even though to them I wasn't: `(. I heard things that concerned me about them but what really could I do... They don't see in me what I see in them. I can help them, but I can't help them. I could only assume they're where they want to be...

[@lexussykes]

Do these still apply at age 21?

[@W諭]

so tired and sick of watching the sign things...just go to ask"i like you,do You like me?" just get the answer(if you sick guess) if they say Nop,then "thank you" move on and get another one,girls there are many many many greatcguys are waiting for you you you you you to hunt!i know the things which we cannot get is always the best!but sometimes not all the things we can get or have!maybe just because that "things" is not worth to get or have!girls just move it and ask him!

[@bellacieen1122]

idk it's not that easy.I like this boy but if i told him i liked him i could never look at him again out of embarrassment,cuz we don't talk but we used to text alot,but i see him a lot in the hallways and whenever we walk pass each other we always make an eye contact,and i just have a feeling he likes me,than he sometimes plays cool and i remember i'm ugly and why would he like someone like me?😞😞

[@W諭]

Bella Cieen Bella Bella you are not ugly at ALL!!!no one is ugly!you need to shows your confidence!text a lot but don't talk,I can't say he like you or not,but I just want to say,when we like someone,no matter what he did or say,we always have a feeling that oh I think he likes me,like me,my man he just text me once,and he not always reply my text,but when we met and no other girls around,he will talk to me,and he flirts and talk some sweet stuff,then I thought he likes me,but when have another girl around me,I'm just invisible,I saw him chases the girl just like a male dogs chasing a female dog ass(seriously ),so you have to see how does he treat the other girls,maybe he just did the same things to everyone,if you really really like him,or really want to know if he likes you or not so bad,you should let him know,text him to say I like you,I know is embarrassing after that,but you never ask you never know,just keep guessing is he like me or not,just go ask him,if he said no,then move on!don't waste your time,you may just too focus on him and missed the person who will truly like or treat you good (Mr.right),go for it Bella!hope you can get what you want

[@bellacieen1122]

P W Wow thank you!❤️ and actually i did kinda find out he doesn't like me.You know how i said that we always made an eye contact,and i've seem him staring and i just like had a feeling that he likes me cuz of the signs.So i told my best friend to text him saying "My best friend Bella likes you" and he didn't see the message for like 3 days.So yesterday i my other best friend told me how when i wasn't in school when she talked to him she kept mentioning me but he didn't react in any way (he didn't care) and i was crushed and also that day i talked to my other best friend (there are 4 of us😂) she said "he doesn't like you you're just imagining it" and that got me kinda down and i realized that she's right,he probably doesn't like me.So i was sitting all sad when suddenly my bfriend (the one who texted him) sends me a screenshot of him replaying it.He wrote "What?" and "the last name?" and she said "i can't tell you that,but she's in your year" and he started guessing which one (there are 3 girls with my name in my year) and he guessed all 3 of them and he "couldn't remember more" and he also said "cmon tell me,i'm gonna find out anyway" and she said no so then i was so freakin sad that he couldn't remember to guess me,but i don't understand how? like literally we texted for such a long time and we always walk pass each other and literally always made a super long eye contact?!!! and i've freakin seen him looking at me and suddenly he can't remember any more Bella's?? And then he sends her a picture of facebook of some little child named bella asking "is it this one?" 😭 and i was so crushed but i know that he freakin knows me,he does,there was only one bella left and that's me and he probably knew that,so i didn't know what to do,cuz what am i gonna do if i see him in hallways and what if he tells someone and they start making fun of me? So today i told my bfriend to text him asking "sorry what grade are you in?" so she did and he responded with "7th" and then i told her to write "omg i'm so sorry this was a mistake" and he asked what grade was Bella in and i told her to say 6th when i'm really 7th and he again asked for a last name and she wrote "it doesn't matter....sorry bye" and yea,so i don't think he now knows i like him and i kinda saved myself.But what's funny is that i completely hate that jerk now and i'm happy this happened cuz i saw that he "can't remember" me even after all time time of texting and all of those signs he was giving.Ummm sorry this was probably the longest thing you saw in your life😂 and i understand if you don't wanna read it,and thank you💋

[@W諭]

Bella Cieen of course I love to read it Bella!!!I love gossip😏,ok I believe from the beginning he knows is you are the one who likes him,AND even after your bfriend told him she made a mistake,he still knew is you,what you need to do is just don't make any eyes contact with him anymore,when you walk pass him ask your friend to check for you,see if he staring at you or not,if he likes you,he will text you to ask hey how r u blah blah blah something like that or maybe he will try to talk to you face to face(depends on how much he's interested into you),and you just need to act like nothing just normal,do not shows how exciting you are(I know when someone who you like doing the text or face talk,makes your soul dance and fly,but girl hold it on),guy likes to pretend,maybe he just shy,have you notice he say all the other Bella's but you,so that mean he knew it was you from the beginning!and he didn't say No at all,I believe he might kind of likes you,but not much to ask you be his gf or something,IF I mean IF,you have a guts,you go text him and said"if I tell you I like you,what to you think"see how's he reply you,don't reply him straight away,let me or your friends know,that see how to reply him,because need to know what he says first,you are still very very young and him too,so remember girl mental age always older than a same age boy few or more years(is true),and please let me know how things go ok😂

[@bellacieen1122]

P W yea i did think that too.Maybe he was doing it in purpose,like not being able to guess me.Today actually in school i was really angry at him and i was avoiding him and not looking at him at all,but today at my class we were like packing our books and stuff cuz the class finished and i packed and waited for my best friend (she's so freakin slow) and then his class walks in and he literally sits in the same desk as me and like i was looking at my best friend and he was in front of her and he like looked at me for 2-3 seconds and he was probably thinking that i was looking at him but i did have to cuz he was right next to mu bfriend and like whenever we were walking in he halls i was such a savage that i didn't even look at him one time,like i was completely ignoring him cuz i was so freakin angry.But what makes me sad is that all of my best friends are thinking "he doesn't even know you" like they think i'm just imagining it and today i my bfriend said "Bella,he doesn't know you" and they just don't understand like they look annoyed cuz of the massage thing that happened , they think i'm stupid in love or something and they don't believe me when i said that i've seen him looking at me,when i really did.And about the age thing you're right,boys at their teens are immature and they only go for the pretty popular girls and don't even care if they crush a girls heart.And thanks for the advice i'll tell me bfriend to look at him when we are passing 👍🏼but idk maybe he'll just look at me cuz he like kinda maybe knows i like him so he'll like see to make sure if i'm staring or something.And seriously thank you,you're such a great person,and i didn't have anyone to talk to like this and get their real opinion❤️ you're awesome😘

[@maureen6552]

What if he is playing hard to get?

[@tionnawilliams6485]

omg good question

[@gamercat2747]

Tionna Williams yeah right hard to get ill bw like 😑boyyyy

[@jodie2950]

Lol when he talks to me im like sure whatever lol and he stoll trys to talk to me lol!x

[@yourtub8705]

I think its cuz the guy wants to be with your but is afraid of being vulnerable and opening up/getting close because he got hurt before or because he was always judged growing up (something like that)

[@anewloveofficial9137]

A lot of guys's actions are really confusing for girls. Some guys just come and go like you are being on queued in their life. Don't waste your time with this kind of guy because you will never have the kind of relationship that you deserved for.

[@zararosen7717]

can you also do a video on how to tell a guy you like him without seeming too desperate

[@myeyelashesarelongerthanyo6019]

Guys, help!! There's this guy in my class, and I've liked him for 2 years now. He always smiled at me, and tried to talk when we sat together once a week, but I ignored him because I didn't know what else to do. He told my friend he thinks I hate him, which I really don't, and I told him I don't hate him as well. After that, he tried to be really nice to me (encouraging me, saying hi, etc) for a while, but then he suddenly stopped. I thought I was doing something wrong, so I left it. Now, I keep catching him staring at me, glancing at another girl everyone thinks he has a crush on, looking at me again, back at her and so on all day. He still won't talk to me, but he's always somehow beside me or in front of me, and he always bumps into me. I tried texting him... but turns out, he's blocked me because of a prank my friend pulled on him and me to try and bring us closer. So the only thing I can do is talk, but I'm too shy. Any advice?

[@marlenabehrens6859]

This helps me so much

[@danellacalina9775]

Well, the first few weeks, my crush is so open. He hugs me when I'm cold, and he's just overall kind and cute. However, now I'm not so sure. He's avoiding me for some reason and now seems so mysterious and introverted when he used to be open. Why?!

[@aren9165]

Ok here is my story: I was with this guy named N. He broke up with me for a really bad reason. Next day in class I was crying ( I was really sad about it because we had been together for almost a year) and my friend named H saw how upset I was and wrote me a very sweet note saying that he knew I was strong and I could get through it. Over the next month I noticed him being really nice and on some occasions he even called me cute. H had broken up with a girl named J recently but he wasn't really upset about it or at least didn't show it. Over the next couple months I start to develop feelings for H. One day I write a note to him telling him of my feelings towards him. I never got a response. After 2 days things go back to normal like nothing happened (almost). He still said some nice things about how smart I was and how it was nice that I got him something for his birthday. I spent his birthday with him and his family after school. He asked me to the school dance. We even spent the whole after the last day of school together with some of his friends. We never talked all summer because we ( oddly) never exchanged numbers. On the first day of the next school year we talked a little about the summer. We never really talked much after that. He is now dating J again, but me and her are also friends . I am very confused and I don't know what to do. Any advice?

[@soothingvibes1140]

love it! Thanks

[@annakeo6443]

To all of the questions in the beginning: YES!!!!

[@julievisser3097]

Sammeeeee meeeee

[@saramarika5726]

Hi Kimberley! Can you pls help me out? This is the case: For like 8 months I worked with a guy that perssued me like he liked me, he did all the "shy guy signs" that you have done a video about, so he was the shy guy so to say. The problem is/was..that I'm also a shy person when it comes to someone that I start to like...so it kind of became occurd in some situations when we where alone at work, I wish I did more to show him that I was interested as well. but i didnt..sadly enough... I did sometimes act a bit flirty, but I guess not enough..I'm kind of insecure when it comes to guys I like..I can't be myself.. Then in mai , this year, we both quited that job, and after a week, I texted him and ask questions about his job, but he did not answear( which was strange, since I was very sure of that he liked me) It might sound cheesy, but I have watched a lot of videos here on youtube, and yes, I'm sure of that he liked me) so I send 2 more messages, but still no answear..and once he did answear, he only wrote that he had forgot to answear, ..and yeah sure, that happends, no biggie.. We were both very busy this summer, working our new jobs and I also started travel with my job, so I wasn't home for like 2 months, almost..I had been answearing him back before I left, but, he did not respond, again,.. Then in august, I kind of made a mistake calling him when out partying with friends, but since I was almost sober, the conversation went well, until he started to deny that it was him on the phone, (when I asked if it was him) which was weird, and very immature..and then the connection broke..The day after, I found out he had blocked me?! When I was about to send him an apology for calling randomly like that( but hey, we all make mistakes, no reason to block..) And now he is out of my life, but I can't stop thinking about what went wong.. Was it that I did not give enough signs back so he got tired of me? Or what was it? Why would a guy do something like this, just block you like that? ( and I can assure you that I was not a stalker, I only wrote a few messages and ofc then the call... ALSO, wee had a good relationship at work, and he gave me all the signs the "shuy guy" would, the video you did, : The signs became so clear when I watched that video , I had a feeling before that he liked me, but after watching you video, it knew he liked me...so why did he all of the sudden decide to block me and to through me out of his life? At least he could confront me? And if he only wanted to be friends, would a person who only wanted friendship with you, block you? I would be so thankful for an answear! Xoxo Sara

[@sceneandemo4ever]

Please make a video about what to do when you're actually dating.

[@ameliaanne9829]

Going to number three, my crush/best friend stopped talking after he started dating his girl friend who he met three weeks ago. We were friends since late December

[@youngwhippersnapper3784]

Ok so there’s this guy that isn’t really giving me mixed signals that are as extreme as being really flirty and then completely ignoring me. But he is a really flirty guy and all my friends say that he’ll like stare at me when I’m not looking, or he’ll try to initiate conversation and stand closer to me. My friends all ship us but I can never really gauge his reaction when they do. He teases me a lot (calls me short, steals my notebooks, etc) and sometimes he’ll copy what I’m doing like if I’m twirling a pen on purpose. He’s not the type of guy to get shy or embarrassed, although he did compliment me once in passing and when I noticed and said thank you he got all awkward. Idk if I wrote enough for y’all to see if he likes me or not, but can I get some opinions?

[@madisonweary8771]

OMG!!!!!!u r amazing