Why Love Is NOT Blind For Men

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[@Miss_hells_bells]

To make this experiment fair, they should do one where women meet a bunch of guys face to face but some men risk being broke/bad jobs. Women are superficial in different ways. Love is blind definitely placate to women, not men.

[@-blessed]

It is not superficial to choose a partner who has some level of financial stability, especially if you want children. To compare appearance to finances in terms of superficiality is disingenuous and foolish.

[@Ceceee21]

Similar to how men don’t want women to be resentful of how they prioritize looks due to their biological conditioning, I think the same should be applicable in the sense that men should not feel resentful towards women for seeking protection and stability. From an evolutionary standpoint women’s very survival depended on being able to make the right decision in terms of who they chose to have children with. If you make the wrong choice, your life is at stake and your offspring, as when we are pregnant we’re slower, weaker, and more vulnerable.. So similar to how men struggle to overcome the biological predisposition to prioritize outwardly appearance, some women may also still have the priorities they have, regardless of being able to provide for themselves, due to that biological predisposition. I’m only using this rationale because it was brought up in the video. But if we are focusing on the show itself, from what I’ve seen a lot of the women had very well to do careers and lived in nice places. I recall last season Stacey even had her own house. A lot of women were willing to take the risk that who they ended up with may be different in terms of financial capabilities.. so logically I don’t think that comparison is applicable in this context. And it makes me a little disappointed that Alex agrees with your comment 🤒.

[@jazminebianca437]

Exactly! Don't demonize women for wanting a man with resources. It's how we're built. I'm definitely not mad at men for wanting an attractive woman

[@ktokie338]

@@-blessed exactly but they’re not going to be genuine because that means the ones don’t make the cut won’t mate and that goes directly against a male’s motivation…which is to pass his genes along. That’s why men aren’t honest and can’t be.

[@-blessed]

@@ktokie338 They can be honest. They choose not to. So many men participate in the creation of children and then abandon them. It's selfishness and entitlement, not biology.

[@jazminebianca437]

Don't demonize women for wanting a man with resources. It's how we're built. I'm definitely not mad at men for wanting an attractive woman

[@VivSees]

All female animals ( humans included) are programmed to want the “top” tier males. The others are rejected. It’s inbuilt in women and all females to only want to copulate/produce offspring with the fittest, most resourceful and resource-rich males. Choosing such males equates to survival of the offspring.

[@mrsropaxo]

Since that’s the logic we’re using… I hope guys also understand when women say they like men with money, it’s not our fault, it’s just who we are!”

[@NidzShah-ps6kr]

Women can actually see more shades of colors than men can. This is due to our hunter-gatherer days when women would pick bright berries and fruits, more so than men, which caused their color perception to widen. This was one of the pivotal ressons that led to the organisation of agriculture. Does that make women more visual or less? Appearance tells you a lot about people's health and genetics , so appearance often is important for women too, as if they do have the power they will only allow the man with the best genes to further his bloodline. Its just that...women only recently have attained the right to actively select their partners so they are largely relying on what is already tried and tested. Men on the other hand aren't necessarily visual, they are shallow. Not thinking beyond the first step. As a result of which many men either end up in expensive divorces or they end up cutting women down to a shell of herself bcz they didn't anticipate many strong qualities she might have that may threaten his ego. Its an absolute mess.

[@MT-yx5cu]

Love the way you broke this down!

[@whitneyangelie3682]

I always roll my eyes when people try to say men are more “visual” than women like are you kidding me?? Most guys can’t even tell when a woman is wearing makeup or not, or wearing a wig, or if she has a run in her stocking etc etc . The simple things we pick up on visually men totally overlook 😂- Us women have been paying attention to looks and detail wayyyy more than men our entire lives . Most of us grow up reading Cosmo and editorial magazines from the time we’re kids while guys are playing video games lol. Us women are very visual creatures. And (shock horror) we also like good looking men and men who look put together and healthy. Some women fall for “ugly” dudes, but a lot of men fall for “ugly” women as well. Most of this shit being taught in our society is a total myth .

[@Mhkkvvyl]

I was gonna say this. You are so on point.

[@milarepa1234567]

I agree, plus lots more men are colorblind.

[@milarepetzky6585]

Yes! Absolutely true! And we are also more picky about looks 😀

[@whitneyangelie3682]

@@milarepetzky6585 Thats absolutely true! I saw a study recently that polled men and women on online dating sites where the women rated only like 20-30% of the single men as “attractive” wheres the men rated like 60% of the single women as “attractive” . Proof that we’re much pickier than them when it comes to looks alone. I just think a lot of men are more *visually stimulated* than some women, but they’re definitely not more visual than we are- not even close 💯

[@annyespinal8077]

So true I feel in love with a guy I found ugly in the beginning

[@danidiaz2377]

Men fall in love with women they find ugly too I’ve seen it many many times

[@jenjen2868]

Yes, I can totally relate.

[@sincerelysj6997]

😂 My first real adult love experience. He was a great man though.

[@creatureofstyle]

So true 😂 That's happened to me twice

[@MS-ns4ki]

I don't really find people attractive to begin with, I got to click and have chemistry.

[@BodClasp]

I agree with you about men being visual. I think women have some of the same requirements that make men feel terrible. Reality can be a tough pill to swallow. I can’t always handle it. The truth can be a dark place.

[@crowfoot5718]

Of course women care about looks too. If no one cared everyone would be in relationships all of the time. Women LIE when they say they don't care ;).

[@tinacherry2295]

Not only are they "preprogrammed" to be visual but their list of demands are getting longer 😂

[@Allahisadicksuckingmosquito]

Love that flag. 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

[@Serah-pq1cw]

🇵🇸❤

[@cangrejitamiry]

What is a „theyre“ list

[@aylaa4774]

🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🤍

[@Essy_B]

Although men are mostly visual creatures by nature, women are too especially when it comes to height and build. He mentioned there’s nothing men can do about it however, that is not true. When a man has vision he realizes what’s most important in partnership and building and creating a family. Men who lack self-awareness and maturation, that’s a different story.

[@farahmaswadeh6245]

Love is blind for lesbians why hasn't this show happened yet

[@keracampbell9764]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@wendypope9668]

It is coming

[@AriaIndy]

I was just thinking this!

[@Miss_hells_bells]

I've wondered this too, but wonder how they could do it logistically... they would all have to be separated from one another so they wouldn't be able to see what each other looks like, no group gatherings while dating in the pods. They'd have to do it a little differently but maybe it could be done.

[@jaylynnfarr1276]

I agree that we really need to stop demonizing men. I got into the most uncomfortable argument with my coworker about this show (and dating in general) because she refused to acknowledge that men have a right to be attracted to who they choose to spend their lives with. It’s 100% not something they can control.

[@KevonnieElaine]

“She had 2 bridges.” 😭😭

[@yudollia]

As women’s preference continue to evolve for the better thanks to the great awakening of the feminine, women will care a lot more about looks. I cant fathom dating someone im not fully attracticted to

[@LeratoM98]

Thisss

[@ivanaisasi]

But then they get mad if we reject them because they're ugly...

[@Ceceee21]

Or broke

[@ivanaisasi]

​@@Ceceee21And then they try to manipulate to get what they want.

[@lilac8794]

Or when we say that height is important lol. Height triggers them to another level

[@Ceceee21]

@@ivanaisasiThat’s when I think things become morally corrupt. When guys realize that they aren’t attracted to a woman, and don’t see anything happening long term, but they know that woman likes them so they take that opportunity to F and then leave. Even though that’s described to be a part of “male nature”.. it’s so wrong. If you aren’t what those kinds of men want, whether you’re attractive or not, you become an object essentially. And that can feel dehumanizing. It’s why it’s so important that we listen to our intuition and that we are grounded in reality. Being gullible is dangerous for us.

[@ivanaisasi]

@@lilac8794 Yup. They can have "preferences", but we can't.

[@creatureofstyle]

But apparently men don't prefer younger women lol. I'm 45 and constantly have guys in their 20's asking me out in real life and online . These are guys who want relationships too, not looking for casual (just had a 25 year old ask me what kind of flowers I like so he can bring them to me when we go on a date and fall madly in love with each other 🙃). It's a whole new world 😂

[@married2purpose]

Same. Their age group is dating the guys in my age group. I'm 42.... 42 year old guys are dating and marrying 25-35 year Olds.

[@creatureofstyle]

@@married2purpose I mean it's good that people are more open to age discrepancies. Having more options makes it easier to find someone you truly connect with on a deeper level Last year I talked to 30+ guys and the one I connected best with was 29. Before I started online dating it never would have even occurred to me to flirt with men so much younger than I am, but now I know! ...I still let them come to me though. Being a cougar on the hunt gives me the ick lol 😆

[@ksref]

I've been seeing the mid-late 30s and I'm 15 yrs older.. it's not odd at all, and they're incredibly sweet/genuine. Things go better than with the men my age... but I'm not sure yet if any will become long-term, ie move-in or marry.

[@LeratoM98]

Exactly... 18/19 year olds to 23's hit on me and I'm 25.

[@melissalara523]

And it’s not so much about how women look specifically. It’s more about physical attraction and that can only be perceived when two people are face to face. I definitely think it’s possible for a man to not be physically attracted to a woman that’s conventionally attractive because the attraction might just not be there .

[@AriaIndy]

Ok a quick google saying men’s eyesight is slightly better does not equate to eyes like a hawk or comparing men’s eyesight to a dogs nose 😂 please be so fr that there’s a slight difference but it is not that of another species. Men are 1000 % more superficial. I’ve dated men and women and one thing that truly scares me about dating a man is the worry that he will lose attraction due to seeing me without makeup often or not done up. These are things I’ve heard directly from men about their girlfriends. When dating women, we still see our partner as their most attractive self and fall deeper in love with their imperfections as we care more deeply about the person. I am sure there are exceptions to this rule on both sides but that has been overwhelmingly my experience. I guess it’s hard for me to understand looking at a beautiful human being and not being more attracted to them as you live them more 😢❤

[@pink_chevy_emblem2676]

Ik and he’s saying we shouldn’t demonize mens nature when has society ever not make fun of womens needs and nature. I think men are easily programmed, for example the body hair thing , there’s nothing wrong with a female human mammal with hair and yet men think it’s disgusting af , and that’s their nature that we should respect and understand but they can’t even understand are natural function as a woman , there’s a reason tht men are demonized men are more superficial and influenced by ego , women aren’t angels by any means but I think men shouldn’t be so dismissive of our perspective for that reason

[@s22centuaryfox]

Most women also won't really fall in love if they don't find someone attractive or know how a guy looks. The guy has to have additional features for the women to put up with the man. Women don't hate that men are mainly visual, that's why womens fashion and beauty industry is huge and women can to some degree control their looks attract men. Women's main priority over looks is financial security, the man main job is being a provider so he should see who he is falling in love with.

[@greatminds00]

Alex! This video is so on point. 💯 Love all of your videos, by the way .

[@jibarabicha4853]

I’m pretty sure, We photo shop too after falling in love 👁️👄👁️

[@LivingLikeKristen]

Women are visual also. I also understand sometimes some women will choose financial stability over looks which makes sense. Women’s sense of superficiality is different also height, physical build, finances, education, (intimacy), for the sake of keeping it (PG-13), 😅 etc.

[@Wildchile]

I feel the same way and I’m a woman

[@melissalara523]

I love your honesty and your understanding of the differences between men and women . I think there’s a push in mainstream media to make men think and feel a certain way and that is ultimately detrimental since you can’t change human nature .

[@ktokie338]

Well I completely agree but why would men go on this show knowing the rules? That in itself exposes the manipulation and intentions in these men.

[@jaylynnfarr1276]

Because they’re hoping they like what they see after the reveal 😂 men are risk takers so they figure they’ll roll the dice

[@ktokie338]

@@jaylynnfarr1276 well yeah lol how unfortunate. If that’s the case they could just meet someone in person. So the motivation for doing this show is still murky.

[@ksref]

It's national exposure... even if they don't wind up with a person their options will expand

[@LeratoM98]

​@@jaylynnfarr1276Lol that's so true

[@VivSees]

I believe men may have better vision than women for sure. I was at a church for a seated presentation and room was filled, not a seat to spare in the pews. The event was recorded and a clip the audience (self included) of it made it on to the news that evening. I saw the 10 second clip a couple times but as there were so many faces, I didn’t see myself at all (though I intently rewatched the clip). 30 mins later, on the other side of the world a male friend i had not spoken to in a couple years called me and said “Hey, i just saw you on cnn at a such n such event in the audience. I was flabbergasted because the clip was all of 10 seconds and with all those faces he saw me, recognized me, and told me exactly what I had on! I was blown away. I even rewatched the clip but because (in my opinion) they scanned the many faces/crowd quickly I couldn’t see myself. Same clip. Same everything. It baffled me that with all the faces he was able to pick out that i was sitting in 3rd row, yet my eyes couldn’t pick me out of the crowd. I’ve other instances of males having better sight:

[@gaylahibner]

Yet they can’t find the ketchup right in front of them in the fridge..

[@s22centuaryfox]

I'm so glad you confirmed the fat voice theory 😅 I always felt this.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

😂😂😂😂

[@NoPickmeishasAllowed]

if you look good you wont be offended if a guy wants to know you loook. Men love beautiful things.For example, nice cars, nice trips, nice watches and nice houses.

[@Sweetheart0189]

So true! Mainly girls that don’t look good want men to like them for more than their looks because that’s the 1 thing they don’t have lol

[@Ceceee21]

Personally I want men to value me for more than my looks bc I feel I have other qualities that outweigh my looks. I find that the guys that I meet who do value those things, and not just my looks, create more meaningful relationships. I know that eventually I will grow old so that’s why I’m not particularly fond of guys who mostly focus on my looks and barely recognize my other qualities. And I have heard other women who society would deem conventionally attractive have the same complaint.. that they felt that they were just a show piece and that their partners didn’t really like them for them.

[@NoPickmeishasAllowed]

@@Ceceee21 unfortunately our views of what men should be doesn’t really change their nature. learn about Marilyn Monroe life. Not saying you’re wrongMen never cared about her mind and she knew that. The most beautiful woman at one point and no man cared about her intellectual. Men just cared about how she made them look

[@suziesmith8288]

​@Ceceee21 Exactly this is why many relationships are toxic because men are getting with women for their looks and not getting to know them as a person hence why so many relationships are toxic!!

[@ivanaisasi]

@@suziesmith8288 And bc then men cheat even on hot women, bc deep down what they want is to have sex with multiple good looking women without giving too much.

[@marysasona]

if the guy is financially stable + generous and like a 6 i could ignore his looks 😹

[@MS-ns4ki]

Financially stable and generous and fun to be around I would probably love .

[@chiobabe2180]

Now imagine a wealthy short NON generous gremlin. Hard pass 😂 they can’t believe it

[@LeratoM98]

As can most women. Personally, I can't that's why I have to work hard so I can get rich or a very comfortable financial bracket with or without a man 😭😭😭I'm too visual to ignore looks shem.

[@hawksu]

Women like hot men too

[@Ceceee21]

I do believe that men do care more about looks due to biological or evolutionary factors.. however, I just don’t see how that’s sustainable logically. Bc as a man if you don’t know how to regulate that and maintain control, then you will spend a lifetime chasing after things that may look beautiful, but be destructive for your mind, emotions, and soul. If men rely on that for most of their lives to be an indication of a suitable partner, then I just don’t see that being sustainable. It’s clear that in terms of fitness (and when I say fitness, I say the ability to keep making children), lasts longer for men.. and clearly as we get older we may not look as fertile and healthy as we did in our prime.. so if you don’t learn to regulate yourself as a man.. and your body psychologically wants you to keep trying to reproduce.. are you then going to allow looks to overcome love and stability you have found? Love may not be blind initially, but I don’t think that should be the foundation for the rest of your life if you want to be with someone long term. Idk, consciously I understand the rationale but subconsciously I don’t understand completely bc I am a woman and although looks are important to me, what means more to me are intangible, meaningful characteristics.

[@CaliLove222]

Subconsciously it definitely is a evolution approach, you acidly said it. Over time a woman may lose her beauty, and appear “older “ which means she is no longer able to reproduce. That’s why you find men dating younger, even as they age. Especially if he still wants to reproduce. The saying , chile bearing hips; A woman with wider hips is proven to be able to have easier births, which will ape her to have more natural births. A woman that has more weight, healthy weight, produce healthier children. Long term, is a whole different conversation, but when the man is done reproducing he may not care as much. When he’s already chosen his partner, and has had a life long partnership, he accepts certain phenomenons, but if he chooses another woman, she usually is half the age of his woman. Crazy I know

[@steph6109]

Men can and never will be happy. They want multiple younger women. Younger women will always outgrow them after a few years, and to have multiple women they either need to live in a world where their have to share 'their'women or constantly be willing to fight and die to keep other men, hell bent on collecting, away. Men live in extremes that can never be maintained. They will always be miserable

[@starchannel123]

It makes sense for men to see details and movements better because they were the hunters. However, the show encourages bad behaviors. I’ve seen men with women that aren’t that beautiful. It’s not common but still it’s obvious that the show does not look for those type of men.

[@PureDivineHappiness]

This was a good video. I learned something, being humbled with it. Thank u

[@Ibelieveinmyself100]

You are so right!

[@JoulesCraft]

I'm struggling with the entire concept of love is blind as justice is blind. Is that suppossed to be good? I'm just confused about love being blind. I've seen times where people say love is blind when someone wonders why the hell certain mismatched couples are together. I also believe love can be blind when it's true. Is it both? I totally get the visual attraction aspect, since one can tell when someone lets themselves go. I too have only been attracted to younger men for that reason, since some people can appear more aesthetically pleasing to the eye, so I get that too. I sure can never fall for anyone unless i see them in person, so it goes both ways. Guys appearance just seems to fade faster than women, since they rarely wear makeup. It just seems like beauty & the beast with so many. Many of my exes were absolutly georgeous upon meeting, yet years later, not at all. If their personality didn't keep up, then attraction & love can disappear. Since i don't drink, noone looks cute anymore.

[@judithstevens4323]

Alex IT IS A COMPLIMENT....BUT EXPLAIN WHY THEN SINCE MEN ARE VISUAL....MOST ESPECIALLY HIGH QUALITY MEN MARRY PLAIN TO HOMELY WOMEN????

[@ayarikiyo2178]

Because they're insecure. They think the plain Jane will be more loyal

[@dawrightleo13]

That’s a great question. I think bc they feel they can simple cheat with women that meet their sexual desires. That’s how they balance and solve that problem.

[@yudollia]

Some are gay

[@alines7353]

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[@Fluidluxe]

What everyone considers beautiful is different. A Plain homely woman doesn’t mean she’s not beautiful and a star in the bedroom. Same way the other set of women aren’t always beautiful… and they actually over dress or use a lot of makeup and plastic surgery that doesn’t sit well with most high profile or high value man. (Not always in all cases though).

[@ROWDYMIDGETZ]

Make sure her voice is not fat 😂 I had to pause the video to catch my breath lol

[@katsaysyes]

“I remember dating this one girl, she had a fuckin moustache”…. Alex’s former girlfriends 👀

[@GetRachelRay]

😂😂😂

[@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858]

Interesting.

[@ms.shizshubshumstzu231]

Good

[@hgbgakdflndbz6921]

Question: what do you mean by talk therapy? I'm a woman and terrible at articulating my feelings, but I still go to therapy because it's an empirical solution for mental health and relationship problems. The purpose isn't for the woman to release stress or gain the upper hand in an argument, it's to strengthen the relationship and reduce conflict in the long run. What you said about men and their physical way to process emotions could even be suggested in therapy. Venting is what you do with friends (and I'm not a good venter), therapy is a science done by someone with a master's or doctorate degree

[@boutyel1514]

Literally it's the same for women.

[@milarepa1234567]

Agree, so many of these male dating coaches don't consider all the unattractive guys when they talk about "men", SO many men are now very overweight and have low sex drive and no charisma, and if a guy isn't as pretty as me in the face I won't be attracted.

[@Wildchile]

I disagree with you thinking it’s only men, not true

[@myra3266]

lol yeah I wouldn’t be able to be on that show either. I’m not marrying someone I can’t see 😬

[@jacquelynsimmons6131]

Clay was an asshole he knew he didn't want to marry her 😢

[@gigiarmany4332]

you mean Clay

[@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358]

Have you watched the show before? They all had to go to the altar regardless if they were planning on saying no. This is the first season where we saw couples agree to refuse to go to the altar in general. There’s a 50,000 dollar fine if they refuse to go

[@marycadiz4104]

Really good video. Good job!! 🫶

[@kimbervoss3753]

Studies also show that men are way more likely to be colorblind..

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

and emotionally blind, it's called alexithymia (no joke)

[@ppippoppippo597]

So Clay did not like AD's face?😮

[@lisab6375]

A lot of people didnt

[@cangrejitamiry]

Maybe just the fake lashes.

[@jfaustin1742]

I’m telling you Clay did not like ADs look at first. He only came to appreciate it when he saw others were admiring her

[@serebart]

Fahrer Alex, it’s not Testosterone, it’s TestosTyrone 🤣

[@GetRachelRay]

😅😂🤣

[@dumebitemple4029]

Father Alexis obsessed with Tyrone the personal trainer.

[@wendypope9668]

I agree love isn't blind for males you need to see the lady first but 10 couples from the show got married, still are married and from 2 of the couples they are expecting children. So to some degree love is blind 😊

[@thenutrientwhisperer3700]

FYI, women are visual too😊

[@kimgreene5489]

Yes!

[@kouyakouyac5406]

Maybe it time for the male nature to change. I do not see any issue with the show. The show is trying to build relationship that are deaper than physical aspects.

[@LeratoM98]

I think most men don't care to evolve

[@married2purpose]

More women could accept this part of male nature, if males never cheat on women they find physically attractive as their preference.

[@ayeshab7696]

for women either

[@missarmiller78]

😅😅😅u always crack me up

[@jackisha1]

😅😅😅😅😅😅 Two Bridges and Tony Montana is CRAZY

[@MS-ns4ki]

I am watching a man date someone not really a looker and being that he is doing well, I am surprised to see that is who he selected to be generous to . Men are weird .

[@Nell-yh9og]

Hi Alex, None of these guys were forced to participate. Do you have any idea why you are so triggered by the concept of this show? 🙂

[@AD-hh6dd]

As a woman, physical appearance and attraction is very important to me. So this confuses me. Am I really that different from other women? I don’t really think so

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Put it this way. If you were a man, the importance of physical appearance would be twice as important as it already is for you now. You could be above average compared to most women in terms of how much you value physical appearance, but compared to men, it's on the whole other level.

[@AD-hh6dd]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0I think your video is really good though. I don’t think you’re wrong in general. Just wanted to share a perspective that adds nuance to your view. I gained a lot of insight esp about how we only focus on just one part of the face or trait. Fascinating.

[@LeratoM98]

Saame

[@trellbellz9978]

😂😂 @ she had a fucking mustache

[@sakt454]

There are actual blind men out there…or men with disabilities. I believe we all want someone who we like physically and that can be different for everyone. Now the guys that only care about looks turn out to be jerks ngl

[@mercedesmolina3288]

Not your brain photoshopping her 😭🤣😭🤣

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Not going to lie even I laughed when I heard that while I was talking 😂😂

[@steph6109]

Women have better visual acuity for colour. Men have q better ability to focus long distance and for moving objects.

[@kristinmarie9056]

A chubby voice 😂😂

[@iremersmusic]

What I learned from this is that I’m a man. lol Btw while I’m sure there is a “general” difference between girls & guys in this aspect I don’t think it’s as great as you think it is. Women are extremely visual too but the fact a lot of beautiful women go for ugly guys I think might have more to do with culture than sex differences

[@LeratoM98]

Yes and societal conditioning, mainly due to being in a patriarchal society where men have majority of the resources so naturally most women in the end decide to go for men with resources more so than men with physical attractiveness for survival reasons. But I think slowly things are changing, which is why it seems as though women today are more picky since we also want attractive men, BUT it's actually natural. Even in nature, male birds try to look as attractive as possible to attract a female and in some species, males are more attractive than women! So this idea that men care about looks while women don't is not natural. Women are also visual.

[@socaligurrl]

What about arranged marriages?

[@namenotfound6881]

Right? But arranged marriages are very business oriented. It’s main purpose is to rear children. But both parties can grow to love the other. I think men just can’t have too narrow of an idea of what he finds attractive though. Like most women who are of a healthy weight is about a 5 if she also smiles and puts in effort

[@Vanillaaxo]

Then why men date basic women and not baddies ? Explain us why

[@natureme4429]

Men drool over baddies, but not every man can have one. Basic women that have an attractive partner, most of the times are pickmes, easy to please and deal with, because they see the man as the prize. This isn't the case with the baddies. Because they have options and are not going to settle for or worship a man. Men nowadays are too feminine to go for what they want, fight for a woman and chase her. That's why.

[@winxclubstellamusa]

@@natureme4429 exactly!!

[@geieffect6698]

Because basic women don't need to starve for attention

[@LeratoM98]

​@@natureme4429Very well said!

[@CuteBamboo2012]

The way he said mindful attractions 2.0 oh my god!!! Such a sexy voice

[@stephaniesp3246]

Love is blind lesbian version😂😂😂😂😂

[@handypicker]

Can you make a video about narcisistic guys ?

[@helenasmelo933]

Lmaooo 😆🤍 correct !!! Thank you on the insight

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

👓

[@Hottie1156]

Thank you so much for being honest Alex love your channel 🫶🏻

[@jacquelynsimmons6131]

As we know that about men they need to change the narrative 😂

[@boutyel1514]

Just because he doesn't want to marry her doesn't mean he isn't attracted to her. Marriage is about way way more than being physically attracted to someone...

[@xoxoNicholeLove]

I thought he was going to say eyes are deeply connected to their hearts 😂😂😂 not 🍆lmao

[@milarepetzky6585]

Also women find attractive only 5-15% of Men , men find attractive over 50% of women 😀 we are actually the visual ones but more in the qualitative way!

[@chisomoffor6877]

I’m very much visual lol, 😅😅😅😅😅

[@RootsRadiance365]

That’s fine and all, but if that’s the case, I hope they feel the same if a woman don’t want them because they’re short, have crooked yellow teeth, or a receding hair line. 🤷‍♀️. Majority of the men critical of a woman’s appearance probably don’t look like much themselves either..

[@paniwiosna2560]

Women are also visual

[@LeratoM98]

Exactly

[@SeaWitch99]

But I'm ugly 😢

[@winxclubstellamusa]

Women can get emotionally attached without the visual, we can’t fall in love without it, because women are also visual creatures. Do you have any idea how scarring, gross, and violating of a feeling it is to have your body be used by someone you don’t like? Love is 20/20 for both sexes. Period. Also, women are wired to be able to detect more colors, so it could be argued that we have the better eyesight, not men.

[@Wildchile]

Don’t many of the women on the show change their minds too?

[@jaylynnfarr1276]

They used to but not as much anymore it seems.

[@myra3266]

Did you see the news about how ppl think AD is a sugar baby? Clay had a problem with her finances because he didn’t know how she was making money without going to work lol she worked in a nightclub and had been seeing someone I guess then the show recruited her. She did fall for clay but I don’t think clay either wanted to marry a sugar baby orrr maybe AD worked in a strip club and not just a night club. Not sure but it’s a possibility

[@jfaustin1742]

Clay wanted a provider woman 😂

[@comeworkoutwithme9319]

Bra I might be a man then. Cus I cant fake it! If I’m not attracted to you, I would say no too lol 😂😂😂

[@LeratoM98]

Saame

[@thewordsmith5440]

Chrissie?

[@Ceceee21]

That’s what I was thinking. Lol I just watched her video the other day on the topic.

[@thewordsmith5440]

@@Ceceee21 I just looked at her video last night.

[@Cheryn77]

Are you a Virgo Father Alex?

[@KOLAkola]

Libra ? 😂

[@ivanaisasi]

Virgo ♍

[@lauradolann]

Yeah swear he is I remember seeing it somewhwre

[@mrsmrs1200]

That's what I wanted to ask- date, hour of birth and a city, to see all those kinks he hides😂

[@mariepetterson7281]

he said he's a virgo

[@milarepetzky6585]

This is not completely true,us women care also for physical attractiveness! I couldn’t love a man I don’t feel sexual attraction to. Look to matrilineal societies how men behave in front of women there 💃😃

[@Audreyyrose]

The fat voice took me out. I always get complimented on my voice. I guess I’m lucky lol